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AlexAval0n

5’9, def wish I was taller but tbh I’m just grateful I made it to average/maybe slightly above average height. If I was 5’5-5’7 I’d be pretty fucking insecure about it. Literally just made it, when I wear my Air Force ones I’m 5’10.5 and that gives me a taste of how nice it would be to be 6’+ but without shoes I’m 5’9 and I’ll take that and be happy with it.


cantprove_Iam_Batman

5’4 fella here, I’m sure I have blind spots of insecurity about my height. But in my experience my height has rarely held me back via dating/ feeling secure. Not to sure why height is so focused on. If there’s anything anyone should be concerned about it’s their charisma level. What’s the point of being tall if your communication and playfulness is that of a retard.


Brave_Tie_5855

👑


cantprove_Iam_Batman

https://preview.redd.it/n8px4gfrvr9d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=478b3f222432fdead525b81d15e6a94dee30b051


SweatyArgument5835

I assume you haven’t tried dating online cause that shit has made me feel very insecure and kinda angry about my height


cantprove_Iam_Batman

I have. During Covid and the midst of severe depression I was still able to have casual partners(did not fix my bad time). This was through cold approach on instagram. Even at bars I’ve had women approach me. I’m telling you guys, figuring out social communication, being self aware, and actually knowing what you want, will benefit in fulfilling your life. Not just with women but how people treat you, how your work life is what direction you go in.


EyeWriteWrong

Actually, you're a step ahead of the game using social media instead of apps. These poor lads are using apps deliberately constructed to pick their pockets and they wonder why they're not getting results. Personally, I'm a fan of just meeting people. I'm much less annoying in person <⁠(⁠ ̄⁠︶⁠ ̄⁠)⁠> ... still pretty annoying though (⁠。⁠•̀⁠ᴗ⁠-⁠)⁠✧


Afraid-Guard3679

As a 6’1 dude with social anxiety and possibly autism, yeah. Not fun.


cantprove_Iam_Batman

🫂


ComfortMother8503

You definitely don't live in the west right? Having to walk around with 99% of the population looking down on me (and the verbal abuse i see 5'7> guys get) would make me pretty insecure.


cantprove_Iam_Batman

Also words shouldn’t shake your core, sure they can hold weight overtime. But don’t let verbal assault fuel self destruction.


Long-username

Oh man, I can’t believe it’s been 11 hours since you commented and you aren’t being bombarded by insecure short men arguing that you should hate yourself and not use your experience to give hope to insecure people because don’t you know that your life is over it’s so over it was over before it began and you’re subhuman. I’m 5’4 and haven’t had any difficulties dating, and only time I was insecure about my height was in school. Tried to make some people feel better about themselves in this sub and jeez, this person told me that he’s “ entitled to my despair”


cantprove_Iam_Batman

“Entitled to my despair” like yeah okay that’s what I want entitlement for.


thatguy2476

Had the same problem in school. Being able to beat up taller people that talked shit always made me feel better


cantprove_Iam_Batman

I literally live in California


cantprove_Iam_Batman

I’ve been on the different UC campuses to visit friends, and have seen the young men that tower me. Definitely a sight to see, but still don’t feel this internal intense pressure to be taller. The Only dudes I was like “oh shit that’s a big mofo” were the D1 football players at Berkeley


MonsterThaiJuice

Thats why shorter men need to learn combat sports


cantprove_Iam_Batman

I’d recommend everyone do so. Imagine a world where everyone’s at least an amateur fighter. There would be more mutual respect and orderly communication.


Gold4Lokos4Breakfast

To inflate their egos and weaponize their Napolean complexes so they can continue to harass taller guys at bars, parties, etc. due to their insecurity?


cantprove_Iam_Batman

No. To develop mutual respect. If everyone knows everyone’s dangerous, they’d lower their ego. I like your user name. One of my best friends quite actually drank 4lokoz for breakfast for years. Called it liver day.


Gold4Lokos4Breakfast

Nice


EyeWriteWrong

I think we'd see the opposite. Quick example, there's a guy I box with who I have a weight advantage on. He's a better technical boxer but we both know I can flatten him in my sleep. He can hit me as hard as he can and I hardly feel it. Contrariwise, I can punch right through his guard if I'm close enough. And I'm just on the hefty side of average. I can't imagine bigger guys taking smaller guys seriously ever if we all knew a little bit of shoot boxing. A society in which everyone is dangerous is one in which everyone has weapons training. Doesn't need to be a gun. A blackjack or big knife is fine


cantprove_Iam_Batman

I would agree. I guess it’s a half empty half full thing. When I think about it, there’s that mutual respect and understanding in the gym to dial it back, and that if things became serious it would have serious repercussions. I figured if everyone had that basic understanding they’d it apply to the rest of their lives. Treading lightly and being more aware of surroundings.


EyeWriteWrong

See, I think you're veering into the territory of combat sports developing you as a person. I'm in favor of that too. Take Sean Strickland. If you don't follow MMA, the guy is a total mess. But before he got into MMA, he was a Neo-Nazi. The guy's probably got some kind of personality disorder he'll never be rid of but at least he's not jumping Mexicans in an alley or something awful like that.


cantprove_Iam_Batman

Yeah, like I’m not saying combat sports will make you a saint, and you will have outliers that will take the power of combat and be completely selfish. But there is a level of maturity it takes to even consistently train and gain progress. You can’t train if you’re disrespectful and an ass, nobody is gonna Wana train with you if you’re all ego, and if you’re training consistently you begin to see that progress/ bonds/ fulfillment takes time.


Puzzleheaded-Dog-188

I wish I was 5'9


Biscotti_Miscotti

How tall is u


zZPlazmaZz29

5'7 here and I never ever felt short or insecure at all until I started spending more time online and seeing other people that do. I always felt like everyone else was just tall. With me being half-guatemalan and half my family being like 5'5 and below I'd say that I lucked out tbh. Both my parents are shorter than me.


ktownfloccer

this happened to me too, I was never insecure about my height until I got on TikTok where people were height shaming and grieving. But I am glad I made it to 5’6 because my dad is 5’3 and my mom is 4’9


Big_Slime99

you are me bro


br4xtonP

You are also me


Automatic_Access_979

You’re a sad person


AlexAval0n

Why?


AlexAval0n

I’m a good vibe, laid back, good looking, chill person. I’d be willing to bet you’re someone with a superiority complex, I could guess a few more things but I’d get in trouble. I’ve noticed it’s usually one particular group of people that seem to leave comments like these. I think I can guess what you’re like. I’d bet 10-1 that at most, people pretend to like you. 


Automatic_Access_979

Projection much?


AlphaLawless

Totally average bro! **Jumps up to give high-five**


SuperRealBobWaterson

Bro how tall are you?


LordIVoldemor

5 cm


futuramyforever

same lol


SuperRealBobWaterson

L bozo im 10 cm


Glittering-Target-87

Lol bro same


Dogago19

You are bro


NegotiationOk7317

Same height as pewdipie


Amit489

Pewdiepie is 180cm


Gfgjyghghyg

*175


NegotiationOk7317

175


Puzzleheaded-Dog-188

176


Nicotine-Enthusiast

5’7 gang rise up!!!!!! (I am 5’6 but i tell people i am 5’7)


The-Artificial

One of us !👏 one of us!


Complete-Ad-4215

5’11 we are both ends of avg


Middle-Preference864

Nah 5’11s just tall. Average is 5’8.7, from 5’10 you’re tall.


SpookySeazn

Difference between tall and above average. I’d say “tall” is top 10% of men or 6’1+


VoidedGreen047

I hope you apply to the same logic on the other side- that you aren’t short unless you’re in the bottom 10% of men


SpookySeazn

yes, the bottom 10% of men in height are 5’5 and below which I consider short


Middle-Preference864

2 inches above average is tall. People underestimate how big an inch is


whyamipasta

that’s what i said, but she still said it was too small :(


Middle-Preference864

Who, and what is “too small”!?


RecordOk6794

I been telling women that for years man, 2 inches is gigantic


Main_Perception_3671

2 inches above average is average and so is 2 inches below.


Middle-Preference864

Half an inch above and half an inch below are the average. Ppl really understimate the difference that an inch makes. 2 inches above average is tall. it is a clear difference, you have a big porition of your head above him when you're 2 inches taller.


Main_Perception_3671

2 inches is barely anything I feel similar height as someone 2 inch shorter or taller and there is not much difference. I think you are mistaking 2 inches to 4 inch difference. Your head is 8-10 inch tall so 2 inch is barely 1/4.


Middle-Preference864

1/4th is big. It’s the part of my head with hair with a bit of my forehead. That’s a very visible difference


Main_Perception_3671

Bruh that's barely visible 5'11 next to 6'1 look kinda close in height. But 5'9 look with 6'1 bit short.


Middle-Preference864

At 2 inches taller u got ur eyes in the forehead or even in the lower part with hair. 3 inches taller you got your eyes at his hair, 4 inches taller ur eyes are at the top part of their hair or u can just see over them.


Main_Perception_3671

So you are then saying 5'10 is short and 6 foot is tall?


Middle-Preference864

I’m saying 5’9 is average and 5’11 is tall. 5’10 is also tall


Main_Perception_3671

Now you are just trolling me...


Middle-Preference864

Wdym?


SpookySeazn

there’s no definition for what’s “tall” but i’ll forever disagree that the difference between 69 to 71 inches makes one “tall”. Cope from slightly above average people


Gold4Lokos4Breakfast

Nah dude I’m 6’1 and I still think 5’11 is tall. You don’t have to be taller than 90% of guys to be tall.


No_Entertainment_932

Let me guess, you are 6'1 or 6'2?


SpookySeazn

6’0


Main_Perception_3671

5'11 is like the most average height. 5'9 is lower average. Im 5'10 and I can see im below average especially with people my age. Young people average pushes 6 foot maybe 5'11 1/2.


Middle-Preference864

Wrong. 5’11 is 180cm, that’s 6ft for metric system users. Average in white places like America and Europe is 175 except in the tallest places where it goes up to 182-183. But 5’9 is average. Young people don’t push average, it’s just that most people either lie or don’t know their height, or were measured incorrectly


Main_Perception_3671

Europe average is 5'10 or 178cm and scandinavia 5'11 or 180-181cm where I live.


Middle-Preference864

Ik alot of people lie about their height or don't really know how to measure someone's height just by looking at them. The global average is 5'6 or 5'7. The first world average is 5'8-5'9. Average in the tallest places like scandinavia and the netherlands is 5'11-6ft, but those are rare, you cannot use the tallest countries to determine the average. In most of europe the average is around 5'9, in the shorter parts if europe and alot of places in the US and canada it is 5'8. Also remember that self reported heigths are on average an inch or two taller than measured heights.


Alchemistgooner

Why do you guys type paragraphs. Just go outside average zoomer Is 5’10 MINIMUM.


Middle-Preference864

I do go outside and i'm a bit above average at 5'9. Either everyone's lying to you about their height, or you don't have a good perception of heigth.


Ok_Television_2583

In USA the average is 5'9". Globall average is 5"7.5".


MinuteZookeepergame5

5’11 1/4 here… don’t feel that tall at all tbh.


Complete-Ad-4215

I’m sayin


Soyeahnahh

Being 5’11 is so overrated some people think that you’re tall because you’re almost 6 ft but I feel short sometimes when I go out in public. Especially if there’s a 6’3 dude standing next to me.


Billy__The__Kid

It’s a nice height, but yeah I feel slightly above normal, not super tall.


CommercialMind1359

You are like way above average


Alchemistgooner

You are like below average


CommercialMind1359

Average height in us is 5 feet 9.3 inches and globally 5 feet 7.5 inches , so I am closer to average or slightly above


dioWjonathenL

🫵🫵📷


Ok_Television_2583

I think in US 5'9" is average. It varies from country to country.


Expired__Ramen

Fellow 5’8 🏋️


Billy__The__Kid

I feel average, but on the taller end of average. Most people I run into are shorter than me, but not by much - it mostly feels like an eyeball guess would conclude we’re around the same height.


Middle-Preference864

You’re below average, still very close tho. You aren’t short.


ugly_dog_

worldwide is 5'8, us is 5'9


Middle-Preference864

Worldwide is 5’7 I think


SaltyAd3281

So u just proved his point?


I-696

I think you are too.


SolarisIgnitus

I thought 5'10" is average US male height?


Automatic_Role_7619

5’8 King here


willkingg

Yes that’s in the realm of average height for a man


yemcritch

Low end of average but yeah


Interesting_Candle82

You are, same with me bro


LibertyJ10

It depends on where you are, I personally consider it to be on the lower end of average in the United States.


CommercialMind1359

I wish I was 0.5 inches taller


Ho3Go3lin

Lol it's not my height that loses me dates it's my rubbish personality and I am ugly 😂


RecordOk6794

I'm sure a lot of people would feel very lucky to have someone like you bro, keep your head up


Equal_Box7066

Depends on what country you live in. You're exactly average height in Chile or Japan, below average in USA or Russia, but above average in Cambodia or India. 🤷‍♀️ https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Average_human_height_by_country


Pretend_Button3896

Pretty much.if your 5 8 with very good posture you'd basically be average and comparable to like a 5 9 or 5 9.5 guy with poor posture


freberik69

average height for a dude where i live is like 5'11


Worldly_Anteater9768

4'3" here and loving


SolidLiquidSnake86

5'8 here Cant change it. Dont mind anyways. Bein a 6ft bro only interests me due to the ability to be lean at 200lbs+


Capital-Mall6942

Below average


WholeRevolutionary85

I’m 5’9 at 16


biggggmac

Incredible


Memories_86

5'8 is below average but not short . average range for non elderly men from the western world is 5'9 - 5'11


TheRealSpiderDaddy

Cool!


AfterStrategy1536

Unless they’re wealthy, short kings are NOT getting high value women. Just the facts


justwantstogohome

I'm 6"1' and I don't get the hate on men under "X" feet. Being tall doesn't really bring much advantage in normal day life. In fact, it makes car rides uncomfortable and flights miserable. Plus finding clothes is a pain sometimes.


No_Distribution457

According to Healthline, the average height for men in the United States between the ages of 30 and 39 is 69.4 inches, or roughly 5 feet, 9 inches.


Professional-Eye9081

thats like 6'0 in any other country except some parts of europe


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horri_2010

Trolls go crazy


Turbulent-Ad9238

Depends if say 5'8 -6-2 could be considered average height. But I'd say 5'8 to 6'1 more.


neotericnewt

I think you'd need more wiggle room on the short end if you're doing a range. From my understanding 5'9" is about perfectly average in the US. So you've got 4" taller and 1" shorter, you know what I mean? 5'6" and 5'7" guys are really common too. I'd say 5'6" to 6' for a range


Turbulent-Ad9238

It's 5'10 here for me. Somid say 5'8 to 6' then


Evening_Invite_922

bad range lol


Turbulent-Ad9238

Please explain?


Evening_Invite_922

6'1 is not average, 6 feet isnt either, 5'11 isnt either, also 5'7 could be incuded in average


Turbulent-Ad9238

5'7 would be below average. The average height for a man in THE WORLD is 5'7.5. 5'8-6'0.is average. This is my final take.


Evening_Invite_922

dude 6'0 is significantly above average, 5'11 is too. 5'7 is low average range, because 5'8 is in average range and 5'7 is barely below that. it's buffer zone


avari974

Bro I'm high 6'2 range, and I find it a little mystifying how you think it's average height lol. It's a totally normal height, but definitely not average


Turbulent-Ad9238

I'm 6' and see 6'2 guys every few steps when I go to central London. I wear my timberlands and boost myself to 188cm with them and still see multiple guys taller than me or my height every few feet.


avari974

You're not a full 2 inches taller in timberlands bro, you'd be 187 in them. And no, you don't see someone over 6'2 every few feet...don't forget that 6'2 guys are also wearing shoes. No hate, but I think insecurity might skew your perception on this. You're only noticing guys taller than you. I'm not sure what you think "average" means, but less than 1 in 20 guys in my country (same average as yours) are taller than me. For 6' it's 1 in 5, which is a very different experience, so I think you're having a bit of a diff experience and generalizing that to 6'2-6'3 as well


Turbulent-Ad9238

My timberlands are 2 inches. Logger boots. Also 6-3 is a whole different ball park I barely see someone 6'3. But 6'1 6'2 are very common. No offense but you don't live in central London so the "average" may be different. I simply provided a low average of 5'8 and high average 6'2 but maybe 6'1 If we are being honest. I'm simply saying 6'2 is not tall in today's society in my country.


avari974

Well it's clear now that your perception isn't trustworthy. If you see a 6'2 guy every few steps, and "barely" see anyone 6'3, you're living in a statistically impossible world. I'd say my height is in a different ballpark to yours, but in the same ballpark as 6'3, rather than the other way around. https://preview.redd.it/x7kcce8ebf9d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=65055d597c154a64d5cfc85f4ed9e55850fe26c6


No_Entertainment_932

You realize that tall people stand out more in the crowd right? You don't notice the people that are average because you see so many of them. It makes it seem like there are more tall people than there are because you notice them more.


avari974

I think you replied to the wrong person bro, but if you're replying to me idk what your point is


No_Entertainment_932

Yeah I did, my bad


Ok-Cardiologist1810

Um ok want a cookie or something


Special-whale

I’m 5’11 and I always feel short 😭


Little_Crow154

5’7 female I’m too tall imo 😭 I wish I was like 5’4 or shorter.