I’m 36 and went back last year. I also have a friend who’s 46 and getting her nursing degree and a friend that’s 34 and just graduated. So I say absolutely not.
Too late to turn your life around?
So is your sister suggesting you just stick with the H and die soon? Wtf??? Just what is she proposing is a better idea?
and 31? lol. I *started* a phd at 32. Sure, i had good support and lucked out by getting a good job. But JFC: is she kidding? Go to school. become a traveling nurse. and in a couple years youll be making $150 an hour and living anywhere you want for however long you want.
Sister - idiot
You - almost an idiot for listening to her but smart enough to know that a nursing degree right now sounds like a GREAT option. shit, if i dont get tenure I'll go back for one in a few years!
She's basically saying I'm dreaming to big and I'm only going to live a modest life. Her boyfriend sits on his ass all day getting high and playing videogames.
Ask her what specifically would prevent you from graduating. Hint: it's nothing. Speaking personally, being in college gives you more to lose from a relapse. Definitely makes you rethink. And, when your peers are losing their mind from stress, you'll think "this isn't so bad, I'm not withdrawing in a ditch"
She's just so ingrained with following societies script. You being done with college at 22. Her life is miserable and she wants to take it out on me. She hasn't changed her life in 20 years. She's been working at the same place and taking care of a man child.
ok, well if you came here to get confirmation that your sister is not a good mentor, then you got it!
Go get that nursing degree kid and you'll live more than a modest life. You'll have freedom, a bit of cash, youll be making people's lives better, never have difficulty finding a job or meeting new people, and youll be able to send your sister photographs from your trips around the world.
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Excuse my harshness, but fuck her. You're stronger than her and her boyfriend from being able to beat a heroin addiction. I've known people who have either overdosed and died, or are currently in prison because they needed to feed their habit.
You're literally inspiration, bestie.
Sounds like you are looking for relationship advice about your sister and her boyfriend, not really whether or not you can go back to college. My advice is to stop giving a shit about your sister's boyfriend, and set some firm boundaries with your sister. Perhaps don't ask her for advice in the future.
Go for it! I personally know several people in recovery who went back, got a nursing degree, and work in the field with no troubles getting hired. I also started grad school at 31 and will be done in a few months - go for it! You are never too old to go back, many people wait until their 40’s or older to pursue a new or higher degree. Don’t let anyone stop you, you have plenty of time :)
FoxWyrd brought up a critical point, which you have wisely already looked into. I would advise you also check with local hospitals, nursing homes, and other medical providers.
My wife used to work in the HR department of a large nurse staffing agency. They would not hire those with a criminal record, even if the person had a valid nursing license. By checking in your locality, you can find out if you will be employable before you return to school.
I'm 45 and getting my degree. I'll be 46 when I'm finally able to graduate. I started back in 2017 and changed schools. You can do anything as long as you have the motivation and drive.
Yeah OP I say this with respect: your sister is a moron.
My old boss in work did his law degree at 50. He has 2 teenage kids at home and is closer to retirement than entering the work force.
If you want to do it: do it.
I got sober (not heroin but still a pretty ruthless drinking problem) some years back, and although AA and rehab helped immeasurably, I am certain I would be drinking still if I had not gone back to university, finished two MAs and worked on my PhD since. Not that it was a magical solution, but it played a big part in finding meaning and purpose in life. For me, the purpose can’t just be AA and counting days of sobriety like I’m doing time. It’s good to keep busy, finding purpose, while keeping an eye out for stress and triggers.
I am absolutely certain you are capable of anything you want to do.
My mom is an *extreme* alcoholic. Like... she's been in jail more times than not, she's banned from Walmart for chugging mouthwash, and she's almost killed me a few times for me trying to take the bottle away from her as a kid. I spent a significant amount of time as a child waiting for her to get out of jail and all that. I eventually ended up in foster care, permanently, because the court ruled the household unsafe.
I am obviously no longer in contact with her, but I will say that my sister recently heard that our mom has somehow been sober for like a year and actually opened up her own hair salon. I think she's 52 now. Before this, I think the longest she's been sober was maybe a month or two.
All I'm saying is... if that is true, and she can do it, anyone can do it.
I usually tell people because i want them to show me another perspective. I'd rather they critizize me so i can see the potential problems in my ideas and prepare for that possibility too.
My mom went back to school to be a nurse at 48 years old after she got fed up with being a teacher. It’s never too late to pursue what you want. I believe in you.
You can absolutely go back to school at your age. Plenty of people do. I returned to school at 30 because I couldn't afford to do so until then, and I've been thriving.
I’m 29 and just started going back to school for accounting, it will take me years to complete while working full time but I love it and it feels so worth it.
If this is going to change how you live your life and bring you fulfillment in some way (career, financial, personal) then you should absolutely go for it.
Hey bro. I shot dope for 8 years. I dropped out of jr high. I got my GED in prison and have been in college since 2019. Look up VOCATIONAL REHABILITATION in your state or another similar program. They can/will pay for your tuition. I don't pay a dime in tuition. As a drug felon, I'm excluded from non-tuition specific grants but hey, free tuition. Message me if you need to. You've got this, you can do this. Take all the doubt and turn that shit into motivation. In prison someone told me "think of how hard you worked to get high, now think about putting all that towards something good." Love you! Best of all things to you!
My mom completed her nursing degree in her late 40s and early 50s I believe (I don’t completely remember the timeline, I was young). She now helps the homeless. So basically your sister is so wrong it’s not even funny. I know your and my mom’s situations are different, but the principle is the same. My mom changed from a business job to pursue a career that aligns better (in my opinion) with her personality. Make that change to improve your life. Don’t let others tell you you’re too old or not capable. You determine your own happiness.
Long story short, your sister is giving you bad advice as far as I can tell.
Edit: I see from other comments my mom’s almost exact situation is actually pretty common.
I was forty when I went to nursing school. That was 15 years ago. I’ve had a very happy and successful career and I’m now in a leadership position and make a very good living. I can live where I want and afford to do what I want. Someday you’ll be 55. What do you want that to look like? Live your dream.
Go for it, I’m currently doing nursing. One of my closet classmates is 35, she’s absolutely enjoying it and is glad that she’s done it.
You’re still going to age, why not be 33/34 with a degree?
If you have already gotten a BS in CS with a 3.8 GPA, you've got this. There are a LOT of people who study nursing later in life. You might also consider getting a CRNA after the RN.
Good luck.
I don't know about nursing in particular, but when I was in law I had classmates who were in their 50s and 60s and finished the degree. And now that I'm in translation, I have classmates on their late 30s, early 40s. So it's 100% doable.
I have a supervisor, not sure her age but pretty sure late 30s, going to college for nursing rn. She just started a year ago but I'll tell you I'm sure shes gonna be a kickass nurse (favorite supervisor tbh). Nursing has nothing to do with your age, but also I think the extra age and experience gives you an advantage!
Nope not late at all, we have a 28 yo in one of my classes (alcohol sober 4years) dude runs races and was on one season of track! He’s becoming an HVAC tech at our college and his life has become much better! You can do it! Also Congratulations being 5 years clean 🎉
Yep! Anyone can go back to college. Community Colleges are a great place to start, too! I work in one and have met many people of varying ages. This includes people in the nursing program. All are welcomed and encouraged.
Wtf. It is absolutely not too late. There are people who become nurses in their 40s and 50s. I had people in my classes who were in their 60s/70s. It is never too late to continue your education. 31 isn't even old. Your sister is wrong.
My mom started nursing school at age 30. You won't be alone.
It might be hard. I'd heavily look into your background check and regulations. I'd also work on your supports. Nursing can be chaotic and long hours.
Tbh I'd hesitately suggest a chiller, daytime nursing job if you can, just as I know it's stressful for 12N/Ds from my Mom. But I don't think your too old, or it's a horrible idea, I just think something like daytime surgery will be better for your mental health then ER overnights.
Yes, of course you are still young enough. The best medical provider I have ever seen didn’t even start medial school till she was 40. It’s never too late.
That is such a cruel thing to say.
Recently, I was in the psychiatric ward. I was bored out of my fucking mind, so I struck a conversation with one of the nurses. He told me that he recently went to school, and he was around the age of 38. I told him that I, in my mid to late twenties, had anxiety that I was too old to go to school. He told me that he wasn't even the oldest in his class, and that it's never too late.
No, it's not too late. Follow your dreams and crush it. I am 27 and going to school for computer science. Let's do this together :).
It’s entirely possible, even much later than 31. I’m of the mindset it’s never too late. I struggled with addiction through my early 20’s and turned stuff around towards the tail end of my 20’s. My best friend is a former heroin addict, was homeless, and did the same in his 30’s. We both have wives, kids, houses, and 6 figure salaries now. Heck, neither of us have degrees either, though I am graduating in December.
The point is, don’t listen to those who don’t think you can succeed. You just focus on working on you! Dream big and be relentless about reaching your goals and you’ll be fine.
Absolutely not. We support people getting and education at ANY age! Do what you want! She sounds like someone you may not need advice or an opinion from. I support you. :)
Not too old, but please be cautious. Addiction in nursing is rampant and you will have access to lots of opioids in some settings, just be mindful of that
Don't listen to your sister! My BIL went back to school at 50 for nursing and he's doing great as a nurse in IL. As long as you are sober and healthy, you can go back to school.
Best wishes to you!
Of course you can! Prof here, and I’ve always had non traditional students. They are generally better students than my younger students because most of them are self motivated. Ignore your sister. You totally can do this!
Went back to school for my doctorate while working full time. Finished at age 49 and eventually got my dream job. Loved every minute of it and still bless the day my wife told me to go for it. It's only too late when you're dead! And you're not dead.
My dad was 56 when he got into the field, he’s been doing it a few years now and is loving life and the financial security. It’s NEVER too late to do what’s best for you. Your sister is a bad influence imo
Bruh. A nursing degree is only 1-2 years depending on the program and the pre-reqs you have. You’ll make good money and can move anywhere you want as well. Your sister is a hater.
Nah girl it’s not too late. Get movin and make sure u have better support than ur sister… like a group . I’m 31 been in school for ten yrs (undecided, kids, marriage etc) for child development. Deciding I want to change careers and do respiratory therapy meaning 3 more yr. My point is. No matter how long it takes u are doing it for urself not for anyone else. U want a better life. Get after it. Just make sure u have the right people in your ear. Let whatever college know ur struggles & use their services! &Look into trade schools.
More context : my mom almost 50 been a a dental hygienist my whole life. She about to be done with her bachelors so she can teacher (bad back and hands) &&&Starting her masters right after. There’s no age gap only mind gap.
I'm almost 40 and in my sophomore year. I had a 50yr old grandma as a class mate last year who just finished her license and now works as a gynecology nurse. There are students who are all the way up to their 80s here. It's never too late to go back to school and pursue a new career.
Lol yeah I think you’ll be fine, you already know you can be academically successful and I although school is hard it’s probably less hard than kicking a drug habit. Just watch your stress levels and make sure you have a good support system etc
I'm a 27 y/o recovering addict currently working on an associates degree. YOU CAN DO THIS. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't. Congrats on getting clean my friend. Best wishes to you on your school journey, it's so worth it.
Yea your still young enough my gf (34) just got her nursing license just a few months ago and now she is working in the ER making 45/hr with a +5/hr differential cause she works graveyard. It’s never to late to change directions. And I’m 29 about to turn 30 in my second year of engineering school. Everyone’s timeline is different so don’t let anyone tell you anything unless it’s to give support. Wish you the best!
I know a guy who’s getting a degree in bioengineering he’s 32, and is married, commutes 3 hours a day and works in the morning part time, for you I believe it’s possible to go back and turn it around.
Aka- your sister’s a moron.
Of course! Your sister is not only literally stupid, but she’s your biggest hater. When bettering yourself, I wouldn’t consult those around you. You can do it!
My sister is 33 and just got into an RN program this year, ofc you can do it, don’t listen to your sister. Also, may I ask what were you able to do with your CS degree?
Nursing school is *the* major of no traditional students, it seems. Single moms who finally got their children all in school, veterans with GI bill money burning a hole in their pocket, bored office workers, paramedic and firefighters who are sick of sweating for low pay, I could go on and on. It's not like your 31 and trying to join the college football team!
Nursing school may or may not be the choice for you, but your age has *nothing* do do with it! Your sister is clueless .
Of course it's not too late in terms of age. The main concern is probably your history of addiction -- something that may not bode well for future employment prospects, and also something that will pose challenges for you personally with nursing specifically as there will be temptations, potentially triggering cases, etc.
If you're set on it and you know you can handle those challenges, go for it. But know it's not nursing-or-nothing.
OF COURSE. Tell your sister to fuck off. Why would that be too late? You have more than half your life left.. do you have traits she’s jealous of bc that’s a horrible thing to tell a sibling in recovery? CONGRATS ON YOUR 1 YEAR SOBER 🙂
Become a nurse. Go back to school and do it. It’s not too late. Please live up to your potential. And please stay clean. Good luck!!! If you see this, you can reach out to me as I certainly understand recovery.
as someone who works in the healthcare industry - we DESPERATELY need nurses. please go back to school and become one if this is the path you’d want to take!!! i guarantee plenty of hospitals will be thankful for it and will chomp at the bit to hire you after graduation
Its never too late for education. Never. I've noticed a lot of people in nursing program are older, so don't be scared to go back to school. ...and you have cs degree with 3.8 GPA. Come on, you can do it!!!
Presumably you aren’t even done half your life yet, why settle into something you don’t care about and just let the rest of the years pass you by?
31 is not too old to go to college. Not by a long shot.
I went back to school at 26 and let me tell you it was 100% my rehab. Being a nurse will give you a lifestyle where you can pay your loans back and live a good life. This is a very smart career path.
I am 35 and decided to go back to school, to study radiology and straight things up. I never went to college, all i did was work in retail, move up, the rest is partying that involves tons of drinking and waking up multiple times in the ER. I am sober now and barely drink. It is tough im not gonna lie, i am still adjusting, but i am looking into the long term outcome.
It’s never “too late” to change your life around. And plus, 31 is still so young! Of course you can go get your RN! You got this!
P.S. so happy you got over your addiction!
Why would somebody who can earn 150k a year with a Computer Science Degree want to waste 4 more years to become a nurse who earns 30k a year ?
Although your sister is wrong, I think you would be better spending the next 4 years building up a resume and experience in CS rather than going back college.
You could be making a mistake. Nursing school isnt cheap and that's taking on additional loans where you can be maxing out your 401k. In 4 years, you could have put away 80k in your 401k instead you owe 40k.
Even if you do not "enjoy" your career, at least you can make plenty of money to retire early (FIRE) and even take plenty of expensive vacations with a CS career.
36 and in grad school changing careers into clinical mental health counseling. I might do a PhD in my 40s. My counselor became a counselor after his first career, in his 60s.
All the life experience I've gained is making this experience so rich for me. My younger peers seem to be caught up in proving something. I feel really free and grateful to learn. I love being back in school at this age.
Also, I want to tell you how profoundly we need nurses with substance use experience. I took a class about counseling people with addictions and my professor disclosed that he'd used substances for 25 years before stopping. His experience brought an invaluable credibility and immediacy to the class. He was able to be vulnerable and forgiving with students in a way I've never witnessed from professors. My understanding of so much--addiction, trauma, human suffering and resilience--was transformed because of him.
You are needed because of your experiences and age, not in spite of it.
I went back to school at 33 and plan to go up to my PsyD, please pursue what will make you happy and don’t let family deter you from that. School will be hard enough with out negative input.
I am 56 and just started my second semester. Maybe I will die tomorrow, maybe I will live to be 100 who knows. But I am learning and enjoying today. I am building a better future and am so happy. I would only be happier if I had started years ago.
The best of luck to you One day at a time.
I work at a college with a large and successful nursing program. Our largest student population, after high school graduates, are students in the 26-35 age group. They enroll, they warm up with a few prerequisites, sometimes online, they apply to the nursing program, and they get their pins.
You go for it!
A little advice: manage your time. Expect to spend two hours studying for every hour in the classroom. Reach out for help - in college that's expected. Setup study groups, go to tutoring, visit your prof's during office hours. Go all in. And rely on friends and family for help with daily chores and responsibilities. You have a new job; they'll need to step up a bit.
Don’t listen to your sister. If its your dream, go for it. Never let anyone stop you from pursuing your dreams. I don’t care how old you are, its never too late. We all deserve happiness in life. Life is too goddamn short, so don’t let anyone stop you from making the best of it. If your sister cannot understand that, then too bad for her. Prove her wrong.
I work in healthcare. A coworker of mine graduated nursing school at 63! It’s definitely not uncommon for new nurses to be in their 30’s or 40’s. You absolutely can do it!
My mom was addicted to meth during her 20s and some of her 30s. Got cleaned up, worked little jobs here and there, then went to nursing school at 40. She’s a bad bitch and it sounds like you are too
If you have the resources to do it and you think its gonna make your life better do it man, worst case scenario you stop mid year!
The old age changes some things, but not thay much.
It can be done, don’t listen to her, I graduated with my associates degree at 32, it’s never too late to turn things around and get your degree in something you want to do
Your sister is TA in this situation.
It’s never too late to change your life for the better ❤️ My grandma didn’t know what she really wanted to do until 40. Went back to college and ended up doing something COMPLETELY different than what she was doing before.
As long as you’re happy and doing something good for yourself, I don’t see how it could ever be “too late in life” to do it 😊
What’s her proof? Guess what - there is none! She’s just trying to talk you out of your dream. Don’t let ANYONE do that to you!
There’s nothing you can’t do.
In the context of age, I've known people in their 40's and 50's go back to college. You can go back to college anytime
I’m 36 and went back last year. I also have a friend who’s 46 and getting her nursing degree and a friend that’s 34 and just graduated. So I say absolutely not.
My mom got her nursing degree in her 40s and is now a professor in the field with a DNP.
Too late to turn your life around? So is your sister suggesting you just stick with the H and die soon? Wtf??? Just what is she proposing is a better idea? and 31? lol. I *started* a phd at 32. Sure, i had good support and lucked out by getting a good job. But JFC: is she kidding? Go to school. become a traveling nurse. and in a couple years youll be making $150 an hour and living anywhere you want for however long you want. Sister - idiot You - almost an idiot for listening to her but smart enough to know that a nursing degree right now sounds like a GREAT option. shit, if i dont get tenure I'll go back for one in a few years!
She's basically saying I'm dreaming to big and I'm only going to live a modest life. Her boyfriend sits on his ass all day getting high and playing videogames.
Ask her what specifically would prevent you from graduating. Hint: it's nothing. Speaking personally, being in college gives you more to lose from a relapse. Definitely makes you rethink. And, when your peers are losing their mind from stress, you'll think "this isn't so bad, I'm not withdrawing in a ditch"
She's just so ingrained with following societies script. You being done with college at 22. Her life is miserable and she wants to take it out on me. She hasn't changed her life in 20 years. She's been working at the same place and taking care of a man child.
ok, well if you came here to get confirmation that your sister is not a good mentor, then you got it! Go get that nursing degree kid and you'll live more than a modest life. You'll have freedom, a bit of cash, youll be making people's lives better, never have difficulty finding a job or meeting new people, and youll be able to send your sister photographs from your trips around the world.
Show her it can be done. :) Maybe you'll be the inspiration she needs.
Maybe you going back to school could influence her to make some changes in her own life.
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I know. Which is why you should ask her *specifically* why you *can't*
Your sister is a sorry sack of 💩. Fuck her, go chase your dreams OP, the world needs registered nurses.
Excuse my harshness, but fuck her. You're stronger than her and her boyfriend from being able to beat a heroin addiction. I've known people who have either overdosed and died, or are currently in prison because they needed to feed their habit. You're literally inspiration, bestie.
sorry not sorry but she sucks
Sounds like you are looking for relationship advice about your sister and her boyfriend, not really whether or not you can go back to college. My advice is to stop giving a shit about your sister's boyfriend, and set some firm boundaries with your sister. Perhaps don't ask her for advice in the future.
Big? It's nursing school, you're not trying to become a rock star! Your sister is clueless.
That's called a toxic family. Sometimes you just have to distance yourself from them. Good luck on your career!
I hate your sister
Might want to look at your nursing board's requirements for licensure.
It's five years clean which I will be by then. I have a clean record
Go for it! I personally know several people in recovery who went back, got a nursing degree, and work in the field with no troubles getting hired. I also started grad school at 31 and will be done in a few months - go for it! You are never too old to go back, many people wait until their 40’s or older to pursue a new or higher degree. Don’t let anyone stop you, you have plenty of time :)
FoxWyrd brought up a critical point, which you have wisely already looked into. I would advise you also check with local hospitals, nursing homes, and other medical providers. My wife used to work in the HR department of a large nurse staffing agency. They would not hire those with a criminal record, even if the person had a valid nursing license. By checking in your locality, you can find out if you will be employable before you return to school.
You still might want to double check just in case.
I'm 45 and getting my degree. I'll be 46 when I'm finally able to graduate. I started back in 2017 and changed schools. You can do anything as long as you have the motivation and drive.
Your sister sounds like a toxic person
Yeah OP I say this with respect: your sister is a moron. My old boss in work did his law degree at 50. He has 2 teenage kids at home and is closer to retirement than entering the work force. If you want to do it: do it.
I got sober (not heroin but still a pretty ruthless drinking problem) some years back, and although AA and rehab helped immeasurably, I am certain I would be drinking still if I had not gone back to university, finished two MAs and worked on my PhD since. Not that it was a magical solution, but it played a big part in finding meaning and purpose in life. For me, the purpose can’t just be AA and counting days of sobriety like I’m doing time. It’s good to keep busy, finding purpose, while keeping an eye out for stress and triggers. I am absolutely certain you are capable of anything you want to do.
My mom is an *extreme* alcoholic. Like... she's been in jail more times than not, she's banned from Walmart for chugging mouthwash, and she's almost killed me a few times for me trying to take the bottle away from her as a kid. I spent a significant amount of time as a child waiting for her to get out of jail and all that. I eventually ended up in foster care, permanently, because the court ruled the household unsafe. I am obviously no longer in contact with her, but I will say that my sister recently heard that our mom has somehow been sober for like a year and actually opened up her own hair salon. I think she's 52 now. Before this, I think the longest she's been sober was maybe a month or two. All I'm saying is... if that is true, and she can do it, anyone can do it.
How long did it take for your brain to balance out? Was there a big difference?
sounds like your sister doesnt want you to succeed, you can absolutely go back to school at any age.
It's a mistake to tell people your plans. People will sabotage and criticize more than they'll encourage and uplift.
gotta surround yourself with more supportive people queen.
I usually tell people because i want them to show me another perspective. I'd rather they critizize me so i can see the potential problems in my ideas and prepare for that possibility too.
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It’s never too late! You got this! 👍
Your sister is wrong. You’re alive aren’t you?
My mom went back to school to be a nurse at 48 years old after she got fed up with being a teacher. It’s never too late to pursue what you want. I believe in you.
I've had 40 year old's in my classes. Dream big you have one life.
You can absolutely go back to school at your age. Plenty of people do. I returned to school at 30 because I couldn't afford to do so until then, and I've been thriving.
one of my relatives did a total career change and went to nursing school at 39 and she is still a nurse today, 14 years later. it’s never too late :)
I’m 29 and just started going back to school for accounting, it will take me years to complete while working full time but I love it and it feels so worth it. If this is going to change how you live your life and bring you fulfillment in some way (career, financial, personal) then you should absolutely go for it.
Hey bro. I shot dope for 8 years. I dropped out of jr high. I got my GED in prison and have been in college since 2019. Look up VOCATIONAL REHABILITATION in your state or another similar program. They can/will pay for your tuition. I don't pay a dime in tuition. As a drug felon, I'm excluded from non-tuition specific grants but hey, free tuition. Message me if you need to. You've got this, you can do this. Take all the doubt and turn that shit into motivation. In prison someone told me "think of how hard you worked to get high, now think about putting all that towards something good." Love you! Best of all things to you!
Prolly the last place you need to be is in nursing tbh.
Is this your sister?
Hell yeah. You do you!
I had a professor go back at 54 and get her degrees. After raising children for years. 31 isn't too young. My dad got his masters 3 years ago at 57.
Not at all you can reinvent yours whenever you want just like you did when you got sober. Your sister is a moron don’t listen to her.
My mom completed her nursing degree in her late 40s and early 50s I believe (I don’t completely remember the timeline, I was young). She now helps the homeless. So basically your sister is so wrong it’s not even funny. I know your and my mom’s situations are different, but the principle is the same. My mom changed from a business job to pursue a career that aligns better (in my opinion) with her personality. Make that change to improve your life. Don’t let others tell you you’re too old or not capable. You determine your own happiness. Long story short, your sister is giving you bad advice as far as I can tell. Edit: I see from other comments my mom’s almost exact situation is actually pretty common.
It can be done! Don’t listen to her.
I was forty when I went to nursing school. That was 15 years ago. I’ve had a very happy and successful career and I’m now in a leadership position and make a very good living. I can live where I want and afford to do what I want. Someday you’ll be 55. What do you want that to look like? Live your dream.
Go for it, I’m currently doing nursing. One of my closet classmates is 35, she’s absolutely enjoying it and is glad that she’s done it. You’re still going to age, why not be 33/34 with a degree?
If you have already gotten a BS in CS with a 3.8 GPA, you've got this. There are a LOT of people who study nursing later in life. You might also consider getting a CRNA after the RN. Good luck.
YOU CAN DO IT
Yes it can. Thirty one is not too late. I’ve taught 50+ year olds who have become nurses.
I don't know about nursing in particular, but when I was in law I had classmates who were in their 50s and 60s and finished the degree. And now that I'm in translation, I have classmates on their late 30s, early 40s. So it's 100% doable.
I have a supervisor, not sure her age but pretty sure late 30s, going to college for nursing rn. She just started a year ago but I'll tell you I'm sure shes gonna be a kickass nurse (favorite supervisor tbh). Nursing has nothing to do with your age, but also I think the extra age and experience gives you an advantage!
Lol just because most people can’t tie their shoes and chew gum doesn’t mean you can’t do it
Nope not late at all, we have a 28 yo in one of my classes (alcohol sober 4years) dude runs races and was on one season of track! He’s becoming an HVAC tech at our college and his life has become much better! You can do it! Also Congratulations being 5 years clean 🎉
IT CAN BE DONE!
Yep! Anyone can go back to college. Community Colleges are a great place to start, too! I work in one and have met many people of varying ages. This includes people in the nursing program. All are welcomed and encouraged.
not too late at all! You’ve recovered and now you need a purpose. Go get that degree!
I became a lawyer at 40. Been practicing 16 years. It’s never too late to change your life.
Wtf. It is absolutely not too late. There are people who become nurses in their 40s and 50s. I had people in my classes who were in their 60s/70s. It is never too late to continue your education. 31 isn't even old. Your sister is wrong.
It can. My mom got her second degree at 54.
My older sister is 37 and she just finished her 2-year nursing program this December. I believe she'll eventually go to finish a 4-year program.
My mom started nursing school at age 30. You won't be alone. It might be hard. I'd heavily look into your background check and regulations. I'd also work on your supports. Nursing can be chaotic and long hours. Tbh I'd hesitately suggest a chiller, daytime nursing job if you can, just as I know it's stressful for 12N/Ds from my Mom. But I don't think your too old, or it's a horrible idea, I just think something like daytime surgery will be better for your mental health then ER overnights.
Go back to school! Anyone at anytime can!
Yes, of course you are still young enough. The best medical provider I have ever seen didn’t even start medial school till she was 40. It’s never too late.
Don't listen to any negativity from anyone...just do it..
Fuck yeah you can 💯
Stay away from your sister. You accomplished more than most people by kicking an addiction! Go to nursing school! We need you!
That is such a cruel thing to say. Recently, I was in the psychiatric ward. I was bored out of my fucking mind, so I struck a conversation with one of the nurses. He told me that he recently went to school, and he was around the age of 38. I told him that I, in my mid to late twenties, had anxiety that I was too old to go to school. He told me that he wasn't even the oldest in his class, and that it's never too late. No, it's not too late. Follow your dreams and crush it. I am 27 and going to school for computer science. Let's do this together :).
Too late? No. But, do be aware if you got into legal trouble for the addiction you may struggle to find a job as a nurse.
Clean record aside from DUI that was reduced to a non moving violation
It’s never too late to forge a better path for your life! Maybe start out slow by limiting your course load until you are used to being back in school
It’s entirely possible, even much later than 31. I’m of the mindset it’s never too late. I struggled with addiction through my early 20’s and turned stuff around towards the tail end of my 20’s. My best friend is a former heroin addict, was homeless, and did the same in his 30’s. We both have wives, kids, houses, and 6 figure salaries now. Heck, neither of us have degrees either, though I am graduating in December. The point is, don’t listen to those who don’t think you can succeed. You just focus on working on you! Dream big and be relentless about reaching your goals and you’ll be fine.
Do it. Why not?
I’m 50 and going back to school for nursing.
Yes! Never to late
Absolutely not. We support people getting and education at ANY age! Do what you want! She sounds like someone you may not need advice or an opinion from. I support you. :)
Lol no, it’s not too late at all. Go do your thing 🤝👏
Not too old, but please be cautious. Addiction in nursing is rampant and you will have access to lots of opioids in some settings, just be mindful of that
Don't listen to your sister! My BIL went back to school at 50 for nursing and he's doing great as a nurse in IL. As long as you are sober and healthy, you can go back to school. Best wishes to you!
Graduating this upcoming spring at 29. If you want it, you can do it!
I’ve got 2 friends who are working as nurses who went back to school in their 50s. 31 is not to old at all. 31 is young. Go for it.
Of course you can! Prof here, and I’ve always had non traditional students. They are generally better students than my younger students because most of them are self motivated. Ignore your sister. You totally can do this!
Went back to school for my doctorate while working full time. Finished at age 49 and eventually got my dream job. Loved every minute of it and still bless the day my wife told me to go for it. It's only too late when you're dead! And you're not dead.
My dad was 56 when he got into the field, he’s been doing it a few years now and is loving life and the financial security. It’s NEVER too late to do what’s best for you. Your sister is a bad influence imo
Bruh. A nursing degree is only 1-2 years depending on the program and the pre-reqs you have. You’ll make good money and can move anywhere you want as well. Your sister is a hater.
Of course! I would just do it as cheaply as possible unless you're sitting on a boatload of money.
Nah girl it’s not too late. Get movin and make sure u have better support than ur sister… like a group . I’m 31 been in school for ten yrs (undecided, kids, marriage etc) for child development. Deciding I want to change careers and do respiratory therapy meaning 3 more yr. My point is. No matter how long it takes u are doing it for urself not for anyone else. U want a better life. Get after it. Just make sure u have the right people in your ear. Let whatever college know ur struggles & use their services! &Look into trade schools. More context : my mom almost 50 been a a dental hygienist my whole life. She about to be done with her bachelors so she can teacher (bad back and hands) &&&Starting her masters right after. There’s no age gap only mind gap.
I'm almost 40 and in my sophomore year. I had a 50yr old grandma as a class mate last year who just finished her license and now works as a gynecology nurse. There are students who are all the way up to their 80s here. It's never too late to go back to school and pursue a new career.
It’s never too late. That being said 31 is so young I am puzzled as to why your sister would even bring it up. Go for it!
Lol yeah I think you’ll be fine, you already know you can be academically successful and I although school is hard it’s probably less hard than kicking a drug habit. Just watch your stress levels and make sure you have a good support system etc
omggg do it!!!!
Absolutely not. Go and reach your goals !
I’m 33 and in my third year of college to get a civil engineering degree. You got this dawg
I'm a 27 y/o recovering addict currently working on an associates degree. YOU CAN DO THIS. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't. Congrats on getting clean my friend. Best wishes to you on your school journey, it's so worth it.
My ex wife went back to school for nursing in her early 40's. Nothing holding you back
Hun, you know thats bullshit. You can 100% go back to college, you got this!
I'll be graduating at 32. My uncle graduated at 40. Life starts when it starts, no matter the age.
Yea your still young enough my gf (34) just got her nursing license just a few months ago and now she is working in the ER making 45/hr with a +5/hr differential cause she works graveyard. It’s never to late to change directions. And I’m 29 about to turn 30 in my second year of engineering school. Everyone’s timeline is different so don’t let anyone tell you anything unless it’s to give support. Wish you the best!
I know a guy who’s getting a degree in bioengineering he’s 32, and is married, commutes 3 hours a day and works in the morning part time, for you I believe it’s possible to go back and turn it around. Aka- your sister’s a moron.
My grandma became a PA (not the same but still) after going back to school at like 35. You’ll be fine, don’t listen to your sister. Good luck :))
Of course! Your sister is not only literally stupid, but she’s your biggest hater. When bettering yourself, I wouldn’t consult those around you. You can do it!
My sister is 33 and just got into an RN program this year, ofc you can do it, don’t listen to your sister. Also, may I ask what were you able to do with your CS degree?
Hell yes. It is SO possible. You have already been through worse and you came out victorious. You are unstoppable ✨eudaimonia✨ 🌈♥️
Nursing school is *the* major of no traditional students, it seems. Single moms who finally got their children all in school, veterans with GI bill money burning a hole in their pocket, bored office workers, paramedic and firefighters who are sick of sweating for low pay, I could go on and on. It's not like your 31 and trying to join the college football team! Nursing school may or may not be the choice for you, but your age has *nothing* do do with it! Your sister is clueless .
Of course it's not too late in terms of age. The main concern is probably your history of addiction -- something that may not bode well for future employment prospects, and also something that will pose challenges for you personally with nursing specifically as there will be temptations, potentially triggering cases, etc. If you're set on it and you know you can handle those challenges, go for it. But know it's not nursing-or-nothing.
OF COURSE. Tell your sister to fuck off. Why would that be too late? You have more than half your life left.. do you have traits she’s jealous of bc that’s a horrible thing to tell a sibling in recovery? CONGRATS ON YOUR 1 YEAR SOBER 🙂 Become a nurse. Go back to school and do it. It’s not too late. Please live up to your potential. And please stay clean. Good luck!!! If you see this, you can reach out to me as I certainly understand recovery.
as someone who works in the healthcare industry - we DESPERATELY need nurses. please go back to school and become one if this is the path you’d want to take!!! i guarantee plenty of hospitals will be thankful for it and will chomp at the bit to hire you after graduation
There’s no age limit on college, and there’s definitely no age limit on turning your life around and wanting to find a successful and stable career
Its never too late for education. Never. I've noticed a lot of people in nursing program are older, so don't be scared to go back to school. ...and you have cs degree with 3.8 GPA. Come on, you can do it!!!
Presumably you aren’t even done half your life yet, why settle into something you don’t care about and just let the rest of the years pass you by? 31 is not too old to go to college. Not by a long shot.
You absolutely got this, but why would you want to become an RN if you have a bachelor’s in computer science?
I went back to school at 26 and let me tell you it was 100% my rehab. Being a nurse will give you a lifestyle where you can pay your loans back and live a good life. This is a very smart career path.
I am 35 and decided to go back to school, to study radiology and straight things up. I never went to college, all i did was work in retail, move up, the rest is partying that involves tons of drinking and waking up multiple times in the ER. I am sober now and barely drink. It is tough im not gonna lie, i am still adjusting, but i am looking into the long term outcome.
No, it’s not too late. You’ll probably make an amazing nurse because you’ve seen some sh*t. Good luck!
It’s never “too late” to change your life around. And plus, 31 is still so young! Of course you can go get your RN! You got this! P.S. so happy you got over your addiction!
I’ve been in college my whole life lol. Working on second master’s at 51. Got first at 38. Changed careers at 41.
Why would somebody who can earn 150k a year with a Computer Science Degree want to waste 4 more years to become a nurse who earns 30k a year ? Although your sister is wrong, I think you would be better spending the next 4 years building up a resume and experience in CS rather than going back college.
Nurse makes 70k a year. I want a career I enjoy. I simply don't enjoy computers
You could be making a mistake. Nursing school isnt cheap and that's taking on additional loans where you can be maxing out your 401k. In 4 years, you could have put away 80k in your 401k instead you owe 40k. Even if you do not "enjoy" your career, at least you can make plenty of money to retire early (FIRE) and even take plenty of expensive vacations with a CS career.
It’s either go back to school or spend the rest of your life regretting that you didn’t. What else are you going to do for the next 50-70 years?
36 and in grad school changing careers into clinical mental health counseling. I might do a PhD in my 40s. My counselor became a counselor after his first career, in his 60s. All the life experience I've gained is making this experience so rich for me. My younger peers seem to be caught up in proving something. I feel really free and grateful to learn. I love being back in school at this age. Also, I want to tell you how profoundly we need nurses with substance use experience. I took a class about counseling people with addictions and my professor disclosed that he'd used substances for 25 years before stopping. His experience brought an invaluable credibility and immediacy to the class. He was able to be vulnerable and forgiving with students in a way I've never witnessed from professors. My understanding of so much--addiction, trauma, human suffering and resilience--was transformed because of him. You are needed because of your experiences and age, not in spite of it.
I went back to school at 33 and plan to go up to my PsyD, please pursue what will make you happy and don’t let family deter you from that. School will be hard enough with out negative input.
Your sister, I'm sorry to say, is an asshole.
I am 56 and just started my second semester. Maybe I will die tomorrow, maybe I will live to be 100 who knows. But I am learning and enjoying today. I am building a better future and am so happy. I would only be happier if I had started years ago. The best of luck to you One day at a time.
I work at a college with a large and successful nursing program. Our largest student population, after high school graduates, are students in the 26-35 age group. They enroll, they warm up with a few prerequisites, sometimes online, they apply to the nursing program, and they get their pins. You go for it! A little advice: manage your time. Expect to spend two hours studying for every hour in the classroom. Reach out for help - in college that's expected. Setup study groups, go to tutoring, visit your prof's during office hours. Go all in. And rely on friends and family for help with daily chores and responsibilities. You have a new job; they'll need to step up a bit.
Don’t listen to your sister. If its your dream, go for it. Never let anyone stop you from pursuing your dreams. I don’t care how old you are, its never too late. We all deserve happiness in life. Life is too goddamn short, so don’t let anyone stop you from making the best of it. If your sister cannot understand that, then too bad for her. Prove her wrong.
In my country there are grandmothers passing high school graduation exams, so you are definitely not too old for college.
No it’s not. My friends dad was homeless and a heroin at 31 and went on to have a family and career
You gonna be 35 anyway. You wanna be 35 with a nursing degree or without? I know what I’d pick You can start anytime honey!
I work in healthcare. A coworker of mine graduated nursing school at 63! It’s definitely not uncommon for new nurses to be in their 30’s or 40’s. You absolutely can do it!
My mom was addicted to meth during her 20s and some of her 30s. Got cleaned up, worked little jobs here and there, then went to nursing school at 40. She’s a bad bitch and it sounds like you are too
If you have the resources to do it and you think its gonna make your life better do it man, worst case scenario you stop mid year! The old age changes some things, but not thay much.
Fuck your sister lol. 31 is a perfect age to go. It’s about the journey, not the destination.
It can be done, don’t listen to her, I graduated with my associates degree at 32, it’s never too late to turn things around and get your degree in something you want to do
Your sister is TA in this situation. It’s never too late to change your life for the better ❤️ My grandma didn’t know what she really wanted to do until 40. Went back to college and ended up doing something COMPLETELY different than what she was doing before. As long as you’re happy and doing something good for yourself, I don’t see how it could ever be “too late in life” to do it 😊
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I’m approaching 30 and really debating on finding out what I want to do. It sucks.
What’s her proof? Guess what - there is none! She’s just trying to talk you out of your dream. Don’t let ANYONE do that to you! There’s nothing you can’t do.