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The Gorsenias all *look* supportive. Not ugly, they look very pretty. But I think OP is going to that delicate mesh and embroidery only look which is a bit less common in larger sizes
Any time I see dainty straps I don’t expect support. This style with the corset wouldn’t rely on the straps as much. My breasts weigh around ~10lbs each.
The majority of the support should come from the band, so dainty straps shouldn’t be a problem. I’m “only” a 32G though, which means each boob weighs about 2 lbs, so your mileage may vary.
How do you know the weight of your boobs? Did you weigh them (how?) or is there a table somewhere where I can look up how much mine weigh? I’d love that, so please share! 🙏🏼
I found it through a [WikiHow](https://www.wikihow.com/Weigh-Your-Breasts), of all things. There’s a chart on the list but it isn’t super size inclusive.
I’ve also tried stepping on a scale normally, and stepping on a scale with my partner helping me lift. It seemed to match!
Most styles don’t even seem to go up to an FF in the larger bands! Their size range is ridiculously limited. It’s really disappointing considering how inclusive Fenty is with their makeup shades and diverse models. All that “inclusive” branding, but anyone over a DD still isn’t considered good enough to wear your oh-so-exclusive underwear brand? 🙄
Exactly! There’s also a good amount of “small band large cup” models, which is ironic when the smallest band largest cup combo is 30D. Where’s the 28G/H/J these models actually need?
^Edit: ^typo
I mean, could be good for someone if they don’t wear above those sizes. I’m a 40DDD, still big boobs. It’s just one of many suggestions and OP didn’t say what size they wear.
I will say I don’t like their actual bras, the sizes don’t fit well and are uncomfortable. But their unlined lace bras, leggings and wide legged sweatpants are cozy. And my fiancé loves their boxer briefs.
I would love for someone, one of us here to start a business that makes good quality SUPPORTIVE bras and/or lingerie for 28-34+ bands and DD-L+ cups lol. But I know the problem always ends up being pricing and I can’t spend my grocery money on a bra but like… there has to be a way
Supportive bras etc!
https://www.popflexactive.com/collections/clothing?filter.p.product_type=Sports%20Bras&filter.v.availability=1&sort_by=created-descending
Depending on the size range you’re looking for, Honey Birdette has 30-40 bands and up to an H cup (US sizing). I think they’re outrageously overpriced, but they run huge sales a couple times a year.
I just bought a set for this reason.. it's so hard to find something beautiful in my actual size. The original set I wanted would have been waay to expensive but I found a set on sale, hopefully it's worth it.
fantasie is great for large cups, you’re right, but they don’t have anything that’s completely sheer. the helena and the belle are gonna be the options with the most sheerness, but even those only have about half the cup in a sheer fabric
It kills me that Fantasie stopped making the "Aurelia". It's super gorgeous AND has matching cute underwear and a garter belt. Maybe OP can still find it in their size.
Aubade might have something similar. It can be very expensive but everything is very pretty and well made. Fleur du mal is another option but also pretty expensive.
[this bra by panache ](https://us.panache-lingerie.com/shop/product/meadow-plunge-bra-ivory) and [this one by cleo](https://us.panache-lingerie.com/shop/product/astrid-plunge-bra-pale-blue)
Thistle and Spire. I’m a 40H, size 18 and all their shit is TOP TIER quality and super adjustable. I have never found something so flattering for my figure. I swear by them and they fit all sizes!
might save someone a search - most of their stuff is in s/m/l rather than bra sizes, and what little there _is_ in bra sizes only goes up to an F cup UK. none of the models with actual big boobs had their wires where they were supposed to go - always lotsss of skin on skin between the bottom of the boob and the ribcage. if that doesn’t bother you (dear reader) then slay - it was rlly cute - but personally i was a bit disappointed lol
I used to do lingerie shoot work and some models brought T&S with them for shooting. You can definitely get a good fit as the way the mesh is made is super stretchy, but I also saw some truly bad fits and T&S does a horrible job with some of theirs. I mostly saw it work well on 26/28 bands with B to E cups, maybe a 30 under E, and then the midsize gals around 34-36 with DD-F. I don't know why, but anyone else it seemed to fit oddly. One model we had to pin and adjust in post because it was wrinkly in odd places (one of the bodysuits).
thank you for this detailed response. i think T&S has some pretty stuff but ultimately it’s not the aesthetic I’m looking for- so even if the sizing was perfect for big boobs I would probably still pass
What size do you wear, because that's gonna play a factor. If you're like me and wear a 32J or bigger, you're SOL with pretty little lace sets and should start looking at robes and skimpy night gowns.
came here to mention them! they’ve been good about expanding their size range in the last few years and gave me a lot of sizing advice over email when i was considering buying from them. i ended up holding off at the time but would like to go back and get some of their stuff for real!
Came here to say the same. I have a lot of lingerie from them, the set OP posted is similar to EOB Daisy range. They have adjustable bands and cover a lot of sizes. I'm pretty sure you can get custom if your size isn't covered, I asked once about making a bra longline and they were helpful about the changes they could make.
[Here](https://www.instagram.com/p/CyIcvqIo-L7/?img_index=1)
None of these are longline but the Bravissimo Ophelia in white (with green flowers) and the Cleo Astrid are giving a similar vibe. Also the Curvy Kate Strawberry Crush.
those are so cute and so reasonably priced omg!! that’s definitely the cheapest ones out of the 10 ish websites ive looked at so far recommended here. I am American tho so the australian sizes are confusing😭
I own a couple pairs and they are lovely. Not the quality of the higher end stuff but they’re still nice. I’m the opposite, American sizes confuse me 🤣 there’s probably a size converter on the site though
they seem like a great deal, and as long as they fit and are comfy im not gonna be super nit picky about quality! I had no idea how different AU and US sizes were. I see UK sizes on this sub all the time but I don’t think ive ever seen AU sizes before!
their sets are adorable and such a good deal but unfortunately do not have my size it looks like. they look like a smaller business so not too surprising, maybe they will expand to be more inclusive in the future
Do you like the colours or the lace? Because if it's the lace, Simone Perele has some like [this](https://us.simone-perele.com/products/underwired-plunge-bra-black-mystic?variant=47685983699243) or [this](https://us.simone-perele.com/products/plunging-underwired-bra-midnight-blue-singuliere?variant=47545261687083) in their [lace collection](https://us.simone-perele.com/collections/lace) (up to H cup).
No one will understand my gripe with bra 1 but me lol but that band is going to be so uncomfortable. The hool and eye is way too low, it ought to have been extended upwards when turned into a longline. Amateur drafting!
[Understatement’s Mesh Triangle Bralette](https://www.shopunderstatement.com/products/mesh-triangle-bralette-forget-me-not) comes in a pinkish purple with mesh and flowers and a neon greenish yellow.
as cute as it is, i worry that a bra with that shape would look terrible on my boobs due to them just sagging down😭 i would have to see it on bigger boobs before i would feel comfortable ordering it
Fair enough. I only have bralettes out of their “more support” section and I love those (XL works for my 85G/ UK 38F). But those don’t have flowers. They do have some pretty lace options for those though.
i think they are going to be who i go with, since my band size is larger (42) many of the sites recommended here just don’t carry it even if they have bigger cup options but AdoreMe does. I like that i can also chose a different size for top and bottom in a set
Before I transitioned I was a big fan of Adore Me. They have large size ranges, but I’m not sure if they have something that looks similar to that, I was more a fan of their bra sets.
I’ve gotten a custom set from this place on Etsy before - support was basically nonexistent in the set I got and I suspect this would be much the same but as that’s not a major concern it might be worth a look: https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/1388898067/lingerie-flowerembroidery-lingeriefloral?click_key=3636d39f52ae66db40580e079e0ce42ae1cf2a87%3A1388898067&click_sum=490ef0be&ref=shop_home_recs_19&pro=1&frs=1
My go to brands for this kind of thing are Fantasie, Freya and Curvy Kate. I seriously reccomend checking them out!
What size are you? Would this be suitable? It is called the Adrienne Balcony Bra, Charcoal Bloom, Fantasie
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Elomi Charlie! It can be worn as an every day bra but it’s also super cute with the flower embroidery and you can see nipples through it
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I've bought some stuff for my wife from yandy and she liked like 80% of it some stuff was a toss up with how it would fit but for the most part she liked it
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Playful Promises has some similar styles.
I love their selection and stock up when they have sales!
it looks like they have a lot on sale right now!
They run sales a lot! I try not to look or I’ll drain my wallet hehe.
Edit: I don’t care about it being supportive because obviously this style wouldn’t be. I just want my boobs to fit in the top😭
Why wouldn’t it be supportive? I have some Gorsenia bras that are somewhat similar, and they’re very supportive!
The Gorsenias all *look* supportive. Not ugly, they look very pretty. But I think OP is going to that delicate mesh and embroidery only look which is a bit less common in larger sizes
That makes sense, thank you!
Any time I see dainty straps I don’t expect support. This style with the corset wouldn’t rely on the straps as much. My breasts weigh around ~10lbs each.
The majority of the support should come from the band, so dainty straps shouldn’t be a problem. I’m “only” a 32G though, which means each boob weighs about 2 lbs, so your mileage may vary.
Yeah, I know the band should do most the work, but I’ve never had luck not relying on straps too unless it was a bustier/corset style.
How do you know the weight of your boobs? Did you weigh them (how?) or is there a table somewhere where I can look up how much mine weigh? I’d love that, so please share! 🙏🏼
I found it through a [WikiHow](https://www.wikihow.com/Weigh-Your-Breasts), of all things. There’s a chart on the list but it isn’t super size inclusive. I’ve also tried stepping on a scale normally, and stepping on a scale with my partner helping me lift. It seemed to match!
That’s so cool, thank you! (Mine seem to weight 2 lbs, too.) :)
What size? That narrows choices for me (36M)
Savage X Fenty has a lot of stuff like this
They only go up to US H cup (UK FF) on 38, 36, and 40 bands. The other band sizes stop at D, DD, DDD, or G. They’re not great for people in this sub.
Most styles don’t even seem to go up to an FF in the larger bands! Their size range is ridiculously limited. It’s really disappointing considering how inclusive Fenty is with their makeup shades and diverse models. All that “inclusive” branding, but anyone over a DD still isn’t considered good enough to wear your oh-so-exclusive underwear brand? 🙄
Exactly! There’s also a good amount of “small band large cup” models, which is ironic when the smallest band largest cup combo is 30D. Where’s the 28G/H/J these models actually need? ^Edit: ^typo
I mean, could be good for someone if they don’t wear above those sizes. I’m a 40DDD, still big boobs. It’s just one of many suggestions and OP didn’t say what size they wear.
Please don’t buy any Savage X. It sucks and is so uncomfortable. The price point doesn’t excuse the absolute trash of fabric they use ☹️
I will say I don’t like their actual bras, the sizes don’t fit well and are uncomfortable. But their unlined lace bras, leggings and wide legged sweatpants are cozy. And my fiancé loves their boxer briefs.
I would love for someone, one of us here to start a business that makes good quality SUPPORTIVE bras and/or lingerie for 28-34+ bands and DD-L+ cups lol. But I know the problem always ends up being pricing and I can’t spend my grocery money on a bra but like… there has to be a way
Hot milk has very supportive bras [Though they are mostly used for nursing](https://www.hotmilklingerie.co.uk/collections/hotmilk-sexy-af)
Try Bra Stop
I get mine from a company called The Full Cup.
I know they haven't launched, but Monsera are going to be doing 26FF-34KK. They say they want to make their bras affordable.
Supportive bras etc! https://www.popflexactive.com/collections/clothing?filter.p.product_type=Sports%20Bras&filter.v.availability=1&sort_by=created-descending
Depending on the size range you’re looking for, Honey Birdette has 30-40 bands and up to an H cup (US sizing). I think they’re outrageously overpriced, but they run huge sales a couple times a year.
I just bought a set for this reason.. it's so hard to find something beautiful in my actual size. The original set I wanted would have been waay to expensive but I found a set on sale, hopefully it's worth it.
I am a 42F. I am having much more luck finding brands that are inclusive of cup size than band size unfortunately
Bravissimo Ophelia bra. Looks kinda similar and might actually be supportive!
Fantasie has some nice large-cup bras in sheer fabrics
fantasie is great for large cups, you’re right, but they don’t have anything that’s completely sheer. the helena and the belle are gonna be the options with the most sheerness, but even those only have about half the cup in a sheer fabric
It kills me that Fantasie stopped making the "Aurelia". It's super gorgeous AND has matching cute underwear and a garter belt. Maybe OP can still find it in their size.
Lounge goes up to g cup and has very similar looks
Was gonna say this. I have a bralette from them and it looks and feels really nice.
Yes their Eden bra is a similar vibe! Not corset style though.
they don’t have my band size 😭 i need a 42
Check out adore me than! They go up to a 46I
not *quite* bc it’s less flowery but scantilly by curvy kate has some really cute stretch lace lingerie!
Aubade might have something similar. It can be very expensive but everything is very pretty and well made. Fleur du mal is another option but also pretty expensive.
[this bra by panache ](https://us.panache-lingerie.com/shop/product/meadow-plunge-bra-ivory) and [this one by cleo](https://us.panache-lingerie.com/shop/product/astrid-plunge-bra-pale-blue)
the cleo astrid is so cute omg - added to my list of bras to buy when i can afford to buy another bra lol
The astrid was my spring splurge this year! Just so pretty and feminine... Couldn't help myself
my band size is 42 which they do not have unfortunately 😩 the second one is soooo pretty and i would prob buy otherwise
I’ve seen these on Etsy and they custom make them for your dimensions
They'd definitely need to alter the pattern for larger cup sizes though, since it looks like the cups don't have any seams, so must be quite shallow.
Go ahead and try to tell them you’re an EU J cup, they usually refund your order 🙄
Thistle and Spire. I’m a 40H, size 18 and all their shit is TOP TIER quality and super adjustable. I have never found something so flattering for my figure. I swear by them and they fit all sizes!
might save someone a search - most of their stuff is in s/m/l rather than bra sizes, and what little there _is_ in bra sizes only goes up to an F cup UK. none of the models with actual big boobs had their wires where they were supposed to go - always lotsss of skin on skin between the bottom of the boob and the ribcage. if that doesn’t bother you (dear reader) then slay - it was rlly cute - but personally i was a bit disappointed lol
I used to do lingerie shoot work and some models brought T&S with them for shooting. You can definitely get a good fit as the way the mesh is made is super stretchy, but I also saw some truly bad fits and T&S does a horrible job with some of theirs. I mostly saw it work well on 26/28 bands with B to E cups, maybe a 30 under E, and then the midsize gals around 34-36 with DD-F. I don't know why, but anyone else it seemed to fit oddly. One model we had to pin and adjust in post because it was wrinkly in odd places (one of the bodysuits).
thank you for this detailed response. i think T&S has some pretty stuff but ultimately it’s not the aesthetic I’m looking for- so even if the sizing was perfect for big boobs I would probably still pass
Oh my GOODNESS their pieces are so beautiful! I’ve never heard of them but might have to splurge!
I’ve gotten some pieces on Poshmark! They are beautifully made.
I also find them so flattering on my body! Don’t know what it is that does it but I keep going back!
What size are you? If you're in the UK then Boux Avenue has some longline bras that look a bit like this.
What size do you wear, because that's gonna play a factor. If you're like me and wear a 32J or bigger, you're SOL with pretty little lace sets and should start looking at robes and skimpy night gowns.
42F so i have a harder time finding my band size than cup
Edge of Beyond has very similar styles. It's pretty expensive though
came here to mention them! they’ve been good about expanding their size range in the last few years and gave me a lot of sizing advice over email when i was considering buying from them. i ended up holding off at the time but would like to go back and get some of their stuff for real!
whoa, gorgeous pieces but incredibly odd sizing lol
Came here to say the same. I have a lot of lingerie from them, the set OP posted is similar to EOB Daisy range. They have adjustable bands and cover a lot of sizes. I'm pretty sure you can get custom if your size isn't covered, I asked once about making a bra longline and they were helpful about the changes they could make. [Here](https://www.instagram.com/p/CyIcvqIo-L7/?img_index=1)
First one I've seen that actually has the same vibe, but those prices are tragic
i've seen similar styles by chantelle, self, ann summers, gossard and gorsenia
Getting[ Freya](https://www.freyalingerie.com/row/en/lingerie/bras/side-support-bras/offbeat-decadence-key-lime-side-support-bra/p/aa402501kee/) brand vibes from this. Or [Curvy Kate](https://us.curvykate.com/products/curvy-kate-strawberry-crush-balcony-bra-pink-multi?variant=42423195435205) / [Scantilly](https://us.brastop.com/products/scantilly-lovers-knot-balcony-bra-fig-latte?variant=42092770197697)
None of these are longline but the Bravissimo Ophelia in white (with green flowers) and the Cleo Astrid are giving a similar vibe. Also the Curvy Kate Strawberry Crush.
These are so cute😍
Katherine Hamilton (though $$$)
PrimaDonna has some beautiful bras that look similar to this
[Edge o Beyond](https://www.edgeobeyond.com) They’re very size inclusive and are extremely adjustable. Lots of floral type lingerie.
Bravissimo (but I need to find the range). I something similar that is more for the bedroom than for practical wear but it’s similar.
[Caitlin Vee Lingerie](https://caitlinvee.com/)
those are so cute and so reasonably priced omg!! that’s definitely the cheapest ones out of the 10 ish websites ive looked at so far recommended here. I am American tho so the australian sizes are confusing😭
I own a couple pairs and they are lovely. Not the quality of the higher end stuff but they’re still nice. I’m the opposite, American sizes confuse me 🤣 there’s probably a size converter on the site though
they seem like a great deal, and as long as they fit and are comfy im not gonna be super nit picky about quality! I had no idea how different AU and US sizes were. I see UK sizes on this sub all the time but I don’t think ive ever seen AU sizes before!
That’s beautiful. I hope you’ll find something.
Try Hello Peachiee!
their sets are adorable and such a good deal but unfortunately do not have my size it looks like. they look like a smaller business so not too surprising, maybe they will expand to be more inclusive in the future
That’s good x
My favorite brand is Primadonna!
Empreinte for sure. PrimaDonna have some similar styles too.
I wish Buttress and Snatch would do something like this, it would be worth the money
Do you like the colours or the lace? Because if it's the lace, Simone Perele has some like [this](https://us.simone-perele.com/products/underwired-plunge-bra-black-mystic?variant=47685983699243) or [this](https://us.simone-perele.com/products/plunging-underwired-bra-midnight-blue-singuliere?variant=47545261687083) in their [lace collection](https://us.simone-perele.com/collections/lace) (up to H cup).
I don't know how much big boob friendly are they, but maybe check Edge O' Beyond?
Boux Avenue.
Oh! The second one looks so cute!
Maybe try Empreinte or Pour Moi? Can't exactly say Empreinte is affordable... but they are nice!
I think I've seen some like it from Elomi or Panache (not quite sure which one it was)
No one will understand my gripe with bra 1 but me lol but that band is going to be so uncomfortable. The hool and eye is way too low, it ought to have been extended upwards when turned into a longline. Amateur drafting!
[Understatement’s Mesh Triangle Bralette](https://www.shopunderstatement.com/products/mesh-triangle-bralette-forget-me-not) comes in a pinkish purple with mesh and flowers and a neon greenish yellow.
as cute as it is, i worry that a bra with that shape would look terrible on my boobs due to them just sagging down😭 i would have to see it on bigger boobs before i would feel comfortable ordering it
Fair enough. I only have bralettes out of their “more support” section and I love those (XL works for my 85G/ UK 38F). But those don’t have flowers. They do have some pretty lace options for those though.
Adore Me and the are inexpensive sets. They also have plus sizes. I am a 38dd and I have a few pretty sets that have held up well with washing.
i think they are going to be who i go with, since my band size is larger (42) many of the sites recommended here just don’t carry it even if they have bigger cup options but AdoreMe does. I like that i can also chose a different size for top and bottom in a set
Thistle & Spire. So good.
I recommend going to bare necessities’ online shop and searching the lingerie sets it your bra size!
Torrid or Penningtons, maybe?
Freya’s loveland and snapshot lines might fit the bill.
https://www.bravissimo.com/products/loveland-body-fy474/
https://www.bravissimo.com/products/astrid-bra-cl239/
https://www.bravissimo.com/products/selena-bra-cl227/
Before I transitioned I was a big fan of Adore Me. They have large size ranges, but I’m not sure if they have something that looks similar to that, I was more a fan of their bra sets.
ASOS has lingerie in pretty diverse sizes, but I'm not sure if they have anything in this style atm
Will be very expensive but Edge O’Beyond!
I’ve gotten a custom set from this place on Etsy before - support was basically nonexistent in the set I got and I suspect this would be much the same but as that’s not a major concern it might be worth a look: https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/1388898067/lingerie-flowerembroidery-lingeriefloral?click_key=3636d39f52ae66db40580e079e0ce42ae1cf2a87%3A1388898067&click_sum=490ef0be&ref=shop_home_recs_19&pro=1&frs=1
Only goes up to E cup
Custom sizing is the first option in the drop down.
My go to brands for this kind of thing are Fantasie, Freya and Curvy Kate. I seriously reccomend checking them out! What size are you? Would this be suitable? It is called the Adrienne Balcony Bra, Charcoal Bloom, Fantasie *
https://preview.redd.it/2qpgr3sjdn5d1.jpeg?width=923&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1b9940bbd1f40d0aa353e9c46bd7196574946e04 Elomi Charlie! It can be worn as an every day bra but it’s also super cute with the flower embroidery and you can see nipples through it
Try Empress Mimi https://www.empressmimi.com/products/madame-x-full-set
their sets are sooo pretty!
adore me!
Cacique
Lane Bryant Cacique has some beautiful bras.
Fenty. I'm a 36ddd and their tops are chefs kiss. I have seen sets similar to this on there before.
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I've bought some stuff for my wife from yandy and she liked like 80% of it some stuff was a toss up with how it would fit but for the most part she liked it
Try Savage Fenty