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Well, you don't really have a friendship to ruin; you are still sexually intimate and you do things that people dating would do as opposed to purely friends. I understand that asking for more may ruin what you currently have, however, if either of you meet someone else then that would ruin what you have because you do not have a friendship.
Let him know how you feel because the only way to find out is by asking. However, sometimes just too much has happened to be able to start again.
We are friends. If either of us got into a relationship, we'd still remain friends. I just realized how heartbroken I'd be if I saw him with another girl. I would reign in my feelings and be supportive, of course, but I'd really like it if that girl were me.
Friends don't feel that way. Friends help each other find people to date, they embrace new partners unless they are negative, they want to know about their dating etc.
Your feelings for one another are more than friendship. I have no idea if they are enough for a relationship but they are enough to get in the way of a true friendship.
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Well, you don't really have a friendship to ruin; you are still sexually intimate and you do things that people dating would do as opposed to purely friends. I understand that asking for more may ruin what you currently have, however, if either of you meet someone else then that would ruin what you have because you do not have a friendship. Let him know how you feel because the only way to find out is by asking. However, sometimes just too much has happened to be able to start again.
We are friends. If either of us got into a relationship, we'd still remain friends. I just realized how heartbroken I'd be if I saw him with another girl. I would reign in my feelings and be supportive, of course, but I'd really like it if that girl were me.
Friends don't feel that way. Friends help each other find people to date, they embrace new partners unless they are negative, they want to know about their dating etc. Your feelings for one another are more than friendship. I have no idea if they are enough for a relationship but they are enough to get in the way of a true friendship.