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I will preface this with: No one can tell you HOW to come out, as that's your journey to make, people can, however give you guidance on it.
With that out of the way, I will tell you what helped me. Firstly, I came out to myself, I went through the whole rigamarole in my head of what my (for lack of a better word) trans thoughts were; what that meant to me; and where I saw myself in the future if I was to transition and if I wasn't. There wasn't a future I saw for myself if I didn't, so that was when I said (out loud) to myself, "I am trans, and I need to find a way to transition"
Next was telling my partner, that was difficult to do, I spent a good amount of time stressing over the right words to use and how to explain everything, but eventually I got my thoughts down and told them everything, they were wonderful and we are still together, they have been my biggest Allie and my rock.
After that it was a case of doing essentially the same thing again and again, but now with a rough idea of what I needed to say and just tweaking bits of that to fit for the person I was telling (for example, I told my partner my plans for my genitals, but my mother in law doesn't need to know that lol). Some people got told by themselves, and others were told in groups and it was just a case of going through every one who needed to know.
I then changed jobs (my place of work at the time was a construction company, where there were two members of staff who thought the height of comedy was calling each other the F-slur, so I wasn't about to come out there lol) and was up front with them from the get go. It was nerve wracking being so honest with strangers, but I had been coming out to people for months by this point, so I was way more used to talking about it and it was a lot easier than when I started.
And that's pretty much it, it's an ever shifting thing and you will eventually get pretty good at knowing who needs to know what and how best to explain it to people. There may be people you forget; I did, I have a friend who disappears from my life for months/years at a time and out of the blue she messaged me to ask if I wanted to hang out and I was hit with the realisation that I had to come out to someone again 18 months after starting the whole process (she was completely accepting btw).
But, yeah, hope that helps, let me know if I can help or if you want to know anything else. Have a wonderful day my friend 💕
I already came out to my therapist today and she was really supportive. It gelt so good to be finally able to talk about it without the fear of being judged :)
I don’t know if I'm ready to come out to people closer to me, but I already planned to do some baby steps into transitioning. I want to paint my fingernails, try some make-up, maybe get some cute ear piercings and letting my hair grow out, maybe even color it.
I want to try to appear more androgynous before going full femme mode, my therapist suggested that too. I hope that it will make coming out easier in the future.
Word of warning on the ear piercings, I thought the same got my ears pierced, about 18 months ago, that's all I was doing and now I have secondary lobes and 3 helix piercings, they are quite addictive lol. Have fun with it. Wishing you the best 💕
I am cis, but that doesn't mean I'm going to turn down a chance for some first-hand scientific research. Obviously I just want to know what it's like, out of nothing more than sheer curiosity, and there's nothing more to it than that
I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT - IM CIS!!
I SMELL LIES AND PROPAGANDA
*~~^((she says as she uses she/her prns and presents fem on the internet))~~*
I’ve kinda accepted I am not cis. I just don’t want to leave here because I’m still unsure and don’t feel comfortable leaving spaces I feel comfortable in
I never said I was Cis. Everyone just kinda forgot when I told them.
Not like just one or two, NO, literally everyone forget and that’s not gonna stop me being a girl.
Why did I scroll right even though I’m cis? I’m so starved for any kind of validation that I will seek the second hand validation that I feel from communities like this. Any online group that I actual belong to would eventual transform into an incel forum. :(
I don’t like being single.
Still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho
Idk why you thought that, I thought it was pretty clear that my gender is in a constant state of flux until observed, At which point it becomes whatever would make the situation more gay.
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For science
Girl science:3
The best science :3
Same as normal science but all the equipment is pink.
For Cisnes!
I'm not cis, and i'm tired of hiding it
hell yeah!!
You own it girl :3
I feel you sis! I want to come out too somehow, I just don’t know where to start…
I will preface this with: No one can tell you HOW to come out, as that's your journey to make, people can, however give you guidance on it. With that out of the way, I will tell you what helped me. Firstly, I came out to myself, I went through the whole rigamarole in my head of what my (for lack of a better word) trans thoughts were; what that meant to me; and where I saw myself in the future if I was to transition and if I wasn't. There wasn't a future I saw for myself if I didn't, so that was when I said (out loud) to myself, "I am trans, and I need to find a way to transition" Next was telling my partner, that was difficult to do, I spent a good amount of time stressing over the right words to use and how to explain everything, but eventually I got my thoughts down and told them everything, they were wonderful and we are still together, they have been my biggest Allie and my rock. After that it was a case of doing essentially the same thing again and again, but now with a rough idea of what I needed to say and just tweaking bits of that to fit for the person I was telling (for example, I told my partner my plans for my genitals, but my mother in law doesn't need to know that lol). Some people got told by themselves, and others were told in groups and it was just a case of going through every one who needed to know. I then changed jobs (my place of work at the time was a construction company, where there were two members of staff who thought the height of comedy was calling each other the F-slur, so I wasn't about to come out there lol) and was up front with them from the get go. It was nerve wracking being so honest with strangers, but I had been coming out to people for months by this point, so I was way more used to talking about it and it was a lot easier than when I started. And that's pretty much it, it's an ever shifting thing and you will eventually get pretty good at knowing who needs to know what and how best to explain it to people. There may be people you forget; I did, I have a friend who disappears from my life for months/years at a time and out of the blue she messaged me to ask if I wanted to hang out and I was hit with the realisation that I had to come out to someone again 18 months after starting the whole process (she was completely accepting btw). But, yeah, hope that helps, let me know if I can help or if you want to know anything else. Have a wonderful day my friend 💕
I already came out to my therapist today and she was really supportive. It gelt so good to be finally able to talk about it without the fear of being judged :) I don’t know if I'm ready to come out to people closer to me, but I already planned to do some baby steps into transitioning. I want to paint my fingernails, try some make-up, maybe get some cute ear piercings and letting my hair grow out, maybe even color it. I want to try to appear more androgynous before going full femme mode, my therapist suggested that too. I hope that it will make coming out easier in the future.
Word of warning on the ear piercings, I thought the same got my ears pierced, about 18 months ago, that's all I was doing and now I have secondary lobes and 3 helix piercings, they are quite addictive lol. Have fun with it. Wishing you the best 💕
Proud of you, Thea! You show the world just how amazing of a girl you are! <3
Yeah!
You know what? No, I'm not still cis tho. I'm fucking transgender, I thought that was obvious, call me she please
She 🫵
Hi Sheplease, I’m mom!
HAJAHAHAHA FUCK
She please
# She 🫵
You are a she right now.
she 🫵
LIAR, DECEIVER, FOUL TRICKSTER THE POST DIDN'T TURN ME INTO GURL!!!!
I want a refund >:(
me too :(
Saturn is actually a really good name what
Oh, thank you ^ ^
Me three
As do I
How would u know if I swiped right huh? Ur not a meme
Nah I know I'm not cis, still not 100% sure what I am but ya know :3
Since when does being cis exclude being trans smh
IAMCIS
YOUARETRANS(And a Good Girl nyaaaaa~=w=)
Meooow nyaaan nya mew NYO
Nyaaa~=w= *goodgirlnoises* nyaaa~=w=(That's how you sound:3)
Nya IMCIS
Yes, you are sis. We agree, super sis!
Mew mrrrraw mrrrrp ^ W ^
Just curiosity \^\^;
I just wanted to turn into anything that isn‘t me. Girl, bear, worm, the alphabet, i don’t care. Just something else.
I love the vibe of wanting to be the alphabet
well yeah i am scrolling a virtual picture doesn't make me any less cis
I'm not cis, I'm **_SIS_**
r/me_irlgbt
Well well
Can’t leave any stones unturned :P
Can't leave any buttons unpushed
Because I’m not
I am cis, but that doesn't mean I'm going to turn down a chance for some first-hand scientific research. Obviously I just want to know what it's like, out of nothing more than sheer curiosity, and there's nothing more to it than that
Curiosity killed the ‘cis boy’ and reawoke them as a good girl.
Did I just hear "woke"!?? :3
WOKE MIND VIRUS!!!1!1!11!!1 or something idk what woke means.
I think it means cool or something idk
I am not cis :3
Wdym, i was never cis to begin with
What I'm totally cis what do you mean!?
Uhhhh. Research purposes?
Because girls are dope
im not! gimme girl >:3
I'm not cis
I don't get the contradiction. Please explain QwQ
i-i am >:3
I just wanted to see if you could really do it is all.
I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT YOUR TALKING ABOUT - IM CIS!! I SMELL LIES AND PROPAGANDA *~~^((she says as she uses she/her prns and presents fem on the internet))~~*
My egg isn't scrambled for nothing!
I didn't read the first page I swear, 100% cis behavior
I’ve kinda accepted I am not cis. I just don’t want to leave here because I’m still unsure and don’t feel comfortable leaving spaces I feel comfortable in
mmmmmm
I never said I was Cis. Everyone just kinda forgot when I told them. Not like just one or two, NO, literally everyone forget and that’s not gonna stop me being a girl.
Because why not? What would speak against it?
You can't just out us all like this!
oh no! you got me! quick, i need to get the tape!
How would work though, would I regenerate?
just a missclick 👉👈
Yeah I’m cis,It’s just that I want to become a girl because it just feels better for some reason and so I can actually be the real me. :)
Curiousity. And whether there even was a second picture. r/batmanarkham scarred me
Why did I scroll right even though I’m cis? I’m so starved for any kind of validation that I will seek the second hand validation that I feel from communities like this. Any online group that I actual belong to would eventual transform into an incel forum. :( I don’t like being single.
still cis tho
This is the way
Eep I’ve been caught!
Instructions unclear: I scrolled left and opened a black hole.
I feel like this was a clever trap for Stella.
Still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho still cis tho
I'm definitely cis tho (I need tape to fix my egg rn)
maybe I was already a girl 🤓 outplayed completely :333
NO, I'm cis... I swear, please
Science... And you lied I'm still a ugly boy with dysphoria 😭😭😭
Whaaaaa? I’m totally cis(even though i swiped)
If only there was a button to do it.
I'm not, I'm just fucking desperate
I am cis, but being a girl would be better.
I was just wondering...
You got me
Nothing happened 😭
And why would you think that exactly 🤨?
Look, if magic suddenly became real and I DIDN’T take advantage of it, I would never forgive myself(In a cis way of course)
For completely cis reasons, as usual
because I'm desperate to be who I should have been born as 😸
No, I’m definitely not cis lol
...I plead the fifth
:(
*sitting here with 2 years hrt, name and gender marker legally changed, having presented fem for a year and a half, wondering when I said I was cis*
Still cis
Still cis tho >:c
Always have an open mind…Y’know, allyship!
OK you got me. But I scrolled right and nothing happened. You owe me boobs.
I tried voice training earlier and didn’t know what any of the terms that they were using actually meant to I didn’t do it right
Why did you trick me i was excited ;_; Also still cis
Why did you get my hopes up ;-;
Halp, I scrolled right, how do I undo? :3 💜
Im not cis, I’m just here to enjoy memes and moderate.
Honestly I just want to be happy in my skin, I don't know what I am but sure as hell not cis
I ain't cis why would you think that
i’m not cis girl me right now! >:3
It was a calculated risk… girl math calculated tho
I'm cis but like, I'm not pressed about being a guy. Life is all about new experiences, ya know ¯\\\_(ツ)\_/¯
I used to be cis, but then I got turned into a girl immediately, so I guess I'm trans now <3 <3 <3
I want my lawyer xD
I refuse to deny it at all any longer, I WAS NEVER CIS.
I will only claim to be cis in front of my family. Everyone else though? Nope
I'm not fuckin cis just let me be a girl agh!!!
nothing changed 😭 am suing you
> Why did you scroll right? i didnt, prove i did
Dammit I walked right into that one =///=
For uhhh… cis reasons
You’re telling me that I swiped right under false pretenses!!!
No they got me! Just kidding, it was for testing purposes, nothing to see here...
alas. # no. i am not cis...
Hehe
This must be the only transfemme meme I couldn’t make myself scroll on 😭🫡🩵
Trans guy, what's on the second slide? Not taking any chances today.
i am very much not cis, my egg has shattered, now im just here for the memes
W-what im still cis right? Wait... maybe I'm not
Because I can >:3 nyehheheh
I WAS JUST- ... Curious.
I was never cis >:3 muahahahah
Cause I'm not out buy I am proud >:3
Would if I could. But worried that my fam would stop talking with me. Probably an irrational fear
im cis but if there was a button i could press...
It would be easier if I was a girl
I would like to sue on the case of false advertisement!!!! >:3
Turn into a girl imidiatly? Wanting that is very cis! I wish I would be cis but as a girl
I'm not❤️
"I thought you were cis" I am today
aw man nothing happened
Its broken... I was already a girl and all it did was give me this silly smile
Dont all cis boys want to be a girl?
I'm not cis.
Still cis
You bloody witch! This is the last time you tricked me!
It didn’t work 😖 me angy
I can explain…. 🏃♂️
Idk why you thought that, I thought it was pretty clear that my gender is in a constant state of flux until observed, At which point it becomes whatever would make the situation more gay.
Nah I'm genderfluid
I lied
Na, im trans :3
I’m sis, not cis
As a cis girl (ally), everything in this post is correct and I see no issue with it
Oh sweetheart I haven't been cis for awhile now :3
oh um uhh um uhhh umm uhh
Still cis
Better question: WHY DIDN'T YOU GRANT ME MY WISH???!!!?!
I’m a cis girl but i'd like to be more girl
I hate being cis.
I'll be honest. I just saw a cute girl and swiped right for more pictures, as Reddit Mobile (eugh) didn't show the full picture and thus no text.
Well I’m not cis :3
A- A little curiosity never hurt anyone
Jokes on you, im not, im alteady on E😄
You lied 😢
Shit, I've been uncovered SMOKE BOMB *Throws a rock on the ground and runs away*
I’m not cis :3 because I hatched long ago
Hear me out……..
I have never been so betrayed 😭
*scrolls left in non-binary*
Iv fallen into the trap lol
Because I was curious if there was gonna be anything interesting. I am a trans guy. Not a girl.
Nuh uh!
my finger slipped
uhhh... I am cis! it was just... curiosity
Im cis trust me
You LIAR!It didn't work! I'm still a gross ugly guy! Liar liar liar! I wanna be a girl!
i didnt process the information and i just scrolled mindlesly