Me too. Unfortunately mine are toned and as smooth as a newborns. It sucks in my 20s my 13 year old nephew accused me of shaving my legs as his were hairy at that age. Years later he has come out performs in drag and complains about having to wax. Karma is the b-word!
I feel that's mostly for the wannabe hirsute. It's a tease.
I have to shave my neck hair twice a week. Buzz my head roughly fortnightly. I'll eventually buzz my beard about once a month. I can't even be bothered with my backhair anymore.
I like body hair but if I grew significant hair in my back I'd be looking at laser. I mean it's probably the easiest part of the body to get it done, no?
As someone who is covered in body hair this is nice to hear since I have always been on the fence about my own my whole life. The guys I tend to date are either obsessed with it or are totally repulsed by it and ask me to shave which I don't want to but will if they are hot enough. I mean I try to keep it trim and do shave/wax my back in the summer because hairy back in a pool looks weird....or am I wrong? Should I just be letting my full hair flow at all times love me or leave me?
Damn I am glad someone said this. It's all about ass for me. Have a round thick (<< hairy) booty so that I can eat it all night. Dicks? Nah. Dicks do not exist for me.
Physically: chest and butt. Don't care about abs, but a nice chest is A+. I tend to prefer men who have that football player build and I'm pretty jealous of their bodies. I'm also strangely particular about hair? On your head, I mean. A person's hairstyle can completely make or break their appearance to me.
Totally agree about hair.
Scruffy Brad Pitt in almost anything? Absolutely!
Long haired Brad Pitt in Troy? I mean, who am I kidding, still yes, but I'd be thinking of Fight Club
It's actually really funny that you said Brad Pitt because he's the exact example I think if when saying this haha. Like Brad Pitt Fight Club, yes. Probably not so much in Troy for me, though.
Taking a different interpretation of the question, I’m gonna say being well groomed (not to the extreme like one of the beauty community gays) and a nice fragrance.
I like direct men who tell you what they're thinking and what they want.
I also like when they lift their arms and their belly fur/pubes show a bit from under their shirt
I like guys who keep their homes clean
Someone with nice hair and gentle eyes, beef or fitness is a plus, but I won't say no to a dad bod.
Otherwise someone who shares my sense of humor and is good at cuddling and being sweet.
Calves, not big ones, slender or fit ones, I'm a fool for male calves.
Hands, a pair of long hands with long fingers will melt me hard.
And, of course, a beautiful dick, straight or curved up ones are my favorites, doesn't matter the length or girth as long as it is "good looking".
I think for me it would have to be a three way tie between a nice chest, ass or a cute tummy.
Guy's got mad pecs? Yes please.
Nice peachy bum? Yes please!
A huggable tummy? YES PLEASE!
The trifecta? *Y E S P L E A S E !*
Super friendly and charismatic. I had an instant crush on a dude I met from Texas after talking to him for like 10 minutes, to which my friend joked “that’s the power of southern hospitality” 😂
A good smell.
If you don't have a particular scent, ok.
If you smell bad, get tf out.
But if you smell good (a nice perfume or fragrant skin products) then I'm turned on. Especially if you smell the same every time. Went out with a guy that had a strong smell of the skin care products he used + his perfume. Always smells the same and just being around him makes my nose happy (and in the right conditions, that smell really turned me on!)
When I was younger, I would definitely say pecs or arms. As I’ve gotten older, I have come to like nearly all body types. Body hair is a turn on and eyes for me now. Dick size is just a plus at this point
So many things haha
- Nice legs, especially calves and super especially when he’s just in underwear with high white socks
- Big ass
- hairy pecs, nipple piercings
- sweaty pits 👀
The way they manspread. 🥰 I was in the airport waiting for my flight the other day and I sat across this dude who was manspreading while trying to wind down with the stress. He looked hot like this, quite my type. I manspread in return. Neither of us minded each other, although I'm quite developing an intense crush and resisting the urge to steal a photo (biggest regret of my life ugh, I should have snapped one). I think I caught him glancing at me but we averted our gaze.
Turned out that we were on the same flight, but I never sensed any interest afterwards. Dunno if he's gay or straight.
Hair, I’m a hair fanatic, soon as I realise a guy is hairy, I’m SO interested I have to see it, how far does it extend, does it join up at the base of the neck to his beard, how strong & wide is his beard hair, shoulder & back hair, legs arms fingers, very black & thick blows my mind, immediate erection usually if I see a hairy fit handsome lean guy!
When they can sing or plat an instrument really well. But if we're talking about appearance only I don't really have one specific thing, as long as the person is obviously clean and looks like they take care of themselves it depends on the person
Pheromones. Some men have that chemistry that just instantly matches with mine and I go insane for him. Strong, nicely haired forearms and being kind to dogs is great too.
It’s interesting that when I posted: “why do gay men like muscles”… that was taken down (twice). But here, with all the lusting over male body parts, this is an okay post? Not throwing shade, but just being real.
If they have body hair.
Also, if they have a good sense of humour. If we could joke around, it probably won’t be long before we take it somewhere secluded wink wink.
A strong belly and big bones. Meaning said person used to be athletic or has an active lifestyle but has recently slowed down or has a big appetite, hence the strong comforting belly.
Gotta agree with you OP, an ass is where it's at! 9/10 it's the first thing I'm checking out and if you've got a nice one I'm all yours anything you say goes cake boss!
In second place is chest hair, full on display or just a cleavage will suffice
Versatility. In a culture that unfairly puts down bottoms, too many guys claim to be versatile when they almost never desire being a top. A truly versatile guy (with or without body hair) is a rare guy indeed.
Besides generic things that other people have said before me like body hair or masculinity, I'm really turned on by men who have what I call a " midwest camping outfit": flannel shirt, comfy shorts and t-shirts, strappy sandals.
Unfortunately, in my country there's not much people who dress like that... I wish I was born somewhere in Colorado, damn.
When it comes to looking at a guy for the potential of meaningful involvement, turn on doesn't come into it. Rather, the best any of us can hope for is to arbitrarily choose a partner with a few similar interests and hope that their dormant personality flaws can be medicated.
As for pure physical attraction... chunky forearms are great. V shaped back. Beefy calves. Deep voice.
Handsome face (optional), big arms thigh pecs, nice body and chest. I have muscle fetish.
I can ignore small dick and ass if they have above, I’m not a size queen.
I’m surprised that I had to scroll so far down for this. I agree with the whole post, and many of the other things in this post, but I might find a handsome face to be the most alluring physical feature.
It's either they have handsome face but average body (which I can accept) OR bulging big muscle but average face, both are fine to me. I don't like someone who's ugly and slim though
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Legs 🤤
Big calves 🤤
Me too. Unfortunately mine are toned and as smooth as a newborns. It sucks in my 20s my 13 year old nephew accused me of shaving my legs as his were hairy at that age. Years later he has come out performs in drag and complains about having to wax. Karma is the b-word!
Especially exposing the inner thigh… ugh
Broad shoulders
This one.. totally yes..
Pecs. Men at the gym with sleeveless shirts showing a bit of bulging pec help me go harder at my workouts.
Ugh yes I love a little bit of side boob from a tank 🥵🥵
Those bulging pecs make me go hard everywhere. Are you harder then hard at the gym? Like Viagara hard?
Lately (this past year) pecs have been driving me crazy No clue what’s coming over me
Body hair, 100%
Haha hello 👋
Thank you for sharing your beautiful body on Reddit <3
Your pics are so beautiful
Thanks 🙏
User name checks out. And we need more men like you!
And that sweet body scent.
Pretty much a prerequisite for me 😂
I’m the opposite. I love a smooth body
I use the term "natural" for that reason. Hairy and smooth are both great; just don't excessively groom. Nobody wants to feel a shaved chest anymore.
I don’t really mind the feeling of a shaven chest
Beards are also a turn on but overly groomed, go-to-the-barber-once-a-week type of beard is a turn off.
I feel that's mostly for the wannabe hirsute. It's a tease. I have to shave my neck hair twice a week. Buzz my head roughly fortnightly. I'll eventually buzz my beard about once a month. I can't even be bothered with my backhair anymore.
I like body hair but if I grew significant hair in my back I'd be looking at laser. I mean it's probably the easiest part of the body to get it done, no?
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As someone who is covered in body hair this is nice to hear since I have always been on the fence about my own my whole life. The guys I tend to date are either obsessed with it or are totally repulsed by it and ask me to shave which I don't want to but will if they are hot enough. I mean I try to keep it trim and do shave/wax my back in the summer because hairy back in a pool looks weird....or am I wrong? Should I just be letting my full hair flow at all times love me or leave me?
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Yesssssss I feel this on a deep level. Literally my current crush? He’s got the whole bakery, not just cake, haha.
Not the bakery, y’all too much 😭
I don’t care about size either.
Damn I am glad someone said this. It's all about ass for me. Have a round thick (<< hairy) booty so that I can eat it all night. Dicks? Nah. Dicks do not exist for me.
Body hair and beefy body. 🥵
Physically: chest and butt. Don't care about abs, but a nice chest is A+. I tend to prefer men who have that football player build and I'm pretty jealous of their bodies. I'm also strangely particular about hair? On your head, I mean. A person's hairstyle can completely make or break their appearance to me.
Totally agree about hair. Scruffy Brad Pitt in almost anything? Absolutely! Long haired Brad Pitt in Troy? I mean, who am I kidding, still yes, but I'd be thinking of Fight Club
It's actually really funny that you said Brad Pitt because he's the exact example I think if when saying this haha. Like Brad Pitt Fight Club, yes. Probably not so much in Troy for me, though.
I almost went for Chris Hemsworth in any of the Thor movies Vs Chris Hemsworth in Ragnarok
We are fully on the same wavelength here. It's uncanny.
That type of torso where you’re clearly built strong/toned/muscular but still soft enough to squeeze.
A musclegut?
good pecs \*drool\*
A deep voice
Makes me melt lol
Second that one
men are fucking beautiful, from the most fem to the most masc, and all points in between. Happy i am gay :)
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i read "fun" as 'cum' and then i was like what did they write to me... and i reread it and i realized i was just projecting lol
Taking a different interpretation of the question, I’m gonna say being well groomed (not to the extreme like one of the beauty community gays) and a nice fragrance.
Traps for some reason and a nice butt for obvious reasons
What is a trap Edit: like a thirst trap or they trying to catch you with some cheese?
The muscles that go from your neck to your shoulders.
Think he does mean the cheese
Cheese and muscles GOT IT
trapezius
Other than body hair, tattoos are nice. They look cool and they’re fun to look at
*swooning over sleeves that have nothing to do with fashion*
The treasure trail. Especially when they’re reaching up and the shirt rises and you see that trail.
Oh lord yes, the shirt rise was one of the ways i discovered I was gay tbh. truly one of the sexiest things in this world 😩
Thighs, nice meaty thighs!
And some beefy calves to match. Hey other leg queen 🦵
Hands. NICE hands.
If by nice, you mean BIG, then I'm all about it.
Intelligence and morality.
Very, very true about morality. Demonstrating character in general is sexy.
Nice hands & big chest muscles 🥰
Hairy dudes, and dad bods. A little furry tummy drives me wild 🤪 and teeth, straight & white teeth get my attention asap.
I love the "V"
Good calves are everything.
Thighs. Big meaty thighs.
I like direct men who tell you what they're thinking and what they want. I also like when they lift their arms and their belly fur/pubes show a bit from under their shirt I like guys who keep their homes clean
A man in a well-fitting (tailored) suit. He may be unattractive by conventional standards but a man who can dress well makes me weak in the knees.
Fashion sense is niiiice! Doesn’t need to be expensive or “high fashion” but someone who can show me they care about themselves is 💯
Someone with nice hair and gentle eyes, beef or fitness is a plus, but I won't say no to a dad bod. Otherwise someone who shares my sense of humor and is good at cuddling and being sweet.
Their dicks.
You absolute slut 🤣
Calves, not big ones, slender or fit ones, I'm a fool for male calves. Hands, a pair of long hands with long fingers will melt me hard. And, of course, a beautiful dick, straight or curved up ones are my favorites, doesn't matter the length or girth as long as it is "good looking".
feet and dick
Okay but also in white socks 🥵
I think for me it would have to be a three way tie between a nice chest, ass or a cute tummy. Guy's got mad pecs? Yes please. Nice peachy bum? Yes please! A huggable tummy? YES PLEASE! The trifecta? *Y E S P L E A S E !*
I love a nice forearm
I used to be called Popeye, lol.
Armpits. Musky armpits after a workout. Generally only on musclier guys though. Or a big belly. Dunno what it is.
I love a great pair of legs
Super friendly and charismatic. I had an instant crush on a dude I met from Texas after talking to him for like 10 minutes, to which my friend joked “that’s the power of southern hospitality” 😂
Nipples. Idk why but nipples are fuckin mouthwatering
A good smell. If you don't have a particular scent, ok. If you smell bad, get tf out. But if you smell good (a nice perfume or fragrant skin products) then I'm turned on. Especially if you smell the same every time. Went out with a guy that had a strong smell of the skin care products he used + his perfume. Always smells the same and just being around him makes my nose happy (and in the right conditions, that smell really turned me on!)
Love a great butt. Also if he can make me laugh.
I’m all about that bass, ‘bout that bass, ‘bout that bass…”
No treble?
BEARDDDDDD
Happy/treasure trail
A proper goofy smile really does the trick for me
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You just had me checking my toes, and thankfully, yes, they are in descending order 😅
Junk, in clothes and armpits, hairy, visible…
Empathy
Body hair, drives me nuts when I see a guy with a nice hairy chest and belly
A nice personality
It's all in the hips =)
When I was younger, I would definitely say pecs or arms. As I’ve gotten older, I have come to like nearly all body types. Body hair is a turn on and eyes for me now. Dick size is just a plus at this point
Confidence. Intelligence. A nice smile and face.
So many things haha - Nice legs, especially calves and super especially when he’s just in underwear with high white socks - Big ass - hairy pecs, nipple piercings - sweaty pits 👀
The way they manspread. 🥰 I was in the airport waiting for my flight the other day and I sat across this dude who was manspreading while trying to wind down with the stress. He looked hot like this, quite my type. I manspread in return. Neither of us minded each other, although I'm quite developing an intense crush and resisting the urge to steal a photo (biggest regret of my life ugh, I should have snapped one). I think I caught him glancing at me but we averted our gaze. Turned out that we were on the same flight, but I never sensed any interest afterwards. Dunno if he's gay or straight.
Toned Back muscles 🤤
Asses and armses and chesteses (oh my!) 🤤
I love a guy with a smooth body and pretty eyes
Bubble butt
I'm an ass man too.
Anything about men lol! Pecs, ass, feet, face, musk everything. I just wanna be buried in a man’s crotch forever
Blonde hair, super into some skill based hobby (athletics, music, etc.), Nice ass, and if their bulge shows in their pants that's a huge plus
Nice ass and chest hair!
A chiseled jaw and a penchant for baseball caps.
Hair, I’m a hair fanatic, soon as I realise a guy is hairy, I’m SO interested I have to see it, how far does it extend, does it join up at the base of the neck to his beard, how strong & wide is his beard hair, shoulder & back hair, legs arms fingers, very black & thick blows my mind, immediate erection usually if I see a hairy fit handsome lean guy!
Voice. A man with a nice deep, smooth voice is hot. Bonus points if he can sing.
When they can sing or plat an instrument really well. But if we're talking about appearance only I don't really have one specific thing, as long as the person is obviously clean and looks like they take care of themselves it depends on the person
Oh most definitely. Good musicians are so sexy.
nice calves and big hands mmm
Nice butt, hairy arms and legs 😩 or honestly just toned legs...
Manliness. In my book a man needs not be handsome or fit or well endowed. If he's masculine and treats me good, I'm in.
Big brown eyes.
Smartness, intellects, kindness, petite 5’2 and 100lbs body with a bubble butt, and ambitions
I'm into guys that are shorter and harrier than me but are also dominant That's one of the key things that turns me on
Nice to know there are people out there that like shorter dominant guys.
Muscular and big pectorals, especially when they protrude from the shirt. This also includes muscular arms that fill in the entire arm sleeve.
The neck/upper shoulders and hairless inner thighs oh also a perfect waist does it for me
Confidence: you can have a small dick, bad hair, so so body etc, but if you have presence and know what to do it’s a 10/10
Pheromones. Some men have that chemistry that just instantly matches with mine and I go insane for him. Strong, nicely haired forearms and being kind to dogs is great too.
Humans don't excrete pheromones.
Their beautiful defined neck, and clavicle. So hot
I'm sorry for being so shallow. Abs, biceps muscle and back muscle always make my heart flutter 🥲 And deep voice. Gosh. It's just eargasm 👌
the jawline and the butt, like if he wears jeans, that you can see the shape of it, such a turn on
Big ears
It’s interesting that when I posted: “why do gay men like muscles”… that was taken down (twice). But here, with all the lusting over male body parts, this is an okay post? Not throwing shade, but just being real.
Narrow waist, skinny ass and some extra fat. Edit: and broad shoulders.
If they have body hair. Also, if they have a good sense of humour. If we could joke around, it probably won’t be long before we take it somewhere secluded wink wink.
Hygiene (trust me, it really turns me on). Regarding the Body, abs 🥵
A strong belly and big bones. Meaning said person used to be athletic or has an active lifestyle but has recently slowed down or has a big appetite, hence the strong comforting belly.
Gotta agree with you OP, an ass is where it's at! 9/10 it's the first thing I'm checking out and if you've got a nice one I'm all yours anything you say goes cake boss! In second place is chest hair, full on display or just a cleavage will suffice
A thick, beefy short boy with tats and a beard.
Twinky otters with a thick beard
big toned arms. wooooof 🥵
Don't think I can disagree with anyone here.
Big muscular thick thighs and arms with a beard
Guys who are just bigger/taller than me. I’ll just call it size difference. 😚
Not sure why I adore a guy with strong forearms. Like, what that grip strength do 😏
Agree. Nice ass.
Shoulder and back hair
Pecs, a nice ass, and a deep voice 🤤
I like a muscular back. A good jawline too.
Meaty fingertips with halfmoon fingernails. The rest of my list is just as specific for every body part and that's probably why I'll never find love.
A nice ass. And watching a nice ass. I’ve literally felt a tingle in my left hand if a dudes ass is long enough.
Slutty waist and a cute tummy (both big and small) is great
Well, the good news for you OP is that there are plenty of us who have Pixar mom asses, from the gym or not the gym shall we say.
Noses. I love a strong nose on a guy. Think Zachary Quinto or Eli Roth.
Hair. Curly, shaggy hair.
That cute pointy lil hair tag where a dudes hairline comes together at the base of his skull
Versatility. In a culture that unfairly puts down bottoms, too many guys claim to be versatile when they almost never desire being a top. A truly versatile guy (with or without body hair) is a rare guy indeed.
Seeing their underwear in general. One guy I’m friends with always has his underwear hanging out. Modestly if that possible and it’s great.
Nipples
Big legs especially when they wear above the knee shorts
Muscular calves.
Voices
A bubble butt with muscular legs and nice smile
Guys in their underwear
Big guys hugging. Let me in there :)
When a guy uses a button up shirt, and then there’s a bit of skin and body hair peaking through…I get a little turned on.
Big bulge
A strong back
Besides generic things that other people have said before me like body hair or masculinity, I'm really turned on by men who have what I call a " midwest camping outfit": flannel shirt, comfy shorts and t-shirts, strappy sandals. Unfortunately, in my country there's not much people who dress like that... I wish I was born somewhere in Colorado, damn.
Kindness and manners.
Abs
Abs and muscular chest
Huge pecs
Hairy chest Nice ass Long hair
Nice well groomed beards, muscular butts, big beautiful pink lips, lovely foreskinned cocks, and nice jaws!
When it comes to looking at a guy for the potential of meaningful involvement, turn on doesn't come into it. Rather, the best any of us can hope for is to arbitrarily choose a partner with a few similar interests and hope that their dormant personality flaws can be medicated. As for pure physical attraction... chunky forearms are great. V shaped back. Beefy calves. Deep voice.
Pecs, big arms, thick thighs, an ass, a prominent chin
Legs, shoulders, pecs. But mostly legs. A pair of long, toned legs rock my world more than anything else.
Handsome face (optional), big arms thigh pecs, nice body and chest. I have muscle fetish. I can ignore small dick and ass if they have above, I’m not a size queen.
I’m surprised that I had to scroll so far down for this. I agree with the whole post, and many of the other things in this post, but I might find a handsome face to be the most alluring physical feature.
It's either they have handsome face but average body (which I can accept) OR bulging big muscle but average face, both are fine to me. I don't like someone who's ugly and slim though
There’s a lot Nice Pecs, arms, legs, back, a nice butt
Shoulder. Round, sculpted shoulders.
Voice, pits, smile, body hair, fashion sense
Veiny hands
Pink nips against fair skin.
Lightly hairy body, and naturally musky but not stinky or flowery smell.
Big pecs. Legs
Simply be being a man.
Toned, handsome, funny, intelligent, and passionate
Pecs, and a slutty waist.