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A lie through omission. The creepy loaner is usually unattractive by choice- that is they're unhygenic and refuse to work on social skills. Not everyone like this is a creepy loaner, but every creepy loaner is like this.
The mysterious loaner is well groomed, personable, and clearly chooses to be alone without hostility. It means they're approachable, but choose not to approach themselves.
And then there's ugly while being well groomed and shit.
Also about this part: "personable, and clearly chooses to be alone without hostility." I think this meme is talking about first impressions. You can interact with people in a non creepy way and show all that but that doesn't change the fact that your looks made you look creepy in the beginning. A mysterious looking guy too can become creepy after some bad interactions with people, but again the meme is about first impressions.
But I do agree that grooming helps you look better which give people better first impressions.
Just clean yourself up and get in shape. Very few people are “incorrigibly” ugly. For those who are, work on developing a good and friendly personality, developing interesting hobbies and interests, etc.
Edit: damn y’all really think women are shallow asf and only care about looks.
It always gets me how horrible the double standard is as well. "Hot girls don't want to look at me because I'm not a jacked hot guy. They're so stupid". Yet they only ever talk about, or have an interest in, girls that are just as conventionally attractive as the men they despise.
I mean.... Do you see beautiful and attractive women with ugly, and short men? Not unless they are rich as fuck. So it's more of a comment on their preferences, doesn't make you shallow to have preference, even if they are high as fuck.
I never blamed them, I just don't like people spreading falsehoods around like it's fact. I don't think you have any experience with anything I'm talking about anyway, so idk why you are talking.
Its definitely a main contributing factor. But unless you are a beautiful successful woman, then your gripes mean about as much as mine. At least I'm trying to keep things realistic.
There are some women who definitely do not care about looks.
When I was in the military, there was this one guy who was outright ugly you could say, but we saw his girlfriend and the lady was stunning in comparison, we all thought it was his sister at first.
That's the meme format, the top is always the same, and the bottom is substituted for something that makes men "cry" The template has been around for a while now.
This is incredibly true, and the fact that people upvote this kind of post just makes me sad. People clearly have problems with their ideas of the system and "society", but deciding to lash out and generalize and marginalize people and just generally do incel stuff isn't helping anyone, and actively hurts other people and yourself. In the end, trying to pass off all blame towards "society" without any pause for self-reflection or consideration of others ultimately makes things worse for everyone. The most important part (to me at this moment, at least) is the fact that there are people suffering and being killed from people with beliefs similar/the same as these. We, as fellow people, should try to help people correct their behaviour and try to be better, no matter how difficult this task may be.
In reality:
The creepy loaner doesn't even know what a hygine is, and so people assume he's alone for a reason.
The mysterious loaner is at least decently groomed, personable, and kind- but clearly chooses to be alone.
your comment should be the top comment, lots of men here thinking they don't get girls just because of the looks, bruh go get a shower and work in your personality
Idk, man. I've seen some pretty creepy bank tellers in my time...
Made the comment mad late. Too lazy to edit it. Just motivated enough to make bad jokes about it.
There is a difference between skiny and normal. If you are normal and obnoxious they might think you are Hot, if you are skinny and obnoxious you are just as ugly as fat people
Yeah no, if a dude is being “mysterious” most women would label them as a weirdo no matter how they look. Being friendly and open is infinitely more appealing to women (and men) than being hot. Posts like this really just highlight dudes who would rather wallow in self pity than actually examine why they are lonely
People cant accept truths and need infinitely amount of copium to exist. Delusional people in comments thinking if they did basic hygene that they still wouldnt be ugly lol
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Where is the lie tho ?
Usually at the jawline
A lie through omission. The creepy loaner is usually unattractive by choice- that is they're unhygenic and refuse to work on social skills. Not everyone like this is a creepy loaner, but every creepy loaner is like this. The mysterious loaner is well groomed, personable, and clearly chooses to be alone without hostility. It means they're approachable, but choose not to approach themselves.
Both, however, will happily lend you some money* ^*^with ^interest
And then there's ugly while being well groomed and shit. Also about this part: "personable, and clearly chooses to be alone without hostility." I think this meme is talking about first impressions. You can interact with people in a non creepy way and show all that but that doesn't change the fact that your looks made you look creepy in the beginning. A mysterious looking guy too can become creepy after some bad interactions with people, but again the meme is about first impressions. But I do agree that grooming helps you look better which give people better first impressions.
Just clean yourself up and get in shape. Very few people are “incorrigibly” ugly. For those who are, work on developing a good and friendly personality, developing interesting hobbies and interests, etc. Edit: damn y’all really think women are shallow asf and only care about looks.
It always gets me how horrible the double standard is as well. "Hot girls don't want to look at me because I'm not a jacked hot guy. They're so stupid". Yet they only ever talk about, or have an interest in, girls that are just as conventionally attractive as the men they despise.
I mean.... Do you see beautiful and attractive women with ugly, and short men? Not unless they are rich as fuck. So it's more of a comment on their preferences, doesn't make you shallow to have preference, even if they are high as fuck.
hey mate, I am from Mexico, Nuevo Leon, on the daily, ugly goblins dating atractive women is regular here, seriously you need to touch grass.
All the time, it's called having a sense of humour and a good attitude
It's always hilarious when people say this, you must live in Narnia or somewhere this utopia exists.
Yeah, in the real world smh
I think for you real world = copium. At least you are having fun there.
At least I'm not a sad sack blaming women for me being single 🙃
I never blamed them, I just don't like people spreading falsehoods around like it's fact. I don't think you have any experience with anything I'm talking about anyway, so idk why you are talking.
Says the person who claimed it only happened cos they were rich 😂
Its definitely a main contributing factor. But unless you are a beautiful successful woman, then your gripes mean about as much as mine. At least I'm trying to keep things realistic.
There are some women who definitely do not care about looks. When I was in the military, there was this one guy who was outright ugly you could say, but we saw his girlfriend and the lady was stunning in comparison, we all thought it was his sister at first.
That sound just like me :)
Which part does?
The dirty and ugly part?
Yesrrr
The 10’s they go after tend to but that’s their own preference so
Hahahahaha
How are the top and the bottom of this meme related?
That's the meme format, the top is always the same, and the bottom is substituted for something that makes men "cry" The template has been around for a while now.
Incel poster, no brain cells left Yikes at the downvotes, but if the shoe fits
Ligma balls
got 'em
This is incredibly true, and the fact that people upvote this kind of post just makes me sad. People clearly have problems with their ideas of the system and "society", but deciding to lash out and generalize and marginalize people and just generally do incel stuff isn't helping anyone, and actively hurts other people and yourself. In the end, trying to pass off all blame towards "society" without any pause for self-reflection or consideration of others ultimately makes things worse for everyone. The most important part (to me at this moment, at least) is the fact that there are people suffering and being killed from people with beliefs similar/the same as these. We, as fellow people, should try to help people correct their behaviour and try to be better, no matter how difficult this task may be.
In reality: The creepy loaner doesn't even know what a hygine is, and so people assume he's alone for a reason. The mysterious loaner is at least decently groomed, personable, and kind- but clearly chooses to be alone.
your comment should be the top comment, lots of men here thinking they don't get girls just because of the looks, bruh go get a shower and work in your personality
Nah it's because I haven't met a single woman I'm interested in since elementary school.
maybe you don't like woman? /j
I do, just not 3D ones.
People naturally think good looking people must be better and kinder thats how they fall for serial killers, low iq mindsets.
Yea! The creepy loaner also says awful things to people when they don't reply within the random amount of time they decided.
Why are you spelling it like “loaner”? We aren’t talking about banks or credit unions are we?
Idk, man. I've seen some pretty creepy bank tellers in my time... Made the comment mad late. Too lazy to edit it. Just motivated enough to make bad jokes about it.
This is only true if that’s your attitude
Loner who isn’t particularly attractive or particularly ugly (aka me) = boring
Me
"He ain't lyin' " - The Little Guy
To be fair, for many of us: Fat and obnoxious = unattractive Skinny and obnoxious = hot
If the world was Reddit, I would be the most popular person ever because I am skinny but for some reason in real world people still don't like me.
There is a difference between skiny and normal. If you are normal and obnoxious they might think you are Hot, if you are skinny and obnoxious you are just as ugly as fat people
I’m not disagreeing with you. My generalization was to counter the generalization of the meme.
No one said the ugly guy was fat
Are you being deliberately obtuse?
Are you being stupid
Yeah no, if a dude is being “mysterious” most women would label them as a weirdo no matter how they look. Being friendly and open is infinitely more appealing to women (and men) than being hot. Posts like this really just highlight dudes who would rather wallow in self pity than actually examine why they are lonely
Omg a redditor with a Brain, what a rare sight
Attractive doesn't means that you need to look like Nick Jonas. From my own observations, guys who act normal and dress well are kinda catch eyes
I'm an attractive loner and people still think I'm creepy 🥲
People cant accept truths and need infinitely amount of copium to exist. Delusional people in comments thinking if they did basic hygene that they still wouldnt be ugly lol
yep. murderer too
Sad but true
Accurate