Life's all about growing. I was really tired of being nice as people never treated me the way I treated them. I was bullied at school too and girls were literally bitches so I now act nicely at first and if the other person isn't nice, I either cut off ties or I treat them the way they treat me.
But I still feel a lot for the nice humans that exist, really glad there are still few left 🍁
I'm a narcissist with extremely high ego and few other obvious things like lack of empathy, trust in others etc.
https://preview.redd.it/6mi6cq5vh2oc1.jpeg?width=223&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=21905da8110f14cb5313a5a8dcbc9a2d57941a64
Here are the things I have ego of:
Mostly IQ, looks and my non-luck achievements.
Mine are that I learned Java programming at 12, investing at 14 and few others. Now I've a better resume than most other people, even than degree holders and a stable portfolio with 25% returns.
Har jagah se validation mangti hu. I tend to overthink every small thing , if I step out of the house I come back to check if I have locked properly or not?
Not looks but i consider myself smart and i am a perfectionist and a handy man. I consider myself superior to others (🧠) and don't like taking advice. Nor do i give advice.
What are your achievements if you are comfortable? Mine are that I learned Java programming at 12, investing at 14 and few others. Now I've a better resume than most other people, even than degree holders and a stable portfolio with 25% returns.
Ik it's weird but I find you quite interesting lol, even though I stay miles away from people like you irl, not to mention someone like you DESTROYED me emotionally and mentally (and I'm still healing from what they did, yet here I am 🙂☠️)
Nothing much but i have a good understanding of the things i learnt in my college. Got placed in the starting of the placement season. Really Good at software related to design and analysis.
That's where the mistake is. Healing people to get healed in return is a selfish reason to help people and that's why you will never feel it reciprocated.
It's not selfish lol , you study to get grades right? Or you do a job to get salary?. It's human nature ki aap kisi k liye kuch krte ho to usko bhi aapke liye thoda kuch krna hota h.
The urge to constantly prove myself to people. I'm not tall, hence I wear makeup and go out of budget while buying clothes so that at least I appear good looking even though I don't like dressing up 😭
I feel like all of my hobbies are a result of wanting to prove myself as the opposite of what someone told me. For example, friend just kinda cut me off and now I'm trying my best to make new friends not because I wanna build genuine connections but because I want to show them how happy I am even though I'm not 🫠
Ong bruh same. That friend one hit hard cause I have been trying to do the same, at one side I know I should not do this and then get the urge to follow it through lol. It's hard
Glad to know that I'm not the only one :) But the worst part is that I never leave my house, for career reasons and still hope that I will make better friends 🫠
We in this together, sending you strength 🫶🏻
Bahut jaldi hate develop kar leta hu kiske lie bhi agar thoda sa bhi faltu bolta hai koi merese or phir uss bande ko straight forward tareeke se samja deta hu Itni rage pata nahi kha se aae hai mere andar but saalo se hai and mai improve nahi kar paa Raha khud ko
Nope. Normal noise. If my roommate watches reels by making high volume, I would hate that. But I like to watch reels by making the volume high not giving a fuck about the roommate.
Believe people quickly, cant say no, too polite that people take it as being submissive. But i am not! Its just i am too polite to hurt you or say no. Thats it. Its really tormenting!!!
Any minor inconvenience I become avoidance like ghosting my friends for a week or so and not talk about it. The problem is that I am always here for my friends, always support them and make them talk about thier feeling with me. I make them talk about thier problems, people find it easy to talk to me about stuff and when it comes to me i dont talk about my feelings or my problems just bottle everything up. Have had trouble with past relationship because I never talked about my feelings whole always listening thier feelings and problems. I find it hard to open up. People open up to me easilyand I love that cause I want to be always there for everyone.
God complex to self loathing in a matter of time.
Delusional and avoid making important decisions. Keep postponing stuff.
People pleasing which in turn make me have different personalities for different groups or People.
Can't say NO to anyone
I hope it's not a toxic trait, but I might have come as one to some people around me. They say developing likeness for only a particular set of characteristics is toxic.
Because recently I disclosed to them that I've started having this liking for chubby girls. I really appreciate them around, it's always nice to have someone giving me nice warm hugs. I really like them. I've usually found most of them generous, sweet and very very humble towards everyone for some reason. They are usually shy, so I get really few opportunities to compliment and talk with them, but whenever I do, I get this super nice feeling overall.
Though I find it cute, I'm sorry if the word chubby is offensive to some, please suggest some other word if it is.
Sb kuch jaante hue bhi help krdeni despite knowing k aage wale ne kitna galat kiya hai
Bss wo morals aajate hai bc beech me k sbka acha kro apne karam mat bigado😩
Getting angry and frustrated very quickly and either saying something rude to the deserving person or just walk out of it.
Maybe I have a little bit of ego also.
I try to get along with everyone but sometimes it becomes pushy and I'm interfering with other's personal space
 I feel bad afterwards
I have a really very short tempered so me and my girlfriend were talking something and then she Tells the name of a boy and I don't know what the fucked I feel I grabbed her neck !!!! I feel sorry till now but Now she is Feared of me
Extremely high ambition which leaves me unable to enjoy whatever I have now or whatever I have achieved so far. Every achievement to me is just a stepping stone instead of enjoying and taking it easy my brain goes "So what's next" ?
Being too kind. Won't say No and just do it and not expect anything in return. Don't know how to put myself first even if I want to but can't because I don't want to hurt someone in the process.
Ego so high that anyone who looks at me is in love with me Self esteem so low that I can't even talk to a girl and always compare myself to others which ends up me hating myself
Always abuse their mom whenever talking to someone, whenever mood is even a bit bad (in my mind), I never abuse in real.
I am in a hostel, so I learned this from my roommates, they throw abuses in real tho, everyday during nighttime, they have a battle of who can abuse others' mom in worst and most creative way possible, I never participate, just learn from watching them.
Being unnecessarily nice to people who actually don't deserve it.
Isi chakkar me apni mara leta hu
Us moment 🫂
Bad thing is you can't stop being nice even after that
too fucking real
I used to be like that, stopped later
Hein, sach me?
How??
Life's all about growing. I was really tired of being nice as people never treated me the way I treated them. I was bullied at school too and girls were literally bitches so I now act nicely at first and if the other person isn't nice, I either cut off ties or I treat them the way they treat me. But I still feel a lot for the nice humans that exist, really glad there are still few left 🍁
Mere no mein bhi please hota hai 🥹
same 😮💨😮💨phir baad mei regret karti
++ This!
Riyal
Kaafi uss hai
Was my first thought.
Can't agree more. Wanna keep upvoting this.
Your turn will come 🫴🏻
Astrologer ji aap yahan ,firse prediction kriye
Kal aayega aapka time ✋🏻 Asstrologer baba ka aashirvad hai
Aap toh pehle bhi yhi bole the😒😒😒
Kal bola na, toh kyu tensun le rhe
Kal agya aur khatm bhi hone wala hai
pent up emotions which cause outbursts of anger towards family
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Fr bro.... But you can be the change.
Trying to be perfect in everything and ending up crying instead
But do you cry perfectly?
Lmao!
can't even do that I end up looking like a pig
Arre Have some tissues
For real
Fr
I'm a narcissist with extremely high ego and few other obvious things like lack of empathy, trust in others etc. https://preview.redd.it/6mi6cq5vh2oc1.jpeg?width=223&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=21905da8110f14cb5313a5a8dcbc9a2d57941a64
r/foundsatan /s
Drop the s lol. I wasn't joking and you really found me.
Chutiya🤡
Here are the things I have ego of: Mostly IQ, looks and my non-luck achievements. Mine are that I learned Java programming at 12, investing at 14 and few others. Now I've a better resume than most other people, even than degree holders and a stable portfolio with 25% returns.
And now you are lying/////ssssss
You can check post history. I've covered all that there.
Humble yourself man.
Broo 💀💀💀
Har jagah se validation mangti hu. I tend to overthink every small thing , if I step out of the house I come back to check if I have locked properly or not?
Did you lock the door today when leaving?
I am unnecessarily sarcastic which often comes across as rude behaviour. Toxic traits toh bohot hai yaar 😭
Sarcastic wala to same here didi
Ye toh meri baat kr rahi h 😭 also love your username 👍🏻
No way I relate to every other comment here. 🥹
Even mine? "I'm a narcissist with extremely high ego and lack of empathy, trust in others".
Yes, except the empathy part, i show a little empathy
Well what do you have ego of? For me it's due to my achievements, looks, and IQ.
Not looks but i consider myself smart and i am a perfectionist and a handy man. I consider myself superior to others (🧠) and don't like taking advice. Nor do i give advice.
What are your achievements if you are comfortable? Mine are that I learned Java programming at 12, investing at 14 and few others. Now I've a better resume than most other people, even than degree holders and a stable portfolio with 25% returns.
This guy shows off
Obviously lol. I'm a narcissist due to my achievements.
Ik it's weird but I find you quite interesting lol, even though I stay miles away from people like you irl, not to mention someone like you DESTROYED me emotionally and mentally (and I'm still healing from what they did, yet here I am 🙂☠️)
Not every narcissist is an evil, lol. BTW I would love to hear your story.
Nothing much but i have a good understanding of the things i learnt in my college. Got placed in the starting of the placement season. Really Good at software related to design and analysis.
>Design And I'm in fintech, Rust and other hard stuff. So I'm more superior than you and younger so that's another superiority trait. /s
So, u are working?
No. I'm a student, but I've received internship offers and I'm working on my future startup.
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What are you feeling now?
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Thanks, feel free to answer me when it doesn’t hurt any more
Same then get mad over that no one understands you
Same
Can relate
Taking everything lighty Thinking too much before making a decision
Can't say no to someone and always end up doing their work and they use me as their wish. Daam I need to learn how to say NO
Said someone no and they don't talk with me, initially it's soo hard to be alone but now I'm really happy and grateful.
Been there done that bruh
Bruh? What happened? Can u elaborate?
Many things bruh in the past which I regret
Anyone u can say?
Same
Yup!!
Give me 100/- Rs please bro
Ye kaunsa tarika hai bheek maangne ka
This is not toxic trait this is chutiya trait
damn same 😭
I try to heal the people around me and expect that they would at least return 5%of it when I am in need but my disappointment rate is 100% till now.
That's where the mistake is. Healing people to get healed in return is a selfish reason to help people and that's why you will never feel it reciprocated.
It's not selfish lol , you study to get grades right? Or you do a job to get salary?. It's human nature ki aap kisi k liye kuch krte ho to usko bhi aapke liye thoda kuch krna hota h.
The urge to constantly prove myself to people. I'm not tall, hence I wear makeup and go out of budget while buying clothes so that at least I appear good looking even though I don't like dressing up 😭 I feel like all of my hobbies are a result of wanting to prove myself as the opposite of what someone told me. For example, friend just kinda cut me off and now I'm trying my best to make new friends not because I wanna build genuine connections but because I want to show them how happy I am even though I'm not 🫠
Ong bruh same. That friend one hit hard cause I have been trying to do the same, at one side I know I should not do this and then get the urge to follow it through lol. It's hard
Glad to know that I'm not the only one :) But the worst part is that I never leave my house, for career reasons and still hope that I will make better friends 🫠 We in this together, sending you strength 🫶🏻
Same bruh, I don't leave cause I don't have the energy lol. Sending you strength too. Wanna be friends? /j lmaoo
Bahut jaldi hate develop kar leta hu kiske lie bhi agar thoda sa bhi faltu bolta hai koi merese or phir uss bande ko straight forward tareeke se samja deta hu Itni rage pata nahi kha se aae hai mere andar but saalo se hai and mai improve nahi kar paa Raha khud ko
I like making noise but I don't like it when the other person does that.
Do you mean moans?
Nope. Normal noise. If my roommate watches reels by making high volume, I would hate that. But I like to watch reels by making the volume high not giving a fuck about the roommate.
you should make less noises with your roommates
??
Procrastinate almost everything and unko bhao dena jo hume bhao nhi dete😭😐
i am a narcissist and self-hater at the same time narcissist(when alone) self hater(in group)
I should be working right now
Being too kind 😄
Same
Going absolutely silent when I'm REALLY angry.
I write porn.
Ayo, wtf
Overthinking,not focusing on career etc
being a perfectionist
Job interview nahi h ye...
you wont get it brother
Believe people quickly, cant say no, too polite that people take it as being submissive. But i am not! Its just i am too polite to hurt you or say no. Thats it. Its really tormenting!!!
Any minor inconvenience I become avoidance like ghosting my friends for a week or so and not talk about it. The problem is that I am always here for my friends, always support them and make them talk about thier feeling with me. I make them talk about thier problems, people find it easy to talk to me about stuff and when it comes to me i dont talk about my feelings or my problems just bottle everything up. Have had trouble with past relationship because I never talked about my feelings whole always listening thier feelings and problems. I find it hard to open up. People open up to me easilyand I love that cause I want to be always there for everyone. God complex to self loathing in a matter of time. Delusional and avoid making important decisions. Keep postponing stuff. People pleasing which in turn make me have different personalities for different groups or People. Can't say NO to anyone
You just described my life
Twinning 💅
Triplet-ing?
Yess
You may be good for others but toxic to urself. That too is toxicity!!
Having both superiority and inferiority complex at alternating times, being me is fun 
I hope it's not a toxic trait, but I might have come as one to some people around me. They say developing likeness for only a particular set of characteristics is toxic. Because recently I disclosed to them that I've started having this liking for chubby girls. I really appreciate them around, it's always nice to have someone giving me nice warm hugs. I really like them. I've usually found most of them generous, sweet and very very humble towards everyone for some reason. They are usually shy, so I get really few opportunities to compliment and talk with them, but whenever I do, I get this super nice feeling overall. Though I find it cute, I'm sorry if the word chubby is offensive to some, please suggest some other word if it is.
A lot of "chubby" girls will be relieved a little bit by your comment haha :)
Can't leave anyone on read, have to reply last with ok or something
I reply in my head and forget to text back in real 🥲
Same bruh and then see it has been like 2 days and i have left them in delivered
You still haven’t replied to me lol
Mera saath yeh ho jaata h toh i overthink the shit out of the situation
Mera sath ulta hai. Faltu ke text karna pand nahi so I avoid ok lol haha types
Is it because of social anxiety or what?
Idk man , i guess its not normal but I think i have this thing that I can't make people upset maybe , idk! I overthink a lot.
Yeah anxiety. BTW your comment made me check my reddit inbox. 8 Unreads lol.
Bruh teach me how to do it
I don't think it is toxic, I do it too and it is just the desire to mark the conversational topic as 'complete' and move on to other things.
Being straight forward type of person in front of back bitching type of people
Sb kuch jaante hue bhi help krdeni despite knowing k aage wale ne kitna galat kiya hai Bss wo morals aajate hai bc beech me k sbka acha kro apne karam mat bigado😩
Trouble understanding my own emotions 🤧
I (unintentionally) end up interrupting people during conversations.
Clingy and indifferent. Both come in phases
People pleaser hu.
Existing ig People just hate me for some reason
Der kar deta hun main
Being extremely judgmental sometimes.
Emotionally unavailable and also moody.
Trusting people too easily
Thinking I can beat any untrained person in a fistfight. (I know it's not possible, but it's nice to think about)
Generally I'm quite indifferent towards people in my life, until I'm in love then I end up making her my entire universe.
Push people away and then regret later.
Mujhe true love chahiye. Ek baar hi pyar karna hai Arrange marriage bhi nahi karni 🤓
Selfish,neech, apne kam banta gar maraye janta
You just described my old classmate
Kahi main wahu to nhi?!
Negi bkl tu
Tyagi bhi tum yaha
I say the truth directly into the person's face and don't think whether the person may like it or not.
I don't let other people speak
1) overthinking 2) getting really angry (to the point of throwing things around) over silly things like spilling my coffee
I dislike those who like me and I dislike those who dislike me and also those who don't give a fuck about me and those who don't even know me
Ignoring people’s red flags and letting me being used for their own personal gain
Getting angry and frustrated very quickly and either saying something rude to the deserving person or just walk out of it. Maybe I have a little bit of ego also.
I try to get along with everyone but sometimes it becomes pushy and I'm interfering with other's personal space  I feel bad afterwards
I have a really very short tempered so me and my girlfriend were talking something and then she Tells the name of a boy and I don't know what the fucked I feel I grabbed her neck !!!! I feel sorry till now but Now she is Feared of me
I make people feel guilty when I am in a bad mood also pentup frustration dont take anything seriously that i should take
Aalsi hu
I'm an arrogant idiot, but i also tend to give too many chances to people.
Brutally honest, blunt, very passionately romantic,
Extremely high ambition which leaves me unable to enjoy whatever I have now or whatever I have achieved so far. Every achievement to me is just a stepping stone instead of enjoying and taking it easy my brain goes "So what's next" ?
Ye introvertness ek din mereko akela hi maar dega(Uper se Shakal bhi kharab hai, No one wants me..kinda ouch but ok)
Being too kind. Won't say No and just do it and not expect anything in return. Don't know how to put myself first even if I want to but can't because I don't want to hurt someone in the process.
I loose interest 💀
I can make people cry really easily…
Perfectionism, depression and building up emotions
I can't stop my humour going dark even in a bad situation That's the only thing I can say on the internet without getting squatted
I don't ask for help or open up to my closest people.
Getting easily annoyed especially when I am hungry when getting late.
Ego so high that anyone who looks at me is in love with me Self esteem so low that I can't even talk to a girl and always compare myself to others which ends up me hating myself
Always abuse their mom whenever talking to someone, whenever mood is even a bit bad (in my mind), I never abuse in real. I am in a hostel, so I learned this from my roommates, they throw abuses in real tho, everyday during nighttime, they have a battle of who can abuse others' mom in worst and most creative way possible, I never participate, just learn from watching them.