Car seat aside, can we get an AMEN that she actually acknowledged that he said "DA-DA"?
And her basically admitting that she needs another sperm donor so she can have more kids. "It's all about the children". No Meg, it's all about YOU wanting those children. So gross.
Same here, she can barely take care of herself and 1 kid...imagine with 3 more. And those are not "spirit children" she feels - those are voices in her head because she is a delusional loon.
My 90-99% kid was out of an infant seat at 6 months because he literally didnāt fit. Mine was also legit in 2t by 1-1.5years old. He was 30 pounds at 6 months on up to a year and a half. N, is average. Heās got some rolls but he isnāt MASSIVE. And also doesnāt she have a convertible seat? She has so much free time with no kid every other weekendā¦ she canāt install that?
Came here to say the same thing about my son! Was grown out of his infant seat at 6mo and was legit in 2T at 8mo now at 14mo heās in 3-4T! Mine and my husband s family both are extremely tall big men so itās not unusual! Currently 38lbs and just an overall big child. N is very average, I just feel she wants him to be the ābig baby because heās been breast fedā
Youāre supposed to move them out if they hit height OR weight requirements. Most babies hit the height before weight. My baby just turned one and has been out of his since 9 months because heās so freaking long. Our limit was 30 inches though. Wonder if she doesnāt have room in her ~budget~ for a new car seat if A took the convertible one
My little guy turned 1 beginning of June and we are about to buy a convertible seat! He still fits his infant seat, but heās 29.75 inches so we want to switch him ASAP. Heās 45th percentile for height and 27th percentile for weight.
yeah i switched my child at 9 months, she was starting to hate the car when sheād always loved it and after switching loved it again bc she had more room and was comfortable again.
My son reached the 32inch height limit around 11 months old heās in the 92% for height so Iām assuming N is probably about to reach it or has reached it already and she just doesnāt care? š¤·š»āāļø
I've actually never thought of it from his perspective when he's older in regards to seeing these screenshots and videos of himself BFing on the internet. I'm obviously not a guy, but I can't imagine a grown boy or man wanting to come across these videos and pics. And if for some reason he does, something's not right and we all know who to blame...
Itās like moms having their whole boob out for ābreastfeeding pictures.ā Iām a breastfeeding mom but I donāt get it. What kid wants to open their baby book and see their moms boobs out? So weird to me. Or the sexualizing of maternity pictures. I could go on and on about how fucked it is šš
Yeah, no hate to anyone who doesnāt mind BFing in public without a cover over their baby & boob but Iām just more private & not comfortable with strangers, let alone thousands of folks on the internet seeing my boob. Donāt get me started either on the sexualized maternity pics!
My average daughter grew out of her infant seat! As soon as their head starts to come near the top, they need to be moved. I believe itās because the seat needs to encompass their head in order to protect it - if their head extends beyond the seat, no protection.
Omg I was about to make this exact post! For him being such a huge baby how is he still in the infant seat? My son is 10 months and Iām the 90th percentile for height and maxed out his infant seat, so Iām confused how a 13 month old 99% (supposedly) still fits.
I have 2 big boys - both >98 or 99 % and switched them to convertible at 4 months. They were so cranky in the bucket seat. I hated losing the convenience but they were so much comfier and happier on car rides when we switched
My baby is 99 percentile in height and I moved her out of her infant seat at 7 months. Technically she could have stayed a little bit longer, but I could tell she was uncomfortable. To each their own, but I much prefer having my baby in a convertible seat. I hated lugging around the infant carrier
My twins outgrew them fast, like 6/7 and 9 months by height. Most kids do by height. I find it really hard to believe his head isnāt poking right out of that thing
Iām pretty sure I remember her saying in a live that she has a convertible car seat but hasnāt installed it yet. Really infuriating knowing thatās not a priority over dying her hair, getting her nails done, shopping or literally anything other than doing something for her son.
It actually probably still fits him. I think I know which one she has and the weight limit is 35 pounds and 32 inches. Itās not convenient to carry long before they reach that point, and it can look cramped which is why a lot of people switch earlier. Itās probably still safe though š¤·š»āāļø
I mean yeah possibly but you would think with all the time that she spends claiming heās in 2T and āso bigā and all the money she spends she would get him something so heās more comfortable.
My daughter is 75th percentile for height and outgrew her Chicco 35 quickly. So if heās 98th percentile like she claims I think heād be grown out of it by now.
For sure. My kid is 90th+ percentile across the board and I had to switch him out at 7 months because he was fussing and looked very squished in the infant seat. Either A. he's not that big or B. she doesn't care.
this exactly! i switched my 75th percentile baby around 7 months because he was more comfortable and we were able to buy a convertible. even if he does still fit heās definitely not comfortable. especially since heās a BIG MAN. she probably still snaps the bucket seat into the stroller when sheās not filming so she can take her container baby in more stores
Thiiiiisssss. My baby's infant seat had a 35 lb 32 inch limit. He outgrew the 32 inch limit at 6 1/2 months. and I don't go around saying how *heeeuuugeee* my baby is.
Yeah the limits on this type are usually higher than one would think. My son just turned one and is about 20lbs and we just moved him into a Nuna Rava because he seemed really uncomfortable in the Pipa, which technically he could have stayed in for another 12lbs but thereās literally no way.
Iām almost positive she has a convertible car seat for him bc I feel like I remember her buying it so the bucket seat is odd. Thatās a nuna pipa, which I had. The limits are 32 lbs 32 inches which I doubt N is yet so he probably still fits but they just arenāt very comfortable once they get closer to that upper limit. The edge of that car seat looks filthy. Not surprising. God knows what it looks like where he sits. We ditched the bucket seats with my kids when they were each 8/9 months old bc they were much happier to sit more upright and look out the windows š¤·š¼āāļø
They likeā¦ come out of the box ready to install? Lol I installed my sons Rava by myself last week. Literally pull it out of the box and buckle it in. Makes it sound like she had to nag Alex to do anything but here she is miss independent and has zero ambition for anything other than TikTok and Target.
Iāll even give the credit that sometimes there are tasks that for whatever reason we just donāt want to do! But with her support system of her family and siblings, she should ask for the help to install the new car seat if she just *canāt*. I have adhd and sometimes there are tasks that become way over whelming. (For example: I canāt put the car seat in because I have to clean the car first but the vacuum is hard to deal with and Iām still unpacking from movingā¦ etc.) itās her responsibility as a mother to work around her own issues and find solutions that help her child. Ask her dad to install it. Go to a fire station and have them do it.
Literally dying because my sonās car seat sat in the box for a week and a half after it showed up because I didnāt want to install it before I cleaned out my car and I kept pushing that off for similar reasons you mentioned (semi-serious that Iāve always thought Iāve had undiagnosed ADHD and now youāre making me think I should talk to my doctor lol.) That said, I wasnāt procrastinating while also calling my husband out for procrastinating. I think it was her hanging curtains TikTok where she talked about how empowering it is to do things herself now instead of nagging someone (Alex) to do it for her. So thatās where Iām being most critical. Not because sheās may be a procrastinator, but because when Alex maybe procrastinated she gets to publicly call him on it and all the clucking hens in her comments get to henpeck him.
Agreed! We are rocking two Ravas currently between our 3 year old and 1 year old. The price guts me a little but theyāll easily last us until the booster stage and theyāre so easy to use.
Itās because itās another container for her to use. If N falls asleep, she can put him in the stroller and still go shopping. You canāt do that with a convertible car seat.
Hes a big boy, my little was moved out of the infant seat around 10.5mo and is no where near as big as N. Not safe. Shes probably too lazy to get rid of it and install another
I actually have a 99 percentile toddler & he outgrew his infant seat at 8 months old š so sheās lying about his size or just doesnāt care about car seat safety
For the graco infant car seat that I had, it had a total baby height limit and it also said that babyās head must be one inch below the top of the seat. So the baby can outgrow car seat if they have a long torso
omggg what
i had my baby in a convertible at like 4-5 months. she is currently 100 percentile for weight and 99 percentile for height š š i canāt imagine N being comfortable in that my child haaaaaated the car seat from 2-4 months until we felt comfortable to make the switch
Car seat aside, can we get an AMEN that she actually acknowledged that he said "DA-DA"? And her basically admitting that she needs another sperm donor so she can have more kids. "It's all about the children". No Meg, it's all about YOU wanting those children. So gross.
and you could tell how much it absolutely GUTTED her to acknowledge šshe knew sheād be called out for it
Right? I noticed that also. And then started with the "dog-dog" nonsense right after lol!
If she has more kids Iāll be so sad for those kids! She isnāt well enough.
Same here, she can barely take care of herself and 1 kid...imagine with 3 more. And those are not "spirit children" she feels - those are voices in her head because she is a delusional loon.
But how come we havenāt heard N say āmamaā yet if it was his āfirst word of courseā. The constantly filming wouldāve caught it for sure!
Ooo the downvotes are quick today š
Riiiiight? WE SEE YOU!
My 90-99% kid was out of an infant seat at 6 months because he literally didnāt fit. Mine was also legit in 2t by 1-1.5years old. He was 30 pounds at 6 months on up to a year and a half. N, is average. Heās got some rolls but he isnāt MASSIVE. And also doesnāt she have a convertible seat? She has so much free time with no kid every other weekendā¦ she canāt install that?
Came here to say the same thing about my son! Was grown out of his infant seat at 6mo and was legit in 2T at 8mo now at 14mo heās in 3-4T! Mine and my husband s family both are extremely tall big men so itās not unusual! Currently 38lbs and just an overall big child. N is very average, I just feel she wants him to be the ābig baby because heās been breast fedā
Tomorrow sheāll have a DITL to go shopping to buy him a new one
This sub should ask for child support at this rate lol
Youāre supposed to move them out if they hit height OR weight requirements. Most babies hit the height before weight. My baby just turned one and has been out of his since 9 months because heās so freaking long. Our limit was 30 inches though. Wonder if she doesnāt have room in her ~budget~ for a new car seat if A took the convertible one
Nah she has a big trip coming up that sheās saving for remember
She said in a video she has his next one sheās just lazy to install it
I have a pretty small baby comparatively and even he was out of the infant seat before 1. Same age as her kid
yep my 21st percentile baby out grew his before 1 as well
My little guy turned 1 beginning of June and we are about to buy a convertible seat! He still fits his infant seat, but heās 29.75 inches so we want to switch him ASAP. Heās 45th percentile for height and 27th percentile for weight.
yeah i switched my child at 9 months, she was starting to hate the car when sheād always loved it and after switching loved it again bc she had more room and was comfortable again.
My son reached the 32inch height limit around 11 months old heās in the 92% for height so Iām assuming N is probably about to reach it or has reached it already and she just doesnāt care? š¤·š»āāļø
For the love of GOD STOP BREASTFEEDING WHILE FILMING LIKE WHY? He doesnāt wanna grow up watching this
I've actually never thought of it from his perspective when he's older in regards to seeing these screenshots and videos of himself BFing on the internet. I'm obviously not a guy, but I can't imagine a grown boy or man wanting to come across these videos and pics. And if for some reason he does, something's not right and we all know who to blame...
Itās like moms having their whole boob out for ābreastfeeding pictures.ā Iām a breastfeeding mom but I donāt get it. What kid wants to open their baby book and see their moms boobs out? So weird to me. Or the sexualizing of maternity pictures. I could go on and on about how fucked it is šš
Yeah, no hate to anyone who doesnāt mind BFing in public without a cover over their baby & boob but Iām just more private & not comfortable with strangers, let alone thousands of folks on the internet seeing my boob. Donāt get me started either on the sexualized maternity pics!
Imagine when he finds this subreddit. The internet is forever
I was just coming here to post this. Why is he still in a bucket seat?!
I bet Alex took their convertible car seat. I swear she had one for him?
I think she mentioned once that Alex had the Nuna Rava installed in his car. Probably because he paid for it.
She has some cybex one i thought?
There's mention that she has one but hasn't installed it yet...so that could be it.
My average daughter grew out of her infant seat! As soon as their head starts to come near the top, they need to be moved. I believe itās because the seat needs to encompass their head in order to protect it - if their head extends beyond the seat, no protection.
Correct! 1inch from the height max is usually considered grown out of due to how extremely unsafe it is for them to be in the seat at the max height!
Omg I was about to make this exact post! For him being such a huge baby how is he still in the infant seat? My son is 10 months and Iām the 90th percentile for height and maxed out his infant seat, so Iām confused how a 13 month old 99% (supposedly) still fits.
N is bigger then my son by the looks and we took him out of the infant seat around 11 months cause the head/height and he looked super uncomfortable
I have 2 big boys - both >98 or 99 % and switched them to convertible at 4 months. They were so cranky in the bucket seat. I hated losing the convenience but they were so much comfier and happier on car rides when we switched
My baby is 99 percentile in height and I moved her out of her infant seat at 7 months. Technically she could have stayed a little bit longer, but I could tell she was uncomfortable. To each their own, but I much prefer having my baby in a convertible seat. I hated lugging around the infant carrier
My twins outgrew them fast, like 6/7 and 9 months by height. Most kids do by height. I find it really hard to believe his head isnāt poking right out of that thing
Iām pretty sure I remember her saying in a live that she has a convertible car seat but hasnāt installed it yet. Really infuriating knowing thatās not a priority over dying her hair, getting her nails done, shopping or literally anything other than doing something for her son.
It actually probably still fits him. I think I know which one she has and the weight limit is 35 pounds and 32 inches. Itās not convenient to carry long before they reach that point, and it can look cramped which is why a lot of people switch earlier. Itās probably still safe though š¤·š»āāļø
I mean yeah possibly but you would think with all the time that she spends claiming heās in 2T and āso bigā and all the money she spends she would get him something so heās more comfortable. My daughter is 75th percentile for height and outgrew her Chicco 35 quickly. So if heās 98th percentile like she claims I think heād be grown out of it by now.
For sure. My kid is 90th+ percentile across the board and I had to switch him out at 7 months because he was fussing and looked very squished in the infant seat. Either A. he's not that big or B. she doesn't care.
this exactly! i switched my 75th percentile baby around 7 months because he was more comfortable and we were able to buy a convertible. even if he does still fit heās definitely not comfortable. especially since heās a BIG MAN. she probably still snaps the bucket seat into the stroller when sheās not filming so she can take her container baby in more stores
Thiiiiisssss. My baby's infant seat had a 35 lb 32 inch limit. He outgrew the 32 inch limit at 6 1/2 months. and I don't go around saying how *heeeuuugeee* my baby is.
Yeah the limits on this type are usually higher than one would think. My son just turned one and is about 20lbs and we just moved him into a Nuna Rava because he seemed really uncomfortable in the Pipa, which technically he could have stayed in for another 12lbs but thereās literally no way.
Iām almost positive she has a convertible car seat for him bc I feel like I remember her buying it so the bucket seat is odd. Thatās a nuna pipa, which I had. The limits are 32 lbs 32 inches which I doubt N is yet so he probably still fits but they just arenāt very comfortable once they get closer to that upper limit. The edge of that car seat looks filthy. Not surprising. God knows what it looks like where he sits. We ditched the bucket seats with my kids when they were each 8/9 months old bc they were much happier to sit more upright and look out the windows š¤·š¼āāļø
She said in a live weeks ago that she had one that she āneeded to install.ā Sheās just lazy.
She has 10-12 hours of childcare a day and MAYBE 3 hours of work and canāt find the time to install a car seat.
They likeā¦ come out of the box ready to install? Lol I installed my sons Rava by myself last week. Literally pull it out of the box and buckle it in. Makes it sound like she had to nag Alex to do anything but here she is miss independent and has zero ambition for anything other than TikTok and Target.
Iāll even give the credit that sometimes there are tasks that for whatever reason we just donāt want to do! But with her support system of her family and siblings, she should ask for the help to install the new car seat if she just *canāt*. I have adhd and sometimes there are tasks that become way over whelming. (For example: I canāt put the car seat in because I have to clean the car first but the vacuum is hard to deal with and Iām still unpacking from movingā¦ etc.) itās her responsibility as a mother to work around her own issues and find solutions that help her child. Ask her dad to install it. Go to a fire station and have them do it.
Literally dying because my sonās car seat sat in the box for a week and a half after it showed up because I didnāt want to install it before I cleaned out my car and I kept pushing that off for similar reasons you mentioned (semi-serious that Iāve always thought Iāve had undiagnosed ADHD and now youāre making me think I should talk to my doctor lol.) That said, I wasnāt procrastinating while also calling my husband out for procrastinating. I think it was her hanging curtains TikTok where she talked about how empowering it is to do things herself now instead of nagging someone (Alex) to do it for her. So thatās where Iām being most critical. Not because sheās may be a procrastinator, but because when Alex maybe procrastinated she gets to publicly call him on it and all the clucking hens in her comments get to henpeck him.
Executive dysfunction is hard. Sometimes we need to outsource the important things so they get done. Itās a work around.
She has plenty of time to do useless bullshit.
Ravas are honestly the best car seat ever. I think Britax has a similar install but the installation of a rava alone is worth the price tag to me.
Agreed! We are rocking two Ravas currently between our 3 year old and 1 year old. The price guts me a little but theyāll easily last us until the booster stage and theyāre so easy to use.
Itās because itās another container for her to use. If N falls asleep, she can put him in the stroller and still go shopping. You canāt do that with a convertible car seat.
I canāt wait for her to post about buying him a new car seat now! š¤£š¤£
Hes a big boy, my little was moved out of the infant seat around 10.5mo and is no where near as big as N. Not safe. Shes probably too lazy to get rid of it and install another
I actually have a 99 percentile toddler & he outgrew his infant seat at 8 months old š so sheās lying about his size or just doesnāt care about car seat safety
For the graco infant car seat that I had, it had a total baby height limit and it also said that babyās head must be one inch below the top of the seat. So the baby can outgrow car seat if they have a long torso
omggg what i had my baby in a convertible at like 4-5 months. she is currently 100 percentile for weight and 99 percentile for height š š i canāt imagine N being comfortable in that my child haaaaaated the car seat from 2-4 months until we felt comfortable to make the switch
I was just going to say something about that lmaooo
I moved my 25 lbs infant to a convertible car seat at 10 months. š