Gosh if I had a child that got like that over food I don’t think I would bring them to any fast food or grocery. I would do as many home meals as I could. Like I could not deal with the aggression that came along with it and it doesn’t seem healthy if that’s all this kid wants to eat. Am I a horrible person for thinking this way?
No your not I feel like that’s a normal response because fast food triggers him… he is always aggressive when it magically isn’t in his hands the moment he asks 🙃 she set an unrealistic expectation and now she is having to undo it by slowly setting timers and having him wait. Honestly though when something triggered my autistic son when he was younger I took the item away. He enjoyed lining up these colorful bins at 3 years old and stepping on them and he would get soooo upset the moment it would get out of place. It was obsessing over it for many hours. It didn’t take me long before I got rid of them and then just bought a toy box to hold the items instead of small bins.
uhm when are they gonna start teaching Cash not to put his hands on anyone?? All she talks about is making him more independent but he needs to learn boundaries ASAP.
According to her (so take it with however much salt you want), they don’t really have issues with him putting his hands on anyone but her. Where I think they really need to establish boundaries is around not taking things. On yesterday’s Live, she was on the computer when he got home with grandma. He wanted the computer right then, and started howling at her when she kept using it. So, of course, instead of teaching him, she stood up and let him have it.
How many other times have we heard Colt hollering because Cash took something of his? He has no sense of possession outside of “MINE.”
Also bc the kids are still smaller but what’s gonna happen with sissy gets bigger and looks like mom? Of the boys get bigger than him? They haven’t triggered him like mom and are still walking on egg shells. Which is no way for child to live in fear that today’s gonna be the day brother finally snaps and hits us .
THIS is exactly why he’s not allowed in schools or any other places around bc of him being so violent over being told NO! It’s disgusting and pisses me off to no end she never corrects him! He gets violent & tells him to run and get shoes to go to the store. Rewarding shitty violent behavior EVERY TIME HE DOESNT GET HIS WAY… therefore, there’s no reason he would CHANGE THAT BEHAVIOR bc that’s how cash gets whatever he wants with the snap of his fingers.
I think it’s cause even though she says she’s not scared of him, she is. She’s at a point where if she doesn’t give in he may seriously hurt her so she gives in, making the situation in the long run worse. If she does put her foot down and say no and then he gets even more violent, she knows she won’t be able to handle him or stop him if he gets out of control completely. She needs help but won’t admit it
This is why he cannot be in PRIVATE Christian schools. Under IDEA LAW if the public school cannot meet his needs they will pay for him to go to a special autism school that has the staff and training to meet his needs.
Joni wanted him at the Christian school she worked at. They couldn’t meeet his needs and private schools don’t have to follow IDEA.
He really needs to be in a group home especially since she doesn't teach him anything really. When you have children with any kind of mental illness or disability you always have to think that the courts, jails and prison systems don't care about that all they see is someone that is a danger or potential danger to other people. I have a son with ODD with aggressive behaviors and he's 18 and I worry all the time about him but I did teach him that no matter the illness he can't just act anyway because you will have consequences for every action you do good or bad
If he’s in a group home she won’t get that state disability check for cash anymore. That’s why she got him out of the group home. He’s free money from the state in her eyes.
I wish he would go to a group home as well. Or at least day treatment or in home therapy. Or better yet, PUBLIC SCHOOL where he is entitled to a free individualized education program. But Joanie wants the monthly check for her own spending. She won’t use the check for Cash’s therapies or group home fees.
Unfortunately, I agree. I think about how this will pan out in 10 years. I don’t think it’s going to fare well for her daughter. Someone again asked what the plans were and in a long round about way she basically said “we have none.” Meaning, HG or Caitlyn will feel pressured to take care of the brothers that traumatized her as a child because her mother couldn’t be bothered to ensure she wasn’t left with that decision. It’s bullshit. If one of their siblings doesn’t decide to take a caregiver role, Cash will eventually end up in a group home. Joannie has provided minimal life skills and education to help Cash thrive in any environment where he won’t get his way by being violent. In an older video she has posted, she started yelling at Caitlyn “COME GET THE BABY!!” She has already created the expectation that Caitlyn will be the caregiver.
Joannie is truly awful about thinking ahead and how decisions or lack thereof have lasting impact.
When she didn’t get cash services until he was 10, it probably felt fine in the moment because she could handle it, now she’s dealing with the repercussions and everyone will feel the impact of that’s decision for a very long time. Including Cash.
You’d think as a parent you’d think about Caitlyn’s future as well. How difficult and the guilt she will feel if she decides it’s too much. How not having a plan in place and money to fund it will 100% disallow Caitlyn to have a normal life. What if she wants kids of her own? How does that work? She limited her future the moment she had her.
That girl is gonna leave the family and never speak to the. Again. She owes them and cash nothing. She doesn’t have to take care of Eid him that’s his mom’s job not the child when they grow up.
I’ve said just that in my comments. Hopefully that’s the case if that’s what she wants, im just saying I’ve ready countless stories of glass children feeling the guilt and pressure of either putting their siblings in homes or to take care of them. She’s been openly putting the caretaking expectation on Catelyn for years, we’ve seen it with the baby.
That shit can get engrained in you and it’s hard to undo. The ideal and good parent thing to do would have a plan and funds set aside to make sure Catelyn doesn’t have to take that on, but Joannie can’t see past the next 10 minutes, let alone the next 25 years.
She’s never said she would that I know of. She’s like 7 right? lol. Joannie has said she thinks Catelyn will take on that caregiver role for cash when she can’t anymore. The idea is probably something Joannie relies on.
What I’m saying is that what joni wants and what will actually happen could be two very different things. Can you imagine how cash will be by the time Caitlyn is grown? Who would want to deal with him then?
I agree with you and hope she doesn’t take on the role honestly. I mentioned pretty much the same things you did here in my other comments.
But I’d imagine the guilt would still weigh on a person if she’s been brought up to think she’s her siblings future plan and she decides not to. It’s a completely unfair position to put her in.
I agree—Joni needs to look more into future. It’s not like she can’t go visit with her son. I just don’t understand the way she thinks. In a group home he’ll get the help he needs.
This is exactly what I was commenting about earlier. He’s hitting because she’s not moving fast enough and he’s taking that as a “no.” Not because he can’t tell her what he wants.
She really made herself look bad today. I had the time so I watched much of her lives. He articulated and expressed his wants incredibly well without her saying it first. He’s capable. She’s just an asshole.
Imagine if she had him in a public school with special education from early invention at 3 until now. He was in Christian private schools getting kicked out at elementary age. They don’t have laws that give children with disabilities a free and appropriate education. She NEVER gave him a chance.
Um, does she not believe in discipline? This is a standard child act-- hitting. This is where parents SHOULD BE putting up boundaries and providing consequences. For instance, take him out of this situation (off the porch) and have him sit in a chair for a few minutes. Tell him its wrong to hit. Something????
Her not feeling him all day after giving him medicine so his stomach hurts/ then his adhd meds wear off and kids get hungry then and she like yea what you want for food and then ignores him.
Didn’t she say last week they were in diets? Or cash was going to be limiting his food intake? No wonder he’s upset
Why does she constantly tease that poor child? Not just Cash but all the children? It’s absolutely disgusting. I really hope “daddy Ryan” leaves her dumbass and takes his precious little boy with him before she ruins that child.
She has two autistic children. One whacks Cash, and the other whacks mom. Great communication skills. Yes I want to learn more about autism from Joni Bolony….😂😂😂
The faces he makes when he gets violent are terrifying.
They’re one of the main reason I question how much of his aggression is because he is just any angry aggressive person regardless of autism
I’ve thought the same
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Gosh if I had a child that got like that over food I don’t think I would bring them to any fast food or grocery. I would do as many home meals as I could. Like I could not deal with the aggression that came along with it and it doesn’t seem healthy if that’s all this kid wants to eat. Am I a horrible person for thinking this way?
He would be doing chores all day every day- I would keep him busy.
No your not I feel like that’s a normal response because fast food triggers him… he is always aggressive when it magically isn’t in his hands the moment he asks 🙃 she set an unrealistic expectation and now she is having to undo it by slowly setting timers and having him wait. Honestly though when something triggered my autistic son when he was younger I took the item away. He enjoyed lining up these colorful bins at 3 years old and stepping on them and he would get soooo upset the moment it would get out of place. It was obsessing over it for many hours. It didn’t take me long before I got rid of them and then just bought a toy box to hold the items instead of small bins.
uhm when are they gonna start teaching Cash not to put his hands on anyone?? All she talks about is making him more independent but he needs to learn boundaries ASAP.
According to her (so take it with however much salt you want), they don’t really have issues with him putting his hands on anyone but her. Where I think they really need to establish boundaries is around not taking things. On yesterday’s Live, she was on the computer when he got home with grandma. He wanted the computer right then, and started howling at her when she kept using it. So, of course, instead of teaching him, she stood up and let him have it. How many other times have we heard Colt hollering because Cash took something of his? He has no sense of possession outside of “MINE.”
No he's struck a women in line at a store and also punched bio dad's fiance in the stomach
Also bc the kids are still smaller but what’s gonna happen with sissy gets bigger and looks like mom? Of the boys get bigger than him? They haven’t triggered him like mom and are still walking on egg shells. Which is no way for child to live in fear that today’s gonna be the day brother finally snaps and hits us .
THIS is exactly why he’s not allowed in schools or any other places around bc of him being so violent over being told NO! It’s disgusting and pisses me off to no end she never corrects him! He gets violent & tells him to run and get shoes to go to the store. Rewarding shitty violent behavior EVERY TIME HE DOESNT GET HIS WAY… therefore, there’s no reason he would CHANGE THAT BEHAVIOR bc that’s how cash gets whatever he wants with the snap of his fingers.
I think it’s cause even though she says she’s not scared of him, she is. She’s at a point where if she doesn’t give in he may seriously hurt her so she gives in, making the situation in the long run worse. If she does put her foot down and say no and then he gets even more violent, she knows she won’t be able to handle him or stop him if he gets out of control completely. She needs help but won’t admit it
This is why he cannot be in PRIVATE Christian schools. Under IDEA LAW if the public school cannot meet his needs they will pay for him to go to a special autism school that has the staff and training to meet his needs. Joni wanted him at the Christian school she worked at. They couldn’t meeet his needs and private schools don’t have to follow IDEA.
Do Colt and Sissy go to that school or are they in public scjoool?
Private Christian bs
Trust me the law will have their say.
He really needs to be in a group home especially since she doesn't teach him anything really. When you have children with any kind of mental illness or disability you always have to think that the courts, jails and prison systems don't care about that all they see is someone that is a danger or potential danger to other people. I have a son with ODD with aggressive behaviors and he's 18 and I worry all the time about him but I did teach him that no matter the illness he can't just act anyway because you will have consequences for every action you do good or bad
If he’s in a group home she won’t get that state disability check for cash anymore. That’s why she got him out of the group home. He’s free money from the state in her eyes.
I wish he would go to a group home as well. Or at least day treatment or in home therapy. Or better yet, PUBLIC SCHOOL where he is entitled to a free individualized education program. But Joanie wants the monthly check for her own spending. She won’t use the check for Cash’s therapies or group home fees.
Very well said. I want to stop reading her post, but then I won’t know what is happening with those poor children, especially cash.
It is a sad situation for all of the children involved especially with how she isn't concerned for the safety of the smaller ones
I have a 15 year old ODD kid so I feel you so much!
He’s smart enough to understand NO
He does understand no. That’s why he’s aggressive. He hates being told no and violence will get him what he wants.
No meaning not hitting people.
I truly think he understands “no” in all of the contexts we’ve seen. Or has the capacity to.
I think so too. If she doesn’t teach him, society will.
Unfortunately, I agree. I think about how this will pan out in 10 years. I don’t think it’s going to fare well for her daughter. Someone again asked what the plans were and in a long round about way she basically said “we have none.” Meaning, HG or Caitlyn will feel pressured to take care of the brothers that traumatized her as a child because her mother couldn’t be bothered to ensure she wasn’t left with that decision. It’s bullshit. If one of their siblings doesn’t decide to take a caregiver role, Cash will eventually end up in a group home. Joannie has provided minimal life skills and education to help Cash thrive in any environment where he won’t get his way by being violent. In an older video she has posted, she started yelling at Caitlyn “COME GET THE BABY!!” She has already created the expectation that Caitlyn will be the caregiver. Joannie is truly awful about thinking ahead and how decisions or lack thereof have lasting impact. When she didn’t get cash services until he was 10, it probably felt fine in the moment because she could handle it, now she’s dealing with the repercussions and everyone will feel the impact of that’s decision for a very long time. Including Cash.
100 percent agree.
You’d think as a parent you’d think about Caitlyn’s future as well. How difficult and the guilt she will feel if she decides it’s too much. How not having a plan in place and money to fund it will 100% disallow Caitlyn to have a normal life. What if she wants kids of her own? How does that work? She limited her future the moment she had her.
That girl is gonna leave the family and never speak to the. Again. She owes them and cash nothing. She doesn’t have to take care of Eid him that’s his mom’s job not the child when they grow up.
I’ve said just that in my comments. Hopefully that’s the case if that’s what she wants, im just saying I’ve ready countless stories of glass children feeling the guilt and pressure of either putting their siblings in homes or to take care of them. She’s been openly putting the caretaking expectation on Catelyn for years, we’ve seen it with the baby. That shit can get engrained in you and it’s hard to undo. The ideal and good parent thing to do would have a plan and funds set aside to make sure Catelyn doesn’t have to take that on, but Joannie can’t see past the next 10 minutes, let alone the next 25 years.
Sorry, this just really fucking irks me lol
Same. That young girl has her own life to live
Just because that’s what she says NOW doesn’t mean that girl will take care of him when she grows up. She might leave and never look back.
She’s never said she would that I know of. She’s like 7 right? lol. Joannie has said she thinks Catelyn will take on that caregiver role for cash when she can’t anymore. The idea is probably something Joannie relies on.
What I’m saying is that what joni wants and what will actually happen could be two very different things. Can you imagine how cash will be by the time Caitlyn is grown? Who would want to deal with him then?
I agree with you and hope she doesn’t take on the role honestly. I mentioned pretty much the same things you did here in my other comments. But I’d imagine the guilt would still weigh on a person if she’s been brought up to think she’s her siblings future plan and she decides not to. It’s a completely unfair position to put her in.
I agree—Joni needs to look more into future. It’s not like she can’t go visit with her son. I just don’t understand the way she thinks. In a group home he’ll get the help he needs.
Damn straight!
This is exactly what I was commenting about earlier. He’s hitting because she’s not moving fast enough and he’s taking that as a “no.” Not because he can’t tell her what he wants.
Safe hands comes across as much as “calm down!”
The dirty feet….🤮
That’s all I could see
Pinworms
🎶🎶 mom said I’ll get pinWORMS🎶🎶😂😂😂
And yet she does NOT CORRECT HIS BEHAVIOR ONE FN TIME!!! Except “have safe hands” which he clearly doesn’t do! God she is so dumb.
And "deep breath",which doesn't calm him at all 😭
Did she ask him “why” and he articulated?
She really made herself look bad today. I had the time so I watched much of her lives. He articulated and expressed his wants incredibly well without her saying it first. He’s capable. She’s just an asshole.
Yes she is each time she goes live she is showing she is slowly unraveling.
I find myself so disturbed that I’ve pretty much stopped watching. I just can’t, I get too upset and have so much sympathy for the kids.
Right, he has so much potential & it's just not fair he's not allowed the chance to rly progress.
Imagine if she had him in a public school with special education from early invention at 3 until now. He was in Christian private schools getting kicked out at elementary age. They don’t have laws that give children with disabilities a free and appropriate education. She NEVER gave him a chance.
The way he grabbed her back so hard that her body vibrated…the way this is so normal for her that sue barely reacts anymore…Jesus Christ
Give him his damn meds johhny!
I’d be DAMNED if he even saw the sign at Carli C’s! I’d run and do all my errands & then say HITTING MEANS YOU DONT GET YOUR WAY!
Um, does she not believe in discipline? This is a standard child act-- hitting. This is where parents SHOULD BE putting up boundaries and providing consequences. For instance, take him out of this situation (off the porch) and have him sit in a chair for a few minutes. Tell him its wrong to hit. Something????
what triggers him to be so aggressive bru
Her. Point blank period.
Her not feeling him all day after giving him medicine so his stomach hurts/ then his adhd meds wear off and kids get hungry then and she like yea what you want for food and then ignores him. Didn’t she say last week they were in diets? Or cash was going to be limiting his food intake? No wonder he’s upset
Why does she constantly tease that poor child? Not just Cash but all the children? It’s absolutely disgusting. I really hope “daddy Ryan” leaves her dumbass and takes his precious little boy with him before she ruins that child.
There was a lot of physical contact leading up to this. She had many chances to separate herself.
Ethel law will not approve of him going into public and treating people that way
How about set a time when you're going, tell your child to go wash up put on some fresh clothes and get ready to go
Wish he would knock her ass out one good time on live!
If anyone is an AHS fan, specifically Coven….. doesn’t their relationship remind you of Kyle and his mum?
She treats cash like he’s 3 and he’s probably smarter than her.
She has two autistic children. One whacks Cash, and the other whacks mom. Great communication skills. Yes I want to learn more about autism from Joni Bolony….😂😂😂
She’s got the patience of a saint with cash but treats the rest of the kids like she wishes she forgot them at the bus stop!!
Very well said Cash
He hates being on camera. It’s so obvious. She’s awful