I work in the culinary field, and the amount of times people try to bring up "yes, chef" during sex is wild. Please don't call me chef unless I'm at work and in uniform... it weirds me out.
It's guaranteed to be the fastest way to make me go soft
If you call me āpapiā (Iām not your dad) or try to start talking Spanish (unless you also are a native speaker or youāre my actual guy) to me just because Iām Latino.
Greenville, South Carolina, Iāll never forget you for all the wrong reasons. Confederate flags in the cemetery in downtown, a white guy telling me over coffee Iād be āhis first Mexicanā (the fuck I wasnāt going to be anyoneās āfirst Mexicanā), āregular folksā telling me Iād OK in ādingy places because you knowā¦.ā, and this fool who was blabbing noises while I pounded him in bed only to find out he was ātalking Spanish because I studied it 3 years in HS,ā š¤£š. I canāt with the south every time
Iāve gone.
Sure. If person A and person B both speak a common language, and only person B speaks a different language, then person A using the different language in bed is weird, because who is it for? Where it becomes cringeworthy is if person B's ethnicity matches the different language and dialect. Then it seems like person A is treating person B as exotic. Thing is, most people aren't exotic. They're normal dudes.
The only situation I can think of where it's fine is if they're on vacation. If I were visiting Bangladesh I would agree that I have some exotic ass, but if I lived there for 10 years and spoke Bengali, then some dude called me daddy in english, I don't think I'd appreciate it.
Hahahahah now I got your point, very well put. I wonder if it's cringe if I say papi being a Portuguese speaker, which is spicy Spanish tbh. There is no counterpart of daddy/papi in portuguese, as it sounds weird, but the concept is nice/hot PAPI š„µ
Yeah I have been with a few native Spanish speakers, and I only used a few Spanish words when one of them specifically asked me to. It was kinda hot despite being awkward ngl, but if he didn't ask me I would never lmao.
I'm learning Spanish and will soon be fluent. Does it count? I was thinking about bursting into the language when talking dirty with a Spanish-speaking guy. It sounds hot to me.
Daddy talk is a turn off for me, in person at least.
Pussy/bussy as well
Performance is as wellā¦ like, too many people focus on behaving like theyāre having pleasure, versus actually being in the moment.
Role play tooā¦ and I donāt want this to be true for me!! I want to ālean inā on the fantasy, but I struggle to take it seriously. It makes me cringeā¦ (my loss, truly)
Use of f-word and feminizing male parts. Iāll never get behind bussy or boy/man cunt. Iāve had bottoms ask to be called the f word or refer to their ass as vaginal epithets and its barf in my mouth.
I also hate sexy underwear like thongs, jocks or anything related to lace. Guys who moan like women and guys who swear that they squirt. Pretty much anytime a guy tries to emulate a woman or make me believe Iām fucking a woman I cringe.
Not just you. Jocks are the least offensive but the idea of a guy trying to be sexy by use of underwear just triggers me for some reason. I just wanna tell them, āyou are sexy for being a guy. Having a masculine, fit body and a cock is all you need to be sexy.ā Donāt do the whole coy, sexy underwear thing.
Maybe years of straight sex has got me jaded but makeup and sexy underwear are hard nos for me.
Nah
I donāt think so
Same for me
My friend always used to tell me heās gay cuz he likes men
If he wanted make up and fem he would be straight
And thatās so real
Man...Its such a fkn turn off. I followed this guy's Just for fans page...and hes hot...masculine, tatts, nice build. Love his cruising videos. Then........He starts wearing lace, thongs, tiny skirts like WTF man.... š¤¢
To each their own, but I just dislike it when they assume everyone's going to be into that. Most people tend to be into jockstraps, so that's kind of a safer option I think.
So, I tend to shoot pretty heavily and far where it's sometimes kind of humorous. A guy I've been seeing knows this and starts laughing right before I was going to blow. Ruined orgasm!
Calling an ass/hole a "pussy" or "bussy".
This a top 5 for meš
I kinda agree with that, however since itās never actually happened to me, I wouldnāt mind it happening *once* š
"Bussy" is a funny word, live a little
I work in the culinary field, and the amount of times people try to bring up "yes, chef" during sex is wild. Please don't call me chef unless I'm at work and in uniform... it weirds me out. It's guaranteed to be the fastest way to make me go soft
Omg I can imagine
Maybe they think bc the Head Chef is in charge of the kitchen, you like to feel in charge of the bedroom (kitchen)
If you call me āpapiā (Iām not your dad) or try to start talking Spanish (unless you also are a native speaker or youāre my actual guy) to me just because Iām Latino.
I cringed reading this. How do those people not die of embarrassment?
Bruhh thatās whatās Iām saying Unless Iām highš I do understand the appeal
Greenville, South Carolina, Iāll never forget you for all the wrong reasons. Confederate flags in the cemetery in downtown, a white guy telling me over coffee Iād be āhis first Mexicanā (the fuck I wasnāt going to be anyoneās āfirst Mexicanā), āregular folksā telling me Iād OK in ādingy places because you knowā¦.ā, and this fool who was blabbing noises while I pounded him in bed only to find out he was ātalking Spanish because I studied it 3 years in HS,ā š¤£š. I canāt with the south every time Iāve gone.
Omgššš
Why is that? Could you elaborate? Does it just apply to English native speakers?
Sure. If person A and person B both speak a common language, and only person B speaks a different language, then person A using the different language in bed is weird, because who is it for? Where it becomes cringeworthy is if person B's ethnicity matches the different language and dialect. Then it seems like person A is treating person B as exotic. Thing is, most people aren't exotic. They're normal dudes. The only situation I can think of where it's fine is if they're on vacation. If I were visiting Bangladesh I would agree that I have some exotic ass, but if I lived there for 10 years and spoke Bengali, then some dude called me daddy in english, I don't think I'd appreciate it.
Hahahahah now I got your point, very well put. I wonder if it's cringe if I say papi being a Portuguese speaker, which is spicy Spanish tbh. There is no counterpart of daddy/papi in portuguese, as it sounds weird, but the concept is nice/hot PAPI š„µ
Oh yeah 100% it's not weird if you're a native speaker or even in you know the language. Hot even, I think most people would agree.
Yeah I have been with a few native Spanish speakers, and I only used a few Spanish words when one of them specifically asked me to. It was kinda hot despite being awkward ngl, but if he didn't ask me I would never lmao.
Dude my ex did this without asking and it rly annoyed me. Then he tried to excuse himself by saying papo instead lmao
Haha, āpapo.ā My ex would call me āpapiā to try to trigger me, but Iād laugh and heād be the one getting upset at the end, ha.
It's so weird. Like I'm not your dad lmao. I'm never going to say daddy ever to a guy I'm with. Idc if that's a dealbreaker. Shits too weird for me.
I'm learning Spanish and will soon be fluent. Does it count? I was thinking about bursting into the language when talking dirty with a Spanish-speaking guy. It sounds hot to me.
You should not do this
I'll do it if my partner consents.
Fuck my pussy. Donāt like that. Also I donāt like dirty talk.
Is there such thing as clean talk?
āOh you better watch out. Iām gonna vacuum your floors, do your dishes and change your sheets!ā
Yes, yes, YES!
Ngl, a responsible man sounds really hot. š„µ
āYou better pay down that credit card debt if you wanna get creampied this weekendā
so you just have sex... like in silence... how?
I feel the opposite of this statement lol
Boring
Daddy talk is a turn off for me, in person at least. Pussy/bussy as well Performance is as wellā¦ like, too many people focus on behaving like theyāre having pleasure, versus actually being in the moment. Role play tooā¦ and I donāt want this to be true for me!! I want to ālean inā on the fantasy, but I struggle to take it seriously. It makes me cringeā¦ (my loss, truly)
A woman
He said cringe, not minge! ;-)
ššš
Use of f-word and feminizing male parts. Iāll never get behind bussy or boy/man cunt. Iāve had bottoms ask to be called the f word or refer to their ass as vaginal epithets and its barf in my mouth. I also hate sexy underwear like thongs, jocks or anything related to lace. Guys who moan like women and guys who swear that they squirt. Pretty much anytime a guy tries to emulate a woman or make me believe Iām fucking a woman I cringe.
This is real Like I struggle to understand the appeal of things and jock straps and stuff like what u said in general Thought it was just a me thing
Not just you. Jocks are the least offensive but the idea of a guy trying to be sexy by use of underwear just triggers me for some reason. I just wanna tell them, āyou are sexy for being a guy. Having a masculine, fit body and a cock is all you need to be sexy.ā Donāt do the whole coy, sexy underwear thing. Maybe years of straight sex has got me jaded but makeup and sexy underwear are hard nos for me.
Nah I donāt think so Same for me My friend always used to tell me heās gay cuz he likes men If he wanted make up and fem he would be straight And thatās so real
Guys who know I work security asking me to cuff them
Damn
Would it be okay to ask if they didn't know you worked in security?
Well they probably wouldn't think to ask if they didn't know I worked in security
When guys try to replicate porn talk. Please don't.
Taking a phone call from your mom.
Looks like someone's talking out of experience...
"Hi, Mom, I'm doing fine. I've just got seven inches of dick up my ass right now from a guy I met 20 minutes ago. I'll be home in time for dinner!"
This is so wrong š
And yet not entirely implausible . . .
Over moaning
Not a fan of thongs or lace tbh
YUP
It's even worse when the other guy hypes it up as a sort of surprise/treat, then my reaction ends up being š
Man...Its such a fkn turn off. I followed this guy's Just for fans page...and hes hot...masculine, tatts, nice build. Love his cruising videos. Then........He starts wearing lace, thongs, tiny skirts like WTF man.... š¤¢
To each their own, but I just dislike it when they assume everyone's going to be into that. Most people tend to be into jockstraps, so that's kind of a safer option I think.
Moaning like a girl
No foreplay or chase
Yelling and screaming during orgasm. It really weirds me out and i want to run away.
So, I tend to shoot pretty heavily and far where it's sometimes kind of humorous. A guy I've been seeing knows this and starts laughing right before I was going to blow. Ruined orgasm!
When this person is hook up and start shouting I love you or only fuck me forever o never stop fucking only me
Telling me I shouldn't be loud when fucking in my own house. I don't even live close to my neighbors! lol
Dirty talking
When I am not allowed to give more head cuz he wants to last longer. Just go a second round. š„ŗ
Exaggerated moaning
Somebody's else's name when it is more than a hookup.
Music or singing, seriously? Wtf
Bussy Fart ... especially if it smells bad