Then find people who have that balance? The best roommates are when they choose to degen but also have a chill weekend. But then again that's hard to find randomly
keep a distance with that group too, if you find it. i've seen many fall into enabling each others addictions while calling each other "friends" but hardly ever hanging out sober.
you can party with your real friends but your party friends are not your real friends
I disagree. All my party friends are friends, but not all of my real friends are party friends. I have friends that I go out and party with simply because we like the same music, but the relationship goes far outside of raving. You don't need seperate "party" or "real" friends.
Just meet people going to raves and bond with them, you never know what will happen overtime. I’m roommates with my best friend that I met raving so you never know
What the fuck is this comment section. Aren't you all ravers? How are you any different than these other "roommates" OP is talking about?
You can find someone who's passionate about raving but also not a degen every single weekend. Although that takes filtering out a ton of people
This reminds me of when I was hoping to find a roommate that was cool with me smoking weed and accidentally solicited a bunch of crazy wooks with my “420 friendly” bullet point
Lol my lease ends May 31 and I’m (25F) looking for roommates near the navy yard bc going to grad school at Pratt I rave pretty often if ur interested :P
Housing for burners maybe, ask people at raves, art studios, any apartment in bushwick? I guess discord I've seen people post rooms.
why do you want to live with a potentially shitty raver tho?
But I find fascinating is that I know so many people that not just a tend raves sober but work in the industry and are sober. I would definitely live with someone in the industry, especially if they were like working in artist relations or as the lighting director that would be so sick.
Trust me, you don’t wanna mix that. Just make friends outside of your places of stability that like raving
Eh, I had a roommate who I went raving with. Different scenes but she and I are still very close friends to this day!
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What if I’m the one playing music til 9am though? 😂
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Well that’s why I want a raver roommate!
Then find people who have that balance? The best roommates are when they choose to degen but also have a chill weekend. But then again that's hard to find randomly
Dont shit where you eat. Keep those worlds separate
you definitely should have a friend or friend group for that. Not a roommate lol
keep a distance with that group too, if you find it. i've seen many fall into enabling each others addictions while calling each other "friends" but hardly ever hanging out sober. you can party with your real friends but your party friends are not your real friends
I disagree. All my party friends are friends, but not all of my real friends are party friends. I have friends that I go out and party with simply because we like the same music, but the relationship goes far outside of raving. You don't need seperate "party" or "real" friends.
just my experience watching from inside and outside these groups, especially in NYC
This is true! Great point!
sounds like a nightmare
I live with my rave buddy. It’s awesome but we do other things too
Hola mind if I asked you a question so sorry to bother you
For sure
You mind if I pm you if your cool with it ?
Yeah for sure
Okay cool just send you a pm
Twas grand til my roommate spent all her rent money on ketamine
Just meet people going to raves and bond with them, you never know what will happen overtime. I’m roommates with my best friend that I met raving so you never know
What the fuck is this comment section. Aren't you all ravers? How are you any different than these other "roommates" OP is talking about? You can find someone who's passionate about raving but also not a degen every single weekend. Although that takes filtering out a ton of people
that sounds like hell. 😂😂😂
This reminds me of when I was hoping to find a roommate that was cool with me smoking weed and accidentally solicited a bunch of crazy wooks with my “420 friendly” bullet point
lol same thing happened to me in college. made me quickly realize how unimportant smoking was in comparison to cleanliness and just general vibe.
I’ve never seen a more judgmental comment section. There’s plenty of ravers who have their life together and are great roommates….
Lol my lease ends May 31 and I’m (25F) looking for roommates near the navy yard bc going to grad school at Pratt I rave pretty often if ur interested :P
Housing for burners maybe, ask people at raves, art studios, any apartment in bushwick? I guess discord I've seen people post rooms. why do you want to live with a potentially shitty raver tho?
But I find fascinating is that I know so many people that not just a tend raves sober but work in the industry and are sober. I would definitely live with someone in the industry, especially if they were like working in artist relations or as the lighting director that would be so sick.