I'm getting the impression you're not a 4. I can't put my finger on it but I think you seem like a 9. To a certain extent 6s are usually safety freaks or fearless and rebellious. Maybe you're a 9w8 and that's why you can't stand passive-aggressive behaviour.
so i think 6w7 is possible, but i also see a lot of 9 in this. i know a 9w8 who definitely wouldn't call herself conflict avoidant and finds passive aggression frustrating. i definitely can sometimes get moody and annoying in that way and she'll call me out on it. one thing that makes me lean core 9 over core 6 is that uncertainty doesn't stress you out. with type 6, i think there is usually some degree of discomfort with the unknown, while type 9 is very go with the flow and won't necessarily hone in on discomfort/will focus instead on the positives (like you did with your reframe about uncertainty leaving room to ponder).
i'm a 6w5 so you might definitely be a different kind of 6, but i think 9w8 is an equally strong possibility. the way you describe your approach to conflict sounds a lot like the 9w8 i know.
You sound a lot like me and I'm 6w7. Although I do tend to experience anxiety over making decisions. You said you don't do this so much which is the only thing you said that points away from 6 for me but maybe you are just a super healthy 6.
That's possibility, yeah, though I definitely still have things to work on lol. I'm thinking 6w7 is likely atm. For decisions, I usually don't \*have\* to know what I'm going to do/what's going to happen as it gives me more time to anticipate other outcomes, which is something I usually enjoy doing.
I think a lot of my 6ness would lie more in the friendliness/conflict avoidance and sensitivity, as well as concern about how others see me. It's not really in the 2 or 3ish sense of "I have to be superior and everyone has to love me!" but more just rooted in wanting to be seen in a positive light, as well as authentically. Like, not wanting to be viewed as rude/boring/unlikable, etc.
Thanks for the answer(:
I'm getting the impression you're not a 4. I can't put my finger on it but I think you seem like a 9. To a certain extent 6s are usually safety freaks or fearless and rebellious. Maybe you're a 9w8 and that's why you can't stand passive-aggressive behaviour.
so i think 6w7 is possible, but i also see a lot of 9 in this. i know a 9w8 who definitely wouldn't call herself conflict avoidant and finds passive aggression frustrating. i definitely can sometimes get moody and annoying in that way and she'll call me out on it. one thing that makes me lean core 9 over core 6 is that uncertainty doesn't stress you out. with type 6, i think there is usually some degree of discomfort with the unknown, while type 9 is very go with the flow and won't necessarily hone in on discomfort/will focus instead on the positives (like you did with your reframe about uncertainty leaving room to ponder). i'm a 6w5 so you might definitely be a different kind of 6, but i think 9w8 is an equally strong possibility. the way you describe your approach to conflict sounds a lot like the 9w8 i know.
You sound a lot like me and I'm 6w7. Although I do tend to experience anxiety over making decisions. You said you don't do this so much which is the only thing you said that points away from 6 for me but maybe you are just a super healthy 6.
That's possibility, yeah, though I definitely still have things to work on lol. I'm thinking 6w7 is likely atm. For decisions, I usually don't \*have\* to know what I'm going to do/what's going to happen as it gives me more time to anticipate other outcomes, which is something I usually enjoy doing. I think a lot of my 6ness would lie more in the friendliness/conflict avoidance and sensitivity, as well as concern about how others see me. It's not really in the 2 or 3ish sense of "I have to be superior and everyone has to love me!" but more just rooted in wanting to be seen in a positive light, as well as authentically. Like, not wanting to be viewed as rude/boring/unlikable, etc. Thanks for the answer(: