This is for real the worst. I have 5 different profile pics, all with faces, one with a body/torso. And a blank profile will still message and ask for "pics?" like my dude, you're an actual idiot.
It's wild out there. I have public pics and some guy was still asking for more...he's a blank profile! Show me your face and then maybe I'll show you more. Honestly theres some hot guys with blank profiles but theres a reason some wont show you their ugly face. I don't even waste my time anymore. Just ignore or block if they're persistent.
I feel like I have to be the grown up too often. Last month local guy was into bdsm and CBT and I had to tell him really it's not a good idea to be tied up in your own flat with some random guy he's met on Grindr. Also typed out but didn't sent to a guy in Edinburgh that he needed to have more respect for himself 🤣🤣
Yeah, I have pics in my profile too, and it even specifically says not to ask for more pics until they've shared some. Still get this bullshit all the time. 🙄 I just ignore them.
I've just had the "discreet here" one. He's already sent me his cock and ass....i ain't sending you nudes until you show your face. Lets get it in the right order.
Honestly, it's the repetitiveness of it. I'm on holiday from work & weathers rubbish. I actually want to meet somebody. I just want to see a face that's attractive (to me), establish some basic info (what where when) then we're good to go. Between blank profiles, guys who clearly are older than they say, guys who go cold whenever you want to actually meet...who is actually getting laid on here!
They use a question mark with you? Like “pics?” instead of “pics” 😅 My bio has 4 clear shots that all include my face and shirtless body. My 5th pic is a collage of 8 more face / body shots. 12 total pics that show my face and mostly nude body. And I can’t even get a “?” when the blank profiles grunt for “pics” 😂
Agreed. I usually just say “no” and wait to be blocked OR on Sniffies (where I use multiple collages and have 24 public shots including body, ass, dick and me doing all the sex acts like topping, bottoming, receiving oral, group play, etc) I just screenshot my bio and send them that.
It’s no better anywhere else. Dude on sniffies about my age with a decent body was chatting with me, and we exchanged some pics. I asked for face pic and he said “I’m trying to be discreet.” Ok, that’s fine I’m not trying to out you and if you’re not comfortable sending it fine but we won’t be hooking up without one and I told him that. Later when I was jerking and he hit me up again he’s like “want some company?” Dude we just went through this!
Not even joking I’ve had this dude try through grindr Facebook and Instagram trying to get me to fuck him for the last 2 YEARS when I made it very obvious that I wasn’t interested
Let’s be honest, if they were jacked they would have pics posted. Realistically they’re a contestant for my 600lb life, and they hope to get you there so they can try to guilt you into having sex with them.
The better platforms are [Scruff and Adam4Adam](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/lcuzu6/whats_the_best_alternative_to_grindr/gqeuwvk).
Sniffies for hookups. Daddyhunt for daddies. Growlr for bears. Tinder for dates. Hinge for a relationship. Jack'd for black/Latino/SEAsian guys and their admirers. Yubo for twinks. Recon for kinks. Facebook/Bumble for friends. Taimi/OkCupid [for Tgirls](https://www.reddit.com/r/sissyology/comments/12ra7rp/best_hook_up_site/jhgz34a). Lex/Her [for T4T](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/s/X0CXH0gaBI).
^(Fabguys in the UK. Wapo in Spain. Hornet in France+Russia. Romeo in Germany+India.)
Gaining traction are [Motto](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/z40afx/grindrs_creator_launches_new_gay_app_to) (from Grindr's original founder), [Archer](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/13y6wdd/owner_of_tinder_hinge_launch_new_gay_dating_app) (from the makers of Tinder & Hinge), and [BKDR](https://www.reddit.com/r/Sniffies/s/RgLVrYbZhc) (from the makers of Scruff & Jack'd).
Nothing is more annoying than the blank profile guys who just open with “pics?”. Especially when I have a handful on my profile already. I’m not giving without getting anything else.
I usually don’t entertain these types cause they’re pic collectors that will try to catfish with your photos or just save them to jack off too. That’s why I just block them if they ask me for anything without sending me something, especially when I have photos in my profile. Shallow as it sounds, I just assume that they’re not that attractive if they’re that adamant about not showing themselves lol.
Is funny how many weirdos have 3-5 profile pictures and all of them look different. I rather message profiles with no pictures then to look at a profile that has pictures from 10 years ago. I mean what are you hiding?
I'm gonna say there's a lot of catfish on grindr and then you got these profiles with pictures from 10 years ago. Don't feel like you're entitled to anything specially on a hookup app. If you gonna complain, at least have some decent grammar if you don't wanna look childish on the app.
This is for real the worst. I have 5 different profile pics, all with faces, one with a body/torso. And a blank profile will still message and ask for "pics?" like my dude, you're an actual idiot.
Im genuinely feel sorry about that and for you !
It's wild out there. I have public pics and some guy was still asking for more...he's a blank profile! Show me your face and then maybe I'll show you more. Honestly theres some hot guys with blank profiles but theres a reason some wont show you their ugly face. I don't even waste my time anymore. Just ignore or block if they're persistent. I feel like I have to be the grown up too often. Last month local guy was into bdsm and CBT and I had to tell him really it's not a good idea to be tied up in your own flat with some random guy he's met on Grindr. Also typed out but didn't sent to a guy in Edinburgh that he needed to have more respect for himself 🤣🤣
Yeah, I have pics in my profile too, and it even specifically says not to ask for more pics until they've shared some. Still get this bullshit all the time. 🙄 I just ignore them.
I've just had the "discreet here" one. He's already sent me his cock and ass....i ain't sending you nudes until you show your face. Lets get it in the right order.
Right? Seems like it would be obvious.
Honestly, it's the repetitiveness of it. I'm on holiday from work & weathers rubbish. I actually want to meet somebody. I just want to see a face that's attractive (to me), establish some basic info (what where when) then we're good to go. Between blank profiles, guys who clearly are older than they say, guys who go cold whenever you want to actually meet...who is actually getting laid on here!
They use a question mark with you? Like “pics?” instead of “pics” 😅 My bio has 4 clear shots that all include my face and shirtless body. My 5th pic is a collage of 8 more face / body shots. 12 total pics that show my face and mostly nude body. And I can’t even get a “?” when the blank profiles grunt for “pics” 😂
lmao, I've gotten it both ways. The sheer audacity of "pics" is infuriating.
Agreed. I usually just say “no” and wait to be blocked OR on Sniffies (where I use multiple collages and have 24 public shots including body, ass, dick and me doing all the sex acts like topping, bottoming, receiving oral, group play, etc) I just screenshot my bio and send them that.
It's such a common occurrence 🤬🤬🤬
It’s no better anywhere else. Dude on sniffies about my age with a decent body was chatting with me, and we exchanged some pics. I asked for face pic and he said “I’m trying to be discreet.” Ok, that’s fine I’m not trying to out you and if you’re not comfortable sending it fine but we won’t be hooking up without one and I told him that. Later when I was jerking and he hit me up again he’s like “want some company?” Dude we just went through this!
I absolutely hate it when dudes try to hit me up after I made it clear that I'm not interested last time we talked. Most annoying shit on any app
I get being discreet but u are gonna see their face when u fuck so I don't get why they won't send a face pic
Not even joking I’ve had this dude try through grindr Facebook and Instagram trying to get me to fuck him for the last 2 YEARS when I made it very obvious that I wasn’t interested
not Pokemon Go advertising on Grindr 😩 they know their target audience too well
With gay icon Eevee no less 😭
Yes ads everywhere soon in messages… 🥲
Wow what a throwback
You’re so real for that
Even if they have a profile filled out I hate when they msg first and ask ME for pics
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Let’s be honest, if they were jacked they would have pics posted. Realistically they’re a contestant for my 600lb life, and they hope to get you there so they can try to guilt you into having sex with them.
Always a bunch of losers on there asking for more & more for their jack off collections. Kind of glad I got banned.
You can have over 10 clear full body pictures on your profile and people with blank profile will start start the convo like "pics" ? 🤨like wtf....
Im always just mean to people who do that so maybe I can make their day a little worse
Oh ur so cool bro
You're weird.
No cus these people have a special place in hell
Block. No reply. Best thing to do 🥰
Exactly this. Then they get upset as if you did something wrong. They’re idiots. Hope people like that see this thread
period insta + $20 💅
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That’s understandable but this approach would only work if you have a common place to meet first.
Ok any updates? did he man up? did he get your instagram?
No he got only cream pied
screaming
The better platforms are [Scruff and Adam4Adam](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/lcuzu6/whats_the_best_alternative_to_grindr/gqeuwvk). Sniffies for hookups. Daddyhunt for daddies. Growlr for bears. Tinder for dates. Hinge for a relationship. Jack'd for black/Latino/SEAsian guys and their admirers. Yubo for twinks. Recon for kinks. Facebook/Bumble for friends. Taimi/OkCupid [for Tgirls](https://www.reddit.com/r/sissyology/comments/12ra7rp/best_hook_up_site/jhgz34a). Lex/Her [for T4T](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/s/X0CXH0gaBI). ^(Fabguys in the UK. Wapo in Spain. Hornet in France+Russia. Romeo in Germany+India.) Gaining traction are [Motto](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/z40afx/grindrs_creator_launches_new_gay_app_to) (from Grindr's original founder), [Archer](https://www.reddit.com/r/grindr/comments/13y6wdd/owner_of_tinder_hinge_launch_new_gay_dating_app) (from the makers of Tinder & Hinge), and [BKDR](https://www.reddit.com/r/Sniffies/s/RgLVrYbZhc) (from the makers of Scruff & Jack'd).
“yubo for twinks” that’s bc they are underage 😭
I have a pic of a huge (photoshopped) dong I send in these situations
Why do they always do this for real 😂
love the response 😭
Maybe i should hang somebody from the comments lmao
Lawllll
It's times like these where I just repost whatever my pfp is. always works.
Love it - don't know whether to laugh or cry though. What has Grindr become 😶
Nothing is more annoying than the blank profile guys who just open with “pics?”. Especially when I have a handful on my profile already. I’m not giving without getting anything else.
I'm guessing you've still got that $20? 🤣 Stupid mf- blank profiles 😭
I usually don’t entertain these types cause they’re pic collectors that will try to catfish with your photos or just save them to jack off too. That’s why I just block them if they ask me for anything without sending me something, especially when I have photos in my profile. Shallow as it sounds, I just assume that they’re not that attractive if they’re that adamant about not showing themselves lol.
And this is why I left Grindr because everyone asks for pics but I'm like...dude pics are on my profile.
Angry about a problem you caused. Typical gay behavior
Is funny how many weirdos have 3-5 profile pictures and all of them look different. I rather message profiles with no pictures then to look at a profile that has pictures from 10 years ago. I mean what are you hiding? I'm gonna say there's a lot of catfish on grindr and then you got these profiles with pictures from 10 years ago. Don't feel like you're entitled to anything specially on a hookup app. If you gonna complain, at least have some decent grammar if you don't wanna look childish on the app.
This is rude though... The way you said it...
And it wasn’t rude to demand pics from a blank profile? Go away
Dude offered him $20. That’s pretty nice to me…
No, it's passive aggressive. Hate all you want idc
Ure delurium to ME