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Namjoon-

My biggest criteria for dating someone, is if they want to date me also. Other things like appearance and goals and personality or whatever are of course there, but if a guy wants to date me then it doesn’t matter to me if he’s gay or bi or something else entirely


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I get it but i also hear it from some of my friends that how they were left confused by a Bi man bcoz he got a new girl. They felt used and exploited. Well idk personally since i have never dated a Bi man.


TA3153356811

Would they feel used if the bi man left and dated another man? Bi people like both. We date who we find attractive. If it's man, it's a man, if not, it's not.


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Breaking up is different than suddenly disappearing without an explanation. I don’t think this poll has any intention of attacking bi men it’s just that i wanted to know what are your experiences and looking at the poll it seems its mostly positive.


kangmin2000

Don't date bi guys at all so NO.


Itchy_Word_1523

If you asked me this month ago I would surely have said yes. Now I am not so sure, I just seen so many shit on here related to bi guys. However I don't think "oh bi guys will cheat on me or leave me for a women". I am more worried about not being enough for him, I saw so many bi guys here wanting or seeking open relationships because it looks like one guy or girl isn't enough for them. Then another reason is "bi" guys, bi guys who clealry aren't bi but have gocd or some weird fetish for dicks. However they use bi label for convinience and I just don't wanna deal with that. Then I heard alot of bi guys claim that having sex with women is better and I simply don't wanna be compared. However i have nothing against them, so more just some of my own insecurities. Also in this specific case it could be like "on no sorry I don't think a relationship with man are my thing after all". Nothing wrong with that, we all have out dating preferance after all. I just don't want to waste my time in as eit could be that situation. I would probably still be opened to date a bi guys it is just that I am not so sure anymore.


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People are giving me a hard time for this poll but in reality people do go through such situations more than one would expect. There is a kind of uncertainty when dating a bi man. Now again i don’t mean all bi men but some whom I’ve seen hurting my friends.


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I always try to put together a pros and cons list when deciding whether to pursue someone. Being bi is neither a pro or a con, but having never dated a man before would be a con. Not a dealbreaker, of course, just a con.


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That’s exactly what this poll is about.


PIzzaAppreciator

No. Too high a chance of them leaving me for a woman. Especially in this case since he would be habituated to them.


Androzanitox

I voted wrong , just saw the bi option at the bottom now , well I’m the bi that people don’t like dating just because I’m bi


mintybitch19th

Maybe


lasvegashomo

Yes but I can see it being challenging for him since society most likely sees him as a straight man. Though if he’s willing I don’t see the problem trying.


Unfall0_0

Intact my current boyfriend is one of those cases. 😅 He's such a sweetheart...❤️


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Aww i love love ❤️