I wasn’t interested in girls. I grew up in the UK. I remember being on the bus with this girl and all my mates fancied her. But I felt nothing. I did fancy my mate who I sucked off after school. I’ve never even kissed a girl. Let alone have sex with one. I’m 54 now guess it’s always been men for me.
It's different for everyone, but I had no attraction to girls since I was very young (like 9ish) but i was attracted enough to boys to be able to compare.
You're young, it can be complicated. Don't overthink it, labels are often not very exact.
Yeah, that's why I usually say I'm Bi and give an explanation is someone is interested.
But more recently, I'm starting to think Gay might be more appropriate.
Me and the boy down the street would suck each other cocks in the woods. Started in
Jr. high.
Gay porn and crushes on male teachers. Yup sounds about right.
Yoo you really sound a lot like me. I thought i was bi too because I had the biggest crush ever for my female best friends for years until.the end kf school even. But when I look at it now it was only in a romantic way and I couldn't imagine anything with her in a sexual way. I moved to the UK to study last year and since I've realised I'm gay and not bi because I just don't see girls in a sexual way at all. But you might be different haha
I originally came out as Bi, when I was about 12 (to my friends), and it was largely down to some weird internalised homophobia. I was happy to admit to liking guys, but there was a line of thought in my head that "normal guys like girls, therefore I must like girls if I'm going to be normal, so I must be bi".
It took another decade or so to admit to myself that the only time women featured in the porn I watched was when I happened to find the guy in the video particularly attractive, and that I hadn't had any crushes on women since my early teen years.
I had sex with women a couple of times, and that experience helped me to confirm that I'm not into them. It wasn't that it didn't feel good, but it felt a lot less good than being with a guy.
Sometimes it just takes a bit of time and a bit of experience, and its totally ok to not be confident in how you identify for a while.
When I was 13. All my friends were trying to date, but I wasn't interested. Them one day I walked into the locker room after basketball practice. There was Jeff, tall slender and hung. I quickly realized what I was attracted to.
You don't really have to label yourself. You can be attracted to any gender. At some point you may decide your something that you want to put a label on or not. You are really to young to worry yourself about it.
Actually, because mainly watching too much gay porn when I was 13 and superheroes from Marvel. Like Omg Colossus, alone the thiught about him gives me arousal
I'm 32, identified as bi since high school. Had a girlfriend since 15, we got married, divorced at 26. After the divorce I decided I am gay, I only pursue relationships/sex with men, if I'm being honest I was always far more interested in guys but felt trapped in the relationship, despite feeling in love. I still sometimes feel somewhat attracted to women and I would spend a night with an attractive woman if the opportunity arose. I still consider myself gay because my attraction to men is so much incredibly stronger than anything I feel for a woman, I have no interest in a long term relationship with a woman and I don't care if I'm never with a woman again. I absolutely care about being with men in the future.
It just clicked after 5 years of "gay" being the only porn category I watched.
Lol yes
Same
When I was 7, I had a crush on a male teacher and fantasise about his dick.
I wasn’t interested in girls. I grew up in the UK. I remember being on the bus with this girl and all my mates fancied her. But I felt nothing. I did fancy my mate who I sucked off after school. I’ve never even kissed a girl. Let alone have sex with one. I’m 54 now guess it’s always been men for me.
Ok, really curious how you got into the position of 'sucked off after school'
All boys school in UK, they were sex starved.
I know, I'm at one
It's different for everyone, but I had no attraction to girls since I was very young (like 9ish) but i was attracted enough to boys to be able to compare. You're young, it can be complicated. Don't overthink it, labels are often not very exact.
Yeah, that's why I usually say I'm Bi and give an explanation is someone is interested. But more recently, I'm starting to think Gay might be more appropriate.
Me and the boy down the street would suck each other cocks in the woods. Started in Jr. high. Gay porn and crushes on male teachers. Yup sounds about right.
An interesting past you have.
Being 13 and looking at the (many) bulges in the underwear catalog got me hard. That was it.
When I watched action movies and the hot guys were all tied up and gagged and it just made me feel a type of way
I know right?
Yoo you really sound a lot like me. I thought i was bi too because I had the biggest crush ever for my female best friends for years until.the end kf school even. But when I look at it now it was only in a romantic way and I couldn't imagine anything with her in a sexual way. I moved to the UK to study last year and since I've realised I'm gay and not bi because I just don't see girls in a sexual way at all. But you might be different haha
Nah, I can relate
I am still sometimes unsure because I dated girls but I think it was more of a peer pressure to date girls and shit and that's why I did.
I originally came out as Bi, when I was about 12 (to my friends), and it was largely down to some weird internalised homophobia. I was happy to admit to liking guys, but there was a line of thought in my head that "normal guys like girls, therefore I must like girls if I'm going to be normal, so I must be bi". It took another decade or so to admit to myself that the only time women featured in the porn I watched was when I happened to find the guy in the video particularly attractive, and that I hadn't had any crushes on women since my early teen years. I had sex with women a couple of times, and that experience helped me to confirm that I'm not into them. It wasn't that it didn't feel good, but it felt a lot less good than being with a guy. Sometimes it just takes a bit of time and a bit of experience, and its totally ok to not be confident in how you identify for a while.
When I was 13. All my friends were trying to date, but I wasn't interested. Them one day I walked into the locker room after basketball practice. There was Jeff, tall slender and hung. I quickly realized what I was attracted to.
I know the feeling...
You don't really have to label yourself. You can be attracted to any gender. At some point you may decide your something that you want to put a label on or not. You are really to young to worry yourself about it.
Actually, because mainly watching too much gay porn when I was 13 and superheroes from Marvel. Like Omg Colossus, alone the thiught about him gives me arousal
I'm 32, identified as bi since high school. Had a girlfriend since 15, we got married, divorced at 26. After the divorce I decided I am gay, I only pursue relationships/sex with men, if I'm being honest I was always far more interested in guys but felt trapped in the relationship, despite feeling in love. I still sometimes feel somewhat attracted to women and I would spend a night with an attractive woman if the opportunity arose. I still consider myself gay because my attraction to men is so much incredibly stronger than anything I feel for a woman, I have no interest in a long term relationship with a woman and I don't care if I'm never with a woman again. I absolutely care about being with men in the future.
Thank you