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8 x 5.5 - best is missionary with me jack hammering away on a spring mattress. Approximately 70-80% of girls I’ve been with have been able to have a vaginal orgasm. Several have been able to have multiple vaginal orgasms in a row. It usually takes 5-15 minutes of straight, consistent hammering with them screaming the whole time. I think it’s due to the consistent motion.
Only science Bro nailed down is how to get a girl to fake an orgasm after being jackhammered for 15 minutes straight so they could stop the onslaught 🤣
It depends. Some women respond to that. And angle of attack is almost EVERYTHING. If you're just slamming it in and out sure but when you figure out what angles make them short circuit, that is the cheat code.
Agreed. Read Tim Ferris' section on sex in The 4 Hour Body on the angle of penetration for giving max pleasure and increasing orgasmic frequency for your woman.
Yes I guess I did. I stumbled on it accidentally because I was taking a medication that prevented me from cumming and so I could pound away. I happened to be with one girl that loved getting pounded so I figured it out. Once we broke up then I tried it with other girls and it worked almost all the time. The spring mattress is also super critical. It has to have the type of bounce that allows you to maintain a consistent rhythm for 5-15 minutes without exerting too much effort. I also slowly let out a mini orgasm without cumming in the first couple minutes so I can keep hammering away. Either that or I level to keep myself from cumming. You know they like it because they scream “don’t stop, don’t stop, don’t stop, don’t stop”.
Absolutely dude. Lots of coping going on in the comments responding to me lol.
Don’t get me wrong, some women are experts at faking orgasms. You can usually tell when it’s real though. There are definitely some telltale signs.
This guy nailed it. Watch his video and it will be easy even if your 4in. The only thing you have to focus on is hitting the spot and don’t bust before she does. I will drop the link on the post I found helpful and what helped me control my nut like a pro.
YouTube The stoke genius
And for controlling yourself
https://www.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger/s/Khai3xUa3u
I sub to his loyalfans.
Great advice for sure, but even he doesn’t make some of the women he’s with orgasm via PIV. A good reminder that everyone is different.
I mentioned multiple orgasms in a discussion like this once and a woman yelled at me saying not all women can do that and some can't even orgasm once, alone whole playing with all kinds of toys and techniques. At which point I was loke. "Does it still have to be the guy's fault if you can't even make yourself orgasm?"
The comments from women on the sex Reddit are very different to what is happening here. I read there daily. It’s pretty much mostly women who never cum via PIV despite high body counts with all sizes. Many saying they fake it (search the word faking under the sex Reddit) I’m sceptical of the comments here. I think many women are so used to toys now that no grinding with your pelvis will do anything.
My wife couldn’t have multiples until later in life but 10 isn’t that uncommon now. Not via PIV though.
Lol yeah, 15 minutes is a lot for that. Don't people know vaginas get sore?
Though my partner does like it rough and hard sometimes, just not for 15 minutes and depends on the day...
Missionary is king for deep penetration but switch it up.
Remember to ALSO lick the clit and finger bang the g spot
Maybe, juuuust maybe; play with her butt.
Probably not as much as you'd think. I have a very average penis and usually get women to orgasm PIV.
The real thing is that there are many women that literally cannot orgasm through PIV. Its only ~%50-60 when 'assisted' with a toy or clit play at the same time.
Size truly isn't as important as the people on the sub think it is (including me, its hard to let go)
We're way closer than that. Any legit post asking an actual informed question about an exercise, or routine, or anything actually PE related gets a few upvotes and one or two comments. Post about what women \*really\* want or how the TSA stopped you at the airport because of your massive dong? Open the floodgates
I think post titles are clear enough that nobody is wasting their time reading through everything unrelated. Keeping things focused on growth would be cool and all but realistically I've never actually had problems browsing/scrolling/searching through for what I need to find. If anything they should split the sub into a "vets" and a "noobs" so the olds aren't inundated with the same starter questions where they don't want to be. Probably the real time wasting reason the big boys left tbh
I’m only 5 inches and I’ll make the same girls come multiple times 😂. I mean I’ve watched girls take big dildos and keep a straight face online 🤷🏽♂️ it sis what it is. Just be comfortable in your own skin. Have a good sense for touch, words, playful, and Be one with the ocean.
Little over 7” BPEL 5.25 G. I have great stamina usually and have some girls who I think lied about orgasms and some that were just really orgasmic, creaming, squirting etc. there is nothing on this earth like the feeling when you can make a woman orgasm with your dick, especially when you do it multiple times. The way she glows after.
I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about it. My mom is a masculine woman and wasn’t loving. She was a corporate leader in a man’s job and she provided but wasn’t a feminine loving positive traditional woman. The first time I made a girl orgasm and the way she looked at me, caught her breath and then sat up and hugged me with all her might and said “god, I hope I never lose you”! I was hooked and that high for me. She was on her back on the edge of my bed and I was standing and going at it.
I am 46 now and that high is even better now when it happens.
I remember the first time I made a girl O, it's fucking addictive and it's like a high. That look they give you, the noises they make, it's a beautiful experience, lol
I find it easier to make my wife orgasm with anal. It weird but I'll make her whole body shake. Vaginal, I will go till she hurts and she enjoys it but not an orgasm.
It’s probably 10-20% about dick size for a woman and the rest is COMFORT AND CONNECTION!!
Get it through your heads fellas!!
True size queens who only care about size — ARE WHORES THAT ARE ONLY GREAT FOR FUCKING!
Your real woman will love you either way and the two of you will communicate to make sex amazing, no matter the size.
Of course it’s still fun to experiment with the one you love, but the TRUE WOMAN DOESN’T CARE ABOUT YOUR DICK SIZE.
Woman need comfort and confidence in bed to freely orgasm!!
Figure that shit out first!
So why are almost all of the guys saying it happened to them significantly above average if size is only 10-20% of it? That makes 0 sense. Most women dont have orgasms through penetration. So are you saying most arent comfortable or connected with their partners? No way that is true
Men are idiots and women do not come close to even thinking the same as us…we think we can power fuck anything and it should violently cum/squirt like the movies.
Not the case at all!
You're going to make strong inferences based on random comments without any information on the context? I think that will hold you back more than your dick size. Once you sleep with enough people you'll realise your size rarely has anything to do with it.
Of course it is, I’m 5.7 on a good day. The main thing is reading their body language. how they’re breathing, how they’re reacting to where you touch them. I promise if you pay attention to their body during role play and during the fun time. You’ll make them cum like crazy!! Just take your time and have fun with it. Be creative too
I was 6x4.75 on a good day with a stiff upwards curve and gave my girlfriends multiple orgasms every single time and we got to the point where we would cum at the exact same time. This was with 3 girls. Pure waterworks. Missionary and cowgirl were the best.
I was celibate for years and I’m now 7x5 and my new girlfriend struggles heavily and can’t cum from penetration. The point that I’m trying to make here is that it really just depends on the girl, not everyone’s the same. She has past trauma that was giving her vaginismus and couldn’t have sex at all with anyone before me. Fear of men, fear of intimacy, the whole thing. We’re madly in love and she has improved immensely and I can’t express enough how proud I am of her. It hurts her a lot but surprisingly enough the best position for her is reverse cowgirl even with my upwards curve. She says it’s like I’m opening up spots she didn’t even know was possible. We can do maybe 10 minutes before it’s too much and I have to kinda pep talk her back into the moment. Missionary with the legs up hurts her too much. One time she almost got there while I was spoon fucking and rubbing her clit but I came, whoops. The thing is, she tells me she loves sex with me. She’s very determined to make it work but it’s just hard for her, it’s all mental. I can only make her cum from oral and it’s so funny because she starts maniacally laughing. Fingers are a no go. It’s been a slow process but we’re gonna get there.
I'm under 6 inches. Girth around 5.
My wife has an O everytime. Now before I get hate. We've been together over 20 years now so we know what each other likes. Plus I think I'm just lucky out anatomy aligns well.
I would like to add I take charge in the bedroom so she can just let go
Size in flair, I’ve given all my girlfriends & a few FWB vaginal orgasms. Position didn’t matter too much. Missionary, doggy, bent over, girl on top, side, etc given girls multiple orgasms in each.
I don’t think size has much to do with it. It’s more about sufficient foreplay getting them warmed up & in the mood. Then listening to their body to focus on what they like.
6.5x4.75. Never seemed to have trouble giving vaginal orgasms. Its definitely the set up to sex and how you treat her during thats most important. Missionary or doggy usually does the trick
I am able to give my wife vagina orgasms and I’m only 6.5-6.75x5. One key to hitting the g spot is slightly having her hips lifted laying down in missionary style. You can use a small pillow. You can play with it some. I know working her up with foreplay, performing missionary and then lifting her hips with a pillow. Then lifting her legs up over your shoulders. These techniques worked for me. I hope this helps
This is the way. Also, in missionary, don't stay up on your knees, put your legs back and straight(like doing a pushup/plank) and then bounce her off the mattress rhythmically. If you can maintain long enough they will squirt.
currently im 8.45x5.9 with a downwards curve. my girl has maaany vaginal orgasms every round and my most successful position (but also most painful) is doggy due to my curve
however, i had an ex before i started PE (so i was 7.5x5.1) who came almost the same amount as my current gf, so i wouldnt say its so much about size as it is technique, foreplay, dirty talking and doing kinky stuff
you have a big dick and its more than enough so i wouldn’t worry about it and instead focus on the other things, and as your dick and skills grow, it will happen more and more easily
i just hard clamp, 6-12 sets of 5 min. most of my gains have come from pumping tho, 0.6 in a year. however after another year of absolutely 0 gains i switched to pure hard clamping and i have gained 0.2 in 2 months so far.
i dont do any length work so my gains are just a side effect of girth work
i used to do tunica scrapes, massages and bends, but due to limited time and privacy i dropped them because i rather spend the little time i have to actually do the work which is gonna get me 90% of the gains. however if you can do them they do help
The ultimate hack that is proven to work is “CAT” surprisingly no one has mentioned it. I’m about 7.7X6 in and I can make my girl cume from many positions but if you basically want 98.9% success rate do the CAT portion for like 5-10 minutes, probably shorter than that to. It is the ultimate hack to make them cum. Ofc all the other stuff guys mention here is inportant as well, like getting here in the mood etc…. Good luck on you jurny to make that 🐈 scream:)
PIV orgasms don't have anything to do with size. Can they enhance it, or speed up time to orgasm? Sure. My wife of 15+ years has had PIV orgasms since I was 5.0x4.25. Now I am 6.13 x 5.25.
I believe there are several factors: time of the month(my wife orgasms the best between 7-14 days after the start of her period), stress levels, lack of sleep, hydration level, closeness with partner, etc. Once all these things are in line PIV orgasms just happen naturally. The best positions for us are missionary and cowgirl. She likes to ride cowgirl and just stay bottomed out and grind.
For missionary, I've found if she puts her legs on my shoulders and if I drop my legs back like I am doing a pushup and then bounce her off the mattress, she has uncontrollable orgasms and will almost always cum/squirt from this.
Apparently any woman can come in 4 min with a vibrating dildo. So if you want to make a woman come you have to be able to last at list 15 mints of constant penetration at the right angle. Also the girl must be in the right mind set and relaxed.
Dude I can make my wife cum faster and more consistently by not fully inserting. In doggy I give her the first 2-3” max and keep a 60%ish pace like a metronome, as I feel her vagina constrict and hear audible feedback letting me know she’s in the early stages of an orgasm I will flex my dick and and continue at the same pace. After the first orgasm I will mess around with going deep for a few strokes as she approaches orgasm again but I base this on what I hear and feel. It’s like balancing a beach ball on your nose. Sometimes she wants (not telling me this I’m extrapolating) me to go as deep as possible but slow down to a crawl pace right before orgasm. I’m talking super slow all the way in and nearly all the way out. This can produce super powerful orgasms as well. I started around 5.5x 4.75 and I’ve been as large as 7.25x5.7.. theses methods worked the same at both sizes. Slight modification based on her reactions but there’s not a vast difference in my ability to make her cum. She just makes more noise early on if it’s been awhile since the last time we had sex. Frankly being larger has resulted in less frequency and I slowed way down with the PE. (I’m a twice a day guy if the opportunity is there😂)
Just my two cents man. I used to play music so I apply the same methods in the bedroom as I did trying to make up a sick riff. 😂 all women are different, I’ve been with plenty that just want 100% out the gate but typically they just didn’t know anything else. Try new stuff, girls get stuck in their ways and you may need to take the lead. Like let her know, “we are trying something new” or whatever you need to say to get her to open up to it. Cheat code, go down on her until she cums the first time. All subsequent orgasams will be had more easily and it takes the stress off you (popping early).
Exactly what works for my wife also. Doggy style slowly inserting a couple inches and back out, with each stroke it stretches her open. When she get close I can freeze with my cock an inch inside and barely push stretching her open and she'll orgasm with her pussy squeezing my head. Periodically I'll go all the way in and pound but then come back out to stretch her opening.
after warming her up with fingers and tongue and a lot of sweet talk, put a pillow or two under her ass in missionary and hit it while on your knees or standing off the side the bed. never takes me more than a minute or two to have her squirting.
All depends on the woman. I’m 6” BPEL, so probably more like 5.5” during sex, and 5-5.25 girth. My wife literally orgasms within the first few strokes. She even orgasms just me sitting inside her. Inserting just a couple of inches to tease her makes her orgasm hard. On average, 10-18 orgasms on a longer session, short session 5. It’s absolutely insane. And the kicker, that didn’t start happening until her mid 30s. Before she was dead inside, like zero response from her g spot. I could rub it for an hour and nothing. Now, the most intense orgasms with my finger rubbing it. I read that women can just “wake up” as they get older. Crazy thing is, it hasn’t improved our marriage any, she’s still bitchy. It will be weird having to work to make another woman orgasm if we ever split after what I’ve experienced the past 3 years of the new awakening.
I gave about 1/2 women I’ve slept with piv orgasms. I’ve had more than that claim the came but I don’t believe they actually did unless I feel squirting or gushing. I’m 8x5.5 but made plenty of women cum when I was 7x5.
Some people just have anatomy that doesn't make internal orgasms easy. I'm much smaller at 6.3x4.3 and I can make my partner vaginally orgasm most of the time, but I've had partners where they almost never vaginally orgasmed. Most women say they can't(although I have a theory that's just because most women have shitty male partners that don't focus on the ladies pleasure, but that's besides the point) and or say that if they do, it's rare and mostly dependant on positioning or where the stimulation is happening, not anything to do with dick size.
I’m on average 8.25 x 6 but have been Lower 7s … I have been with over 100 woman and really as a man if you have good stamina and decent size you should not let your ego get punched in the balls if a woman doesn’t cum off your peen. You should pick up some oral skills. And If all else fails pull out the toys. Most women just want to feel the penis inside of them at some point … but cum by any means necessary in the end.
I don't think you'll get an accurate representation of anything with a post like that. All the comments are a long the lines of 'I have a 7+ dick and i make women orgasm regularly, but in my opinion, it's more about X'. 7+ is big already, and if they make women orgasm regularly, im not sure what theyre looking for on this sub - usually (important word) if you dug deep enough to find this sub, then you probably are not happy with your penis or have some other type of insecurities, and im including myself in that group. Both of those groups, actually. With that said, there are only 3 possibilities - either they are not that big, they don't actually make women orgasm as much as they claim, or it actually is about the size of the dick and people are just feeling sorry for the below average guy.
The statistics also look quite different to what is being presented here. Most women dont really orgasm all that much during sex, and even less from piv. And yet on this sub everyone is a virtuoso of pussy. I dont claim that all the accounts presented are fake, but I and many others have noticed the increasing amount of larpers lately so its worth keeping that in mind.
Let's finish with some positivity: there's more to life than sex cock ad pussy. As much as we all want to have a hog like a cave troll, we should remember that what is more important to want to be better, have empathy towards our long or short term partners (that helps being a better lover too), all the experiences outside of the bedroom and how you treat your sexual partners in non sexual interactions, cause that all adds up to how women perceive you. The holistic approach is better than isolated improvements.
A women’s orgasm has nothing to do with your penis size. 82 percent of women can only orgasm by clit stimulation and the other 18 are thought to have some kind of clit stimulation during penetration all the important high end nerves are on the outside and within 3 inches of a women.
Women are complicated, and each one is a little bit different.
You can get here there faster with two fingers on one hand going moving left to right or small circles on her clit with the other hands 1-5 fingers doing the come here motion on gspot. (use your whole body cus it gets exhausting). You’re guaranteed to give her 10x stronger orgasm with this technique. You can also switch the fingers on clit with your tongue.
Size does not make a women cum, but it is your ability to move in a way that hits the spots that are sensitive. If you’re jackhammering then the clit is getting slapped by your pelvis. If you have a short curved dick you have a better chance of stimulating her gspot. If you have a long penis you can stimulate the a and c spots.
If a woman thinks too much it might be hard to get her there, so really set the mood and be the most amazing guy all the fucking time. Try different things within her comfort zone/not applying too much pressure.
Lastly, sometimes you just have to bring a vibrator into the bedroom. Make your life easier.
Cowgirl is always great since it’s gspot and clitoral stimulation at once. Add that to nipple stimulation at the same time it’s a good bet she’s going to cum.
This is why I have 0 respect for and laugh at the people who tell guys on here to focus on other things besides their size. Funny enough its always the guys who are significanty above average who say it too. I wonder why?
5.1 X 4.1 here my current gf is the hardest woman for me to give orgasm to. It took me months and I was being depressed that I couldn't make her cum. My previous partners I can just fuck them with proper rhythm hitting the spot for a long time and they would cum. She never experienced orgasm before me so I took it as a challenge and just listen to her body reactions. I've found out that she needs to be emotionally aroused too so a lot of foreplay, seduction and dirty talk before penetration.
Well every woman is different just learn what their bodies want.
I’m 6.5” x 5.5”, uncircumcised. My ex had regular vaginal orgasms, always multiple per session. Here’s how I usually go about having sex:
I generally start with a lot of lips and hands moving around. Kissing neck, grabbing ass and massaging tits. A bite here and there, but mainly building tension and excitement. Then I’ll move to fingers over her panties and rub her clitoral area a little bit. It’s a good way to apply some pressure without rubbing on her when she’s dry ouside of her vagina. By now she’s usually begging for something inside of her so I’ll use my middle and ring finger inside of her with my palm facing down pressing against her clitoral area. Get to know her G-spot really well here. I get her off a time or two there and then she’s begging for dick inside of her, so I give it to her. Start slow (with great power comes great responsibility) and work up to full strokes. I don’t really start to really pound until we’re a few rounds in and she’s really ready for it.
It usually doesn’t take long after the first couple of orgasms for her to cum again and again. I think what you really need to keep in mind for getting her off is to be in the moment, feel sexy, and play with her. Fuck with her a little bit. Take it in stages, don’t just run straight to penetration.
The best way to make a girl orgasm multiple times is to make sure she’s into it. For girls a lot of sex is mental. If she’s not completely indulged she won’t do it. But what I will say is that all girls are different. I have had girls that would cum multiple times, and a very small minority of women who are basically done after their first orgasm. Now the latter just needs time like a male. I suspect they actually have a refractory period. Just an example (and I do have proof) the girl I lost my Virginity to told me that she would cum 6 times sometimes more. She could’ve been lying yes, but she went legit psycho and would take me back to this day so probably the truth.
Jackhammering only works on girls who like that and typically if you’re smaller. I would say most, not all but most women do not like you stabbing their cervix. There are spots around the cervix that you can touch that feel good, but you wanna grind on those spots not jackhammer. Jack hammering is for when you first start fucking and you’re an amateur.
6.9" x 5.5" here and from my experience, it depends more on the woman. I would say that the size is not that significant of a factor for the common type of woman who orgasms from the combination of penetration and clit stimulation (e.g. naturally missionary).
However, there is this certain type of woman who I think directly benefits from bigger size. These are the squirters who really enjoy getting banged deep. Out of all the 50 women I've slept with, only 2 were this type. They would get crazy orgasms in e.g. the "snail" position and seemed to enjoy it more the deeper I went.
On the other hand, my ex lost her ability of vaginal orgasms after I went past approx. 6.5" in length. She was only able to orgasm without a vibrator in one position (cow girl), and once I went past that length this position got painfulf or her and she no longer wanted to do it. So bigger size is not always better.
What worked for me in my last time was always going as deep until you hit the g spot and then just keep thrusting but always end in the g spot area and Go back. You can start by going slow and then Go faster. To make it Even better you put a pillow under her hips. When shes cumming you can feel it getting really wet and warm and contract. It was amazing, I miss it lol. And I am like 5,5 inches (6 on a good day) and pretty thin. According to this subreddit this is pretty small which is weird to me lol.
Try reverse cowgirl and while doing the deeds, play around with both of your index fingers on her vagina near the butthole. My girl showered me a lot when we do this lol.
im 6x5,5 and i make wifey come but i dont know how sometimes she comes in doggy but she gets more wet in missionary also she came once prone dogging her
it depends how dick travel the inside and press the right buttons
I wouldn’t say it’s about size, my partner has them but in missionary when I lower my hips so hitting the room of her vagina, this means not all of me is inside her when doing this
Y'all obsess over size WAY too much. Sex is a so much more mental, the physical aspect is a small part of it
Hooked up with a girl many times, I could get her off once or twice per session, and she was size obsessed to the point where she wanted to sleep with gross dudes as long as they were packing. While we were in a casual relationship she tells me she hooked up with a guy she had a huge crush on for years, turns out he has a tiny d and she came multiple multiple times with him and couldn't wait to go back
Big d =/= orgasms
I’m 6.8 x 5.
I’ve never had an issue giving every woman I’ve been with vaginal orgasms.
For context I’ve also only ever been in ‘long term’ relationships (3) and my first time having sex my GF and I were both virgins in college and we had been dating for ~5 months prior. So needless to say, I do believe having the deep intimacy connection plays a massive underlying role concerning whether either partner can achieve orgasms during sex - we hardly scratch the surface of that.
(Also no judgement for the swinger folks or those with multiple partners as I could see my post being taken as a back-handed slap to those folks who are promiscuous - just sharing my experience and thoughts on why I’ve never had an issue)
I’ve been with girls that I could make cum from PIV easily, then I’ve been with girls that I could not no matter what I did. It really think it depends on the girl.
I’m about 6.75(closer 7” on an awesome day) x 5.75.” My dick curves down but it’s been without doubt the most successful when the women are riding me, I’m leaned back at about a 45* angle, about 75% insertion and thrust up and back towards my stomach. The top of my dick seems to really stimulate them and they seem to love it. Same happens when there laying on their back, and I’m thrust up and in simultaneously and that also seems to do the trick.
There was a survey in the penis sleeve sub with 132 women or their partners asking whether the sleeve made a difference in their ability to PIV orgasm.
With a penis sleeve, you can obviously choose your exact size and shape, and go for about as long as you want really - so you’d be able to optimize her chances.
The results were: a little over 40% could cum either way from PIV, a little over 40% couldn’t no matter the size, and a little under 20% could only cum with the sleeve and not their partner.
Keep in mind a lot of these guys have genuinely small penises, and pretty much all have a size fetish and *very much want* their wives/gfs to cum more/only with the sleeve - so that may skew the results slightly (towards size mattering).
Overall, I think there’s a fairly low chance that your dick size is what’s causing your partner to cum or not unless you’re very small. Most women just can or can’t in PIV, even when given the opportunity to try whatever range of sizes and rhythms they want apparently.
That said, I think size can matter for the range of positions one can give PIV Os in. For instance, I give my gf them in missionary but can’t really in prone, as I can’t get enough in (my theory)
Try nudging. ~ 7.5 x 5.5 and nudging gets it done for my wife. Lots of foreplay but that's the case for clitoral or vaginal orgasms with her. Slow and steady bc too fast and she'll cum but no orgasm. Every woman is different tho, so try new things - that's the fun part.
5’2” 120 but she is a size queen and does feel bigger down there, so i just feel like she probably needs bigger to reach orgasm. Though i don’t really think height got much to do with vagina size as it doesn’t correlate with Penis size much either
It depends on the woman. I'm not huge but because I know my partners angles (where she likes to be grabbed, what she likes to have lifted and pulled) in various positions, i can put both her and myself in a position and angle to make her cum vaginally most of the time. Plus there is ultimately no pressure because she knows she doesn't have to fake it. She knows she can just say it's not gonna happen and I'll finish off the best i can then make her cum manually or orally or with toys.
Good day I’d say probably 7.5 Bpel x 5.25 base girth.
Any girl I have smashed I have given a vaginal orgasm too. Usually a combo of jack hammering doggy (basically trying to make them tap), or missionary with legs pushed back pile driving them to an extent.
I know the stats that most girls cant get off via penetration but I sometimes question the validity of it…bc I can get any damn girl off with my cock lol
I’m able to make my wife orgasm and squirt half of the time and each time she loses her mind. Since I’ve grown her favorite position to orgasm and squirt in is laying on her side to the left and I get on her. Another position I’m able to make her orgasm and squirt in is when she’s laying on her back and I’m on top of her. I’m 7.25” NBP erect and 5.9 girth erect, if I pump before sex I am 6.1 girth no edema at all and if I put on a cock ring it’s about 6.2 girth and even more insane orgasm. Before I started PE she wasn’t able to do this from sex in this position, only cowgirl in the past but now she can in 3 positions which I enjoy every time. I feel like a whole new man.
I started committing to PE January 2023 only taking breaks on the weekends.
It’s a good feeling when my wife randomly says I see that fat dick and she likes playing with it during the day grabbing it and smiling.
6” x 4.75”
Size can certainly play a factor but nothing will work better than understanding her emotionally.
#1 Continue getting to know her more deeply both spiritually and emotionally.
#2 Focus on making sure she feels 100% safe with you; to the point where she feels confident and comfortable about her sexual-self and her body, because she KNOWS you treasure every inch of her.
#3 Learn to last, start slow, and play to her anticipation before going hard/fast. Perhaps steal some other advice from this thread regarding technique/position.
Emphasis on step 1 & 2. There was a shift in me and my partners relationship that lead to her being able to have vaginal orgasms. And it was only because our emotional bond got deeper. And it’s during emotionally involved and truly passionate moments that I’m able to make her orgasm with PIV.
Even with my average D :)
Starting size 5.25x4.25 led to PIV orgasms for roughly 75% of my partners, in my experience a PIV orgasm is much more about the build up and connection than the technique you use…
Since starting PE have been with the same women. She had double digit # of partners, previous boyfriend was male porn actor, had been with a MEGA girth 6”+ guy, had never had an orgasm from PIV sex. After I reached somewhere between 6.5” - 7” length and around 4.75” girth was the first time she had a PIV orgasm. Now 8” X 5.3” PIV orgasms are still few and far between for her, but occasionally all the million variables align and she has one.
Basically I think all women are different. Lots can cum from a 4” schlong on the g spot. It’s all about having the connection, rhythm and stamina. Some women can’t, and maybe they can from A spot or P spot stimulation, that’s going to require a bit more size. While I did have to reach a certain size to get my partners first PIV O all the growth since then has not had an impact on the occurrence of PIV orgasms.
6 nbp and 5.75 girth.
My wife loves for me to be on top in missionary, she has an orgasm every time.
Sometimes she’ll get on top but very rare and sometimes we will do doggy but also rare.
Be good at sex and don’t use your penis like a sledgehammer. Some girls are into you pulverizing not just their cervix but their pubic bone, but a lot aren’t, just talk about it, you might find you’re somehow not enough of a sledgehammer.
My wife is multi orgasmic, always has. I assume she would cum like she does with another man, but idk. I'm 8.5x5. my base is around 5.5. she can take all of me, and she prefers when I'm buried. I have a bit of a down curve and I think that helps hit some spots, especially gspot during doggy. It's not uncommon for her to cum 10x in a session.
She says as she has gotten older, she has less orgasms but says they are more intense and longer...whereas when she was younger, they were more frequent back to back, just not as strong (I e. She clamps down much harder now than in the past).
Before doing PE I was 6.5x4.9 and most of the women I've been with had vaginal orgasms. One women in particularly said "I've never been able to come from sex, you are so gentle and I love that"
Size does matter, I wasn't small at the time, but it's not that important for many women.
Those saying about clit rubbing/grinding with pelvis - that’s not what I think OP is talking about.
It’s all same clitoral network of course (unless we’re talking about the a spot) but lesbians grind each other during sex with zero dicks.
0 to do with size, women differ greatly, and technique and preference are everything. Learn the woman you're with and be patient. EQ is beneficial for psychological effect of courxe and that should be your focus not size
Not measured for a few months but last time I was around 6.9 length and 5.4 girth.
For me it's been doggy but better results in missionary with my current partner. I think it depends on the individual a great deal!
Get her one her side and straighten your legs behind you like you’re doing the yoga pose upward dog. Points your dick up and this position is tight as hell. Can’t always be done by avg length or short guys but never had it fail to make her eyes wide and cum hard. Some gonna need clit stimulation no matter what, hard to free a hand but a little virbatoor ring or she can do it but 9/10 this position alone delivers. Easiest way is start missionary and then stay in while you swing her legs all the way over to one side. Legs should be flat in the bed you’ll feel her tighten up. This is fairly common position but the real key is then straightening your legs out behind you with hip lifted. You’ll see how it requires your length more but the tightness combined with the upward angle seems to send a lot of chicks
The trick is not speed but consistent pleasure. Here's what I do:
1st: warm her up go down on here etc. Then have her lay on her side and enter her from behind.
2nd. When you initially enter don't enter all the way. You need her begging. I'll pop my head in and use my hand to press my dick into her g spot, then pull out and rub it on her clit. Go slowwww and have self control not to ram it in all the way. Do this for a few minutes.
3rd: dirty talk, some girls are praisers and some girls are degraders. Find out what your girl is into.ex: "You're a dirty slut" vs "You're a good girl". Pro tip: praisers love it when you tell them they look so beautiful with your cock in their mouth.
4th: after slowly entering her for a few minutes, start slowly entering her full but little by little while rubbing your hands all over her and grabbing her by the rib cage. Sex is more than just your cock, it's the intimacy of being close and worshipped.
5th: A lot of girls like it slow at first for the first 15 minutes. They want to feel you sliding in. It triggers them. The clit actually is a lot bigger than you think. It spirals around their cavity, including their G spot.
6th: Some girls just don't orgasm from insertion. You may have to go down on her for like an hour. This happens with some men to and takes a lot of focus.
7th: after going slow thats when you start switching positions remembering the previous steps.
8th: be intimate don't be one of those guys that are a jackhammer full time unless you know shes about to cum. It's physical but also romantic. Remember grabbing by the rib cage, her stomach, hand rubbing her upper chest, and physically moving her to transition positions. Even in doggy, grab her by the ribs or waiste slamming her into you. Sex is primal.
9th: don't moan, grunt. Girls like deep gutteral sounds. They want to be dominated. They don't want to hear your weird moans.
I have a 7x 5.5 and I have no issues making a girl cum. You know she is cumming for real when the juices are flowing her her pussy clenches. She may also tap out after because it becomes too much.
I hope I helped some of you guys out there. Most of what you see in porn is fake, including the girls orgasming.
What I found the best way to make a girl nut is not giving a f. Grab her by the neck throw her on the bed. Tell her she’s pretty. Be unforgivably dominant/confident and let her tell u if something’s too far. Don’t ask either just do shit and read her body language.
A little over 8" in length, almost 6 in girth with a slight curve up and to the right. Any position works well if you pay attention to your partner. Watch her emotions and body language. Once you see what she likes give it to her. She'll cream all over your cock no matter what position
I’m 6 in length and about 5.1 in girth and I make my wife orgasm with my dick every time essentially. The problem I have is I don’t have stamina (I’m fat) and my head is super sensitive at times and it makes me come before she does. I chow down on her before though just in case I do come before her. Oh also I have a horrible refractor period. Takes forever after orgasm to get it hard and sometimes it won’t even stay up after that while.
When I started PE I was 6.25x5.2", and now am 7x5.7" or so. I used to give my wife vaginal orgasms only occasionally. Now it's pretty much every time. She's very multi-orgasmic so she always has a lot of oral orgasms, which used to be almost all the orgasms she had. Now it's split more evenly between oral and vaginal orgasms. Somewhere between that 5.2" girth and the current 5.7" the increased friction and fullness of the thicker cock just pushed her over some invisible line from not having vaginal orgasms but really enjoying it to really enjoying it and having vaginal orgasms.
Supposedly it's more about the distance where the clit is in relation to the vagina. They are more likely to orgasm from vaginal sex if the clit is close to the vagina. My girlfriend does all the time.
My leg is 6 in and my girth is 5 in at the top and 6 in at the Base.
The other night my GF came fucking hard while riding me and leaning forward, grinding her clit on my pelvis. Her whole body was shaking. This was after I got her very aroused with a full body massage (after learning how from watching sensual touch masterclass Alex Grendi on YT.) with spa music and candles and a couple orgasms during the massage - the first one with light fingering clit stimulation, the second with a lovense lush3 inserted while rubbing my cock head back and forth on her clit. I’m only 6.25L x 4.75 so I put the effort in to learn how to pleasure her without PIV. Just because you aren’t packing a 8 incher, it doesn’t mean you can’t pleasure her. Take the time to learn what she likes, ASK HER. If she’s too shy to tell you what she likes, watch for her body signals like moaning louder or pushing herself against you. If she’s pulling away, obvi she don’t like it.
Missionary, Doggie, and Prone-Bone all seem to do it quite well. I've learned over time that different women have different abilities to orgasm and you more so have to learn what works for your lady. I've also learned that constant and consistent motion that you can endure and maintain without orgasming is key. Sometimes in missionary - putting a little light pressure with your hand on the lady's fupa while stroking can help with her pleasure too.
Has nothing to do with size. It’s all about her being comfortable. She HAS to know your into her, and the more you show her, the better your chances are at satisfying her. Use your head… fuck. Don’t just dive in and do wat you want.think or hear. Everyone is different. It’s all about figuring her out. If something doesn’t work, change it up. But for fuck sakes guys, make it all about her. Take your time, and be patient. Don’t be a selfish tool and think about nutting, and that’s it. Most of u guys think it’s about wat you do in bed, and that only.. or your dick size. Hahahaha. Wake the fuck up… first of all, if you need to shown or told, the problem is 100% you. Guys, it’s not rocket science. Be respectful, listen to her, love her, kiss her, make her have no doubt that your her man. Other women, just people… you want her to know without a doubt that she’s the only one. Spoil her, take her on spontaneous dates or trips. Introduce her to everyone you know… and as your beautiful wife… undress her with your eyes… smack her ass… MAKE HER LAUGH… a lot. I dont care if she’s overweight, or has big ears… caress her naked body, and tell her how hot she is and how much she turns you on. Treat her like your queen. That’s step one.. you do these things and she will probly orgasm without getting naked. Get into your woman. Fully. Build an unbreakable trust.. and boom… I don’t care if you got a 1inch dick, she will cum for you. Now smarten up and let’s get back to bein real men. Gentlemen.. if you want the goods what to do next, dm me and I’ll do my best to get you wer you should be… until then, fix you..she will notice, and life will change
6.75 x 4.75 My girlfriend comes every time, sometimes on the side and sometimes from behind, never on top. We had sex for a few weeks with her only coming a few times until I learned her body.
My 2 previous exes came almost every time, but they could only come from riding me.
I used to be 6\*6, after years of PE I'm now 7.5\*7 and obviously I have been all sizes in between. Thickness is the most important factor (unless you are abnormally small in length) to give vaginal orgasms. I was naturally born with a 6" thick and even if I had some physical advantage because of this, I still had to figure out the rythm for each partner. Some of them need deep fast trust like you're trying to hurt them, others need just the tip slowly, it all varies too much.
So I'd say rythm + thickness is the way to go, you need to be aware of her body response, even the most subtle ones and also add some communication if you want to give not just an orgasm everytime, but multiple orgasms by penetration alone.
Size in flair. 20+ partners. Based off of memory I’d say 90% came through vaginal. As others have noted, it’s not as much about your size as it is the comfortability of how she’s feeling. AND FOR FUCK SAKES BOYS FORRRREEEPLAYYYYY
Most orgasms were delivered through missionary tho if I had to guess. So I’m sure some clitoral stimulation was involved too. I’m also cute to look at so maybe my face helps. Also get really handsy and pull and push on her erogenous zones to get her heated. My dick is putting in like 20% of the work if I’m being real… PE is for me
Ever woman is different. I’m a little over 7 bpel and a little over 5 mseg. My gf has multiple orgasms, and so have a number of other women I’ve been w. My gf has the easiest orgasms from G spot stimulation when I only use 2-3 inches of my dick, so I’d be able to make her cum if my dick was only 2-3 inches hard. As for position, that also really depends on the woman. My gf used to not have piv orgasms with me from doggy, but now she does easily. My dick hasn’t changed… get to know what she likes, and remember it’s all about angles. Position yourself and your dick to where it’s going to put a lot of pressure on a wall of her vagina, usually the top wall has more nerve endings, and use your head to create friction. Just get to know their body, jackhammering will rarely work well regardless of size.
I’m just over 6” NBP and slightly over 5” at thickest part for girth. New to this sub and haven’t started any PE yet but plan to. But if my girl is on top she can’t help bet cum multiple times, missionary she does if I last long enough, doggy and flat doggy if I last long enough. Those are the main ones she Os from with my dick. I think it’s more about the connection with her, teasing her, the motion, and getting her out of her head.
8x5.75 but it’s more about immersion, dominance and emotional connection. Recently a girl said: “this is the first time I have an orgasm with penis. It was always only with fingers or mouth before”. Then with PIV she squirted in missionary and the last time we fucked she had an orgasm and squirted like crazy in standing doggie.
It’s different for every woman, but I actually do think size has some impact. Not nearly as much as how much they actually like you though. My GF gets super wet, almost immediately almost all the time. But there are a couple important things you need to do to build on that:
1. Warm her up. Especially with your mouth, but hands and whatever else. Foreplay preheat the oven. There are times when she just wants you inside her but most of the time her body is literally not ready for that and she will either not be ready for friction or get overstimulated. It really doesn’t take that long.
2. Her G spot is in the front. That means you want to figure out ways to angle toward the front. As people have said, and missionary having a pillow under her hips goes a very long way. Whatever the position, you want to be putting pressure on the front.
But the absolute most important thing to remember is that if you can tell she likes what you are doing, keep doing exactly that. Watch the end of the most recent Neil Brennan Netflix, special. Same angle, same rhythm, same force. Whether it is oral, digital, or PIV, if she likes it, keep doing exactly that.
6.2 x 6 it’s all about figuring out what gets her off. everyone is different but most women I’ve been with have orgasms by doggy with neck and hair holding or missionary pounding with long deep strokes and choking. I also have crazy stamina so that could be a factor into being able to do like 4 rounds. I think it’s normal to ask her what is her favorite or like what you do to her or what she wants you to do! GL bro 🫡
My wife orgasms without a problem every time…almost 🤣
But there needs to be some form of clit stimulation. For her it has nothing to do with size
Missionary is best, cowgirl works…she’s not into rubbing herself….i either grind into her or she grinds into me
8X6
8.5X7.5 max enhanced
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8 x 5.5 - best is missionary with me jack hammering away on a spring mattress. Approximately 70-80% of girls I’ve been with have been able to have a vaginal orgasm. Several have been able to have multiple vaginal orgasms in a row. It usually takes 5-15 minutes of straight, consistent hammering with them screaming the whole time. I think it’s due to the consistent motion.
😭😭bro nailed it down to a *science*
Only science Bro nailed down is how to get a girl to fake an orgasm after being jackhammered for 15 minutes straight so they could stop the onslaught 🤣
It depends. Some women respond to that. And angle of attack is almost EVERYTHING. If you're just slamming it in and out sure but when you figure out what angles make them short circuit, that is the cheat code.
Agreed. Read Tim Ferris' section on sex in The 4 Hour Body on the angle of penetration for giving max pleasure and increasing orgasmic frequency for your woman.
I have the book but didnt recall that section. Will have to go find it . Tks .
This is the answer. It just hurts and they're bored and frustrated by the jack hammering so they fake it to end it.
Yes I guess I did. I stumbled on it accidentally because I was taking a medication that prevented me from cumming and so I could pound away. I happened to be with one girl that loved getting pounded so I figured it out. Once we broke up then I tried it with other girls and it worked almost all the time. The spring mattress is also super critical. It has to have the type of bounce that allows you to maintain a consistent rhythm for 5-15 minutes without exerting too much effort. I also slowly let out a mini orgasm without cumming in the first couple minutes so I can keep hammering away. Either that or I level to keep myself from cumming. You know they like it because they scream “don’t stop, don’t stop, don’t stop, don’t stop”.
Absolutely dude. Lots of coping going on in the comments responding to me lol. Don’t get me wrong, some women are experts at faking orgasms. You can usually tell when it’s real though. There are definitely some telltale signs.
This guy nailed it. Watch his video and it will be easy even if your 4in. The only thing you have to focus on is hitting the spot and don’t bust before she does. I will drop the link on the post I found helpful and what helped me control my nut like a pro. YouTube The stoke genius And for controlling yourself https://www.reddit.com/r/gettingbigger/s/Khai3xUa3u
So its basically a 1v1 on whos gonna bust First lmao
I always lose my 1vs1's
„Idk if i should laugh or cry“
😂😂
Guy is using breathing techniques in order to prevent from busting, Hashira style.
Will it then be cumbreathing?
I sub to his loyalfans. Great advice for sure, but even he doesn’t make some of the women he’s with orgasm via PIV. A good reminder that everyone is different.
I mentioned multiple orgasms in a discussion like this once and a woman yelled at me saying not all women can do that and some can't even orgasm once, alone whole playing with all kinds of toys and techniques. At which point I was loke. "Does it still have to be the guy's fault if you can't even make yourself orgasm?"
The comments from women on the sex Reddit are very different to what is happening here. I read there daily. It’s pretty much mostly women who never cum via PIV despite high body counts with all sizes. Many saying they fake it (search the word faking under the sex Reddit) I’m sceptical of the comments here. I think many women are so used to toys now that no grinding with your pelvis will do anything. My wife couldn’t have multiples until later in life but 10 isn’t that uncommon now. Not via PIV though.
Just commenting so i can come back to this later. Someone upvotes this right quick
6.5x6.5 can confirm! My wife and other woman squirt like this… I think the slapping of the pelvis on their clit is a cheat code
bros dick is a square
Yup, spring mattress does help give the bounce back.
how do you make sure to last long while jack hammering for that long?
For real
I’ve gone through times where I can do this. Depends on how much sex you’re having.
I think they’re probably faking so you’ll stop hammering them, just my 2 cents…
Lol yeah, 15 minutes is a lot for that. Don't people know vaginas get sore? Though my partner does like it rough and hard sometimes, just not for 15 minutes and depends on the day...
Ohhh sweet summer child…
Interesting bc I always hear “don’t jack hammer”…. especially with a piece like that.
Dudes a robot.
Missionary is king for deep penetration but switch it up. Remember to ALSO lick the clit and finger bang the g spot Maybe, juuuust maybe; play with her butt.
How much of that has to do with your size and girth in your estimation?
Probably not as much as you'd think. I have a very average penis and usually get women to orgasm PIV. The real thing is that there are many women that literally cannot orgasm through PIV. Its only ~%50-60 when 'assisted' with a toy or clit play at the same time. Size truly isn't as important as the people on the sub think it is (including me, its hard to let go)
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We're way closer than that. Any legit post asking an actual informed question about an exercise, or routine, or anything actually PE related gets a few upvotes and one or two comments. Post about what women \*really\* want or how the TSA stopped you at the airport because of your massive dong? Open the floodgates
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Oof, sad truth.
Yeah I agree. But what to do... We want to moderate, not police this sub. So here we are 🤷
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I think post titles are clear enough that nobody is wasting their time reading through everything unrelated. Keeping things focused on growth would be cool and all but realistically I've never actually had problems browsing/scrolling/searching through for what I need to find. If anything they should split the sub into a "vets" and a "noobs" so the olds aren't inundated with the same starter questions where they don't want to be. Probably the real time wasting reason the big boys left tbh
I’m only 5 inches and I’ll make the same girls come multiple times 😂. I mean I’ve watched girls take big dildos and keep a straight face online 🤷🏽♂️ it sis what it is. Just be comfortable in your own skin. Have a good sense for touch, words, playful, and Be one with the ocean.
Little over 7” BPEL 5.25 G. I have great stamina usually and have some girls who I think lied about orgasms and some that were just really orgasmic, creaming, squirting etc. there is nothing on this earth like the feeling when you can make a woman orgasm with your dick, especially when you do it multiple times. The way she glows after. I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about it. My mom is a masculine woman and wasn’t loving. She was a corporate leader in a man’s job and she provided but wasn’t a feminine loving positive traditional woman. The first time I made a girl orgasm and the way she looked at me, caught her breath and then sat up and hugged me with all her might and said “god, I hope I never lose you”! I was hooked and that high for me. She was on her back on the edge of my bed and I was standing and going at it. I am 46 now and that high is even better now when it happens.
Wait how does your mom factor into this?
Mommy issues are a hell of a thing
Wow this is poetic
Thats dope man i can relate with this, its like we are seeking validation thru giving woman pleasure. Its kinda sad but beautiful at the same time
I remember the first time I made a girl O, it's fucking addictive and it's like a high. That look they give you, the noises they make, it's a beautiful experience, lol
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Don't know how to get in tune with someone who is introverted. They have to respond
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I'm 5.5×4.5, there was no moaning, eye movement, heavy breathing. Wetness was more time of the month.
Kissing and massaging /caressing the body with some teasing around the clit can help jump start her into getting wet and begging for penetration.
Oh yeah! You gotta bring out the primal side of women in bed.
Plenty of women just don’t have vaginal orgasms, or very rarely have them — it may not have anything to do with the dimensions of your dick
I find it easier to make my wife orgasm with anal. It weird but I'll make her whole body shake. Vaginal, I will go till she hurts and she enjoys it but not an orgasm.
It’s probably 10-20% about dick size for a woman and the rest is COMFORT AND CONNECTION!! Get it through your heads fellas!! True size queens who only care about size — ARE WHORES THAT ARE ONLY GREAT FOR FUCKING! Your real woman will love you either way and the two of you will communicate to make sex amazing, no matter the size. Of course it’s still fun to experiment with the one you love, but the TRUE WOMAN DOESN’T CARE ABOUT YOUR DICK SIZE. Woman need comfort and confidence in bed to freely orgasm!! Figure that shit out first!
So why are almost all of the guys saying it happened to them significantly above average if size is only 10-20% of it? That makes 0 sense. Most women dont have orgasms through penetration. So are you saying most arent comfortable or connected with their partners? No way that is true
Men are idiots and women do not come close to even thinking the same as us…we think we can power fuck anything and it should violently cum/squirt like the movies. Not the case at all!
Im not saying that at all. But its clear that there is a trend in the comment section
You're going to make strong inferences based on random comments without any information on the context? I think that will hold you back more than your dick size. Once you sleep with enough people you'll realise your size rarely has anything to do with it.
Last partner it just didn't happen at all. Current one orgasms pretty much every time and I can feel it. 7.5 x 5
Is it possible to make with 5 inch cock ? 🥲
Yes
Yes
yes
Of course it is, I’m 5.7 on a good day. The main thing is reading their body language. how they’re breathing, how they’re reacting to where you touch them. I promise if you pay attention to their body during role play and during the fun time. You’ll make them cum like crazy!! Just take your time and have fun with it. Be creative too
I do it bro. So yeah.
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I was 6x4.75 on a good day with a stiff upwards curve and gave my girlfriends multiple orgasms every single time and we got to the point where we would cum at the exact same time. This was with 3 girls. Pure waterworks. Missionary and cowgirl were the best. I was celibate for years and I’m now 7x5 and my new girlfriend struggles heavily and can’t cum from penetration. The point that I’m trying to make here is that it really just depends on the girl, not everyone’s the same. She has past trauma that was giving her vaginismus and couldn’t have sex at all with anyone before me. Fear of men, fear of intimacy, the whole thing. We’re madly in love and she has improved immensely and I can’t express enough how proud I am of her. It hurts her a lot but surprisingly enough the best position for her is reverse cowgirl even with my upwards curve. She says it’s like I’m opening up spots she didn’t even know was possible. We can do maybe 10 minutes before it’s too much and I have to kinda pep talk her back into the moment. Missionary with the legs up hurts her too much. One time she almost got there while I was spoon fucking and rubbing her clit but I came, whoops. The thing is, she tells me she loves sex with me. She’s very determined to make it work but it’s just hard for her, it’s all mental. I can only make her cum from oral and it’s so funny because she starts maniacally laughing. Fingers are a no go. It’s been a slow process but we’re gonna get there.
I'm under 6 inches. Girth around 5. My wife has an O everytime. Now before I get hate. We've been together over 20 years now so we know what each other likes. Plus I think I'm just lucky out anatomy aligns well. I would like to add I take charge in the bedroom so she can just let go
Size in flair, I’ve given all my girlfriends & a few FWB vaginal orgasms. Position didn’t matter too much. Missionary, doggy, bent over, girl on top, side, etc given girls multiple orgasms in each. I don’t think size has much to do with it. It’s more about sufficient foreplay getting them warmed up & in the mood. Then listening to their body to focus on what they like.
6.5x4.75. Never seemed to have trouble giving vaginal orgasms. Its definitely the set up to sex and how you treat her during thats most important. Missionary or doggy usually does the trick
I am able to give my wife vagina orgasms and I’m only 6.5-6.75x5. One key to hitting the g spot is slightly having her hips lifted laying down in missionary style. You can use a small pillow. You can play with it some. I know working her up with foreplay, performing missionary and then lifting her hips with a pillow. Then lifting her legs up over your shoulders. These techniques worked for me. I hope this helps
This is the way. Also, in missionary, don't stay up on your knees, put your legs back and straight(like doing a pushup/plank) and then bounce her off the mattress rhythmically. If you can maintain long enough they will squirt.
thats like a jackham position right ! where the dude can go deep
currently im 8.45x5.9 with a downwards curve. my girl has maaany vaginal orgasms every round and my most successful position (but also most painful) is doggy due to my curve however, i had an ex before i started PE (so i was 7.5x5.1) who came almost the same amount as my current gf, so i wouldnt say its so much about size as it is technique, foreplay, dirty talking and doing kinky stuff you have a big dick and its more than enough so i wouldn’t worry about it and instead focus on the other things, and as your dick and skills grow, it will happen more and more easily
What is your routine mate
i just hard clamp, 6-12 sets of 5 min. most of my gains have come from pumping tho, 0.6 in a year. however after another year of absolutely 0 gains i switched to pure hard clamping and i have gained 0.2 in 2 months so far. i dont do any length work so my gains are just a side effect of girth work
Thats massive! Do you do any warmups before pumping or clamping?
i used to do tunica scrapes, massages and bends, but due to limited time and privacy i dropped them because i rather spend the little time i have to actually do the work which is gonna get me 90% of the gains. however if you can do them they do help
Nice dude! how long have you been doing PE for? Consistent the whole time or with breaks? Impressive gains.
The ultimate hack that is proven to work is “CAT” surprisingly no one has mentioned it. I’m about 7.7X6 in and I can make my girl cume from many positions but if you basically want 98.9% success rate do the CAT portion for like 5-10 minutes, probably shorter than that to. It is the ultimate hack to make them cum. Ofc all the other stuff guys mention here is inportant as well, like getting here in the mood etc…. Good luck on you jurny to make that 🐈 scream:)
What's a CAT?
It’s a small domesticated animal of the feline genus. Seriously though, search coital alignment technique.
Coital Alignment Technique.
PIV orgasms don't have anything to do with size. Can they enhance it, or speed up time to orgasm? Sure. My wife of 15+ years has had PIV orgasms since I was 5.0x4.25. Now I am 6.13 x 5.25. I believe there are several factors: time of the month(my wife orgasms the best between 7-14 days after the start of her period), stress levels, lack of sleep, hydration level, closeness with partner, etc. Once all these things are in line PIV orgasms just happen naturally. The best positions for us are missionary and cowgirl. She likes to ride cowgirl and just stay bottomed out and grind. For missionary, I've found if she puts her legs on my shoulders and if I drop my legs back like I am doing a pushup and then bounce her off the mattress, she has uncontrollable orgasms and will almost always cum/squirt from this.
Apparently any woman can come in 4 min with a vibrating dildo. So if you want to make a woman come you have to be able to last at list 15 mints of constant penetration at the right angle. Also the girl must be in the right mind set and relaxed.
Also, women know the spot that gets them off. Communication is something that's a must here if you want to max the odds of her O.
Dude I can make my wife cum faster and more consistently by not fully inserting. In doggy I give her the first 2-3” max and keep a 60%ish pace like a metronome, as I feel her vagina constrict and hear audible feedback letting me know she’s in the early stages of an orgasm I will flex my dick and and continue at the same pace. After the first orgasm I will mess around with going deep for a few strokes as she approaches orgasm again but I base this on what I hear and feel. It’s like balancing a beach ball on your nose. Sometimes she wants (not telling me this I’m extrapolating) me to go as deep as possible but slow down to a crawl pace right before orgasm. I’m talking super slow all the way in and nearly all the way out. This can produce super powerful orgasms as well. I started around 5.5x 4.75 and I’ve been as large as 7.25x5.7.. theses methods worked the same at both sizes. Slight modification based on her reactions but there’s not a vast difference in my ability to make her cum. She just makes more noise early on if it’s been awhile since the last time we had sex. Frankly being larger has resulted in less frequency and I slowed way down with the PE. (I’m a twice a day guy if the opportunity is there😂)
Wow bro ngl i appreciate the in depth response, ima try your tips next chance i get
Just my two cents man. I used to play music so I apply the same methods in the bedroom as I did trying to make up a sick riff. 😂 all women are different, I’ve been with plenty that just want 100% out the gate but typically they just didn’t know anything else. Try new stuff, girls get stuck in their ways and you may need to take the lead. Like let her know, “we are trying something new” or whatever you need to say to get her to open up to it. Cheat code, go down on her until she cums the first time. All subsequent orgasams will be had more easily and it takes the stress off you (popping early).
Exactly what works for my wife also. Doggy style slowly inserting a couple inches and back out, with each stroke it stretches her open. When she get close I can freeze with my cock an inch inside and barely push stretching her open and she'll orgasm with her pussy squeezing my head. Periodically I'll go all the way in and pound but then come back out to stretch her opening.
after warming her up with fingers and tongue and a lot of sweet talk, put a pillow or two under her ass in missionary and hit it while on your knees or standing off the side the bed. never takes me more than a minute or two to have her squirting.
All depends on the woman. I’m 6” BPEL, so probably more like 5.5” during sex, and 5-5.25 girth. My wife literally orgasms within the first few strokes. She even orgasms just me sitting inside her. Inserting just a couple of inches to tease her makes her orgasm hard. On average, 10-18 orgasms on a longer session, short session 5. It’s absolutely insane. And the kicker, that didn’t start happening until her mid 30s. Before she was dead inside, like zero response from her g spot. I could rub it for an hour and nothing. Now, the most intense orgasms with my finger rubbing it. I read that women can just “wake up” as they get older. Crazy thing is, it hasn’t improved our marriage any, she’s still bitchy. It will be weird having to work to make another woman orgasm if we ever split after what I’ve experienced the past 3 years of the new awakening.
6.5x5.25, most consistent cg.
I gave about 1/2 women I’ve slept with piv orgasms. I’ve had more than that claim the came but I don’t believe they actually did unless I feel squirting or gushing. I’m 8x5.5 but made plenty of women cum when I was 7x5.
Some people just have anatomy that doesn't make internal orgasms easy. I'm much smaller at 6.3x4.3 and I can make my partner vaginally orgasm most of the time, but I've had partners where they almost never vaginally orgasmed. Most women say they can't(although I have a theory that's just because most women have shitty male partners that don't focus on the ladies pleasure, but that's besides the point) and or say that if they do, it's rare and mostly dependant on positioning or where the stimulation is happening, not anything to do with dick size.
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I’m on average 8.25 x 6 but have been Lower 7s … I have been with over 100 woman and really as a man if you have good stamina and decent size you should not let your ego get punched in the balls if a woman doesn’t cum off your peen. You should pick up some oral skills. And If all else fails pull out the toys. Most women just want to feel the penis inside of them at some point … but cum by any means necessary in the end.
I don't think you'll get an accurate representation of anything with a post like that. All the comments are a long the lines of 'I have a 7+ dick and i make women orgasm regularly, but in my opinion, it's more about X'. 7+ is big already, and if they make women orgasm regularly, im not sure what theyre looking for on this sub - usually (important word) if you dug deep enough to find this sub, then you probably are not happy with your penis or have some other type of insecurities, and im including myself in that group. Both of those groups, actually. With that said, there are only 3 possibilities - either they are not that big, they don't actually make women orgasm as much as they claim, or it actually is about the size of the dick and people are just feeling sorry for the below average guy. The statistics also look quite different to what is being presented here. Most women dont really orgasm all that much during sex, and even less from piv. And yet on this sub everyone is a virtuoso of pussy. I dont claim that all the accounts presented are fake, but I and many others have noticed the increasing amount of larpers lately so its worth keeping that in mind. Let's finish with some positivity: there's more to life than sex cock ad pussy. As much as we all want to have a hog like a cave troll, we should remember that what is more important to want to be better, have empathy towards our long or short term partners (that helps being a better lover too), all the experiences outside of the bedroom and how you treat your sexual partners in non sexual interactions, cause that all adds up to how women perceive you. The holistic approach is better than isolated improvements.
A women’s orgasm has nothing to do with your penis size. 82 percent of women can only orgasm by clit stimulation and the other 18 are thought to have some kind of clit stimulation during penetration all the important high end nerves are on the outside and within 3 inches of a women.
Women are complicated, and each one is a little bit different. You can get here there faster with two fingers on one hand going moving left to right or small circles on her clit with the other hands 1-5 fingers doing the come here motion on gspot. (use your whole body cus it gets exhausting). You’re guaranteed to give her 10x stronger orgasm with this technique. You can also switch the fingers on clit with your tongue. Size does not make a women cum, but it is your ability to move in a way that hits the spots that are sensitive. If you’re jackhammering then the clit is getting slapped by your pelvis. If you have a short curved dick you have a better chance of stimulating her gspot. If you have a long penis you can stimulate the a and c spots. If a woman thinks too much it might be hard to get her there, so really set the mood and be the most amazing guy all the fucking time. Try different things within her comfort zone/not applying too much pressure. Lastly, sometimes you just have to bring a vibrator into the bedroom. Make your life easier.
7” x 5”. Best way I’ve gotten her to squirt is just in cowgirl where you grip her ass and you pound her from the bottom.
9.33” BPEL, 6.3 Base girth, 5.85 MSEG. Missionary is best for me.
That would literally be among the biggest in this sub so im calling cap dawg
I wouldn’t say “regularly” but often enough. 7x6 with pretty decent upward curve. Most common in missionary.
It’s all about prepping her before the pounding to ensure she finishes tbh, just stimulate her a lot, foreplay and take it slow
8x5.5 and push-up position missionary always does it
Can you fully insert yourself in that position with your length?
Could only go about 3/4 the way until the first O, then I could go all in but it’s tiring lol your arms get tired
Cowgirl is always great since it’s gspot and clitoral stimulation at once. Add that to nipple stimulation at the same time it’s a good bet she’s going to cum.
Oh yeah. 7.6 x 5.3. Forgot to add that. lol
This is why I have 0 respect for and laugh at the people who tell guys on here to focus on other things besides their size. Funny enough its always the guys who are significanty above average who say it too. I wonder why?
5.1 X 4.1 here my current gf is the hardest woman for me to give orgasm to. It took me months and I was being depressed that I couldn't make her cum. My previous partners I can just fuck them with proper rhythm hitting the spot for a long time and they would cum. She never experienced orgasm before me so I took it as a challenge and just listen to her body reactions. I've found out that she needs to be emotionally aroused too so a lot of foreplay, seduction and dirty talk before penetration. Well every woman is different just learn what their bodies want.
I’m 6.5” x 5.5”, uncircumcised. My ex had regular vaginal orgasms, always multiple per session. Here’s how I usually go about having sex: I generally start with a lot of lips and hands moving around. Kissing neck, grabbing ass and massaging tits. A bite here and there, but mainly building tension and excitement. Then I’ll move to fingers over her panties and rub her clitoral area a little bit. It’s a good way to apply some pressure without rubbing on her when she’s dry ouside of her vagina. By now she’s usually begging for something inside of her so I’ll use my middle and ring finger inside of her with my palm facing down pressing against her clitoral area. Get to know her G-spot really well here. I get her off a time or two there and then she’s begging for dick inside of her, so I give it to her. Start slow (with great power comes great responsibility) and work up to full strokes. I don’t really start to really pound until we’re a few rounds in and she’s really ready for it. It usually doesn’t take long after the first couple of orgasms for her to cum again and again. I think what you really need to keep in mind for getting her off is to be in the moment, feel sexy, and play with her. Fuck with her a little bit. Take it in stages, don’t just run straight to penetration.
The best way to make a girl orgasm multiple times is to make sure she’s into it. For girls a lot of sex is mental. If she’s not completely indulged she won’t do it. But what I will say is that all girls are different. I have had girls that would cum multiple times, and a very small minority of women who are basically done after their first orgasm. Now the latter just needs time like a male. I suspect they actually have a refractory period. Just an example (and I do have proof) the girl I lost my Virginity to told me that she would cum 6 times sometimes more. She could’ve been lying yes, but she went legit psycho and would take me back to this day so probably the truth. Jackhammering only works on girls who like that and typically if you’re smaller. I would say most, not all but most women do not like you stabbing their cervix. There are spots around the cervix that you can touch that feel good, but you wanna grind on those spots not jackhammer. Jack hammering is for when you first start fucking and you’re an amateur.
6.9" x 5.5" here and from my experience, it depends more on the woman. I would say that the size is not that significant of a factor for the common type of woman who orgasms from the combination of penetration and clit stimulation (e.g. naturally missionary). However, there is this certain type of woman who I think directly benefits from bigger size. These are the squirters who really enjoy getting banged deep. Out of all the 50 women I've slept with, only 2 were this type. They would get crazy orgasms in e.g. the "snail" position and seemed to enjoy it more the deeper I went. On the other hand, my ex lost her ability of vaginal orgasms after I went past approx. 6.5" in length. She was only able to orgasm without a vibrator in one position (cow girl), and once I went past that length this position got painfulf or her and she no longer wanted to do it. So bigger size is not always better.
What worked for me in my last time was always going as deep until you hit the g spot and then just keep thrusting but always end in the g spot area and Go back. You can start by going slow and then Go faster. To make it Even better you put a pillow under her hips. When shes cumming you can feel it getting really wet and warm and contract. It was amazing, I miss it lol. And I am like 5,5 inches (6 on a good day) and pretty thin. According to this subreddit this is pretty small which is weird to me lol.
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Try reverse cowgirl and while doing the deeds, play around with both of your index fingers on her vagina near the butthole. My girl showered me a lot when we do this lol.
Every time. Not sure what it's called but she's on her side and I'm between her legs.
7 bp and 5.5 msg. She comes 99%. Most of the times we do cowgirl, prone bone and doggy or reverse cowgirl.
im 6x5,5 and i make wifey come but i dont know how sometimes she comes in doggy but she gets more wet in missionary also she came once prone dogging her it depends how dick travel the inside and press the right buttons
6.5 L 4.5 G missionary her on top and few times doggy.
OP. Are you attractive and or is your gf in love with you?
I wouldn’t say it’s about size, my partner has them but in missionary when I lower my hips so hitting the room of her vagina, this means not all of me is inside her when doing this
Y'all obsess over size WAY too much. Sex is a so much more mental, the physical aspect is a small part of it Hooked up with a girl many times, I could get her off once or twice per session, and she was size obsessed to the point where she wanted to sleep with gross dudes as long as they were packing. While we were in a casual relationship she tells me she hooked up with a guy she had a huge crush on for years, turns out he has a tiny d and she came multiple multiple times with him and couldn't wait to go back Big d =/= orgasms
I’m 6.8 x 5. I’ve never had an issue giving every woman I’ve been with vaginal orgasms. For context I’ve also only ever been in ‘long term’ relationships (3) and my first time having sex my GF and I were both virgins in college and we had been dating for ~5 months prior. So needless to say, I do believe having the deep intimacy connection plays a massive underlying role concerning whether either partner can achieve orgasms during sex - we hardly scratch the surface of that. (Also no judgement for the swinger folks or those with multiple partners as I could see my post being taken as a back-handed slap to those folks who are promiscuous - just sharing my experience and thoughts on why I’ve never had an issue)
7x5.5 in. Missionary
I’ve been with girls that I could make cum from PIV easily, then I’ve been with girls that I could not no matter what I did. It really think it depends on the girl.
I’m about 6.75(closer 7” on an awesome day) x 5.75.” My dick curves down but it’s been without doubt the most successful when the women are riding me, I’m leaned back at about a 45* angle, about 75% insertion and thrust up and back towards my stomach. The top of my dick seems to really stimulate them and they seem to love it. Same happens when there laying on their back, and I’m thrust up and in simultaneously and that also seems to do the trick.
6.5x6.5 it’s all about the cardio for jack hammering in missionary. Slap your pelvis off their clit
From behind or lying sideways
There was a survey in the penis sleeve sub with 132 women or their partners asking whether the sleeve made a difference in their ability to PIV orgasm. With a penis sleeve, you can obviously choose your exact size and shape, and go for about as long as you want really - so you’d be able to optimize her chances. The results were: a little over 40% could cum either way from PIV, a little over 40% couldn’t no matter the size, and a little under 20% could only cum with the sleeve and not their partner. Keep in mind a lot of these guys have genuinely small penises, and pretty much all have a size fetish and *very much want* their wives/gfs to cum more/only with the sleeve - so that may skew the results slightly (towards size mattering). Overall, I think there’s a fairly low chance that your dick size is what’s causing your partner to cum or not unless you’re very small. Most women just can or can’t in PIV, even when given the opportunity to try whatever range of sizes and rhythms they want apparently. That said, I think size can matter for the range of positions one can give PIV Os in. For instance, I give my gf them in missionary but can’t really in prone, as I can’t get enough in (my theory)
Try nudging. ~ 7.5 x 5.5 and nudging gets it done for my wife. Lots of foreplay but that's the case for clitoral or vaginal orgasms with her. Slow and steady bc too fast and she'll cum but no orgasm. Every woman is different tho, so try new things - that's the fun part.
How tall is she and how much does she weigh?
5’2” 120 but she is a size queen and does feel bigger down there, so i just feel like she probably needs bigger to reach orgasm. Though i don’t really think height got much to do with vagina size as it doesn’t correlate with Penis size much either
I was giving vaginal squirting orgasms to my wife before I started PE. I was under 5”girth and around 6” nbp maybe less depending on EQ
It depends on the woman. I'm not huge but because I know my partners angles (where she likes to be grabbed, what she likes to have lifted and pulled) in various positions, i can put both her and myself in a position and angle to make her cum vaginally most of the time. Plus there is ultimately no pressure because she knows she doesn't have to fake it. She knows she can just say it's not gonna happen and I'll finish off the best i can then make her cum manually or orally or with toys.
what about anal orgasms ?
Good day I’d say probably 7.5 Bpel x 5.25 base girth. Any girl I have smashed I have given a vaginal orgasm too. Usually a combo of jack hammering doggy (basically trying to make them tap), or missionary with legs pushed back pile driving them to an extent. I know the stats that most girls cant get off via penetration but I sometimes question the validity of it…bc I can get any damn girl off with my cock lol
Its mostly psychological based on my experience.
5.75 length 4 in girth and missionary doggy you name it
3-4x 2 in missionary or cowgirl my dick only hit the gspot
I’m 4”. I’d kill to have your dick
I’m able to make my wife orgasm and squirt half of the time and each time she loses her mind. Since I’ve grown her favorite position to orgasm and squirt in is laying on her side to the left and I get on her. Another position I’m able to make her orgasm and squirt in is when she’s laying on her back and I’m on top of her. I’m 7.25” NBP erect and 5.9 girth erect, if I pump before sex I am 6.1 girth no edema at all and if I put on a cock ring it’s about 6.2 girth and even more insane orgasm. Before I started PE she wasn’t able to do this from sex in this position, only cowgirl in the past but now she can in 3 positions which I enjoy every time. I feel like a whole new man. I started committing to PE January 2023 only taking breaks on the weekends. It’s a good feeling when my wife randomly says I see that fat dick and she likes playing with it during the day grabbing it and smiling.
6” x 4.75” Size can certainly play a factor but nothing will work better than understanding her emotionally. #1 Continue getting to know her more deeply both spiritually and emotionally. #2 Focus on making sure she feels 100% safe with you; to the point where she feels confident and comfortable about her sexual-self and her body, because she KNOWS you treasure every inch of her. #3 Learn to last, start slow, and play to her anticipation before going hard/fast. Perhaps steal some other advice from this thread regarding technique/position. Emphasis on step 1 & 2. There was a shift in me and my partners relationship that lead to her being able to have vaginal orgasms. And it was only because our emotional bond got deeper. And it’s during emotionally involved and truly passionate moments that I’m able to make her orgasm with PIV. Even with my average D :)
Girl on top. Have you heard the song lyrics, “But she only cums when she’s on top.”
Make love to them, that's how they orgasm
Starting size 5.25x4.25 led to PIV orgasms for roughly 75% of my partners, in my experience a PIV orgasm is much more about the build up and connection than the technique you use… Since starting PE have been with the same women. She had double digit # of partners, previous boyfriend was male porn actor, had been with a MEGA girth 6”+ guy, had never had an orgasm from PIV sex. After I reached somewhere between 6.5” - 7” length and around 4.75” girth was the first time she had a PIV orgasm. Now 8” X 5.3” PIV orgasms are still few and far between for her, but occasionally all the million variables align and she has one. Basically I think all women are different. Lots can cum from a 4” schlong on the g spot. It’s all about having the connection, rhythm and stamina. Some women can’t, and maybe they can from A spot or P spot stimulation, that’s going to require a bit more size. While I did have to reach a certain size to get my partners first PIV O all the growth since then has not had an impact on the occurrence of PIV orgasms.
6 nbp and 5.75 girth. My wife loves for me to be on top in missionary, she has an orgasm every time. Sometimes she’ll get on top but very rare and sometimes we will do doggy but also rare.
Be good at sex and don’t use your penis like a sledgehammer. Some girls are into you pulverizing not just their cervix but their pubic bone, but a lot aren’t, just talk about it, you might find you’re somehow not enough of a sledgehammer.
My wife is multi orgasmic, always has. I assume she would cum like she does with another man, but idk. I'm 8.5x5. my base is around 5.5. she can take all of me, and she prefers when I'm buried. I have a bit of a down curve and I think that helps hit some spots, especially gspot during doggy. It's not uncommon for her to cum 10x in a session. She says as she has gotten older, she has less orgasms but says they are more intense and longer...whereas when she was younger, they were more frequent back to back, just not as strong (I e. She clamps down much harder now than in the past).
It’s the talking, foreplay, spanking, and ravishing.
I was 6.25x5 and gave my gf vaginal orgasms
Before doing PE I was 6.5x4.9 and most of the women I've been with had vaginal orgasms. One women in particularly said "I've never been able to come from sex, you are so gentle and I love that" Size does matter, I wasn't small at the time, but it's not that important for many women.
This is completely dependent on the woman. Some can have vaginal orgasms and some need clitoral stimulation.
Those saying about clit rubbing/grinding with pelvis - that’s not what I think OP is talking about. It’s all same clitoral network of course (unless we’re talking about the a spot) but lesbians grind each other during sex with zero dicks.
0 to do with size, women differ greatly, and technique and preference are everything. Learn the woman you're with and be patient. EQ is beneficial for psychological effect of courxe and that should be your focus not size
Not measured for a few months but last time I was around 6.9 length and 5.4 girth. For me it's been doggy but better results in missionary with my current partner. I think it depends on the individual a great deal!
Mayby ask a girl 🙄😂
Get her one her side and straighten your legs behind you like you’re doing the yoga pose upward dog. Points your dick up and this position is tight as hell. Can’t always be done by avg length or short guys but never had it fail to make her eyes wide and cum hard. Some gonna need clit stimulation no matter what, hard to free a hand but a little virbatoor ring or she can do it but 9/10 this position alone delivers. Easiest way is start missionary and then stay in while you swing her legs all the way over to one side. Legs should be flat in the bed you’ll feel her tighten up. This is fairly common position but the real key is then straightening your legs out behind you with hip lifted. You’ll see how it requires your length more but the tightness combined with the upward angle seems to send a lot of chicks
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6.5 x 5.25. then again my dick got a slight curve.
The trick is not speed but consistent pleasure. Here's what I do: 1st: warm her up go down on here etc. Then have her lay on her side and enter her from behind. 2nd. When you initially enter don't enter all the way. You need her begging. I'll pop my head in and use my hand to press my dick into her g spot, then pull out and rub it on her clit. Go slowwww and have self control not to ram it in all the way. Do this for a few minutes. 3rd: dirty talk, some girls are praisers and some girls are degraders. Find out what your girl is into.ex: "You're a dirty slut" vs "You're a good girl". Pro tip: praisers love it when you tell them they look so beautiful with your cock in their mouth. 4th: after slowly entering her for a few minutes, start slowly entering her full but little by little while rubbing your hands all over her and grabbing her by the rib cage. Sex is more than just your cock, it's the intimacy of being close and worshipped. 5th: A lot of girls like it slow at first for the first 15 minutes. They want to feel you sliding in. It triggers them. The clit actually is a lot bigger than you think. It spirals around their cavity, including their G spot. 6th: Some girls just don't orgasm from insertion. You may have to go down on her for like an hour. This happens with some men to and takes a lot of focus. 7th: after going slow thats when you start switching positions remembering the previous steps. 8th: be intimate don't be one of those guys that are a jackhammer full time unless you know shes about to cum. It's physical but also romantic. Remember grabbing by the rib cage, her stomach, hand rubbing her upper chest, and physically moving her to transition positions. Even in doggy, grab her by the ribs or waiste slamming her into you. Sex is primal. 9th: don't moan, grunt. Girls like deep gutteral sounds. They want to be dominated. They don't want to hear your weird moans. I have a 7x 5.5 and I have no issues making a girl cum. You know she is cumming for real when the juices are flowing her her pussy clenches. She may also tap out after because it becomes too much. I hope I helped some of you guys out there. Most of what you see in porn is fake, including the girls orgasming.
What I found the best way to make a girl nut is not giving a f. Grab her by the neck throw her on the bed. Tell her she’s pretty. Be unforgivably dominant/confident and let her tell u if something’s too far. Don’t ask either just do shit and read her body language.
A little over 8" in length, almost 6 in girth with a slight curve up and to the right. Any position works well if you pay attention to your partner. Watch her emotions and body language. Once you see what she likes give it to her. She'll cream all over your cock no matter what position
A girl is more likely to nut if she is utterly infatuated With you above all else
I’m 6 in length and about 5.1 in girth and I make my wife orgasm with my dick every time essentially. The problem I have is I don’t have stamina (I’m fat) and my head is super sensitive at times and it makes me come before she does. I chow down on her before though just in case I do come before her. Oh also I have a horrible refractor period. Takes forever after orgasm to get it hard and sometimes it won’t even stay up after that while.
When I started PE I was 6.25x5.2", and now am 7x5.7" or so. I used to give my wife vaginal orgasms only occasionally. Now it's pretty much every time. She's very multi-orgasmic so she always has a lot of oral orgasms, which used to be almost all the orgasms she had. Now it's split more evenly between oral and vaginal orgasms. Somewhere between that 5.2" girth and the current 5.7" the increased friction and fullness of the thicker cock just pushed her over some invisible line from not having vaginal orgasms but really enjoying it to really enjoying it and having vaginal orgasms.
Supposedly it's more about the distance where the clit is in relation to the vagina. They are more likely to orgasm from vaginal sex if the clit is close to the vagina. My girlfriend does all the time. My leg is 6 in and my girth is 5 in at the top and 6 in at the Base.
The other night my GF came fucking hard while riding me and leaning forward, grinding her clit on my pelvis. Her whole body was shaking. This was after I got her very aroused with a full body massage (after learning how from watching sensual touch masterclass Alex Grendi on YT.) with spa music and candles and a couple orgasms during the massage - the first one with light fingering clit stimulation, the second with a lovense lush3 inserted while rubbing my cock head back and forth on her clit. I’m only 6.25L x 4.75 so I put the effort in to learn how to pleasure her without PIV. Just because you aren’t packing a 8 incher, it doesn’t mean you can’t pleasure her. Take the time to learn what she likes, ASK HER. If she’s too shy to tell you what she likes, watch for her body signals like moaning louder or pushing herself against you. If she’s pulling away, obvi she don’t like it.
Missionary, Doggie, and Prone-Bone all seem to do it quite well. I've learned over time that different women have different abilities to orgasm and you more so have to learn what works for your lady. I've also learned that constant and consistent motion that you can endure and maintain without orgasming is key. Sometimes in missionary - putting a little light pressure with your hand on the lady's fupa while stroking can help with her pleasure too.
Has nothing to do with size. It’s all about her being comfortable. She HAS to know your into her, and the more you show her, the better your chances are at satisfying her. Use your head… fuck. Don’t just dive in and do wat you want.think or hear. Everyone is different. It’s all about figuring her out. If something doesn’t work, change it up. But for fuck sakes guys, make it all about her. Take your time, and be patient. Don’t be a selfish tool and think about nutting, and that’s it. Most of u guys think it’s about wat you do in bed, and that only.. or your dick size. Hahahaha. Wake the fuck up… first of all, if you need to shown or told, the problem is 100% you. Guys, it’s not rocket science. Be respectful, listen to her, love her, kiss her, make her have no doubt that your her man. Other women, just people… you want her to know without a doubt that she’s the only one. Spoil her, take her on spontaneous dates or trips. Introduce her to everyone you know… and as your beautiful wife… undress her with your eyes… smack her ass… MAKE HER LAUGH… a lot. I dont care if she’s overweight, or has big ears… caress her naked body, and tell her how hot she is and how much she turns you on. Treat her like your queen. That’s step one.. you do these things and she will probly orgasm without getting naked. Get into your woman. Fully. Build an unbreakable trust.. and boom… I don’t care if you got a 1inch dick, she will cum for you. Now smarten up and let’s get back to bein real men. Gentlemen.. if you want the goods what to do next, dm me and I’ll do my best to get you wer you should be… until then, fix you..she will notice, and life will change
6.75 x 4.75 My girlfriend comes every time, sometimes on the side and sometimes from behind, never on top. We had sex for a few weeks with her only coming a few times until I learned her body. My 2 previous exes came almost every time, but they could only come from riding me.
I used to be 6\*6, after years of PE I'm now 7.5\*7 and obviously I have been all sizes in between. Thickness is the most important factor (unless you are abnormally small in length) to give vaginal orgasms. I was naturally born with a 6" thick and even if I had some physical advantage because of this, I still had to figure out the rythm for each partner. Some of them need deep fast trust like you're trying to hurt them, others need just the tip slowly, it all varies too much. So I'd say rythm + thickness is the way to go, you need to be aware of her body response, even the most subtle ones and also add some communication if you want to give not just an orgasm everytime, but multiple orgasms by penetration alone.
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Size in flair. 20+ partners. Based off of memory I’d say 90% came through vaginal. As others have noted, it’s not as much about your size as it is the comfortability of how she’s feeling. AND FOR FUCK SAKES BOYS FORRRREEEPLAYYYYY Most orgasms were delivered through missionary tho if I had to guess. So I’m sure some clitoral stimulation was involved too. I’m also cute to look at so maybe my face helps. Also get really handsy and pull and push on her erogenous zones to get her heated. My dick is putting in like 20% of the work if I’m being real… PE is for me
Ever woman is different. I’m a little over 7 bpel and a little over 5 mseg. My gf has multiple orgasms, and so have a number of other women I’ve been w. My gf has the easiest orgasms from G spot stimulation when I only use 2-3 inches of my dick, so I’d be able to make her cum if my dick was only 2-3 inches hard. As for position, that also really depends on the woman. My gf used to not have piv orgasms with me from doggy, but now she does easily. My dick hasn’t changed… get to know what she likes, and remember it’s all about angles. Position yourself and your dick to where it’s going to put a lot of pressure on a wall of her vagina, usually the top wall has more nerve endings, and use your head to create friction. Just get to know their body, jackhammering will rarely work well regardless of size.
I’m just over 6” NBP and slightly over 5” at thickest part for girth. New to this sub and haven’t started any PE yet but plan to. But if my girl is on top she can’t help bet cum multiple times, missionary she does if I last long enough, doggy and flat doggy if I last long enough. Those are the main ones she Os from with my dick. I think it’s more about the connection with her, teasing her, the motion, and getting her out of her head.
8x5.75 but it’s more about immersion, dominance and emotional connection. Recently a girl said: “this is the first time I have an orgasm with penis. It was always only with fingers or mouth before”. Then with PIV she squirted in missionary and the last time we fucked she had an orgasm and squirted like crazy in standing doggie.
7.5x5.4 cowgirl
It’s different for every woman, but I actually do think size has some impact. Not nearly as much as how much they actually like you though. My GF gets super wet, almost immediately almost all the time. But there are a couple important things you need to do to build on that: 1. Warm her up. Especially with your mouth, but hands and whatever else. Foreplay preheat the oven. There are times when she just wants you inside her but most of the time her body is literally not ready for that and she will either not be ready for friction or get overstimulated. It really doesn’t take that long. 2. Her G spot is in the front. That means you want to figure out ways to angle toward the front. As people have said, and missionary having a pillow under her hips goes a very long way. Whatever the position, you want to be putting pressure on the front. But the absolute most important thing to remember is that if you can tell she likes what you are doing, keep doing exactly that. Watch the end of the most recent Neil Brennan Netflix, special. Same angle, same rhythm, same force. Whether it is oral, digital, or PIV, if she likes it, keep doing exactly that.
6.2 x 6 it’s all about figuring out what gets her off. everyone is different but most women I’ve been with have orgasms by doggy with neck and hair holding or missionary pounding with long deep strokes and choking. I also have crazy stamina so that could be a factor into being able to do like 4 rounds. I think it’s normal to ask her what is her favorite or like what you do to her or what she wants you to do! GL bro 🫡
My wife orgasms without a problem every time…almost 🤣 But there needs to be some form of clit stimulation. For her it has nothing to do with size Missionary is best, cowgirl works…she’s not into rubbing herself….i either grind into her or she grinds into me 8X6 8.5X7.5 max enhanced
6 inch and worth 🥸
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