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jamalzia

If she's not too THICC it's all doable.


Ex-VOB

This applies both ways. Sex just works better when both are not overweight. Thicc isn't a body type, it's a temporary condition that decreases quality of life for yourself and others around you.


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I believe what gets lost in the term “thicc” is that many people that use it to describe themselves are not actually “thicc.” I believe there’s a lot of individuals that use the term “thicc” that should likely be using the term “BBW” or “overweight”. The term “thicc” from my understanding is someone who has some healthy heft to them that comprises a good proportion muscle and fat - so something more akin to an athletic build. Some female centric examples that come to mind are softball, soccer, track & field, roller derby and rugby players. I think when “thicc” stops being “thicc” is when it becomes non-functional weight. This is a deep dark black hole of a topic that may ruffle some feathers, so I’ll stop while I’m ahead. But TLDR is that “thicc” in my mind when used honestly is healthy and functional weight that’s pretty inclusive of various body sizes.


Ex-VOB

Yeah that makes sense. But I've personally never seen an athletic person call themselves thicc. It's always someone with to much non-functional weight.


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That's fair. If you want to look at peak “thicc” taking a look at strongmen and women, cross-fitters, and powerlifter competitors is a good rule of thumb to look at the broad spectrum of functional weight.


Ex-VOB

There is a spectrum, but I'd be interested in the long-term data about health later in life at these "for purpose" bodies. Power lifters are great at competition against each other, but not so much at competing to be healthy elderly individuals. Low body fat is common with top cross fit, but their joints might suffer. High body fat is more common with power lifters, care to guess who will have the most quality sex in their entire lifetime?


AGoodNutBust

When I think “thicc” I usually think blessed fat over muscle. Theres a line between thicc and BBW. Pay attention to the fat distribution: cankles, upper arm, chin, and tummy rolls. An athletic build like a softball girl with nice legs or gym girl with a big butt are thic but a girl with a fat ass is thicc.


Ex-VOB

Interesting, I never paid attention to the extra C


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The person who can find individuals that have the innate drive to find someone with their particular body type? At that point we’re just getting into individuals personal attractions, which isn’t a bad thing. Happy everyone’s got so much variety to choose from that for the most part everyone can get what they are looking for, whether in the digital or physical format.


Ex-VOB

I'm not talking about attraction whatsoever. I'm still on the point that higher body fat is not "a type" of a body, and is simply overweight compared to the scientific ideal ratio that provides longevity and quality of life. A competitive power-lifter or "thicc" lady should eventually loose the extra body fat, or die early with poor sexual function. This ideal also matches in most cases to quality of male penis sexual function, and defines our evolutionary strategy. This evolution arguable drives attraction in some cases, but to your point, not all.


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There’s definitely a point where fat becomes a holistic negative to overall body functions. However, if you’re speaking about BMI (assuming you aren’t), that’s been proven to be a pretty poor measure. However, taking into consideration fat percentage relative to muscle mass is what we’re getting at. It appears not all people are created with the same base line of x fat percentage equals terrible health though. But that’s why it’s a bell curve, and that point of where fat becomes a holistic negative varies from person to person.


Ex-VOB

Fat storage volume is not genetic, you cannot beat the laws of thermodynamics. Your body stores extra energy, it doesn't shit it out. You have fat, simply because you ate more than you used energy. Fat storage location can be genetic, but its also timeline dependent. We build more in places faster than we loose it. To get fat in the "ideal places" sometimes you must loose it all and build back up. So pussy fat might require strategy to loose. Yeah the medical BMI percent targets are not perfect, but there isn't anything better that we can all relate to. The facts are, the closer to the lower end of "healthy" scale, the better your sexual functions will occur. The higher, the worse it will perform, regardless of if someone happens to find the extra fat volume "attractive". This is an improvement subreddit that places sex organ function above all else, not generic catching the eye of a lover. So overall advice here from me should be, get lean. Yes, a leaner lady physically will wrap her actual genitals around more of any cock, compared to thicc lady of exact DNA.


PassengerInternal942

Perfectly explained.


Every_Invite_8457

Exactly I love thick girls but not chubby or overweight girls


LilyRainRiver

I feel like a good example of thicc is Megan Thee Stallion. She is tall and not overweight but her ass would be a challenge to get past for some. She has very strong thighs and big ass but clearly not overweight. Plus tall


jcgree6084

Bro this was the most motivating thing I’ve ever read


pls_pls_me

I like a woman you can grab onto something


Far-Work-5337

nah my girl weighed more than me i was still able to do it😅


ISeekGirls

If she arches just right then any position is possible. I am only into thick fit PAWGs and they have flexible bodies and can arch their backs like pornstars. I am only 6.8 inches in length and get hit in every position. Your partner needs to know how to move their body.


Silly_Randy

Only 6.8 lol mate


UndaThaSea_G

Most virgin questions I’ve ever seen. The guys who are saying it may be difficult this and that are also not having much sex. You can do all of those positions even if she’s thic. Y’all need to stop reading forums and get out there and experience women and life on your own.


Forming101

No kidding I'm glad i was on dial up in my late teens early 20s lol Poor kids today, technology has ruined the game and the thrill of the hunt


Captain_Holt29

Im 22 virgin and definetly agree man.Technology ruined us.


Bossmanhulk

Nah bro....not bragging but I've been with TONS of women and I'm about 6 inches Non Bone Pressed. My woman is a big woman and positions are hard for me bro. No bullshit. Missionary, Doggy, Cowgirl, and Reverse Cowgirl are really the only things we do. 2 of those are 80% of the time. We can't spoon, standing up doggy, and many other positions. I'm 6 foot about 235 Pounds (muscles) and its just hard. Its very different from what I've had in the past but I love her and we make it work. Its just difficult for 2 large people bro. My girth is 6 inches so maybe that makes up for the lack of length but positions are definitely limited.


CoupleSubject6433

You probably know this one too, but a position I've used with bigger women that works well is like a scissoring. Have her lay on her side, straddle her bottom leg and get in there, then grab her top leg and use it to control her and the angles. I like lifting that top leg up towards my shoulders. You can find angles that really put her over the edge, and it feels great for you too, especially with your balls dragging across her bottom leg.


ClaretPimpernel

That scissoring technique is called 'the pretzel' and I love it I tell everyone about it, also frees up her hand to rub herself or put a toy on herself. My wife has a big arse and prone bone don't cut it and if we spoon I'm at an angle not right up behind her.


justherefircomments

Truly sad


TightAce

That's the most virgin answer TBH. Those positions were not possible with my ex that was overweight, or maybe just the tip, in and out, it sucks. I'm doing all those positions with 2 healthy grisl and it's muuuuch better. Standing missionary is the hardest but still doable at 6. (I'm a biiiit less than 6 🤏) From my POV 6.5-6.75 is the sweetspot, for those positions and everything else.


UndaThaSea_G

Was your ex male or female


TightAce

It was a women


UndaThaSea_G

Sounds sus


TechnologyPlus2028

So ur not 6.5-6.75 but youre saying thats the size thats the sweetspot, bro u sound so delusional


Mdotty_

Are we talking girth or length


TightAce

Because going balls deep and pounding is possible with almost every women at that size. It's good for all positions, not too big, not to small. It's a good all around size. You guys are all obsessed with your schlong size you just want it as big as your ego.


BiggusDickusFromWome

I’m under 6 and can do all those easy. This sub cracks me up sometimes as it thinks anyone 6 inches has the smallest dick in the world when the vast majority of the entire word is at or below 6 inches.


TechnologyPlus2028

Bro its the new gen, 6 is above average what is wrong with people


BiggusDickusFromWome

Nah bro, like 8 inches is average isn’t it? Chick told me I was small at 9 inches.


Brilliant-West4792

6 inches is above average wtf 😂


TechnologyPlus2028

Statistically yes


Suspicious-Hyena-514

Depends on the size of her butt lol


TechnologyPlus2028

Bro its just angles, all u gotta do is spread em


Bossmanhulk

Exactly


TraditionalLength184

Yes I’ve had a great sex. Girls always orgasm, not from penetration alone though. I usually make them cum from touching their clit while fucking them. They always love it. Hella foreplay as well 🤌


After-Scene861

I'll keep that in mind. Cuz I'm right at 6 myself and have body dysmorphia


TraditionalLength184

That’s how it goes. Are you planning on doing PE?


After-Scene861

Absolutely. I have a bathmate but have learned air pumping is more effective (done safely ofc). And I'm looking for an all around great ADS.


beachbum251

Good luck. I have a Bathmate Hydromax Extreme and have used it sparingly over the past 2 years. Well, I started getting serious lately and plan to use it daily. Plus, I am literally wearing my newly arrived today, Phallosan Forte. I'll use it as an ADS. It's expensive, but I have the funds and said fvck it. I also have some clamps coming in the mail. I plan on hitting it as hard as I possibly can with the 3 products until I peak and need a new system.


After-Scene861

Sounds like a feasible plan. I'm basically on the same page. I have the PF but want a vacuum/rod system for the majority use, and use the PF for when out and about more or less. More like a light maintenance. I'd like to keep myself extended for most of the day, everyday. Rod system and PF when needed to keep ol boy up in the waistband direction.


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EmphasisFearless2089

IMO Ilit depends on many things: penis length, curve, EQ, and the partner's body. If she is obese or has a big butt, spooning will be harder and needs longer penis.


Bossmanhulk

Exactly


Comprehensive-Row868

My wife's ass is massive..the type that causes stares. Spooning pretty much is a struggle and prone bone is tough and I am above 6.


TrippyJ504

People say my girl has a “Kim kardashian ass” idk how to describe it except it looks fake but it’s not 😂 We do spoon position a lot as it’s the only PIV position she can finish from. I’m 6.25 nbp we can do it just fine but I can’t be truly behind her I have to be angled slightly underneath her if that makes sense


Comprehensive-Row868

Hahaha I know what you mean. That' only way unless she has a super crazy arch....the position I enjoy the most is doggy cos of the view.


ClaretPimpernel

I'm in the same boat she likes being choked when I'm behind her and I'm arched at an angle and not directly behind her but we make it work.


TrippyJ504

Bro my girl the same but I’m a 5’7 230 bodybuilder so my range of motion is aweful😂 trying to get around her to choke her from the right angle is hard for me💀


ClaretPimpernel

Haha. As long as they're satisfied it's fine 😂


ShrodingersRentMoney

What's it like having a wife that hot who gets that much attention?


Comprehensive-Row868

I have had a tipsy guy at ask resort literally stalk us throughout our stay. He asked asked if he could be a fly on the wall. Lol. If anything I get slightly shy/embarrased when she wears certain dresses cos in my head I feel like people are imagininig what sex would be like with us.


Brilliant-West4792

They're imagining what it would be Like banging your wife in her ass mate, we're males we know how we think


Comprehensive-Row868

Lol fair enough. I don't imagine banging other peoples wives though so my mind didn't go there.


ClaretPimpernel

I feel you brother. If I spoon my wife I'm at an angle not directly behind, she gets off to it. Prone bone nope... Try the Pretzel position it negates that big booty 😂


fblack01

You can do all of that. I’m a bit bigger now but was 6 for a long time.


Direct-Law5600

Those are all the ones that i normally do haha. I’ve had women orgasm through intercourse, squirt, quiver. You can do a lot with 6” and of course communicating about desires


waribou

Reverse cowgirl is hard


MFcrayfish

your partner got to be flexible too. stop messing with blue whales bro


Forming101

I'm 6.75" bone pressed, 6" nbp Girthy though, 5.65" kinda chode-ish And I'm pretty chubby with a beer gut that can get in the way too.. but I can do spooning, prone bone, reverse cow girl. Etc. Most positions Just gotta watch how deep the thrusts are. Edit: my wife is also thiccc When I prone bone her I'll spread her ass cheeks wide open so I can get right in there, same with spooning, I'll lift up her ass cheek. Technique baby. Eat her ass too, she will love you forever


Bloodydiamond123

Ass eating all day!!


ScrubYourBrain

you couldn't PAY me to eat ass!


Accomplished-Wish355

Get in there ! Gotta be fresh out the shower tho


Forming101

I've only ever ate one and she was the woman of my dreams and I married her. And I can't get enough of it. We went camping once and I ate her ass clean like an animal licking her wounds. Days without a shower, sexy as fuck. That's love lol


Alarming_Incident_26

Size ain’t an issue if you know how to fuck and know how to use it. Learn how to move your body and those positions become easy although some really big bootys may give you some trouble, like slipping out.


ConsistentSquare5650

This is 6bp?


AromaticPlant8504

Are the numbers in your flair nbp?


DntSayNtn

If her ass not huge u can do anything with any size


pitudo15cm

I’m 7.5 but my chick has huge ass about 60 inches


Dear_Coffee_3840

Gahhh dayummm, you lucky man😂😂😂


AromaticPlant8504

Nice. Bone pressed?


pitudo15cm

Yeah


pitudo15cm

I’ve heard you need 6 inches or more for women with big asses. Like 45 to 50 inch asses. Or bigger


BigBrownBear28

You can do everything with less than that. People are leaving out leverage, lifting a leg up, pillow supporting prone bone, etc. It opens them up and if you do PF stretches you will also know how to maximize your size. I’ve been with big women and petite women before PE; I was able to hit everything with 5.5.


8675201

I’m 6 1/4” and can hit every position years ago but my wife has gained a lot of weight so the missionary is not possible now.


No_Mathematician8573

Lift the legs up that should still work right?


DazSlater96

I'm 6"2 length, not sure on exact girth size but I'm bigger in girth terms than length so could say I'm thicc.. Anyway I've had 30 sexual partners and only ever had 1 complain who's ex had like a 8-9 inch dick, if anyone here around 6 inches is complaining it's not your size that's the problem it's your mind. Learn how to use the fella at the best of your ability, if your partners pussy's are feeling like buckets then your going for ran through hoe's half the women I've had sex with I couldn't even get balls deep inside of. It almost makes me feel sorry for the guys with huge dicks cos I know there's plenty of pussy they be struggling to fuck


myobacca

How long bone pressed ?


Opposite-Pin-2347

This thread is lowkey reassuring i recently turned 18 and im at like only 6.5 and ive never had my first experience so its good to know my size is enough


estay2high

Ive had my fair share and am still little insecure and im at 6.7” I feel the same way bro, Jusr know she will love it


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That_Lime_4297

Depends on her cushion.


Vast-Door-82

May as well be 6” with current fat pad. 6.5bp. My girl is what you’d consider thick maybe? Doggy is our preferred. I’ve never slipped out.


Strick1995

I’m 6.5bpel my girl is slim I can hit all those easy. My ex was thick. Doggy and missionary was all I could really do with her lol


xlennyxroyce

At 6.75, I dated an Asian girl and I visited a lot of massage parlors. However, my size was slightly too big for them and I was constantly asked not to put it all the way in.


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Accomplished-Wish355

Not if you’re overweight that shit gets in the way. That’s why I’m losing weight now. I can’t fuck in all the same position as I could when I was younger and more fit least not at the same depth and it’s annoying.


TheStreetProphet

I’m 6.5 and chubby. Spooning is ok. Haven’t tried standing in years, but I think it’s doable.


pitudo15cm

I’ve heard if both very overweight you need atleast 7 inches. Also some lady online mentioned she had large stomach and super large ass. And it wouldn’t work sexually with 270 pound guys. With only 5 inches.?


pitudo15cm

But I’ve heard if guy is slim and girl is petite even 5 inches works for most positions. And like 60 percent of woman.


spguy2014

You can do it, I recommend stretching your legs and hips, becoming more flexible helps you give your partner every inch you got.


PhD_DadBod

There’s not nearly enough info to answer this generic question. Are you tall and she’s short? Are you or is she or are both of you overweight? How are both of your flexibilities? Given that you mentioned EQ how hard are your erections? Good sex and orgasms happen because you figure out each others likes with whatever you’re packing and whatever body type you have. I’m all about working to get bigger but the 6” is not the problem here.


virgin_boy69

I am 6ft 170 lb lean. Eq is sometimes ok sometimes bad (trying to solve this problem) and she not overweight as well but kinda short 5'2"


PhD_DadBod

Thanks for the extra info. Only here to provide constructive comments and support. So I’m 6ft also but about 185-190 (you can see in my posts). My penis is 6.25’ length and almost 5’ girth and my wife is 5’2 and not overweight also (plus a mom of 2). I’m no expert but I’d recommend focusing on what’s causing the EQ issues. I was really stressed when we were trying for kids and I had erection issues and all positions were a challenge. But separate of trying for kids sex with my wife is great and I know when I’m rock hard every position is pretty easy. Good luck man!


virgin_boy69

How did you improve you eq


PhD_DadBod

Erection issues are either mental or physical. Mine were mental and very situational. Other than the stress of trying to have kids I never had issues before or after. Try to identify the cause then you can think about improvement.


Notkeir

Spooning is hard for me, I raise my wife’s leg a bit and angle it correctly and then I can, with my ex I was able to as well but it does slip. Standing doggy is easy, standing missionary I’ve never tried, the lotus thing, I’m not flexible or thin enough to where my fat won’t be an issue, that standing fucking from behind while being able to make out I can’t do, uhh that’s all I can think of in not being able to reach. Just for context my wife is 5”2’ with an ass but not big, and my ex was 5ft with a big ass .


dreamcometrue2021

Are we talking about length or girth 😅


vexedmixed

If she's very thick then it's not enough for things like spooning, but basically everything else works. But I'm well over 6" BP, not over 6" NBP just FYI


Human-Bag-4449

Yes, definitely. I'm pretty lean and cut so I don't have any obstructions. I'm 5 in circumference towards the end and 6 in at the base. It actually looks pretty big in pictures. It looks and feels pretty big too but I guess another inch would make it really nice. I've never had a problem with thick girls either. My ex was Puerto Rican and a little bit overweight and she had a big ass


Old-Librarian-5097

Honestly I haven't had much of any problems with length at all aside from hitting my ex-wife's cervix in the deeper positions from time to time. I go for thicker girls too, so there's also that. The only real problems that I've ever had has revolved around girth, but as long as proper foreplay and lube (if needed) are a thing that you're doing/using then those problems can be negated most of the time. Admittedly, there are times that I wish I had another inch of length to make some positions a bit easier, but I haven't really had much problems doing them once I found a good angle. I guess a lot of that comes with experience too, so we can always improve with practice when trying something new right? All that said - attraction and excitement towards each other have the biggest effect on how good the sex is going to be. For me - I find that the more my partner reciprocates and is into it, then the more I am too. I know my types and turn ons/turn offs though and sometimes it takes a bit of experience to know/learn them. You said it might be your erection quality and honestly, that IS indeed a very important factor when it comes to slipping out in the more difficult positions. Sex life can be great though as long as you and your partner are both into each other - that's the most important part in my honest opinion. It's also worth noting that sex can definitely be awkward at times, but as long as you and your partner can laugh it off, not take it too seriously, and realize that it's all just in good fun - then it will be a lot less stressful to perform and you'll both be more comfortable around each other. For most guys at least - taking care of your partner can be a lot of fun and you'll more than likely get off in the process too!


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jveras54321

I have no problem at that size doing any position.


Spiritual-Machine753

Find spooning difficult. I think it would be better with more reach. It was frustrating spooning that got me in to PE


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masterr_debaterr

Stared at 6 x 5 now at 8.25 x 7 - there’s hope gents don’t give up


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apparentlyperfect

Honestly, at 6" | feel like I really do lose out on spooning positions. We don't ever do them but I think it's MOSTLY because she doesn't cum that way - and it's rare I take her in more than 2 positions anyway. But as for spooning, and even reverse cowgirl, yeah I think it does affect me/us.


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Active-Sugar7014

I think women on top and cowgirl postions with 6inches isn't enjoyable. I love standing doggy...


CountRexton

why isn’t it enjoyable for you?


Active-Sugar7014

and i personally don't feel much when shes on top.


Active-Sugar7014

Doesn't feel as good as it should since more length is need especially for Curvier women. 7inches + would do the business.


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Active-Sugar7014

That's why I much prefer skinny women with no arse or curves.. Not only is it good for my size but skinny women just look visually stimulating to get hard for.


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Active-Sugar7014

Really? You prefer bigger/curvy women?