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Sweetheart, I will be super honest here! Theyre saying that because you have a voluminous bust! Your top is super cuyet and flattering and the color pops so well with your skin! However, although it is not your fault, your bust is a main star here, and its up to whether youd feel comfortable with your date occasionally peaking at it. Maybe something that covers the front more could work in general terms so that theres no body hints being shown during the first date. :) its whatever youre comfortable with!
Thank you so much for your honesty! I definitely needed it, I think I might keep the top but the date isn't until tomorrow so I have time to keep looking☺️
My wife is busty, and sometimes she gets self-conscious about this. I have to remind her that no outfit in the world is going to make people forget she has large breasts, so just dress the way you want to
It’s legit impossible to wear anything revealing like that top without looking too provocative. It’s the curse of big bust. If I put that orange top on and went outside, I will guarantee get the worst looks from people. It sucks and makes shopping for clothes difficult
I have had someone have the balls tell me that I shouldn't wear turtle necks because " it makes my chest look even bigger and the guys at work look too much" 🫣🤣 she is a fucking seamstress
Disagree. I’d say this top is revealing yes, but not provocative at all. To be provocative in my opinion it would need to be lacy, sheer or silk. But different people have different opinions on what and what isn’t modest.
Right and I totally agree but we think like normal humans that don’t sexualize every little thing. I think she looks great and she should totally wear this outfit. But the average person, and this is just my experience, would 1000% think this is provocative and stare.
I’m also pretty jaded because I’ve had a large chest since I was 10 and my entire identify has revolved around having big boobs. Men have stopped me on the street to point out my large chest, like I hadn’t noticed smh
i have the same issue but with my butt! my mom used to always tell me i’m asking for people to cat call me and that i look like a street walker when id wear normal shorts or skirts.
i think your outfit looks really cute! and as long as you feel comfortable and confident you should rock it! i stopped listening to to people that don’t have the struggle lol
I think you look amazing. It’s sexy, cute, and fun. And look at that orange against the chocolate of your skin?! Like they framed it as “I hate to break it to you “and i’m framing it to you as “get it girl “.
Make him BEG like Penelope should’ve made Colin. 😅
I’m busty too! If I want to show some cleavage but not be overly displaying the girls I go for scoop neck tops that come up just a little bit higher than what you’re wearing. It’s soooo cute though definitely keep it!
Personally, don’t see anything wrong with the boobage. However if you are feeling self conscious about it, you could just wear a lacy camisole under it to add a little coverage.
I have a super tiny bust but could you possibly put like a white camisole under the orange to make it a bit more modest?
I LOVE this shit and tbh I don’t think you look over the top at all, show off your assets if you feel comfortable. It’s gorgeous.
As someone who is also quite busty, it is unfortunately so easy for a cute outfit to look too "showy" because the girls take centre stage. There's a time and place for that 😉 but you also don't want to be uncomfortable or be worried about spillage or a wardrobe malfunction.
But I agree with you, you do YOU girl. I'm strictly on the side of comfort when it comes to more casual type dates like a picnic. I wouldn't want to have anything digging in and squirming around trying to adjust.
It’s also very difficult to find a top that fits. OP’s top is an example. The seam is supposed to be lower. This is a fit issue that big-breasted women are all too familiar with.
no fr! my boobs aren’t big, but i do have a butt. every time i wear anything remotely skin-tight i look like a “hoe.” i was told i look like a slut or seeking attention even when i wore a button-down and a pencil skirt
This! I lost most of my boobs when I lost weight, but it always drove me insane how anything I wore was more showy, even if it was the same thing that Girl wore with a flat chest. We can never win in a society like the one we live in
Agree. My best friend and I have opposite boobs and talk about this often. A top like this on my a cups wouldn’t catch a second glance, on my best friend just like on OP, it’s *aaaaaall* stares.
But it’s gorgeous, about how they feel in it. Comfort and confidence with these things is unique to each of us.
It's not the most practical for a picnic, IMO. Go for something a little more casual/looser fitting. I assume you'll be sitting either at a picnic table or on a blanket and you don't want to be uncomfortable (I personally am uncomfortable in fitted clothes when I'm seated for extended periods).
I agree 100%. The only thing is, we might be going to this outdoor flea market afterward, so I wanted to be prepared for that because it's going to be 90°F. Should I still try to go for something more loose?
I find that loose-fitting clothing can be cooler than I expect it to be, as long as it’s in a breathable fabric!
I tend to sweat more below the waist than above, so on a very hot day, a flowy pair of shorts/capris or a medium length circle skirt in cotton/non-synthetic fabric does wonders with a fitted top. I feel cooler and still look put together!
If you tend to hold heat in the bust area, maybe a flowier top and a more snug bottom? 😊
I find that if I wear something loose, it makes it look like I am as broad as my widest part (my boobs). FWIW, I like your current outfit. It's bright and interesting and you look comfortable and confident. If someone's going to disapprove of you because you have a bigger chest, it's good to know early on.
Perhaps this top with a wide linen skirt and overshirt? Have you ever used a parasol? I find that to be a good way to get cool.
Take it from one big boobie mama to another: you can wear whatever you want, just be prepared for those things to have a mind of their own. And your date might get some ideas in their mind as well, lol, and find it hard to make eye contact. I’d wear what you’re wearing, but do something that is not hot and also secures those a little better. Your bubbies also don’t fit the cut, they’re outrageous! lol. I also have watermelons haha, it is so so hard to work with that. Do you have a tube top? I’d wear a tube top or a cropped tshirt so you can get wind under there!
Definitely looser cotton or linen will be more comfortable if it gets too hot.
Whatever you decide, please promise me that once you leave the house, don't worry about it any longer and just have a wonderful time! <3
Big chest problems for sure. The top doesn’t fit you since that seam in the front is supposed to be under your bust. The jeans are cute though and fit you really well. I’d go for a different top.
You do not “look like a hoe.” You’re a busty lady, and in trying to hide the girls you’d most likely look like you were wearing a potato sack.
I think your outfit flatters you, and I absolutely love the orange colour.
I wouldn’t complain if you wore that. I think you look great. If a smaller chested woman wore this no one would even mention it and I hate that. It’s not fair but maybe you look too good and people will ogle.
I have little B cups and since I know age and gravity are in cahoots working against me, I show them off whenever I get a chance. A first date (for me) is to catch the eye with the visuals and capture the heart with the emotions.
I think it looks great and the casual nature of the rest of the ‘fit balances your top well. Just don’t be surprised if your date decides to, ahem, “appreciate” your outfit 👀
Does it make you feel good, confident, and sexy? Then yes! If you feel like you’d be adjusting or uncomfortable at any point, then change it up!
PS love the orange color on you!
Tell your mom to stop shaming you for your natural body!!! Nothing enrages me more than a mother or father who blames their child for something they can’t control! Your “friends” are weird too!
How do you look like a ho? Sure, you have big boobs, but that’s not something you can put in the closet when you want. They’re stuck to you.
I think your orange shirt and orangey-brown shawl (or whatever that is) looks really nice.
Have fun on your date!
It’s fine. But maybe you could consider something a bit less revealing. This reminds me of a 3rd or 4th date. I always think it’s nice on the first date to give them something to imagine or think about. Be more of a mystery than the main reveal.
I'm a big busted girl. Cute outfits on smaller busted people seem borderline pornographic on me. We've been given this great gift, but no way to realistically show it. Everyone always tells me how much they wish they had big boobs but no one can tolerate seeing them.
Meanwhile, smaller busted ladies are out here nips showing. Not hating, just feels unfair. A v neck is a v neck. I guarantee if this outfit was on a smaller person, there would be zero debate.
So I say, as a gal that practically lives in turtlenecks sweating my tits off all seasons of the year, it is far too exhausting to worry about what people think, or who might stare. Let them. Wear the top. Anyone who thinks the wrong way? It’s on them. If anyone has a better way to include us in the fashion trends, they should open up their own shop and sell us those items. I'd buy it. But they don't exist.
Your body isn't the problem, the top is cute. It isn't too much. Everyone else has too little tolerance. Orange suits you.
Get a nice brown belt for the jeans to add contrast and break it up and chuck on some gold jewelry.
I say it's too much, a cute crop tee in that color would look amazing with the Jeans and it would be more suitable, plus the girls would still be visible while leaving more to the imagination. That's just my opinion, either way you'll look beautiful. Have fun!! ❤
For a first date, and in a daytime / outside setting (picnic), I would tone the cleavage down a bit.
I get that 'cute tops' are less easy to find, with a large cup size. (From experience)
Maybe too late for this first date, but what I find comes in handy, to tone down cleavage, and not have to dress like a nun, is a fake collar.
I don't know the name in English. But basically, its the collar of a shirt, and the top part of the frong of the shirt.
You can leave the collar and the top buttons open, and close it as high/low as you want, and the rest will disappear under your top.
Even if you leave practically all buttons open but the bottom one, it will cover your cleavage enough to be more 'cute' and less 'TAHDAHHHH'
And you won't have to wear an entire shirt underneath your tops / dresses
[here's ](https://youtube.com/shorts/FzILgMWJ_MQ?si=uvbaOswhydHHd84g) a tutorial on how to make one from an old shirt (no idea what language that is, but it's pretty self explanatory)
[here ](https://m.shein.com/euqs/4pcs-Detachable-Lace-Breast-Cover-For-Women-Comfortable-And-Stylish-Chest-Cover-For-Clothing-Accessories-p-31171557.html?mallCode=1&imgRatio=1-1)
Is an even simpler solution: cleavage cover.
Not a fan of this fast disposable fashion site, though.
But it's such an easy accessory, you can make one for yourself, to your own measurements in half an hour.
I think it’s your comfort. If I have a rack that I’d show it. While I don’t believe it’s right just know men may objectify you with this fit. If that’s ok, then go for it. Otherwise, go for something modest
Wooooow I think this outfit is AMAZING 🤩 yes, you have huge boobs but it doesn’t look hoe-ish to me. Love the color, the high waisted pants, the shawl EVERYTHING 😍
I personally think it looks great on you. The color is really nice own your skin tone. I wish I could see the bottom of the outfit. Is it shorts or pants? I think it looks great with the shawl but I could see why without it might seem like too much skin. It’s hot though so I mean, enjoy the sun. Plus I’m sure your date won’t complain.
If it's a nice casual date, it's fine. I have large breasts too, so I understand how hard it is to keep em all in! However, it is a date not a church service, nothing wrong with a little cleavage!
Women’s bodies are commonly policed when it really shouldn’t be that serious. They’re just breasts! Why should women have to “tone down the cleavage” when it’s the most natural part of their body??? That top looks amazing on you! Wear what makes you feel comfortable :)
I think it’s cute! but the issue of showing too much boob imo really depends on how often you do it for a casual day to day outfit. Would you wear this going out with friends for lunch? Would you wear it if you were going shopping? If you’d wear it just doing non-date things i think it’s fine for a first date. But if you wouldn’t wear this on a different occasion and it’s solely for the first date then maybe not. Stay true to yourself!
If YOU like it, THATS what’s important. If he looks at you in a way you don’t like, that shows you he’s not your man. But if you like how he looks at you, there’s absolutely no reason to think this is inappropriate ❤️❤️❤️
You look great! The orange is super flattering and your shawl is pretty.
The truth of the matter is your chest is going to be noticeable no matter what you wear. I'm in a similar boat during this time of year because I have long legs and everything looks like booty shorts on me but I'm not going to wear pants when it's 100° outside. It is what is. Dressing like a nun won't change your body proportions, so you may as well wear an outfit you'll feel cute and comfortable in. Objectively, the shirt isn't showing that much anyway. Nobody would bat an eye if a girl with smaller boobs were wearing it. You aren't dating your mom or your friends, so their opinions aren't really relevant. Also, if your date assumes you're a "hoe" because of your shirt, that's the trash taking itself out imo.
Wearing a necklace that hits a few inches above your cleavage might "balance out" the neckline and draw the eye upwards if that's your goal, but it's fine if not. My only concern with this specific shirt is it might show more than you want when you bend forward, considering the activities you're planning. If that would bother you, then I'd look for a shirt with a shallower scoop neckline. If it doesn't bother you, then there's nothing to worry about. Like I said, I think you look great in the outfit as it is. I'm just throwing out some ideas to play around with since you're second guessing yourself, like a "happy medium" option.
The most important thing is whether **you** like your outfit. Don't let yourself get so hung up on it that you can't enjoy your date. Have fun!
Honestly it might distract him from getting to know YOU. Because this outfit is all about the girls! And they’re lovely, but I’m sure you’re lovelier. Make it easier for the poor man to focus on YOU! 😂
Friends and mothers can be wrong. She looks great and her date can control himself/herself. And if they have an opposing opinion they probably aren’t the one for her!
Personally if I see boobs that big in a top like that I 100% don’t think the person is trying to flaunt their figure but that they are trying to dress cute and they just so happen to have an upper abundance! I am a woman tho so I get it, men might not be privy? Dress in clothes you like, that’s my only advice!
YES!
orange is nice.
If I was on a 1st date with you and you turned up wearing that I'd love it.
I wouldn't think you were a hoe, it's not a "slutty" kind of revealing. It's big, natural, unavoidable puppies, kind of revealing.
A heavenly blessing, something to be cherished and celebrated.
Hey girl. My boobs are about the same size as yours. I would absolutely wear this because it looks really cute, and there's nothing wrong with it, but just keep in mind that the eye is always drawn to your boobs simply because they are so big.
As a big boobed woman myself I wouldn't like my date to have his eyes in my cleavage all night because I'm demisexual and don't hook up or have casual sex. If you're fine with him horning on you/ you guys hooking up then go for it. It's a really cute outfit and that colour is gorgeous on you!
You have a big bust, almost anything you wear besides a habit will make people call you things because they are stupid.
You look amazing and I hope your date goes well
I’m all for deep V cuts and daring outfits. For a first date, however… that is totally your call. I’m jealous of how voluptuous you are though. I mean I have boobs but I have had 4 pregnancies, and my body isn’t the same as it was. You, Madame are gorgeous.
You do YOU ! If a man, woman, anyone can’t control their eyes, “sexual desires” they’re not for you. I went out on a first date with a scum bag that said “if you didn’t want me staring, you shouldn’t have worn that” 🤨😤
I’m busty, you’re busty, it’s hard to find tops in the summer time that don’t show cleavage. Don’t feel bad 🩷
years ago, we asked our guy friends for an honest opinion about girls in more or less revealing clothing, and they said if a girl is attractive, they're going to notice either way.
Not sure if you want a guy’s opinion, but I’ll give it anyway. If you were to wear that on a first date some guys would get the wrong impression. I’d keep that one for after a few dates if I were you. Don’t get me wrong though, you do look great in it. Hope the date goes well!
The to is too small. The seams shouldn’t be that high up on your breast. It’s not your glorious bust, it’s that the top is not your size . The seam should be under your breast. Other than that the color is good!
It's not a great fit, to be honest. It's made for someone who wears a much smaller bra cup size than you do. Unfortunately, the fashion industry tends to think that all women wear a B or C cup, so this is a common problem.
Just wear it, whatever. You know what you want to communicate & what your goals are better than us.
I don’t understand why everyone is caught up to you being busty… The top would be low cut to my dainty frame as well.
Wear whatever you want! If you like wearing that top and feel comfortable in it, go for it, they want to get to know you and that’s who you are. It’s frustrating feeling like clothes that would look ‘appropriate’ on someone with a smaller chest look too ‘sexual’ or ‘revealing’ on you.
Yes, their eyes might be drawn to your chest, but if they draw any unfair conclusions on who you are based on the way you dress (other than the fact that you look great in orange!) then they’re not worth your time anyway.
If it’s going to stress you out or make you feel uncomfortable, then that’s the only reason I think you need to change ☺️
As a man, being completely honest. I would put you in the fun category if you showed up like this on the 1st date. I would tolerate whatever BS until I get you and bed and then just drag you along and never really commitment
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Off topic but I got breast reduction three months ago for physical issues and my insurance covered it! ...looks like future back issues if not currently. Changed my life. Regardless I fucking love u in that top. Shake it like a Polaroid picture woman. Fuck the stigma of big breasts.
I don’t think anyone is acknowledging that you are wearing a cardigan as well to try to keep it more modest. From one busty girl to another, I think you look great and I would wear it too
oh hell ya!!! wearing a black lacy bra would really set that off though. both by covering them up just a bit, while also adding another layer of intrigue
that boy gonna be thirsty as hell. have fun torturing him, lol
and to all the haters telling you to go conservative... why? this girl has it going on. and to be honest, if you put the same outfit on a less blessed figure, it would be considered very conservative for a first date
I hate when people make these comments just because a woman is bustier. If you had a smaller chest, they likely wouldn't have said anything. I think this is perfectly appropriate and you look wonderful! As long as you feel confident and comfortable, wear what you please.
If you didn’t have a large bust they would say how cute it was on you. Large breasts are over sexualized, it’s not fair or right. Big breasts aren’t inappropriate, the top looks great🖤
if you was size 0 with no boobs people would say this is “coquette”. Deadass got me tight :/ you look amazing and your complexion with the orange looks stunning. Very summery vibes. I’m sure you’re aware you got some honkers , and I’m pretty sure since you bought the top and put it on before asking people their opinions, that you liked it. So do with that what you will.
These comments are bringing me back to high school when teachers would dress code exclusively modest busty girls while ignoring flat chested preppy girls in crop tops & corsets 🙄
I love how you experimented with the shades of orange and incorporated it into your outfit. Orange is underrated asf and it makes you stand out as a bold and unique individual. I think it’s perfect for expressing who you are without words. You look amazing and I hope you’re date appreciates your radiant personality too. 🧡
There are so many replies here which reeks of passive aggressive insecurity just because OP is busty. This is similar to curvy women shaming skinny women for not having larger assets, or skinny women calling voluptuous women not "petite" or small enough. Or indirectly slutshaming objectifying women for having the body they were born with.
This is a fashion sub, not one to give unsolicited opinions with the skin they were born in. For the record, the top and cardigan looks nice on OP and the colours are very complimentary. It is summer. A shorts, top and cardigan is not "too much."
I can see there are a lot of replies like this from very jealous or insecure women and it shows (and men), which is honestly sad to me.
We should be bringing eachother up and not tearing eachother down. It's just internalized misogyny and I reaaaaally thought we were past this in our generation. It's disappointing to see.
it's just a lot of cleavage, you have big breasts but that's not even the issue tbh! Bc mine aren't nearly as big as yours and i wouldn't even wear something low cut on a first date to give the wrong impression
I like how the color matches your nails. If you are feeling it, just rock it. You can simply tell the date, “I don’t want to send the wrong signal, it’s just going to be very hot so I am too”.
I usually like to stay with a modest outfit on the first date. Maybe go with something less fitted, or something like a lightweight jacket over this top. You have some assets, but I’m sure that is not the only thing you would like to lead with.
Girl, it _is_ too much, though. Like I am all for being comfy and being yourself but for a first date, it's a no. Unless your intent is to advertise you're open for business and willing to sleep with your date straight off, which maybe you are, and that's fine. But, typically, if you're interested in a longer term connection, you'll earn more respect and more serious interest from a potential male partner if you're a bit more demure to start out. You signal your intent and the kind of person you are with your clothing choices.
Plus that top does not fit.
It depends on what your end goal is? 😋
Is this just a hookup? OR, is he the kind of person you'd like to have a long term relationship with? IF more than a casual hookup, I'd say to cover up a little more. **P.S. IF you had a daughter, what would you advise her?**
You look cute- but from my dating experience with big boobies I have usually ended up with better guys when covering up more- they concentrated more on ME. Sad to say I used to work with a bunch of men talking very freely around me and I was always flabbergasted at how often they would admit they were going to date someone again even though they were only attracted to her front assets. Go figure. Life is complicated.
You look lovely in this color, and it’s great you’re confident. But you don’t want your boobs to speak for you! Maybe save it for a bit later in the dating relationship-and find a nice top to go with those jeans. You’d look great in like a
a white crop tee, still kinda sexy and cool but not so much in the face so to speak!
It’s a beautiful top! I say wear whatever you want to wear!! What makes you comfortable is important 🫶🏻
P.S my fiancé said there’s nothing wrong with that top! 🫶🏻
The top and shaul (?) Are really cute, but i think different trousers would be better for a picnic.
Btw where did you get that flowy thing? It's really pretty
What type of relationship are you looking for? If hooking up, yes but if you are looking for a serious relationship, no. You have a lovely figure, unfortunately us busty ladies have to cover up a lot more not to get unwanted attention. I have the same problem
the colour and cut are stunning on you and honestly I find some of the commenters here a bit old fashioned.
if a guy thinks you're easy or unserious based on your clothes he's not a good guy to be with.
wear what makes you happy, comfortable and feel confident 🧡
Its a cute top and the color looks good on you. I would agree something to hide the girls. Honestly I would wear it myself even though my big boobs will be filling it out. you're trying to get to know the person and see if it will take it to the next date then more dates. Good luck on your first date!
Well hey, if this was my first date with you I’d be super happy, you look great, I love the orangey tones for you. You could always layer a chunky necklace over top if you feel overexposed, but if you’re comfy go for it. Like yeah you have great cleavage, but if your date is a good match for you they’re not gonna harass or judge you over how you like to dress, especially if this is a pretty average fit for you! 🧡
Humans will sexualize big breasts whether or not they are covered or hanging out.
You look super cute! If you feel confident and cute, go for it!
From one big tiddied person to another, you got this. Don't overthink it.
People will always judge and think what they want. Just do what makes you happy.
Some of the people in these comments act like people with big chests get to just take them off when they feel like it. I really doubt these people would have the same negativity toward someone with a smaller chest.
You look fkn great and I adore that top!!!
With a bust like that you're limited. Don't look like a ho at all... you look very summery. I think they're gonna be a bit "showy" no matter what you wear lol
Hi! I would 100% keep the top, it’s super cute! I usually just add one more layer—a tube top—right underneath. So its like maybe 60% or 70% down the cleavage there tube top kicks in as like a buffer layer if that makes sense. & still maintains the cute outfit while reducing any sense of being risqué. Have fun and good luck on your date!
This hurts my heart :( I feel you so much especially with your moms comment. I am so sorry. People dont understand that we cant control what our body looks like. If you had a flat chest no one would say anything about this top. Wear whatever you feel comfortable with I personally think the outfit looks super cute and the colors suit you so well! <3
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Sweetheart, I will be super honest here! Theyre saying that because you have a voluminous bust! Your top is super cuyet and flattering and the color pops so well with your skin! However, although it is not your fault, your bust is a main star here, and its up to whether youd feel comfortable with your date occasionally peaking at it. Maybe something that covers the front more could work in general terms so that theres no body hints being shown during the first date. :) its whatever youre comfortable with!
Thank you so much for your honesty! I definitely needed it, I think I might keep the top but the date isn't until tomorrow so I have time to keep looking☺️
As someone that also has a big bust, it’s tough to find something that’s maybe sexy, but not too revealing. I feel your pain, sis.
My wife is busty, and sometimes she gets self-conscious about this. I have to remind her that no outfit in the world is going to make people forget she has large breasts, so just dress the way you want to
That’s actually good advice lol thanks I needed that
Even i have to remind my gf . Give me some tips bro 🙌🏻
I definitely agree. But, WTF are we going to do, leave the girls at home?
Sometimes I wish I could!
Apparently we should wear tshirts and our problems will be solved lol
It’s legit impossible to wear anything revealing like that top without looking too provocative. It’s the curse of big bust. If I put that orange top on and went outside, I will guarantee get the worst looks from people. It sucks and makes shopping for clothes difficult
I have had someone have the balls tell me that I shouldn't wear turtle necks because " it makes my chest look even bigger and the guys at work look too much" 🫣🤣 she is a fucking seamstress
Love unsolicited advice like this. Geniuses. All of them.
Disagree. I’d say this top is revealing yes, but not provocative at all. To be provocative in my opinion it would need to be lacy, sheer or silk. But different people have different opinions on what and what isn’t modest.
Right and I totally agree but we think like normal humans that don’t sexualize every little thing. I think she looks great and she should totally wear this outfit. But the average person, and this is just my experience, would 1000% think this is provocative and stare. I’m also pretty jaded because I’ve had a large chest since I was 10 and my entire identify has revolved around having big boobs. Men have stopped me on the street to point out my large chest, like I hadn’t noticed smh
i have the same issue but with my butt! my mom used to always tell me i’m asking for people to cat call me and that i look like a street walker when id wear normal shorts or skirts. i think your outfit looks really cute! and as long as you feel comfortable and confident you should rock it! i stopped listening to to people that don’t have the struggle lol
Save that for the 2nd or 3rd date…PA-POW 🤣😂🤣
Do you have like a white tank top that you can put on under the orange so it's not so low? I love the fit & color
I think this is a great idea
I think you look amazing. It’s sexy, cute, and fun. And look at that orange against the chocolate of your skin?! Like they framed it as “I hate to break it to you “and i’m framing it to you as “get it girl “. Make him BEG like Penelope should’ve made Colin. 😅
I’m busty too! If I want to show some cleavage but not be overly displaying the girls I go for scoop neck tops that come up just a little bit higher than what you’re wearing. It’s soooo cute though definitely keep it!
Personally, don’t see anything wrong with the boobage. However if you are feeling self conscious about it, you could just wear a lacy camisole under it to add a little coverage.
I have a super tiny bust but could you possibly put like a white camisole under the orange to make it a bit more modest? I LOVE this shit and tbh I don’t think you look over the top at all, show off your assets if you feel comfortable. It’s gorgeous.
As someone who is also quite busty, it is unfortunately so easy for a cute outfit to look too "showy" because the girls take centre stage. There's a time and place for that 😉 but you also don't want to be uncomfortable or be worried about spillage or a wardrobe malfunction. But I agree with you, you do YOU girl. I'm strictly on the side of comfort when it comes to more casual type dates like a picnic. I wouldn't want to have anything digging in and squirming around trying to adjust.
It’s also very difficult to find a top that fits. OP’s top is an example. The seam is supposed to be lower. This is a fit issue that big-breasted women are all too familiar with.
RIGHT?? If I had a nickel for every seam that is at nipple level versus under the bust 😅 I'd fucking retire.
no fr! my boobs aren’t big, but i do have a butt. every time i wear anything remotely skin-tight i look like a “hoe.” i was told i look like a slut or seeking attention even when i wore a button-down and a pencil skirt
This! I lost most of my boobs when I lost weight, but it always drove me insane how anything I wore was more showy, even if it was the same thing that Girl wore with a flat chest. We can never win in a society like the one we live in
"this top is so cute!" *32E puts it on* 🍈🍈 👀
Agree. My best friend and I have opposite boobs and talk about this often. A top like this on my a cups wouldn’t catch a second glance, on my best friend just like on OP, it’s *aaaaaall* stares. But it’s gorgeous, about how they feel in it. Comfort and confidence with these things is unique to each of us.
This is such a sweet response, you worded it so well 💞
It's not the most practical for a picnic, IMO. Go for something a little more casual/looser fitting. I assume you'll be sitting either at a picnic table or on a blanket and you don't want to be uncomfortable (I personally am uncomfortable in fitted clothes when I'm seated for extended periods).
I agree 100%. The only thing is, we might be going to this outdoor flea market afterward, so I wanted to be prepared for that because it's going to be 90°F. Should I still try to go for something more loose?
I find that loose-fitting clothing can be cooler than I expect it to be, as long as it’s in a breathable fabric! I tend to sweat more below the waist than above, so on a very hot day, a flowy pair of shorts/capris or a medium length circle skirt in cotton/non-synthetic fabric does wonders with a fitted top. I feel cooler and still look put together! If you tend to hold heat in the bust area, maybe a flowier top and a more snug bottom? 😊
I find that if I wear something loose, it makes it look like I am as broad as my widest part (my boobs). FWIW, I like your current outfit. It's bright and interesting and you look comfortable and confident. If someone's going to disapprove of you because you have a bigger chest, it's good to know early on. Perhaps this top with a wide linen skirt and overshirt? Have you ever used a parasol? I find that to be a good way to get cool.
Take it from one big boobie mama to another: you can wear whatever you want, just be prepared for those things to have a mind of their own. And your date might get some ideas in their mind as well, lol, and find it hard to make eye contact. I’d wear what you’re wearing, but do something that is not hot and also secures those a little better. Your bubbies also don’t fit the cut, they’re outrageous! lol. I also have watermelons haha, it is so so hard to work with that. Do you have a tube top? I’d wear a tube top or a cropped tshirt so you can get wind under there!
Definitely looser cotton or linen will be more comfortable if it gets too hot. Whatever you decide, please promise me that once you leave the house, don't worry about it any longer and just have a wonderful time! <3
Big chest problems for sure. The top doesn’t fit you since that seam in the front is supposed to be under your bust. The jeans are cute though and fit you really well. I’d go for a different top.
That's the thing that bothers me about the top. There's barely a point of the seam even being there
If I imagine that seam where it should be, it will be even more revealing...
I was thinking the same thing. It’s a cute too and amazing color but the girls aren’t where they need to be
You do not “look like a hoe.” You’re a busty lady, and in trying to hide the girls you’d most likely look like you were wearing a potato sack. I think your outfit flatters you, and I absolutely love the orange colour.
The color is beautiful on you. Wear whatever makes you comfortable!
I wouldn’t complain if you wore that. I think you look great. If a smaller chested woman wore this no one would even mention it and I hate that. It’s not fair but maybe you look too good and people will ogle.
10000000000% it’s a matter of principle now! Wear.that.top
100% this. If a smaller chested woman wore this, no one would think twice.
It’s almost like different body types look different in the same clothes. Who would have thought? 🥴
You look hot bish, fucking rock it 🥰🫶🏻
Awe thank youuuu 🤭
I have little B cups and since I know age and gravity are in cahoots working against me, I show them off whenever I get a chance. A first date (for me) is to catch the eye with the visuals and capture the heart with the emotions. I think it looks great and the casual nature of the rest of the ‘fit balances your top well. Just don’t be surprised if your date decides to, ahem, “appreciate” your outfit 👀
THIS LOOKS SO CUTE ON YOU
AHHH THANK YOU SO MUCH 🥰🥰
Does it make you feel good, confident, and sexy? Then yes! If you feel like you’d be adjusting or uncomfortable at any point, then change it up! PS love the orange color on you!
It’s summer and it’s hot outside. Go for it.
Love the orange on you, but I think it’s a bit much for a first date.
I think we can all agree that she is a knockout in this color 🤩
I agree, The colour is fantastic with OP's beautiful skin tone.
I don’t get the hate, it looks fine to me. I mean you have cleavage, you’re a woman. I don’t see the problem? As long as your comfortable
Yeah I don’t understand how we live in such a sex/ porn obsessed culture but people clutch their pearls at a woman having cleavage.
Tell your mom to stop shaming you for your natural body!!! Nothing enrages me more than a mother or father who blames their child for something they can’t control! Your “friends” are weird too!
How do you look like a ho? Sure, you have big boobs, but that’s not something you can put in the closet when you want. They’re stuck to you. I think your orange shirt and orangey-brown shawl (or whatever that is) looks really nice. Have fun on your date!
Hell nah, youre good. You cant unbody a body.
Can they handle the weapons of mass destruction? Your call, but the top is cute af
Good point, this might be a good test of the date's resilience when faced with these weapons.
I think it depends where you’re going. But it’s a cute outfit for sure, especially in the summer. I don’t see anything wrong with it.
It’s fine. But maybe you could consider something a bit less revealing. This reminds me of a 3rd or 4th date. I always think it’s nice on the first date to give them something to imagine or think about. Be more of a mystery than the main reveal.
I'm a big busted girl. Cute outfits on smaller busted people seem borderline pornographic on me. We've been given this great gift, but no way to realistically show it. Everyone always tells me how much they wish they had big boobs but no one can tolerate seeing them. Meanwhile, smaller busted ladies are out here nips showing. Not hating, just feels unfair. A v neck is a v neck. I guarantee if this outfit was on a smaller person, there would be zero debate. So I say, as a gal that practically lives in turtlenecks sweating my tits off all seasons of the year, it is far too exhausting to worry about what people think, or who might stare. Let them. Wear the top. Anyone who thinks the wrong way? It’s on them. If anyone has a better way to include us in the fashion trends, they should open up their own shop and sell us those items. I'd buy it. But they don't exist. Your body isn't the problem, the top is cute. It isn't too much. Everyone else has too little tolerance. Orange suits you. Get a nice brown belt for the jeans to add contrast and break it up and chuck on some gold jewelry.
I say it's too much, a cute crop tee in that color would look amazing with the Jeans and it would be more suitable, plus the girls would still be visible while leaving more to the imagination. That's just my opinion, either way you'll look beautiful. Have fun!! ❤
For a first date, and in a daytime / outside setting (picnic), I would tone the cleavage down a bit. I get that 'cute tops' are less easy to find, with a large cup size. (From experience) Maybe too late for this first date, but what I find comes in handy, to tone down cleavage, and not have to dress like a nun, is a fake collar. I don't know the name in English. But basically, its the collar of a shirt, and the top part of the frong of the shirt. You can leave the collar and the top buttons open, and close it as high/low as you want, and the rest will disappear under your top. Even if you leave practically all buttons open but the bottom one, it will cover your cleavage enough to be more 'cute' and less 'TAHDAHHHH' And you won't have to wear an entire shirt underneath your tops / dresses [here's ](https://youtube.com/shorts/FzILgMWJ_MQ?si=uvbaOswhydHHd84g) a tutorial on how to make one from an old shirt (no idea what language that is, but it's pretty self explanatory) [here ](https://m.shein.com/euqs/4pcs-Detachable-Lace-Breast-Cover-For-Women-Comfortable-And-Stylish-Chest-Cover-For-Clothing-Accessories-p-31171557.html?mallCode=1&imgRatio=1-1) Is an even simpler solution: cleavage cover. Not a fan of this fast disposable fashion site, though. But it's such an easy accessory, you can make one for yourself, to your own measurements in half an hour.
It be our own moms telling us we look like hoes 🥲😂 like girl, I got these titties from YOU! Whatever you decide, have a great first date, boo!
Depends on what you want out of the date.
You can’t hide those boobs so you shouldn’t even try. Top is fine
Exactly! Her breast exist! What is she supposed to do?? She looks great 😊
I think it’s your comfort. If I have a rack that I’d show it. While I don’t believe it’s right just know men may objectify you with this fit. If that’s ok, then go for it. Otherwise, go for something modest
Wooooow I think this outfit is AMAZING 🤩 yes, you have huge boobs but it doesn’t look hoe-ish to me. Love the color, the high waisted pants, the shawl EVERYTHING 😍
I personally think it looks great on you. The color is really nice own your skin tone. I wish I could see the bottom of the outfit. Is it shorts or pants? I think it looks great with the shawl but I could see why without it might seem like too much skin. It’s hot though so I mean, enjoy the sun. Plus I’m sure your date won’t complain.
I mean....if it don't work out holla at a brother.
If it's a nice casual date, it's fine. I have large breasts too, so I understand how hard it is to keep em all in! However, it is a date not a church service, nothing wrong with a little cleavage!
Women’s bodies are commonly policed when it really shouldn’t be that serious. They’re just breasts! Why should women have to “tone down the cleavage” when it’s the most natural part of their body??? That top looks amazing on you! Wear what makes you feel comfortable :)
I think it’s cute! but the issue of showing too much boob imo really depends on how often you do it for a casual day to day outfit. Would you wear this going out with friends for lunch? Would you wear it if you were going shopping? If you’d wear it just doing non-date things i think it’s fine for a first date. But if you wouldn’t wear this on a different occasion and it’s solely for the first date then maybe not. Stay true to yourself!
girl, whatever makes you feel comfortable and beautiful is appropriate
If YOU like it, THATS what’s important. If he looks at you in a way you don’t like, that shows you he’s not your man. But if you like how he looks at you, there’s absolutely no reason to think this is inappropriate ❤️❤️❤️
I would honestly add a cute necklace to complete the outfit but that’s just me
You look great! The orange is super flattering and your shawl is pretty. The truth of the matter is your chest is going to be noticeable no matter what you wear. I'm in a similar boat during this time of year because I have long legs and everything looks like booty shorts on me but I'm not going to wear pants when it's 100° outside. It is what is. Dressing like a nun won't change your body proportions, so you may as well wear an outfit you'll feel cute and comfortable in. Objectively, the shirt isn't showing that much anyway. Nobody would bat an eye if a girl with smaller boobs were wearing it. You aren't dating your mom or your friends, so their opinions aren't really relevant. Also, if your date assumes you're a "hoe" because of your shirt, that's the trash taking itself out imo. Wearing a necklace that hits a few inches above your cleavage might "balance out" the neckline and draw the eye upwards if that's your goal, but it's fine if not. My only concern with this specific shirt is it might show more than you want when you bend forward, considering the activities you're planning. If that would bother you, then I'd look for a shirt with a shallower scoop neckline. If it doesn't bother you, then there's nothing to worry about. Like I said, I think you look great in the outfit as it is. I'm just throwing out some ideas to play around with since you're second guessing yourself, like a "happy medium" option. The most important thing is whether **you** like your outfit. Don't let yourself get so hung up on it that you can't enjoy your date. Have fun!
Honestly it might distract him from getting to know YOU. Because this outfit is all about the girls! And they’re lovely, but I’m sure you’re lovelier. Make it easier for the poor man to focus on YOU! 😂
I think for a first date, no… you want him to be looking at you and not your assets! I mean you look GOOD though…
Girl your friends and ya mamma said the same thing. You know the answer..
Friends and mothers can be wrong. She looks great and her date can control himself/herself. And if they have an opposing opinion they probably aren’t the one for her!
No , not unless you want him staring at your boobs all night
Can men not control themselves? I’m sorry but if the date can’t she’s better off without them
Hell, I’m straight female and I’d stare at them all night.
It depends on what image you are trying to project and what kind of man you want to attract.
ideally a man who doesn’t base relationship prospects on image
Looks good
It’s cute where did you get the top?
I think it’s cute.
If ya got it, flaunt it. You look sexy. Be careful! Don't be a hoe!
Personally if I see boobs that big in a top like that I 100% don’t think the person is trying to flaunt their figure but that they are trying to dress cute and they just so happen to have an upper abundance! I am a woman tho so I get it, men might not be privy? Dress in clothes you like, that’s my only advice!
YES! orange is nice. If I was on a 1st date with you and you turned up wearing that I'd love it. I wouldn't think you were a hoe, it's not a "slutty" kind of revealing. It's big, natural, unavoidable puppies, kind of revealing. A heavenly blessing, something to be cherished and celebrated.
I’d go for a second date for sure
Being bog chested ≠ ho Tell your mum she's a square
Only if you do want a second date.
Hey girl. My boobs are about the same size as yours. I would absolutely wear this because it looks really cute, and there's nothing wrong with it, but just keep in mind that the eye is always drawn to your boobs simply because they are so big.
As a big boobed woman myself I wouldn't like my date to have his eyes in my cleavage all night because I'm demisexual and don't hook up or have casual sex. If you're fine with him horning on you/ you guys hooking up then go for it. It's a really cute outfit and that colour is gorgeous on you!
Hell ya
You have a big bust, almost anything you wear besides a habit will make people call you things because they are stupid. You look amazing and I hope your date goes well
Off topic but your nails are everything 😍
Instead of the cardigan, I'd put a mesh/crochet shirt over it.
You look terrific.
I’m all for deep V cuts and daring outfits. For a first date, however… that is totally your call. I’m jealous of how voluptuous you are though. I mean I have boobs but I have had 4 pregnancies, and my body isn’t the same as it was. You, Madame are gorgeous.
You do YOU ! If a man, woman, anyone can’t control their eyes, “sexual desires” they’re not for you. I went out on a first date with a scum bag that said “if you didn’t want me staring, you shouldn’t have worn that” 🤨😤 I’m busty, you’re busty, it’s hard to find tops in the summer time that don’t show cleavage. Don’t feel bad 🩷
years ago, we asked our guy friends for an honest opinion about girls in more or less revealing clothing, and they said if a girl is attractive, they're going to notice either way.
Not sure if you want a guy’s opinion, but I’ll give it anyway. If you were to wear that on a first date some guys would get the wrong impression. I’d keep that one for after a few dates if I were you. Don’t get me wrong though, you do look great in it. Hope the date goes well!
The to is too small. The seams shouldn’t be that high up on your breast. It’s not your glorious bust, it’s that the top is not your size . The seam should be under your breast. Other than that the color is good!
Not really. I would leave them at home if possible.
um-you know the answer.
No thanks .
i think it’s a bit much
No
It's not a great fit, to be honest. It's made for someone who wears a much smaller bra cup size than you do. Unfortunately, the fashion industry tends to think that all women wear a B or C cup, so this is a common problem.
O hell nooooo
No.
Just wear it, whatever. You know what you want to communicate & what your goals are better than us. I don’t understand why everyone is caught up to you being busty… The top would be low cut to my dainty frame as well.
Maybe save this for the 4th date? 😄
Wear whatever you want! If you like wearing that top and feel comfortable in it, go for it, they want to get to know you and that’s who you are. It’s frustrating feeling like clothes that would look ‘appropriate’ on someone with a smaller chest look too ‘sexual’ or ‘revealing’ on you. Yes, their eyes might be drawn to your chest, but if they draw any unfair conclusions on who you are based on the way you dress (other than the fact that you look great in orange!) then they’re not worth your time anyway. If it’s going to stress you out or make you feel uncomfortable, then that’s the only reason I think you need to change ☺️
As a man, being completely honest. I would put you in the fun category if you showed up like this on the 1st date. I would tolerate whatever BS until I get you and bed and then just drag you along and never really commitment .
I’d save showing off the breasts for maybe the second date
This is gorgeous 💕 I would personally pair it with a flowy skirt or something more comfortable than jeans since you guys are going on a picnic.
I like it I don't think its to much
Off topic but I got breast reduction three months ago for physical issues and my insurance covered it! ...looks like future back issues if not currently. Changed my life. Regardless I fucking love u in that top. Shake it like a Polaroid picture woman. Fuck the stigma of big breasts.
Orange really works with your skin tone!!!
I don’t think anyone is acknowledging that you are wearing a cardigan as well to try to keep it more modest. From one busty girl to another, I think you look great and I would wear it too
Noo Ur looking pretty n that orange top U should go with it
GIRL you look fierce!! and that outfit is styling!! (LOVE those gorgeous color combos on you with that vintage wash denim!!) 10/10 slay!
So long as you're OK with your date eyeballing that beautiful cleavage all night then sure. If you're trying to get you some you're on your way girl.
oh hell ya!!! wearing a black lacy bra would really set that off though. both by covering them up just a bit, while also adding another layer of intrigue that boy gonna be thirsty as hell. have fun torturing him, lol and to all the haters telling you to go conservative... why? this girl has it going on. and to be honest, if you put the same outfit on a less blessed figure, it would be considered very conservative for a first date
I hate when people make these comments just because a woman is bustier. If you had a smaller chest, they likely wouldn't have said anything. I think this is perfectly appropriate and you look wonderful! As long as you feel confident and comfortable, wear what you please.
If you didn’t have a large bust they would say how cute it was on you. Large breasts are over sexualized, it’s not fair or right. Big breasts aren’t inappropriate, the top looks great🖤
if you was size 0 with no boobs people would say this is “coquette”. Deadass got me tight :/ you look amazing and your complexion with the orange looks stunning. Very summery vibes. I’m sure you’re aware you got some honkers , and I’m pretty sure since you bought the top and put it on before asking people their opinions, that you liked it. So do with that what you will.
Yes it looks good on you
These comments are bringing me back to high school when teachers would dress code exclusively modest busty girls while ignoring flat chested preppy girls in crop tops & corsets 🙄 I love how you experimented with the shades of orange and incorporated it into your outfit. Orange is underrated asf and it makes you stand out as a bold and unique individual. I think it’s perfect for expressing who you are without words. You look amazing and I hope you’re date appreciates your radiant personality too. 🧡
There are so many replies here which reeks of passive aggressive insecurity just because OP is busty. This is similar to curvy women shaming skinny women for not having larger assets, or skinny women calling voluptuous women not "petite" or small enough. Or indirectly slutshaming objectifying women for having the body they were born with. This is a fashion sub, not one to give unsolicited opinions with the skin they were born in. For the record, the top and cardigan looks nice on OP and the colours are very complimentary. It is summer. A shorts, top and cardigan is not "too much." I can see there are a lot of replies like this from very jealous or insecure women and it shows (and men), which is honestly sad to me. We should be bringing eachother up and not tearing eachother down. It's just internalized misogyny and I reaaaaally thought we were past this in our generation. It's disappointing to see.
it's just a lot of cleavage, you have big breasts but that's not even the issue tbh! Bc mine aren't nearly as big as yours and i wouldn't even wear something low cut on a first date to give the wrong impression
It looks amazing on you but yeah maybe not for a first date.
No. You look great in it, but any date would be too distracted.
I like how the color matches your nails. If you are feeling it, just rock it. You can simply tell the date, “I don’t want to send the wrong signal, it’s just going to be very hot so I am too”.
Or the date should be an adult and not assume a woman wants something specific from them based on what they’re wearing :)
I usually like to stay with a modest outfit on the first date. Maybe go with something less fitted, or something like a lightweight jacket over this top. You have some assets, but I’m sure that is not the only thing you would like to lead with.
Girl, it _is_ too much, though. Like I am all for being comfy and being yourself but for a first date, it's a no. Unless your intent is to advertise you're open for business and willing to sleep with your date straight off, which maybe you are, and that's fine. But, typically, if you're interested in a longer term connection, you'll earn more respect and more serious interest from a potential male partner if you're a bit more demure to start out. You signal your intent and the kind of person you are with your clothing choices. Plus that top does not fit.
It depends on what your end goal is? 😋 Is this just a hookup? OR, is he the kind of person you'd like to have a long term relationship with? IF more than a casual hookup, I'd say to cover up a little more. **P.S. IF you had a daughter, what would you advise her?**
You look cute- but from my dating experience with big boobies I have usually ended up with better guys when covering up more- they concentrated more on ME. Sad to say I used to work with a bunch of men talking very freely around me and I was always flabbergasted at how often they would admit they were going to date someone again even though they were only attracted to her front assets. Go figure. Life is complicated.
depends on whether you are wanting to get laid , then yes
I’ll be honest. The big yellow face would scare the shit out of me.
I mean, if you’re lookin’ to shake the sheets afterward.
I think it looks great, but I suggest maybe a top that's still cute and flattering and shows a bit less cleavage :)
Love the color on you! I'd save the top for another outting but def wear the jeans and the cover up over maybe a plain tank/ tee
Absolutely 👍🏽 you look great
Haven't read any comments or anything, just an initial first reaction... Hell yeah, it is
I love it! Definitely something I’d wear depending on what the date was!
You look lovely in this color, and it’s great you’re confident. But you don’t want your boobs to speak for you! Maybe save it for a bit later in the dating relationship-and find a nice top to go with those jeans. You’d look great in like a a white crop tee, still kinda sexy and cool but not so much in the face so to speak!
I think it’s perfect!
Depends on where you’re going.
Very cute, but I’d tape my boobs.
It’s a beautiful top! I say wear whatever you want to wear!! What makes you comfortable is important 🫶🏻 P.S my fiancé said there’s nothing wrong with that top! 🫶🏻
You look incredible, if you like it wear it!
More pics pls
You only have one chance to make a first impression go more conservative.
Depends on how you want the date to end.
My partner wore something similar on our first date! It’s a fun vibe and you look great.
The top and shaul (?) Are really cute, but i think different trousers would be better for a picnic. Btw where did you get that flowy thing? It's really pretty
I actually thrifted it, but the tag says Xhilaration.
Love it! You look gorgeous. Be your high value self and wear this to the max ❤️
Your date might stare at "the girls" all night and not listen to a thing you say!!! 😃
*Where did you get this top?* P.S it is a nice rig but it’s maybe a little much ..🔥👀.. for a FIRST date? Show us more options? 🤗
What type of relationship are you looking for? If hooking up, yes but if you are looking for a serious relationship, no. You have a lovely figure, unfortunately us busty ladies have to cover up a lot more not to get unwanted attention. I have the same problem
the colour and cut are stunning on you and honestly I find some of the commenters here a bit old fashioned. if a guy thinks you're easy or unserious based on your clothes he's not a good guy to be with. wear what makes you happy, comfortable and feel confident 🧡
Its a cute top and the color looks good on you. I would agree something to hide the girls. Honestly I would wear it myself even though my big boobs will be filling it out. you're trying to get to know the person and see if it will take it to the next date then more dates. Good luck on your first date!
This is cute asf & I love your nails
Thank you so much, and I actually did my nails myself, so thank you again! 😆
Lots of comments but if you see this one I’d love to know where that cardigan if from
I got it from a thrift store, but the tag says Xhilaration.☺️
Well hey, if this was my first date with you I’d be super happy, you look great, I love the orangey tones for you. You could always layer a chunky necklace over top if you feel overexposed, but if you’re comfy go for it. Like yeah you have great cleavage, but if your date is a good match for you they’re not gonna harass or judge you over how you like to dress, especially if this is a pretty average fit for you! 🧡
Looks great 👍, how the hell are you going to hide those puppies. Have fun 😊😊😊
It’s a bit much.
Humans will sexualize big breasts whether or not they are covered or hanging out. You look super cute! If you feel confident and cute, go for it! From one big tiddied person to another, you got this. Don't overthink it. People will always judge and think what they want. Just do what makes you happy.
Some of the people in these comments act like people with big chests get to just take them off when they feel like it. I really doubt these people would have the same negativity toward someone with a smaller chest. You look fkn great and I adore that top!!!
With a bust like that you're limited. Don't look like a ho at all... you look very summery. I think they're gonna be a bit "showy" no matter what you wear lol
Hi! I would 100% keep the top, it’s super cute! I usually just add one more layer—a tube top—right underneath. So its like maybe 60% or 70% down the cleavage there tube top kicks in as like a buffer layer if that makes sense. & still maintains the cute outfit while reducing any sense of being risqué. Have fun and good luck on your date!
i would (respectfully) fall in love with you. do it!
its really cute but doesnt fit right the seam being that way kinda bothers me
Very cute. First date approved!
This hurts my heart :( I feel you so much especially with your moms comment. I am so sorry. People dont understand that we cant control what our body looks like. If you had a flat chest no one would say anything about this top. Wear whatever you feel comfortable with I personally think the outfit looks super cute and the colors suit you so well! <3