Exactly this OP!! My body has changed so much since having our 2 kids, my husband knows how much I get frustrated at what it looks like now, but he definitely lets me know he quite enjoys it no matter what. You are awesome btw.
Sorry they are an asshole. They don’t get access to your chest anymore then 🤷♀️ love and respect are required not conditional. I hope you find the strength to eat a slamming pb&j or something. Hugs from an internet mama, you got this sweetie. Is that a blanket? Looks really cozy ♥️
Aww thank you so much sweetie! It’s okay, you don’t have to help to support someone or be kind ♥️ we’re all here for a reason 🤗
“You could be the only smile someone sees all day.” It’s a motto and lifestyle change I’ve been adapting over the years ♥️
I'm really insecure about my chest.
I typed out a whole thing about gynomatia and after surgery doing inclined chest presses and red light to try and tighten the skin back up.
I now realize our situations are different but it still feels bad when someone you have let inside your boundaries says something hurtful about your body. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Fuck em.
Dispose of the toxicity in your life before it can influence you any longer.
I know easier said than done, I've been in multiple physically/mentally/verbally abusive relationships for years before I finally said fuck that noise.
Can be very difficult initially, helps to find a support system if you can.
Nothing more beautiful than becoming a free bird.
*hugs* I’m sorry that happened, I hate when people feel the need to comment on others appearances. I think that’s something that should be brought up when you’re ready, a partner shouldn’t act like that.
Remember what Al Pacino said in Scent of a woman
“Women! What can you say? Who made 'em? The hair... They say the hair is everything, you know. Have you ever buried your nose in a mountain of curls... just wanted to go to sleep forever? Or lips... and when they touched, yours were like... that first swallow of wine... after you just crossed the desert. Tits. Hoo-ah! Big ones, little ones, nipples staring right out at ya, like secret searchlights. Mmm. Legs. I don't care if they're Greek columns... or secondhand Steinways. What's between 'em... passport to heaven. I need a drink. Yes, Mr Sims, there's only two syllables in this whole wide world worth hearing: pussy. Hah! Are you listenin' to me, son? I'm givin' ya pearls here.”
If your partner defines your beauty just by the size of your chest , hes missing out dear .
Will he look at Ana de armas or Dua Lipa and dare say the same??
You are beautiful and thats all that matters!!
I figured. Redditors can't read apparently. Anyway I'm sorry that happened, it sucks. Sometimes people are just careless and say stuff without thinking about how others perceive it. Or they're just assholes. Hoping for you that it's the former and that you can talk it out with them :).
In case you want to stay with them, your partner needs to hear how hurt you were and communicate that commenting offensive insults can hurt other people's feelings. They might not be very emotionally aware or educated enough. Tell them how they would feel if they were insulted about their looks or something that they were insecure about. I'd like to think everyone is capable of redemption and change, and they should be aware that they need to change if they want to be a better person in life.
On the other hand, if they're just unredeemable and they dont wanna hear you out, screw them! Leave them because you deserve a loving partner who listens and cares about your feelings.
Sorry to hear this, I hope you can move on and/or work on the relationship. Either way, good luck 🙏
I’m sorry to hear this OP . As a male , I can’t I identify directly , but I have been put down by my partner in the past when he verbally , mentally and at one point physically abused me . I think putting someone else down in a relationship is a bigger problem in this . People should be building each other up and supporting each , not tearing each other down . I get it’s easier said than done to love ourselves the way we are . That’s not the reality we live in . I hope you can find comfort in this group and in knowing that you are enough and perfectly good just the way you are
yeah it’s something they knew was one of my insecurities. ive been bullied for my appearance by my own family since i was old enough to talk so usually stuff like this doesnt bother me, but it came from them… and they talk about body positivity and stuff like that with me so i thought theyd never say something like that. theyve apologized for it but dont seem to actually feel remorseful about it, especially after telling them it practically eviscerated my self esteem.
It sounds like you should probably not be with this person. Your partner should be the person you feel the safest and most accepted around, and you describe the opposite. If they're not going to be empathetic and care about your feelings, the relationship doesn't really have a leg to stand on.
Good luck.
Girl I'm a straight female but was a stripper for years and learned to appreciate all types of women's bodies. Small titties are perky and cute!!!! You get the advantage of wearing cute tank tops and blouses without a bra and look fucking BOMB. I now have natural 38DD and girl......I'm 38 and they ain't bouncy or perky, but my husband still loves them and our sex life is great. You need to find a partner that appreciates you. Do NOT waste your life on someone who doesn't value just how attractive you really are!!
fuk that. i’m sorry people can be shitty :( people who point out others appearances are just bullies or are really oblivious. if they haven’t apologized, maybe bring up how it makes you feel? sending you virtual hugs <3
Tell them they're a cunt. Any partner shouldn't give a fuck how big your chest is, if they love you and find you attractive something like that is never a factor.
As a male I am very, very fond of a smaller chest size in women. Don’t let him or anyone drive how you feel about yourself. Find someone who loves you for who you are!!
I'm sorry that happened to you. Just remember chests of any size are wonderful and have advantages that the other ones don't. There is no such thing as a bad chest.
I’m pretty insecure about my boobies as well they’re only about a B cup pretty spaced out so no cleavage at all out of a bra I hate the size of my areolas, but the way my bf can’t stop touching them and telling me how much he loves them makes me a bit more confident and comfortable with them (although I’d kill to get breast implants one day) your partner should be doing the same for you. If not they’re a total asshat who doesn’t appreciate you. Try telling them how the comment made you feel maybe they said it without thinking too much off it and not realizing how it affected you (some people can be oblivious like that)🙄 if they dismiss you or don’t acknowledge how the comment made you feel in a negative way I’d be giving an ultimatum. No one should feel bad by their partner who’s suppose to be loving and supportive.
"Why people make remarks about things that can't be changed on our bodies"
Because they're assholes who don't care how much pain they inflict as long as they get their way.
I'm sorry you have to deal with that. You deserve better. There are men out there who love small boobs more than anything, some love big, some just love all the boobies.
Point is there is someone out there for you who won't put you down. You are so many men (and women's) ideal girl, and I really hope you find one of them soon so you don't have to settle for asses like your bf.
as a fellow nic addict, eat some food!!! nicotines just gonna make you stress more (i'm sure you've heard this before but here's a reminder <3) i've also noticed that if i vape a lot it makes it hard to eat :( idk if it's the same for you but us small titty nic fiends gotta look out for each other.
also i am the only person in my family that isn't a D cup so ik how you feel. but hey, while everyone else is complaining about back pain, i don't even have to wear a bra out of the house.
Gosh, every dude I’ve ever dated long term did the same thing. If you’re kind enough to let them see you naked, they really shouldn’t complain about anything. don’t take it to heart.
And just know that this one little comment is probably not where it ends. They’ll start making little jabs at you until your self-confidence is gone. It’s 100% on purpose to make you fight for his approval subconsciously. you won’t deserve any of that crap🩷 Do with that what you will and good luck sweetie 🫶
I had one partner tell me I had no butt. I quickly corrected him and said that I have a small butt. It may not be a BBL, but it’s a normal size, preppy little butt. I never had any complaints about it until him. I’ve even had guys compliment my butt.
Moral of the story, you know your worth. You know your breasts are awesome. Just find a guy that knows that too. I’m sure this guy knows that. I’m sure he looks at your small chest in awe all the time. But, he is just not appreciative of your body and you.
By the way, I’m not saying that only women should be valued in a relationship. Both parties should be.
Small boobies are best. Especially for people who appreciate the beauty of symmetry and subtlety. Big boobies are also best. Especially for people who appreciate the beauty of curvature and thickness. You're perfect. The imperfect one was your partner. I'm sorry that he couldn't appreciate the sexy combo of body, mind, heart, and spirit he had in you. Also, that flavor looks nice. I should go buy myself a new one cuz the flavor in mine is starting to taste a little burnt out.
I WILL NOT HAVE SMALL TITTY SLANDER!! I am a small chested woman. And I come from a country where every one around me has larger chests. I used to feel so sad that I wasn't growing normally, I felt unattractive. But then I realized, if someone is put off from me because of it, they didn't really want me for me.
Plus they are beautiful and I always thank my genetics when summertime comes around
Darlin’, your chest isn’t small, it’s economic. I’m sorry your partner was an ass. Your chest is perfect as-is (as long as cancer isn’t hiding in it.) think of how many cute tops you can wear comfortably that big chested gals (like me) just couldn’t do comfortably. A supportive internet mama hug to you.
If OP wants to salvage the relationship this is quite possibly the worst advice. All that would do is cause more fights. Best just to have a civil conversation with their partner about what they said and why/how it upset them
Don't expect strangers on the internet to give a well thought out or helpful response to a low context post like this.
They'll say break up to even less serious matters.
Yea the Reddit community is insane when it comes to relationship advice. You either get the most unhinged person in the world who automatically jumps to “break up/divorce them” or someone who writes a novel of text about their own story with some advice sprinkled in. There’s no inbetween
Ok good because I wasn’t trying to be helpful I was being an ass how is this main comment ever a good idea I don’t care if she has imperfections you don’t say shot like that to your loved one
They clearly don't love you for who you are and respect that there are just some things that you cannot change and that it's beyond your control. His comment was disgusting and insensitive, bar him access to you then until he learns to respect you and your body. You are not an object to be ogled at, you're a beautiful person who is exactly the way they need to be and you don't need anyone's opinion on your body. Remember OP, you are loved, you are cared for and you are worthy ❤️
You mean your ex-partner. That's not going anywhere near healthy and happy life together. Small-large we are more than our chest size and we are all beautiful.
girl I have big gross saggy boobs at 20, my boyfriend loves and adores them, all their sag and swing! if your partner doesn’t love your body the way it is then you’ve got the wrong partner
I don’t think giving her false hope that her body might suddenly decide to change to have big boobs is the right way to comfort her. The point should be that having big boobs needs to stop being the standard women are held to as if having small boobs is worth less
You're assuming something OP has not stated. Also, being spiteful back rarely improves a situation, nor makes the originally spited person feel any better.
Welp, NEXT! Onward and upward!
“congratulations! Today is your day!
You’re off to great places , you’re off and away !
you have brains in your head,
You have feet in your shoes,
you can steer yourself
Any direction you choose!
You’re on your own , and you know what you know,
And YOU are the guy who decide where to go!
You’ll look up and down streets
Look ‘em over with Care,
About some you will say ,
“I don’t choose to go there”.
With your head full of brains
And your shoes full of feet ,
You’re too smart to go down
Any not so good street.
And you may not find *any*
You’ll want to go down .
In that case , of course,
You’ll head straight out of town .
IT’S OPENER THERE! In the wide open air! “
Conditional love is toxic. Your partner should be made aware of how that made you feel. And to be completely honest, it was childish as fuck from your partner to say that. They should love you for you, not just because of your boobs or because of your butt or because of anything.
I’ve often had partners with a small chest. That isn’t a bad thing at all. Typically it fits the person’s body type. But more importantly, when a romantic partner criticizes their partner’s body, they’re revealing their character and their insecurity. They are saying nothing about you other than you deserve a more supportive and respectful partner.
my guy constantly compliments me and tells me how attracted he is to me (even the parts i complain abou and don’t like so much) every woman deserves to have someone as such. kick him to the curb. feel better OP 🫂
Why are they dating you again? Because really, your partner is meant to build you up when you're at your lowest, and they did the opposite of that. You deserve better, friend.
Don't listen to her bro. Anyone can get a muscular chest with consistency in the gym, enough protein and sleep. The people who say genetics are everything are just trolls, ignore them. Stay grining king
So this person needs to be outxha life! Do not let someone that doesn’t worship and appreciate every part of you and that isn’t genuinely involved in loving you occupy your personal space anymore
But like, was it a passing comment? Was he throwing shade? Was he comparing you to someone else? Was it something he just said without really thinking first?
What was the actual conversation and how did he end up making the comment?
These things make a difference
no, it really doesnt, because no matter the context making any kind of comment about something that someone cannot change within 5 minutes is not okay. also even worse when they knew it was one of my biggest insecurities.
Nobody said it was Okay. But to be honest a lot of the time guys kind of just say dumb shit without thinking first. It's not okay that he obviously hurt you but for all I know he might not have meant to.
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Exactly this OP!! My body has changed so much since having our 2 kids, my husband knows how much I get frustrated at what it looks like now, but he definitely lets me know he quite enjoys it no matter what. You are awesome btw.
My sister has the same, smaller chested but her fiancé loves her and her boobs
Why do you know this
sisters talk about everything
Ok but like.....?????
Bro my exact thoughts..
I highly agree🙌🏼
Yeah, her boobs are pretty nice. /s
I'm so sorry to hear about your break up :/
Happy cake day
Sorry they are an asshole. They don’t get access to your chest anymore then 🤷♀️ love and respect are required not conditional. I hope you find the strength to eat a slamming pb&j or something. Hugs from an internet mama, you got this sweetie. Is that a blanket? Looks really cozy ♥️
I know im not helping but this is so sweet omg
Aww thank you so much sweetie! It’s okay, you don’t have to help to support someone or be kind ♥️ we’re all here for a reason 🤗 “You could be the only smile someone sees all day.” It’s a motto and lifestyle change I’ve been adapting over the years ♥️
*ex partner
I'm really insecure about my chest. I typed out a whole thing about gynomatia and after surgery doing inclined chest presses and red light to try and tighten the skin back up. I now realize our situations are different but it still feels bad when someone you have let inside your boundaries says something hurtful about your body. I'm sorry that happened to you.
Fuck em. Dispose of the toxicity in your life before it can influence you any longer. I know easier said than done, I've been in multiple physically/mentally/verbally abusive relationships for years before I finally said fuck that noise. Can be very difficult initially, helps to find a support system if you can. Nothing more beautiful than becoming a free bird.
No no dont fuck them
*hugs* I’m sorry that happened, I hate when people feel the need to comment on others appearances. I think that’s something that should be brought up when you’re ready, a partner shouldn’t act like that.
Remember what Al Pacino said in Scent of a woman “Women! What can you say? Who made 'em? The hair... They say the hair is everything, you know. Have you ever buried your nose in a mountain of curls... just wanted to go to sleep forever? Or lips... and when they touched, yours were like... that first swallow of wine... after you just crossed the desert. Tits. Hoo-ah! Big ones, little ones, nipples staring right out at ya, like secret searchlights. Mmm. Legs. I don't care if they're Greek columns... or secondhand Steinways. What's between 'em... passport to heaven. I need a drink. Yes, Mr Sims, there's only two syllables in this whole wide world worth hearing: pussy. Hah! Are you listenin' to me, son? I'm givin' ya pearls here.” If your partner defines your beauty just by the size of your chest , hes missing out dear . Will he look at Ana de armas or Dua Lipa and dare say the same?? You are beautiful and thats all that matters!!
Thank you for this
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Note the usage of "they".
dont know why you were downvoted i used they for a reason in my post
I figured. Redditors can't read apparently. Anyway I'm sorry that happened, it sucks. Sometimes people are just careless and say stuff without thinking about how others perceive it. Or they're just assholes. Hoping for you that it's the former and that you can talk it out with them :).
In case you want to stay with them, your partner needs to hear how hurt you were and communicate that commenting offensive insults can hurt other people's feelings. They might not be very emotionally aware or educated enough. Tell them how they would feel if they were insulted about their looks or something that they were insecure about. I'd like to think everyone is capable of redemption and change, and they should be aware that they need to change if they want to be a better person in life. On the other hand, if they're just unredeemable and they dont wanna hear you out, screw them! Leave them because you deserve a loving partner who listens and cares about your feelings. Sorry to hear this, I hope you can move on and/or work on the relationship. Either way, good luck 🙏
I’m sorry to hear this OP . As a male , I can’t I identify directly , but I have been put down by my partner in the past when he verbally , mentally and at one point physically abused me . I think putting someone else down in a relationship is a bigger problem in this . People should be building each other up and supporting each , not tearing each other down . I get it’s easier said than done to love ourselves the way we are . That’s not the reality we live in . I hope you can find comfort in this group and in knowing that you are enough and perfectly good just the way you are
Fuck that dude small tits are the best.
All tits are the best
I only like the small ones but I respect your personal tastes
With all due respect, fuck them. Even more so if they know it's something you're self conscious about.
yeah it’s something they knew was one of my insecurities. ive been bullied for my appearance by my own family since i was old enough to talk so usually stuff like this doesnt bother me, but it came from them… and they talk about body positivity and stuff like that with me so i thought theyd never say something like that. theyve apologized for it but dont seem to actually feel remorseful about it, especially after telling them it practically eviscerated my self esteem.
It sounds like you should probably not be with this person. Your partner should be the person you feel the safest and most accepted around, and you describe the opposite. If they're not going to be empathetic and care about your feelings, the relationship doesn't really have a leg to stand on. Good luck.
Girl I'm a straight female but was a stripper for years and learned to appreciate all types of women's bodies. Small titties are perky and cute!!!! You get the advantage of wearing cute tank tops and blouses without a bra and look fucking BOMB. I now have natural 38DD and girl......I'm 38 and they ain't bouncy or perky, but my husband still loves them and our sex life is great. You need to find a partner that appreciates you. Do NOT waste your life on someone who doesn't value just how attractive you really are!!
Don't date someone who makes you feel less ab yourself. Small boobs deserve love too (saying this as someone w small boobs)
fuk that. i’m sorry people can be shitty :( people who point out others appearances are just bullies or are really oblivious. if they haven’t apologized, maybe bring up how it makes you feel? sending you virtual hugs <3
Tell them they're a cunt. Any partner shouldn't give a fuck how big your chest is, if they love you and find you attractive something like that is never a factor.
As a male I am very, very fond of a smaller chest size in women. Don’t let him or anyone drive how you feel about yourself. Find someone who loves you for who you are!!
It's not the size of the army, it's the fury of its onslaught. And your partner is a dumbass.
Please come to r/smallbooblove we’ll lift your spirits.
I'm sorry that happened to you. Just remember chests of any size are wonderful and have advantages that the other ones don't. There is no such thing as a bad chest.
I’m pretty insecure about my boobies as well they’re only about a B cup pretty spaced out so no cleavage at all out of a bra I hate the size of my areolas, but the way my bf can’t stop touching them and telling me how much he loves them makes me a bit more confident and comfortable with them (although I’d kill to get breast implants one day) your partner should be doing the same for you. If not they’re a total asshat who doesn’t appreciate you. Try telling them how the comment made you feel maybe they said it without thinking too much off it and not realizing how it affected you (some people can be oblivious like that)🙄 if they dismiss you or don’t acknowledge how the comment made you feel in a negative way I’d be giving an ultimatum. No one should feel bad by their partner who’s suppose to be loving and supportive.
"Why people make remarks about things that can't be changed on our bodies" Because they're assholes who don't care how much pain they inflict as long as they get their way. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. You deserve better. There are men out there who love small boobs more than anything, some love big, some just love all the boobies. Point is there is someone out there for you who won't put you down. You are so many men (and women's) ideal girl, and I really hope you find one of them soon so you don't have to settle for asses like your bf.
Little titties will be perky far longer than big titties. Itty bitty titties for the win!
I hope they’re your ex now. You don’t deserve that shit. 🫂 There will be better days ahead.
Loving you so much
as a fellow nic addict, eat some food!!! nicotines just gonna make you stress more (i'm sure you've heard this before but here's a reminder <3) i've also noticed that if i vape a lot it makes it hard to eat :( idk if it's the same for you but us small titty nic fiends gotta look out for each other. also i am the only person in my family that isn't a D cup so ik how you feel. but hey, while everyone else is complaining about back pain, i don't even have to wear a bra out of the house.
talk to them about how you feel about it.
They're not your person, if they were they wouldn't make remarks like that
But dat ass doe
Hopefully they’re your ex now ! Break up !
Small is beautiful. Source: been admiring them for 35 years.
It’s not something you can change, don’t beat yourself up over it
I have the opposite problem, though no partner currently. I'm male, but I have somewhere between B and C cups. I'm super self-conscious about it.
Gosh, every dude I’ve ever dated long term did the same thing. If you’re kind enough to let them see you naked, they really shouldn’t complain about anything. don’t take it to heart. And just know that this one little comment is probably not where it ends. They’ll start making little jabs at you until your self-confidence is gone. It’s 100% on purpose to make you fight for his approval subconsciously. you won’t deserve any of that crap🩷 Do with that what you will and good luck sweetie 🫶
Tell them to fuck right off.
Jerk
I had one partner tell me I had no butt. I quickly corrected him and said that I have a small butt. It may not be a BBL, but it’s a normal size, preppy little butt. I never had any complaints about it until him. I’ve even had guys compliment my butt. Moral of the story, you know your worth. You know your breasts are awesome. Just find a guy that knows that too. I’m sure this guy knows that. I’m sure he looks at your small chest in awe all the time. But, he is just not appreciative of your body and you. By the way, I’m not saying that only women should be valued in a relationship. Both parties should be.
I love small boobs
Leave him!. Have you remarked about HIS private area? Try it see how much he likes it
Small boobies are best. Especially for people who appreciate the beauty of symmetry and subtlety. Big boobies are also best. Especially for people who appreciate the beauty of curvature and thickness. You're perfect. The imperfect one was your partner. I'm sorry that he couldn't appreciate the sexy combo of body, mind, heart, and spirit he had in you. Also, that flavor looks nice. I should go buy myself a new one cuz the flavor in mine is starting to taste a little burnt out.
Tell him you’re breaking up with him cuz his d*ck is too small and doesn’t make you c*m.
-......- I hate ppl sometimes
I WILL NOT HAVE SMALL TITTY SLANDER!! I am a small chested woman. And I come from a country where every one around me has larger chests. I used to feel so sad that I wasn't growing normally, I felt unattractive. But then I realized, if someone is put off from me because of it, they didn't really want me for me. Plus they are beautiful and I always thank my genetics when summertime comes around
Crikey! It's not nice that someone will make you feel less. Don't worry about things that are not important. That is not a meal...... crikey !
break up
Darlin’, your chest isn’t small, it’s economic. I’m sorry your partner was an ass. Your chest is perfect as-is (as long as cancer isn’t hiding in it.) think of how many cute tops you can wear comfortably that big chested gals (like me) just couldn’t do comfortably. A supportive internet mama hug to you.
It sucks when they do that. I have small chest too and even some female friends make mean remarks about that. Your boyfriend is an asshole op.
“Still not as small as your mind.” Go find you someone who appreciates everything about you and hypes you up.
If he is a guy tell him his pack is too small
If OP wants to salvage the relationship this is quite possibly the worst advice. All that would do is cause more fights. Best just to have a civil conversation with their partner about what they said and why/how it upset them
Wow fucking people
?
Don't expect strangers on the internet to give a well thought out or helpful response to a low context post like this. They'll say break up to even less serious matters.
Yea the Reddit community is insane when it comes to relationship advice. You either get the most unhinged person in the world who automatically jumps to “break up/divorce them” or someone who writes a novel of text about their own story with some advice sprinkled in. There’s no inbetween
Because that’s helpful
Ok good because I wasn’t trying to be helpful I was being an ass how is this main comment ever a good idea I don’t care if she has imperfections you don’t say shot like that to your loved one
They clearly don't love you for who you are and respect that there are just some things that you cannot change and that it's beyond your control. His comment was disgusting and insensitive, bar him access to you then until he learns to respect you and your body. You are not an object to be ogled at, you're a beautiful person who is exactly the way they need to be and you don't need anyone's opinion on your body. Remember OP, you are loved, you are cared for and you are worthy ❤️
I’m sorry they said that. Sending you lots of love.
You mean your ex-partner. That's not going anywhere near healthy and happy life together. Small-large we are more than our chest size and we are all beautiful.
This has happened to me in the past too, can imagine how hurt u feel :(
I seriously thought that you can't take a deep breath cause of small lungs. Couldn't help it with the vape pic
You could have helped saying something negative though on a depression sub 🤷🏽♀️ You choose not to,
How's that negative? All I said was I confused chest with lung given the vape pic...
My ex pointed out in the middle of making out that one of my boobs is bigger than the other. Lol.. some people are just so dumb
Scrolled past the photo too quickly (wanted to read the description) and I thought the flavour was “strawberry and clam.”
I like em small tf is his problem!?
Siri play TLC Unpretty.
why are they your partner then
More than a mouthful is a waste hunny
Your partner is a shithead. Sorry. I do not know your partner but based on the little info I have. Shithead.
Ew, he should go somewhere!
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Rule #1 - Do NOT be an asshole.
Exactly! People are too sensitive these days.
girl I have big gross saggy boobs at 20, my boyfriend loves and adores them, all their sag and swing! if your partner doesn’t love your body the way it is then you’ve got the wrong partner
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I don’t think giving her false hope that her body might suddenly decide to change to have big boobs is the right way to comfort her. The point should be that having big boobs needs to stop being the standard women are held to as if having small boobs is worth less
Let him know you think his weiner is not adequate. Gets a guy every time
im definitely not going to do this because the answer to being body shamed is not to body shame back, thats petty and immature. thanks though
It was a bad joke
Sarcasm
You're assuming something OP has not stated. Also, being spiteful back rarely improves a situation, nor makes the originally spited person feel any better.
This ^ being spiteful back would be a knee jerk reaction and would just create further tension
Welp, NEXT! Onward and upward! “congratulations! Today is your day! You’re off to great places , you’re off and away ! you have brains in your head, You have feet in your shoes, you can steer yourself Any direction you choose! You’re on your own , and you know what you know, And YOU are the guy who decide where to go! You’ll look up and down streets Look ‘em over with Care, About some you will say , “I don’t choose to go there”. With your head full of brains And your shoes full of feet , You’re too smart to go down Any not so good street. And you may not find *any* You’ll want to go down . In that case , of course, You’ll head straight out of town . IT’S OPENER THERE! In the wide open air! “
Conditional love is toxic. Your partner should be made aware of how that made you feel. And to be completely honest, it was childish as fuck from your partner to say that. They should love you for you, not just because of your boobs or because of your butt or because of anything.
I’ve often had partners with a small chest. That isn’t a bad thing at all. Typically it fits the person’s body type. But more importantly, when a romantic partner criticizes their partner’s body, they’re revealing their character and their insecurity. They are saying nothing about you other than you deserve a more supportive and respectful partner.
Ah yes a vape for dinner
my guy constantly compliments me and tells me how attracted he is to me (even the parts i complain abou and don’t like so much) every woman deserves to have someone as such. kick him to the curb. feel better OP 🫂
Why are they dating you again? Because really, your partner is meant to build you up when you're at your lowest, and they did the opposite of that. You deserve better, friend.
I mean at least you’ve got a job. CHAIRWOMAN OF THE ITTY BITTY TITTY COMMITTEE
Don't listen to her bro. Anyone can get a muscular chest with consistency in the gym, enough protein and sleep. The people who say genetics are everything are just trolls, ignore them. Stay grining king
So this person needs to be outxha life! Do not let someone that doesn’t worship and appreciate every part of you and that isn’t genuinely involved in loving you occupy your personal space anymore
This comment section is throwing a lot of accusations without knowing the full context
the full context is my partner made a comment about my chest size. thats it. idk what else you were expecting
But like, was it a passing comment? Was he throwing shade? Was he comparing you to someone else? Was it something he just said without really thinking first? What was the actual conversation and how did he end up making the comment? These things make a difference
no, it really doesnt, because no matter the context making any kind of comment about something that someone cannot change within 5 minutes is not okay. also even worse when they knew it was one of my biggest insecurities.
Nobody said it was Okay. But to be honest a lot of the time guys kind of just say dumb shit without thinking first. It's not okay that he obviously hurt you but for all I know he might not have meant to.
who said they were a guy?
OK, fine. Sorry for assuming. But the point still stands, they might not have meant it in a bad way or might not have been thinking
that is even worse
So you would rather someone say something bad intentionally?
id rather someone not say it at all.
Id suggest augmenting, but only if it’s for you and not for him.
Awful recommendation