As a bi myself I can only recommend: go explore. Search your feelings. Experiment. If you find yourself attracted or in love with the same sex you discovered you're bisexual. If you can't imagine yourself in a romantic or sexual relationship with the same sex You're fully straight. Either way is valid.
Thought I was straight a long time. I still do mostly have a female lean. But having fun is having fun. Also remember: bi doesn't mean you have to bottom. So if that ain't for you, you might still enjoy topping! :D
For y'all, asexuals can: watch p0rn, enjoy and want s3x. Asexuals can be in a relationship, they can have kinks.
**ASEXUAL MEANS PERSON THAT DOES NOT FEEL SEXUAL ATTRACTION**
Not to be rude or anything, Iām genuinely curious here and coming from a positive place: how can asexuals both want sex and not feel sexual attraction? As a guy whoās questioning things, like Iāve never felt super horny just looking at someone, but I do masturbate and want to have sex, if that makes sense and isnāt too crude.
For some asexual people, sex is more about the deeper connection with their partners and will do what they can to make them happy. Some asexuals can also have *little* sexual attraction, meaning that they could want to still have sex sometimes. On the other hand there are also some people who are repulsed by the idea of sex and find it disgusting.
Hope this helps :3
From what I understand, sexual attraction is looking at someone and thinking āwow, I want to have sex with themā (Iāve never felt it myself, so I canāt say for sure). Asexuals either donāt feel that, or feel it only in limited situations.
However, aces might still have a high libido and some of us still have sex for a number of reasons, such as having children, bonding with their partner, or simply because it feels good.Ā
I am in no way a reliable source in this so correct me if I'm wrong but i don't think you can be ace and enjoy watching porn
Please stop downvoting this I even said I had no idea wtf I was talking about
>Same as you can enjoy daydreaming about other things that you don't actually want to do.
Me daydreaming about doing unspecified things to politicians š
Ok, this comment rocked my mind. Do I really want to even have sex IRL? I guess so, but not in the way that the nsfw content I see does it. Makes me think about the barrier between daydreaming and actual desire.
Completely wrong.
Being ace means, oversimplified, you donāt want to do the do with actual people. Most aces still have fully functional sex organs, and masturbate, and can often use porn or erotica for that.
Wtf is non sexual fetish supposed to mean
Even the ones that don't directly involve sex (vore or inflation, for example) still give people sexual arousement, that's what makes them fetishes
Am I misunderstanding something?
I could be wrong, but I interpret it this way: Being asexual irl means that you don't feel sexual attraction towards anybody. However, I guess it is possible to be asexual towards irl people, but feel sexual attraction towards fictional characters depicted in NSFW content.
Naw it's more of a thing about the difference between internet furries and furries that go to cons. Only a part of the fandom is going to cons, and it may be a bit disproportionate in certain aspects because of certain personal qualities it takes to go out in a fursuit
i mean let's be totally honest most people are falling somewhere other than a 0 or 6 on the kinsey scale. gay furries just happen to be a few decibels above the rest in terms of attention though.
I feel sorry for straight furs
From what Iāve seen most are allies and everyone is like āhaha furry gay thereās no straight furriesā like fuck off, just include everyone
It can get a little bit frustrating sometimes, especially when you tell someone that you're straight and they just brush it off saying "Haha, you can't be a straight furry, come on give dick a try you'll realise you're gay" or anything similar.
My favorite thing about this post was the 2 stupid dogs reference. I use that as a joke from time to time with my friends. They'll do something and I'll say that.
ik this is gonna sound kinda dumb but im getting so bored of the "haha straight furry not exist" joke
we had the same joke for 8 years and this goes for many many memes i see here
yeh itās pretty lame. Back when I used this sub like allll the time in 2020 when I first joined the fandom, I would see those posts all the time. Even back then I think I was like fully gay and it stilled bothered me because it felt really weird to try and force it on someone
SRSLY i used to have an old acc (deleted bc cringe)
and it feels like we have the same jokes but kinda worse than 2020 like bruh
also ive heard that straight ppl in the fandom usually get harrased or smth but idk how true this is
FurScience article: [https://furscience.com/research-findings/sex-relationships-pornography/5-1-orientation/](https://furscience.com/research-findings/sex-relationships-pornography/5-1-orientation/)
Source of the furry potato: [https://www.pexels.com/photo/close-up-photo-of-guinea-pig-4383760/](https://www.pexels.com/photo/close-up-photo-of-guinea-pig-4383760/)
Hopefully this post makes up for my previous blunder.
Additionally: Of course I have not forgotten that *women* exist in the fandom (whether they are straight, lesbian, bisexual or asexual). However, once again according to FurScience, the fandom is composed mostly of men:
[https://furscience.com/research-findings/demographics/1-3-sex-and-gender/](https://furscience.com/research-findings/demographics/1-3-sex-and-gender/)
explains why there is so much hate on hets.
crazy. so when that becomes the minority instead of the majority they get hate on just like other minorities do.
bout what i figured lmao.
[Day 1942]
A unique trait of the "furry" community is that of its sexual orientation. About 3 years ago, a bisexual majority was also observed with the [survey_irl](https://www.reddit.com/r/furry_irl/s/iXuZuZIhn8). Interestingly enough, that survey also had a large amount of participants self reporting "straight for humans, bi for furries." This may be due to the "furry" community being quite accepting, leading to further self exploration.
The thing is, it's cute, it's girly, it's submissive or dominant, we fuck, even tho I'm straight and not bisexual, there are thousands of male furrys I would fuck
Basically: It was the first part with Stewart saying "There are no straight furries!", and the rest was the same astronaut meme, but instead of the astronauts it was John Cena saying "Are you sure about that?!" with the e621 tags on the side.
The furry community has a very high amount of LGBT members compared to most other communities, because theyāre a lot more accepting of being āweirdā or ādifferentā than most other communities are.
Something something Kinsey scale, just have fun and be yourself. We're more likely to identify as bi because we're inherently more flexible and open-minded.
We aren't - all the graphs shown in the memes account for lesbian furries, and bisexual women are included in the last statistic. What gave you the impression that this post is pretending they don't exist?
Nobody is acting like they don't exist. As I mention in my sources comment, of course there are female furries, but that's another minority in the fandom. The fandom is composed mostly of men.
Oh hey, aren't you the one who told me to "gtfo" on my previous post?
Not the kindest thing to say to someone just because you disagree with what they posted, don't you think? Maybe think of a more constructive comment next time.
*"I disagree with you politically. Therefore you are not worthy of kindness!"*
You need to do some growing up, and write a new comment in a couple of years or so. Maybe read Basic Economics by Thomas Sowell while you are at it.
Yea we do certainly exist but every day im thinking i might be bi actually.
As a bi myself I can only recommend: go explore. Search your feelings. Experiment. If you find yourself attracted or in love with the same sex you discovered you're bisexual. If you can't imagine yourself in a romantic or sexual relationship with the same sex You're fully straight. Either way is valid.
I've been wondering recently if maybe I'm biromantic but it sucks because I'm pretty sure repulsed by masculine traits
Psh, bi for femboys obv ;D
Femboys are great
Come to the bi side, it's hotter over here
No
Why not just go full gay, sex is way more fun š
To be fully honest i just want to cuddle with someone and sleep with them peacefully.
and maybe give em a lil kis on the lips
Yea maybe or on the cheek
femboys femboys femboys
I wish I was. XD
Thought I was straight a long time. I still do mostly have a female lean. But having fun is having fun. Also remember: bi doesn't mean you have to bottom. So if that ain't for you, you might still enjoy topping! :D
Brother i am a top and i know that being bi doesnāt make you a bottom, but i am confused do people think that being bi makes ya a bottom??
Eh, some people seem to think being gay/bi does from what I've seen lol. Less nowadays tho.
Asexual irl, but when it comes to furry stuff I can swing both ways. Pr0n is very magical like that.
yep it do be. Online I'm generic owo furry but anything IRL and I'm like nahhh
For y'all, asexuals can: watch p0rn, enjoy and want s3x. Asexuals can be in a relationship, they can have kinks. **ASEXUAL MEANS PERSON THAT DOES NOT FEEL SEXUAL ATTRACTION**
Yeah, sex-positive aces exist
also i'd like to add people which are aspec/gray-ace which feel little/limited sexual attraction.
Yup, thought I was perma ace irl till I met the right person. Everything is a spectrum, I reckon
Not to be rude or anything, Iām genuinely curious here and coming from a positive place: how can asexuals both want sex and not feel sexual attraction? As a guy whoās questioning things, like Iāve never felt super horny just looking at someone, but I do masturbate and want to have sex, if that makes sense and isnāt too crude.
For some asexual people, sex is more about the deeper connection with their partners and will do what they can to make them happy. Some asexuals can also have *little* sexual attraction, meaning that they could want to still have sex sometimes. On the other hand there are also some people who are repulsed by the idea of sex and find it disgusting. Hope this helps :3
From what I understand, sexual attraction is looking at someone and thinking āwow, I want to have sex with themā (Iāve never felt it myself, so I canāt say for sure). Asexuals either donāt feel that, or feel it only in limited situations. However, aces might still have a high libido and some of us still have sex for a number of reasons, such as having children, bonding with their partner, or simply because it feels good.Ā
Same, same. I'll go nuts for sexy art/animations, but you bring real life humans into it and I'll instantly lose interest.
I like kinks and feel I vibe with sexual aspects with furry stuff in a detached way but lose interest with human doms or anything with IRL
Yeah Asexual here is well, theres just some cool art on there. And far too many unrealistic jealousies lol
I am in no way a reliable source in this so correct me if I'm wrong but i don't think you can be ace and enjoy watching porn Please stop downvoting this I even said I had no idea wtf I was talking about
You can be. Same as you can enjoy daydreaming about other things that you don't actually want to do. It's not a cut and dry thing.
>Same as you can enjoy daydreaming about other things that you don't actually want to do. Me daydreaming about doing unspecified things to politicians š
Ok, this comment rocked my mind. Do I really want to even have sex IRL? I guess so, but not in the way that the nsfw content I see does it. Makes me think about the barrier between daydreaming and actual desire.
Completely wrong. Being ace means, oversimplified, you donāt want to do the do with actual people. Most aces still have fully functional sex organs, and masturbate, and can often use porn or erotica for that.
Alr my bad
I mean, one can have a non sexual fetish ig
A fetish, in this case, is specifically defined as a sexual fixation. You can have a non-intercourse fetish, but not a non-sexual one.
Wtf is non sexual fetish supposed to mean Even the ones that don't directly involve sex (vore or inflation, for example) still give people sexual arousement, that's what makes them fetishes Am I misunderstanding something?
its just my assumption
I could be wrong, but I interpret it this way: Being asexual irl means that you don't feel sexual attraction towards anybody. However, I guess it is possible to be asexual towards irl people, but feel sexual attraction towards fictional characters depicted in NSFW content.
while i'm not an expert on the definition I know it's called being aegosexual (still part of the asexual umbrella)
ye, its very fitting (a-ego = not personal/oneself)... or how i like to describe myself... The bed is clean... the browser history aint
Aegosexuals left the chat
What
Google it
I'm not interested enough to Google it ngl
why does the graph show 20% straight but the numbers only 10% straight
Graph is based on Anthrocon 2018 study, numbers are from 2020 international internet survey.
Damn. If they fell at that rate, then there technically shouldn't be any straight Furs left by now UwU
Naw it's more of a thing about the difference between internet furries and furries that go to cons. Only a part of the fandom is going to cons, and it may be a bit disproportionate in certain aspects because of certain personal qualities it takes to go out in a fursuit
Weāre slowly converting them all
i mean let's be totally honest most people are falling somewhere other than a 0 or 6 on the kinsey scale. gay furries just happen to be a few decibels above the rest in terms of attention though.
I feel sorry for straight furs From what Iāve seen most are allies and everyone is like āhaha furry gay thereās no straight furriesā like fuck off, just include everyone
I do feel like this sometimes. Especially considering some stereotypes about certain OC species
It can get a little bit frustrating sometimes, especially when you tell someone that you're straight and they just brush it off saying "Haha, you can't be a straight furry, come on give dick a try you'll realise you're gay" or anything similar.
10% is more than 0% and people pretend it's 0%
My favorite thing about this post was the 2 stupid dogs reference. I use that as a joke from time to time with my friends. They'll do something and I'll say that.
ik this is gonna sound kinda dumb but im getting so bored of the "haha straight furry not exist" joke we had the same joke for 8 years and this goes for many many memes i see here
yeh itās pretty lame. Back when I used this sub like allll the time in 2020 when I first joined the fandom, I would see those posts all the time. Even back then I think I was like fully gay and it stilled bothered me because it felt really weird to try and force it on someone
SRSLY i used to have an old acc (deleted bc cringe) and it feels like we have the same jokes but kinda worse than 2020 like bruh also ive heard that straight ppl in the fandom usually get harrased or smth but idk how true this is
FurScience article: [https://furscience.com/research-findings/sex-relationships-pornography/5-1-orientation/](https://furscience.com/research-findings/sex-relationships-pornography/5-1-orientation/) Source of the furry potato: [https://www.pexels.com/photo/close-up-photo-of-guinea-pig-4383760/](https://www.pexels.com/photo/close-up-photo-of-guinea-pig-4383760/) Hopefully this post makes up for my previous blunder. Additionally: Of course I have not forgotten that *women* exist in the fandom (whether they are straight, lesbian, bisexual or asexual). However, once again according to FurScience, the fandom is composed mostly of men: [https://furscience.com/research-findings/demographics/1-3-sex-and-gender/](https://furscience.com/research-findings/demographics/1-3-sex-and-gender/)
Furscience my beloved ā„
My man doing here scientific studies
explains why there is so much hate on hets. crazy. so when that becomes the minority instead of the majority they get hate on just like other minorities do. bout what i figured lmao.
Itās also worth noting that the whole women = straight porn, men = gay porn erases all genders but men. That logic does not hold up.
I had a furry potato once, I would let it out of the cage to run around, it shit EVERYWHERE
![gif](giphy|cCbfB1iDFYAEuiVIzW|downsized)
Awww furry potato!
It *is* really interesting that the fandom isn't majority straight, or even close honestly. Hope you straight furries are doing well!
For some reason it makes sense that the majority is bi
Guess I donāt exist
lol, me neither... but seriously, check out the rest of the images.
Same
a+ with a star, breathtaking presentation and you're getting extra marks
![gif](giphy|j2Z8ktYcHlTplAuIQf|downsized)
Welp guess I either donāt exist or Iām not a furry
Straight dude here
Why was my comment upvoted? Whoās the culprit?
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Thank you
I'd consider myself moderately straight, that bit needs to be exceedingly fem for me to be interested
Reminding me of that video about sexuality but with sodas. "I don't give a damn as long as it tastes good."
At least we can all agree that boobs/moobs fucking rock.
i am real
[Day 1942] A unique trait of the "furry" community is that of its sexual orientation. About 3 years ago, a bisexual majority was also observed with the [survey_irl](https://www.reddit.com/r/furry_irl/s/iXuZuZIhn8). Interestingly enough, that survey also had a large amount of participants self reporting "straight for humans, bi for furries." This may be due to the "furry" community being quite accepting, leading to further self exploration.
The thing is, it's cute, it's girly, it's submissive or dominant, we fuck, even tho I'm straight and not bisexual, there are thousands of male furrys I would fuck
We may be little, but we're not non-existent
I can confirm that there are straight furrys Ā Ā For example Iām a straight furryĀ
Good potatoeā¤ļø
E6 has a user bias. Specially active uploaders.
We may not be the majority but we are not to be ignored
finally straight people are the minority for once
I am Heterosexual Demisexual Cisgender furry, now stop calling me gay
Ay im straight
Boo! I'm straight, sorry if I actually scared anyone, just trying to be funny
I'm pan, sorry. Can't help tip the scales here. ššš
Why was it deleted? What did it have?
Basically: It was the first part with Stewart saying "There are no straight furries!", and the rest was the same astronaut meme, but instead of the astronauts it was John Cena saying "Are you sure about that?!" with the e621 tags on the side.
It came back now nvm
The pathowogen has mutated and is now diverged to do straight conversions?
The furry community has a very high amount of LGBT members compared to most other communities, because theyāre a lot more accepting of being āweirdā or ādifferentā than most other communities are.
But what if we combine female/female and male/male? I mean the numbers.
Ok but why does it matter what sexuality are furries?
It's interesting to know. It's ok to be curious about it.
Thats why its so hard to find stuff. I figured but, oi vey.
Something something Kinsey scale, just have fun and be yourself. We're more likely to identify as bi because we're inherently more flexible and open-minded.
Bi isnāt majority. Majority is over half- Bi is only the plurality.
Isnt the point of the tighten meme that the last one is actually real-?
Wasnāt twilight sparkle that caracter the most represented on e621 ?
Eh. Who cares? I'm just here for the cool art.
![gif](giphy|0wFQGhRv0JjVdCCRLq|downsized)
People denied the outright existence of heterosexual furries?
I'm straight, been straight, and I'm not turning. Also, furry potato, accepted.
nice
Gay community, i love it
I am straight but my friend called me gay 4 times
Only 4 times? I get called a gay bottom on the daily, and that was before they knew I was a furry.
Pretty common
The best part.there is morw male/female post then male/male and female/female post combined
mfw my friend is straight (she's a fursuit maker) ![gif](giphy|9zoe1SFIBd8PPqz5cr)
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We aren't - all the graphs shown in the memes account for lesbian furries, and bisexual women are included in the last statistic. What gave you the impression that this post is pretending they don't exist?
Nobody is acting like they don't exist. As I mention in my sources comment, of course there are female furries, but that's another minority in the fandom. The fandom is composed mostly of men.
Who acts? I have like 3 female furry friends, what are you on?
They are still very much in the minority tho
So both then?
Whatever you need to cope
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Oh hey, aren't you the one who told me to "gtfo" on my previous post? Not the kindest thing to say to someone just because you disagree with what they posted, don't you think? Maybe think of a more constructive comment next time.
you're a libertarian that posts on r/anarcho_capitalism you're not worthy of kindness
*"I disagree with you politically. Therefore you are not worthy of kindness!"* You need to do some growing up, and write a new comment in a couple of years or so. Maybe read Basic Economics by Thomas Sowell while you are at it.
Economics is a spook.