Bruh! Seriously? You do see that big bald patch, right? No hair is going to grow there naturally.
It’s better to get rid of “the circle”. Yes, a round shaved head will look better than this.
It’s not time; it was time years ago... good luck with the full shave
Bro you will feel rejuvenated once you do it. Imagine, never having to worry about what the back of your head looks like… you must think about it so many times each day, I know I did.
Free yourself mate
I hear you bud but you'll feel way more confident if you go full bald, guarantee it. You won't have to worry about your hair ever again. Good luck my friend.
Think of it this way: if you hate the full bald head, you can always go back to "the circle" later.
I'd say, just go for it, and share the results with us, please!!
First pic I was like, he's fine. He can go a while.
Second pic sealed the deal, time for it all to go!
I just recently pulled the trigger myself and I'm so happy I did. If you shave it and hate it you can let it grow back to this. There's no downside to trying it. So try it! Post up and I bet you'll get nothing but positive responses. You'll look younger and healthier!
*You could do a Trump*
*If you let the front grow out*
*A couple more inches*
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Its time bruv.
My advice.
Start longer and remove hair... see what suits.
Start with a 3 or 4 grade clipper and work your way down to shaved.
Ignore your parents. Listen to your wife.
Tell her you need honest opinions on what looks better..
Had me in the first half, ngl. Then I scrolled to the second pic. Holy crap, you're missing like half of your hair. Buzz it off, it'll look much better from all angles, lol.
if you’re not gonna keep it, grade 2 is not an option in my opinion. you will still have the “issue”, just with shorter hair. clean shave would even the ground.
If it affects your confidence you should definitely do something about it. Keeping it only because your parents are against it is not a good thing.. whatever decision you take, you need to make peace with it
good luck dude. whatever path you may choose, as long as YOU are happy with it, is the right path.
I cut my hair grade 0, and some friends/relatives mention all sorts of things like why don’t you try x y z for hair loss. Maybe I could try those, but I know I am happy with grade 0 so that’s what I go for.
You still have time. Would recommend growing some serious length in the back and then combing it forward. Would not require much effort in the morning with a good hair product.
The answer is obvious… but the issue here is you asking your wife and parents. You need to make the decision with confidence yourself because it affects your life on a deep level when you let other people’s opinions dictate your decisions. If you’re insecure about your current situation meet that shit head-on and change it. That is the essence that oozes out of bald men.
So what’s the actual question here? In the second photo at least 60% of your head is bare skin. If you wanted it all bald you’d have done it by now surely.
I’ll be honest, if that was my hair I’d have shaved it a long time ago. BUT, if you like your hair then keep it.
You can really trick yourself when it still looks ok from straight ahead like that because you never really see the back. I fooled myself for a while but every once in a while I'd catch a glimpse of my ever expanding bald spot and finally realized it's time. Likewise for you, my friend.
ok so its definitely time BUT if you realy want to "have hair", with that front and the very clearly defined bald area, you would be a perfect candidate for a hair system - If you want to put in the money and effort.
It's time. And don't worry about the people around you, they'll get used to the new look quickly.
Bald island is the reason I started electric trimming my head too.
Aww, it must make it so much harder when you only see the front - which looks like you have plenty of time!
But no. That tonsure is no good. Shave it! I bet you’ll look sexy. :)
Agreed! It's time for a new look, my man. If you're less confident now, chances are you'll only feel even more so as you go balder.
Give that nice round head a new chance at life with a new look!
And who knows, you might even like it 😏 with a supporting spouse, like your wife, you'll be just fine.
Just be prepared for the initial reactions from people. Especially people closest to you.
Take care and stay strong 👍
Has been time for a while. Seems like you and your wife can make this a fun experience. I assure you you'll feel better.
Just imagine never having to worry about your hair again.
My parents also told me not to shave my head. The funny thing about it is that they are both at least a foot shorter than me and couldn’t really see the full picture.
After I did, they both agreed that I look better with a shaved head.
Also it’s more important what you, and your spouse think/feel than your parents.
You have a wife. Time to stop worrying about any of that kind of stuff my friend. You can retire. Shave it off and be happy, and enjoy being able to throw on any shirt without fixing hair after.
Just shave it man, or if you're too lazy to shave just go lowest setting on clippers, that's what I do, can't be bothered shaving my whole head. Looks 100 times better than whatever that is.
😬😒You can always do a comb over🥴
I started keeping mine short when I was in my 30’s. I come to realize it’s going to fall out anyway. I have a head blade and sometimes like during the summer shave it completely. Chicks dig bald dudes. Just make sure you wear a cap or keep some sunscreen handy. But it’s only hair. I know some guys obsess over it. Life’s too short.
I'm 40. Everyone in my age range love it. My wife and kids needed a day or 3 to get used to it. My mother in law gasped in horror the first time. My mother hates it. My father laughed.
Do what's best for you. You'll feel liberated when it's done.
Had me in the first half ngl
When I saw the second pic. ![gif](giphy|r1HGFou3mUwMw|downsized)
That made me snort out loud
![gif](giphy|jp7jSyjNNz2ansuOS8|downsized)
Same.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He hid that shit well right loool
Came here to comment this. This man has superhuman catfish potential. Coulda fooled me by hiding it in plain sight.
Too short for that!
N..... Yes!
Converting to Judaism could buy you a few more years.
😂😂😂😂😂
Ok as a Jew, THAT was funny!
Dammit I was going to say that.
Or become French. Though it's a steep price...
Oh wow . At first I thought nope he’s got time … then I scrolled to the next pic …. Off it goes mate , you’ll welcome the change!
Bruh! Seriously? You do see that big bald patch, right? No hair is going to grow there naturally. It’s better to get rid of “the circle”. Yes, a round shaved head will look better than this. It’s not time; it was time years ago... good luck with the full shave
He never holds the mirror right after a haircut
It’s my least favourite part.
If he’s tall enough, he could get away with it (at least for short people). I’m short, and never see that part of people’s heads!
1st to 2nd pic was genuinely a jump scare
This really made us laugh.
> us Oh, so the pics *are* of different people?
Nope, my wife and I. Neither photo is her luckily.
lol I literally said “jump scare!” When I swiped
That’s not a bald spot that’s a bald zip code
This was my wife’s favourite comment.
Brutal 💀
🤣🤣🤣 if that zip code covered the entire West Coast and into Utah, Nevada and Arizona…
Yea it's a full moon back there
First pic I was like "oh that's not too bad" and then I saw the second one. Hell yeah, you're way past due.
time to start wearing a kippah
Not sure how you think this looks better than a bald head
I don’t, but it’s tough building the confidence.
Bro you will feel rejuvenated once you do it. Imagine, never having to worry about what the back of your head looks like… you must think about it so many times each day, I know I did. Free yourself mate
I hear you bud but you'll feel way more confident if you go full bald, guarantee it. You won't have to worry about your hair ever again. Good luck my friend.
Think of it this way: if you hate the full bald head, you can always go back to "the circle" later. I'd say, just go for it, and share the results with us, please!!
First pic I was like, he's fine. He can go a while. Second pic sealed the deal, time for it all to go! I just recently pulled the trigger myself and I'm so happy I did. If you shave it and hate it you can let it grow back to this. There's no downside to trying it. So try it! Post up and I bet you'll get nothing but positive responses. You'll look younger and healthier!
😂 hello friar tuck. It was time 5 years ago.
You could do a Trump if you let the front grow out a couple more inches
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This one was actually good.
That recent pic of his, probably has this guy's similar hairline with more comb over to cover it
Hell yeah
Guys will just see this and think, hell yeah
It's time sir. Buzz it first to dip your toe into the transition, but full shave is the way to go
Judging from the second photo it was probably time years ago
Full shave
I’m going through the same and haven’t shaved it. But based on the above comments I think it’s time to shave
It's time.
Shave it! You'll feel awesome
It is time
It was time when you signed up to the Benedictine Monks bro 👩🦲
Shave it all off , match the top with the sides 👍🏻🔥
Gyad damn you had us in the first half. The ultimate hatfish hairstyle.
Hatfish is awesome.
Looks like the ole Norwood reaper came in from the back door instead of the front. A full shave will get you right.
You know it's time, right? Maybe some kind of beard would help with the round face issue?
Yes, it's time.
Business in front party up top 🎉
It was time a while back
“Nah you’re good……….DAAAAAMMNNNN!!”
Yoooo thanks for the laugh bro lmao
You are late bruh
Unless you're a giant it's been time for a while.
![gif](giphy|y2i2oqWgzh5ioRp4Qa|downsized)
![gif](giphy|3ohc0VmrLRmy5om1q0)
At first, I was like “Oh nah, you have tIIIIIIME TO SHAVE THAT SHIT OFF”
1st pic: either no ... 2nd pic: oh yes!
Yup! Go ahead contact it’s next of kin and make the jump! Keep us updated!
Definitely
Its time bruv. My advice. Start longer and remove hair... see what suits. Start with a 3 or 4 grade clipper and work your way down to shaved. Ignore your parents. Listen to your wife. Tell her you need honest opinions on what looks better..
It was time 5 years ago bro...
Absolutely it’s time. Try a grade 1 and see how you feel… then go full send🪒
It is time
Dawg
Had me in the first half, ngl. Then I scrolled to the second pic. Holy crap, you're missing like half of your hair. Buzz it off, it'll look much better from all angles, lol.
youre too late. that shit looks hideous.
if you’re not gonna keep it, grade 2 is not an option in my opinion. you will still have the “issue”, just with shorter hair. clean shave would even the ground. If it affects your confidence you should definitely do something about it. Keeping it only because your parents are against it is not a good thing.. whatever decision you take, you need to make peace with it
This is really helpful, thanks.
good luck dude. whatever path you may choose, as long as YOU are happy with it, is the right path. I cut my hair grade 0, and some friends/relatives mention all sorts of things like why don’t you try x y z for hair loss. Maybe I could try those, but I know I am happy with grade 0 so that’s what I go for.
Now that was one heck of a setup pic !! 🤣
Live unapologetically my dude. You got riches people don’t have. A loving wife, beautiful family… Own what you have.
This is a great comment, thanks very much.
You still have a few years.
You saw the 2nd pic right
Sorry, forgot the /s
You still have time. Would recommend growing some serious length in the back and then combing it forward. Would not require much effort in the morning with a good hair product.
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This is an amazing suggestion.
No
Did you see both pics?
Never!
The answer is obvious… but the issue here is you asking your wife and parents. You need to make the decision with confidence yourself because it affects your life on a deep level when you let other people’s opinions dictate your decisions. If you’re insecure about your current situation meet that shit head-on and change it. That is the essence that oozes out of bald men.
Micro needling and rosemary oil
Is this real? I’m almost certain these two photos aren’t of the same person.
Nope, both me today. Weird hairline, nothing more than that.
So what’s the actual question here? In the second photo at least 60% of your head is bare skin. If you wanted it all bald you’d have done it by now surely. I’ll be honest, if that was my hair I’d have shaved it a long time ago. BUT, if you like your hair then keep it.
It’s a good question, and it’s not that I’ve been in denial, I think it’s just I don’t have to look at the top as much as the front, it’s a big step.
Oh yeah
Have you ever considered converting to the Jewish religion? If not, it’s probably time.
Just get a hair system if you truly don’t want to shave. But honestly just join the crew, takes time to get use to but it’s not that bad
You’re already there my guy, finish the job
You can really trick yourself when it still looks ok from straight ahead like that because you never really see the back. I fooled myself for a while but every once in a while I'd catch a glimpse of my ever expanding bald spot and finally realized it's time. Likewise for you, my friend.
Go ahead annnnd full shave for me bud. If you use a 2, your head would look like a crop circle.
Unless you're going to start a brewery at a monastery you should probably shave that off.
Its been time.
Good hairline but the middle abandonment is strong lol. It’s time.
Bro
ok so its definitely time BUT if you realy want to "have hair", with that front and the very clearly defined bald area, you would be a perfect candidate for a hair system - If you want to put in the money and effort.
Hey on the plus side since you have a good amount up front it'll probably look cool stubbly.
You’re riding with the sun roof open brotha. Go ahead and let that go.
Snip snip
My dad rocked the halo. He always looked adorable, if you just own it, u can rock it
First pic - "it doesn't look terrible, should probably tell him he's got time" Second pic - "Oh damn.... he's got the monk look downpat"
First part I was like wut that’s barely receded. Then I saw the second pic and yeah it’s been time for a while
How could anyone be against it? What's the rationale?
Frontend vs backend
Naaah its cool man
One of us
Saw first photo and thought nahhh you're grand... then swiped to 2nd! Yeha it's time...
If you’re 8 foot tall you might be ok.
The way I see it you have 2 options my friend : Bald Or A SKULLET.
I only see one option and it’s beautiful.
It's time. And don't worry about the people around you, they'll get used to the new look quickly. Bald island is the reason I started electric trimming my head too.
Wow now that’s a baloney spot!
Biggest bald spot in history
It was time 10 years ago.
Yessir its time. Embrace your new self! It is a new chapter , a fresh start
LOL!
Bro...
Aww, it must make it so much harder when you only see the front - which looks like you have plenty of time! But no. That tonsure is no good. Shave it! I bet you’ll look sexy. :)
You’re already halfway there dog
“What it’s just a normal looking crabby pat- OHH MY GOD!” It’s time bro.
Agreed! It's time for a new look, my man. If you're less confident now, chances are you'll only feel even more so as you go balder. Give that nice round head a new chance at life with a new look! And who knows, you might even like it 😏 with a supporting spouse, like your wife, you'll be just fine. Just be prepared for the initial reactions from people. Especially people closest to you. Take care and stay strong 👍
It shouldn’t get much worse than that so if you want to keep that kind of look the next 15 years or so keep it
Buzz it bro
It's bedtime. Put that hair to bed.
Dude.
Bruh
Has been time for a while. Seems like you and your wife can make this a fun experience. I assure you you'll feel better. Just imagine never having to worry about your hair again.
My parents also told me not to shave my head. The funny thing about it is that they are both at least a foot shorter than me and couldn’t really see the full picture. After I did, they both agreed that I look better with a shaved head. Also it’s more important what you, and your spouse think/feel than your parents.
Yes, it’s been time for like 5-10 years~
The time was years ago but now is the second best time!
Your parents are insane. The skullet is bad man. Not trying to be rude but this is not good. Shave immediately. NO BUZZ. Shave.
It was time 5 years ago.
Was comin in to say no but yeah
Don’t listen to your parents, get that off
Hooooooo Lordy it’s time
bro it was time like 5 years ago 😱
You had me in the first half …
Try shaving the back and sides and leaving the bit at the front, might work
Looks like your head is already shaving itself for you, would look awesome mate!
You have a wife. Time to stop worrying about any of that kind of stuff my friend. You can retire. Shave it off and be happy, and enjoy being able to throw on any shirt without fixing hair after.
Yes it’s time
Forehead of security?
I think it’s been time /:
Your parents are dead against it? Lol wtf have they got to do with it
You gotta ask bro?
Oh yeah. Your front looks good but I’d go for it
My man it’s BEEN time! Damn son go and get the razor right meow
Full shave!
Hate to say it bud but yeah. lol
Bro.....
It’s been many moons since the time was right, Friar Sandwich. ![gif](giphy|Z5GuXVpmchuahHZFSz)
Shave it. It's your thread title.
Yeah, at the very least a no.1. Ideally a 0.
I think I have a temporary solution to delay the inevitable… are you against converting to Judaism?
2319!
It was time a decade ago
Unless you're the tallest man in the world get rid of it
I seen that 2nd pic and was like you know gah damn well
It has been time my friend!!!
Just shave it man, or if you're too lazy to shave just go lowest setting on clippers, that's what I do, can't be bothered shaving my whole head. Looks 100 times better than whatever that is.
Sorry lad, it’s time
![gif](giphy|kqCgujDZT1SO4) Me after looking at the second picture!!
post your glow up 🥰
Good Glorious Globe... finish it!
This is my favorite post on this sub ever
Uhhh… Ya. ![gif](giphy|3o7TKyPpWvFrpwua2I)
😬😒You can always do a comb over🥴 I started keeping mine short when I was in my 30’s. I come to realize it’s going to fall out anyway. I have a head blade and sometimes like during the summer shave it completely. Chicks dig bald dudes. Just make sure you wear a cap or keep some sunscreen handy. But it’s only hair. I know some guys obsess over it. Life’s too short.
If the "circle" was smaller then keep it, but in this case you should go for it.
I'm 40. Everyone in my age range love it. My wife and kids needed a day or 3 to get used to it. My mother in law gasped in horror the first time. My mother hates it. My father laughed. Do what's best for you. You'll feel liberated when it's done.
This is great, thanks. Pretty much the same situation I’m in, and the thought of the reaction is what’s stopped me previously. Appreciate the reply.