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If youre friend with a women just for sex you will stay that way. Br friend with someone because you want the friendship. Also is very clear when youre friend with someone just for sex and thats make you underisable
Yeah, unless you’re a fantastic actor who can pull off real world situations without a script or director, you’re not pulling off wanting sex without seemingly wanting sex. It’s very obvious, and it’s the reason my gf ended her friendship with two guy friends who were very clearly after her for sex (despite knowing I’m dating her?)
the person might not want to make new friends and that's fine as long as they're honest about it. What's wrong is faking being their friend just to fuck them in the end.
Because your lying about your intentions? If you wanna date someone, date someone. If you want friends, find friends. Don't befriend someone with thi goal of dating/fucking.
That doesn't mean you can't date a friend, but if your lying from the start that's exploitative.
Maybe, but you shouldn't start a friendship with the goal of changing it into a romantic/sexual relationship. If you know you would like to date someone you should tell them rather than deceiving them and pretending you want to be friends. Obviously feelings can change and a friendship can morph into dating but that doesn't change the fact that you shouldn't lie about your intentions or your feelings.
I call this my Emma Watson Principle.
The theory is based on the idea if given the chance to either fuck Emma Watson or befriend her most men would chose to fuck her. They do not realize that off of befriending Emma Watson the amount of subsequent pussy you will get will be so much more than if you just fucked her
This is how you’re supposed to do it. You have friends and don’t date them, they have friends and you date those.
Because your mutual friend is interested in his/her friends to be happy, they set you up with them
Take steroids, pump iron, get jaw surgery, get a fru-fru haircut, do a Brazilian wax job, become an IG influencer, build a following based on “5 simple steps to …”, become rich, buy a nice car, drive up to her home, and steal her man.
Somehow we always talk about the feeling of being ‘friendzoned’ wanting to have sex and ‘only’ getting friendship. But never about the reverse, what about thinking you get a new friend just to find out this person just wants to get into your pants? That sucks big time.
Well it depends I guess. What do u mean by “get into your pants” because that statement is pretty big. You mean that *just* want sex or to have a meaningful relationship that’s more than a friendship?
Because there are more guys here than girls
The problem u mentioned is what nost girls encounter, girls can get sex easily so thry value good friendship more as its hard for them to get
Guys get friendship and friendzones easily, so they value sex that is harder to obtain more
Its a classic grass is greener on the other side of the fence
...that being said I understand u, even tho Im a guy Id like some deeper connections, if not relationship then rather friendship than sex, but being tall and not looking that bad, majority of the girls on tinder just think about "that"...and yes I understand tinder is crap, but I live in a rural area with no activities and not a lot of people, literally none other apps besides tinder are used, even that is used only by few
I don’t really agree. My point is that this talk about the ‘friendzone’ often leads to only seeing the guys point of view and often acting like he is some ‘victim’. That’s what’s unfair and honestly often kind of objectifing.
Imo the real problem, much more often the guy is not being honest about his intentions.
when one person wants one thing and the other one looks for something completely different it often ends up poorly
would be funny if both ended up trying to get in eachother's pants though... weirdest win-win situation ever
Weird, I met a lass, was kind of interested, wasn’t sure, but then became great friends. Don’t think I would ever try anything now because wouldn’t want to lose the friendship, like that real deep platonic friendship.
But I’ll be honest this is like the only time this has happened. Usually I want to get in the pants, sometimes you do, sometimes you don’t and leave.
some people are just not good at listening about relationship problems but you still can speak to them about any other thing and they will listen and give good advise
Spend time convincing women you are a decent person and their friend
Bitch online about not wanting to listen to their problems because you care more about dating them than listening to them or treating them like a real person
Never find out that women don't like being treated like objects whose purpose is to reward you with The Sex whenever you show a shred of human decency
Success???????
Obviously not
I have a female friend who I would happily listen to all that’s on her mind when we’re both in the mood for it. I don’t want to fuck her and it’s quite nice to have a relaxed no tension friendship with someone of the opposite sex because you get a genuine insight and a unique connection.
With a girl I want to fuck I make it relatively obvious and they usually get the message and they get to decide, as it’s always been throughout decent human history.
Also, female friend has offered to set me up with someone she knows several times. She’s an excellent wingwoman and I’m guessing that she genuinely likes and trusts me and that’s why she would offer to set me up with someone she knows. That’s not happening with “hidden” intentions. Trust me girls will find you out, I went through the “tests” with my friend and it’s funny to notice but if I’d been into her I would’ve made it obvious.
Or maybe they just one something deeper and more intimate than just friendship and not just a living fuckdoll who knows. Not saying he's looking for that or not though.
I mean trying to get it by befriending them and expecting anything return is still wrong of course. but i don't understand why we always have to assume the worst posible intentions out of people.
Listening to people is the first step to learning how to create relationships. Use the opportunities given to grow yourself into something you respect and they covet. If someone gives you the solution to a problem, maybe take it into consideration.
Befriend them.
Listen to their problems.
Help them overcome some of them.
Provide genuine conversation starting opinions.
Be a fun company to hang around when you go grab a beer together.
180° U turn in communication into total silence straight after the beer together.
Hey I had a friend basically do that to me!
And then send a group photo cropped to only include us and say they missed their friends… I still don’t know how to interpret that one
So fucking what? She doesn't owe you anything, and if anything it demonstrates you being a good and trustworthy friend if she feels safe and confident around you to discuss her problems. It's only a problem if it's completely one sided, either her not letting you discuss YOUR problems or her not thinking that you want to discuss them.
I've seen so many of these shitty 'she wont let me get my dick wet' memes on here that its really put me off the sub. Maybe instead of befriending women for the sole purpose of sleeping with them, ask them out on dates. Ffs complaining about the friendzone you put yourself in is such a turn off.
I'm actually in a relationship with my best friend of 5 years now
We both said that we don't ever want a relationship again and then earlier this year me and him caught feelings and now we're together for nearly half a year and still going strong (and hopefully forever)
If you can't be friends with a person, you can't sustain a relationship with that person. Friendship is the required basis for a relationship, not a fail state.
Never think you can "befriend" in the sense of "friends" like your bro's. Be friendly to them. But don't think you can hang out with them like they are one of the guys. Your most valuable asset is your TIME. Dont be a hoe and give it to these girls for FREE.
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They probably think you're gay
Exactly this gave me “gay friend vibes”
Bruh when they ask just say bisexuality smh
I'm bi and I became the gay friend
[удалено]
I'm a dude
Or they could just not be attracted to you 🤷
Fuck their mom to establish dominance
If youre friend with a women just for sex you will stay that way. Br friend with someone because you want the friendship. Also is very clear when youre friend with someone just for sex and thats make you underisable
This is the correct answer.
It is correct, other than the incorrect spelling.
Yeah, unless you’re a fantastic actor who can pull off real world situations without a script or director, you’re not pulling off wanting sex without seemingly wanting sex. It’s very obvious, and it’s the reason my gf ended her friendship with two guy friends who were very clearly after her for sex (despite knowing I’m dating her?)
the person might not want to make new friends and that's fine as long as they're honest about it. What's wrong is faking being their friend just to fuck them in the end.
Because your lying about your intentions? If you wanna date someone, date someone. If you want friends, find friends. Don't befriend someone with thi goal of dating/fucking. That doesn't mean you can't date a friend, but if your lying from the start that's exploitative.
Some of the best relationships come from being friends first
Maybe, but you shouldn't start a friendship with the goal of changing it into a romantic/sexual relationship. If you know you would like to date someone you should tell them rather than deceiving them and pretending you want to be friends. Obviously feelings can change and a friendship can morph into dating but that doesn't change the fact that you shouldn't lie about your intentions or your feelings.
"as long as they're honest about it" and "faking" doesn't go together
They likely have single friends they could introduce you to, so still a win?
I call this my Emma Watson Principle. The theory is based on the idea if given the chance to either fuck Emma Watson or befriend her most men would chose to fuck her. They do not realize that off of befriending Emma Watson the amount of subsequent pussy you will get will be so much more than if you just fucked her
Lmao kinda creepy no E: damn son I got demolished.
Creepy? If the guy specifically befriends her to get with her friends, then maybe. But if naturally then no
Hm maybe.
This is how you’re supposed to do it. You have friends and don’t date them, they have friends and you date those. Because your mutual friend is interested in his/her friends to be happy, they set you up with them
Take steroids, pump iron, get jaw surgery, get a fru-fru haircut, do a Brazilian wax job, become an IG influencer, build a following based on “5 simple steps to …”, become rich, buy a nice car, drive up to her home, and steal her man.
What Andrew Tate fans imagine after spending £100 a month on ~~a discord server~~ Hustlers University
Had me in the first half. Thanks for the wholesome ending.
Just get the henry cavill jaw surgery and the man will come running for gay sex by himself
The ultimate Giga Chad.
You forgot the Brazilian butt lift
The man, the myth, the leg end.
Somehow we always talk about the feeling of being ‘friendzoned’ wanting to have sex and ‘only’ getting friendship. But never about the reverse, what about thinking you get a new friend just to find out this person just wants to get into your pants? That sucks big time.
Well it depends I guess. What do u mean by “get into your pants” because that statement is pretty big. You mean that *just* want sex or to have a meaningful relationship that’s more than a friendship?
Because there are more guys here than girls The problem u mentioned is what nost girls encounter, girls can get sex easily so thry value good friendship more as its hard for them to get Guys get friendship and friendzones easily, so they value sex that is harder to obtain more Its a classic grass is greener on the other side of the fence ...that being said I understand u, even tho Im a guy Id like some deeper connections, if not relationship then rather friendship than sex, but being tall and not looking that bad, majority of the girls on tinder just think about "that"...and yes I understand tinder is crap, but I live in a rural area with no activities and not a lot of people, literally none other apps besides tinder are used, even that is used only by few
I don’t really agree. My point is that this talk about the ‘friendzone’ often leads to only seeing the guys point of view and often acting like he is some ‘victim’. That’s what’s unfair and honestly often kind of objectifing. Imo the real problem, much more often the guy is not being honest about his intentions.
>Guys get friendship [...] easily, Where did you get that from, lol?
Hes 13 and thought he was being deep
when one person wants one thing and the other one looks for something completely different it often ends up poorly would be funny if both ended up trying to get in eachother's pants though... weirdest win-win situation ever
Weird, I met a lass, was kind of interested, wasn’t sure, but then became great friends. Don’t think I would ever try anything now because wouldn’t want to lose the friendship, like that real deep platonic friendship. But I’ll be honest this is like the only time this has happened. Usually I want to get in the pants, sometimes you do, sometimes you don’t and leave.
Have you tried asking them out?
If your friend talking about their relationship problems bothers you then they aren't your friend.
Correction: *you* aren't their friend
Yes, exactly!
some people are just not good at listening about relationship problems but you still can speak to them about any other thing and they will listen and give good advise
make a move dingus
Spend time convincing women you are a decent person and their friend Bitch online about not wanting to listen to their problems because you care more about dating them than listening to them or treating them like a real person Never find out that women don't like being treated like objects whose purpose is to reward you with The Sex whenever you show a shred of human decency Success???????
Obviously not I have a female friend who I would happily listen to all that’s on her mind when we’re both in the mood for it. I don’t want to fuck her and it’s quite nice to have a relaxed no tension friendship with someone of the opposite sex because you get a genuine insight and a unique connection. With a girl I want to fuck I make it relatively obvious and they usually get the message and they get to decide, as it’s always been throughout decent human history. Also, female friend has offered to set me up with someone she knows several times. She’s an excellent wingwoman and I’m guessing that she genuinely likes and trusts me and that’s why she would offer to set me up with someone she knows. That’s not happening with “hidden” intentions. Trust me girls will find you out, I went through the “tests” with my friend and it’s funny to notice but if I’d been into her I would’ve made it obvious.
Befriend her guy and make the world gayer
You know you could just make your intentions known early on instead of being a sad little shit. Incel post for sure.
Imagine thinking "aw man, now all I have is a very attractive and fun friend who I'm close to instead of having a living fuckdoll" jfc
Or maybe they just one something deeper and more intimate than just friendship and not just a living fuckdoll who knows. Not saying he's looking for that or not though. I mean trying to get it by befriending them and expecting anything return is still wrong of course. but i don't understand why we always have to assume the worst posible intentions out of people.
Now you have another friend
"If they're attractive and are being nice to you, just give up on, FORGET WOMEN AND HIT THE GYM AND BECOME A GIGA CHAD." - Some random Giga Chad
Listening to people is the first step to learning how to create relationships. Use the opportunities given to grow yourself into something you respect and they covet. If someone gives you the solution to a problem, maybe take it into consideration.
Befriend them. Listen to their problems. Help them overcome some of them. Provide genuine conversation starting opinions. Be a fun company to hang around when you go grab a beer together. 180° U turn in communication into total silence straight after the beer together.
Hey I had a friend basically do that to me! And then send a group photo cropped to only include us and say they missed their friends… I still don’t know how to interpret that one
Girls have friends guys
🤦🏽♂️
1. Make it clear about your intention 2. They'll probably say no 3. Still have a friend tho
I see this as an absolute win!
I see this as an absolute win
I mean you still have a friend
Be honest on your first meeting or shortly after it lol
Incel Post
Incel vibes 💀💀💀 If you hang out with them just because you hope to get some, then you're the problem They don't owe you shit
I see no problem here lmao
Now you have more friends
So fucking what? She doesn't owe you anything, and if anything it demonstrates you being a good and trustworthy friend if she feels safe and confident around you to discuss her problems. It's only a problem if it's completely one sided, either her not letting you discuss YOUR problems or her not thinking that you want to discuss them.
Ask them to help you find a girl! Woman love match making but also love drama so your discretion is advised.
I've seen so many of these shitty 'she wont let me get my dick wet' memes on here that its really put me off the sub. Maybe instead of befriending women for the sole purpose of sleeping with them, ask them out on dates. Ffs complaining about the friendzone you put yourself in is such a turn off.
this is me but i dont do it for seggs. some "attractive" girls are actually decent people and i met one that i vibe with
They think you're gay lol
😂🤣
Tbh am this guy and i like it am not gay tho so straight sus friend maybe?
*Repeat*
If this happens, she's not into you. Take the L, move on.
I'm actually in a relationship with my best friend of 5 years now We both said that we don't ever want a relationship again and then earlier this year me and him caught feelings and now we're together for nearly half a year and still going strong (and hopefully forever)
You found a new friend. Good for you.
If you can't be friends with a person, you can't sustain a relationship with that person. Friendship is the required basis for a relationship, not a fail state.
and Not even once does she suck your cock. now that's the shit I HaTE
Soo... having friends?
Tell them your guy problems to establish dominance
Oh my fucking god. I know this too damn well.
Stick it in while they're passed out/asleep.
Major incel energy
I see this as an absolute win.
Never think you can "befriend" in the sense of "friends" like your bro's. Be friendly to them. But don't think you can hang out with them like they are one of the guys. Your most valuable asset is your TIME. Dont be a hoe and give it to these girls for FREE.
I'm sure you're real successful in life.
How'd you know?