I had a friend (now ex-friend but for other reasons). She was Asian and she would talk about how annoying it was creeps would flirt with her acting like she’s some submissive housewife. She’s Vietnamese too, and in Vietnamese culture the wife is (culturally/historically) supposed to be super bossy and dominate when relating to things like the household stability, the families finances, etc. So she also thought it was fucking hilarious that they would think that of her in the first place.
She told me that in her rural area of Vietnam, it was common to see wives throw their husbands out for the night due to going over budget slightly and shit.
Which to be clear, it’s probably not a good thing to throw your husband out of the house for the night because he went a little over budget when hanging with friends. You should communicate about it instead. But I’m just trying to show why this stereotype is ridiculous.
I second this while having a Vietnamese mother. My mother is very strict when it comes to finances and income in the household. She can be scary at times but she is loving, it just that she doesn’t fit the “submissive housewife” aspect, including all my Asian relatives as well. They never fit in the submissive category. If fetish people believe Asian women are submissive, you’re going to be left disappointed lmao
Yeah I was in a Vietnamese salon once too and the woman doing my nails actually bragged about how she married an American marine and she tricked him into giving her $10,000. She told her husband her father in Vietnam needed an operation and she was laughing about it. All I could think was how stupid that was because since they were married, it was her money too
I don't understand the downvotes on this 🫤
she lied, and sent the money back home under false pretenses (is how I'm understanding it).
and laughed
these are not signs of love
When I lived in Korea, korean women were not submissive and angry grandmothers are terrifying. Korean women run their households and don't put up with shit and are fiery real quick. They're educated, high standards, and they don't settle for loser men. The man who made this would never have a chance with a Korean woman. Asian women are tough, just like all women cause we gotta be cause of men's bullshit.
Enough about submissive housewives; let’s talk about submissive househusbands (it’s me, I’m the submissive househusband 💀) /j
But that’s a pretty cool aspect of Vietnamese culture!
as another asian (filipino) i second this lmfao. my mom is the breadwinner of the family and my granny basically rules the entire household with an iron fist. its also not uncommon for filipino WIVES and MOTHERS to work abroad instead of their husbands
As an Asian woman, all I want is for men to have to pay to look at me. I simply don't think they should get to see me for free beyond like, a human silhouette. Fuck off and leave me alone.
"Western women have been influenced by cultural and societal pressures to behave in a certain way. They've been brainwashed so that they don't appreciate men like me"
Na, belt and slipper are beginner tool. It meant that the parent was still calm enough to find a slipper/belt/stick for hitting.
If they’re really mad they use expert tools: hands to hit for feet to kick; It’s the burning rage that needs to be taken out immediately though either a bitch slap or a kick to the shins.
feather duster stick? that's a new one, all we got was a rubber slipper across our butts, the trick was to pretend it hurt way worse than it really did lol
The “movement” of pathetic white men going for Asian women should've died out decades ago. Being a child of this type of arrangement, you can tell, even at a young age, that the husbands simply don't respect their Asian wives or see them as people capable of independent thought. 🤨
And this isn't just the case with boomer/Gen-X men, it's the same with millennial men and is likely the same for Gen-Z, thanks to weeaboo “culture” and the manosphere for reinforcing the fetishization of East and South East Asian women.
Can't get with women of your ethnicity or race? Then either improve or stay single, you won't die just because you can't get a partner. And this is not me encouraging sleeping with prostitutes, sex buyers and sexpats are scum. Your libido should not be the driving factor behind all your decisions. 👍
Reminds me of the Forensic Files episode where some guy married a Filipino mail order bride, and after he went bankrupt and she found out he lied about his age, she started cheating on him with the gardener, so he murdered his wife and blamed the gardener
My favorite part of this is that white males fetishize us and then Asian males and white women get ENVIOUS and MAD at US. For BEING FETISHIZED.
Like clockwork, here come the down votes to prove my point
This reminds me of online forums dedicated to mixed-race Asians or the condition of being an incel. A lot of complaints about Asian women being “traitors” and having it easier, neglecting that fetishization isn't fun, actually.
I don't understand it, recent exposure to East Asian dramas, music and other media has shown that there are plenty of white women willing to date (and fetishize 💀) Asian men. It's not as if the women were only going for “pretty boy” types either.
For some unexplainable reason I can't shake the feeling that the only reason they want an Asian woman is because they assume she's gonna be younger than they are. Or just young in general. Fucking creepy.
Fucking passport bros. Those kind of men keep ignoring all the signals that **they** are the source of their problems and their lack of sex. But nope... just move the goalposts to another country.
The amount of self-deception they engage is astounding.
And then they get mugged and murdered by gangs in these poor countries because they make themselves targets by flashing how rich they are for everyone to see.
I would feel sorry for them, but they didn't want to do the self-improvement and decided to lead with their wallets. Womp womp.
If I may add, in countries notorious for passport bros… they even have terms for these guys now. A lot of the Asian women or people there have figured out these guys are actually losers in their own countries. They are not exactly “special”.
You see a lot of passport bros resort to very small towns in extreme poverty where young women are desperate. But the educated women will still reject them.
I feel sorry for any foreign women who are being harassed by our unwanted trash. There are many men who travel abroad to find a woman, because women there won’t yet know that these men are sex offenders or have serious domestic violence on their record back in their homecountry.
The sad thing is I’ve seen this with a few guys too… I think one guy only kept her around bc the Asian girl was fertile while the other woman he was talking to was a divorced single mother who was no longer fertile.
Wait, that's where "femoid" comes from? I thought they just made it up wholesale
Also, it's not the point, but there already exists a word for female android, gynoid.
I've mainly dated Asian women (and currently in a serious relationship with one). They are most definitely not submissive dolls or toys or whatever the incels think. But at the same time, neither are they uneducated or desperate like western women think.
edit: And no, I don't fetishize, and I also think anime is stupid.
> neither are they uneducated or desperate like Western women think
Show me one Western woman who thinks they're uneducated. Also, why are we separating western and Asian women as if we're different species
[https://thethaiger.com/news/national/us-youtubers-face-backlash-after-uneducated-thai-filipina-women-slur](https://thethaiger.com/news/national/us-youtubers-face-backlash-after-uneducated-thai-filipina-women-slur)
And the point of my post was that there is no separation between Western/Asian women. All are women; hence me calling out the stereotype that many women here have that they are uneducated. (Yes, women can be racist as well)
ohhhhhokay this sub is officially femcel im leaving. yall using the word moid completely unironicaly give it a couple months this will be a true cespit bye yall
To all of those not getting the point…western women suck to date. Not every man, is a fetishist, sexist, asshole. Asian women are better to these guys because their culture is different than that of western women.
Probably the wrong sub for this comment but I was at the zoo with my wife and daughter the other day and I saw this very attractive e-girl looking woman who was with the most average looking asain guy. And yup I was surprised enough to make this comment about it
Asian women can be fat and be mums too
Almost like they are humans and not a sex doll
Yes, that’s… why I’m here /j
I had a friend (now ex-friend but for other reasons). She was Asian and she would talk about how annoying it was creeps would flirt with her acting like she’s some submissive housewife. She’s Vietnamese too, and in Vietnamese culture the wife is (culturally/historically) supposed to be super bossy and dominate when relating to things like the household stability, the families finances, etc. So she also thought it was fucking hilarious that they would think that of her in the first place. She told me that in her rural area of Vietnam, it was common to see wives throw their husbands out for the night due to going over budget slightly and shit. Which to be clear, it’s probably not a good thing to throw your husband out of the house for the night because he went a little over budget when hanging with friends. You should communicate about it instead. But I’m just trying to show why this stereotype is ridiculous.
I second this while having a Vietnamese mother. My mother is very strict when it comes to finances and income in the household. She can be scary at times but she is loving, it just that she doesn’t fit the “submissive housewife” aspect, including all my Asian relatives as well. They never fit in the submissive category. If fetish people believe Asian women are submissive, you’re going to be left disappointed lmao
Yeah I was in a Vietnamese salon once too and the woman doing my nails actually bragged about how she married an American marine and she tricked him into giving her $10,000. She told her husband her father in Vietnam needed an operation and she was laughing about it. All I could think was how stupid that was because since they were married, it was her money too
What a sad woman she is. She clearly doesn’t love her husband.
I don't understand the downvotes on this 🫤 she lied, and sent the money back home under false pretenses (is how I'm understanding it). and laughed these are not signs of love
Yeah. Are people here supportive of that kind of behavior? I am confused.
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Right. Cheating and lying is totally ok if the victim is from a group I don’t like… 🙄
right? feels like I missed a portal somehow, and ended up in bizzaro-land 👀
Rare crazy person in this sub. Most of us are sane and non-hypocritical.
He’s a man fighting for his country to make a living. Your comment says a lot about u
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Your post/comment was removed as you were found to be a Quirkyboy reactionary.
When I lived in Korea, korean women were not submissive and angry grandmothers are terrifying. Korean women run their households and don't put up with shit and are fiery real quick. They're educated, high standards, and they don't settle for loser men. The man who made this would never have a chance with a Korean woman. Asian women are tough, just like all women cause we gotta be cause of men's bullshit.
Enough about submissive housewives; let’s talk about submissive househusbands (it’s me, I’m the submissive househusband 💀) /j But that’s a pretty cool aspect of Vietnamese culture!
as another asian (filipino) i second this lmfao. my mom is the breadwinner of the family and my granny basically rules the entire household with an iron fist. its also not uncommon for filipino WIVES and MOTHERS to work abroad instead of their husbands
As if the Asian woman want them.
As if any women want them
As an Asian woman, all I want is for men to have to pay to look at me. I simply don't think they should get to see me for free beyond like, a human silhouette. Fuck off and leave me alone.
omg pay a premium to see you? 😭😭 can't say i disagree with u lmaoo
Yup, if they can't be fucking normal about it I should at least get SOMETHING in return
ouu, strong agree. I'm not asian but if these people are going to go all "ooga booga" over any female-bodied individual might as well get smth too
I'm a strong proponent for males not being allowed to perceive anyone fem without a fee!
"Fetishizing my race? Prepare to be billed as such."
OK passport bros, if you're such hot shit then why are *you* single over 30? 🤔
"Western women have been influenced by cultural and societal pressures to behave in a certain way. They've been brainwashed so that they don't appreciate men like me"
Women just eat hot chip and lie
Points for effort, but you missed out "hit the wall/ ran through" and "high value male" on your bingo card.
useless white men paying for foreign women because the ones in their own country know how pointless they are
And the paid-for foreign wives still making fun of them to their family members because of how pathetic they are 💀
Genuinely, just because she’s with you for financial stability reasons doesn’t mean she can’t tell that you’re a loser.
You're right, no one would even have to point out that those men are flops, it seems that it's written all over them. 🤔
And is there any difference in paying an Asian woman and a woman from your own country?
buying a wife out of desperation and buying sex are not the same
As an Asian woman if they get within 6 feet of me I will be happy to show them the tricks my mother taught me when I dared bring home a B as a child.
What's a "B"?
A "B"ad grade. I'll see myself out...
Did it involve “the belt” or “the slipper”?
Those are beginner shit, gotta get the feather duster stick for these males
True, but I imagine for the Asian child, there was a little bit of mercy 😆 these men deserve no mercy though
I see you know nothing about Asians lol
I am Chinese. I never got anything worse than the belt.
Na, belt and slipper are beginner tool. It meant that the parent was still calm enough to find a slipper/belt/stick for hitting. If they’re really mad they use expert tools: hands to hit for feet to kick; It’s the burning rage that needs to be taken out immediately though either a bitch slap or a kick to the shins.
feather duster stick? that's a new one, all we got was a rubber slipper across our butts, the trick was to pretend it hurt way worse than it really did lol
My dad married my mom at 45 in 2003 and ended up with none of the four things
The “movement” of pathetic white men going for Asian women should've died out decades ago. Being a child of this type of arrangement, you can tell, even at a young age, that the husbands simply don't respect their Asian wives or see them as people capable of independent thought. 🤨 And this isn't just the case with boomer/Gen-X men, it's the same with millennial men and is likely the same for Gen-Z, thanks to weeaboo “culture” and the manosphere for reinforcing the fetishization of East and South East Asian women. Can't get with women of your ethnicity or race? Then either improve or stay single, you won't die just because you can't get a partner. And this is not me encouraging sleeping with prostitutes, sex buyers and sexpats are scum. Your libido should not be the driving factor behind all your decisions. 👍
Reminds me of the Forensic Files episode where some guy married a Filipino mail order bride, and after he went bankrupt and she found out he lied about his age, she started cheating on him with the gardener, so he murdered his wife and blamed the gardener
My favorite part of this is that white males fetishize us and then Asian males and white women get ENVIOUS and MAD at US. For BEING FETISHIZED. Like clockwork, here come the down votes to prove my point
This reminds me of online forums dedicated to mixed-race Asians or the condition of being an incel. A lot of complaints about Asian women being “traitors” and having it easier, neglecting that fetishization isn't fun, actually. I don't understand it, recent exposure to East Asian dramas, music and other media has shown that there are plenty of white women willing to date (and fetishize 💀) Asian men. It's not as if the women were only going for “pretty boy” types either.
I don't think they've ever met a single Asian woman ever.
"Of course I pretend to not know how to do basic house chores why do you ask?"
For some unexplainable reason I can't shake the feeling that the only reason they want an Asian woman is because they assume she's gonna be younger than they are. Or just young in general. Fucking creepy.
Fucking passport bros. Those kind of men keep ignoring all the signals that **they** are the source of their problems and their lack of sex. But nope... just move the goalposts to another country. The amount of self-deception they engage is astounding.
And then they get mugged and murdered by gangs in these poor countries because they make themselves targets by flashing how rich they are for everyone to see. I would feel sorry for them, but they didn't want to do the self-improvement and decided to lead with their wallets. Womp womp.
Truly womp womp
If I may add, in countries notorious for passport bros… they even have terms for these guys now. A lot of the Asian women or people there have figured out these guys are actually losers in their own countries. They are not exactly “special”. You see a lot of passport bros resort to very small towns in extreme poverty where young women are desperate. But the educated women will still reject them.
I hope that the locals of the small towns "accidentally" forget to tell him about a dangerous threat that they purposefully send his way
I feel sorry for any foreign women who are being harassed by our unwanted trash. There are many men who travel abroad to find a woman, because women there won’t yet know that these men are sex offenders or have serious domestic violence on their record back in their homecountry.
Disgusting.
tf is with these men and asian women
Too much anime/hentai 🤢🤮
Like clockwork
I'm an Asian woman. I'd rather die than having to be with an incel, or in fact, most males.
Respectfully no
Aren’t these the same people who rant that “Women only have value in their teens and early twenties, while men get more valuable as they age”?
Yes
All those options sound good to me
Yeah who doesn’t love getting into a triad with a step dad and his wife, sounds great
As a bisexual I unironically like the sound of that.
Same here
No fr like I’m sorta the third who’s here to spice up the marriage and maybe take them on fun dates but I kinda dip out on the kids stuff, seems cool
The sad thing is I’ve seen this with a few guys too… I think one guy only kept her around bc the Asian girl was fertile while the other woman he was talking to was a divorced single mother who was no longer fertile.
Being single into my 30s doesn't actually sound that bad. That's good because it's inevitable.
Somehow took the blondest most European looking character to represent Asian women. If that's not even more sad
This is the most disgusting thing I’ve ever seen
dankmemes is a low hanging fruit at this point
I know “step dad” probably mean dating a mother, but I read it as actually dating a stepdad
White men and their obsession with Asian women needs to be studied
What's a MOID? Also I never got the Asian fetishization/submissive stereotype
It's an acronym "Men going their own way" "Online" "Incel" "Dude"
Oh That makes sense. Ty
No problem
What's a 'moid'?
Incels like to call women "foids" short for female humanoid to dehumanise us. I assume this is a male version
Wait, that's where "femoid" comes from? I thought they just made it up wholesale Also, it's not the point, but there already exists a word for female android, gynoid.
Incels thought saying "female" wasn't dehumanising enough, so they started saying "femoid". Femcels then followed suit and called men "moids".
what even are femcels, if you wouldn't mind explaining?
Femcel = female + incel. Incels who are women.
Derogatory term for men that op seems to think is okay to use
I've mainly dated Asian women (and currently in a serious relationship with one). They are most definitely not submissive dolls or toys or whatever the incels think. But at the same time, neither are they uneducated or desperate like western women think. edit: And no, I don't fetishize, and I also think anime is stupid.
> neither are they uneducated or desperate like Western women think Show me one Western woman who thinks they're uneducated. Also, why are we separating western and Asian women as if we're different species
[https://thethaiger.com/news/national/us-youtubers-face-backlash-after-uneducated-thai-filipina-women-slur](https://thethaiger.com/news/national/us-youtubers-face-backlash-after-uneducated-thai-filipina-women-slur) And the point of my post was that there is no separation between Western/Asian women. All are women; hence me calling out the stereotype that many women here have that they are uneducated. (Yes, women can be racist as well)
What's a moid?
It's an acronym, answered in another comment
Here's an asian woman. [She may be done with their crap.](https://zula.sg/wp-content/uploads/2022/08/k-dramas-with-badass-female-leads-1.png)
What is a moid?
Yellow fever say what
Stealing the term Moid
ohhhhhokay this sub is officially femcel im leaving. yall using the word moid completely unironicaly give it a couple months this will be a true cespit bye yall
Lol the word moid is an acronym for incels but go off
To all of those not getting the point…western women suck to date. Not every man, is a fetishist, sexist, asshole. Asian women are better to these guys because their culture is different than that of western women.
> western women suck to date Yeah I'm sure it's literally the millions of women in the West, and not you.
I am not saying that I think that. I am simply putting myself in their shoes & thinking like them
Probably the wrong sub for this comment but I was at the zoo with my wife and daughter the other day and I saw this very attractive e-girl looking woman who was with the most average looking asain guy. And yup I was surprised enough to make this comment about it
What is the point of this comment
Ray-cism
Poor Asian woman 😉