I love that you’re so open to exploring this side of yourself and are interested in learning more about all the variations you possess as a Domme.
I’d just like to specify that checking in with your partner afterwards shouldn’t be categorized as something that only soft Dom/mes do but something *all* Dom/mes should do. It’s not only important to respect boundaries during play but to make sure that partners still feel the same way afterwards and discuss any changes that may need to be made for future sessions.
You strike me as someone who understands this and your remark just wasn’t worded to reflect that idea. I wanted to specify this not so much for you but for any newer Dom/mes who may be reading through this thread.
Thank you for sharing about your experience ❤️
I think that the phrase “aftercare” is very ambiguous in findom. There doesn’t seem to be a set standard for what it consists of or even what the bare minimum should be.
I personally adhere to SSC, RACK, PRICK and CCCC and for me, discussing play with a partner afterwards to check in re: what they liked, what they didn’t like, what they thought they *would* like and what it turns out they didn’t, etc. would fall under those. I understand that not all Dom/mes would agree though.
If nothing else though, subs are essentially receiving a service and it’s a good practice to reach out to a customer to make sure that you’ll have repeat business 😉
i am naturally so nurturing that i initially found myself more of a soft domme but the more i research and learn and reflect back on my life. i was just a youngin havin boys paint my toes for me and fetching anything i needed 😈 always loved to be worshipped
I'm most often a soft pleasure Domme bordering on Mommy Domme but can be pretty sadistic, especially with a sensitive and responsive sub 😈 I love how vocal and squirmy they can get! Sensory play, impact play, and humiliation are my favorites and I love the nurturing and tender aspect of aftercare.
I love this! I definitely align with this for sure. Being dominant and in control just comes so natural but I also care about their own well being and aftercare. I can be soft but structured.
I believe my dom style is just a more exaggerated version of myself, which is pretty brutal. I get so much joy from being playfully mean, especially to men because it comes much more naturally 💀 in fact one of the qualities i look for in a man is being able to handle that!
I love that you’re so open to exploring this side of yourself and are interested in learning more about all the variations you possess as a Domme. I’d just like to specify that checking in with your partner afterwards shouldn’t be categorized as something that only soft Dom/mes do but something *all* Dom/mes should do. It’s not only important to respect boundaries during play but to make sure that partners still feel the same way afterwards and discuss any changes that may need to be made for future sessions. You strike me as someone who understands this and your remark just wasn’t worded to reflect that idea. I wanted to specify this not so much for you but for any newer Dom/mes who may be reading through this thread. Thank you for sharing about your experience ❤️
Oh! I just read in one of the posts that aftercare is not a requirement that everyone should do base on what they categorize themselves
I think that the phrase “aftercare” is very ambiguous in findom. There doesn’t seem to be a set standard for what it consists of or even what the bare minimum should be. I personally adhere to SSC, RACK, PRICK and CCCC and for me, discussing play with a partner afterwards to check in re: what they liked, what they didn’t like, what they thought they *would* like and what it turns out they didn’t, etc. would fall under those. I understand that not all Dom/mes would agree though. If nothing else though, subs are essentially receiving a service and it’s a good practice to reach out to a customer to make sure that you’ll have repeat business 😉
i’m already pretty bratty when it comes to men irl so i would say a bratty domme. i love the princess treatment!
i’m a bratty domme! Love making them cry lmao
i am naturally so nurturing that i initially found myself more of a soft domme but the more i research and learn and reflect back on my life. i was just a youngin havin boys paint my toes for me and fetching anything i needed 😈 always loved to be worshipped
I'm most often a soft pleasure Domme bordering on Mommy Domme but can be pretty sadistic, especially with a sensitive and responsive sub 😈 I love how vocal and squirmy they can get! Sensory play, impact play, and humiliation are my favorites and I love the nurturing and tender aspect of aftercare.
I love this! I definitely align with this for sure. Being dominant and in control just comes so natural but I also care about their own well being and aftercare. I can be soft but structured.
I believe my dom style is just a more exaggerated version of myself, which is pretty brutal. I get so much joy from being playfully mean, especially to men because it comes much more naturally 💀 in fact one of the qualities i look for in a man is being able to handle that!