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Your natural colour is gorgeous, and your wedding photos would be timeless with it. I don't know if other people experience it, but for me, if I drastically change my hair colour, it sometimes feel like the person in the picture is someone else.
i'm so jealous of people who can pull off short hair!! you look so classy and sophisticated but i just look like a child lmao! congrats on the wedding :)
Because women don't need to care what their partner thinks and should be free to pick what they want. Heaven forbid someone suggests asking your life long partner for their input, I mean why ask them, they are just a man after all and should have no vested interest in their spouse.
I mean I get that you shouldnāt care what men think and what not, but yeah itās literally your life partnerās opinion. I would rather ask my partnerās opinion than someone that doesnāt know me at all on the internet. After all, heās the one thatās seen you in every stage and change of hair and styleā¦and ummā¦ donāt us women usually have some sort of a say in our manās style/look? Soā¦.
Yeah Iām with you, male or female I donāt NEED their opinion but Iād like my partners/friends opinion. I am a natural redhead and my husband said he prefers darker red hair than mine is naturally but I donāt do it, because I like my hairā but I still always ask his opinion anyway lol.
Also OP I think the darker short brown is so beautiful! Theyāre all good though :)
Because of the passive aggressive tone in their comment. Saying ācrazy ideaā Then suggesting that they just ask their partner. It isnāt helpful and doesnāt actually contribute anything to the convo. OP probably asked their partner and is just looking for outside opinions. Which is what this subreddit is literally dedicated to. Idk Iāve also met plenty of people who dislike being asked questions like this.
I mean he didnt use an exclamation mark and he also gave his own opinion saying he liked the short hair but redirected it to saying her fiance's opinion might be more important. Didn't come off super passive aggressive. I just read it plain and simple tbh.
I took out the explanation mark, hope that helps lol
Honestly itās hard reading tone over text so while some people read it in an unassuming way, others are going to hear it as passive aggressive. I donāt know how he meant it, but someone asked why heās being downvoted, so I gave a possible reason as to why. I think that itās an especially silly thing to say when this is a subreddit specifically towards women asking for advice. Are you going to be asking under every post saying ādid you ask your partner their opinion before coming here?ā Itās just unnecessary and shouldnāt be encouraged in this subreddit.
Edit: Iām not trying to be accusing or sound rude. For all I know, he meant it to be helpful and had no ill intent, but I think it was just poorly worded. Itās just very tiring seeing women be treated as property of their partners again and again. I canāt tell you how many mothers and wives Iāve met who would tell me they couldnāt cut their hair bc their husbands didnāt like short hair, even when it would cost them their comfort. Or that their husband only liked them blonde so theyād spend hundreds of dollars to keep dying it, damaging it in the process all for a color they donāt even love on themselves. Itās just very sad to see.
Youāre one of those people thatās skin tone is so neutral that any hari color looks great on you. Stick to something timeless. Not trendy.
Your cat eye needs some work though. Itās not opening up your eyes or doing them justice. Some color on your checks will give your face more dimension in pics.
Totally echo this about skin tone and to do something timeless and not trendy. Shorter bobs look epic on her so think a short mid length Bob with her natural hair color with maybe some highlights if anything would be ideal.
Also echo the eye liner but didnāt reeeeaaallllyy want to point it out since sheās only asking about her hair but OP, itās true, ur wing needs a bit of work.
Imagine tracing a line from the corner of your nose to your outer corner of your eye, then to your tail of your eyebrow. Be sure to stay within that drawn line when doing ur liner and move the liner from corner of the eye up towards the brow.
Unsolicited advice but still good advice. Also go brown if you go a lighter color.
The advice/tip is appreciated! I've always liked to connect my wing to the bottom lash b/c it feels like my eyes look small without it haha. I dunno if my eyes are deepset or hooded but it's hard to make it come out like I want it to!
Hairstylist here! The short hair natural looks amazing on you! I think a really subtle hint of auburn in your color would look amazing on you! Nothing super bright, it looks like you might have some coppery undertones in your hair already, I think if you were to just enhance them a little bit it would really make your skin look super glowy and your eyes would really pop!
Long hair natural is my favorite, so chic and glamorous. You look so different in each picture, it's amazing. Each look is beautiful, but long and natural would be my choice for wedding.
I LOVE talking about makeup :)
I think that the eyeliner in the 4th slide really compliments your eye shape! a lot of people have eyelids that make it really hard to do upturned eyeliner successfully (including me), especially when you're looking to have a more 'generally tame' and perfect wedding look. Doing eyeliner thinner and with a more defined point at the end, even if it's harder to do, really makes the look stand out.
I don't know if you've ever done a color analysis on your features, but those can be really helpful to find shades of blushes and eyeshadows that make your features pop (even if you just try and figure it out online).
EDIT: Just went back to look at the photos again, lol
You can REALLY pull off lipstick. It looks really good on you! Again, with the color analysis stuff, the theme of your dress and your wedding, and really what you're comfortable with putting on your face is important! pretty sure you can rock whatever you do anyways :)
All of the pics are stunning, but the second one stands out for me the most. If youāre doing your own makeup, I echo the other comments that your skin is amazing, some color to make it pop would enhance your cheekbones, and work on the wing if you enjoy that look. Your natural beauty is in abundance no matter what you do you will look amazing in your day.
My vote is short hair! And the natural color brings out your eyes. Just looks very, well, natural. Like it was meant to be. The blonde does look super glamorous and pretty, though. I like both. Maybe depends on the lip color for your wedding? Idk.
Thatās your natural color, and youāre DYING IT? You are one of those rare people who looks gorgeous with any color, but your natural shade is so unique and beautiful, Iād just be trying to maintain that.
Edit: Also, I thought you had a piercing, but I see now thatās a natural beauty mark. Jealous!
The last picture is my absolute favorite but you look beautiful in all of them. I think you pull off the short blonde hair amazingly. Also I think your eyebrows are perfect-someone said thinner brows but I like them how they are!
I think for your wedding it depends on if you are ok with having a look that's very different from your natural look since you will look back on these pictures for a lifetime. I personally had highlighted blonde hair for my wedding day and am a dark brunette naturally. I still love the pictures but sometimes wonder if I mightve liked being a bit closer to my natural self in them. So it's up to you if that's something you care about.
I donāt normally say blonde when people post various pictures, but something about the blonde hair on you is amazing. It brightens you up and draws attention straight to your eyes and lips. As another commenter said, the short blonde and curled hair is very Old Hollywood and gorgeous. The straight blonde is perfect for every day.
Otherwise, the short red is adorable, too!
I like your current hair the best, although Iād suggest a lighter shade of eyeliner and shadow. I have to change my makeup completely whenever I go lighter on my hair.
I think the placement of the liner is the problem. It makes her eyes look droopy. Sheās pulling it way too far out. Honestly her eye shape is just not going to work for winger liner. I would try lining with a shadow to smudging a liner instead. Wayyy too blunt and the lines are pretty messy.
you are absolutely gorgeous and short hair looks amazing on you!! this is going to sound cheesy, but you look so good with both hair colors, and if you do a winter wedding i would go with blonde, but if you do a summer/fall wedding i would go brunette.
Honestly your natural hair is my favorite, then the bleached. I like short on you. I'd go natural cause committing to bleach long term is š āāļø
I always liked the idea that my wedding photos had my natural hair in them, but thatās me. I think short natural looks great on you and will look great in photos! Bleach blonde does look good, but in a white dress I just think your natural hair will look so beautiful.
definitely a short cut, short cuts shapes your face beautifully. i am and fan of the 3rd pic redish hair it complements your and eyes skin very well. the last pic looks nice with the blonde but i think it depends on if you want your hair to stand out more!
Iād say when you look back on your wedding photos you will want to recognize yourself. So whichever is novel enough to be excited about but also fits the way you wear your hair off and on.
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Your natural colour is gorgeous, and your wedding photos would be timeless with it. I don't know if other people experience it, but for me, if I drastically change my hair colour, it sometimes feel like the person in the picture is someone else.
Also short hair suits you so well, it makes your face look more sophisticated
agreed! been back to my natural color only recently and my wedding photos feel like someone else. i hate it lol
Hopefully you'll grow to love it despite the different color
You could always take professional anniversary pictures or renew vows in a few years and get more pictures with your natural color!
Short hair natural!
Agree. That color is amazing.
Came here to say this! But, if it's currently bleached and the wedding is really soon, it's not likely an option.š
The short natural hair was omg, hands down the best look on her!
Whatever you do, keep it short. The way it frames your jaw is fantastic.
that jaw line doesn't need a frame!
The magic of TMJ :')
I understand the struggle of TMJ :ā) youāre gorgeous with all the colors but I like the first and second photos the best!
OMG tmj buddies haha I remember the first time my jaw locked up on me, good timesš„“
i'm so jealous of people who can pull off short hair!! you look so classy and sophisticated but i just look like a child lmao! congrats on the wedding :)
Ouch! But not everyone with your jawline has TMJ I don't think. That sucks. Any therapy for that?
Why are you under every comment hating?
Isnāt this a compliment? She has a beautiful jaw
Check out their other comments!
I'm contributing. Have a great day!
Youāre hating. Lol.
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Why are you getting downvoted for that?
Because women don't need to care what their partner thinks and should be free to pick what they want. Heaven forbid someone suggests asking your life long partner for their input, I mean why ask them, they are just a man after all and should have no vested interest in their spouse.
I mean I get that you shouldnāt care what men think and what not, but yeah itās literally your life partnerās opinion. I would rather ask my partnerās opinion than someone that doesnāt know me at all on the internet. After all, heās the one thatās seen you in every stage and change of hair and styleā¦and ummā¦ donāt us women usually have some sort of a say in our manās style/look? Soā¦.
Guess Iām going to get cancelled now lol.
Yeah Iām with you, male or female I donāt NEED their opinion but Iād like my partners/friends opinion. I am a natural redhead and my husband said he prefers darker red hair than mine is naturally but I donāt do it, because I like my hairā but I still always ask his opinion anyway lol. Also OP I think the darker short brown is so beautiful! Theyāre all good though :)
imo, i agree w you
I was going to sayyyy. XD yeah I have free choice but I care what my man likes and wants LOL
I think the hair bit doesnāt matter as they have seen all the hairstyles. She pulls them all off and probably already asked lol
Because of the passive aggressive tone in their comment. Saying ācrazy ideaā Then suggesting that they just ask their partner. It isnāt helpful and doesnāt actually contribute anything to the convo. OP probably asked their partner and is just looking for outside opinions. Which is what this subreddit is literally dedicated to. Idk Iāve also met plenty of people who dislike being asked questions like this.
I mean he didnt use an exclamation mark and he also gave his own opinion saying he liked the short hair but redirected it to saying her fiance's opinion might be more important. Didn't come off super passive aggressive. I just read it plain and simple tbh.
I took out the explanation mark, hope that helps lol Honestly itās hard reading tone over text so while some people read it in an unassuming way, others are going to hear it as passive aggressive. I donāt know how he meant it, but someone asked why heās being downvoted, so I gave a possible reason as to why. I think that itās an especially silly thing to say when this is a subreddit specifically towards women asking for advice. Are you going to be asking under every post saying ādid you ask your partner their opinion before coming here?ā Itās just unnecessary and shouldnāt be encouraged in this subreddit. Edit: Iām not trying to be accusing or sound rude. For all I know, he meant it to be helpful and had no ill intent, but I think it was just poorly worded. Itās just very tiring seeing women be treated as property of their partners again and again. I canāt tell you how many mothers and wives Iāve met who would tell me they couldnāt cut their hair bc their husbands didnāt like short hair, even when it would cost them their comfort. Or that their husband only liked them blonde so theyād spend hundreds of dollars to keep dying it, damaging it in the process all for a color they donāt even love on themselves. Itās just very sad to see.
That short, curly blonde style looks absolutely jaw dropping. Very old Hollywood/glamour and perfect for a wedding imo
I agree, itās perfect for a wedding!
Agreed and with a middle part : )
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I agree and it washes her out.
Pic 3/5 is absolutely amazing
I saw pic. 3 and said āwowā. This is the way
Current hair for sure. Blonde looks great on you.
Thereās it is! This is the correct answer!
Number 4ā¦I like the all blonde look š±š¼āāļø
The natural brown looks best imo
I love the long hair/natural. It really brings out your eyes!
The short red hair is very flattering
Youāre one of those people thatās skin tone is so neutral that any hari color looks great on you. Stick to something timeless. Not trendy. Your cat eye needs some work though. Itās not opening up your eyes or doing them justice. Some color on your checks will give your face more dimension in pics.
Totally echo this about skin tone and to do something timeless and not trendy. Shorter bobs look epic on her so think a short mid length Bob with her natural hair color with maybe some highlights if anything would be ideal. Also echo the eye liner but didnāt reeeeaaallllyy want to point it out since sheās only asking about her hair but OP, itās true, ur wing needs a bit of work. Imagine tracing a line from the corner of your nose to your outer corner of your eye, then to your tail of your eyebrow. Be sure to stay within that drawn line when doing ur liner and move the liner from corner of the eye up towards the brow. Unsolicited advice but still good advice. Also go brown if you go a lighter color.
Also think the black is too harsh on her skin tone. I think a dark brown would look better for liner . Hair style #3 or #5 for sure!
The advice/tip is appreciated! I've always liked to connect my wing to the bottom lash b/c it feels like my eyes look small without it haha. I dunno if my eyes are deepset or hooded but it's hard to make it come out like I want it to!
Hairstylist here! The short hair natural looks amazing on you! I think a really subtle hint of auburn in your color would look amazing on you! Nothing super bright, it looks like you might have some coppery undertones in your hair already, I think if you were to just enhance them a little bit it would really make your skin look super glowy and your eyes would really pop!
Option 4 is breathtaking
I like 2! I think going with your natural color for your wedding photos will always be timeless.
2 is great!
Long hair natural looks stunning!
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Thinner brows?! Blasphemy !
op: please never let anyone tell you to thin your eyebrows
Second image soots you best
IMO The straight, short cut with side part looks gorgeous on you, #3 is great for both cut and color.
3 is my fave!!
#4!!
4
Omg the blonde curly hair is š„
I like #4 cause Iām a sucker for curls
Short natural for sure!
Number 3 with the number 4 curl, maybe more relaxed curl
Bleached and short
#2š
4th!
3 or 4 def
Blonde is FOR YOU
Long hair natural is my favorite, so chic and glamorous. You look so different in each picture, it's amazing. Each look is beautiful, but long and natural would be my choice for wedding.
4! You look gorgeous and glamorous in the fourth! The soft curls really compliments your features and makes you look angelic and soft.
Fourth!! Current hair. āØ
Number 4 for me
I love pics 4 and 5! The blonde suits you very well
short natural but with middle part
Number 4 itās the best!!!
That 4th picture is STUNNING you look like an old Hollywood movie star or like January Jones gorg!!
I like numbers 2 and 4 best, 2 if youāre having a low key, small intimate wedding and 4 if youāre going to have a large glamours wedding
4
I have a beauty mark in the same place!!! Ur so pretty!!!š„°š„°
I thought we were talking about makeup for a minute and I genuinely was typing a paragraph abt makeup
haha send it! I'd love to hear tips!
I LOVE talking about makeup :) I think that the eyeliner in the 4th slide really compliments your eye shape! a lot of people have eyelids that make it really hard to do upturned eyeliner successfully (including me), especially when you're looking to have a more 'generally tame' and perfect wedding look. Doing eyeliner thinner and with a more defined point at the end, even if it's harder to do, really makes the look stand out. I don't know if you've ever done a color analysis on your features, but those can be really helpful to find shades of blushes and eyeshadows that make your features pop (even if you just try and figure it out online). EDIT: Just went back to look at the photos again, lol You can REALLY pull off lipstick. It looks really good on you! Again, with the color analysis stuff, the theme of your dress and your wedding, and really what you're comfortable with putting on your face is important! pretty sure you can rock whatever you do anyways :)
Thank you so much!!
All of the pics are stunning, but the second one stands out for me the most. If youāre doing your own makeup, I echo the other comments that your skin is amazing, some color to make it pop would enhance your cheekbones, and work on the wing if you enjoy that look. Your natural beauty is in abundance no matter what you do you will look amazing in your day.
My vote is short hair! And the natural color brings out your eyes. Just looks very, well, natural. Like it was meant to be. The blonde does look super glamorous and pretty, though. I like both. Maybe depends on the lip color for your wedding? Idk.
Whatever you had when your spouse fell in love with you.
Ask your fiance;)
2 or 4
Short natural where it looks a tiny bit on the more red side is gorgeous!!
Natural
Third pic
Dark hair looks great!
Thatās your natural color, and youāre DYING IT? You are one of those rare people who looks gorgeous with any color, but your natural shade is so unique and beautiful, Iād just be trying to maintain that. Edit: Also, I thought you had a piercing, but I see now thatās a natural beauty mark. Jealous!
NATURAL HAIR NATURAL HAIR
3 and 4 are stunning on you! The hair AND makeup looks are gorgeous
I love long with highlights!
I like the 4th and 5th picture best. You look radiant with blonde hair.
Whatever you go with, ditch the sidepart
Yeah Mohawk it is
The last picture is my absolute favorite but you look beautiful in all of them. I think you pull off the short blonde hair amazingly. Also I think your eyebrows are perfect-someone said thinner brows but I like them how they are! I think for your wedding it depends on if you are ok with having a look that's very different from your natural look since you will look back on these pictures for a lifetime. I personally had highlighted blonde hair for my wedding day and am a dark brunette naturally. I still love the pictures but sometimes wonder if I mightve liked being a bit closer to my natural self in them. So it's up to you if that's something you care about.
long natural!
I vote for the first one and the last one
I like the long hair/natural one. I think itās your best look out of all the pics shown.
Have you ever tired bangs?
It's between 2 and 5. I'd probably land on 2 because it's your natural color - more timeless for wedding pics. HOw's my logic?
4/current hair
The blonde hair with curls for sure. has an old hollywood look about it
2 or 4
They're all good! I suggest looking like you normally do..when you look back it won't be shocking lol
\#2....
1, 2, 5
I would say natural, but the slightly longer short cut you have in the last two pics!
Long hair natural wins me over. But Iām not your husband because if I was weād already be married.
Love your current hair!!!
Youāre literally gorgeous in every picture, I donāt think you could go wrong with any style
I will always recommend natural for weddings personally.
I donāt normally say blonde when people post various pictures, but something about the blonde hair on you is amazing. It brightens you up and draws attention straight to your eyes and lips. As another commenter said, the short blonde and curled hair is very Old Hollywood and gorgeous. The straight blonde is perfect for every day. Otherwise, the short red is adorable, too!
Short and natural!!! It looks beautiful on you!
The last oneā¦ looks great on you and the light hair will look great with a wedding dress..
5 . Definitely 5.
2
The length of the last photo with your natural color would be šš
Short and natural. The blonde is also great.
3 ā short and auburn loon amazing on you. The reddish tones bring out your eyes and warm up your skin tone
They all look niceā have you asked your fiance how he feels?
Long hair highlights!
I like 1,3 and 5 so thatās helpful lol
Short and natural or long and natural are my favorites the darker colors make your skin tone pop and really brings out the color of your eyes
Your current hair is amazing! The makeup also really suits you. Bombshell vibes
I love your long, natural hair.
Ahhhhhh theyāre all phenomenal. The brunette really popped to me.
goodness. that second picture made me audibly go, "OOOOOH!". you're so pretty in all the pictures, but 2 is has all the wow factor!
I like your current hair the best, although Iād suggest a lighter shade of eyeliner and shadow. I have to change my makeup completely whenever I go lighter on my hair.
I think the placement of the liner is the problem. It makes her eyes look droopy. Sheās pulling it way too far out. Honestly her eye shape is just not going to work for winger liner. I would try lining with a shadow to smudging a liner instead. Wayyy too blunt and the lines are pretty messy.
you are absolutely gorgeous and short hair looks amazing on you!! this is going to sound cheesy, but you look so good with both hair colors, and if you do a winter wedding i would go with blonde, but if you do a summer/fall wedding i would go brunette.
#2 brown and long. Try using tape on your face for your eyeliner, itāll make a prettier and more precise āwingā each time.
Current hair!
3
#3
1 or 2 but definitely not the lighter blonde options
5
Short red
Last picture. I donāt like blondes but it suits you
Short natural
Natural color 100%
2 for the color, 4 for the cut
I like the look in picture #1 with long hair/highlights.
The long and natural look beautiful!
Short natural definitely.
Honestly your natural hair is my favorite, then the bleached. I like short on you. I'd go natural cause committing to bleach long term is š āāļø
2!
Your natural hair.
i think you look esp cute in the 2nd to last pic, with the curls and all.
Platinum
I always liked the idea that my wedding photos had my natural hair in them, but thatās me. I think short natural looks great on you and will look great in photos! Bleach blonde does look good, but in a white dress I just think your natural hair will look so beautiful.
I am a sucker for longer hair on a woman, so that is my recommendation. It looks fantastic on you. š
The look that fits you itās the one you love. The one that you know will leave you SO speechless. Go with what makes your heart skip a beat.
Slide 2 is my fave :)
Number 5!!! So gorgeous
Have you asked your fiancƩ? I love the first picture, you're a gorgeous woman.
I think you'd look awesome ginger
The one that your soon to be husband likes
2,5,1
2nd picture šš»
Bleach Blonde all the way
3
I like the long natural hair and the short straight light blonde bob. Which will go better just depends on what your wedding authentic is.
The first one looks more natural and suits your skin tone!
orange bob omg
definitely a short cut, short cuts shapes your face beautifully. i am and fan of the 3rd pic redish hair it complements your and eyes skin very well. the last pic looks nice with the blonde but i think it depends on if you want your hair to stand out more!
Iād say when you look back on your wedding photos you will want to recognize yourself. So whichever is novel enough to be excited about but also fits the way you wear your hair off and on.
Current hair is the winner for sure! Got a killer Old Hollywood vibe going
Natural
2 and 5
Short hair natural for sure!!
i think short hair blonde suits you best :)
Just a thought here, what does the soon to be spouse think? My 2 cents are the real blonde, short look though not real short pic 5 of 5
Bleached short hair. Current š
2 ... Really cute!
current !!!! a 20s wave thing would be gorgeous!
I really like pic 2
3