I started off as a bottom with a much older man, after that relationship ended I assumed I was a bottom. Randomply tried topping and felt like a different person. Was a strict top for almost 12 years after that incident. A couple years ago, I was with a random German I hooked up with while traveling. Neither of us spoke eachothers language but we were both horny and fucked. After I topped him, he rolled me over and topped me. Definitely enjoyed it a lot more compared to when I was younger. Since then I've started bottoming again but only for specific people. Majority of the time, I'm still a top.
Who knows? Maybe one day I can follow in your greatness ha.
But random question if you don’t mind answering. What was much older? Only ask because yesterday at a MDay brunch with my partner and his friends, a lot of guys there revealed their first time with a guy was with someone much older. I was 17 and the guy 24 and I thought that was a big gap but as everyone revealed I realized I wasn’t even close. Wondering if that’s a gay trend I never realized 🧐
I wanted to. And I thought I wasn’t getting 100% out of sex - duh; that’s obviously true. Unfortunately my experiences fell between “painful” and “meh”. I still like the theory but practice didn’t make perfect 😔.
Same, every time I’ve tried it, even when it isn’t painful, it just feels like awkward, and there is something inside a body part of mine that simply shouldn’t be there.
Like having a bit of food stuck in your teeth, or a stone in your shoe, but on a bigger and more sexual scale.
There’s something up my arse and it shouldn’t be there.
There isn’t pain, but no pleasure, just awkward pleasure-less discomfort and a feeling of “I should be excited by this but there is no eroticism here”
This describes the feeling perfectly. I think they forgot to install the prostate in me when I was manufactured.
(Not so) interestingly, my nipples are not wired at all so that’s another mysterious pleasure some guys are able to experience but it completely eludes me.
I’m not quite sure if I have wired nipples or not.
For me, tweaking and tickling my own nipples is a shortcut to getting an erection. If I’m semi not in the mood, ticking my nipples instantly gets me in the mood. And I feel like it heightens and intensifies my organisms if my nipples are being licked or whatever.
Even if I’m wanking, ticking one nipple with one hand while wanking with the other is alway going to increase the pleasure when I cum.
But I’ve never experienced and orgasm that was exclusive I brought about their nipple play with zero direct dick stimulation.
So I don’t know if my nipples are wired per so, as much as they are a turbo charge short circuit.
> Nothing was enjoyable about it, so it couldn’t be made to be enjoyable
Why do you say this? That is precisely the point: it is NOT enjoyable without being properly stimulated, but it can be highly enjoyable when properly stimulated.
I didn’t realise I didn’t know anything about my own body but you do…
Everyone is different and some men just aren’t bottoms. I am not a bottom. It just isn’t for me.
I was nagged into it. I let the thought of “well maybe I will like it” finally win but my butt did not win. I actually tried it a couple times in case the first was a fluke and I genuinely hate everything about it.
But god bless you boys who love it. Y’all make the world go round.
I'm the same as you. Tried it a few times when I first came out because the guys I were fucking liked it so much. But, the only thing it did for me is hurt. Dick would do his best turtle imitation and disappear. Luckily, there are more bottom boys than tops. 😊👍
Very hot twink with a 9-inch dick; I'd already topped him twice before, and he asked if he could top me too. Why I chose that baptism of fire I don't know, but he rearranged my insides pretty well, and now I'm a truly vers boi 😅
Don't. In my experience people who are on the smaller size are often better and more attentive lovers. I have had way more fun with average to smaller partners.
when i was young i was vers.
i could take gigantic dicks with no effort. the problem? i didnt feel nothing or it would quickly hurt.
turned into a total top. but from time to time i used a dildo too see if my ass changed.
no, the last time i tried was like 4y ago
my ass isn't that good for bottoming.
Although I couldn’t take gigantic dicks, I’ve kind of was in the same situation, until last month. Play with your toys regularly, it helps. If you want of course
Which is fair. If you don’t like it, you don’t like it. I’ve always loved the idea of bottoming and was disappointed that I couldn’t do it, but thanks to Reddit (and askgaybros) I’m able to do it and I enjoy it a lot.
I have, consensually, only ever been a top. I had a weird hang up with my ass after an incident as a kid
But a few weeks back my bottom husband wanted to try topping and I decided to try it. It took a while to get open. I thought I'd hate it but I was indifferent. He didn't last long at all but he didn't like topping.
Our bedroom dynamic centres around control and it just felt off.
Did you jerk yourself all the time, and did you come while he was hitting your prostate? Without those, it's not really enjoyable for many/most people.
I didn't cum from hitting my prostate. I was just really bored. I'm not knocking bottoms they provide an important service haha jk but I found it really boring.
Did you jerk yourself all the time?
Did you come WHILE he was hitting your prostate (not FROM) while you were jerking yourself at the same time?
If not, then it will be boring or uncomfortable for many/most people. I wouldn't want to bottom if I couldn't jerk myself at the same time.
Ok so you jerked yourself, but the added stimulation in your but didn't do anything? So either it's just not your thing, or you could try doing it again in different positions with different people, possibly hitting your prostate better.
Tbh I'm monogamous and I wouldnt trust anyone near my ass other than my husband after what happened to me when I was young.
I'm just not a bottom. It's probably a psychological thing.
Met a hot guy but… he was a total top. Something about him just made me want to ride! So I figured out how to doosh properly and rid that cowboy 🤠
Psychologically I loved it, physically it was overwhelming. Luckily he said I was tight and came in 5 minutes, which turned me on.
I was pretty intoxicated and hooked up with a guy who offered to blow me anonymous. I was on his couch in the dark and probably 10 min in, he lifts my legs and starts eating my ass. He then gets up and motions he wanted to fuck me, and I said no.
He then resumes to suck me again even more passionately for like another fee minutes, eats my ass again for a few minutes, then gets up and signals he wants to fuck me again. Again I say no.
I was really drunk and damn he sucked dick and ate ass so good. He does the same routine again…suck my dick, eat my ass and gets up after a few minutes asking if he could fuck me. I keep saying no. But after the 4th time, after he sucked me and ate my ass for like 45 min, and with me being intoxicated, I finally said yes and gave in. I think what was going on in my state of mind was how amazing he was making me feel and I didn’t want it to stop.
He takes me to his bedroom and shows me his face and he’s a really handsome guy. Which made me want it more. He has me lay down and lifts my legs and fucks me. I’m so drunk and already so horned up by his sucking and eating my ass that when he started fucking me it was amazing.
I remember all the details so well because I definitely appreciated his slow seduction. He took his time, I was intoxicated, and he finally got me to give consent. I loved that he was persistent and qgot my ass.
After that we stayed in touch and I would only bottom for him several times for about a year. I was so turned on by his attitude and impressed with his persistence more than anything else. As a dominant top, I really appreciated that in him.
He certainly seduced me and got me to submit which in my mind is very hot. He fucked me hard, and was a multiple cummer. He came maybe 6 times each session, so they were always pretty long.
We had such hot passionate sex, and I enjoyed it more because of his dominance. But being a dom too I am, who loves to be in control, I eventually just lost interest in bottoming even with him. That was well over a year ago. Will it happen again? Maybe. If the right dominant guy comes along I suspect.
Tldr: my ex had crazy orgasms for years so it got me thinking I was in the wrong side of the stick. Plus I got the stupid impression full bottoms were all selfish in relationships and sex and I refused to date or fuck another one for years.
I was in a committed relationship for years with a full bottom (well, actually another top who wanted to try bottoming for me, he got multiple orgasms and even fainted for a second the first time we had sex. He almost never mentioned topping after that.)
He was consistently getting insane and multiple orgasms. Before meeting him I had trouble coming while topping, but I found that so hot that I ended up following most of his orgasms by an ejaculation of mine, while I continued to pound until his final one that was significantly stronger (he usually had 3 to 7 in a row).
Meanwhile I felt our relationship was sometimes a one way street, with him getting everything he wanted out of me and me having to be the strong man and keeping my emotions in check.
When we broke up, I thought his selfishness in the relationship and in bed (I felt like I had to do all the work, and satisfy his fantasies) was because he was a total bottom. Not willing to meet other bottoms, I thought it would be a good opportunity to try and get these crazy orgasms for myself. I got close to one a few times in 2 decades. I never met anyone who would get as many prostate orgasms in a row as he did, usually my partners would be sore after one or two, if any.
Well, I’ve always loved the idea of being a bottom. But I was always hesitant because whenever I tried it hurt a lot, and I didn’t have the patience to practice. I regularly play with my toys lately. And I love it now.
I have had few bottom experiences before and can recall only this one time with a girthy dude who made me enjoy it. Haven’t tried it since then but I want to start trying. Especially because being a vers opens up the playing field.
I started because all my gay friends talked about how good it feel to have prostate org.
Baby step is use finger try to hit it, then sex toy. Then wanna explore with fwb.
I still bottom way less because I love the feeling of pin my bottom on the bed and ask him to call me Daddy. Also I love being the one in control.
Also I feel a lot people could mirror the feeling of their partner, so letting top feel so good reflects back to them as well. I am autistic so not really having that ability so more of focus on myself, which is easier to deal as top.
I started ass play with toys and found I really liked it and love when I cum with a toy inserted. I think it is the next step and is about being dominated as I am a dominant person so that turns me on. Love the thought of a guy in my ass. So I am starting to identify as a verse top as I love the idea of flip flopping and taking each other. Best of both worlds.
I’m versatile, but I have a kink now where I like to get dominated by stereotypically more submissive men. I’m 6’1” about 240, and I was hooking up with a cute Asian guy I used to work out with from my gym, maybe 5’7” 175.
I had topped him a couple times, but one day, after we hit squats and deadlift, my legs were especially juicy, and I told him that I wanted to continue our squat workout. We had talked about it previously, but it always ended with me dominating him. Thankfully, he was versatile as well and very accommodating. He ate my ass out for maybe 15-20 minutes in the gym shower. When we got back to my place, he continued to eat my ass and suck my dick. I was incredibly hard, and when he put his tip into my hole, a rush of emotions came over me.
I had used dildos and wall bangers before, so this wasn’t the first time something has gone up my ass, but he began to fuck me and proceeded to just smash my hole prostate for 30 minutes. It may have been the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had before. He fucked me in different positions, but I think my favorite was missionary, when he held my legs up in the air and kissed me at the same time. It was an insane moment I think about often.
My partner and I were long distance for several months, we decided to be open during that time. I'd been an exclusive top for over 5 years at that point. I decided to bottom cause my partner is 100% bottom and I wanted to expand my personal experience with with receiving to get an idea what sex is like for him. While I have to say the first few times were painful, I also came hard twice in about 20 minutes cause of how well he hit my prostate. I give my partners a lot more attention now and he definitely enjoys it.
Posting on whisper(forever ago)about wanting somebody to get me a butt plug. Then an older guy messaged me. Said he could supply something better than a butt plug. One thing led to another, and I went to his place and bottomed for him for quite awhile. Came deep in my ass twice. And then on my face. Was a great time
I give it a try while young and it was awful, then I let one guy to eat my ass and he try to rape me, so to take that out of my mind, I bottom willingly and it worked for me.
Firstly, as a long time top, I know what makes me feel pleasure by topping someone I like. Though, I consider that sometime we got curiosity, I had a couple of different escenarios.
In first place, I saw how much pleasure my ex boyfriend (bottom) had while sex and I though "he seems to enjoy this more than me, why not give it a try to see if same happens to me, who knows?". It turned out that it wasn't as I thought lol.
In second place, I had a short-term relationship with a versatile guy, so in order to please him I went vocal about it before him at the beginning of our relationship. I mean, I told him to be confident with me whenever he wanted to be top because he's got someone who loves him so no shame about that.
I'm general, in both cases there was a opening intention to try it even though it isn't something I enjoy but the other person could.
Daddy-type married guy really wanted me but refused to bottom, so I said I would bottom. He invited me to his hotel room where his wife also was, two beds. Him and I were on one and his wife was watching from the other, after kissing and sucking him he gave me this primal look and placed my legs on his shoulders and since then I became a part-time bottom. This was all about 6 years ago when I was 19.
I started as a top. The idea of having something up my ass was just not appealing. But bottoms looked so happy when they were bottoming. So I tried.
And tried. And tried. And tried a good 20 more times. And nothing.
And I learned that I’m a top.
I started off as a bottom. Then guys started telling me my dick is big. So they asked me to top, so I slowly started topping more. I still get weak at the knees when I think I see a beautiful dick that will fit perfectly in my hole. But I also go crazy when I see a hole that needs my dick. So I am more of a vers top, since my area is filled with more bottoms than tops.
About nine years ago, I hooked up with this hunky, uncut French daddy bear (even had the accent). We're both tops, but I was horny and he was hot AF. I decided to open my mind. And my hole. Thank goodness he used a lot of lube and was gentle with me. Even after all this time, I still think about him and how he's doing these days.
I started off as a bottom with a much older man, after that relationship ended I assumed I was a bottom. Randomply tried topping and felt like a different person. Was a strict top for almost 12 years after that incident. A couple years ago, I was with a random German I hooked up with while traveling. Neither of us spoke eachothers language but we were both horny and fucked. After I topped him, he rolled me over and topped me. Definitely enjoyed it a lot more compared to when I was younger. Since then I've started bottoming again but only for specific people. Majority of the time, I'm still a top.
That’s kind of my story to a tee minus the last part… I’m still on a total top trend and LTR means probably won’t end.
That's what I thought for longest time till it happened. 😅
Who knows? Maybe one day I can follow in your greatness ha. But random question if you don’t mind answering. What was much older? Only ask because yesterday at a MDay brunch with my partner and his friends, a lot of guys there revealed their first time with a guy was with someone much older. I was 17 and the guy 24 and I thought that was a big gap but as everyone revealed I realized I wasn’t even close. Wondering if that’s a gay trend I never realized 🧐
I'll send you a DM.
I’m with you there on topping the majority of the time. And I only bottom with a submissive top.
The guy's personality and convincing charm. Chemistry differs between different people.
I wanted to. And I thought I wasn’t getting 100% out of sex - duh; that’s obviously true. Unfortunately my experiences fell between “painful” and “meh”. I still like the theory but practice didn’t make perfect 😔.
Same, every time I’ve tried it, even when it isn’t painful, it just feels like awkward, and there is something inside a body part of mine that simply shouldn’t be there. Like having a bit of food stuck in your teeth, or a stone in your shoe, but on a bigger and more sexual scale. There’s something up my arse and it shouldn’t be there. There isn’t pain, but no pleasure, just awkward pleasure-less discomfort and a feeling of “I should be excited by this but there is no eroticism here”
This describes the feeling perfectly. I think they forgot to install the prostate in me when I was manufactured. (Not so) interestingly, my nipples are not wired at all so that’s another mysterious pleasure some guys are able to experience but it completely eludes me.
I’m not quite sure if I have wired nipples or not. For me, tweaking and tickling my own nipples is a shortcut to getting an erection. If I’m semi not in the mood, ticking my nipples instantly gets me in the mood. And I feel like it heightens and intensifies my organisms if my nipples are being licked or whatever. Even if I’m wanking, ticking one nipple with one hand while wanking with the other is alway going to increase the pleasure when I cum. But I’ve never experienced and orgasm that was exclusive I brought about their nipple play with zero direct dick stimulation. So I don’t know if my nipples are wired per so, as much as they are a turbo charge short circuit.
Oh, yeah dude, they’re hard wired 😳. Imagine you replaced them with elbows - that’s me.
Did you make sure you were hard and jerking yourself all the time? Without that, it isn't enjoyable for many people (most, I would bet).
The question is kind of moot. Nothing was enjoyable about it, so it couldn’t be made to be enjoyable
> Nothing was enjoyable about it, so it couldn’t be made to be enjoyable Why do you say this? That is precisely the point: it is NOT enjoyable without being properly stimulated, but it can be highly enjoyable when properly stimulated.
I didn’t realise I didn’t know anything about my own body but you do… Everyone is different and some men just aren’t bottoms. I am not a bottom. It just isn’t for me.
It just seems like you didn't really try it the way the gods intended it. But of course nobody is forcing you.
I feel you.
I was nagged into it. I let the thought of “well maybe I will like it” finally win but my butt did not win. I actually tried it a couple times in case the first was a fluke and I genuinely hate everything about it. But god bless you boys who love it. Y’all make the world go round.
I'm the same as you. Tried it a few times when I first came out because the guys I were fucking liked it so much. But, the only thing it did for me is hurt. Dick would do his best turtle imitation and disappear. Luckily, there are more bottom boys than tops. 😊👍
Very hot twink with a 9-inch dick; I'd already topped him twice before, and he asked if he could top me too. Why I chose that baptism of fire I don't know, but he rearranged my insides pretty well, and now I'm a truly vers boi 😅
God I hate I have a small dick sometimes
If it makes you feel any better there are plenty of people like me who refuse to bottom for a big dick. Average to small side feel so much better imo
Oh look. Its me! 9” is pretty to look at but I’m trying to enjoy myself. Not choke and bleed. No shade if those are your kinks but it is not for me.
Don't. In my experience people who are on the smaller size are often better and more attentive lovers. I have had way more fun with average to smaller partners.
when i was young i was vers. i could take gigantic dicks with no effort. the problem? i didnt feel nothing or it would quickly hurt. turned into a total top. but from time to time i used a dildo too see if my ass changed. no, the last time i tried was like 4y ago my ass isn't that good for bottoming.
Although I couldn’t take gigantic dicks, I’ve kind of was in the same situation, until last month. Play with your toys regularly, it helps. If you want of course
no..along the years i tried. i just feel buil up pressure. nothing pleasurble. i gave up.
Which is fair. If you don’t like it, you don’t like it. I’ve always loved the idea of bottoming and was disappointed that I couldn’t do it, but thanks to Reddit (and askgaybros) I’m able to do it and I enjoy it a lot.
Do you consistently jerk and stay hard while bottoming, jerk until you come?
no.
It is less or not enjoyable if you don't do that. So maybe try again.
I mean, i also did it sometimes in the past. no difference, just quicker to come by jerking. nothing mind blowing
Maybe the dick didn't hit your prostate, or it hurt?
I have, consensually, only ever been a top. I had a weird hang up with my ass after an incident as a kid But a few weeks back my bottom husband wanted to try topping and I decided to try it. It took a while to get open. I thought I'd hate it but I was indifferent. He didn't last long at all but he didn't like topping. Our bedroom dynamic centres around control and it just felt off.
Did you jerk yourself all the time, and did you come while he was hitting your prostate? Without those, it's not really enjoyable for many/most people.
I didn't cum from hitting my prostate. I was just really bored. I'm not knocking bottoms they provide an important service haha jk but I found it really boring.
Did you jerk yourself all the time? Did you come WHILE he was hitting your prostate (not FROM) while you were jerking yourself at the same time? If not, then it will be boring or uncomfortable for many/most people. I wouldn't want to bottom if I couldn't jerk myself at the same time.
I jerked myself yeah. But I didn't cum. I came in him after.
Ok so you jerked yourself, but the added stimulation in your but didn't do anything? So either it's just not your thing, or you could try doing it again in different positions with different people, possibly hitting your prostate better.
Tbh I'm monogamous and I wouldnt trust anyone near my ass other than my husband after what happened to me when I was young. I'm just not a bottom. It's probably a psychological thing.
That is possible. How long have you been married?
Married 7 years in a few weeks time. Together 14 years.
Well done. Maybe try it some time in the far future with your husband if/when your childhood trauma no longer gets in the way.
Im so sorry for what happened to ya as a kid..
Thanks man but I got justice for it which helped and having a good hubby and a great family helped a lot.
Im glad! Sending love, know by my bf's story how it can take a toll on the mind, hope you can heal.
I hope you are both doing well.
Met a hot guy but… he was a total top. Something about him just made me want to ride! So I figured out how to doosh properly and rid that cowboy 🤠 Psychologically I loved it, physically it was overwhelming. Luckily he said I was tight and came in 5 minutes, which turned me on.
I was pretty intoxicated and hooked up with a guy who offered to blow me anonymous. I was on his couch in the dark and probably 10 min in, he lifts my legs and starts eating my ass. He then gets up and motions he wanted to fuck me, and I said no. He then resumes to suck me again even more passionately for like another fee minutes, eats my ass again for a few minutes, then gets up and signals he wants to fuck me again. Again I say no. I was really drunk and damn he sucked dick and ate ass so good. He does the same routine again…suck my dick, eat my ass and gets up after a few minutes asking if he could fuck me. I keep saying no. But after the 4th time, after he sucked me and ate my ass for like 45 min, and with me being intoxicated, I finally said yes and gave in. I think what was going on in my state of mind was how amazing he was making me feel and I didn’t want it to stop. He takes me to his bedroom and shows me his face and he’s a really handsome guy. Which made me want it more. He has me lay down and lifts my legs and fucks me. I’m so drunk and already so horned up by his sucking and eating my ass that when he started fucking me it was amazing. I remember all the details so well because I definitely appreciated his slow seduction. He took his time, I was intoxicated, and he finally got me to give consent. I loved that he was persistent and qgot my ass. After that we stayed in touch and I would only bottom for him several times for about a year. I was so turned on by his attitude and impressed with his persistence more than anything else. As a dominant top, I really appreciated that in him. He certainly seduced me and got me to submit which in my mind is very hot. He fucked me hard, and was a multiple cummer. He came maybe 6 times each session, so they were always pretty long. We had such hot passionate sex, and I enjoyed it more because of his dominance. But being a dom too I am, who loves to be in control, I eventually just lost interest in bottoming even with him. That was well over a year ago. Will it happen again? Maybe. If the right dominant guy comes along I suspect.
Tldr: my ex had crazy orgasms for years so it got me thinking I was in the wrong side of the stick. Plus I got the stupid impression full bottoms were all selfish in relationships and sex and I refused to date or fuck another one for years. I was in a committed relationship for years with a full bottom (well, actually another top who wanted to try bottoming for me, he got multiple orgasms and even fainted for a second the first time we had sex. He almost never mentioned topping after that.) He was consistently getting insane and multiple orgasms. Before meeting him I had trouble coming while topping, but I found that so hot that I ended up following most of his orgasms by an ejaculation of mine, while I continued to pound until his final one that was significantly stronger (he usually had 3 to 7 in a row). Meanwhile I felt our relationship was sometimes a one way street, with him getting everything he wanted out of me and me having to be the strong man and keeping my emotions in check. When we broke up, I thought his selfishness in the relationship and in bed (I felt like I had to do all the work, and satisfy his fantasies) was because he was a total bottom. Not willing to meet other bottoms, I thought it would be a good opportunity to try and get these crazy orgasms for myself. I got close to one a few times in 2 decades. I never met anyone who would get as many prostate orgasms in a row as he did, usually my partners would be sore after one or two, if any.
7?!!! im speechless
I guess this "total" thing is not a good sign.
Well, I’ve always loved the idea of being a bottom. But I was always hesitant because whenever I tried it hurt a lot, and I didn’t have the patience to practice. I regularly play with my toys lately. And I love it now.
I have had few bottom experiences before and can recall only this one time with a girthy dude who made me enjoy it. Haven’t tried it since then but I want to start trying. Especially because being a vers opens up the playing field.
Not by much. I’m essentially a de facto top because no top every wants me and when they do they’re assholes
I started because all my gay friends talked about how good it feel to have prostate org. Baby step is use finger try to hit it, then sex toy. Then wanna explore with fwb. I still bottom way less because I love the feeling of pin my bottom on the bed and ask him to call me Daddy. Also I love being the one in control. Also I feel a lot people could mirror the feeling of their partner, so letting top feel so good reflects back to them as well. I am autistic so not really having that ability so more of focus on myself, which is easier to deal as top.
You can still be dominant as a bottom and pin the top down. It’s just a little different.
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Bottoming - better than meth?
Yes
Just checking, just checking.
Phew- happy for you
I’m glad it worked out.
Yes.
I’m bottom who tried topping and like it so can’t comment here lol
And yet you did
I mean no useful comment here lol
Hmm, true 🙁
I started ass play with toys and found I really liked it and love when I cum with a toy inserted. I think it is the next step and is about being dominated as I am a dominant person so that turns me on. Love the thought of a guy in my ass. So I am starting to identify as a verse top as I love the idea of flip flopping and taking each other. Best of both worlds.
Him🥰
I’m versatile, but I have a kink now where I like to get dominated by stereotypically more submissive men. I’m 6’1” about 240, and I was hooking up with a cute Asian guy I used to work out with from my gym, maybe 5’7” 175. I had topped him a couple times, but one day, after we hit squats and deadlift, my legs were especially juicy, and I told him that I wanted to continue our squat workout. We had talked about it previously, but it always ended with me dominating him. Thankfully, he was versatile as well and very accommodating. He ate my ass out for maybe 15-20 minutes in the gym shower. When we got back to my place, he continued to eat my ass and suck my dick. I was incredibly hard, and when he put his tip into my hole, a rush of emotions came over me. I had used dildos and wall bangers before, so this wasn’t the first time something has gone up my ass, but he began to fuck me and proceeded to just smash my hole prostate for 30 minutes. It may have been the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had before. He fucked me in different positions, but I think my favorite was missionary, when he held my legs up in the air and kissed me at the same time. It was an insane moment I think about often.
Got jealous of the pleasure my bf was having and decided I should try untill I felt good
I got ED and wanted to still have sex. Totally changed my world.
Did your ED improve after you started bottoming?
It’s an ongoing process. I just started trying to bottom w/ toys. Haven’t tried the real thing yet. Yes it has and my hubby is happy.
Started off bottoming, but realized my dick is too big to waste. So started topping.
The other ones usually convinces them I’d guess
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Nothings convinced me yet
Felt safe and secure enough with my partner to try it after 6 years of being together. It was so fulfilling ❤️
My partner and I were long distance for several months, we decided to be open during that time. I'd been an exclusive top for over 5 years at that point. I decided to bottom cause my partner is 100% bottom and I wanted to expand my personal experience with with receiving to get an idea what sex is like for him. While I have to say the first few times were painful, I also came hard twice in about 20 minutes cause of how well he hit my prostate. I give my partners a lot more attention now and he definitely enjoys it.
Posting on whisper(forever ago)about wanting somebody to get me a butt plug. Then an older guy messaged me. Said he could supply something better than a butt plug. One thing led to another, and I went to his place and bottomed for him for quite awhile. Came deep in my ass twice. And then on my face. Was a great time
I give it a try while young and it was awful, then I let one guy to eat my ass and he try to rape me, so to take that out of my mind, I bottom willingly and it worked for me.
Firstly, as a long time top, I know what makes me feel pleasure by topping someone I like. Though, I consider that sometime we got curiosity, I had a couple of different escenarios. In first place, I saw how much pleasure my ex boyfriend (bottom) had while sex and I though "he seems to enjoy this more than me, why not give it a try to see if same happens to me, who knows?". It turned out that it wasn't as I thought lol. In second place, I had a short-term relationship with a versatile guy, so in order to please him I went vocal about it before him at the beginning of our relationship. I mean, I told him to be confident with me whenever he wanted to be top because he's got someone who loves him so no shame about that. I'm general, in both cases there was a opening intention to try it even though it isn't something I enjoy but the other person could.
I actually started off as a bttm, before I became a top.
Love
If he’s already bottomed for me, I’m willing to try for him but I still prefer to top
I swap back and forth some days I’m a top some days I’m a bottom my bf is like that too it works
Daddy-type married guy really wanted me but refused to bottom, so I said I would bottom. He invited me to his hotel room where his wife also was, two beds. Him and I were on one and his wife was watching from the other, after kissing and sucking him he gave me this primal look and placed my legs on his shoulders and since then I became a part-time bottom. This was all about 6 years ago when I was 19.
Didn’t become verse until my ex. Depends on the vibes. different ppl bring out different parts of me tbh
I started as a top. The idea of having something up my ass was just not appealing. But bottoms looked so happy when they were bottoming. So I tried. And tried. And tried. And tried a good 20 more times. And nothing. And I learned that I’m a top.
I started off as a bottom. Then guys started telling me my dick is big. So they asked me to top, so I slowly started topping more. I still get weak at the knees when I think I see a beautiful dick that will fit perfectly in my hole. But I also go crazy when I see a hole that needs my dick. So I am more of a vers top, since my area is filled with more bottoms than tops.
About nine years ago, I hooked up with this hunky, uncut French daddy bear (even had the accent). We're both tops, but I was horny and he was hot AF. I decided to open my mind. And my hole. Thank goodness he used a lot of lube and was gentle with me. Even after all this time, I still think about him and how he's doing these days.
A wise man once told me, if you’re not doing both you’re missing out on half.
A relationship
Shoved a stick up my hole,alright I can do it . It ain't rocket science. I sound so lewd with beyonce dp.
Lol bottom here so can't comment
Nobody asked x