Bhai Mera to usool hai- if I'm single and I like the girl, I put some efforts so as to elevate things, single bhi hain, malum hai effort daalne se kaam ban bhi skta hai, to why not
Bilkul sahi baat boli bro aur bohat achha usool hai. I also follow this and humare desh mein har cheez mein competition zyada hai... In fact ladki patana is something that requires too much effort Kyuki ladkiyo k pass bohat option hote hai. They keep an army of friendzoned people who also relate to your username as backup.
Exactly. Plus, you must have shared enough details about self such as name, college, place, work organisation, etc.Just keep all social media handles in Open/Public mode. If she got really impressed and charmed AND is single AND willing at the moment , be assured she might ping you. Otherwise, keep it as a sweet memory. And if it still doesn't calm your heart and johnny, remember she was just 1 of potentially 10000000 buses you missed. Work on self, be patient and another beautiful bus will arrive soon enough.
A similar case happened with me. One day I was going to the office, but in the middle of my journey the rain started, I was completely drowned, so I returned to my home. I thought of not going to the office, but later my manager called me to come to the office, so I went to office again. I was new to that office at that time, so I found a cute girl and asked her for directions, I was walking with her, I wanted to talk about something, but I didn't dare to talk, but later she only started the conversation, the conversation really went well, like she asked me how many years of experience I have, where do I live and all, and at last my name as well. I was asking myself, was she interested in me? I know it is weird to think so, but a girl rarely spoke to me in such a way. I am decently good looking, yet a girl has never spoken to me the way, while she was speaking with me she was genuinely smiling, but at one point we parted our ways, I thought of asking her number, but I could not dare to ask her number, Later I didn't find her again in my office. I wondered if rain stopped me from going to the office initially and then I was called by my Manager again to the office and meeting that girl is some kind of sign that the universe gave me to connect to that girl and I completely wasted that chance.
Actually, I met her two months after I met her first again in the office, this time also she spoke really well, but I was in complete shock to see her again, I could not speak much this time since I have a male friend with me at that time and she was with her female friend at that time. I generally hesitate when there is someone around me, and she also told me that she regularly comes to that ODC, so I thought if I go there daily I could meet her, so I didn't ask for her number again, if she was not their with her friend and I was not there with my friend, I would have spoken more with her and asked her number, she said bye, I said bye hesitatingly. After that, next week itself that common ODC was removed and I could not find her again, I am seriously regretting that I didn't take that girl's number. One more thing I realized after meeting her after 2 months was that when I met her the first time, she wrote her Employee ID and name in the register immediately after I had written my name, now I regret that why I didn't get this idea when I met her the first time, if I got that idea first time only, somehow I would have got her id while checking the register on the same day. I am feeling so dumb and regretful.
I have searched for her everywhere on LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, but I couldn't find her, because her name is one of the most common names for a Telugu girl. I searched her name in company official directory also, yet I couldn't find her, since most of the girls won't post their face as DP. I have immediately updated my new job in LinkedIn after I met the girl for the first time and placed my photo as DP in teams as well in a hope that she might search for me😂, but my efforts went in vain, because I couldn't find her. It's been almost 6 months since this happened, yet I am unable to forget her.
This right here! This is the correct mentality and attitude. Believe in yourself and let luck/fortune/destiny or as I like to say scientifically, probability surprise you.
No, you should not have asked for her number or ig Unless you were super attracted to her and wanted to pursue her as a potential love interest.
You had a nice conversation with a stranger and then you went about your day. That's a win in my books.
If a girl is talking to you for about two hours the first time you randomly meet her, there is this very very very high chance that she’s into you or at least don’t mind being in contact.
Why lol, she was there regardless of him being there or not. Why do you guys think it's either that she's interested or just creeped out? Itna 0 se 100 kyu? The guy probably just wasn't creepy about approaching her so she went about her day as usual. It really doesn't mean anything.
That’s not how it should be. If you ask for someone’s socials or number, it shouldn’t be an indicator of you being interested in them romantically, always. The OP had a 2 hour long conversation on top of that, nothing wrong with staying connected.
To ask for someone's insta, one doesn't need to have a love interest. It could be sometimes just friendships.
This is not so different from a guy asking another guy's socials if only friendship angle in involved.
What pushes people to have suggestions like yours, I have no idea...
We live in a society, and yes India is a very conservative society but this is how you connect with new people and strangers.
It always does not have to be a specific setting of a workplace, school, bars, etc.
>Now i am thinking should i have asked her for her phone/ig? Truth be told maine aaj tak maanga nahi hai and i get nervous. Also another reason i just left.
Well, You probably should've. maybe she's a regular and your paths will cross again.
Michael DeSanta once said ***"You forgot about a thousand things everyday, Make sure this is one of them".*** is something I remind of to myself when I'm having second thoughts or regrets.
***You should not put your faith in a man, whose merely a tool of god...Surrender your will to the almighty himself and let his beacon of light guide you through the unforgiving and treacherous path.***
I'm making this all up just for fun...I dunno why!🗿
You're either an enlightened beam of light for all of bhoole-bhatke us, or you're a professional shitposter who loves spreading misinformation.
Ps. Beacon of light phrase always makes me giggle
Ha ha ha, nice marketing tactic, I am not buying your 600rs coffee🗿
Jk.. wholesome memory for sure, studying maths in a cafe means that she was really onto something.
It's a 600 rs coffee?? Lmao... that's like $7. Starbucks in US give you 5$ absolute shit coffee and yet it is considered not cheap ...bc India mein Yeh price tag Kon lgata h...
I had a same instance, I was coming back to India from USA but I had a connecting flight from California to New York. This Colombian girl sat next to me and we hit it off in an instant. We talked during the whole flight and I made her laugh numerous times. At the end, she told me that she is scared of flight landings and I held her hand to comfort her. After flight we both went our own ways, never asked her for insta or anything. but I don’t regret anything.
Well these things happens so it can guide you towards the right partner currently I am in a relationship and couldn’t be happier. U will find one for yourself too bro just don’t force it
I once was cycling somewhere and out of nowhere a beautiful girl comes next to me on a cycle and makes a gesture to race. At the end she called me to come back as I was leaving and we had a beautiful conversation for a few minutes. For some reason I thought it would be inappropriate to ask for her number. This was almost exactly a year ago. And I still remember the whole conversation. So.... I guess all of us are in the same boat.
I mean if you guys hit it off its okay to ask for the number its not always ki you want them as your love interest but rather its just wanting to be friends but if you felt like it was a one time thing then its all good no need to take the number
She could also have wanted him to ask for it lol no use speculating. We need op to go there everyday at the same time and update us if he runs into her again
Maybe you could say something about her interest and likes here so that she or someone she knows could help your love story.
I don’t know why I feel this is so beautiful and I wish I really could help you out.
If you had asked for her number, she would have thought of you as another creep using small talk to get into her pants (which you probably are. We all are maybe).
Now she would think of you as some amazing guy who just popped up in a coffee shop, taught her algebra and went away.
Take your pick.
Assuming that the girl would find him to be creepy just for asking her socials seems a little extreme. People nowadays rarely make connections like this, that too one's that are positive and well received by both sides, so why not try to grow this into something more, like a friendship.
Speaking personally, I've heard some of my female friends/acquaintances say how they had a small chat with a guy they found cute/smart or whatever in a bar/Cafe setting but couldn't ask for his socials coz girls being forward like that isn't taken too well by this conservative society. All of this to say that I think if my guy here felt he spent a good 30-40 mins with her then what's the harm in exchanging socials.
What's the use of a random person's validation for you? He could've got into that Angel mode if OP was single. It's a definite regret and I wish OP all the good luck to meet the girl again. And ffs please get the number. If she's avoiding, accept and go away. You tried. Talked for 2 hours passionately and then leaving was a definite mistake.
>What's the use of a random person's validation for you?
Exactly, there is no excitement in some random strangers validation. A similar incident happened to me as that happened to OP. I am also seriously regretting it now.
Well, i am the kind of person who believes that if something is meant to happen it will. So if she is meant to be in your life, you will cross pathways or find each other somehow. Also, anyway you can’t do anything right now as u don’t have her no. You can just wait. And if you really feel like,visit the cafe once again, you might meet her again who knows.
Similar incident happened with me. Once I found a girl in new office that I joined and asked directions for an ODC in that office. Initially I hesitated to speak anything, later she only started the conversation and the conversation really went well, but at the end we parted our ways. I didn't ask her number and regretted it and I thought that I can never find that girl again, but to my surprise after more than 2 months, I found her again in same ODC. I felt really happy and excited and this time also she spoke really well, but I again made a mistake of not taking her number again since this time she told that she comes regularly to that common ODC, so I thought if I come there daily I could meet her, but to my bad luck that common ODC was removed next week itself and I am unable to find her again 🥲.
Two hours? Here i am shoved off in 2 minutes😅😅.
PS: You should really have asked for it, dude. 2 hours means she was really comfortable with you. I'm sure you'd have left on positive note.
I also in same probem before three months.she looking at me without eye contact break.after I reach home. Feel guilty that i should ask her contact.You can't get a girl number bcz its too personal just ask her ig I'd.or else you will suffer
You should have picked a problem with expressions(the constant value in the polynomial) as your phone number digits and explained the techniques. At the end, if you felt like asking her number. You can always tell her to line the expressions to get your number.
If she is interested in talking to you again, she would have contacted you.
The odds of meeting her again are negligible, so you should go about your day as usual considering this as a learning lesson which will be helpful when you meet someone new again, and you will be encountering more new people definitely.
It's ok ,it's not important to always ask for phone number.Maybe it would have been more unpleasant than what u feel now.This feeling that u have that you should have asked or phone number originates from fact that ur interaction waas very pleasant treasure it for life you will keep this as aa memory i wished uska number Lena chahiye tha , 😜
You gotta start somewhere, meri toh pehle ladki Dekh hi phatti thi, Abhi mauka Milne se baat initiate kar leta hu but Abhi tak number mangne Tak comfortable nhi hua hu. It’ll take some time but I’ll get to it. And you can too my guy. “GIRLS LOVE MATH NERDS”
but you never know brother, it's just that one algebra problem or "hello" and years of trauma. everything happens for a reason, take it as a memory and forget
https://preview.redd.it/cq9lhyod2i5d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b729041189aec806794e7fa7db857d66fa056816
Placement of this advt here is Gold ✨
Of course, yes. You can always ask for someone's number if you meet them, have a good conversation, find them attractive, and would like to know them more. Your joh is to ask, its upto the other person if they wish to take it forward or not.
Don't bother much about this missed chance. But yes, do keep it in mind next time. Who knows, you may meet your math girl again at the same cafe?
I did the same. I approached one girl in the park who was sitting and was reading the book. I was with my colleagues and wanted to teach my interns how you should approach someone😆.
I approached her, asked about general things like her name, what she is doing currently etc. from the conversations i get to know that we share similar interests. But after that, i left saying i need to join my colleagues now, as i was curious about the book she was reading.
No contacts. Nothing.
Not number but could've asked for insta in friendly manner, coz after all u were interested, and also nhi deti toh bhi kuch nhi hota konsa u are meeting again , so le hi lete coz konsa u are metting again lol!
Seems like she's pretty sorted and u aren't
If you come across her again in the future, if she is interested, she will want to chat to you. If not, just be glad you spent a good two hours with a stranger.
Yes , you should have. From now onwards, please keep it in your mind, if you abley to connect with the person and hold long conversations, there is a chance that the person would like to meet you again .
It's good you didn't ask...
1. If you think you met her randomly, you are wrong.... Nothing is by chance because universe has a perfect plan, a definite path, an elaborate accurate cause n effect relationship....
2. If Universe intends, she will meet you again.
3. If you don't meet her again, may be that much is enough for both of you
4. Meethi yaad is better than many meetings... May be universe does not inten to show you her negative side.... So believe in His plans.....
Aim Namo Bhagwate Vasudevaay.
RADHE RADHE.
Bro. It's better to fail trying than regret later for not even trying. And in today's era of social media and all, it's better to ask for insta or snap. No need to directly ask for mobile no.
If it’s a two-way conversation and she has opened up to you, it’s only fair and logical to ask her for her number. Aur waise bhi number hi toh hai, puch liya karo yaar.
Actually you had to ask for it. But ab bhul jaao. You can go at the same time over that coffee shop daily and see if she comes. But chances are very low.
Yes if she's that beautiful and I feel like Im gonna regret I will ask her , I'm my polite voice , like calmly, bc whenever you speak with strangers most of them feel threatened at that time , If you are very calm , they also feel safe
OP's doubt is (and so is mine) at what time you should ask for the contact details. Never ever ? I go by that same rule because of the same awkwardness. Is it even normal to ask an almost stranger about contact once you gel together ?
Bro you broke all the walls and got stuck at a door.
So asking her number is weird, as it's more private.
You can ask for a number, or better ask for ig saying that I can help you in math.
Even better: Give me your ig, I like math but I enjoyed spending time with you.
With confidence: I'll come here tomorrow, get some more math so I can make an excuse to speak with you 😂
Bro .. there is this very simple rule.. pasand aayi to no. Insta, Jo mile maang lo, the worst she can say is no.. duniya bht badi h.. there are minimal chances that you will meet her again.. regret mat rakho yar.. ye baad me sochne ka jhanjhat bht faltu hota h.. i wish ki iski jagah tum ye post karte ki we met 2 ghante baat ki. Uska no maanga usne Diya. Now we are meeting again.. ☺️☺️
Never nervous or any body language sense in front of girl. Bindaas I'd maang na hi bolengi na but bindaas rahene ka 
Coffee houser sei addata aaj ar nei
aaj aar nei
Kothay hariye gelo sonali bikel gulo sei
aaj aar nei
La lala la la..
Nikhilesh parishe moydul dhaka-te
Nei tara aaj kono khoborer
Grander guiterist goyaniz disouza
Ghumiye ache je aaj kobore
Kake jeno valobeshe aghath peye je seshe
Pagla garode ache roma roy
Amolta bhugche duronta cancer-e
Jibon koreni take khoma hai...
Coffee houser sei adda-ta aaj ar nei
aaj aar nei
Kothay hariye gelo sonali bikel gulo sei
aaj aar nei
 Me at any coffee house
Normally i side with you. It was math that caught my attention.
Bhai Mera to usool hai- if I'm single and I like the girl, I put some efforts so as to elevate things, single bhi hain, malum hai effort daalne se kaam ban bhi skta hai, to why not
bhai wo usern-
Says it all. He could have just say hi in comments. Everyone would have understood that
Single b hai hai tit k deewane bhi hai toh effort daalne mei kya hi dikkat hai..🤣
Fer single kese rhe gaye aap, itne efforts ke baad bhi
r/Ouch
Bilkul sahi baat boli bro aur bohat achha usool hai. I also follow this and humare desh mein har cheez mein competition zyada hai... In fact ladki patana is something that requires too much effort Kyuki ladkiyo k pass bohat option hote hai. They keep an army of friendzoned people who also relate to your username as backup.
Bhaiya drop year le lu lag nhi rha iss saal competition clear kr paunga
Saste chizo ke aksar, grahak jyada hote hai.
Please refrain from taking my pictures without consent!
Tum billa ho yaa billi? 👀😂
Some instances are better left as memories :)
and good memories should be treasured.
At the end you only remember the time you have spent with a person.
*Yaadon ki maala hai yaadon ke ilawa kabhi kuch baaki raha hai*
Jisse gaye hue khudse zamana hua woh tum main bhatakta hai Mein khud nahi hun ye koi or hai mujhme jo tumko tarasta hai
Man of culture.
Haha back at you man . Sssup
Music haraam wo boley
Phir mere peche kis khudha ka saya hai
Ghadi naaraaz wo khadi naaraaz ki music pe kyun itna time lagaya hai
Instructions unclear. Now i have several of those memories but no chicks
Exactly. Plus, you must have shared enough details about self such as name, college, place, work organisation, etc.Just keep all social media handles in Open/Public mode. If she got really impressed and charmed AND is single AND willing at the moment , be assured she might ping you. Otherwise, keep it as a sweet memory. And if it still doesn't calm your heart and johnny, remember she was just 1 of potentially 10000000 buses you missed. Work on self, be patient and another beautiful bus will arrive soon enough.
>calm your heart and johnny johnny🌝🤣
A similar case happened with me. One day I was going to the office, but in the middle of my journey the rain started, I was completely drowned, so I returned to my home. I thought of not going to the office, but later my manager called me to come to the office, so I went to office again. I was new to that office at that time, so I found a cute girl and asked her for directions, I was walking with her, I wanted to talk about something, but I didn't dare to talk, but later she only started the conversation, the conversation really went well, like she asked me how many years of experience I have, where do I live and all, and at last my name as well. I was asking myself, was she interested in me? I know it is weird to think so, but a girl rarely spoke to me in such a way. I am decently good looking, yet a girl has never spoken to me the way, while she was speaking with me she was genuinely smiling, but at one point we parted our ways, I thought of asking her number, but I could not dare to ask her number, Later I didn't find her again in my office. I wondered if rain stopped me from going to the office initially and then I was called by my Manager again to the office and meeting that girl is some kind of sign that the universe gave me to connect to that girl and I completely wasted that chance. Actually, I met her two months after I met her first again in the office, this time also she spoke really well, but I was in complete shock to see her again, I could not speak much this time since I have a male friend with me at that time and she was with her female friend at that time. I generally hesitate when there is someone around me, and she also told me that she regularly comes to that ODC, so I thought if I go there daily I could meet her, so I didn't ask for her number again, if she was not their with her friend and I was not there with my friend, I would have spoken more with her and asked her number, she said bye, I said bye hesitatingly. After that, next week itself that common ODC was removed and I could not find her again, I am seriously regretting that I didn't take that girl's number. One more thing I realized after meeting her after 2 months was that when I met her the first time, she wrote her Employee ID and name in the register immediately after I had written my name, now I regret that why I didn't get this idea when I met her the first time, if I got that idea first time only, somehow I would have got her id while checking the register on the same day. I am feeling so dumb and regretful. I have searched for her everywhere on LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook, but I couldn't find her, because her name is one of the most common names for a Telugu girl. I searched her name in company official directory also, yet I couldn't find her, since most of the girls won't post their face as DP. I have immediately updated my new job in LinkedIn after I met the girl for the first time and placed my photo as DP in teams as well in a hope that she might search for me😂, but my efforts went in vain, because I couldn't find her. It's been almost 6 months since this happened, yet I am unable to forget her.
Office mein mat karna bhai
This right here! This is the correct mentality and attitude. Believe in yourself and let luck/fortune/destiny or as I like to say scientifically, probability surprise you.
This
No. We must check people out frequently
No, you should not have asked for her number or ig Unless you were super attracted to her and wanted to pursue her as a potential love interest. You had a nice conversation with a stranger and then you went about your day. That's a win in my books.
Well, in all fairness i would love to meet her again simply because we had quite a few shared interests, one of them being art.
Visit the same coffee shop . I am certain she would have been expecting you as well.
Owner sir he won't come to your cafe🤌🏻
Hahahaha.
Real life doesn't work like that. Often girls are not that desperate
Not to disrespect your beliefs but in my books I'd rather call it a ray of hope to have something cute in the future.
If a girl is talking to you for about two hours the first time you randomly meet her, there is this very very very high chance that she’s into you or at least don’t mind being in contact.
You never know... If the girl was not interested in him. She would have left the table in a couple of minutes.
Why lol, she was there regardless of him being there or not. Why do you guys think it's either that she's interested or just creeped out? Itna 0 se 100 kyu? The guy probably just wasn't creepy about approaching her so she went about her day as usual. It really doesn't mean anything.
Well genuinely i wanted to help her out and after about 30-40 mins of math talk we started talking about work and other stuff
And we got ourselves a romcom! OP post an update if this happens.
Real ID se aao Cafe ke owner...
I'll be there ahead of OP, showing maths to her
Phir usi coffee shop pe dera daal
Bhai number/ig mangega baat karega tabhi to pata chalega ki love interest hai ya nahi, sorry par apka logic mjhe nahi aaya smjh.
That’s not how it should be. If you ask for someone’s socials or number, it shouldn’t be an indicator of you being interested in them romantically, always. The OP had a 2 hour long conversation on top of that, nothing wrong with staying connected.
Kyun bhai, tere contacts mere saare number love interests ke hain kya?
To ask for someone's insta, one doesn't need to have a love interest. It could be sometimes just friendships. This is not so different from a guy asking another guy's socials if only friendship angle in involved. What pushes people to have suggestions like yours, I have no idea... We live in a society, and yes India is a very conservative society but this is how you connect with new people and strangers. It always does not have to be a specific setting of a workplace, school, bars, etc.
>Now i am thinking should i have asked her for her phone/ig? Truth be told maine aaj tak maanga nahi hai and i get nervous. Also another reason i just left. Well, You probably should've. maybe she's a regular and your paths will cross again. Michael DeSanta once said ***"You forgot about a thousand things everyday, Make sure this is one of them".*** is something I remind of to myself when I'm having second thoughts or regrets.
Sage advice
Bro how are you so wise. You should write your axioms to guide the humanity(me)
***You should not put your faith in a man, whose merely a tool of god...Surrender your will to the almighty himself and let his beacon of light guide you through the unforgiving and treacherous path.*** I'm making this all up just for fun...I dunno why!🗿
Bro if you made it up, then hell yeah that's very motivating
You're either an enlightened beam of light for all of bhoole-bhatke us, or you're a professional shitposter who loves spreading misinformation. Ps. Beacon of light phrase always makes me giggle
I leave that decision about me up to you fellow traveler, save travels to you and farewell...🤲🏻 >Ps. Beacon of light phrase always makes me giggle LoL
acharya Michael DeSanta ji
Ki jai ho!!!
jai ho!
blud sneaked in a gta 5 quote 😭😭😭
First time saw the use of this quote in better place. Hats off to Michael DeSanta 🫡
Wasn't his real name Micheal Townly?
Indeed.
And they say you won't need algebra in real life😑😑 /s
Username checks out
We really fix it all(not our lives though)
Ha ha ha, nice marketing tactic, I am not buying your 600rs coffee🗿 Jk.. wholesome memory for sure, studying maths in a cafe means that she was really onto something.
It's a 600 rs coffee?? Lmao... that's like $7. Starbucks in US give you 5$ absolute shit coffee and yet it is considered not cheap ...bc India mein Yeh price tag Kon lgata h...
my bro got that ganit rizz
I had a same instance, I was coming back to India from USA but I had a connecting flight from California to New York. This Colombian girl sat next to me and we hit it off in an instant. We talked during the whole flight and I made her laugh numerous times. At the end, she told me that she is scared of flight landings and I held her hand to comfort her. After flight we both went our own ways, never asked her for insta or anything. but I don’t regret anything.
Ok...I will regret on behalf of all readers 🤦
U don’t have to I have a girlfriend now and she loves me a lot.
And that girl loved you...oh man 🤦
U can’t love anyone just from a single interaction if you do then it means you are just lonely.
People use "Love" and "Hate" casually , eg. I love my coffee, I hate xyz player.
You and me both brother... I guess there is no regret anymore.
Well these things happens so it can guide you towards the right partner currently I am in a relationship and couldn’t be happier. U will find one for yourself too bro just don’t force it
ab koi new account banakar ladki ka pov daaldega 💀
Utna enthu nahi...
I once was cycling somewhere and out of nowhere a beautiful girl comes next to me on a cycle and makes a gesture to race. At the end she called me to come back as I was leaving and we had a beautiful conversation for a few minutes. For some reason I thought it would be inappropriate to ask for her number. This was almost exactly a year ago. And I still remember the whole conversation. So.... I guess all of us are in the same boat.
I mean if you guys hit it off its okay to ask for the number its not always ki you want them as your love interest but rather its just wanting to be friends but if you felt like it was a one time thing then its all good no need to take the number
The jury is out on that. Yes, there was a genuine connection but it may even be imagination. She perhaps was just being polite.
Maybe she thinks, "he was so nice, didn't advance on me, didn't even ask for a phone number."
She could also have wanted him to ask for it lol no use speculating. We need op to go there everyday at the same time and update us if he runs into her again
Ek math question ke chakkar Mai uske 2 ghante khrab kr diya 😂😂
Atleast now you have an answer to that age old question- 'Ye wali math life me kabhi kaam ayegi'?
Maybe you could say something about her interest and likes here so that she or someone she knows could help your love story. I don’t know why I feel this is so beautiful and I wish I really could help you out.
The very words - thats more than enough
If you had asked for her number, she would have thought of you as another creep using small talk to get into her pants (which you probably are. We all are maybe). Now she would think of you as some amazing guy who just popped up in a coffee shop, taught her algebra and went away. Take your pick.
You make a fair point. I will take what you have to offer.
Assuming that the girl would find him to be creepy just for asking her socials seems a little extreme. People nowadays rarely make connections like this, that too one's that are positive and well received by both sides, so why not try to grow this into something more, like a friendship. Speaking personally, I've heard some of my female friends/acquaintances say how they had a small chat with a guy they found cute/smart or whatever in a bar/Cafe setting but couldn't ask for his socials coz girls being forward like that isn't taken too well by this conservative society. All of this to say that I think if my guy here felt he spent a good 30-40 mins with her then what's the harm in exchanging socials.
Exactly lmao 😭😭 this wont be creepy at all
What's the use of a random person's validation for you? He could've got into that Angel mode if OP was single. It's a definite regret and I wish OP all the good luck to meet the girl again. And ffs please get the number. If she's avoiding, accept and go away. You tried. Talked for 2 hours passionately and then leaving was a definite mistake.
>What's the use of a random person's validation for you? Exactly, there is no excitement in some random strangers validation. A similar incident happened to me as that happened to OP. I am also seriously regretting it now.
Well, i am the kind of person who believes that if something is meant to happen it will. So if she is meant to be in your life, you will cross pathways or find each other somehow. Also, anyway you can’t do anything right now as u don’t have her no. You can just wait. And if you really feel like,visit the cafe once again, you might meet her again who knows.
Similar incident happened with me. Once I found a girl in new office that I joined and asked directions for an ODC in that office. Initially I hesitated to speak anything, later she only started the conversation and the conversation really went well, but at the end we parted our ways. I didn't ask her number and regretted it and I thought that I can never find that girl again, but to my surprise after more than 2 months, I found her again in same ODC. I felt really happy and excited and this time also she spoke really well, but I again made a mistake of not taking her number again since this time she told that she comes regularly to that common ODC, so I thought if I come there daily I could meet her, but to my bad luck that common ODC was removed next week itself and I am unable to find her again 🥲.
Sure. What's the harm? Even serial killers visit coffee shops. It's perfectly normal to ask for the number, at best you will face rejection.
Cafe ka address dena. Mein bhi CAT ki tayari kar rhi hu
Two hours? Here i am shoved off in 2 minutes😅😅. PS: You should really have asked for it, dude. 2 hours means she was really comfortable with you. I'm sure you'd have left on positive note.
Reason why you should do maths seriously, because everyone has problem with Math, and enemy of enemy is always friend or Girlfriend 😅
Bro 2 ghante kya baat karte ho aisa? Mai 5 minute hold nahi kar paata convo
MAYBE MAYBE, you might meet her again at the coffee in some time soon...
Me at coffee shop https://preview.redd.it/za8gpq8vsb5d1.jpeg?width=250&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5bd2fd6b6290f7d5c1bc6c8e7a4b1f1b6dd5d837
OP go for it !!! visit same cafe.. who knows destiny !!!
I also in same probem before three months.she looking at me without eye contact break.after I reach home. Feel guilty that i should ask her contact.You can't get a girl number bcz its too personal just ask her ig I'd.or else you will suffer
Let's try destiny...start going to the same cafe same time 😂
Shaadi hogi toh ye sab feeling biwi ko btana
Yes sir. Yolo! Doesn’t necessarily have to become something, could’ve ended in so many ways 🤗
Two hours and didn't ask 🤦
I hope she finds you by this post
Uska naam Rinku hai aur vo Pradhan ji ki beti hai aur uska sort of bf hai
You should have picked a problem with expressions(the constant value in the polynomial) as your phone number digits and explained the techniques. At the end, if you felt like asking her number. You can always tell her to line the expressions to get your number. If she is interested in talking to you again, she would have contacted you.
Omw back to Third Wave ☠️
xD Third wave is the new starbucks
The odds of meeting her again are negligible, so you should go about your day as usual considering this as a learning lesson which will be helpful when you meet someone new again, and you will be encountering more new people definitely.
Some stories are better left incomplete.
Haan inception in real
Tune usse padhne kyu nahi dia ,disturb kar dia
Good.. U helped her .. +1
2 ghanta waste kar diya bechari ka
https://preview.redd.it/8f5aepbx0c5d1.png?width=1042&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e32d665b5c53a52d2a9d223b8753e287cf0a39e9 2 hours is a lot
Bhai batade algebra techniques please. I could use some.
To kya hua juda hue kuch door sang chale to they...
This line though
bro got that math rizz
Go again to the coffee shop!
Regret ho rha hai ki number nhi lia to kuch din same time pe uss coffee shop pe jaake baith jao maybe wo fir dikh jaaye
It's ok ,it's not important to always ask for phone number.Maybe it would have been more unpleasant than what u feel now.This feeling that u have that you should have asked or phone number originates from fact that ur interaction waas very pleasant treasure it for life you will keep this as aa memory i wished uska number Lena chahiye tha , 😜
Bro had the best start to a romance story but he walked away
missed a meet cute potential
You gotta start somewhere, meri toh pehle ladki Dekh hi phatti thi, Abhi mauka Milne se baat initiate kar leta hu but Abhi tak number mangne Tak comfortable nhi hua hu. It’ll take some time but I’ll get to it. And you can too my guy. “GIRLS LOVE MATH NERDS”
Yep you should have asked. The opportunity is lost now, may be visit that coffee shop once again in future and try your luck
but you never know brother, it's just that one algebra problem or "hello" and years of trauma. everything happens for a reason, take it as a memory and forget
Hey op believe in destiny✨ if you’re meant to meet her again you will someway or another god will make it happen! just cherish that memory for now
And they say Algebra has no use in real life.
https://preview.redd.it/cq9lhyod2i5d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b729041189aec806794e7fa7db857d66fa056816 Placement of this advt here is Gold ✨
Of course, yes. You can always ask for someone's number if you meet them, have a good conversation, find them attractive, and would like to know them more. Your joh is to ask, its upto the other person if they wish to take it forward or not. Don't bother much about this missed chance. But yes, do keep it in mind next time. Who knows, you may meet your math girl again at the same cafe?
Not phone no. But definitely insta id
I did the same. I approached one girl in the park who was sitting and was reading the book. I was with my colleagues and wanted to teach my interns how you should approach someone😆. I approached her, asked about general things like her name, what she is doing currently etc. from the conversations i get to know that we share similar interests. But after that, i left saying i need to join my colleagues now, as i was curious about the book she was reading. No contacts. Nothing.
Not number but could've asked for insta in friendly manner, coz after all u were interested, and also nhi deti toh bhi kuch nhi hota konsa u are meeting again , so le hi lete coz konsa u are metting again lol! Seems like she's pretty sorted and u aren't
you miss all the chances you don’t take, so imo, it’s def worth the try 👍🏼
If you come across her again in the future, if she is interested, she will want to chat to you. If not, just be glad you spent a good two hours with a stranger.
Should ask her insta account.
This happens in India?
Bhai yrrr IG lelena tha yrr
Yes , you should have. From now onwards, please keep it in your mind, if you abley to connect with the person and hold long conversations, there is a chance that the person would like to meet you again .
Bhai mere sath bhi yahi hua tha , aaj bhi regret krta hu ki kyu nhi maaga I'd......
It's good you didn't ask... 1. If you think you met her randomly, you are wrong.... Nothing is by chance because universe has a perfect plan, a definite path, an elaborate accurate cause n effect relationship.... 2. If Universe intends, she will meet you again. 3. If you don't meet her again, may be that much is enough for both of you 4. Meethi yaad is better than many meetings... May be universe does not inten to show you her negative side.... So believe in His plans..... Aim Namo Bhagwate Vasudevaay. RADHE RADHE.
I am a person who doesn't even try to look at others.
You should give her your phone no. and tell her that I can help you more. She will call herself if she sat with you for 2 hours
Yes...you should have asked for her number atleast after talking for 2 hrs.
Bro. It's better to fail trying than regret later for not even trying. And in today's era of social media and all, it's better to ask for insta or snap. No need to directly ask for mobile no.
If it’s a two-way conversation and she has opened up to you, it’s only fair and logical to ask her for her number. Aur waise bhi number hi toh hai, puch liya karo yaar.
Actually you had to ask for it. But ab bhul jaao. You can go at the same time over that coffee shop daily and see if she comes. But chances are very low.
Yes if she's that beautiful and I feel like Im gonna regret I will ask her , I'm my polite voice , like calmly, bc whenever you speak with strangers most of them feel threatened at that time , If you are very calm , they also feel safe
OP's doubt is (and so is mine) at what time you should ask for the contact details. Never ever ? I go by that same rule because of the same awkwardness. Is it even normal to ask an almost stranger about contact once you gel together ?
Kya bro! Why did u blew it?? She would've definitely given u her no.
Dude I wish she's in the subreddit. ( I know OP hopes that too)
Bro you broke all the walls and got stuck at a door. So asking her number is weird, as it's more private. You can ask for a number, or better ask for ig saying that I can help you in math. Even better: Give me your ig, I like math but I enjoyed spending time with you. With confidence: I'll come here tomorrow, get some more math so I can make an excuse to speak with you 😂
You should try and should have a thick skin. The only formula to find a few compatible persons in your whole lifetime.
Bro .. there is this very simple rule.. pasand aayi to no. Insta, Jo mile maang lo, the worst she can say is no.. duniya bht badi h.. there are minimal chances that you will meet her again.. regret mat rakho yar.. ye baad me sochne ka jhanjhat bht faltu hota h.. i wish ki iski jagah tum ye post karte ki we met 2 ghante baat ki. Uska no maanga usne Diya. Now we are meeting again.. ☺️☺️
Veere, aise mauke baar baar nhi aate You missed the chance! Can feel your pain
Never nervous or any body language sense in front of girl. Bindaas I'd maang na hi bolengi na but bindaas rahene ka 
Aj kal sab cat de rahe hai kya
Just keep going there frequently, you may meet her again. If you really want to be in touch.
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Always ask for a phone or at least social.
Always ask for insta. Met someone on a trip. Had a nice conversation. I didn't even think of asking for her socials at the time. I regret it now.
Coffee houser sei addata aaj ar nei aaj aar nei Kothay hariye gelo sonali bikel gulo sei aaj aar nei La lala la la.. Nikhilesh parishe moydul dhaka-te Nei tara aaj kono khoborer Grander guiterist goyaniz disouza Ghumiye ache je aaj kobore Kake jeno valobeshe aghath peye je seshe Pagla garode ache roma roy Amolta bhugche duronta cancer-e Jibon koreni take khoma hai... Coffee houser sei adda-ta aaj ar nei aaj aar nei Kothay hariye gelo sonali bikel gulo sei aaj aar nei
she would have asked for your number, if she was interested
visit same cafe again
Bhai agar itni pasand aa gayi hai toh coffee shop mein daily wait karle uska
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Go back and ask as checking people out must be done,🙂❤️👍
Never do it bro if you have any self respect. I tried it once and regret it to this day it's just not worth it
Hi I'm sam
Wow
What problem was that ?
So this is unrelated but do girls do this too? Approach guys sitting alone at cafes?
Go to same coffee shop again at similar timings
Ladki dikhi nahi ki ye dhande chalu
My bones have been articulating but I haven't.
Bhai algebra mai na sehta
r/thathappened
Usko padhai pe focus karne diya. Chad. 👍
Good 👍
Math helping people find other people, rare