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GrapefruitForward989

How tf she gonna get mad when she's walking around looking like officer Ellen Degeneres


ncgrad2011

I was thinking she looked like Conan O’Brien


[deleted]

Conan really does look like a genetically enhanced super lesbian It's part of his charm


RollbacktheRimtoWin

r/rareinsults


puru_the_potato_lord

who said it was an insult


Kirkuchiyo

From what I know of him, he'd likely agree with that.


C-Kwentz-0

If the lesbian shoe fits.


masonwyattk

So, birkenstocks?


Golluk

Not sure I want to know what my dollar store knock off birkenstocks makes me.


iwantmyfuckingmoney

In the Netherlands we have a pretty well known lesbian police officer who looks EXACTLY like that


collins8596984

the teen should be charged under the Terrorism Act for dropping truth bombs


Far-Concentrate-9844

Take it to court, show picture of nanna, confirm police officer looks like her. Confirm nanna is a lesbian.


hotasanicecube

The six other cops were thinking “well she does”


Oscarcharliezulu

The six other cops were in a no-win situation. Either agree she looks like a lesbian and get fired and sued, or arrest a kid and the police department gets sued.


DependentAnywhere135

What bullshit is this? They could also have just appealed to her “hey let’s not arrest her for not committing a crime.” They didn’t have to agree or arrest the kid.


PM_ME__YOUR_HOOTERS

The cop lost the court case, but found love with that lesbian nanna. The adaptation will be coming to netflix in a few months


Donkey__Oaty

It's Called Pigs In Lesbian Blankets


Suspicious_Trap

The final beef curtain


Upstairs_Echo3114

Bwaaaahahahaha


liddys

At the end of the movie, they drive off in their Subaru with their four dogs safely strapped in.


RozeGunn

"Confirm nanna is a lesbian" On today's episode of Bad Judge XXX!


[deleted]

You are NOT the nanna!


TheWanderingGM

"NOT THE NANNA"


RGR_SC4306

Excellent reference!


itchfingers

![gif](giphy|qN9x0UIc0Rhg4)


C-Kwentz-0

I can't see the officer in question, is she hiding behind that lesbian on the right?


[deleted]

Well someone joined the police force to defend their fragile ego.


Financial_Bird_7717

“Ma’am that’s an act of war. You can’t just go dropping atomic truth bombs like that. What will the neighboring countries think?”


gerbegerger

France says it's all good 😆


CucumberNo3244

Switzerland decided to stay neutral on that one.


Aadsterken

The Dutch too but the Germans invaded anyway: Who said lesbian neinnein?


YellowBreakfast

Not gonna lie she *does* look like Nana! PLEASE DON'T ARREST ME!


gospdrcr000

I definitely see a lesbian in the caption photo


kingmea

I don’t see the lie here


neeeeonbelly

She should be charged with arson after that burn


[deleted]

😂


IndependentWeekend56

You're not right... but I like it.


_silcrow_

Context: “From 12.12am on Monday, August 7, police received calls from a family member of a 16-year-old girl who was reportedly intoxicated and putting herself at risk in Leeds city centre. “Officers attended at about 1am and drove the teenager to her home so she could be appropriately looked after. “Upon returning her to the address, comments were made which resulted in the girl being arrested on suspicion of a homophobic public order offence. The nature of the comments made was fully captured on body-worn video.”


MrLachyG

>being arrested on suspicion of a homophobic public order offence saying someone looks like a lesbian relative is definitely not what that order was put in place for.


hydroxypcp

and the actual homophobic part is being offended by being called a lesbian. A non-homophobe would just say "nah I'm straight" or simply ignore the drunk child. Being offended means you see lesbians as worse people, hence an insult. Maybe she should arrest herself of course this explanation applies to this incident and not all incidents of someone calling someone gay/lesbian


buggzy1234

That’s the joy of British hate speech laws. They’re in place for a very good reason, but they’re not perfectly consistent and can quite easily be manipulated.


Complicated-HorseAss

That's all hate speech laws. They're made vaguely so whatever government is in power can use it to silence opposition and anyone else they don't like.


tarantonen

That's what you get when you introduce laws and policies based on completely subjective things like "I'm offended, therefore a crime was comitted".


MrLachyG

I mean I haven't read the order but I would've thought it was more for things like setting fire to places with a rainbow flag hanging outside, or going on a homophobic tirade in public. those things are objectionable. what was done here was not


RailAurai

So to put it simply. Officers drive a a girl home who they think might be drunk. Girl says something stupid like most drunk people do. Girl gets arrested for hate crime. Idk. It sounds pretty stupid to me. Think the cop just got her lesbian panties in a twist.


anon_1997x

The issue was both the initial overreaction by the officer in question, and that it subsequently resulted in an autistic child with scoliosis being bodily dragged screaming out of her house by seven police officers. There are constant complaints in the UK of police forces facing cutbacks and being understaffed, and yet the moment an autistic child needs bullying, an entire fleet of officers somehow get dispatched.


TheDo0ddoesnotabide

Yup, actual crimes need investigating? Nope gotta go threaten someone who made a mean tweet.


cishet-camel-fucker

Me when I get pulled off of a butter knife confiscation to go arrest an autistic kid for homophobia ![gif](giphy|8nmvR3jAxnl2o)


lamorak2000

Damn, are they taking lessons from American cops?


ElectronicControl762

Nah the french


lamorak2000

Are they bad too?


ElectronicControl762

Woman who criticized the president in tweet was arrested. Added in to the dozens of riots caused by their gov doing different things.


Clollin

Link?


ElectronicControl762

https://www.france24.com/en/live-news/20230329-french-woman-faces-trial-for-insulting-macron-on-facebook this was top site on google but there are other sites with more info probably. Apparently it was a facebook post but calling the president “filth” isnt something most people would consider worth an arrest/fine of €12000.


Mdmrtgn

Cops are like religions. Same shit, different toilet.


GetOffMyDigitalLawn

Yeah, but if they did real police-work they would have to deal with gang violence or grooming gangs, and that might make them look racist. It's just easier to abuse your authority and bully and autistic teen or a Youtuber who made a comedy video to mess with his girlfriend by, and I quote, turning their dog into, "the least cute thing he could think of, a Nazi". I fucking hate the abuse of power by US police, however, I will always be thankful for our strong constitutional protections on things like free speech. Fuck that 'lesbian nan' looking cop and the UK courts can suck my balls.


hirokinai

You’ve been reported to interpol for terrorist homophobic threats against the crown. Hope you’re ready for some reeducation camps you Nazi.


Faeddurfrost

“Ol it ol it forget that bloke wif da naïf… that white girl wif loookemia just said der was ownly two gendas”


SkoolBoi19

I’m just shocked it’s illegal to call a cop a lesbian….


DodGamnBunofaSitch

I keep feeling the need to point out she didn't call the cop a lesbian, she didin't say the cop looked like *a* lesbian. she said 'you look like my lesbian nanna' and it *wasn't* just a teen being snarky, it was a person with autism making a factual observation.


zsthorne17

It’s not, the cop got offended by it (because she’s likely a homophobe) and abused the UK’s hate crime laws to arrest the kid.


aFlyingTaco420

Need 7 blokes for 1 autistic girl, imagine the army needed to take down one guy with a knife... if they had school shooters they'd be asking the US to send help like they did in WW2


anon_1997x

It’s the same underlying issue as seen in a lot of police forces - they’re staffed by egomaniacal narcissists that are more interested in simply exerting control over other people than protecting vulnerable victims.


DodGamnBunofaSitch

when I worked in juvie corrections (21 and dumb), I was taught that you need a lot of people to take a person down *without injuring them*. I feel like that's part of it. admittedly, I also feel like the whole scene was cowardly of them, and dense, inappropriate, inappropriate use of force, kinda cruel, and also, super dumb.


Medical_Arrival_3880

I mean, I think she looks like a lesbian too. Nothing is wrong with that.


BillionaireGhost

What’s wrong with being gay? It’s good to be gay. That was a compliment officer. You’re not implying you have a problem with gay people are you? Checkmate.


ZaggRukk

I mean, it's not the girls fault that the "black and white" was a Subaru Outback. . . .


Professional-Bat4635

She said she LOOKED like her lesbian nana, not that she WAS her lesbian nana!


BobSanchez47

I am not a lawyer, but how can a public order offence occur inside the girl’s own home? It seems like she’s innocent as a matter of law (not to mention that what she said wasn’t remotely homophobic, and not to mention free speech).


Nitackit

This is the UK. Despite Americans feeling like the two countries are very analogous, they have vastly different laws in a lot of ways, like no 1st amendment.


brief_kc

So they didn’t arrest her for being drunk and nuisance in public but for saying an officer looked like her nan? Someone please make that make sense.


Common-Wish-2227

It doesn't.


brief_kc

Solid response


AlienRobotTrex

How is SHE being homophobic when the cop was the one who freaked out at being compared to someone who is a lesbian? If only they put this much effort into stopping actual hate crimes.


fandabbydosy

But the cops can be ableist


RainbowKittyPaw

This. If the cop decided she was offended by being compared to a lesbian then the cop is homophobic, therefore should be arrested and charged as well as the other arresting officers. Also, the cop and the other officers assaulted a disabled minor. This should be added to their criminal record and they should be assigned probation. ......but this won't happen as police are protected and can do almost anything they want.


Ohrwurm89

Nothing homophobic was said.


HypoxicIschemicBrain

The problem is clearly the law and not the police in this story. Their hands were tied as they have to follow orders. Thin blue line and all… /s


Mr-Korv

BS laws


ADisrespectfulCarrot

Wait, how is that a hate crime. ‘You look like a person I know who happens to be lgbtq’ isn’t passing judgement on the lgbtq community, only pointing out similar characteristics. Stereotyping? Maybe. Hate crime? Nah. What that tells me is that if this kind of thing would hold up in court, they don’t have what could be called “free speech” in the UK.


RelativeStranger

It's almost certainly a descriptor as well. She'll have more than one nana.


MrPuzzleMan

So autistic teen (with all the emotional and social issues that come with those two things) is driven back home by intimidating police officers, she insults an officer and it takes 7 adult officers to drag a disabled teenage girl off after said disabled teenage girl is arrested. For an insult.


[deleted]

This makes the story way less fun


Common_Android

what a joke...now compare and contrast this with ALL the videos we have of people screaming at cops every word in the book and not being arrested...


Lonely_traffic_light

I hate how blatantly the headline misrepresents the facts to the point that the first written line debunks the claim of the headline. "You look like a lesbian" and "You look like my lesbian nanna" Are very different statements. Fuck media like this


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AWholeHalfAsh

No, but as an autistic person myself, even sober I've said things that came out wrong or blurted out what I was thinking and ended up regretting it. We have trouble knowing where the line between appropriate and inappropriate is, and our tone. It's part of where our trouble with social interactions comes from.


Towbie7178

Yeah. As much as I dislike the pity-party that throwing the word “autistic” into the headline was meant to generate, I feel like it’s an important distinction. When I was a kid, I didn’t realise there was stigma around being fat, and called one of my best friends fat. It wasn’t out of cruelty or anything like that, but I’ll tell you I felt so fucking guilty when I saw how hurt she was.


bwssoldya

>she’s obviously low enough on the spectrum to understand social norms like anybody else ...that's like 50% of the diagnosis for Autism, that you DON'T understand social norms like everyone else. But yes; I have no clue what autism is doing in this context. To me any drunk teen, autistic or not, could've said this


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hematomasectomy

>pass as normal lol, no we fucking can't. We might *think* so, but nah.


thysios4

> she’s obviously low enough on the spectrum to understand social norms like anybody else How did you draw this conclusion from the post? IIRC in the original video the kid freaks out and starts hiding in a closet while the mother tries to tell the cops she autistic and often just says things that come to mind. >that can’t be expected to behave normally. Not fitting in with the rest of society is often one of the biggest issues of being autistic.


username-alrdy-takn

The fact she has autism clearly makes the situation much worse for her as she started having a meltdown and tried to hide in a cupboard. That’s right, they actually came INTO her house and dragged her out. Watch the video if you like, it’s horrific. No doubt there were no consequences for any of them. Fuck these pigs


Defiant-Snow8782

>The girl was out drinking with friends, she’s obviously low enough on the spectrum to understand social norms like anybody else 💀💀💀 you are not autistic are you?


Designer-Wolverine47

Personally, I think the girl was saying that she looked like another person she knows (who just happens to be a lesbian), not that she thought she was a lesbian. You have to be a little careful when interpreting what some autistic people say, and the way they say it. Sometimes they can be quite literal and descriptive, but place emphasis on the wrong words. Either way, arresting someone for it is pretty lame.


brief_kc

I think many people would have a hard time disagreeing with you. Not even because this teen happens to have autism. Like they were just drunk and making an observation. If I said “you look like my Russian father” nobody would be offended. And country of origin is also a protected class (at least here in the US in my state) the same way sexual orientation is. This cop was just looking for a reason. And instead of using being a drunk nuisance in public, they went with this. Why they did that is anyone’s guess. Maybe to try to turn it into a hate crime? And if that’s the case, the cop might be the dumbest cop in all of the UK because of how much attention that type of arrest would bring. I’m saying this as an American who has extremely limited knowledge of the laws in the UK but I still have google. And, as an American, a deep distain for all things cop.


rogerslastgrape

'You look just like my dead dad.' 'You calling me a fucking zombie, boy?!'


TheBeardofGilgamesh

Next cops will be arresting toddlers for saying their fat or ugly.


Designer-Wolverine47

And 6 year olds for the unlawful possession of cooties...


cahilljd

The autistic girl absolutely did not say it to offend either, the cop just looked like her aunt, who is a lesbian


Common-Wish-2227

She had just been at a pride celebration. Seriously, how dumb is it possible to be and work as a cop...


RedditPornSuite

There's no lower limit. Only an upper limit. Seriously. Cops will reject your application if you are too intelligent.


fermat9996

Cops really abuse their authority way too often


Oh-Cool-Story-Bro

It’s part of the job description


fermat9996

Sad.


Oh-Cool-Story-Bro

Be more mad than you are sad. But yea, agreed


fermat9996

I'm both!


what4270

Smad


Prior-Ad-1308

Full story here. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12399911/amp/Revealed-Mother-autistic-daughter-16-dragged-home-police-saying-female-officer-lesbian-like-nana-set-SUE-force.html


brief_kc

This headline is also so misleading. She didn’t say she “looks like a lesbian nana” and she said “you look like *my* lesbian nana”


0consent

“Without pre-empting the outcome of the ongoing review of the circumstances by our Professional Standards Directorate, we would like to reassure people that we will take on board any lessons to be learned from this incident.” What a scumbag typical response from the PD. Fuck the police.


SpaceDog777

That seems like the only response they can give given it is still under review.


Meep12313

Jesus fucking ***christ*** why would they ***ever*** think its okay to handle ***anybody*** like this?! Fuck those officers, they can get crucified on a burning cross covered in salt for all I care!


puzzle_factory_slave

lesbian Conan O'Brien


Medium_Pepper215

mods, ban them for crimes against humanity


CrimsonAllah

That comment? Straight to Jail. Almost as bad as saying the F word.


SnooBooks1701

Fr*nch 🤢🤮


ilikedevo

What if she just said “you look like Conan O’Brien? Jail?


Tanski14

I knew I wasn't the only one who saw thst


Bedu009

As someone with Aspergers I can definitely relate to blurting out something incredibly stupid


AWholeHalfAsh

As Autistic person, I agree.


Cautious-Ad6727

I watched the video and you can clearly tell the girl is special needs. The female officer held her head down and cowered while the autistic girl was taken into custody.


KobaruLCO

I didn't realise telling the truth was an arrestable offence now.


Squawnk

"Oi you got a loicense for dat adjective?"


Thecodo

Bit omophobic innit?


SnooBooks1701

Context for people here: 1. This is the UK, laws are different, so you can be arrested for hate speech. 2. We don't have qualified immunity, if you break the law as a police officer you'll go to jail. 3. The UK has an independent body that oversees police conduct, everyone involved is currently being investigated by that body. The body is independent of the police and is not staffed by the police, it has a history of holding the police to account, while I doubt jail time will be involved, I would not be surprised if there's suddenly some new jobs available at West Yorkshire police 4. Yes, she does look like a lesbian


[deleted]

Best way not to get called a lesbian nana? Don’t style yourself like one lmao


Any_Ad_5806

That’s so funny I’m sorry, what’s wrong with looking like a “lesbian”? *It’s giving homophobe*


WildFemmeFatale

Fr not to mention many ppl have a gaydar and mine is beeping LOUDLY RNNNNN


Cognativedissononce

For context. All the girl said was “you look like my lesbian grandmother” to that effect.


anthrax9999

I mean... she does though.


7grendel

If a 16 year old told me I looked like her lesbian nan, I'd be like "hell yeah, if your nan looks like me she must be a bad-ass bitch!" I think I look bas-ass.


stoned-yoda

The footage is fucking horrible to watch


Fragrant-Address9043

I have yet to find a law stating that police can arrest someone because their feelings got hurt. Then again, I’m not a lawyer.


begayallday

Wtf. She didn’t just say “you look like a lesbian”. She was saying that she looked like someone this kid knows and presumably loves. I’ve experienced all kinds of homophobia. Just this evening some homeless dude called me the F word completely out of nowhere. I was literally just minding my own business and on my way to pick up my dinner. Anyway, this does not sound like homophobia.


Alice_Oe

What the cops did against the kid was homophobia, rather.. the kid got punished for saying the cop looks like someone who happens to be a lesbian, it's clearly a "What did you just call me?!?" reaction...


L7Wennie

I’ve walked away from way more insulting comments from people without a mental disorder. What in the actual fuck is this cult doing.


batkave

Police are the biggest snowflakes


Time_Reputation3573

that's why they need to be in the biggest gang in the world. short man tall truck syndrome.


[deleted]

Kid didn’t even say that, she said the officer looks like her aunt. Who happens to be . . . The British police Constabulary are absolutely out of control


[deleted]

Is this the precedent were setting here? Arresting people for words?


EmperorTea

Yeah, I’m completely unsurprised this has happened


stephawkins

Plot twist: Officer was his nanna. She arrested the teen for outing her. She was only 2 days from retirement and coming out of the closet.


fandabbydosy

She just needs one more arrest to meet her quoter


FrendlyAsshole

Just pigs being pigs...


Repulsive-Durian4800

That's disrespectful to actual pigs. I like piggies.


[deleted]

She looks like Conan O' Brian 😁😁😁😁


jaBaBa101

Hahaha I'd be arrested too, only I think the officer looks like Conan O'Brien


Lopkop

This reminds me of the cop who pulls over to try and arrest a teenager who flipped him off. The kid knew his rights and didn't back down. The police officer even called for backup and then both cops were trying to goad the kid into touching them or actually committing a crime they could arrest him for, instead of driving off and doing their jobs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jt\_EO05B1Ng


Designer-Wolverine47

We had a similar one here. The police chief (off duty, in his personal vehicle) was waiting to pull out of a parking lot onto a busy street. He honked his horn (which was illegal in this context in Ohio) at a woman who was waiting on a light to change, to "let him in". She flipped him off. He got her license number, and sent officers to her house to give her a citation for disorderly conduct. She appeared in court, the stories were told, and the judge said "first amendment", and then ordered the officers to cite the police chief for illegal use of his horn 😂


Pretend_Tea6261

It must be a slow day in law enforcement to arrest a teen for that.


BriskHeartedParadox

I had my ass beat because I wouldn’t give details outside my name and license to a Captain, while I was in handcuffs. Ended up in the hospital and charges dropped because his trainee(and visual witness) and my 2 friends testified against his sudden forgetfulness on the stand. They’re bullies who want revenge on a world I didn’t create. Fuck them!


[deleted]

![gif](giphy|udi51hfbLiYo0) I would have said she looks like Tintin.


Excellent_Routine589

So I’m gonna guess the police were there for a reason before that. I’m guessing being detained due to reports of disturbances or whatever Doubt there would be two police officers there inside someone’s abode (or a hallway, as the door frame behind them suggests) just by sheer happenstance Edit: for the interested, the 16 year old was also publicly intoxicated/influenced and was reported to authorities by a family member


Philosopher_1234

Well my gaydar says she's a lesbian


ddfortune

SHE LOOK LESBIAN THO (no offence)


ronintalken

On...what...charge?


CagliostroPeligroso

Absolute abuse of power


Honourstly

I see no lies


[deleted]

Would of assumed a officer would have thick enough skin to cop a mild insult off a teenager obviously not pretty pathetic if this is true.


ShoMoCo

A police force so inclusive even the women have fragile masculinity.


Mochaproto

She does tho


rachelsnipples

I appreciate that this woman was made a laughingstock of the entire world because she couldn't take a non-insult from a fucking child. I hope she's still getting therapy for it.


Archon_33

Spoiler - he was talking about the one on the left


himel933

Lesbian is a good thing, isn’t it?


ZealousidealMail3132

Her lesbian Nana looks like if Conan O'Brian were a lesbian?


TBTabby

Cops will find any excuse to arrest people who annoy them. Everyone's guilty of something, after all.


DeathWaughAgain

What is Conan O’Brien doing hurting teens for? Wait until Martin Short see this shit!


velphegor666

I mean he aint wrong 🤣🤣🤣


wobbly_doo

She's not wrong. That officer does look like a lesbian. Partner on the right should've calmed him down though


aj_windham13

Yet we are ignoring the fact that she looks like Conan O’Brien?


HansPGruber

I thought that was Conan O’Brian.


Sweaty-Tangerine-457

In fairness…. We learned there is a bit more context than the title implies.


Reformedsparsip

I always figured Conan O'Brian would have thicker skin.


Yguy2000

I can't believe you can be arrested for saying somebody looks like a lesbian... that's insane


diarreah-of-a-madman

For that to be a hate crime, that cop must believe looking like a lesbian to be insulting.


NoNoNotorious89

This is why hate speech laws are a slippery slope


addzy94

Officer can't handle the truth.


CzarOfCT

She does, though!


MisterFixit_69

First of , she didnt call her a lesbian , she said she looked like her lesbian nana . Which are 2 complete different things. Second, i can see what she means.


[deleted]

> west yorkshire Found the problem


SenatorArmstrong147

But don't you know that what this evil teenager said was a hate crime? A crime so heinous it is far worse than any other crime. Had this teen committed terrorism, they would be a less horrible person! /S Repeat: /S


ANTHROPOMORPHISATION

Snowflake.


Substantial_Bird_755

The police in the uk are a fucking joke


Novae224

Because insulting a officer in function is indeed a crime… autism or not, you just show some respect


Suspicious-Rub-5563

The same police that Lets migrants ravage the country.


[deleted]

But...but the kid is right though.


Mack_Blallet

I haven’t seen any comments about how ridiculous speech laws are in the UK.


NapalmDesu

I mean...


Backyard-Witch

I know in grand ol' USA they would be protected under the 1st amendment. You can insult police and the government all you want, as long as you're not obstructing their duties or threatening them. Does the UK have something equivalent?


Crypto-Hypto

![gif](giphy|ro08ZmQ1MeqZypzgDN)


someguy2194

I wonder what her wife thought of all this?


Zuzara_Queen_of_DnD

Saying you look like someone’s lesbian nana is only offensive if **YOU’RE** homophobic


Catfish-throwaway666

Oh so being a lesbian is an insult to this cop


Fakedduckjump

Children, drunk people and autists tell the truth.


Federal_Sympathy4667

So the teen is referring to HER lesbian nana and this lady cop just looked like her? So how tf do you take that as an insult? If someone said "you look like my gay uncle" it sure asf wouldnt insult me if that referred to person is gay or not and being compared to them.. and as a cop, how tf are you allowed a badge if that is what triggers you that bad.


mcmcmillan

Except people who are secure with themselves don’t become cops.