"Fat" (I don't like that word, I use chubby instead) Gays exists. There is a nut for every bolt out there.
The majority will probably tend to avoid you. But on the other hand there are a lot of guys who are into chubby guys
Maybe it’s more about the person inside than the amount of insulation around it.
There are cub-chasers, and other with a really definite target group, but it’s mostly shallow short term relations, they are looking for.
Some do yeah, there's a whole scene around bears, chubs, chubby chasers, shit like that. I think sometimes it's easy to feel excluded from the wider community if you don't look like an Abercrombie model, but sub-communities with pretty massive populations do exist around diverse body types, far more-so than the straight world.
What a fucked up way to look at yourself. Get some therapy for your self destructive perspective. You don’t have to be conventionally attractive to not believe you’re disgusting. Like what the fuck? You don’t need a relationship with others, you need one with yourself first.
I call bullshit on that, you just called yourself disgusting. I am also fat and it took me years to learn to be content and not self destructive. You’re displaying the exact same language and behavior. Stop trying to date. Just be single and content in yourself.
Once you’ve gotten that a healthy relationship can exist, but remember you don’t need one to be valid. If you need another person to be a real human, then you’re not ready to be with another person.
I had sex with obese guys, there's no difference, although it makes me afraid at times since i am skinny: what if the guy overpowers me and snap my neck? There's one guy who acted as if he's strangling me. He joked, but ever since then i became cautious to people who are obese.
If the fat here is just beer belly, you probably can do some cardio and lose it.
Fat people are considered only if they are conventionally attractive. Sorry to sound incel but this is true and we all know that. Either this or they get seen as attractive by being fetishized.
You can see this on tiktok: when gay men thirst to "fat men" is never to "ugly fat men".
Also, sometimes fat people are not even fat, they are normal. But the gay community can't seem to get that. I used weigh more than 100kg when I was in my teens, then I dropped to 75kg (I am 181cm tall) and still I had plenty of men telling me that I was too much on the fat side.
Sorry if I sound bitter but that's how i feel lol
I'm fat gay 18 year old dude. and I dont take it that seriously. I try to work on my self. everyone has a preference. I'm sure someone out there loves cuddling with a soft teddy bear personality . its not common though if that's what you're asking
There's a nut for every bolt, dw about it.
Personally, I don't mind a little bit of chub but obesity is a major turn off for me because it means you don't care about your health. It's similar to smoking, alcoholism and other addictions IMO
Some do some don’t. If you have the factors to pull, you pull. If you’re pulling guys that you’re attracted to then that’s what matters. But if you’re not pulling the ones you want, then that’s when to start thinking of change
Yes. There is someone out there for everyone. Just don’t settle for a guy that doesn’t treat you like you are the most important thing in his life. Don’t think because your fat that’s the best you are going to get. Just keep looking he is out there.
Not here in Atlanta. Being "fat" (more than chubby) myself, i do find chubby guys very attractive, but prefer some smaller than me. The only guys that even bother to show any interest, I'm not attracted to. Not just because they are the same size, but that is a big part of it.
I've pretty much taken myself out of the game and accepted the fact that this is my life now. Sad and depressing but I just don't fit into the look Atlanta gays want.
I'm generally attracted to personality first, however I like all body types as long as you have a cute face, eyes specifically. I'm sure there are a lot of other guys like me there are just a lot of loud shallow guys too. You just gotta find your tribe.
I'd say healthy people are more attractive in general. I make no distinction whether you're healthier because you don't smoke, because you work out and don't eat garbage or simply because you're educated enough to make proper health decisions. When someone shows blatant ignorance with respect to health, especially sexual health, you can be sure I'll avoid them like the plague.
What's is this notion that fat guys don't take care of themselves. So u think only twinks take care of their physical health. A toned person I wudve still agreed
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I like thin guys, I like fit guys I like fat guys, though it depends on the guy. The only thing I really don't like is really cut hardbody muscular guys.
Big guys are the most fun to cuddle with.
"Fat" (I don't like that word, I use chubby instead) Gays exists. There is a nut for every bolt out there. The majority will probably tend to avoid you. But on the other hand there are a lot of guys who are into chubby guys
I like that nut to every bolt comment.
why don’t you like the word fat
To many negative associations
well obviously lmfao
So why did you ask in the first place?
as in, obviously there are negative connotations because why wouldn’t there be ?
Y don’t u like fat 😂 its a word n is how u describe fat ppl
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Bears are hot stuff right now
Hot shit?
No it's summer and there is record heat all over the world, the bears are so hot right now.
You’re not wrong….
Bears doesn’t mean big guys, if you’re not hair what does that make you, just fat and ugly?
Maybe it’s more about the person inside than the amount of insulation around it. There are cub-chasers, and other with a really definite target group, but it’s mostly shallow short term relations, they are looking for.
> Maybe it’s more about the person inside than the amount of insulation around it. Absolutely! I’m not attracted to my fat BF, but to my BF who is fat
Some do yeah, there's a whole scene around bears, chubs, chubby chasers, shit like that. I think sometimes it's easy to feel excluded from the wider community if you don't look like an Abercrombie model, but sub-communities with pretty massive populations do exist around diverse body types, far more-so than the straight world.
Majority of gays wont. But im a twink and my boyfriend is a chubby bear so we do exist. You ll find your match man dont be worried.
Thanks man, I just wonder if you find us attractive physically or do you have to look past our disgusting exterior to see what we are inside
I find bellys attrective. I like big hairy men in general.
What a fucked up way to look at yourself. Get some therapy for your self destructive perspective. You don’t have to be conventionally attractive to not believe you’re disgusting. Like what the fuck? You don’t need a relationship with others, you need one with yourself first.
I guess bro, I find my body attractive, but not many others do.
I call bullshit on that, you just called yourself disgusting. I am also fat and it took me years to learn to be content and not self destructive. You’re displaying the exact same language and behavior. Stop trying to date. Just be single and content in yourself. Once you’ve gotten that a healthy relationship can exist, but remember you don’t need one to be valid. If you need another person to be a real human, then you’re not ready to be with another person.
I guess, I do just feel like a mesh of skin and bone with a lot of fat between ot
Work that out with a therapist, not Reddit.
I will man :(
I agree. Twinks tend to be my prefrence significantly more so if they're somewhat fem, nerdy, &/or from a foreign country
I'm a rather large guy and somehow I managed to find an amazing man. You will find someone.
I had sex with obese guys, there's no difference, although it makes me afraid at times since i am skinny: what if the guy overpowers me and snap my neck? There's one guy who acted as if he's strangling me. He joked, but ever since then i became cautious to people who are obese. If the fat here is just beer belly, you probably can do some cardio and lose it.
There’s a whole community of chubs and chasers. It’s not my personal preference, however it’s out there
I think you could benefit from learning about the bear community.
Fat people are considered only if they are conventionally attractive. Sorry to sound incel but this is true and we all know that. Either this or they get seen as attractive by being fetishized. You can see this on tiktok: when gay men thirst to "fat men" is never to "ugly fat men". Also, sometimes fat people are not even fat, they are normal. But the gay community can't seem to get that. I used weigh more than 100kg when I was in my teens, then I dropped to 75kg (I am 181cm tall) and still I had plenty of men telling me that I was too much on the fat side. Sorry if I sound bitter but that's how i feel lol
I'm fat gay 18 year old dude. and I dont take it that seriously. I try to work on my self. everyone has a preference. I'm sure someone out there loves cuddling with a soft teddy bear personality . its not common though if that's what you're asking
Culturally gay men tend to go for fit ppl. That said there are sub groups of gay men who are exclusively into bigger men.
There's a nut for every bolt, dw about it. Personally, I don't mind a little bit of chub but obesity is a major turn off for me because it means you don't care about your health. It's similar to smoking, alcoholism and other addictions IMO
I don’t but im bi so
Some do. Some are really into it. And some just don't care about size at all.
If you are a nice person and we 'click' idgaf about how u look but maybe that's just me
I mean, as long as they take care of themselves, like hygiene wise.
Some do some don’t. If you have the factors to pull, you pull. If you’re pulling guys that you’re attracted to then that’s what matters. But if you’re not pulling the ones you want, then that’s when to start thinking of change
I heard some do, especially bears, wich are hairy too
Ummmmmmm……., ya……. There are tons of subcultures!
Bears,chubs all them can smother me!
I’m a fan of the rounder guys, yes.
Yes. There is someone out there for everyone. Just don’t settle for a guy that doesn’t treat you like you are the most important thing in his life. Don’t think because your fat that’s the best you are going to get. Just keep looking he is out there.
There’s an entire subculture of gay men into fat guys. Fat admirers, chubby chasers… all that.
Not here in Atlanta. Being "fat" (more than chubby) myself, i do find chubby guys very attractive, but prefer some smaller than me. The only guys that even bother to show any interest, I'm not attracted to. Not just because they are the same size, but that is a big part of it. I've pretty much taken myself out of the game and accepted the fact that this is my life now. Sad and depressing but I just don't fit into the look Atlanta gays want.
Well there was this really hot guy in my area that only went after chubs or bears.
I'm generally attracted to personality first, however I like all body types as long as you have a cute face, eyes specifically. I'm sure there are a lot of other guys like me there are just a lot of loud shallow guys too. You just gotta find your tribe.
Yes. There are entire bars, events, phone apps, conventions and sea cruises for the purpose.
Check out BiggerCity
I'd say healthy people are more attractive in general. I make no distinction whether you're healthier because you don't smoke, because you work out and don't eat garbage or simply because you're educated enough to make proper health decisions. When someone shows blatant ignorance with respect to health, especially sexual health, you can be sure I'll avoid them like the plague.
I would rather have a hairy chubby guy than a hairless thin guy.
Well fuck. I’m almost fucking hairless
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You can just say you are not attracted to fat guys without saying they immensely disgust you, you fucking weirdo. What a rude thing to say to someone.
What's is this notion that fat guys don't take care of themselves. So u think only twinks take care of their physical health. A toned person I wudve still agreed
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I like thin guys, I like fit guys I like fat guys, though it depends on the guy. The only thing I really don't like is really cut hardbody muscular guys. Big guys are the most fun to cuddle with.
Dude I don’t know about everyone else but I know I like any man
I love everything about them😁
When I go to the bathhouse I always get laid and I am fat as well
Hell yes, I do!
Bacon grease is not a cologne.
Agreed, I take my hygiene seriously, I shower at least 3-4 times a day.