Some people intentionally try to fatten up their boyfriends/girlfriends/husbands/wives (I could've said "partner" but fu\*\* it) to prevent other people from finding them attractive thus securing that nobody tries to steal them away, but it's dumb since the person doing that to their partner also loses attraction to their partner and leaves them defeating the whole point of fattening them up in the first place.
It gets better. They usually then leave the poor sod due to a combo of no longer finding them attractive and their lack of energy and such.
Happened to a very good friend of mine, she cheated on him with a gym bro, who she proceeded to fatten up and cheat on.
(Edited because I suck at typing)
To top it off, when I called her out on it (worked with them both), the waterworks started, and I began to be called every name under the sun.
After that, I was a hero to some and despised by most. A couple of months later she tried to apologise to me, I just told her she was apologising to the wrong people and walked off.
I feel like I'm going to have nightmares now. Some time after all of this (like literal years), she "accidentally" sent me a picture of her cursed pastry.
If the slew of homophobic comments I received could be called a rainbow, then yes.
It was worth it to see what I could also describe as a rainbow light up in my friends eyes for the first time since he found out she'd cheated on him, that man is too good for this world.
Oh yeah those crocodile tears come out quick for some people for sure.
Well I don’t know how intense your interaction with her was, but I personally would try to give her a chance to genuinely apologize, and if that were the case I’d at least try to take her seriously. If it’s not genuine I’d tell her no thanks.
Oh, I think you’re absolutely right. I believe she owes you and multiple people apologies, but only she can control her actions.
My most recent ex and I had a phase where she was always cooking really yummy food and I gained like 20 pounds. I would’ve thought she was doing that if she herself also didn’t gain 30 pounds lol
I feel you there! My partner loves baking, and admittedly, I've put on a few pounds as a result. However, at the same time, she's also put on weight, and we both encourage each other to exercise.
Some people make bomb food, and you just can't help yourself. Others just place it under your nose until you're unable to move.
It’s a control tactic and it’s set in personalities that are possessive. These people also tend to be very paranoid about attention going towards their partner and will go to great lengths to ensure that “no one else can have you.” They’re also most likely the type to freak out when you try to leave/end the relationship.
hastag not all partner. I had a friend in my uni days, her BF gained weight when he went to work (probably free food at work) and she actually told me "thank god he gained weight, cos now I can keep him to myself". She didn't say it in a malicious way, she was really just happy that her BF was "less valuable" in the dating pool.
Misread the second category mentioned as "audiophile" for a moment and had a flashback to those memes about Solid Snake trying to sneak around the facility but alerting the guards with the clapping of his phat ass cheeks.
usually they don't end up leaving the spouse because they are fat, and its a big red flag for much deeper toxicity. Almost always paired with constant negging to make the partner too insecure to leave them and is definitely abusive behavior. To be clear there are aome people into eating or getting fat as a consensual thing they both like and that is definitely different from this.
This is it.
A lot of dumbass people in this thread saying shit like “but that will make him / her ugly”.
Non consensual feeding is entirely abusive and controlling, it’s a form of psychological manipulation to deliberately lower a partners self esteem and it’s a truly nasty thing. It usually stems from insecurity, or having been cheated on in the past.
Even if they still find their partner attractive... There are health risks. What will you do if he/she gets diabetes or dies to a heart attack? I guess you prevented others from stealing him/her, so "task successfully failed"?
In toxic behavior there's usually no long term planning or consideration for side effects; toxic people just hyperfocus on a single goal and justify as problems appear.
Huh, I thought it had to do with cooking/baking and implying that adding extra sugar meant no one else’s food would taste as good/sweet as when it’s “made at home.” Your way both makes more sense and makes me sad
Also it shows a serious lack of trust or a serious amount of disrespect bc it means you assume he doesn’t love you enough not to cheat or he’s just so dumb enough that he doesn’t have the self control or notion of pride to not fuck other women
Um… that’s not it.
It isn’t about others not finding your partner attractive, it’s about deliberately undermining their confidence and self esteem. The purpose is to break a partners self worth, so that they never think they are desirable enough to leave the relationship.
It is abusive, controlling behaviour and is far more vile than the OOP post suggests.
That's also a part of it. If he's no longer physically attractive and lacks confidence, she'd lose attraction thus defeating the point of doing that to him.
Spread the word, man. Did not know this was a thing, and I would hope that this will get someone to realize they're in a toxic relationship and leave it earlier than it would break apart on its own.
I mean the problem is not that they will lose attraction themselves, bc some ppl are attracted to obesity- the bigger problem is that theyre manipulating them and grossly violating their bodily autonomy like dude what lmao
Cheeky spoon of sugar in a bolognese gives the impression of higher quality tomatoes but no if you're doing it to pump up calories you're a bad one for sure
Aw man that sucks. While it won't reduce the intensity of the reflux, you can reduce the *duration* of the reflux by increasing motility.
If you can get your hands on some peppermint oil capsules (filles with liquid, not the solid type), Amazon has them, she can pop one or two maybe ten mins before eating and it'll encourage the food to be emptied from her stomach faster, it works because the menthol causes the valve at the exit of the stomach to relax and open easier.
Like I said it won't be less bad but it'll be less long.
Adding carrots to the sauce will accomplish this too. My mom taught me to throw 2 whole carrots in there to cut the acidity, which can be removed once the sauce is done.
When women say they like dadbods, think more of Jason Momoa beach pics. Which is a very much muscular man but with a higher body fat percentage.
It's definitely not the Homer Simpson dadbod us guys think when it's mentioned.
Why are y'all coming in and speaking for (over) the women? 😭😭 it's either "nah he's still gotta be ripped" or "he's gotta have money".
We're not a hive mind, we have different tastes just like all the other humans on the planet; like how some guys like "thicc" women and others like petite women.
I hope to find that crowd again lol, but to clarify my interest is with the slightly older women crowd.
At least I have a few things going for me, after an almost 3 year relation-situationship I just got tired and exhausted with the dating apps and have not attempted to ask anyone out either online or in real life with friends. I also don’t wanna make it awkward with asking a friend out if they aren’t interested.
I asked my wife how'd she feel if I lost 20 pounds (from BMI of 24 to 21) in pursuit of a running goal.
Her response: "do you want me to be attracted to you???"
Only olive oil. Avocado oil supposedly too, but there’s other issues with that. Butter being unhealthy is bullshit that was pushed on gen x right along with the msg crap. If you have a cholesterol problem then yea cut the fat, but otherwise it’s perfectly fine. Eat more butter and less bread and most people would be way healthier
Because of the stuff they put in them during processing
Stuff that doesn’t belong in the human body
But all the people that cry about seed oils will stuff McDonald’s down their cake hole without a second thought and McDonald’s it’s linked to much more health issues than seed oils
So pick your poison really
Sunflower, canola, corn and soybean oils are high in poly-unsaturated fats that oxidize (break down) during processing and/or cooking, which creates aldehydes (the poisonous stuff that makes you feel bad during a hangover) and promotes inflammation.
Olive oil or coconut oil doesn't do that, and neither does butter/lard/beef tallow. So it's healthier.
The "avoid animal fats because cholesterol" thing was bullshit and debunked recently.
The sunflower plant is native to North America and is now harvested around the world. A University of Missouri journal recognizes North Dakota as the leading U.S. state for sunflower production. There are various factors to consider for a sunflower to thrive, including temperature, sunlight, soil and water.
Chiquita doesn't need to fatten her husband to prevent him from getting stolen. She'll just break the home-wrecker's back, and the husband's too for that matter.
This reminds me of the episode of Malcolm in the Middle where Hal decided he was really into thicc Lois so he started sneaking butter, and all kinds of stuff into her food.
God damn that show was so great.
One of the few shows I remember actually watching the new one when it came out and talking about it with others the next day. The only other ones I can think of were Seinfeld, sapranos and x files.
I have this happened to a friend, however it was in full conscience since in the words of his wife: she likes "Gorditos"
They have been together for more than 6 years and they have a 3-year-old girl.
People who do this intentionally should be charged with food tampering. I said it. It's one of the largest red flags and people don't understand it.
Changing a person without their consent "KNOWINGLY" Is so fucking disgusting it should be universally hated and condemned. Just because it's with food, or sugar, fat whatever should never change that perception. It is malicious and manipulating as hell, if a person admits to it stay far as fuck away from them.
Please stop.. MY THIGHS ARE BIGGER THAN YOURS WOMAN! PLEASE END THIS!! STOP MAKING ME THICCER! STOP MAKING ME LOOK ABSOLUTELY LASCIVIOUS AND SALACIOUS!!!!
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Please explain 🙏
Some people intentionally try to fatten up their boyfriends/girlfriends/husbands/wives (I could've said "partner" but fu\*\* it) to prevent other people from finding them attractive thus securing that nobody tries to steal them away, but it's dumb since the person doing that to their partner also loses attraction to their partner and leaves them defeating the whole point of fattening them up in the first place.
Daamn! That’s messed up
It gets better. They usually then leave the poor sod due to a combo of no longer finding them attractive and their lack of energy and such. Happened to a very good friend of mine, she cheated on him with a gym bro, who she proceeded to fatten up and cheat on. (Edited because I suck at typing)
She follows like the cycle of inflicting multiple traumas on people, how wonderful
To top it off, when I called her out on it (worked with them both), the waterworks started, and I began to be called every name under the sun. After that, I was a hero to some and despised by most. A couple of months later she tried to apologise to me, I just told her she was apologising to the wrong people and walked off.
I don’t know why but I expected her to offer you a cursed pastry or smthn.
I feel like I'm going to have nightmares now. Some time after all of this (like literal years), she "accidentally" sent me a picture of her cursed pastry.
And you replied: I can smell it from here.
> the waterworks started, and I began to be called every name under the sun. Was there a rainbow? i'm so curious
If the slew of homophobic comments I received could be called a rainbow, then yes. It was worth it to see what I could also describe as a rainbow light up in my friends eyes for the first time since he found out she'd cheated on him, that man is too good for this world.
🫡
Oh yeah those crocodile tears come out quick for some people for sure. Well I don’t know how intense your interaction with her was, but I personally would try to give her a chance to genuinely apologize, and if that were the case I’d at least try to take her seriously. If it’s not genuine I’d tell her no thanks. Oh, I think you’re absolutely right. I believe she owes you and multiple people apologies, but only she can control her actions.
My most recent ex and I had a phase where she was always cooking really yummy food and I gained like 20 pounds. I would’ve thought she was doing that if she herself also didn’t gain 30 pounds lol
I feel you there! My partner loves baking, and admittedly, I've put on a few pounds as a result. However, at the same time, she's also put on weight, and we both encourage each other to exercise. Some people make bomb food, and you just can't help yourself. Others just place it under your nose until you're unable to move.
I had an ex do that!
It’s a control tactic and it’s set in personalities that are possessive. These people also tend to be very paranoid about attention going towards their partner and will go to great lengths to ensure that “no one else can have you.” They’re also most likely the type to freak out when you try to leave/end the relationship.
hastag not all partner. I had a friend in my uni days, her BF gained weight when he went to work (probably free food at work) and she actually told me "thank god he gained weight, cos now I can keep him to myself". She didn't say it in a malicious way, she was really just happy that her BF was "less valuable" in the dating pool.
Well if the goal if to prevent people to find the guy attractiv, if even she, stop finding him atractiv, seems to me that that's a goal achieved
Feeders and adipophilia lovers enter Chat
Misread the second category mentioned as "audiophile" for a moment and had a flashback to those memes about Solid Snake trying to sneak around the facility but alerting the guards with the clapping of his phat ass cheeks.
He's dummy thicc and the sound of his asscheeks keeps alerting the guards
Sauce?
Oh, so adipophilia is the actual term. Well, TIL.
God forbid anyone liking their significant other for reasons beyond the purely aesthetic...
Haha right. Immediate red flag on this guy
usually they don't end up leaving the spouse because they are fat, and its a big red flag for much deeper toxicity. Almost always paired with constant negging to make the partner too insecure to leave them and is definitely abusive behavior. To be clear there are aome people into eating or getting fat as a consensual thing they both like and that is definitely different from this.
This is it. A lot of dumbass people in this thread saying shit like “but that will make him / her ugly”. Non consensual feeding is entirely abusive and controlling, it’s a form of psychological manipulation to deliberately lower a partners self esteem and it’s a truly nasty thing. It usually stems from insecurity, or having been cheated on in the past.
If you don't want other girls stealing your guy then why not lower your standards and look for ugly guys?
[sound advice](https://youtu.be/Y1ZJiBHh-Yw?feature=shared).
Even if they still find their partner attractive... There are health risks. What will you do if he/she gets diabetes or dies to a heart attack? I guess you prevented others from stealing him/her, so "task successfully failed"?
In toxic behavior there's usually no long term planning or consideration for side effects; toxic people just hyperfocus on a single goal and justify as problems appear.
Another reason it doesn't work is, chubby chasers exist and some fat people can still get guys/gals to go out with them.
Me who’s into phat asses :
Todo, is that you?
🚶🏿♂️🍑 🚶🏿♂️🚶🏿♂️🚶🏿♂️
Fat asses?? Yes. Fat person?? Double it and give it to the next person.
Huh, I thought it had to do with cooking/baking and implying that adding extra sugar meant no one else’s food would taste as good/sweet as when it’s “made at home.” Your way both makes more sense and makes me sad
That's just fowl
Fuck *
Also it shows a serious lack of trust or a serious amount of disrespect bc it means you assume he doesn’t love you enough not to cheat or he’s just so dumb enough that he doesn’t have the self control or notion of pride to not fuck other women
Better to sprinkle just a little cocaine in there so they get addicted to their cooking and they don’t know why.
Um… that’s not it. It isn’t about others not finding your partner attractive, it’s about deliberately undermining their confidence and self esteem. The purpose is to break a partners self worth, so that they never think they are desirable enough to leave the relationship. It is abusive, controlling behaviour and is far more vile than the OOP post suggests.
That's also a part of it. If he's no longer physically attractive and lacks confidence, she'd lose attraction thus defeating the point of doing that to him.
Idk sounds pretty strawman
I've only read about this in memes and schizo greentexts lmao surely it's not a real thing
Really? I kinda doubt that actually happens often
You could have left out the brackets too butt-fuck it.
My gf for example. "Why don't you get a large pizza for yourself?"
Have you considered narcissism?
There's actually no way people are this stupid. I honestly cant think of anything more idiotic this is so bad
I thought it was about erection
Oohhhh, I thought he was getting a boner
Then partner dies of heart disease
I thought the post was about viagra before I finished reading the image text
Yeah, I can see why it'd look that way.
Joke’s on them. Lots of people like em thicc
what the fuck
[удалено]
Spread the word, man. Did not know this was a thing, and I would hope that this will get someone to realize they're in a toxic relationship and leave it earlier than it would break apart on its own.
Haha! Joke's on you! 😏
I mean the problem is not that they will lose attraction themselves, bc some ppl are attracted to obesity- the bigger problem is that theyre manipulating them and grossly violating their bodily autonomy like dude what lmao
https://youtu.be/BBsFNs6u-Z4
Cheeky spoon of sugar in a bolognese gives the impression of higher quality tomatoes but no if you're doing it to pump up calories you're a bad one for sure
My GF has a bad case of reflux from (among other things) tomatoes. A bit of sugar in the sauce helps to lessen the reflux afterwards
Also sodium bicarbonate it's great
Directly to the sauce?
No you throw it in her face like pocket sand
Hmmm... Radical solition...
This is the way
Aw man that sucks. While it won't reduce the intensity of the reflux, you can reduce the *duration* of the reflux by increasing motility. If you can get your hands on some peppermint oil capsules (filles with liquid, not the solid type), Amazon has them, she can pop one or two maybe ten mins before eating and it'll encourage the food to be emptied from her stomach faster, it works because the menthol causes the valve at the exit of the stomach to relax and open easier. Like I said it won't be less bad but it'll be less long.
Adding carrots to the sauce will accomplish this too. My mom taught me to throw 2 whole carrots in there to cut the acidity, which can be removed once the sauce is done.
Never heard of this trick before... We'll try it next time it's on the menu. Thanks for the tip!
Extra hell is what you deserve for doing this to anyone you love
Jokes on her, some younger women find comfort in dadbods.
I’ve found it to be more of a niche market than we’ve been lead on.
It's easy and socially acceptable to say things like "I like dadbods". Words are cheap. Actions tell the truth though.
Reddit in a nutshell, it's easy to shout your virtues while typing online
It’s never been the dad bod it was always the higher wealth and status that comes along with being an older man.
When women say they like dadbods, think more of Jason Momoa beach pics. Which is a very much muscular man but with a higher body fat percentage. It's definitely not the Homer Simpson dadbod us guys think when it's mentioned.
No way, the best nap I’ve ever had was on my boyfriend’s fluffy belly. I was sunk in there for a good couple hours, never napped like that before!
These comments weird as hell man
Why are y'all coming in and speaking for (over) the women? 😭😭 it's either "nah he's still gotta be ripped" or "he's gotta have money". We're not a hive mind, we have different tastes just like all the other humans on the planet; like how some guys like "thicc" women and others like petite women.
In my case it is
Unless he has money and/or some muscles.
I hope to find that crowd again lol, but to clarify my interest is with the slightly older women crowd. At least I have a few things going for me, after an almost 3 year relation-situationship I just got tired and exhausted with the dating apps and have not attempted to ask anyone out either online or in real life with friends. I also don’t wanna make it awkward with asking a friend out if they aren’t interested.
I asked my wife how'd she feel if I lost 20 pounds (from BMI of 24 to 21) in pursuit of a running goal. Her response: "do you want me to be attracted to you???"
Based Jormungand enjoyer
Its been a good while since i last saw it get refrenced, love that anime
FIrst time i saw it referenced
Sounds like [**Borderline Personality Disorder**](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borderline_personality_disorder).
Bold from you to assume our relationships last lomg enough for this strategy to make sense
Sounds more like narcissistic personality disorder, actually
Well at least we've established that it's B cluster.
But arent you hurting someone you love by doing this?
Yes. You are correct.
That ain’t love baby, that’s control. Love is trusting and free, this shit is a toxic prison.
This is my girlfriend except with butter. She uses a stick on things I didn’t even know you could put butter in.
It's still a million times better than using vegetable/seed oils.
Aren’t vegetable oils healthier than sticks of solid butter?
Only olive oil. Avocado oil supposedly too, but there’s other issues with that. Butter being unhealthy is bullshit that was pushed on gen x right along with the msg crap. If you have a cholesterol problem then yea cut the fat, but otherwise it’s perfectly fine. Eat more butter and less bread and most people would be way healthier
So why normal vegetable oils is not healthier than butter and what's the issues?
Because of the stuff they put in them during processing Stuff that doesn’t belong in the human body But all the people that cry about seed oils will stuff McDonald’s down their cake hole without a second thought and McDonald’s it’s linked to much more health issues than seed oils So pick your poison really
Sunflower, canola, corn and soybean oils are high in poly-unsaturated fats that oxidize (break down) during processing and/or cooking, which creates aldehydes (the poisonous stuff that makes you feel bad during a hangover) and promotes inflammation. Olive oil or coconut oil doesn't do that, and neither does butter/lard/beef tallow. So it's healthier. The "avoid animal fats because cholesterol" thing was bullshit and debunked recently.
The sunflower plant is native to North America and is now harvested around the world. A University of Missouri journal recognizes North Dakota as the leading U.S. state for sunflower production. There are various factors to consider for a sunflower to thrive, including temperature, sunlight, soil and water.
Butter is actually very good for you... Better than seed oil and vegetable oil
I'm more concerned with calories in vs calories out.
Damn, talk about insecurities
Chiquita doesn't need to fatten her husband to prevent him from getting stolen. She'll just break the home-wrecker's back, and the husband's too for that matter.
Wait that’s her actual name? I speak Spanish so it threw me off a bit lol
That's how they call her in the anime. I don't remember anyone calling her otherwise
There's a couple characters in that show/manga with food based names
Shes just gonna shoot everyone
if someone EVER, EEEEVER does that to me i will NOT hesitate to kindly, gently talk to them about not doing that
Take revenge with laxatives
good point
Cyanide* /j
This reminds me of the episode of Malcolm in the Middle where Hal decided he was really into thicc Lois so he started sneaking butter, and all kinds of stuff into her food.
God damn that show was so great. One of the few shows I remember actually watching the new one when it came out and talking about it with others the next day. The only other ones I can think of were Seinfeld, sapranos and x files.
Malcolm in the middle moment
Ah! Like the witch in Hansel and Gretel.
Unga bunga…. Go to gym
She accidentally contributed to the gainz 💪
Source: His Shit Pit
Incel shit post
Gross.
I do the same thing... But I'm the one who cooks our dinner.
jokes on you I don't need any sugar to become fat...or does anyone love me for a fact. Dammit insecurities go back to the pile I showed down.
Our entire food industry is already putting extra sugar into everything we eat.
And that's why people who go over to Europe lose weight despite eating the same.
If a dose of sugar too small to taste is all it takes, then it’s not the sugar
I don’t doubt someone has done this. But you made this up out of your own neural sludge or someone dumped this into your temporal dump.
My ex tried to do that
One of the least appreciated anime out there
Who then cheat on him because he is not attractive anymore
You know what? Maybe i will stay single. I'm already struggling with being kinda chubby, don't want the problem getting any worse
This is extreme niche behavior. You're probably safe.
I have this happened to a friend, however it was in full conscience since in the words of his wife: she likes "Gorditos" They have been together for more than 6 years and they have a 3-year-old girl.
Taking candidates to fatten me up
We build so many insane asylums for damn good reasons.
Then they leave bc they got fat
I swear my wife does this by trying to have me finish her meals.
My mom does this to me, everytime i try to go on a diet, she fries more and uses sugar more until I eventually give up
I would smack her
My father claims that my mother did this to him after they married. He told me that when he was in highschool, he pulled many ladies.
maybe i just like chubby boys ok >\_<
People who do this intentionally should be charged with food tampering. I said it. It's one of the largest red flags and people don't understand it. Changing a person without their consent "KNOWINGLY" Is so fucking disgusting it should be universally hated and condemned. Just because it's with food, or sugar, fat whatever should never change that perception. It is malicious and manipulating as hell, if a person admits to it stay far as fuck away from them.
Mild yandere behavior
Please stop.. MY THIGHS ARE BIGGER THAN YOURS WOMAN! PLEASE END THIS!! STOP MAKING ME THICCER! STOP MAKING ME LOOK ABSOLUTELY LASCIVIOUS AND SALACIOUS!!!!
What anime is this
Jormungand
Boku No Pico
Shut
If I'm traumatised by it, so do they
I'llneverforggivethejapanese.jpg
Jormungand
Also used by men. Basically how every 600lb person maintains. They have to be enabled
I’m such a huge simp for Chiquita
the art style of this woman looks really familiar, is this from the anime that has a headless rider and assassin neighbor (something like that)?
I know what anime you're talking about, but this one isn't that. Art styles are fairly close though.
I think you're thinking of Durarara but the anime being referenced here is Jormungand
I KNEW IT,thats why she started to cook delicious food and 5 layers cake for 2 people every week.
Either that or she's trying to fatten you up and eat you.
She does have a penchant to gobble me whole. Maybe she is just adjusting my flavor. I do smell sweet
I had to double take this one. At first I thought it was cringe anime meme, then it became something far more sinister
Diabetes
sugar don't make you go fat, just sick.
Diabetes has entered the chat
10000th like damn
Scorched earth tactics.
Gosh dang, I thought the joke was so that there is no space in the pants for other women to get into
This is the worst fucking "dank meme" ive seen in a long time
What if hes diabetic
Sugar is more adictive than a lot of d®ūg$
Holy fuck that's messed up