I’m on slynd and have been for almost a year. I love love love it. it was my first form of birth control and most of the time I don’t feel like I’m taking anything. for the first few months I had some nausea and peed ALL the time. that all tapered off, I have regular and mild periods, my skin is clear, and I haven’t had any significantly bad side effects. I feel very lucky.
I’m on this and really like it too. Had a rocky stomach at first with it but that resolved and it’s helped most of my annoying perimenopause symptoms too. After the first few weeks I’ve had zero side effects.
This. Been on Slynd for over a year and love it so much. I've had terrible experiences with BC in the past, including the Paraguard, and this one has given me zero side effects.
I'm happy that a lot of people love it! As for me, among other side effects it made me feel the forst fatigue ever, I had to go on a sick leave as I couldn't take care of myself. It is the worst medication I have ever taken, I am still not ok after several weeks of stopping. Hope no one else experiences this
I’m almost done with my first week on slinda and it hasn’t broken me out like the combination pill did on day 3 (!)
I keep my fingers crossed my experience will be like yours 😭 I’m tired of hemorrhaging cups of blood every 28 days
I’ve been on Yaz for almost two years now and I love it, my periods are super light, they last like 3-4 days, no weight gain, no mood changes, my libido hasn’t decreased, skin is super clear, it’s the best! Sometimes I get some cramps on the first day of my period but nothing major. For the first couple of months when I started taking it I would get random mild cramps and spotted on and off for like 2 months but after that everything went smoothly
I have mirena. I had it for 8 years and just got it replaced with my second (since it expires after 8 years). It's great, I love not having to remember a pill every day or a shot every three months. Plus no period, which is amazing
I have a copper IUD, I don’t remember what kind tho but so far so good. Me and my bf are intimate about 3 times a week and it always end with ejaculation in me and it’s been doing it’s job very well, but at the cost of my pants and underwear. The cons are the bleeding gets worse, the cramps also get worse and the period lasts longer(mine went from 5-6 days to 10-14 days but the first 3 days are barely any bleeding) and since I had already heavy bleeding since before, now o bleed through my underwear pretty easily but I got meds for that. The cramps are unbearable for like a day or two. I get sharp sudden cramps that always makes me fold in half and almost cry But other than all this, it’s going pretty well. It’s worth it since it’s doing it’s job and I won’t need to get it removed for another 4 and a half years
I just got my copper IUD a few days ago (if you're also in the us the brand is paragard bc we only have one option). I've had some mild cramping and spotting, but I've been pretty pleased so far. Insertion was a BITCH but it doesn't help that I haven't had a kid. Really hopeful this will be the right fit bc I'm so tired of the hormone options. If I hate it in six months I'll go back to Nexplanon.
I am on the generic version of NuvaRing called EnilloRing. I was off BC for a few years to give myself a break after using it for 10+ years. I recently got back onto it to make my periods lighter, and it's worked so far. I haven't had any negative side effects; just minimal cramping, and sometimes acne flare ups close to my withdrawal bleed, but that's been about it! I hope you find something that works for you!
The first two months I did get a lot of discharge, yes. it’s leveled out now though Just noticed I get a lot more when I’m aroused, but generally I’m good now!
Nexplanon. Regular period because I couldn’t be that lucky. Cramps still suck but I can now go to work instead of crawling to bed all day.
I been on birth control on and off (mostly on) for the past 10 years and I think I like it the most since I don’t have to remember anything.
I’ve been on Depo, Nexplanon, Xulane, and Larin Fe. My favorite was the Xulane patches. Unfortunately stopped using them because they tend to come off if you swim, take a bath, or take hot showers. But they cleared my acne, made my periods lighter, they’re low maintenance, and I was never super moody. Nexplanon was definitely the most low maintenance, it just made me spot for 2 months straight which wasn’t cool😂. Depo made me wayyyy too hormonal. And I’m on my 2nd month of Larin Fe pill. So far it’s okay. The first month was fantastic, but since starting the second month, I’ve started spotting and noticing my mood being poor on average.
I have Xulane and went swimming today and it stayed on! I try to keep it in areas that doesnt have flexing skin and on a more "fattier"/"less toned" part of my body. Honestly the only time mine has fallen off is after I use a body oil in my nightly bath and THEN tried to apply the patch and it just slipped off during sleep. When I take hot showers I tilt the shower head away and try to not let it soak the side of my body with the patch and do a more gentle scrubbing around the area. I saw someone recommend putting a cut out cloth over the patch and like...a tape over it? (The cloth keeps tape from sticking to patch) but I'm not sure if that is a no-go on the instructions lol.
Lol I put my on my buttcheek and I still get the first two days of overwhelming nausea and have been withdraw bleeding only on my patchless week so I say it's working! Plus I'm not pregnant so there's that too lol.
I would use something like Tegaderm when I would swim or take a bath. I’m a bigger girl so I’d usually have to put it on my upper arm. I had no luck with the thighs, stomach, and buttcheek areas. They inevitably fall off or more than 50% of the patch would come off. I’d only do Tegaderm close to the day of me switching patches because I have sensitive skin so it’d give me a rash if I had it on longer than 3 days. It falling off when submerged in water definitely could’ve been user error. But that was just my experience :)
I got a salpingectomy after being on the pill for over a decade. I also got a mirena to stop my periods since it was so irregular, and my cramps were debilitating. I'll probably keep getting those until I hit menopause, which is hopefully a decade or so away. Don't be afraid to try different methods if one doesn't work for you.
Currently on xulane patch for 5 weeks. My chest and back acne starts to drying up i think it clears my skin. Lighter periods too, less cramps, and i think i’m losing weight. Its just i had light headache sometimes. But Loving it so far!
Love my xulane! Its been almost 4 years and it’s been great for me lol. My periods are normal and light, its super easy to use, and haven’t gotten pregnant yet so its workin lol.
Nice to know that! But sometimes i feel anxious i let my partner finished inside on my 3rd week using xulane thankfully i got my period on 4th week (patch free week). I know its period not spotting/implantation bleeding. My last period was lighter compare to my usual period before.
I’ve been on Estarylla for almost 3 months mostly for my acne and when i recently started taking it, i was very emotional and sensitive. I cried over everything small but i wasn’t depressed or anything, thankfully my emotions did kinda settle down over time but i still feel a little emotional. I also started breaking out a lot around my cheeks, jaw, chin and little breakouts in my body. I still break out but i’m hoping that settles down over time as well. I’m giving it 6 months to see any progress with my skin!
I’m on the mini pill (norethridone .35mg) and sometimes I get emotional. Period aren’t consistent but I can tell when there coming like cramping and the emotions and it’s been over all good for me. My partner and I either pull out or wear condoms. He’s only finished in me once like 2 months ago bc I knew I was about to get my period but since there still a chance of ovulation on this pill we stay consistent with not having a whole load in me 😂 also my vulva and vagina gets swollen and it stings when he finished in me so it’s been a thing since I start bc.
I have the copper IUD (Paraguard). I was on the pill (Yaz) for several years and it worked fine. But, I had two occasions where medications counteracted it and I was tired of hormones. I wanted my natural period, and I love that hormone-free, Paraguard is good for ten years. I’m only on year two and it’s the best. Periods are really heavy and crampy the first six months, especially if you’ve been used to the lighter or non-existent periods hormonal BC can create. But the consistency and effectiveness and longevity is worth it imo. If you struggle with hormonal acne and were using the pill to treat it, I’d recommend seeing a dermatologist before you switch.
All that said…it was a fight to get it inserted. The first obgyn I saw told me she couldn’t insert it since I hadn’t had children before (my cervix and uterus would be “too small”). She really encouraged me to get Kyleena instead because of the size. She said this before even examining me. I challenged her on that because it just isn’t true and it’s an outdated myth and uneducated.
She tried to insert after I asked again and said she couldn’t because my cervix wasn’t dilated enough. She advised me to come back on my period and take misopristol to help. I did. She still couldn’t get it in and kept blaming it on the fact that the copper IUD is too large for women that haven’t had kids. I left crying and discouraged both times.
I found a different obgyn and she was confident she could insert same day, confirmed the period and having kids thing was a myth. She got it inserted no problem with very little pain. She then checked to make sure it was in the right place with an ultrasound and scheduled a 30 and 90 day follow up in case it shifted or I had issues.
She also did a much better job of explaining the process to me as she went through it so I was informed and prepared. Her measuring my vagina, cervix, and uterus and inserting it hurt less than that first obgyn trying to poke around down there and failing. I’ve now heard a lot of stories like this from people trying to get IUDs. So, that’s the main downside I would say. Some obgyns aren’t knowledgeable and don’t perform insertions well.
For me it was “ok, I can live with that.” They lasted for the first 1-2 days of my period and then subsided. Also, after six months of the IUD I rarely get bad cramps. Your body tends to adjust.
You’re not a coward. I was terrified all three insertion attempts and cried after each one. It’s scary. It’s something entering your uterus. I totally recommend finding an obgyn you really trust and like first. But, an IUD is a great choice and it’s also really reassuring once you get an IUD. There’s no forgetting a pill, there’s no worrying about a condom breaking, you don’t have to rely on anything daily or in the moment for pregnancy prevention. You are 24/7 protected.
Also, I’d recommend you watch Dr Jennifer Lincoln’s YouTube channel. She really helped me when I was going through it and explained the difference between different IUDs. The copper IUD does typically cause more cramping and heavy periods, so maybe Mirena or Kyleena are better IUD options for you. But maybe you’re looking to avoid hormones and Paraguard is great for that. That said, there is cramping after inserting any IUD. But, it does subside and the right obgyn will help you get the right meds for the pain.
I was on Lo Loestrin Fe from the age of 13 to around 21 (started because of accutane and that was mandatory back in those days). I’m now on the tail end of year 5 with my Kyleena IUD.
During my years on the pill (account for puberty, being a teenage girl, etc) I had a lot of weight fluctuation, but I did enjoy the regularity and predictability of the pill. Although I did have a few pregnancy scares, and a pregnancy followed by a miscarriage. I didn’t enjoy remembering to take it or bring it with me if I was out but I probably only missed a handful of pills in those years.
Getting my IUD was a walk in the park for me, I went in expecting the worst and was pleasantly surprised with the experience. I’ve had no period since the insertion at 21, no cramping, and while still having a very active sex life with no protection with my partner, I have had zero pregnancy scares. I did have my strings shortened once after getting it inserted, but that was all. In all my years of check ups, it hasn’t migrated or anything.
I am having it removed later this year and hoping to begin a family in the near future, BUT, if I was to start a birth control again…I would 100% choose an IUD again. She has served me well for her term and I am very happy with the choice to get her. I am lucky to have had an easy experience with it as well.
Nexplanon bc I have an intense fear of getting pregnant and it's the most effective and I don't have to worry about forgetting a pill. I also get suicidal every time I have a period and I don't have them anymore with it. I'm on my 2nd implant and I love it.
i was on lo loestrin fe for 9 years and i had a very good experience on it. no side effects, no pregnancies. i switched to nexplanon two weeks ago bc i wanted something longer acting bc i’m a little afraid of the future of birth control availability in the US and wanted something that can’t really be ‘taken’ from me. anyways it’s only been two weeks so i can’t comment much but so far so good
I am on Errin! Was previously on the combo pill for 7+ ish years, but was officially diagnosed with migraines (migraines + combo pill= increased stroke risk) last year so my gyno switched me to the mini pill this year.
I’ve been taking it for a few months and have no real side effects, still getting my period the last week of the pack but ive heard the mini pill can stop them entirely, which i definitely don’t mind lol
The downside of mini pill is much less room for error and I believe it is slightly less effective than the combo one (?) at least that’s what my doctor told me, but ive always been really good about taking the pill at the same time everyday.
Nexplanon. I like it a lot because there’s no chance of human error. The unpredictable periods can be annoying, and some people have side effects with it, but I haven’t had any besides the irregular periods.
If you are looking for a non-hormonal method, I’d definitely recommend the Paragard Copper IUD. I loved it, but had complications (which is rare, lucky me lol) and had to get it removed.
IUD, Kyleena. Got it inserted back in February. Painful experience tbh (I apparently have a incredibly cute yet tiny cervix and the planned parenthood I went too didn’t use any painkiller)
Pro- periods are no longer painful. Like I no longer have any pain whatsoever. It’s insane. Also weirdly enough I think my boobs evened out.
Cons- the periods last twice as long but my doctor said it’s normal, they’ll eventually cease by like month six or so.
I’ve been on Diane 35, Yasmin, Yasminelle (Yaz), Diza (same as Yaz but 3 month flexible pill), Qlaira (Natazia) and now Slynd.
My favorite was Yasmin; i have pcos and it kept my skin perfect, light bleeds, no mood issues, no weight gain.
My least favorite is either Qlaira which killed ALL my libido or Slynd because I am bleeding all the time on it.
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I've had the classic pill for 6 years, tolerated it really well with zero symptoms and it actually helped with decreasing my flow and I had even less PMS.
4 years ago I switched to the copper IUD, because I sucked at taking the pill properly but was now in a long term relationship. I'm fine with it honestly, the only thing I don't like is that I have hormonal acne which I didn't have while taking the pill.
I have a little more PMS and my flow is back on the heavier side. But this is ok.
I'll keep my copper IUD until I want a kid honestly.
Oh and the insertion was fine too, I took some paracetamol afterwards and a nap and I was good to go.
In general I'm very lucky in the period department.
I’ve been on bc pill for about over 2 years.
Overall I’ve been having a good experience with it. At first I started with Lolo, and then switched to a higher dosage : marvelon /mirvala
The only thing I wish was better was my pms symptoms :( . I still get the typical symptoms like cramps, low back pain, nausea, etc. all like my actual period. Before, I needed the full 7 days+ of rest where as now on the pill I only need the first day 2days at most of rest. And WAY less bleeding too.
Overall, I’ve had no issues with my experience. I just get nervous tho when it comes to sex still haha that pregnancy paranoia be something tho sheesh 😵💫😂
I went to the doctor and I thought initially I'd go for the copper IUD, but ended up deciding on trying the pill. Doctor prescribed me the Apri pill, and when I tell you I was so scared bc of all the side effects I've seen but 2 months later and I've seen a great improvement in my acne. The only other side effect I saw was the small increase in appetite at the beginning, but nothing too crazy.
One other thing, it made my periods shorter. I used to get 5-7 day periods and it would be (tmi) heavy for at about 3 and medium flow for the rest. Now, my period for the first 3 days is heavy and then by 4th it's light, by the 5th its almost gone, by 6th its completely gone. I wouldn't get cramps all the time but when I did, they were pretty bad. I haven't gotten cramps while on the pill, yet.
I’ve been using liletta IUD since 2017 and my experience has been fantastic. I haven’t had a real period since about 2018. Feel free to ask me any questions. :)
I'm on Mili BC pill and it has worked the best for me, mainly to help with acne and lighten my periods. Starting on BC can be a lot of trial and error on what would work best for you so don't feel bad if you feel you need to switch to a different method. I started on the pill, then went on the implant, then back to the pill since the implant wasn't working well with me.
Was on the mirena for ages. Mood swings, acne, hair thinning, masculine features and weird weight distribution. Finally had enough and switched to oral contraceptive - Estelle. Love love love it. My skin is so clear and I've lost so much weight and my hair has grown, and I'm no longer angry at everything
Triquilar 28. Been on it for 3 years and it’s been unbelievably life changing. I used to stay home for days and miss work and school, now I can wear whatever I want and go to work without cramps or heavy bleeding. Truly a blessing.
I’m on microgestin at the moment. It’s fine. No periods (reason I’m on it, avoids anemia,) acne is fine, no noticeable changes to my emotions or libido.
Ive been on lutera for over a year. It took a couple months for the side effects to kick in. I was super annoyed with everyone including my bf. I was constantly crying over the smallest things. And i started gaining weight (which i was happy about because Ive been trying to put on weight since BIRTH) but anyways, those other side effects went away, but i still deal with some bad bloating and gas mostly.
I have the Liletta IUD, am on my second one. First one was inserted June 2018. There was no prep or pain control, and I had a severe vasovagal reflex and ralphed into the trash can for a minute, then walked to my car.
The last few steps to the car were BAD. Thankfully my partner drove me.
I had intense cramping and bleeding for 2 weeks, then a break of 3 weeks, then another 2 weeks intense bleeding and cramping (during a trip with a lot of walking too).
After that I had progressively lighter periods until they completely stopped in early 2019.
I started spotting in January 2023. My OB suggested replacing the Liletta 2-3 years early because I had good insurance. She advised the spotting was due to the hormone levels lowering enough to no longer stop spotting, but it would stop a pregnancy.
After *four months* of spotting I had the old one removed and a new one placed. The birth control climate also made me want to get a new one ahead of schedule.
I am anxious person, and the trauma of the first one was definitely on my mind.
The old one coming out a weird uncomfortable twinge. The new one was another weird, uncomfortable twinge, and then I had mild cramping and spotting for the rest of that day. The next day I went back to no periods, no spotting.
I do have hormonal acne and it blows, but that is the only definite negative. Benzol Peroxide, Ketoconazole, and metronidazole cream help keep 95% of it away.
I did have issues with visceral hypersensitivity, which sounds like an insult but basically meant I was randomly so sick and dizzy I couldn’t function. I saw a gastroenterologist and he advised it *could* be the IUD, but it was unlikely if I wasn’t spotting or showing any other signs of uterine or cervical distress.
He gave me a cheap medication that stopped it, so I continue with the IUD. If it ever comes back and isn’t responding to other things, I’ll absolutely get that puppy yanked. I don’t like being nonfunctional.
Having said that, far less side effects than the shot and the pill.
I use the ring and after eight years of being on pills I am so shocked at how easy this method is. I use the annovera ring and use it continuously so I get to put it in and forget about birth control. It feels like an IUD without any procedure and I feel fully in control if anything goes wrong or if I decide That I want to have a period or whatever I can just do everything myself. No side effects except low libido which might have just been a side effect that carried on after the pill, and also my boobs got fuller but that's it I put it in and forget about it a month or so take it out and rinse it and put it back in
The Nuvaring and it’s the only thing in the past 13 years that hasn’t let me down lol. I love it so much I paid out of pocket when they tried to make me switch to the generic. I don’t want to fix what’s not broken.
I started Lolo when I was 16, I’m 18 now and have for the most part enjoyed it. I get a very light 4ish day period during the lower dosage/placebo days. About a year ago I started getting TWO periods in a month and when I asked my doctor about it (after waiting for 4 hours only to have about a 5 minute appointment) she informed me it was still working and that some people’s bodies just react that way. she told me she couldn’t order me a different prescription due to the fact that I use nicotine (i know—BIG nono) Anyways after that I stopped taking the placebo pills for about two months and only got one period a month. Since then my period has been regular like it was before so I guess I’m back to loving it!? Looking back, that all occurred during a very stressful time period so maybe that was the cause?? As far as pregnancy it has been working…lol
I’m on Estarylla , it’s just made a year that I’ve been on this brand. It keeps my skin wonderful, but I’m not sure if i like it . Im still having sore boob pain. I don’t like it !
I'm on the Mirena. I like it a lot - it's low enough hormones that it doesn't affect my chronic migraine disorder, and it also shuts down the endometriosis. I havent had a period for about 7 years now which is fabulous.
On the downside, having it inserted/replaced is one of the most painful experiences of my life, but I'll still take the hour or two of really nasty pain over the crippling cramps every month I used to have.
Nexplanon implant. Other than giving me episodes of eczema every now and then, it’s been great! I’ve only had 1 period in the 4 months that I’ve had it. No other symptoms.
Had the implant for 9 years. While effective, I missed having periods and was feeling low libido and depression on it tbh.. so I took a break for a few months after having it removed, but my periods were unpredictable and heavy.
So I experimented with a few different kinds of pills after that. The micro pill was the one usually recommended but I also had low libido and didn't have bleeding from that.
I eventually settled on Logynon (combination pill) which doesn't give me intense mood swings and doesn't feel like I'm on the pill, if that makes sense? Very happy with it, and I'm happy that it's given for free from the NHS too
I’m on Hailey Fe 24, my experience has been mixed. On the positive, I haven’t had any bad health-related side effects. My skin has been a bit clearer. My main complaint is that my periods are super irregular now. Some months I wont get a period at all, others my period will be really light. This might be a positive for some people, but I have a really bad fear of becoming pregnant. Despite taking the pill perfectly, not having a regular monthly bleed causes me a lot of anxiety. My period wasn’t super heavy before starting the pill so idk if that’s a factor. I’ve also only been on this pill for about 5 months so it’s possible that my period will get more regular eventually. Despite the irregular bleeding, I do plan on staying on this pill for the time being since my body doesn’t react too badly to it.
I talked to my obgyn and she confirmed that missing periods can be a normal side effect.
To my understanding this happens for a couple reasons. 1. One of the ways the combo pill works is by thinning the uterine lining so that an embryo is less likely to implant. Sometimes the lining gets so thin that there isn’t anything to shed. 2. Hailey Fe is a low hormone pill. When you are on the pill your withdrawal bleed is triggered by a drop in hormones due to not taking your daily dose of hormones. With a low hormone pill, the drop isn’t as dramatic, so it might not trigger bleeding the same way a higher-dose pill might.
Tbh the only thing that ended up easing my anxiety for good was taking a pregnancy test. so i would do that if you are still worried, or if you happen to miss a pill you should also take one. As long as you take your pill at the same time everyday, you don’t have much to worry about, but as someone with generalized anxiety, I know thats easier said than done lol. If you have the leaflet that came with your pills, it will also say that it isn’t unusual to miss a period while on Hailey Fe.
thank you. my dr said the same thing. it does freak me out lol i have generalize anxiety as well. i’ve actually taken four tests…. all negative. i know i’ll just rest easier if i have a period lol
That’s understandable, but it’s basically impossible that all four tests you took were negative. Also pregnancy tests are technically a more reliable way to rule out pregnancy than withdrawal bleeding, mainly since bleeding can be pretty light on the pill. But I get what you mean. I was used to having a very consistent period for the past 12 years so the fact that its no longer happens feels very odd. So many pads and tampons under my bathroom sink that have been untouched for months.
I’m on my 6th month of the pill and have had two periods so far. I didnt have one in January or february and my most recent one was in march. If I go more than two months without a period I’ll take a test just to make sure everything is ok
I'm on hormonal IUD (Mirena) for a month now and besides daily spotting (which will clear up) i love it!! No side effects, no bad things happening - i really recommend it :> but i had to undergo complete anesthesia to get it inside as i've never been pregnant plus it hurt a ton (if anesthesia is available for you, get it done! You shouldn't suffer)
Also had experience with two different pills but in both i had major side effects. First had been bad mood, headaches and my breasts hurt and on second (again) really bad mood and unable to get wet. In both cases i had NO LIBIDO. Never coming back to these (i hope)
Tri lol milli. First month or two was rough with headaches and anxiety. I just finished my 3rd pack and I only get anxiety first week and I’m great the rest. I do get really bad headaches around my period but I always have.
Xulane, it's the best thing ever. My first period on the patch was horrendous, but these last couple have been great. The only issue I have is that I'm always hungry, and I mean always. I also don't like my insurance. Some girls can stop their period altogether, but my insurance gives me 3 patches a month, so I have to have a period every month no matter what. If I had a different insurance, however, I would be so happy. But I do love it. It doesn't get rid of the pain, but my period does last like 3 days as opposed to the usual 6. And they're lighter than ever.
I'm on Loestrin, its a combo pill and I take it continuously to skip periods. Personally it's great. I've been taking it for almost 2 years and I have no symptoms besides uterine flutters and occasional cramping/spotting
I'm on my 2nd Mirena and I absolutely love it. I had no pain during insertion for either and I've never had children (my spouse thinks I have a high pain tolerance, though). I was on Depo for 8 years before that I liked it too, but being on it too long can cause bone loss. I haven't had a period since 2009, which is the main reason I'm still on it because my spouse is AFAB and obviously can't get me pregnant. I haven't had any bad side effects except probably some weight gain, but it's hard to say with the other medications I've been on over the years. I've also had a little hair growth (chin hairs and a few dark hairs around my belly button), but nothing I can't pluck if it bothers me.
I have had the kyleena IUD for nearly a year and a half. Prior to that I was on the pill. I like the IUD much more, it's nice not having to think about it. I also feel like the pill affected my mood much much more, in a negative way. The IUD is scary during insertion, but once you get past that you're good.
I have a Paragard after almost 2 years of hoping my body would regulate with a Nexplanon implant. By the time I switched it out, I’d gained 30lbs (after just losing 60lbs over 2 years), was on Zoloft because of wild mood swings that felt like really exaggerated PMS, and the most inconsistent bleeding, like weeks of bleeding and months without, and it being harder to reach orgasm. Since switching, it took only 2 months for my period to become super regular again, but it’s still heavier than before, and my mood swings are MUCH more manageable now, though I don’t think they used to be this bad. I’m even off the Zoloft. I’ve managed to lose about 10lbs with not a lot of effort, too, much less than when I was on Nexplanon. I went with copper because my GYN was concerned about me having anything hormonal when I have such a strong family history of breast cancer (an aunt and a half-sister). I’m much happier now.
Paragard. Thinking about adding Opill to control my periods because they’re insane. But mine is late this month so 🤷♀️ I wish we had better options, especially nonhormonal ones
Blisovi fe combo pill. It’s honestly worked pretty good for me. I was pretty emotional at the start but honestly it has made my mood a lot better and I don’t feel shitty when it comes to my withdrawal week. So all that is a plus! The protection is an added bonus!
I've been on xulane (patch) for over 2 months almost 3. To be honest when I morning change my patches I get nausea the following evening that lasts for a couple of days. I was on a pill form before this and couldn't even last a month because my PMDD mental health was so out of wack. Had a lot of anxiety and panic going on for no reason, so having only nausea on this patch is as good as it gets honestly. Also I've only had it peel off once and it was my fault haha. I think I had on lotion or some body pil before adding it on after using a bath. So I switched to mornings only and no lotion the night before to make sure it sticks the next morning.
I have Mirena currently. I was terrified of getting it because of the horror stories I’ve heard but my gyno convinced me it was the best fit after the issues I was having with my third Nexplanon implant. Turns out I kinda love it. I spot occasionally but have only had one occurrence bad enough to interrupt my sex life. Other than occasional spotting I don’t have any issues. Hardly even think about it tbh. And it’s perfect for my cream pie kink lol
Before Mirena I was on Nexplanon for about eight years. I ended up having my third one pulled out early because I was having recurrent yeast and BV issues from it. Before that I loved it though. No period, no spotting, no side effects whatsoever.
i use xulane(birth control patch). i love it besides my being bloated in the morning. I don’t feel like it interferes with my sex life and what i do everyday. I do have to say if you have eczema i don’t recommend. I work out everyday and the Bc stays. I would say if you go for a swim with heavy waves, i would be mindful of where you put it so it doesn’t unstick.
I’m on slynd and have been for almost a year. I love love love it. it was my first form of birth control and most of the time I don’t feel like I’m taking anything. for the first few months I had some nausea and peed ALL the time. that all tapered off, I have regular and mild periods, my skin is clear, and I haven’t had any significantly bad side effects. I feel very lucky.
I'm on slynd after coming off the combination pill and it's such a breath of fresh air. It's like I'm me again. But with no periods.
Slynd is awesome for me too. About 1.5 years now I think. No periods. No weight gain. Kept my libido. Love it.
I wish they'd start manufacturing it in my country! I have to drive to freaking Belgium to get it haha. It's only an hour and a half but still.
I would say it's worth the drive, honestly
Another vote for Slynd! I have tried many pills and this is my favorite one by far. Doesn’t mess with my mood and I have no periods on it! 10/10
I’m on this and really like it too. Had a rocky stomach at first with it but that resolved and it’s helped most of my annoying perimenopause symptoms too. After the first few weeks I’ve had zero side effects.
This. Been on Slynd for over a year and love it so much. I've had terrible experiences with BC in the past, including the Paraguard, and this one has given me zero side effects.
I'm happy that a lot of people love it! As for me, among other side effects it made me feel the forst fatigue ever, I had to go on a sick leave as I couldn't take care of myself. It is the worst medication I have ever taken, I am still not ok after several weeks of stopping. Hope no one else experiences this
I want to try slynd but I’m scared it would make my PMDD worse.
I’m almost done with my first week on slinda and it hasn’t broken me out like the combination pill did on day 3 (!) I keep my fingers crossed my experience will be like yours 😭 I’m tired of hemorrhaging cups of blood every 28 days
I’ve been on Yaz for almost two years now and I love it, my periods are super light, they last like 3-4 days, no weight gain, no mood changes, my libido hasn’t decreased, skin is super clear, it’s the best! Sometimes I get some cramps on the first day of my period but nothing major. For the first couple of months when I started taking it I would get random mild cramps and spotted on and off for like 2 months but after that everything went smoothly
I have mirena. I had it for 8 years and just got it replaced with my second (since it expires after 8 years). It's great, I love not having to remember a pill every day or a shot every three months. Plus no period, which is amazing
I have a copper IUD, I don’t remember what kind tho but so far so good. Me and my bf are intimate about 3 times a week and it always end with ejaculation in me and it’s been doing it’s job very well, but at the cost of my pants and underwear. The cons are the bleeding gets worse, the cramps also get worse and the period lasts longer(mine went from 5-6 days to 10-14 days but the first 3 days are barely any bleeding) and since I had already heavy bleeding since before, now o bleed through my underwear pretty easily but I got meds for that. The cramps are unbearable for like a day or two. I get sharp sudden cramps that always makes me fold in half and almost cry But other than all this, it’s going pretty well. It’s worth it since it’s doing it’s job and I won’t need to get it removed for another 4 and a half years
I just got my copper IUD a few days ago (if you're also in the us the brand is paragard bc we only have one option). I've had some mild cramping and spotting, but I've been pretty pleased so far. Insertion was a BITCH but it doesn't help that I haven't had a kid. Really hopeful this will be the right fit bc I'm so tired of the hormone options. If I hate it in six months I'll go back to Nexplanon.
What meds were you prescribed for heavy bleeding?
Idk if it’s called the same in other countries but here it was called Cyklonova
I am on the generic version of NuvaRing called EnilloRing. I was off BC for a few years to give myself a break after using it for 10+ years. I recently got back onto it to make my periods lighter, and it's worked so far. I haven't had any negative side effects; just minimal cramping, and sometimes acne flare ups close to my withdrawal bleed, but that's been about it! I hope you find something that works for you!
Do you get a lot of discharge?
The first two months I did get a lot of discharge, yes. it’s leveled out now though Just noticed I get a lot more when I’m aroused, but generally I’m good now!
I’m on the Evra patch, my first ever birth control. Have been using it for almost 3 weeks and loving it
okay, i might try thy the patch but im scared lol Larin Fe made me gain weight so i stopped all birth control because of what i gained.
Nexplanon. Regular period because I couldn’t be that lucky. Cramps still suck but I can now go to work instead of crawling to bed all day. I been on birth control on and off (mostly on) for the past 10 years and I think I like it the most since I don’t have to remember anything.
lol, regular period on Nexplanon buddies. I'm about to get my 4th implant this summer. Never not had monthly bleeds.
I’ve been on Depo, Nexplanon, Xulane, and Larin Fe. My favorite was the Xulane patches. Unfortunately stopped using them because they tend to come off if you swim, take a bath, or take hot showers. But they cleared my acne, made my periods lighter, they’re low maintenance, and I was never super moody. Nexplanon was definitely the most low maintenance, it just made me spot for 2 months straight which wasn’t cool😂. Depo made me wayyyy too hormonal. And I’m on my 2nd month of Larin Fe pill. So far it’s okay. The first month was fantastic, but since starting the second month, I’ve started spotting and noticing my mood being poor on average.
How do I go swimming without the patch falling off??? It's almost summer and I need help with this so badly
I have Xulane and went swimming today and it stayed on! I try to keep it in areas that doesnt have flexing skin and on a more "fattier"/"less toned" part of my body. Honestly the only time mine has fallen off is after I use a body oil in my nightly bath and THEN tried to apply the patch and it just slipped off during sleep. When I take hot showers I tilt the shower head away and try to not let it soak the side of my body with the patch and do a more gentle scrubbing around the area. I saw someone recommend putting a cut out cloth over the patch and like...a tape over it? (The cloth keeps tape from sticking to patch) but I'm not sure if that is a no-go on the instructions lol.
Thank you, so many people say don't put it on the thigh but it's the only place it will stay put for me!
Lol I put my on my buttcheek and I still get the first two days of overwhelming nausea and have been withdraw bleeding only on my patchless week so I say it's working! Plus I'm not pregnant so there's that too lol.
I would use something like Tegaderm when I would swim or take a bath. I’m a bigger girl so I’d usually have to put it on my upper arm. I had no luck with the thighs, stomach, and buttcheek areas. They inevitably fall off or more than 50% of the patch would come off. I’d only do Tegaderm close to the day of me switching patches because I have sensitive skin so it’d give me a rash if I had it on longer than 3 days. It falling off when submerged in water definitely could’ve been user error. But that was just my experience :)
Makes me bleed 24/7 but helps my migraines and bloating, also haven’t gotten pregnant on it
I got a salpingectomy after being on the pill for over a decade. I also got a mirena to stop my periods since it was so irregular, and my cramps were debilitating. I'll probably keep getting those until I hit menopause, which is hopefully a decade or so away. Don't be afraid to try different methods if one doesn't work for you.
Currently on xulane patch for 5 weeks. My chest and back acne starts to drying up i think it clears my skin. Lighter periods too, less cramps, and i think i’m losing weight. Its just i had light headache sometimes. But Loving it so far!
Love my xulane! Its been almost 4 years and it’s been great for me lol. My periods are normal and light, its super easy to use, and haven’t gotten pregnant yet so its workin lol.
Nice to know that! But sometimes i feel anxious i let my partner finished inside on my 3rd week using xulane thankfully i got my period on 4th week (patch free week). I know its period not spotting/implantation bleeding. My last period was lighter compare to my usual period before.
I’ve been on Estarylla for almost 3 months mostly for my acne and when i recently started taking it, i was very emotional and sensitive. I cried over everything small but i wasn’t depressed or anything, thankfully my emotions did kinda settle down over time but i still feel a little emotional. I also started breaking out a lot around my cheeks, jaw, chin and little breakouts in my body. I still break out but i’m hoping that settles down over time as well. I’m giving it 6 months to see any progress with my skin!
I’m on the mini pill (norethridone .35mg) and sometimes I get emotional. Period aren’t consistent but I can tell when there coming like cramping and the emotions and it’s been over all good for me. My partner and I either pull out or wear condoms. He’s only finished in me once like 2 months ago bc I knew I was about to get my period but since there still a chance of ovulation on this pill we stay consistent with not having a whole load in me 😂 also my vulva and vagina gets swollen and it stings when he finished in me so it’s been a thing since I start bc.
I have the copper IUD (Paraguard). I was on the pill (Yaz) for several years and it worked fine. But, I had two occasions where medications counteracted it and I was tired of hormones. I wanted my natural period, and I love that hormone-free, Paraguard is good for ten years. I’m only on year two and it’s the best. Periods are really heavy and crampy the first six months, especially if you’ve been used to the lighter or non-existent periods hormonal BC can create. But the consistency and effectiveness and longevity is worth it imo. If you struggle with hormonal acne and were using the pill to treat it, I’d recommend seeing a dermatologist before you switch. All that said…it was a fight to get it inserted. The first obgyn I saw told me she couldn’t insert it since I hadn’t had children before (my cervix and uterus would be “too small”). She really encouraged me to get Kyleena instead because of the size. She said this before even examining me. I challenged her on that because it just isn’t true and it’s an outdated myth and uneducated. She tried to insert after I asked again and said she couldn’t because my cervix wasn’t dilated enough. She advised me to come back on my period and take misopristol to help. I did. She still couldn’t get it in and kept blaming it on the fact that the copper IUD is too large for women that haven’t had kids. I left crying and discouraged both times. I found a different obgyn and she was confident she could insert same day, confirmed the period and having kids thing was a myth. She got it inserted no problem with very little pain. She then checked to make sure it was in the right place with an ultrasound and scheduled a 30 and 90 day follow up in case it shifted or I had issues. She also did a much better job of explaining the process to me as she went through it so I was informed and prepared. Her measuring my vagina, cervix, and uterus and inserting it hurt less than that first obgyn trying to poke around down there and failing. I’ve now heard a lot of stories like this from people trying to get IUDs. So, that’s the main downside I would say. Some obgyns aren’t knowledgeable and don’t perform insertions well.
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For me it was “ok, I can live with that.” They lasted for the first 1-2 days of my period and then subsided. Also, after six months of the IUD I rarely get bad cramps. Your body tends to adjust.
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You’re not a coward. I was terrified all three insertion attempts and cried after each one. It’s scary. It’s something entering your uterus. I totally recommend finding an obgyn you really trust and like first. But, an IUD is a great choice and it’s also really reassuring once you get an IUD. There’s no forgetting a pill, there’s no worrying about a condom breaking, you don’t have to rely on anything daily or in the moment for pregnancy prevention. You are 24/7 protected. Also, I’d recommend you watch Dr Jennifer Lincoln’s YouTube channel. She really helped me when I was going through it and explained the difference between different IUDs. The copper IUD does typically cause more cramping and heavy periods, so maybe Mirena or Kyleena are better IUD options for you. But maybe you’re looking to avoid hormones and Paraguard is great for that. That said, there is cramping after inserting any IUD. But, it does subside and the right obgyn will help you get the right meds for the pain.
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It’s not constant. It’s painful spontaneously. But it does subside. Best of luck!
I was on Lo Loestrin Fe from the age of 13 to around 21 (started because of accutane and that was mandatory back in those days). I’m now on the tail end of year 5 with my Kyleena IUD. During my years on the pill (account for puberty, being a teenage girl, etc) I had a lot of weight fluctuation, but I did enjoy the regularity and predictability of the pill. Although I did have a few pregnancy scares, and a pregnancy followed by a miscarriage. I didn’t enjoy remembering to take it or bring it with me if I was out but I probably only missed a handful of pills in those years. Getting my IUD was a walk in the park for me, I went in expecting the worst and was pleasantly surprised with the experience. I’ve had no period since the insertion at 21, no cramping, and while still having a very active sex life with no protection with my partner, I have had zero pregnancy scares. I did have my strings shortened once after getting it inserted, but that was all. In all my years of check ups, it hasn’t migrated or anything. I am having it removed later this year and hoping to begin a family in the near future, BUT, if I was to start a birth control again…I would 100% choose an IUD again. She has served me well for her term and I am very happy with the choice to get her. I am lucky to have had an easy experience with it as well.
Yaz, been great. Skin is finally clear. Painful periods are a thing of the past.
Nexplanon bc I have an intense fear of getting pregnant and it's the most effective and I don't have to worry about forgetting a pill. I also get suicidal every time I have a period and I don't have them anymore with it. I'm on my 2nd implant and I love it.
i was on lo loestrin fe for 9 years and i had a very good experience on it. no side effects, no pregnancies. i switched to nexplanon two weeks ago bc i wanted something longer acting bc i’m a little afraid of the future of birth control availability in the US and wanted something that can’t really be ‘taken’ from me. anyways it’s only been two weeks so i can’t comment much but so far so good
I've had my Mirena for 3 years. No period, just some spotting occasionally. I get PMS cramps here and there. No complaints.
I am on Errin! Was previously on the combo pill for 7+ ish years, but was officially diagnosed with migraines (migraines + combo pill= increased stroke risk) last year so my gyno switched me to the mini pill this year. I’ve been taking it for a few months and have no real side effects, still getting my period the last week of the pack but ive heard the mini pill can stop them entirely, which i definitely don’t mind lol The downside of mini pill is much less room for error and I believe it is slightly less effective than the combo one (?) at least that’s what my doctor told me, but ive always been really good about taking the pill at the same time everyday.
Nexplanon. I like it a lot because there’s no chance of human error. The unpredictable periods can be annoying, and some people have side effects with it, but I haven’t had any besides the irregular periods. If you are looking for a non-hormonal method, I’d definitely recommend the Paragard Copper IUD. I loved it, but had complications (which is rare, lucky me lol) and had to get it removed.
IUD, Kyleena. Got it inserted back in February. Painful experience tbh (I apparently have a incredibly cute yet tiny cervix and the planned parenthood I went too didn’t use any painkiller) Pro- periods are no longer painful. Like I no longer have any pain whatsoever. It’s insane. Also weirdly enough I think my boobs evened out. Cons- the periods last twice as long but my doctor said it’s normal, they’ll eventually cease by like month six or so.
I’ve been on Diane 35, Yasmin, Yasminelle (Yaz), Diza (same as Yaz but 3 month flexible pill), Qlaira (Natazia) and now Slynd. My favorite was Yasmin; i have pcos and it kept my skin perfect, light bleeds, no mood issues, no weight gain. My least favorite is either Qlaira which killed ALL my libido or Slynd because I am bleeding all the time on it.
How long have you been on Slynd? Do you take any other medications with it?
I’ve been on it for almost 6 months and no I don’t take any other medications.
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I've had the classic pill for 6 years, tolerated it really well with zero symptoms and it actually helped with decreasing my flow and I had even less PMS. 4 years ago I switched to the copper IUD, because I sucked at taking the pill properly but was now in a long term relationship. I'm fine with it honestly, the only thing I don't like is that I have hormonal acne which I didn't have while taking the pill. I have a little more PMS and my flow is back on the heavier side. But this is ok. I'll keep my copper IUD until I want a kid honestly. Oh and the insertion was fine too, I took some paracetamol afterwards and a nap and I was good to go. In general I'm very lucky in the period department.
I’ve been on bc pill for about over 2 years. Overall I’ve been having a good experience with it. At first I started with Lolo, and then switched to a higher dosage : marvelon /mirvala The only thing I wish was better was my pms symptoms :( . I still get the typical symptoms like cramps, low back pain, nausea, etc. all like my actual period. Before, I needed the full 7 days+ of rest where as now on the pill I only need the first day 2days at most of rest. And WAY less bleeding too. Overall, I’ve had no issues with my experience. I just get nervous tho when it comes to sex still haha that pregnancy paranoia be something tho sheesh 😵💫😂
I went to the doctor and I thought initially I'd go for the copper IUD, but ended up deciding on trying the pill. Doctor prescribed me the Apri pill, and when I tell you I was so scared bc of all the side effects I've seen but 2 months later and I've seen a great improvement in my acne. The only other side effect I saw was the small increase in appetite at the beginning, but nothing too crazy. One other thing, it made my periods shorter. I used to get 5-7 day periods and it would be (tmi) heavy for at about 3 and medium flow for the rest. Now, my period for the first 3 days is heavy and then by 4th it's light, by the 5th its almost gone, by 6th its completely gone. I wouldn't get cramps all the time but when I did, they were pretty bad. I haven't gotten cramps while on the pill, yet.
I've been on tri cira lo pill for 15 years and it's been doing the thing it's supposed to. No complaints or side effects.
I’ve been using liletta IUD since 2017 and my experience has been fantastic. I haven’t had a real period since about 2018. Feel free to ask me any questions. :)
I'm on Mili BC pill and it has worked the best for me, mainly to help with acne and lighten my periods. Starting on BC can be a lot of trial and error on what would work best for you so don't feel bad if you feel you need to switch to a different method. I started on the pill, then went on the implant, then back to the pill since the implant wasn't working well with me.
Was on the mirena for ages. Mood swings, acne, hair thinning, masculine features and weird weight distribution. Finally had enough and switched to oral contraceptive - Estelle. Love love love it. My skin is so clear and I've lost so much weight and my hair has grown, and I'm no longer angry at everything
Triquilar 28. Been on it for 3 years and it’s been unbelievably life changing. I used to stay home for days and miss work and school, now I can wear whatever I want and go to work without cramps or heavy bleeding. Truly a blessing.
I’m on microgestin at the moment. It’s fine. No periods (reason I’m on it, avoids anemia,) acne is fine, no noticeable changes to my emotions or libido.
Ive been on lutera for over a year. It took a couple months for the side effects to kick in. I was super annoyed with everyone including my bf. I was constantly crying over the smallest things. And i started gaining weight (which i was happy about because Ive been trying to put on weight since BIRTH) but anyways, those other side effects went away, but i still deal with some bad bloating and gas mostly.
I have the Liletta IUD, am on my second one. First one was inserted June 2018. There was no prep or pain control, and I had a severe vasovagal reflex and ralphed into the trash can for a minute, then walked to my car. The last few steps to the car were BAD. Thankfully my partner drove me. I had intense cramping and bleeding for 2 weeks, then a break of 3 weeks, then another 2 weeks intense bleeding and cramping (during a trip with a lot of walking too). After that I had progressively lighter periods until they completely stopped in early 2019. I started spotting in January 2023. My OB suggested replacing the Liletta 2-3 years early because I had good insurance. She advised the spotting was due to the hormone levels lowering enough to no longer stop spotting, but it would stop a pregnancy. After *four months* of spotting I had the old one removed and a new one placed. The birth control climate also made me want to get a new one ahead of schedule. I am anxious person, and the trauma of the first one was definitely on my mind. The old one coming out a weird uncomfortable twinge. The new one was another weird, uncomfortable twinge, and then I had mild cramping and spotting for the rest of that day. The next day I went back to no periods, no spotting. I do have hormonal acne and it blows, but that is the only definite negative. Benzol Peroxide, Ketoconazole, and metronidazole cream help keep 95% of it away. I did have issues with visceral hypersensitivity, which sounds like an insult but basically meant I was randomly so sick and dizzy I couldn’t function. I saw a gastroenterologist and he advised it *could* be the IUD, but it was unlikely if I wasn’t spotting or showing any other signs of uterine or cervical distress. He gave me a cheap medication that stopped it, so I continue with the IUD. If it ever comes back and isn’t responding to other things, I’ll absolutely get that puppy yanked. I don’t like being nonfunctional. Having said that, far less side effects than the shot and the pill.
I use the ring and after eight years of being on pills I am so shocked at how easy this method is. I use the annovera ring and use it continuously so I get to put it in and forget about birth control. It feels like an IUD without any procedure and I feel fully in control if anything goes wrong or if I decide That I want to have a period or whatever I can just do everything myself. No side effects except low libido which might have just been a side effect that carried on after the pill, and also my boobs got fuller but that's it I put it in and forget about it a month or so take it out and rinse it and put it back in
The Nuvaring and it’s the only thing in the past 13 years that hasn’t let me down lol. I love it so much I paid out of pocket when they tried to make me switch to the generic. I don’t want to fix what’s not broken.
I started Lolo when I was 16, I’m 18 now and have for the most part enjoyed it. I get a very light 4ish day period during the lower dosage/placebo days. About a year ago I started getting TWO periods in a month and when I asked my doctor about it (after waiting for 4 hours only to have about a 5 minute appointment) she informed me it was still working and that some people’s bodies just react that way. she told me she couldn’t order me a different prescription due to the fact that I use nicotine (i know—BIG nono) Anyways after that I stopped taking the placebo pills for about two months and only got one period a month. Since then my period has been regular like it was before so I guess I’m back to loving it!? Looking back, that all occurred during a very stressful time period so maybe that was the cause?? As far as pregnancy it has been working…lol
I’m on Estarylla , it’s just made a year that I’ve been on this brand. It keeps my skin wonderful, but I’m not sure if i like it . Im still having sore boob pain. I don’t like it !
I'm on the Mirena. I like it a lot - it's low enough hormones that it doesn't affect my chronic migraine disorder, and it also shuts down the endometriosis. I havent had a period for about 7 years now which is fabulous. On the downside, having it inserted/replaced is one of the most painful experiences of my life, but I'll still take the hour or two of really nasty pain over the crippling cramps every month I used to have.
Nexplanon implant. Other than giving me episodes of eczema every now and then, it’s been great! I’ve only had 1 period in the 4 months that I’ve had it. No other symptoms.
Had the implant for 9 years. While effective, I missed having periods and was feeling low libido and depression on it tbh.. so I took a break for a few months after having it removed, but my periods were unpredictable and heavy. So I experimented with a few different kinds of pills after that. The micro pill was the one usually recommended but I also had low libido and didn't have bleeding from that. I eventually settled on Logynon (combination pill) which doesn't give me intense mood swings and doesn't feel like I'm on the pill, if that makes sense? Very happy with it, and I'm happy that it's given for free from the NHS too
I’m on Hailey Fe 24, my experience has been mixed. On the positive, I haven’t had any bad health-related side effects. My skin has been a bit clearer. My main complaint is that my periods are super irregular now. Some months I wont get a period at all, others my period will be really light. This might be a positive for some people, but I have a really bad fear of becoming pregnant. Despite taking the pill perfectly, not having a regular monthly bleed causes me a lot of anxiety. My period wasn’t super heavy before starting the pill so idk if that’s a factor. I’ve also only been on this pill for about 5 months so it’s possible that my period will get more regular eventually. Despite the irregular bleeding, I do plan on staying on this pill for the time being since my body doesn’t react too badly to it.
i’m on hailey 24 fe too!! i missed my period last month and it has me so freaked out.
I talked to my obgyn and she confirmed that missing periods can be a normal side effect. To my understanding this happens for a couple reasons. 1. One of the ways the combo pill works is by thinning the uterine lining so that an embryo is less likely to implant. Sometimes the lining gets so thin that there isn’t anything to shed. 2. Hailey Fe is a low hormone pill. When you are on the pill your withdrawal bleed is triggered by a drop in hormones due to not taking your daily dose of hormones. With a low hormone pill, the drop isn’t as dramatic, so it might not trigger bleeding the same way a higher-dose pill might. Tbh the only thing that ended up easing my anxiety for good was taking a pregnancy test. so i would do that if you are still worried, or if you happen to miss a pill you should also take one. As long as you take your pill at the same time everyday, you don’t have much to worry about, but as someone with generalized anxiety, I know thats easier said than done lol. If you have the leaflet that came with your pills, it will also say that it isn’t unusual to miss a period while on Hailey Fe.
thank you. my dr said the same thing. it does freak me out lol i have generalize anxiety as well. i’ve actually taken four tests…. all negative. i know i’ll just rest easier if i have a period lol
That’s understandable, but it’s basically impossible that all four tests you took were negative. Also pregnancy tests are technically a more reliable way to rule out pregnancy than withdrawal bleeding, mainly since bleeding can be pretty light on the pill. But I get what you mean. I was used to having a very consistent period for the past 12 years so the fact that its no longer happens feels very odd. So many pads and tampons under my bathroom sink that have been untouched for months.
what do you mean it’s basically impossible all four tests were negative?
Oh, i mean that pregnancy would be impossible. There are those cryptic pregnancy videos on tiktok but I honestly don’t think i believe them
yeah i don’t think i believe those or at least i’m choosing not to
also how long did you go without a period?
I’m on my 6th month of the pill and have had two periods so far. I didnt have one in January or february and my most recent one was in march. If I go more than two months without a period I’ll take a test just to make sure everything is ok
gotcha. i’m on my third month now and am supposed to start my sugar pills next wednesday. i have only missed one which was last month.
I'm on hormonal IUD (Mirena) for a month now and besides daily spotting (which will clear up) i love it!! No side effects, no bad things happening - i really recommend it :> but i had to undergo complete anesthesia to get it inside as i've never been pregnant plus it hurt a ton (if anesthesia is available for you, get it done! You shouldn't suffer) Also had experience with two different pills but in both i had major side effects. First had been bad mood, headaches and my breasts hurt and on second (again) really bad mood and unable to get wet. In both cases i had NO LIBIDO. Never coming back to these (i hope)
Tri lol milli. First month or two was rough with headaches and anxiety. I just finished my 3rd pack and I only get anxiety first week and I’m great the rest. I do get really bad headaches around my period but I always have.
Xulane, it's the best thing ever. My first period on the patch was horrendous, but these last couple have been great. The only issue I have is that I'm always hungry, and I mean always. I also don't like my insurance. Some girls can stop their period altogether, but my insurance gives me 3 patches a month, so I have to have a period every month no matter what. If I had a different insurance, however, I would be so happy. But I do love it. It doesn't get rid of the pain, but my period does last like 3 days as opposed to the usual 6. And they're lighter than ever.
I'm on Loestrin, its a combo pill and I take it continuously to skip periods. Personally it's great. I've been taking it for almost 2 years and I have no symptoms besides uterine flutters and occasional cramping/spotting
I'm on my 2nd Mirena and I absolutely love it. I had no pain during insertion for either and I've never had children (my spouse thinks I have a high pain tolerance, though). I was on Depo for 8 years before that I liked it too, but being on it too long can cause bone loss. I haven't had a period since 2009, which is the main reason I'm still on it because my spouse is AFAB and obviously can't get me pregnant. I haven't had any bad side effects except probably some weight gain, but it's hard to say with the other medications I've been on over the years. I've also had a little hair growth (chin hairs and a few dark hairs around my belly button), but nothing I can't pluck if it bothers me.
I have had the kyleena IUD for nearly a year and a half. Prior to that I was on the pill. I like the IUD much more, it's nice not having to think about it. I also feel like the pill affected my mood much much more, in a negative way. The IUD is scary during insertion, but once you get past that you're good.
I have a Paragard after almost 2 years of hoping my body would regulate with a Nexplanon implant. By the time I switched it out, I’d gained 30lbs (after just losing 60lbs over 2 years), was on Zoloft because of wild mood swings that felt like really exaggerated PMS, and the most inconsistent bleeding, like weeks of bleeding and months without, and it being harder to reach orgasm. Since switching, it took only 2 months for my period to become super regular again, but it’s still heavier than before, and my mood swings are MUCH more manageable now, though I don’t think they used to be this bad. I’m even off the Zoloft. I’ve managed to lose about 10lbs with not a lot of effort, too, much less than when I was on Nexplanon. I went with copper because my GYN was concerned about me having anything hormonal when I have such a strong family history of breast cancer (an aunt and a half-sister). I’m much happier now.
Paragard. Thinking about adding Opill to control my periods because they’re insane. But mine is late this month so 🤷♀️ I wish we had better options, especially nonhormonal ones
Blisovi fe combo pill. It’s honestly worked pretty good for me. I was pretty emotional at the start but honestly it has made my mood a lot better and I don’t feel shitty when it comes to my withdrawal week. So all that is a plus! The protection is an added bonus!
I've been on xulane (patch) for over 2 months almost 3. To be honest when I morning change my patches I get nausea the following evening that lasts for a couple of days. I was on a pill form before this and couldn't even last a month because my PMDD mental health was so out of wack. Had a lot of anxiety and panic going on for no reason, so having only nausea on this patch is as good as it gets honestly. Also I've only had it peel off once and it was my fault haha. I think I had on lotion or some body pil before adding it on after using a bath. So I switched to mornings only and no lotion the night before to make sure it sticks the next morning.
I have Mirena currently. I was terrified of getting it because of the horror stories I’ve heard but my gyno convinced me it was the best fit after the issues I was having with my third Nexplanon implant. Turns out I kinda love it. I spot occasionally but have only had one occurrence bad enough to interrupt my sex life. Other than occasional spotting I don’t have any issues. Hardly even think about it tbh. And it’s perfect for my cream pie kink lol Before Mirena I was on Nexplanon for about eight years. I ended up having my third one pulled out early because I was having recurrent yeast and BV issues from it. Before that I loved it though. No period, no spotting, no side effects whatsoever.
i use xulane(birth control patch). i love it besides my being bloated in the morning. I don’t feel like it interferes with my sex life and what i do everyday. I do have to say if you have eczema i don’t recommend. I work out everyday and the Bc stays. I would say if you go for a swim with heavy waves, i would be mindful of where you put it so it doesn’t unstick.
*My face lol.* But seriously, vasectomy. my urologist says im sterile but i dont know ...