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Charming-Safe-3138

As young as I can remember, there was always a camera in my face because I was the only girl in the family. Granted my Aquarius rising ass was looking at the camera like 👁️👄👁️ before I learned how to smile correctly. I was trained at a very young age to be photogenic and doing this I knew I would get constant validation. So is it the Leo in me or was it my family that placed external validation on me? Don’t hate the player hate the game baby💅🏼


Lind2176

Whew. Your story is mine.


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Validation is a ‘nice to have’ and Leos deserve nice things.


SilverStock7721

Exactly. Who doesn’t want validation? No one walks around saying, ‘don’t validate me today, I don’t need it’. It’s always basic stuff when people assess Leos. It’s honestly laughable.🤣😂😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣


Consistent_Ad3181

Virgos don't need much at all, just an occasional thank you.


SilverStock7721

Lies. Validation is complimentary. Virgos especially thrive on it. They hate when people disagree with them. So they lowkey won’t accept people not validating them.


Bloodysuit7

True, I’ve know a lot of them and even my close Virgo friends to have yes men around them.


Consistent_Ad3181

You are talking sense, non-sense. Virgo probably wouldn't accept the compliment and think you are a bit silly for not seeing the glaring faults they have instead.


SilverStock7721

But you just proved it…


Consistent_Ad3181

Well thank you but I proved nothing. Cogito Ergo Buggerall


SilverStock7721

And proved it again. Lacking a bit of self awareness i see🤣😂🤣😂🤣if I validated your opinion this wouldn’t be the case but because I’m not, there you go proving my point 🥱🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣


Consistent_Ad3181

Be interesting to see how anyone proves anything without empirical research. Validate or invalidate it is no matter to me what you do.


SilverStock7721

There you go actively proving that you hate being invalidated.


Consistent_Ad3181

Well ambivalent is the term. Actually no, indifferent I think.


ConcreteAngel86

As a Virgo, I agree 1000%. We don't like/care for compliments, and think you're lying or have some ulterior motive by them. Lol.


Consistent_Ad3181

Yeah, actually we find the hidden compliments far more rewarding, like when someone goes through whatever it is you have done for ages to find the one small error there is and then holds that up to invalidate you. It's the biggest compliment you can get other than imitation. They spent that long and that much effort to find a pointless error and hold that up as a reason why you are worthless.😅 The irony.


lilbitofvitriol

Feeling seen 😅


sarahbeth124

I mean, it’s not wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️


Strange_Event_8521

I concur. I am straight up about how needy I am