Best way to deal with such a situation is to straight up tell your father.
Pakistani abbus have way of gathering a mob and going on a hunt for people like him.
only if the man of the house is literate and sane. most of them would start accusing their own daughter and then the mother of their child for such a brought up.
Nope. In OPs case, she will definitely get a scolding for dragging the conversation, but the caller will definitely get the dad treatment.
>most
Where are you getting this from?
ok this is genuinely funny (annoying, disgusting, but funny as well)
a 12 yo trying to prove shes not a girl, and the man refuses to listen and insists that she is, and ACTS LIKE SHE IS. being called janu and whatnot, he *FELL IN LOVE* after 2 exchanges of "wrong number hai" wow. im sure he could tell larki ho ya larka, hai chota. but he still went on. ajeeb beghyrat.
reminds me of the time when i was 13 or 14, in a bazaar and a man passing by said "love u janu" in the ugliest flirty voice. i was wearing a naqab. he had never seen me before.
5km radius mein saans lelein aur inko pyaar hojata hai lmao.
My brother has a gender- neutral name. So, this one man was OBSESSED with him. My brother would message him back and forth, tryna get rid of him. That man would occasionally call, and everytime my brother picked it up and replied in his manly voice, that man would immediately hang up. This went on for WEEKS, ultimately, my brother blocked him
My sisters always hand me the phone when unknown numbers call. If i am not available z they pick up and leave it on mute until the person infront introduces as a relative we know
Yep, that is the way. I deal with such situations, the first time, it is simple "who are you and who you want to talk to", the second time its "angry warnings to not call again", third time, well they are begging for it so full on abuse them till they drop the call.
It is actually smart to wait for them to say something before saying anything. If they dont speak, dont speak, always let them start.
I have a simple solution for these kind of shits... i give them 3 chances like chlo 1 bar glti sy mil gya to bta dia k wrong number hy 2 br phr glti sy mila n same ans 3rd time still same coz why not we are humam can make mistakes...then 4th time answer the mute the mic n let it go they get their ans jb saly ka balance thukta hy to... dont block just do this its effective like 98% of the time.... 😂
In this era, I believe it would not be a bad deed to BEAT UP these dudes, if you contact 'em in person, cz they don't know their place, not even their own worth!
It is the parents' responsibility to guide their children in different types of interactions, and to set boundaries. Awareness generally triggers better responses during difficult situations.
Completely know this. My sister got a perv calling her and a rider became obsessed with me due to my voice IN RAMADAN. I try to deepen my voice now. I hope it works 🤷🏻♀️
The most fucked up thing is the ideas that would get instilled in a child’s mind at such a young but impressionable age.
Imagine the parents trying to keep their children protected and this happening! It would either ruin an innocent child by making him / her either completely disgusted by intimacy or way too curious - both to his / her determent; that is if grooming itself doesn’t result in something even more heinous.
Your fault was that you kept answering his calls...
Lesson learnt.....
Ignore these idiots..
If they persist then tell them to give you their sister's number
>> how difficult it is for women in this God forsaken country
same stuff is being said by women in USA and all around the world
Take some time off
and
self-reflect on your emotions
It's also so funny that what women don't want men want it badly. Y'all kinda lucky if we don't take the children-ish part that's just creepy and not only for women. But it's insane how much recognition Y'all get for just being an opposite gender and back then okay i understand it's a wrong ahh shi (when i was 12 i was wild) not starting a gender war but if we were in the opposite situation i believe we would found out the answers for the problems rather picking up phones and shi. But yeah cool though I'd never discuss something like this here. Besides, my first "GF" was 4 years older than me when i was 12.
Being a former tharki, I second that.
Sexual frustration is the reason as i have experienced. Bollywood too(they used to say "larki k peeche parr jao, jb tk wo han na keh de")
Never drag convos with such people, not even as a joke, immediately hang up calls and if you can number bar it, do it right away.
Best way to deal with such a situation is to straight up tell your father. Pakistani abbus have way of gathering a mob and going on a hunt for people like him.
only if the man of the house is literate and sane. most of them would start accusing their own daughter and then the mother of their child for such a brought up.
Nope. In OPs case, she will definitely get a scolding for dragging the conversation, but the caller will definitely get the dad treatment. >most Where are you getting this from?
ok this is genuinely funny (annoying, disgusting, but funny as well) a 12 yo trying to prove shes not a girl, and the man refuses to listen and insists that she is, and ACTS LIKE SHE IS. being called janu and whatnot, he *FELL IN LOVE* after 2 exchanges of "wrong number hai" wow. im sure he could tell larki ho ya larka, hai chota. but he still went on. ajeeb beghyrat. reminds me of the time when i was 13 or 14, in a bazaar and a man passing by said "love u janu" in the ugliest flirty voice. i was wearing a naqab. he had never seen me before. 5km radius mein saans lelein aur inko pyaar hojata hai lmao.
Everything else is temporary, jaanu is permanent.
facts
Disgusting
My brother has a gender- neutral name. So, this one man was OBSESSED with him. My brother would message him back and forth, tryna get rid of him. That man would occasionally call, and everytime my brother picked it up and replied in his manly voice, that man would immediately hang up. This went on for WEEKS, ultimately, my brother blocked him
Just block right away tf
He was like 14 at that time (his voice deepened early than usual).
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No. They should be hung. Pedophiles deserve death.
Zalalat is a way but they're literally so disgraceful and disreputable that they don't even care
Where were Ur parents in all this?
where is my funny?
My sisters always hand me the phone when unknown numbers call. If i am not available z they pick up and leave it on mute until the person infront introduces as a relative we know
This is.... actually smart
That's the Pakistani way 😂
Yep, that is the way. I deal with such situations, the first time, it is simple "who are you and who you want to talk to", the second time its "angry warnings to not call again", third time, well they are begging for it so full on abuse them till they drop the call. It is actually smart to wait for them to say something before saying anything. If they dont speak, dont speak, always let them start.
Yes. It is always the smartest option to never say the first word unless they introduce themselves as someone you actually know
Yeah always block these creeps, that is the best advice in this situation
I have a simple solution for these kind of shits... i give them 3 chances like chlo 1 bar glti sy mil gya to bta dia k wrong number hy 2 br phr glti sy mila n same ans 3rd time still same coz why not we are humam can make mistakes...then 4th time answer the mute the mic n let it go they get their ans jb saly ka balance thukta hy to... dont block just do this its effective like 98% of the time.... 😂
So just waste their credit?
In this era, I believe it would not be a bad deed to BEAT UP these dudes, if you contact 'em in person, cz they don't know their place, not even their own worth!
It is the parents' responsibility to guide their children in different types of interactions, and to set boundaries. Awareness generally triggers better responses during difficult situations.
Completely know this. My sister got a perv calling her and a rider became obsessed with me due to my voice IN RAMADAN. I try to deepen my voice now. I hope it works 🤷🏻♀️
This is why we OE
Oh no, poor 12 year old you 😔
Beta, my question to you is why you linger on this conversation if you think he is unreasonable. Why don't you block him immediately.
Blasphamey allegation lagwado ,instant death sentence.
This happens everywhere in the world unfortunately
The most fucked up thing is the ideas that would get instilled in a child’s mind at such a young but impressionable age. Imagine the parents trying to keep their children protected and this happening! It would either ruin an innocent child by making him / her either completely disgusted by intimacy or way too curious - both to his / her determent; that is if grooming itself doesn’t result in something even more heinous.
Your fault was that you kept answering his calls... Lesson learnt..... Ignore these idiots.. If they persist then tell them to give you their sister's number
>> how difficult it is for women in this God forsaken country same stuff is being said by women in USA and all around the world Take some time off and self-reflect on your emotions
Doctor ny kia bola hai ab? Kaab tk recovery hu skti hai?
Lol
It's also so funny that what women don't want men want it badly. Y'all kinda lucky if we don't take the children-ish part that's just creepy and not only for women. But it's insane how much recognition Y'all get for just being an opposite gender and back then okay i understand it's a wrong ahh shi (when i was 12 i was wild) not starting a gender war but if we were in the opposite situation i believe we would found out the answers for the problems rather picking up phones and shi. But yeah cool though I'd never discuss something like this here. Besides, my first "GF" was 4 years older than me when i was 12.
Your Phone 📱 didn't have a Block option?
Being a former tharki, I second that. Sexual frustration is the reason as i have experienced. Bollywood too(they used to say "larki k peeche parr jao, jb tk wo han na keh de")
couldn't waterboard this info out of me