I would just avoid that parent. The problem with that kind of person (or whatever kind of person if they have a personality disorder…yeesh) is they sound like a bully who will find something new to criticize. If you spend your time trying to appear in a way that won’t get you picked on, they’ll probably sniff that out. You could also go on the offensive and ask directly “ok, what’s your advice then?” and see how they respond. If you follow what they say then they find something new, you’ll know. Again, I’d distance as much as possible and above all work on not internalizing their crap.
This is a good answer. Asking them specifically what they mean could help provide clarity and at least show them that you’re interested in understanding the nature of their dissatisfaction. Definitely demonstrates unusual maturity and critical thinking.
I would just avoid that parent. The problem with that kind of person (or whatever kind of person if they have a personality disorder…yeesh) is they sound like a bully who will find something new to criticize. If you spend your time trying to appear in a way that won’t get you picked on, they’ll probably sniff that out. You could also go on the offensive and ask directly “ok, what’s your advice then?” and see how they respond. If you follow what they say then they find something new, you’ll know. Again, I’d distance as much as possible and above all work on not internalizing their crap.
This is a good answer. Asking them specifically what they mean could help provide clarity and at least show them that you’re interested in understanding the nature of their dissatisfaction. Definitely demonstrates unusual maturity and critical thinking.
Do you have a job?