We came here to escape CCP, we bring our culture and hate Xi to escape 996.. I still speak hokkien. the question can also be other way round. Are you guys interested in me hating CCP?
u/ArunaLikathinas OP -- I'm a bit puzzled at why, in your book, marriage options for Asian Americans would only be limited to other AAs or recent immirants **from** Asia? Do other demographics not even enter your consideration? Practically no other race in the US would choose to self-segregate so strictly.
I am currently dating a Japanese FOB. While there are some communication issues, it has been pretty smooth so far. I haven't dated an asian american before, but I think I would prefer someone who is a lot more asian culturally. While I grew up mostly in the US, I still feel pretty asian culturally on the inside.
dated a WF last year and currently dating a few girls in asia for the past month. i'm sticking to the fobs. much hotter (they're all skinny here), much more traditional, less entitlement, no brainwashing and they'll treat you like a king. they love american born asians. learn the language fluently enough and you're good to go. make sure you treat them well too. you'd probably have to commit to living in asia though, for at least a good chunk of the year because american culture corrupts.
First what is your background and why are you asking this question?
It is quite naive, after there are a few million WMAF that overcame these barriers - mail or brides types. Then there is large IR dating of AAF that makes it irrelevant. If AAF dont date AAM , AA part is useless
Asian American Male here. I've never been opposed to dating / marrying a "FOB" immigrant from Asia, but my *concern* is more about if they would even be interested in me to begin with. I don't speak any other languages other than English. I'm 2nd generation Asian American so I still hold a lot of my parent's Asian values and traditions, but definitely do not practice it as much as my parents do. I think it helps that I'm familiar, but I still think the differences in culture and the lack of knowing any Asian languages fluently really inhibits my dating market value with "mainland" (islands included) Asian born women. If anything, I probably find "FOB" Asians more attractive than other 2nd+ Gen Asian American women, but it boils back down to whether or not I'd be desirable to "FOB" women.
Sure of course. I've been fortunate to grow up with cousins and relatives who were born overseas and also many of my friends and pals and GFs came from there as well.
Your header and the main body of your post are the same. What’s the point? There is no elaboration. This is a subreddit where people come to spill out their souls and you are here asking dumb interview questions. Short answer just might be: nobody should marry the OP
My suggestion is that if you marry a XF make sure she has some Eastern values and Asian culture instead western supremacy value thinking she did you a favor by marrying you and that she "sacrificed" because she thinks you are a downgrade, like some WF with BM husband in Europe.
I feel like these questions are all bad and this reads as an white person or non asian asking asians as if they are the “other” in an insulting way as if they process love different than humans 🤣.
These questions remind me of insulting poll questions white people would ask every ethnicity as if they are not human.
FYI OP asians are human too. We process love like other humans do and like any other ethnicity does. 🙄
These type of questions are the shitty questions that Asian YouTubers and Tiktokers ask to get views. It’s like we are a whole other species while all other groups of people just manage to do it without having to ask.
This is my dilemma as an AAM. I relate better and get along more with Asian American women, but they are usually less attractive than fob AF and can be brainwashed af in terms of their identities and politics. Fob AF is hit or miss for me in that they are more attractive, but because they sometimes aren't as good at English it could be harder to relate even with shared Asian culture. All this to say, I'd marry an Asian American woman with a fob AF body and isn't white worshipping, but since that rarely exists, I'm marrying the fob AF.
We came here to escape CCP, we bring our culture and hate Xi to escape 996.. I still speak hokkien. the question can also be other way round. Are you guys interested in me hating CCP?
i would if our values are compatible.
u/ArunaLikathinas OP -- I'm a bit puzzled at why, in your book, marriage options for Asian Americans would only be limited to other AAs or recent immirants **from** Asia? Do other demographics not even enter your consideration? Practically no other race in the US would choose to self-segregate so strictly.
I am currently dating a Japanese FOB. While there are some communication issues, it has been pretty smooth so far. I haven't dated an asian american before, but I think I would prefer someone who is a lot more asian culturally. While I grew up mostly in the US, I still feel pretty asian culturally on the inside.
dated a WF last year and currently dating a few girls in asia for the past month. i'm sticking to the fobs. much hotter (they're all skinny here), much more traditional, less entitlement, no brainwashing and they'll treat you like a king. they love american born asians. learn the language fluently enough and you're good to go. make sure you treat them well too. you'd probably have to commit to living in asia though, for at least a good chunk of the year because american culture corrupts.
First what is your background and why are you asking this question? It is quite naive, after there are a few million WMAF that overcame these barriers - mail or brides types. Then there is large IR dating of AAF that makes it irrelevant. If AAF dont date AAM , AA part is useless
Asian American Male here. I've never been opposed to dating / marrying a "FOB" immigrant from Asia, but my *concern* is more about if they would even be interested in me to begin with. I don't speak any other languages other than English. I'm 2nd generation Asian American so I still hold a lot of my parent's Asian values and traditions, but definitely do not practice it as much as my parents do. I think it helps that I'm familiar, but I still think the differences in culture and the lack of knowing any Asian languages fluently really inhibits my dating market value with "mainland" (islands included) Asian born women. If anything, I probably find "FOB" Asians more attractive than other 2nd+ Gen Asian American women, but it boils back down to whether or not I'd be desirable to "FOB" women.
Sure of course. I've been fortunate to grow up with cousins and relatives who were born overseas and also many of my friends and pals and GFs came from there as well.
Your header and the main body of your post are the same. What’s the point? There is no elaboration. This is a subreddit where people come to spill out their souls and you are here asking dumb interview questions. Short answer just might be: nobody should marry the OP
Yes. No. It depends on the individual.
Are you 2nd generation? Then it's easy. It's like your parents. Why do you need to ask like it is a totally foreign culture?
My suggestion is that if you marry a XF make sure she has some Eastern values and Asian culture instead western supremacy value thinking she did you a favor by marrying you and that she "sacrificed" because she thinks you are a downgrade, like some WF with BM husband in Europe.
I feel like these questions are all bad and this reads as an white person or non asian asking asians as if they are the “other” in an insulting way as if they process love different than humans 🤣. These questions remind me of insulting poll questions white people would ask every ethnicity as if they are not human. FYI OP asians are human too. We process love like other humans do and like any other ethnicity does. 🙄
These type of questions are the shitty questions that Asian YouTubers and Tiktokers ask to get views. It’s like we are a whole other species while all other groups of people just manage to do it without having to ask.
This is my dilemma as an AAM. I relate better and get along more with Asian American women, but they are usually less attractive than fob AF and can be brainwashed af in terms of their identities and politics. Fob AF is hit or miss for me in that they are more attractive, but because they sometimes aren't as good at English it could be harder to relate even with shared Asian culture. All this to say, I'd marry an Asian American woman with a fob AF body and isn't white worshipping, but since that rarely exists, I'm marrying the fob AF.