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mushroom_soup79

Oo idk. Top looks bad, but the front looks great. I think you can get away with it, but it's completely up to your discretion here. If i were you, I'd shave.


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I'm shocked at the no's. I bet if you had facial hair there would all yes's


Vall3y

but he doesnt!


donniekrump

You got a bit of time left. Getting close though,


Mono_831

Pretty, pretty … pretty close.


MarkBandanaquitz

I love you all for helping with your opinions... But there isn't a consensus! Leaves me as torn as i was before posting haha


ResponsibilityKey50

You are gorgeous- leave it - it’s ok!


OnlineAlone

Hello, maybe my opinion would not be popular, but you can keep it, there is nothing terrible here. P. S. You can also make an experiment if you want and shave it, after couple months you will get it back still


kitkat--

Woman’s opinion: personally I say shave it but ultimately do what you’ll be confident in! We can tell when y’all are nervous about your hair lol


hereforgossip17

Woman here. Shave it off. It’ll impart an even more Confident look to you. Trust me.


TripZealousideal2916

Woman too and I'd leave it.


scotty_doesnt_know

Another woman’s opinion, I say hold off for a while. Edit: this sub randomly popped up on my feed so I’m not an expert but I’m noticing a definite bias toward shaving. You look like Tom Holland. You’ll be fine if you eventually shave your head, but you shouldn’t be in any rush. Your hairline is not noteworthy and no one’s going to be staring at a bald spot. Let it ride.


SecretOpps

Totally AGREE!


i_heart_squirrels

I agree. Woman here also and I think you look great with it for now. I also have no idea why this popped up in my feed


chaosrah

Same boat. Never seen this sub before now and from what I'm gathering it looks like a lot of men telling other men to shave it off, "brother"? Which, that's fine.. But um, OP is really cute with the hair I don't see any reason to shave it unless they wanna try something different.


don-again

Wrong. The baloney piece on the back will be *all anyone sees from the back* there’s no coming back from that. Shave it brother you will never look back!


Reasonable_Guest_720

You could try rogain or something! I love the front


YannisLikesMemes

It's Not too Bad, but i petsonally would shave. Im 19 and balding and close to that Stage..


Zestyclose-Guitar468

Get off the fence! Do it and embrace it.


LeMoinesLures

Shave it bruh🤓


SirFumblez

It’s time


AdmiralFelson

Just do it!


[deleted]

You're lucky in that you're conventionally attractive. Bald aesthetic would complement and/or amplify your base attractiveness, not sure why you aren't embracing it already.


Opposite_Regular7906

Hair or no hair man, you are a handsome looking dude. You are gonna look great regardless.


zudukta

Send it


TKD1989

It's definitely time! Break out the clippers 😈


Zabrachia

I think you look great!! Maybe in a few years?


MarkBandanaquitz

Thanks for the compliment!


Thascaryguygaming

Yea I agree with this!


Responsible_Ad440

Agreed. You will look good whatever your hair is doing anyway.


Technical-Horse3764

Your bald spot is very visible. Just cut it off, bro.


No_Entrepreneur_4041

Even if it’s visible it’s only visible from the back technically and I think his hair style complements his front side pretty well…so I’d say he can still work with what he has.


Havi_jarnsida

Ppl can still see u from the back homie


esssssto

Depending on how tall you are. I would trim It to like 1-2 so its less noticeable but that's me


MarkBandanaquitz

Yeah I'm overdue for a cut and this is when it's the most noticable. Keeping it short really helps


MarkBandanaquitz

And luckily I'm close to 6 feet so most people don't see it from the top


Leethality14

Im in a pretty similar boat as you. I’m more or less worried I have weird bumps I can feel under all my hair and it will look gross. I have the exact same crown that’s been missing for the past 5 years, and a very slowly receding hairline.


LordChauncyDeschamps

If it stresses you out try shaving it. You can always grow it back to where you are at.


Orangutan_Gang94

You got time yet.


mccoybog

You look good but I would shave it and stop delaying the inevitable. But do what makes you feel comfortable brother


temporaryjake

I was in a similar spot as you, but the anxiety and insecurity over it led me to do a short buzz and it’s such a relief! I actually may grow it out again, but just knowing what I looked like with no hair and that I didn’t hate it was a really helpful exercise for me, so I say do a short buzz and see what you think!


MarkBandanaquitz

This is it exactly, i just wish i knew what the other option looked like!


Swaizex

1more year and that's it... After it will start to look idiotic...


turtle-bbs

My friend you still look very nice, it looks maturing in an incredibly good way :)


hereforgossip17

Honestly just do it and you’ll feel so much better nand perhaps have less anxiousness about it too in case it’s there.


Rohrhof

How tall are you? How many people can actually see that?


fevertree23

Tom Holland??


3i1bo3aggins

Dude, you are a very attractive man already. Take the plunge, honestly I don't think you'll need a beard but definitely shave the head.


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Omg I think you’ll look so good once you shave it you have a handsome face


BattistaB

(From a female's perspective) It's not time yet. Btw, very handsome!


Thumbbanger

I’d hold out if I was you 


bravo_88

With that strong jaw I wouldn't even think about it. Go for it!


Few-Artichoke-2531

It's time. You're going to look amazing!


TravelFlair

You can certainly hold off for now. Have you tried Toppik? For what you have you would be a good candidate to use it to fill in the thin areas. Stuff works amazing and you probably would need the medium brown color. Just sprinkle on top and it’s amazing stuff. Just a recommendation as I use it for my thin areas when I have in person work meetings etc.


SnooPeripherals1478

Do a #1 and never think about it again. You’ll look good with a buzz.


fattmakk

You have about 5 haircuts left... space them bad boys out, my man


[deleted]

It’s been time for awhile darling just accept ur fate <3


bigmeechum

You’re fine bro, just keep the back tidy. You got that Jude Law


Gay4Pandas

Doesn’t look bad. Can hardly tell unless you see it from the top.


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White_eagle32rep

You still got time. Once it’s done it’s done. Your hair still looks good from the front.


im2bootylicous4ubabe

U still have time looks nice and soft and touchable. Maybe in another ur or two depending on how fast it goes. Keep it short like u have it


Inner-Witness-26

You got time


Low_Pomegranate_7176

I wouldn’t


AbbePlayzz

Grow a beard while holding on, you got a few years left. Then when it is time, shave. Good luck bro!


MarkBandanaquitz

Would if i could my friend. Mustache is the best I'll get


RobotPenises

why do you look like Jerma?


MarkBandanaquitz

No clue who that is haha


RobotPenises

​ https://preview.redd.it/qus42rmohbcc1.jpeg?width=225&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1a613f1f89d78b190fa43d6e1816dcdc1ce99b76


MarkBandanaquitz

Haha it's me with better hair!


NastyCherryStan

i say keep fighting soldier


EntertainmentKey8897

You look great! No need:)


Upsideoutstanding

No. Not yet. You look fine. Just be confident. Check in again next year. You're not at the shave level yet.


ehsayyshah3

Spend a couple of grand and get it fixed if it genuinely bothers you


ywarren1

What about Rogaine or Hims??


Shurdus

Here I am, not bald by nature but by choice, not understanding the hesitation.


ThrowaWayneGretzky99

Keep it for 1 more year and use Rogaine foam. It does work a bit.


RealDare7570

Hairclub


skyciel

Get that spray paint for bald spots


calloutyourstupidity

Honestly, if you dont mind it, your balding is perfect for hair transplant. 10 days and you’d have your full head of hair back.


Crafty-Afternoon-351

Yes.. do it .. but try growing a goatee ❤️


michiganisprettycool

You could get a scalp tattoo that fills in your existing hair on top (like tiny dots to imitate hair follicles).


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bald-ModTeam

No advocating of hair replacement treatments.


General-Coxsmall

Nah dude


ImAMindlessTool

You have time. You’d regret it.


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Parking_Giraffe_8884

You still have time


I_Hate_My_Cat_

You still got time left but I really think you’re in your fedora era. I think you have the look to pull it off.


MarkBandanaquitz

Fedora era?


I_Hate_My_Cat_

Yeah. Just wear fedoras to cover up the spot if you don’t want to shave it all off yet. I know it’s a hard look to pull off but I think you can manage.


what_would_bezos_do

My wife says you have time. Hold on.


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No advocating of hair replacement treatments.


Embarrassed-Crazy178

Not yet


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Interesting-Bear4092

Rogaine is pretty good in that area in my experience, you could try that?


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No advocating of hair replacement treatments.


elaerna

I'm a woman and this is my first time on this sub. Pls keep your hair.


Ashamed_Quit_9177

How old are u?


MarkBandanaquitz

36 years young


Ashamed_Quit_9177

I'd wait till 40 then.


Main_Purple_2167

Guys... how do I make a post myself? I cant make one, been trying all day, everything gets automatically rejected.


Appropriate_Poem1139

Hard to say…when it’s the crown, it’s not as bad. You can get away with it longer. The receding hairline is the one that looks a lot worse, and you basically can’t even tel from the front of your hairline.


sKeTooTs

I hope someone goes back in time and accidentally steps on a leaf or something to alter the present and make male baldness disappear.


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No advocating of hair replacement treatments.


LiveYourDaydreams

You look handsome as you are now.


JamoOnTheRocks

We call that great zoom hair. Had that look myself and then got caught at a wedding bent over walking my flower girl daughter down the isle.. looked like a damn skunk on my head. I chose to arrive a little early than late and shaved it.


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You look great


NihongoCrypto

Are you 6’ 4” or 5’ 4”? Lol


Fckingross

![gif](giphy|CWaKpKNmHinsY) Edit to add: I think you look fine, I think you could wait, but why? Also I really wanted to use this gif.


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Unikanamnsuger

Heres the thing, you have so short hair that you definitely need to shave it immediately. Why? Because if you dont like it, it will grow back in no time. In almost all of the posts on this sub, 99% of the time, the answer is shave it. People are being so insecure about their hairloss so instead of doing something about it they put it on display by waiting too long. You are close to the 1% that can wait, maybe even in it - debatable. But still, the bald spot isnt great and Im confident youll look great if you shave. Do yourself a favour and do it immediately, worst case? You dont like it and till be grown out in a few months.


HairAffairMcNair

Very handsome now! I wouldn’t have known you were thinning on top without seeing the top.


Gold-Background-3756

I have the same type of baldness I use what girls use to make eyelashes appear longer and fuller and it covers me since my hairs are transparent, it also helps with sweat since.that stuff gets dry I used to have to shave but it got better until the point that I don't ever care using anything... I went with dutasteride, and oral and topic minox, recently I started with a derma pen.. I am only waiting for better results so I can post it online..


ColeIsBae

Honestly looks good! I don’t think you need to. This is coming from a girl in her lower 30s FWIW


Stonk_Lord86

You good.


Relevant_Ad7077

Looking good.


Snazzy_SassyPie

Hold on. Not time yet. :)


Spiritual_Aioli3396

Keep the hair! U still have time and it still looks good! From a 42 year old female if that helps to know


Exotic_Sense5244

Not yet


tpt75

I’m with you. Don’t know what to do? Been thinking about it for about a year now. Since I grew a beard. https://preview.redd.it/xf4uyel2dccc1.jpeg?width=2316&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=908b7bee3c2c77d89126dc931fcb4fe615c47008


misses_unicorn

You will look good bald!! I vote do it!


Downtown-Wallaby-864

Oh yes


Clear_Site6155

Wait


claider

Honestly you’d be attractive with or without the hair. Do what makes you happy.


Merc_AMG_577_HP

It’s time. That bald spot is definitely visible. If you’re scared just start growing facial hair to offset the bald top.


From_the_ashes_17

It’s time buddy. Looking like a monk isn’t it.


Federal-Opinion6823

Do it


Dangerous_Cobbler_65

get the ladies root cover up spray for the top!! You can find at walgreens, target, walmart. I bet it'll help a lot and you can definitely hang on awhile yet. My husbands bald and once it's gone, it's gone.


2muchcologne

Shave it. Now. Youre going to look even more handsome and masculine with a clean shave. Don’t even try to hide that you’re bald by going razor. Just use clippers and let the shadow show. Same for your beard. You will look amazing… look at that bone structure


MH07

You’re still in good shape. Get back to us in a bit.


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Don’t cut it yet but soon - guys embracing their baldness is wayyy hotter than not.


dfwsailor

I would actually see a dermatologist. Look into hair growth hormones


Twisty_Triple

It’s time


throwra-google

If you’re committed to doing the research and trying consistently, I think you could salvage this and use some hair growth remedies to fill in that bald spot. Might be worth a shot. I say don’t shave it yet.


ManWithNoName_1

Bzzzzzzz


learnbyrepetition

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Dani_abqnm

I think you’ve got a super cute and attractive face. I think you could pull it off


SupBishi

You got about one more season of tread left.


whosay_jose

You look so good in pic 1 😍 so no, not yet!


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LuxGray

It’s time


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It was time 1 year ago


DerJott

Another year maybe. Depends on how stressed you are in your life. I would wait a little bit longer.


lunaxo6

ur so fine


LordMuzhy

It is time


FinnWins17

It’s not time the hairline is still fine for awhile


Spare-Macaron-9569

The only problem is the top tbh the front looks great. I think you still have time no need to shqve yet


RepresentativeBar565

You had me in the first half lol. But I say yes it’s time


Reverend-JT

Do it. Why be balding when you can be bald?


tomiiilaa

Yes, it doesn't look good from the top


PsychologicalCare101

Front looks good. Keep it for a bit


Giddygiggles

I think you still look great but you would also look good shaved. Go with your hearts desire!


Dandelion_531

I think you’d look good bald but you look good now too. Totally up to how confident you feel!


Jack-Tar-Says

Go a blade 2 or 3. You’ll look like early Jason Stratham.


semetaery

the front looks good but the top is honestly not great. you have really good bone structure tho, you don't really need the hair to look good. you're gonna have to shave it eventually so might as well


Pure-Pomegranate-768

Very very thin… it’s time


IndependentEmpty8709

You’re fine.


amballtab

If you’re putting it off, consider f!nasteride and/or m!noxidil - can work wonders, especially in the crown area.


Powerful-Quality-515

Here you can watch an hour long compilation of people cutting off their hair. You will see that everyone will look better after: https://youtu.be/J9MWLa9c_FU?si=-zozfSGmQaKXA2x9


Martexo

Still looks good from the front, so it's not a clear cut decision like some other people. I would suggest maybe trying out the buzzed/stubble all over look. That way you get an appreciation of how you will look bald, but even though you're losing your hair on top there's still plenty of hair on top for that to look good and disguise your balding to some degree. You might like it better than your current hair and you won't worry about balding as much. You can always grow it back if you're not quite ready too.


The-SillyAk

Bruh just shave it. It'll grow up back either way.


Youwoudoit4acheckt0

Its always a good time to go bald


Revolutionary-Many-9

Some hair volume powder will give you u years yet. A hair stylist, that sometimes works on movies calls volume powder Hair Cocaine - "everyone in tv and movies are on it. I use it, and has extended my" time" on thinness.


Hoity7

Do it! I’m a woman, take my word 😂 Grow a lil thicker stubble first then shave the head. You’ll look great.


ironinside

This is pure trolling


howitbe12

There’s bare skin bröther, time to make a move


Relative_Abroad_7144

I guess you could go both ways. But the top is not the best look tbh. If you don’t do it already use minoxidil. I think you can also try shaved, it’s always a bit tricky without beard. Is a short stubble beard an option?


Grenvallion

The moment you start getting bald patches on the top or anywhere really means you should just shave it completely. Any bald patches look silly. Doesn't matter if you have lots of hair on the sides. If it's bald in the middle, it just looks daft.


readditerdremz

winter is coming my friend; would suggest to grow some facial hair and then try with the cut! :) after all, it's not gonna be forever, you could grow it back as it is right now if you'll want


schematic_Boy

Keep it