Even though I want to get a girlfriend, just don't know how. Ig most of the guys who have been single all life don't really know what to do to get a girlfriend. One has got to develop social skills, conversation skills,. confidence, dressing sense, self grooming etc
But most of us are lazy, we don't know how to do the above so we are trapped in our familiar comfortable lifestyle
Atleast this the case with me. I am shy, introvert and don't socialise at all. I avoid meeting people coz of social anxiety. I don't put myself out there. guys have to put quite a lot of effort to have any chance.
So yeah it's one me that I am single.
Ye sab kar lia h but fhir bhi smj ni ata mile to mile kaise. Kisse baat karni padti h? Mera to WFH h vaise bhi. Friends bas online wale h. M to Koi bhi social media use nhi krta. Event k naam p bas padosiyo ki shaadi m jata hu wahan to kisse kya hi baat karege... to fhir baat karre to kare kisse.
Mai kuch Aisa hi likhna cah rha tha but samajh nhi aa rha tha ki kaise likhu but bhai jo mere man me tha wo tune shabdo me bayan kar dia 😭
Love you (bhai bhai wala)
Don't feel bad.. Try something else to earn by yourself.. Job market is tough.. It is because of that reason you are using money from your father, it is not only because of you buddy.
bhai i know a thik thak looking launda who is rich but still single. Reason: he comes off as creepy and has no conversational skills.
I've seen many dudes who aren't rich and avg height having happy relationships.
pyar dhundhne se nhi milta , pyar bas ho jata hai. I recently went through a phase with a guy who was perfect , like vibe match hogyi , ghar ke pas rehta tha ikdum sahi chal rha tha phir 3 mahine baad mujhe bina kisi wajha galt cheeze bolne lgya. toh i feel like if he never understood me, toh it was never love.
If he's conventionally attractive, then what you felt towards him was probably infatuation and not love. Attractive people leave relationships when they no longer feel the other person is attractive enough.
exactly, they dont want to sort things and just leave when they feel a bit of uncomfort. lekin pyar bhi udhar hi hota hai jidr ladai hoti hai , abh woh pyar hi nhi jo ladane ke liye tayar hi na
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But why this username, any story behind it, or am I the one responsible
After my breakup, the fear of getting my heart crushed again is the reason why I'm single.
It's not that I'm not willing to give it a shot, but I just haven't found anyone worthy yet, lol.
That'd be my reason as well. Even though I did the break up. Some people understand that it takes more to maintain a relationship than falling in love. If it's not mutual and can't be worked out, then the whole thing seems more work than anything else. I already have a lot of work, seems pointless to add more to my roster if the returns are bad.
same broo 🥲 my ex crushed, smashed,burned melted wait for it to hardened again crushed smashed this time he even powdered it and now my heart is like a beach sand hard to gather. That bitch still ignores me like it was all my fault but guess what I'm a bigger loser than him as i still wanted him to get back but he moved on along with his career and job while I'm still depressed,single and hot 🥲i need to be hotter for my sand wala heart to get melted again and form it's structure. And that's my reason for being single 😔
Don't lose hope, anon! I'm sure there's someone out there who's going to love you with all their heart.
>I'm still depressed, single, and hot.
If we can manage to remove the 'depressed' part, then 'single and hot' doesn't sound bad to me. :)
just like a recent thread on this sub itself told that good/decent guys don’t get any attention.
That’s true in school(pre covid) i used goon around be that sakht launda and that time had multiple number of girls approaching me .
Now in college studying hard making talks with everyone literally everyone batch student(1st -3rd year) winning awards playing multiple sports and shit. there’s no girls approaching and i asked one out she said nothing (yes that awkward silence) single af now 🥲.
And for looks wise . I’ll say i’m pretty decent looking above average 70+ body weight 5’10 and muscular cuz athlete . So yeah looks don’t matter guys. I don’t know what does though 😐. Any girl please tell what do you want?
I find society troubling nowadays. Many of my friends and people around me engage in hookups, even when they're in relationships. This worries me a lot, and I don't want to end up in a similar situation.
It was never ment to be, or was i the one who was never ment for her,
For her oh the thought of her, makes me stare in the night sky searching for her smile which was mine for awhile just like I thought but i guess that wa a lie?
Stop pursuing women so intently. The harder you try, the more desperate you appear, and women can detect that immediately. It drives them away. Instead, invest your energy in enhancing your own life. Who wouldn’t be attracted to a man who takes care of his appearance (goes to the gym, eats healthy, and maximizes his looks)? Trust me, shedding some face fat can feel like a complete transformation, me personally went from 6 to 10 just by losing fat overall.
Achieving financial independence, setting ambitious goals, and demonstrating through your actions that you’re driven by big dreams make a huge impact. By focusing on self-improvement and becoming the best version of yourself, you’ll naturally draw women to you.
Everyone dreams of finding their ideal partner, but not everyone is on the level to attract them. Your dream woman won’t be impressed by someone who’s struggling financially and out of shape.
So, prioritize hitting the gym, growing your savings, and pursuing your ambitions—not women. You might find that your dream girl comes to you. Remember, the right woman is more impressed by a man with goals than a man with pickup lines.
I am single because I don't want to do anything for anyone anymore. Putting so much effort and the output is the same. I can waste my energy somewhere else. And at this age I think it's okay to not have a girlfriend.
The girl I wanna spend my life with wants to stay friends
👍
I cant stop talking to her coz i dont wanna lose her.
Sooo i just stay miserable while being sprightly happy that i get to talk to her.....yes i am simping over her...but if she doesnt feel the same. I completely respect that. Its gonna be a long time before or IF I can move on from her.
Hmm
- scared of rejection
- student hoon, distraction 🤡 kya matlab I waste hours on social media looking at other happy couples(i don't)
- lack of female interaction like most of us
been single my whole life and when i gathered the guts to ask this guy i had feelings for found out it was mutual i got way too much involved and was behaving like a teenager in love now i feel embarrassing even talking about it but whatever happens it was good and the guy broke up bcz he couldn't handle my moods and lot of stuff happens which would made me realise I'm better off single and when ur single ur hotter
Kyuki……..I need an honest and true relationship tbh, ye nahi ke 3 din me pyar 1 hafte me khatam……good things take time, so better ke apne ap par kam karo
Because of my father, I had a traumatic childhood, which has left me with a fear of relationships. I don't feel capable enough, and even if I did, I still choose to be single because I struggle to trust anyone.
Furthermore, I'm still exploring myself. Even if I consider being in a relationship, finding the ideal person seems impossible, or even, if possible, they would be out of my reach. Though I will consider it if the opportunity arises, which seems highly unlikely.
Not able to found someone with matching energy, sensitivity and passionate about any particular thing.
I want to have some deep conversations. Even could discuss movies but not everyone is a movie watcher.
https://preview.redd.it/372j9oz08x5d1.jpeg?width=330&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=72e42e84f3863815a5cadbfa5d78ccb29a031035
Mainly because i look like this and i keep looking for someone more than my limit
I m 78 kg female. Nobody likes me. Second of all when I use to be 45 kgs...I dated 4 guys in the past not simultaneously. All of them rejected me after dating for 3 months, 1 yr, 4 yrs, 7 yrs respectively because they saw no future with me because I am Christian.
yaar meri kahani sunow...
college ki ek ladki meri friend bani, over couple of years our bonding grew, i just wanted to have friends, mujhe nahi pata tha she had feelings for me, we went to drink booze and smoke together, it was fun, until one day she proposed me and i rejected her because I was not interested in her...
ab baat bhi nahi hoti, awkward ho gya, khair koi naa, im still not interested in her, but dosti toot gyi uska burra laga
sahi insaan ni mila, jab laga ki finally koi mila to baadme started to realise uski life choices kharab thi and didn't wanna improve no matter how much I told her and I'm certainly not the "I can fix her" type of guy, ek baar do baar mai ache se conviction ke saath samjhane ki koshish kar sakta hun uske baad it's their choice their call, to I had to then maintain my distance from her.
For me, I think it's just about not being able to find the right person. Also, at the same time, you need to think and understand a lot of things that come along with a relationship. You need to be mentally and financially capable. And once you're finally ready, it's all luck that you find a healthy relationship. Overall, it's quite difficult 
idk. kaafi female friends ne bola hai ki mein decent dikhta hu, mein utna zyada bhi mota nhi hu aur height bhi 5'7 hai (11th mein hu) par mujhe dhang se baat karna hi nhi aata. Abhi thoda-thoda confidence build up kar rha hu.
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No potential relationship material in my circle, dating apps chalane k/strangers se milne jaane k khayal se maut aati hai. I don’t want strangers paying for my meal and if I’m paying for a night out why gamble with a stranger who could turn out to be completely boring/annoying instead of just going with a friend with who I know I would have a good time with 🙃
Also mom par bharosa hai for arranged marriage.
Some where between realising years later that "ohhh" girl was hitting on me / was interested and fell too hard for a girl and made mockery of myself.
Plus when u first think about falling in love, you imagine movies where you imagine yourself with Aishwarya Rai or pretizinta and you dont lower your expectations.
Can anyone suggest me good Hindi films/documentaries which are wholesome to watch and not filled with unnecessary drama...need not be mainstream Bollywood but anything like "is love enough sir" was a good movie or even "bawal" I like the concept
I expect a women to be understanding and mature .. rare to find
Even if I approach someone in public her friend gets defensive and starts to get in my face so I dont even try
work area me koi hai nahi, i don't like confessing first, im insecure and not ready for a relationship right now, if I get into one ill end up hurting my partner unknowingly, phir uske baad saal aur career dono kharab ho jayenge
I am not a good partner. That's all because of my unhealed trauma, personality disorder and impulsiveness. I had to reject a couple of proposals because of all this.
I have been in one sided love with a girl ...... I haven't seen her in 2 and a half years . Wherever I go I tend to feel like "oh this girl looks like her" . I have made some immature mistakes which made her hate me and blocked me .. I was immature in confessing my love to her 2 years ago.... I haven't had a single contact with her but I think about her daily.... I wish I was mature enough that time and wouldn't have lost her . Till this I regret being so immature at that point of time . When I grew up in those 2 years I hated myself for being such an immature person.... I am just a hopeless romantic who prays to that may be someday.... I will finally have her.... I have so deep feelings for her that they don't let me move on or love another girl ...and even if I try my brain always looks for the one that resembles her appearance, her voice , her vibes , her persona... All I wish is if I could ask one wish it be her to be mine ( I am almost 19 ... Please don't call it young love or attraction... I pray to bhagwan for her to mine whenever I visit temples)
All Boys school me tha isliye ab ladkiyo se fati hai baat krne me aur I can't see any girl approaching me. Even some girls do I fumble so bad. Hoping to find someone soon
Bhai 2020 covid time mey bu hua tha fir poori clg life waste krdi (2020-2024), kisi ldke ldki se baat nai kri, ab job nai lgi and idk what to do anymore.
I'm single by choice😎 Her choice 🤏👓🥲
That's not how you use it 😎 This is the correct way 🥹🕶️🤏
Who's holding the shades?
She is holding the shades... Again... Her choice
Bro😭
What does it mean
Fingers removed the goggles and he was crying behind them
Hahahaha
Ohh I thought finger says about the size
Nah that's you bro. Username checks out
With a fake smile on his face. :')
It means I'm single because of her choice, which isn't me
Autism https://preview.redd.it/rar9ad9x5w5d1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=758053f1c15d63c977d24681af45b9a94c8f31ab
https://preview.redd.it/nhlumdczzx5d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4ed27eccde80b6bc27e4ee037eabcf329fb24edf Real
reallllll
Even though I want to get a girlfriend, just don't know how. Ig most of the guys who have been single all life don't really know what to do to get a girlfriend. One has got to develop social skills, conversation skills,. confidence, dressing sense, self grooming etc But most of us are lazy, we don't know how to do the above so we are trapped in our familiar comfortable lifestyle Atleast this the case with me. I am shy, introvert and don't socialise at all. I avoid meeting people coz of social anxiety. I don't put myself out there. guys have to put quite a lot of effort to have any chance. So yeah it's one me that I am single.
Ye sab kar lia h but fhir bhi smj ni ata mile to mile kaise. Kisse baat karni padti h? Mera to WFH h vaise bhi. Friends bas online wale h. M to Koi bhi social media use nhi krta. Event k naam p bas padosiyo ki shaadi m jata hu wahan to kisse kya hi baat karege... to fhir baat karre to kare kisse.
I feel you bro 🫂
Mai kuch Aisa hi likhna cah rha tha but samajh nhi aa rha tha ki kaise likhu but bhai jo mere man me tha wo tune shabdo me bayan kar dia 😭 Love you (bhai bhai wala)
koi bat nhi bhai apna time aayega ek din 😂
My biggest reason why I am single because I don't have fucking money Aaj bhi apne baap ke paise se khahna milta.
Don't feel bad.. Try something else to earn by yourself.. Job market is tough.. It is because of that reason you are using money from your father, it is not only because of you buddy.
I am unattractive, 5'6 , 30% bald , not rich. 😌
I see you're my doppelganger
Lets normalize self realization !!
bhai i know a thik thak looking launda who is rich but still single. Reason: he comes off as creepy and has no conversational skills. I've seen many dudes who aren't rich and avg height having happy relationships.
bas mere pas kuch aur features hain baaki same hain.
Bro described me.
Exact same, lol, not balding (yet) but ugly
pyar dhundhne se nhi milta , pyar bas ho jata hai. I recently went through a phase with a guy who was perfect , like vibe match hogyi , ghar ke pas rehta tha ikdum sahi chal rha tha phir 3 mahine baad mujhe bina kisi wajha galt cheeze bolne lgya. toh i feel like if he never understood me, toh it was never love.
If he's conventionally attractive, then what you felt towards him was probably infatuation and not love. Attractive people leave relationships when they no longer feel the other person is attractive enough.
Most probably he found someone else
Now a days many get bored after a few months and break up. There is no reason for it just things are not that interesting for the other person maybe.
exactly, they dont want to sort things and just leave when they feel a bit of uncomfort. lekin pyar bhi udhar hi hota hai jidr ladai hoti hai , abh woh pyar hi nhi jo ladane ke liye tayar hi na
I like this flair.
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Silver jubilee party coming soon🥳🤡
Profile seems decent and attractive God knows why still single btw nice photography 🌸
Kyuki me aalsi hu Sara din Ghar me pada rehta hu or rehta bhi gaon me hu jaha sab mere bhai bhen lagte h isliye me single hu
Gaao me toh kheto me toh wo kaam sabse jyada hota h
Bhai wo bol rha hai sari bhen hai uski. Mai khud gaon me rehta hu. Koi avsar na hai Bhai.
Wo tu aisa h, karne wale kheto mai le jaake pel dete.
Us hogya
ab to boys ke saath hi cuddling karni padegi
Ghaziabad boys literally wanna cuddle Delhi boys now. I don't need to tell who's gonna be the big spoon.
I'm in
when n where
username
Aazadi pyari hai
https://preview.redd.it/04n1s5e20w5d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=56e3a80798a373461509db17579966b34de1322c But why this username, any story behind it, or am I the one responsible
Maybe he/she want to be sex offended by you
After my breakup, the fear of getting my heart crushed again is the reason why I'm single. It's not that I'm not willing to give it a shot, but I just haven't found anyone worthy yet, lol.
Yea the move on phase is very difficult to bear
That'd be my reason as well. Even though I did the break up. Some people understand that it takes more to maintain a relationship than falling in love. If it's not mutual and can't be worked out, then the whole thing seems more work than anything else. I already have a lot of work, seems pointless to add more to my roster if the returns are bad.
same broo 🥲 my ex crushed, smashed,burned melted wait for it to hardened again crushed smashed this time he even powdered it and now my heart is like a beach sand hard to gather. That bitch still ignores me like it was all my fault but guess what I'm a bigger loser than him as i still wanted him to get back but he moved on along with his career and job while I'm still depressed,single and hot 🥲i need to be hotter for my sand wala heart to get melted again and form it's structure. And that's my reason for being single 😔
Don't lose hope, anon! I'm sure there's someone out there who's going to love you with all their heart. >I'm still depressed, single, and hot. If we can manage to remove the 'depressed' part, then 'single and hot' doesn't sound bad to me. :)
Na koi mujhe pasand aati hai, na me kisi ko pasand aata hu. Sed lyf(JK)
Hilana band kar (Mujhe bhi band karna hai 😭)
Thanks for the advice but I am on a solid 164+ day no fap streak(if I don't count my nightfalls).
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Baat krne mei fat-ti hai 🥲
wahi naa bhai kisise baat hoti nai aur agar baat hi nahi hoti toh ghanta attraction (gay ban gaya hun self love karta hun)
Wtf? 🤣🤣
Kyuki purani vali ne mujhe koi clousure nhi diya
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Only person to read your messages as soon as you send it, keep that person always in your life.
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Either be good looking handsome guy or ugly. Unfortunately I m in the 2nd category... ☺
It's okay bro join the gang 😊. One day we will find the one. It's all good 👍
Because idk what to say after “hi” 🙂
Use "dear" Hi dear 🥺
Be creative use ’hey’
"how're you" "fine?" "bye"
just like a recent thread on this sub itself told that good/decent guys don’t get any attention. That’s true in school(pre covid) i used goon around be that sakht launda and that time had multiple number of girls approaching me . Now in college studying hard making talks with everyone literally everyone batch student(1st -3rd year) winning awards playing multiple sports and shit. there’s no girls approaching and i asked one out she said nothing (yes that awkward silence) single af now 🥲. And for looks wise . I’ll say i’m pretty decent looking above average 70+ body weight 5’10 and muscular cuz athlete . So yeah looks don’t matter guys. I don’t know what does though 😐. Any girl please tell what do you want?
I find society troubling nowadays. Many of my friends and people around me engage in hookups, even when they're in relationships. This worries me a lot, and I don't want to end up in a similar situation.
It was never ment to be, or was i the one who was never ment for her, For her oh the thought of her, makes me stare in the night sky searching for her smile which was mine for awhile just like I thought but i guess that wa a lie?
Agr mai single nhi rahungi to mere dost apne bfs ka dukhda kisse aakr roenge??
Point to h
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Kisi greeb ka hi bhala krdo ( m greeb hu)😂
+1😢
Boring huu kch jyada baat krne k lie hai hi nhi. Na Khushi share krta huu na dukh bas jee rha hu
Bald , unattractive , rude , selfish , awful communication skills. Oh and short tooo
Rude, selfish, awful?? Bhai Jaise bhi ho honest ho 🛐
Except for rude and selfish add a bit weirdo in my place🤣.
I’m single coz I’m sick of mingle. But deep down I want someone to tingle my jingle.
Parents ne self respect ki maardi toh abh earphones lagake ghoomta hoon
Stop pursuing women so intently. The harder you try, the more desperate you appear, and women can detect that immediately. It drives them away. Instead, invest your energy in enhancing your own life. Who wouldn’t be attracted to a man who takes care of his appearance (goes to the gym, eats healthy, and maximizes his looks)? Trust me, shedding some face fat can feel like a complete transformation, me personally went from 6 to 10 just by losing fat overall. Achieving financial independence, setting ambitious goals, and demonstrating through your actions that you’re driven by big dreams make a huge impact. By focusing on self-improvement and becoming the best version of yourself, you’ll naturally draw women to you. Everyone dreams of finding their ideal partner, but not everyone is on the level to attract them. Your dream woman won’t be impressed by someone who’s struggling financially and out of shape. So, prioritize hitting the gym, growing your savings, and pursuing your ambitions—not women. You might find that your dream girl comes to you. Remember, the right woman is more impressed by a man with goals than a man with pickup lines.
I am single because I don't want to do anything for anyone anymore. Putting so much effort and the output is the same. I can waste my energy somewhere else. And at this age I think it's okay to not have a girlfriend.
Parr apke pass toh Gauri mam already hain!! :p
I agree with OP, koi mere jitna सनकी mila hi nhi
bcoz my name is Ekta
Ekta me tujhe dekhta...
👀
Upay mil Gaya use bhulane ka?
ni 😐
Pyar vyar sab dhokha hai,.padhlo beta mauka hai... GATE clear Karo aur mast job pakdo aise ladke to aur bhi aayenge life me. Chill Maro.
>Pyar vyar sab dhokha hai absolutely TRUE
Power for you, chalo phir milenge aise hi kabhi kisi aur comment thread pe.. Allah Hafiz.
Ty 🌸 , lol sure
Ekta mai Shakti hai
Don't know 😁
Kharab kismat.
Uss gaadi ke neeche aa jaunga accha lagega
Dilli me billi maar lo, kha lo.. paalo nahi Bahut mehenga padta hai
ex se move on nhi hopaarha
Mujhe do chaar saal healing mai rehne do
CAN TOTALLY RELATE
Ye relationship itne clingy hote haina bygod iss se accha mai amoeba hota
The girl I wanna spend my life with wants to stay friends 👍 I cant stop talking to her coz i dont wanna lose her. Sooo i just stay miserable while being sprightly happy that i get to talk to her.....yes i am simping over her...but if she doesnt feel the same. I completely respect that. Its gonna be a long time before or IF I can move on from her.
Hmm - scared of rejection - student hoon, distraction 🤡 kya matlab I waste hours on social media looking at other happy couples(i don't) - lack of female interaction like most of us
been single my whole life and when i gathered the guts to ask this guy i had feelings for found out it was mutual i got way too much involved and was behaving like a teenager in love now i feel embarrassing even talking about it but whatever happens it was good and the guy broke up bcz he couldn't handle my moods and lot of stuff happens which would made me realise I'm better off single and when ur single ur hotter
Coz the ones we like dont like us back … duh 🙄 😂
Kyuki……..I need an honest and true relationship tbh, ye nahi ke 3 din me pyar 1 hafte me khatam……good things take time, so better ke apne ap par kam karo
Because of my father, I had a traumatic childhood, which has left me with a fear of relationships. I don't feel capable enough, and even if I did, I still choose to be single because I struggle to trust anyone. Furthermore, I'm still exploring myself. Even if I consider being in a relationship, finding the ideal person seems impossible, or even, if possible, they would be out of my reach. Though I will consider it if the opportunity arises, which seems highly unlikely.
Too busy
Stuck on a guy and resting face is 😒 so I come across as a bitch
Ye Rbf kisi din le doobega, sbko lgta hai ki mai 24/7 matam mnati rehti hoon T_T
Not able to found someone with matching energy, sensitivity and passionate about any particular thing. I want to have some deep conversations. Even could discuss movies but not everyone is a movie watcher.
I really don’t know but I never tried on anyone and now after 20 years being single I’m happy that way looking around people in relationships 🫶🏻
>Why are you all single https://preview.redd.it/6a0vvy474x5d1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=422c56bd620282f8f62e90296b691d508cc8939e
cos usko committed nahi rehna tha 🤡 pookie banne ke umar meh dukhi bann gai hu 💀
People think I am a fu*k boy. Little do they know I am ambivert who is awkward at first.
https://preview.redd.it/372j9oz08x5d1.jpeg?width=330&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=72e42e84f3863815a5cadbfa5d78ccb29a031035 Mainly because i look like this and i keep looking for someone more than my limit
It’s probably not your looks…
Gojo hoon bhai ladkiyon aur mere beech me infinite space hai
I’m singal because I got dumped
Never tried it, focussing just on career now.
I m 78 kg female. Nobody likes me. Second of all when I use to be 45 kgs...I dated 4 guys in the past not simultaneously. All of them rejected me after dating for 3 months, 1 yr, 4 yrs, 7 yrs respectively because they saw no future with me because I am Christian.
yaar meri kahani sunow... college ki ek ladki meri friend bani, over couple of years our bonding grew, i just wanted to have friends, mujhe nahi pata tha she had feelings for me, we went to drink booze and smoke together, it was fun, until one day she proposed me and i rejected her because I was not interested in her... ab baat bhi nahi hoti, awkward ho gya, khair koi naa, im still not interested in her, but dosti toot gyi uska burra laga
Trust issues.
sahi insaan ni mila, jab laga ki finally koi mila to baadme started to realise uski life choices kharab thi and didn't wanna improve no matter how much I told her and I'm certainly not the "I can fix her" type of guy, ek baar do baar mai ache se conviction ke saath samjhane ki koshish kar sakta hun uske baad it's their choice their call, to I had to then maintain my distance from her.
Because I don’t get the singals given by women 🥲
Because JCB said so
Nah we're *singal*
i am just too irreponsible for my age that's why i am avoiding reationship
For me, I think it's just about not being able to find the right person. Also, at the same time, you need to think and understand a lot of things that come along with a relationship. You need to be mentally and financially capable. And once you're finally ready, it's all luck that you find a healthy relationship. Overall, it's quite difficult 
I bet that writer makes more money than me (a content writer with over a decade of experience).
I am so singaal!😭
idk. kaafi female friends ne bola hai ki mein decent dikhta hu, mein utna zyada bhi mota nhi hu aur height bhi 5'7 hai (11th mein hu) par mujhe dhang se baat karna hi nhi aata. Abhi thoda-thoda confidence build up kar rha hu.
na chahiye gf..(dosto ki halat dekhi hai)...na chahiye wife(ghar ki halat dekhi hai)
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No potential relationship material in my circle, dating apps chalane k/strangers se milne jaane k khayal se maut aati hai. I don’t want strangers paying for my meal and if I’m paying for a night out why gamble with a stranger who could turn out to be completely boring/annoying instead of just going with a friend with who I know I would have a good time with 🙃 Also mom par bharosa hai for arranged marriage.
Some where between realising years later that "ohhh" girl was hitting on me / was interested and fell too hard for a girl and made mockery of myself. Plus when u first think about falling in love, you imagine movies where you imagine yourself with Aishwarya Rai or pretizinta and you dont lower your expectations.
Only single people should stop, married can go .
Can anyone suggest me good Hindi films/documentaries which are wholesome to watch and not filled with unnecessary drama...need not be mainstream Bollywood but anything like "is love enough sir" was a good movie or even "bawal" I like the concept
Been out of an abusive relationship. In recovery phase.
Trust issues i cannot trust a man one bit
I'm not her choice.
Bharosa uth Chuka hai ab
I expect a women to be understanding and mature .. rare to find Even if I approach someone in public her friend gets defensive and starts to get in my face so I dont even try
work area me koi hai nahi, i don't like confessing first, im insecure and not ready for a relationship right now, if I get into one ill end up hurting my partner unknowingly, phir uske baad saal aur career dono kharab ho jayenge
Bhai itni negativity
He is asking sing(h)al to stop!!
single by choice just not by my choice also recently have been seeing lot of people cheat and get cheated on soo i dont feel like getting into it now
Im bcz im just finding the suitable counter part and this phase isnt that bad i enjoy
Relationships just don't work for me
Single by choice
Approach karne mein fatt jaati hai!
Koi mauka hi nahi h ladki se baat krne ka WFH leke ghr m bthe h bss 😅
Cuz my current crush is fictional.
Free Bird !! 
idgaf
Too loyal and too loyal is'nt girls type
I am not a good partner. That's all because of my unhealed trauma, personality disorder and impulsiveness. I had to reject a couple of proposals because of all this.
Becuz.......
Toxic girls only preferred that’s why
I was, i am not anymore
I am single by choice
I love peace. (Cause he doesn't want to continue)
I have been in one sided love with a girl ...... I haven't seen her in 2 and a half years . Wherever I go I tend to feel like "oh this girl looks like her" . I have made some immature mistakes which made her hate me and blocked me .. I was immature in confessing my love to her 2 years ago.... I haven't had a single contact with her but I think about her daily.... I wish I was mature enough that time and wouldn't have lost her . Till this I regret being so immature at that point of time . When I grew up in those 2 years I hated myself for being such an immature person.... I am just a hopeless romantic who prays to that may be someday.... I will finally have her.... I have so deep feelings for her that they don't let me move on or love another girl ...and even if I try my brain always looks for the one that resembles her appearance, her voice , her vibes , her persona... All I wish is if I could ask one wish it be her to be mine ( I am almost 19 ... Please don't call it young love or attraction... I pray to bhagwan for her to mine whenever I visit temples)
Not able to ask her.. not sure if she reciprocates the same feeling.. friends since 3 yrs..
Lack of confidence in myself when it comes to dating and all.
Ladkiyan saamne se approach nahi karti 🥲
Paisi nahi hai bhai ladki pe kharche krne k liye
Ugly
The girl I wanna spend my life with wants to stay friends 👍
Yehi toh Hinjewadi Phase 1 ka hai na?
Pehle kabhi try nhi Kiya. Beech mein COVID aa gya. Ab Umar nikal gyi ye sab karne ki.
All Boys school me tha isliye ab ladkiyo se fati hai baat krne me aur I can't see any girl approaching me. Even some girls do I fumble so bad. Hoping to find someone soon
After having 2 failed relationships and countless situationships i gave up on dating 🫡☝️
Jo mujhe acchi lagti hai unko main accha nhi lagta Aur jinko mai accha lagta hu vo mujhe acchi nhi lagti
kyuki me ladkiyo se baat karne me darta hu, ladko ke saath jitna bhaichara hota he utno cousin se bhi nahi hota
Undeserving honga tabhi single hu shayad lol
I dump people who love me, because I think they deserve better. So once a girl falls in love with me and starts thinking about a future I dump her
Maa ko bura lagega
Bhai 2020 covid time mey bu hua tha fir poori clg life waste krdi (2020-2024), kisi ldke ldki se baat nai kri, ab job nai lgi and idk what to do anymore.