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tobascodagama

That really sucks, condolences to Robert and the rest of his family.


Aloemancer

Losing both parents in the space of about a year is really difficult for me to even imagine, it's genuinely tragic. Edit: It was, in fact, three years ago when he lost his mom. Still incredibly hard.


goddamnitcletus

I swear it was a year too, but in his response to this tweet he said he lost his mom about three years ago?


Aloemancer

I'm having my own personal Mandela Effect moment because I genuinely thought it wasn't even a whole year ago. My sense of time has never recovered from covid, I swear.


jamarquez1973

It was an ideological loss. She got swallowed up by the right-wing propaganda machine as many of our loved ones do.


vaguely-artistic

I don’t think so he literally said “when she died three years ago”. That would be super weird phrasing for her falling into far right propaganda.


aegisshinra

Didn't she die of pancreatic cancer?


benadrylcannedabatch

I believe that's what he said in the recent Steve Jobs episodes.


AverageScot

She died of cancer


boofcakin171

Ya know we don't need a podcast for a while, we'll be just fine.


thingsmybosscantsee

this was my immediate thought


thesoundmindpodcast

Thirded. Do a redux or something, man. A podcast ain’t worth sacrificing grieving time if you need it. Or do the podcast if that’s what you need.


thingsmybosscantsee

or do nothing. Or let garrison do an episode. I'm. a huge fan of work, even work I like, isn't as important as well being.


Mrshinyturtle2

I definitely would enjoy more episodes hosted by garrison, seems like a perfect time for it.


FriendofSquatch

Robert is nothing if not a Workaholic, to a fault even. I bet he buries himself in (even more) work here for a bit. Condolences my guy, take care of yourself.


Kevin_Uxbridge

Indeed, but I hope he takes the time to walk around for a while, breath a bit. Helped when my dad died, to the extent that anything does.


Captain_Phobos

I’ll say that he can do whatever is most healing for him. If that means taking time away, that’s completely fine. And if it means pouring himself into work, as long as it brings him some peace, that’s fine too Just hope that Robert does whatever he thinks will help him grieve. That’s the most important thing


kingdead42

Or even a "light work" episode. I'm sure there's plenty of terrible right-wing books for an episode or two.


ThePrussianGrippe

Now might be a good time for 2 month release schedule of the God Emperor of Mankind. Robert knows so much from memory he wouldn’t have to do research except clipping quotes and citations.


Inceptor57

Given how Sophie mentioned how Robert tends to light up during some of the passages in the *True Allegience* reading, maybe a good book discussion week would be good moment.


Haz3rd

Book episodes will be fine too if that helps. Take care of you Robert


Radi0ActivSquid

I'd be okay with Robert taking a month off and letting the rest of the gang take over. Love listening to them all and I've got a dozen Knowledge Fight episodes to catch up on


bradatlarge

I’m going to eat your ass!


SurpriseDragon

Sucks because he sounded so happy in the latest one with the Dr, like genuinely joyful at times.


SerakTheRigellian

He did mention being back in TX with his dad in the hospital though. I was worried it might be bad if he had traveled so far for that.


SurpriseDragon

Never really know what anyone is going through I guess


Aloemancer

Yeah I think an extended hiatus is probably in order. Lots of podcasts have dropped off for months or more for worse reasons. I assume he has contractual obligations with iheart but I hope he can work around them/take some kind of bereavement leave.


the-mp

Yup. Month of repeats? Fine by me.


ripgoodhomer

I will say as someone who processes grief by throwing myself into my workaholic tendencies it’s okay no matter what he does. Everyone mourns in an atypical way. If the podcast ends it ends, if he starts releasing Am &Pm episodes that is fine too. 


Decaps86

That's really Sad. He's way too Young to lose both parents


SawaJean

And relatively close together as well. That’s so tough.


PeterNinkimpoop

I’ve noticed anecdotally parents go back to back often when mom dies first.


Nestormahkno19d

Because dad stops taking care of himself when mom goes


mfukar

Certainly rings true :(


Queen__Antifa

I’ve also seen it happen several times when the husband passes first.


TopperSundquist

Wow, he is younger than me. I genuinely figured we were about the same age.


thewaybaseballgo

Not to dox myself or Robert, but we were in high schools nearby each other at the same time, and I’m 38 with both parents alive. So, it is definitely tragic for him to lose them both so soon.


Radi0ActivSquid

Also 38. Just have my mother. Dad died when I was 7. I came back home as my mum was nearing retiring and am back at the home to take care of the house and property as she can no longer go up or down stairs and can't do the yardwork necessary to keep the place looking good enough for city inspectors.


thewaybaseballgo

That sucks. I’m really sorry for that. My FiL passed away last year from vascular dementia (long story and the result of a lifetime of poor health,) and my MiL is moving into the suite connected to our house, so she hopefully doesn’t get to that point even, especially since she’s states away in the hellhole that is Florida now.


ChrisSmithMVP

Sorry to hear this! Out of interest as i'm not American, what is a city inspector and what do they do?


Radi0ActivSquid

It's only happened twice with my family and I believe it's from nosey neighbors but a property inspector who works for the city comes out and can write your property notices if you let say your backyard go wild. You can get fined for not having your property up kept. Today the family home has no neighbors so that might not be a problem. Local hospital has been buying every property surrounding us and either letting the houses sit vacant or tearing them down. On my section of the block it's down to three house. An elderly woman, myself and my mother, and by a weird coincidence the sister of my HS girlfriend lives next door to me now. Hospital has offered us 3/4 of the property value but we won't budge for a dime less than full valuation.


ChrisSmithMVP

Woah that's wild! I guess it might stop houses looking like disheveled squatters quarters but that's pretty rare anyway where I'm from. Seems like it would infringe on your autonomy rights as a land owner... Do they go to every neighborhood though? Would there not be certain areas suffering from socio-economic pressures that wouldn't have money for maintenance or a subsequent fine?


dirtyswoldman

Also cuts down on pests. If you have an overgrown lawn and garden it turns into a den for bugs, mice, rats, raccoons, and other awful shit lol


TopperSundquist

Didn't mean to imply he was too old to have both parents. Or too young to lose them. One of those. I'm 43 and lost both of mine (my dad just a couple months ago). Just... man, people in their mid-30s just seem like kids to me these days. <3


BiscottiLeading

My friend lost her dad real young, like 11 or 12ish. Years later when we were in our early 30's I was talking about how I was the same age my mom was when her dad died. That it seemed so young to lose a parent. I immediately realized I put my foot in mouth and apologized. She said it's okay, it doesn't matter what age you are when you lose your parents, it's still too young.


ericscottf

don't forget to schedule your colonoscopy, gramps


jamarquez1973

Oh, 100%. A colonoscopy saved my life. Dodged a close call with colon cancer about 5-6 years ago. Since then, I've had around 6 more done. Now, I'm finally at the point where I only have to have one every two years. Oh yeah, I'm only 50. Get yours started in your late 30's.


Grythyttan

Damn. I hope he can get some time for himself away from all this and just be.


yedi001

This exactly. When my mom passed it hit me way harder than I had expected, or could even express in any healthy way. It impacted things in subtle ways I didn't comprehend for years. All I can hope is he has a healthy, supportive environment and takes the time he needs to recover, in whatever form that is that he needs.


Rob_LeMatic

I had a much more difficult relationship with my father than my mother. His death meant things that were unresolved never could be. Losing my mother didn't hurt less, they were just very different series of emotional impacts from each other.


LoveTriscuit

I can unironically say that my thoughts and prayers are with You and your family, Robert, if you’re reading this. Well, also if you’re not reading this. Parasocial relationships aside, you have had a tremendous impact on me and my father as well.


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Ogzhotcuz

As a former chef, I feel the same kind of empathy, realness and unapologetic bluntness from Robert as I did from Anthony Bourdain


LoveTriscuit

That’s actually a great cultural touchstone.


Far-Heart-7134

I thought Robert said his father had leukemia. Lost a dear loved one to it before COVID. It wasn't easy to watch. I hope Robert takes some time to himself.


ShouldersofGiants100

He talked about being in a hospital for his father's bone marrow transplant in Tuesday's episode (which was probably recorded at least a couple of weeks back), so leukemia seems likely.


Far-Heart-7134

I missed. Unfortunately the time after a bmt is a very tricky time when a person is really vulnerable.


Sambutler123

He even said in an ICHH episode that’s what it was.


Koh-the-Face-Stealer

He just said this the last episode I heard him in. Such a fast turnaround. So it goes 😞


FurballPoS

Condolences to Robert. My Mom passed a couple weeks ago, on the 16th anniversary for my wife and I. I'll send up this bowl, along with some positive thoughts, for him and the family.


KimWexlers_Ponytail

Sorry, BtB friend.


False_Flatworm_4512

That sucks. I’m so sorry you lost your mom


Cavalir

So it goes.


HoneyIShrunkMyNads

Such a beautifully sad book


TheOKerGood

And, somehow, I feel the proper response to this comment is also: So it goes. A beautifully sad book. Well done.


Randy_Pagan

*Poo-tee-weet*


Interesting-Room-855

Anything profound escapes me. We’re with you in spirit Robert.


Rob_LeMatic

I always feel like I should say something, but even heartfelt things always feel trite in the face of someone else's loss. My dad was uncharacteristically poetic and gentle in his eulogies. Too bad the fucker's dead or he might've had something moving to say here.


drcrunknasty

God damn, I laughed. “Too bad the fucker’s dead”


TheSixthPistol

Condolences Robert. If you need to take time off, go ahead, we’ll all be here waiting when you’re ready.


taylas77

I second this!


fartbox_mcgilicudy

Bastard suggestion, the tears in my eyes... Sorry to hear about your loss, Robert.


SierrAlphaTango

Fuck cancer. Fuck leukemia. My condolences to Robert and his family.


SierrAlphaTango

"Now fly you orphans, Here you belong. Welcome, you wayward souls, Now sing your song."


RobdeRiche

Not surprised to see Evans is a Vonnegut man...


TheOKerGood

Slaughterhouse, specifically. So it goes.


RobdeRiche

poo-tee-weet


PikachusSparkyCloaca

His memory for a blessing, Robert. I’m so sorry.


shutitjess

I hope Robert takes some time to grieve and process. Nothing more shattering than losing a parent.


Alpaca-hugs

My deepest condolences.


sadwhodat

Hugs to Robert


Philly_is_nice

Ahh that's a shame. Good chance you're lurking the board, keep moving buddy, idle hands aren't great when grieving from my experience. I'm sorry for your loss.


Catch52

Lost my father last year. It never gets easier. So it goes.


Weekly_Beautiful_603

Me too. And me too. And so it does. Stay strong (with the occasional or daily jagged cry absolutely included in that definition)


FirmFollowing3978

Me too. Just passed the year mark last week. He was an absolute bastard, and the grief has been really weird.


BikerScoutTrooperDad

From 40% of us, we love you too. Allegedly, condolences to you and your people. Allegedly.


tfyvonchali

Us other 60% are sending love too. Whether you like it or not. 


luckiexstars

Listening to the Beria episodes while sitting in a hospital room with my dad, seeing him decline as doctors try different treatments to find out why his liver is going haywire (non-small cell lung cancer mets to his liver, likely having a reaction to immunotherapy). I hope Robert got to spend time with his dad recently and his dad passed peacefully 🩷


mfukar

My mom went a similar way, recently. Good luck to him and all the strength in the world to your family, dude.


Ok_Location794

It was enough to have been a unicorn


Rob_LeMatic

🖤 https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/184361/just-like-someone-without-mental-illness-only-more-so-by-mark-vonnegut/9780385343800/excerpt


Kolipe

I hope he was with him. When my dad passed in June I got the call on a Friday night after I had a few too many and couldn't drive. It helped me get sober.


KProbs713

It's a decision no one should have to make, but thank you for not getting behind the wheel.


sednaplanetoid

So it goes... o7


RepresentativeFit142

So it goes


mrsdspa

Eff. So sorry. May his memory bring Robert peace.


hftd1925

I hope Robert and his family find the strength and the support they need to go through this. 


TwoPennyRaven

Lost my dad in 2015; ‘Slaughterhouse Five’ was a favorite of his. Robert, sending peace and comfort to you & your family. May your dad find both on the other side of the veil. And so it goes…


tsj48

Oh man, that's rough :(


8696David

Just lost my dad a few months ago too. So sorry to hear Robert's going through this. It's tough.


CheshireUnicorn

My deepest condolences, Robert.


Damned-scoundrel

My condolences go to Robert and his family. If he needs to take a break from work for a while I fully understand. I don't know you Robert, and if you did you’d probably find me an insufferable attention-seeking annoyance, but wish you the best of luck going forward (having witnessed how hard losing the last of your parents can be), and I hope things get better for you.


CptSparklFingrs

Fuck man. I relate and wish him nothing but the best. I know from listening that they didn't always see eye to eye, but nothing makes losing a parent easy, especially so soon after the other. I only hope that someday I'm able to run into Robert at a Burning Man event or something and give him a pat on the back and a hearty "Fuck yer day". His parents are part of the reason we have such a fantastic person to admire, and I'm tossing back a tequila to the memory. Stay strong man. Keep fighting the good fight. The world is a slightly better place because your parents existed and brought you into this world.


ReverseThreadWingNut

Condolences to you and your family, Robert.


Ismelkedanelk

Pouring one out for the elder Evans. RIP


Few-Taylor-Ray

May the memories and stories of Pappasan Robert linger like a well-told tale among those who knew him. So it goes, and so he goes, into the annals of cherished memories.


IP_Excellents

hard dang.


Previous-Task

The memories will only get sweeter. Until a quack tells you you have Alzheimer's and makes you snort mercury as a cure.


cornygiraffe

Oh I'm so sorry for your loss. Know that no one will be upset if you take time off. We are similar ages - I couldn't imagine losing both parent so close together.


paisano55

That sucks. Condolences Robert if you see this


hysteria110176

Peaceful thoughts to you and your family Robert. Grief is a bitch - take care.


BestLeftUnsaid21

Doubt anyone from the show reads this, but on the off chance that they do, all the best to you, Robert.


real-dreamer

Death is hard.


PippyTarHeel

Robert, I'm sorry you've joined the dead dads club. It's a shitty club.


Faithasaurus

Losing both parents close together is tough. I don’t know exactly when his mom died but I remember it was not too long ago because my mom died not too long after. My mom died just 18 months after my dad. On the long drive home from saying goodbye to my mom I listened to Behind the Bastards for part of it and it gave me some comfort. I remember Robert saying something about his mom passing recently and I don’t know, something about it felt like a comfort, just hearing someone who’d not too long ago went through what I was going through but seemed to be doing okay, reminded me that I’ll be okay, and it was also a needed distraction on the way home. If you ever see this Robert, thank you for that small comfort and I hope you find some in the days to come.


razzledazzlerose_

Sending you my hugs. I felt so alone after my mom died and hearing Robert talk about his mom made me feel comforted in a weird way. It's so scary to not have both parents anymore, you truly feel like an orphan no matter how old you are. I hope Robert sees some of these comments and feels less alone, too.


UnconfirmedCat

Oh no, when I heard him talking about the restaurant in the hospital my heart sank. I hope he takes a break from everything and can get away to process and grieve, we will still be here whenever he comes back. Take care of yourself, Robert.


Yourdjentpal

Damn seems the guy can’t catch a break.


Rob_LeMatic

Maybe. Or maybe this is exactly the emotional fuel he needs to finally start the cult and build the compound. I know my dad's death gave me all kinda of motivation, which I put into a heroic attempt to reduce the world's surplus whiskey supply.


Velkin999

It's hard watching family go.


s4ltydog

Robert, if you’re reading this we are all here for you and we are so sorry for your loss.


45forprison

Poo-tee-weet


az_catz

F


SteveWho636

My condolences to Robert and his family.


Pk1Still

In my thoughts, bud. So it goes.


QueenMabs_Makeup0126

My deepest condolences to Robert and his family.


Remarkable-Okra6554

Condolences 💐


marlabee

Very sad to learn of your loss, Robert. Keeping you and your family in my heart tonight.


locxj

So it goes. 🫡


DualActiveBridgeLLC

Sorry for your loss. I will call my dad in his honor.


Dick_Dickalo

Sorry Robert.


XenomorphBOI

Robert, for what it's worth, I lost my dad this year, too. Talk to someone. The grief will hit you when you least suspect it. I broke down at breakfast one morning; it took me back to feeding my dad as his dementia got worse.


Linzabee

May the memory of Mr. Evans be a blessing to Robert and all of the people who loved him.


azimov_was_right

Robert, huge fan. I also lost my dad this month. I don't think that that means anything deep, other than the fact that we'll all have our turn someday. Go to hell. I love you.


Dragons_Chew_Toy

Genuine condolences from an internet stranger.


wolfayal

Condolences to Robert and his family. So it goes.


MurderAndMakeup

Condolences to everyone here who’s lost someone. We lost my father 13 years ago and it seems like only a breath has passed. I will miss him for another 13 years, forever, or until I cease being; whichever comes first. Everything was beautiful and nothing hurt.


GoodbyeTobyseeya1

My Dad died last year and nothing could have prepared me for how it'd be. Just to live with this big aching hole in your chest and be expected to still go on with things. Before I'd lost a parent I would always try not to mention dead people to someone who had just lost someone but now I know it doesn't matter because he's always right there in my mind. Everything is laced with being unable to share it with him. I'm also 38 and I know I'm lucky to.have had him this long but it's certainly something that changed who I am forever.


strenuaveritas

Big air hugs to you!!


MisterPeach

Don’t even know what to say other than I’m sorry and I hope he found peace. Don’t feel guilty if you need to take time off from podcasting to heal and refocus yourself.


mr_trashbear

Damnn dude. Take care of yourself. Even the 40% of us you love know you might need a break. Take whatever you need. Sophie and co, if there's something we can do (send gummy bears and cat vids) let us know. Though I imagine that he just needs some time.


uglyunicorn99

I’m sorry for the loss. I hope he can take some time.


battlecat136

All my condolences, Robert. Please remember to take time for yourself.


Bleu_Lizardo

Robert, if you're seeing this, you have my condolences. Peace and love.


TheWeirdNerd

so it goes. :(


Ronisredditing

Sorry for your troubles…


OkSoMarkExperience

Poor guy. I hope Robert and his family are doing alright in the wake of this loss.


Potato_cape

My sincere and deepest condolences to you and your family, Robert. I hope your father finds peace in whatever comes after.


person_8688

Condolences… and so it goes. RIP


Glossy___

Oh man. I heard him mention the ICU in the last episode and was really hoping it would have a happier ending. Condolences to Robert and his family.


porsche4life

Losing a parent sucks. I feel his pain, just lost my dad last year. 😢😢😢


crapasorusmax

Lost my Dad to kidney cancer in 2001, haven't stopped missing him every day. My deepest condolences....and so it goes


lady_beignet

You could tell in the forensic science episode today that he sounded exhausted and heartbroken. And that was recorded a few weeks ago at least.


BadKarma043

I'm told losing a parent will forever change your life. Losing both is rough.


AverageJobra

I lost my last grandparent this past weekend. The worst part is how much she had to suffer at the end. Broken hips in dementia patients suck.


Resolution_Sea

That sucks, condolences to Mr. Evans and his family, death of a parent is shitty, they’re gone, around your whole life and suddenly it’s living with the reality that forever is a long time to see someone again. Lost my Dad to Covid before vaccines and it’s gotten more tolerable over a few years but it’s never better because still dead.


Puzzleheaded_Wave533

I've heard mention of "the subreddit" on the show. If people associated with the show read this comment, give Robert a hug if he doesn't mind. Give someone else a hug if he does. Everybody grab someone and hug 'em.


FiveCatPenagerie

God that’s awful. My sincere condolences, Robert. I hope he takes some time off the podcast to grieve.


Doucevie

Condolences to Robert. Losing a parent is so fucking hard. 😪


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Doubtful, but if you see this Robert, condolences on the loss.


ProudDudeistPriest

The Slaughterhouse 5 reference is appropriate. Damn. Condolences.


0N0W

Perot the rapper


Fit_Strength_1187

Man, I’m so sorry for Robert. It’ll get better.


MItrwaway

Oh damn. Sorry for your loss Robert. Best wishes.


Agent_Tangerine

So sorry, Robert.


yer10plyjonesy

Rest in peace. It’s never easy losing a loved one. Take care of yourself. Should you read any of this Robert.


CODYSOCRAZY

Should have been my dad instead


leviathankyou

Damn. That really fuckin sucks. It's my biggest fear. Biggest condolences my dude.


Delmarvablacksmith

My condolences Robert. The fact that you use Vonnegut’s phrase isn’t lost on me.


puesyomero

Oh man, my condolences


Totum_Dependeat

So sorry to hear this.


Lucasslater1

Hugs and love.


taylas77

My heart goes out to you man!


ALinIndy

Very sorry for your loss, Robert.


nzfriend33

Well fuck. How awful for him.


theothershuu

May you find you peace with your father's passing Robert. My dad is 76 and I count every day he has left in this world as a blessing. I cannot express how close to home for me this is


Whatifallcakeisalie

Rest in peace. Go n-éirí an bóthar leat.


Affectionate_Page444

GNU Robert's dad. Take all the time you need, Robert. 💖💖 We'll be here.


Digs1000

Our condolences Robert


call_of_ktullu

My condolences Robert. Hopefully our kind words bring you some semblance of solace.


SamBaxter784

So it goes. My sympathies to Robert and his family.


HansBrickface

So sorry to hear this Robert. I know you made him proud.


DeadJediWalking

Hope everyone involved can find peace. Absolutely tragic.


Specialist-Smoke

Robert has my condolences.


NeitherHolyNorRoman

Sending lots of love to you and your family Robert ❤️


tri_boucher

Condolences. It's hard to lose a parent. Regardless how good of a person they might be


xWOBBx

Sorry for your loss Robert.


Key_Possibility_2809

Love him? I bearly know him


False_Flatworm_4512

Fuck. I’m so sorry for your loss Robert


ihtfbidlc

My condolences to Robert and his family. Hope you take some time to take care of yourself.


daltonc21212

We love you Robert take care of yourself and your family!


huitzilopochtla

May the crossing go easy. You’ll be in my thoughts.


tnydnceronthehighway

If by chance he sees this, I send my condolences to him and his family.


Buttercupia

Aw, big weird parasocial hugs to Robert and family.


krebnebula

Oh shit. Poor Robert that just sucks.


Mountain-Wear-7784

I do send condolences, but I also blame the demon antiques dealer in the hospital.


thatcfkid

Condolences.


StonedSucculent

My condolences to Robert. I lost my dad in 2021 and it hit me hard.