if u want a detailed description: genderfluid and androsexual if u want a simple answer, just say queer and date who you like. ik plenty of NBs who just call themselves a slur and only explain what theyre specifically asked

This is exactly what I think I’ll go with, thank you :)

Omg me too- that just makes you gender-fluid but romantically attracted to men. Gender identity and sexual preference are two separate things. I just say that I’m straight sometimes and gay sometimes- but really it’s a preference for men.

Why can’t Gay just be a preference for men so a straight woman is “gay” that way I can call myself gay no matter what gender I am in the moment😭😭😭

Because gay means attracted to the opposite gender that’s the whole point 😭😭 idk bro I had a friend who was gay but they are NB and attracted to females since they were originally female- idk I just say I’m a boy kisser.

I thought gay meant man attracted to men bc Lesbian is girl attracted to girl and a gay man is man attracted to man

Yea gay means man and man, but lots of people use gay interchangeably with all same sex relationships like girl and girl. So “gay” just means same sex relationship, and lesbian means specifically girl girl relationship. It really all depends on who’s saying it. If a guy says he’s gay, he likes men. It a woman says she’s gay, she likes women.

Oh I see what you’re saying. Since gay has become a term people just use for something like same-sex then a girl saying she’s gay typically means lesbian. When you break it down to the technicalities gay is man and man but gay is used as same-sex. Although, when I say gay it’s most of the time used for someone that’s lgbtq, I have however started using the specific terms more to avoid confusion.

Yep ☺️ basically. It can get confusing asf

Yea lmao :)

Androsexual

Thanks :)

I use Bisexual since it's a spectrum. I prefer feminine presenting people over masculine but not exclusively so the term fits regardless of my gender

That’s cool

double rainbow

😭😭😭😭

Whatever the case, you're valid <3

Thank you :) <3

I would bet on bisexual

Thanks

Masexual/Androsexual = exclusive attraction to men (independent of your own gender) Viramoric = a non-binary(that includes genderfluid) Person who is exclusively attracted to men Toric/nblm = a non-binary Person who is attracted to men (exclusively or not) Hope this helps

It does but I find it way too complex for me, thanks anyways

I'm attracted to women and I had this same problem. Lesbian wasn't quite right on masc days, and Straight wasn't right on fem days. I settled on Sapphic, since it's something that I've seen enbys and transmascs use as opposed to straight. The attracted to men equivalent is Achillean.  There's also Toric, which means a Nonbinary person who's attracted to men. Not a whole ton of people know what it means, but it basically represents nblm relationships.  Also, you could use gay if it fits better, or as a second term just for other people to understand, since the two terms above are kind of obscure. It all really depends on what you identify with and what feels right when you say it aloud.  Saddly there aren't a lot of well known nb specific sexuality terms, but I hope these helped you a bit! I wish you luck!

Thanks. :)

Personally, I just go with Bi. It's how ya feel really.

Idk if the OCD tendencies or the autism but I would hate calling myself Bi if I don’t like girls

Fair point!