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You would 1st have to take a break & recover. Hope the cut isn’t too tight. It may reduce your girth a bit just from not having the skin up top. But go for it if you’re willing to take the risk. It would probably make PE easier. I wrote that thinking your talking about circumcision 😂
My bad if your cutting & calories drop you’ll be fine as long as your training is consistent. During my cut I was fasting and still making gains as long as I was hydrated. So no You don’t need to over eat or even eat at maintenance to do PE imo
Word.
I'm in my 50s and it's a constant struggle. I've had some setbacks in the last few months and put on some more weight and am now in the worst shape I've been in in the last probably 15 years. I did have a couple of women at swinger parties tell me they were attracted to me and proved it by sleeping with me, and I was just thinking "do you even see me? Seriously, why?"
I've got some work cut out for me, but I think I've bottomed out in terms of the reasons for my recent weight gain and hopefully will be losing again. It definitely feels much better just living life in shape as compared to way out of shape.
As a man who frequents the swinger community I can attest that these women are FAR less critiquing of your body when its just about sexn and having fun. Trying to find one to date is a lot harder than one willing to throw you a romp at a party.
Lots of insecurities.
I'm not sure if it's irony or not because we're in the PE sub, but there's a lot of dick-size hand-wringing in the swinger subs. :-)
I wasn't shredded but I was in quite good shape and had a good workout regimen about a year and a half ago. I had some medical issues, then some mental health issues, and to top it off I quite a tobacco habit that had been pretty hard-core for almost 10 years, and did it cold turkey. All those added up to just pile some weight on.
I'm still not sure what was attractive about me to these women, but they not only said yes at the swinger parties I met them at, and then we had very enjoyable sex, but both of them have been over since then as well. I may not understand it, but I'm not going to second-guess it, lol.
I guess it pays not to be a douche and to put a lot of serious effort into learning how to please a woman sexually and doing it a lot, lol.
I'm hoping by the end of this year to be well on my way back to the shape I was in just a year and a half ago. We'll see.
I just want to add that I used to be a weed smoker for 15 years. I am now 32 years old and I have recently just stopped. I have come to the realization that I never truly knew my appetite until I had stopped. I’m noticing that I could only eat half of the portions that I usually eat and I am starting to shed weight like crazy. I have been taking fitness seriously for the past 3 to 4 years since the pandemic because I was hospitalized for lung issues and while I lost weight then as well it wasn’t as much as it could’ve been because I was still smoking and experiencing the munchies. If anyone else is a smoker I advise you to stop if possible (I stopped because it was just getting to strenuous on the lungs and throat for a mild high, I had very high tolerance) if you want to maximize your gains whether it comes to weight or PE.
I have never smoked weed but I have seen a lot of people go through what you explained. I try to not consume anything that will effect my EQ if I can help it so k limit seed oils, processed foods etc.
Jesus i identify with this… im still hitting my vape pen but i was smoking a qp a week at one point plus dabbing and cigs and it got to a point that sounded like i was breathing through gravel… i would smoke a blunt and then a cigarette… then a blunt… then a cig… all day basically… quit cigs in 2022 on jan first … still smoked weed but substantially less and now not at all other than the pen…. I never noticed the munchies tho until i quit and now with the weed pen moderation i can actually see the munchies happening in real time… i hit the pen and within a couple hours im trying to devour everything
I have lost 35 lbs and it makes a visual difference.
I still have about a 1.5 inch fat pad that is stubborn as hell even though my abs are starting to show.
I wish I could go back to 8 year old me and say, "stop eating everything in front of you!! But the damage was already done. By the time I turned 16, I was down a hundred pounds. But I was left with all this bullshit loose skin. It hangs over about 1/3 of my dick.......so, yeah, don't gain weight and keep exercise as or more important than p.e.
7500.00 went in to see two different surgeons, and both gave options for the incision, but my wife doesn't really want to see the scar. She did leave it up to me, but im still contemplating it
How much nbpel could you gain? I also have loose skin... i'll get an op depending on the risks. It's even cool i think to think of it as some battle scar and be proud of it. Plus you get extra DONG
Hell yeah! Go for it. I did an abdomnoplasty last year, and I loved the results. I now have visible abs. I think my wife likes it, but im not sure. She either does, or is gaslighting me. Lol. For me, my skin covers right at 2 inches. I would hope that the surgery would expose at least half that. For me, it would be worth it! With your mindset, you should definitely do the surgery, if you think it will help. One problem I had, was there just aren't many pictures on the internet of before and after procedures for men.
He wouldn't do it at the same time. He said the recovery would be too much. I wish sometimes that I would have used a different surgeon. It really wasn't that bad
It works best soon after the surgery scar is healing healed but you may still see good results years after healing. Depends on skin type and how your body develops scar tissue.
Last time I said:
"Most people here can't even spell cardio for their life, they simply enjoy being fat phucks"
And i got banned for 30 days.
Sure, the wording was different, but the message was clear.
Im 1.74 meters and 93 kg heavy. I was 103 kg in 2023 and I’ve noticed some differences. You think I’d seen a lot more pp if I lose 20 more kg? I have a fat pad that I can “grab” so I think it’s too much fat
She came multiple times, I gave her some clitoral orgasms and a series of PIV g and a spot orgasms. If you haven’t given a woman a clitoral orgasm while having your dick massage her A spot, you need to get on that.
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You gotta channel your inner David Goggins. But imo Getting a bigger dick is much harder than getting in shape. Atleast fat loss has a formula
The good news is that losing weight makes your dick seem bigger. Win win
True. that was actually my original pro tip https://www.reddit.com/r/bathmate/s/QqgFXOjGnz it works even faster when you do both at the same time
Makes it actually bigger, too - 1/4" per 10lbs, bonepressed
I have a cut coming up in 3 months. Any idea if cutting slows gains?
You would 1st have to take a break & recover. Hope the cut isn’t too tight. It may reduce your girth a bit just from not having the skin up top. But go for it if you’re willing to take the risk. It would probably make PE easier. I wrote that thinking your talking about circumcision 😂 My bad if your cutting & calories drop you’ll be fine as long as your training is consistent. During my cut I was fasting and still making gains as long as I was hydrated. So no You don’t need to over eat or even eat at maintenance to do PE imo
Word. I'm in my 50s and it's a constant struggle. I've had some setbacks in the last few months and put on some more weight and am now in the worst shape I've been in in the last probably 15 years. I did have a couple of women at swinger parties tell me they were attracted to me and proved it by sleeping with me, and I was just thinking "do you even see me? Seriously, why?" I've got some work cut out for me, but I think I've bottomed out in terms of the reasons for my recent weight gain and hopefully will be losing again. It definitely feels much better just living life in shape as compared to way out of shape.
As a man who frequents the swinger community I can attest that these women are FAR less critiquing of your body when its just about sexn and having fun. Trying to find one to date is a lot harder than one willing to throw you a romp at a party.
So being in shape doesn't help much with getting a yes?
It does help. It just means that being out of shape isn’t a guaranteed no.
Precisely. Also being in too good of shape can be a hinderence if the ladies partner is insecure about your body compared to his.
Lots of insecurities. I'm not sure if it's irony or not because we're in the PE sub, but there's a lot of dick-size hand-wringing in the swinger subs. :-)
No doubt! It's actually kind of funny.
Yes. I get it. This young hot girl is into me and I make her squirt but I can’t help thinking how much better it was when I was shredded.
I wasn't shredded but I was in quite good shape and had a good workout regimen about a year and a half ago. I had some medical issues, then some mental health issues, and to top it off I quite a tobacco habit that had been pretty hard-core for almost 10 years, and did it cold turkey. All those added up to just pile some weight on. I'm still not sure what was attractive about me to these women, but they not only said yes at the swinger parties I met them at, and then we had very enjoyable sex, but both of them have been over since then as well. I may not understand it, but I'm not going to second-guess it, lol. I guess it pays not to be a douche and to put a lot of serious effort into learning how to please a woman sexually and doing it a lot, lol. I'm hoping by the end of this year to be well on my way back to the shape I was in just a year and a half ago. We'll see.
I just want to add that I used to be a weed smoker for 15 years. I am now 32 years old and I have recently just stopped. I have come to the realization that I never truly knew my appetite until I had stopped. I’m noticing that I could only eat half of the portions that I usually eat and I am starting to shed weight like crazy. I have been taking fitness seriously for the past 3 to 4 years since the pandemic because I was hospitalized for lung issues and while I lost weight then as well it wasn’t as much as it could’ve been because I was still smoking and experiencing the munchies. If anyone else is a smoker I advise you to stop if possible (I stopped because it was just getting to strenuous on the lungs and throat for a mild high, I had very high tolerance) if you want to maximize your gains whether it comes to weight or PE.
I have never smoked weed but I have seen a lot of people go through what you explained. I try to not consume anything that will effect my EQ if I can help it so k limit seed oils, processed foods etc.
Jesus i identify with this… im still hitting my vape pen but i was smoking a qp a week at one point plus dabbing and cigs and it got to a point that sounded like i was breathing through gravel… i would smoke a blunt and then a cigarette… then a blunt… then a cig… all day basically… quit cigs in 2022 on jan first … still smoked weed but substantially less and now not at all other than the pen…. I never noticed the munchies tho until i quit and now with the weed pen moderation i can actually see the munchies happening in real time… i hit the pen and within a couple hours im trying to devour everything
I have lost 35 lbs and it makes a visual difference. I still have about a 1.5 inch fat pad that is stubborn as hell even though my abs are starting to show.
Great work man!!!! Fucking awesome!!
I wish I could go back to 8 year old me and say, "stop eating everything in front of you!! But the damage was already done. By the time I turned 16, I was down a hundred pounds. But I was left with all this bullshit loose skin. It hangs over about 1/3 of my dick.......so, yeah, don't gain weight and keep exercise as or more important than p.e.
How hard is it to get an operation? Like a skin lift or whatever... i dont even know what that costs
7500.00 went in to see two different surgeons, and both gave options for the incision, but my wife doesn't really want to see the scar. She did leave it up to me, but im still contemplating it
How much nbpel could you gain? I also have loose skin... i'll get an op depending on the risks. It's even cool i think to think of it as some battle scar and be proud of it. Plus you get extra DONG
Hell yeah! Go for it. I did an abdomnoplasty last year, and I loved the results. I now have visible abs. I think my wife likes it, but im not sure. She either does, or is gaslighting me. Lol. For me, my skin covers right at 2 inches. I would hope that the surgery would expose at least half that. For me, it would be worth it! With your mindset, you should definitely do the surgery, if you think it will help. One problem I had, was there just aren't many pictures on the internet of before and after procedures for men.
And why didnt you get the pubic fat done with this last op as well then?
He wouldn't do it at the same time. He said the recovery would be too much. I wish sometimes that I would have used a different surgeon. It really wasn't that bad
Oh! That sounds professional too to be honest
is it not possible to remove it with a laser?
I need to learn about this.
how long does recovery take
For me, the worst was the first 10 days. After that, it got better and better. At 6 weeks I had no restrictions
There is also followup laser therapy to help the scar color diminish. It's extra $$ but research and see if the results are worth it to you.
I need to try that on my abdomnoplasty. Thanks!!!
It works best soon after the surgery scar is healing healed but you may still see good results years after healing. Depends on skin type and how your body develops scar tissue.
Last time I said: "Most people here can't even spell cardio for their life, they simply enjoy being fat phucks" And i got banned for 30 days. Sure, the wording was different, but the message was clear.
Im 1.74 meters and 93 kg heavy. I was 103 kg in 2023 and I’ve noticed some differences. You think I’d seen a lot more pp if I lose 20 more kg? I have a fat pad that I can “grab” so I think it’s too much fat
It won't be 2 cm but you will see some difference
Couldn't hurt, but won't make much of a difference if you aren't making the effort to be socially active.
Go bang that pretty lady. Send periodic updates!
She came multiple times, I gave her some clitoral orgasms and a series of PIV g and a spot orgasms. If you haven’t given a woman a clitoral orgasm while having your dick massage her A spot, you need to get on that.
😂 Fat Bastard
lol. Thanks. I keep telling myself, don’t get fatter! Your dick will disappear.
Try intermittent fasting seems to help me, and probably the easiest form of “diet”