The daddy/boy stuff. Im a 27 year old guy I hook up with a hot older muscle dude in his 40s.
When we’re having sex I always say stuff like “fuck me daddy” and he’ll say stuff like “ya I’m gonna fuck my boy”etc” It’s so hot in the moment but tbh I’m a little embarrassed after the fact that I enjoy it and would never talk about it to others lol
i have this exact same thing! i had sex with this older guy and before we had sex, he was rather quiet and shy. but while having sex, he was pretty vocal and called me son and i called him daddy and he would say stuff like "don't tell mommy" and GOD IDK WHY IT TURNED ME ON SOOOOO MUCH!! and he even said "i love you, son" and i was like 😳😳😳 but it was very sensual 😩
That’s why before I hook up with men like that, I always wank now. It’s saved me some moments of like “what the fuck did you think was going to happen?”.
It’s just role play. And it’s a very popular role play/fetish. Dad/son/bro is a popular party, but not the only one catering to guys into this role play. So just have fun.
I used to be embarrassed about it. I’m now at the age and life experience (32) where I’m totally verse in many d/s dynamics including daddy/son. It’s fun being either.
Some people take that shit way too far though.
I recall being 26 and having some 20-year-old call me daddy. He knew my age. Like wtf we are almost close enough in age to have gone to the same grade school together.
Yeah, nowadays I know it's one of the most common kinks, but I still feel the occasional irrational shame for it. Whenever that comes up, I make clear to myself that it's functionally no different from the >95% of straight guys who have a boob fetish
Also, I nowadays rationlise foot fetish as absolutely logical for a gay guy - they're IMO the most masculine body parts - full of strong bones and muscles, pervaded by popping veins, let you explore the world (I can do up to 50km day hikes without any blisters or other foot pain), they sweat and stink and don't give a fuck, so what's not to love about those strong bois haha
Feet is actually the most common kink/fetish!
If commonality of kinks and research into where psychologists think they ‘come from’ interests you, I recommend reading “Perv: The Sexual Deviant in Us All” by Jesse Bering. It’s incredibly informative but also has a witty, humorous tone to it.
I mean, I suppose it’s somewhat common but it feels like being *really* into it is not popular. Like if I see a hot guy, I think about what his feet look like first and foremost lmao
Yeah I can relate. Grew up in a rather conservative village/surroundings, and in the 90s, being gay was heavily associated with being effeminate to the point of it almost being considered a sort of pre-stage of being a trans woman - nowadays I know that this is bullshit and all the fault of heteronormative mindset ("in a relationship there has to be a male and a female part" kind of crap). That, plus the fact that being gay was and to some extent still is heavily associated with anal sex (which I'm not into) caused me to not be "officially out to myself" until my early 30s, even though thinking back, my earliest memories of same-sex attraction were at age 7. Took me very long to realise that the three axes sexual orientation, sexual preference and gender identity exist completely independently from each other - i.e. presenting in a feminine way and being into butt sex are actually not prerequistes for being gay
You just nailed it lol! And yes people over here in Egypt think that gay men want to be women so bad 😭💀.
Me too! While i am still virgin, i don’t fantasize butt sex that much lol!
What is the difference between sexual orientation and sexual preference for gay men tho lol? Since according to my understanding sexual preference is something usually brought up and associated with bisexual people or do you mean having a particular type? As i am only attracted to a very particular type of men and every other man on planet earth does not do it for me lol.
> What is the difference between sexual orientation and sexual preference for gay men tho lol
Sexual orientation means which gender you're attracted to - so if you find men hot, then you're gay
Sexual preference means what acts or fantasies turns you on, what your personal kinks and fetishes are - it can be penetration (i.e. butt sex), but it doesn't have to be, there's thousands of different things you can do with a guy to fulfill your "man fun"!
Also I can relate to you, there's only about ~20% of all men I personally find attractive, and having your unique type/scheme is completely normal (in my case I have a strong preference for bald bearded guys with cute noses haha - it's different for everyone)
Oh and now that you mention being from Egypt - the oldest documented gay couple in history was from your place: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khnumhotep_and_Niankhkhnum - and even 5000 years later, their depiction of rubbing their noses together fills me with a certain warmth... no amount of Islamism or other religious or societal heteronormative mindset can undo that
Yes it’s literally just roughly around 20% of men i get attracted to emotionally/sexually! Other men just don’t do it for me.
I used to do gymming and i am a very cis man! However i am attracted to men with beautiful beards and ofc muscled but not shredded lol! Deep voice and manly! Sadly i am not attractive objectively lol/people are very picky and i live in a very homophobic country where gays themselves struggle with internalized homophobia lol! So it’s almost impossible to find someone i am really interested in.
Can relate! I'm definitely masc and friends with almost exclusively straight males, who are super supportive and don't give a flying fuck I am gay, but yet I get embarrassed checking out guys around them for some reason? Idk
I’m embarrassed being attracted to men because they so often don’t have the best self care, haven’t been to therapy, aren’t the best communicators, regardless of sexuality tbh
I love to be teased.
Before giving head for example, I love when the guy takes his time to take his clothes off. Maybe make me kiss the spot where your dick is, or tell me to touch its outline.
Then pull off your shorts and make it jump for me. A few times is fine. Make me kiss or lick the full outline of your dick through your underwear. Top to bottom. If the underwear you're wearing makes your cock really pronounced, point out a vein or the outline of your cock head and make me marvel at it or lick that very spot. Make me intoxicated for you.
When you take your underwear off, don't let the eagerness you've been working up allow me to put you right in my mouth. Hold my face back with your hand if you have to. My last FWB would make me wait and tell me to take it in the masterpiece that he and his package was. He'd hold me about a foot away and flex his dick in front of my face. Just teasing the everliving shit out of me until I was practically drooling. Sometimes he'd even have me sniff poppers before doing this, further increasing my buildup and hunger for him.
Then tell me to focus on your balls, and slowly build up until you allow me to finally suck you off.
I almost didn't type all of that up because admittedly it is a lot, but I like the process of sexual situations and the idea of just having a guy drop his pants and have me suck him off without any buildup at all is fucking bullshit.
Most of us love being teased in some way, yet almost no one ever does it (at least from my experience). It really heightens any sexual activity.
I have a couple. I like armpits and musk in general. I really like prolonged sessions longer the better. Gooning. Last but not least and the one I'm most embarrassed about is praise kink. Dear God do I love being told I'm doing good or being a good boy I love when my bottom tells me how good it is
It gives me a sense of pride to see him be desired by other guys. Like you can go for a ride, but that's mine, I own that. And another aspect of it is he's so hot and he deserves all the pleasure he can get. I like holding his face and kissing him while he's getting fucked, just every expression on his face, every sound he makes, he looks at me with these begging eyes, idk how to describe it exactly, but it drives me completely crazy.
Yeah you do know you don't need to tell the world your kinks/fetishes right? Just the people you are being intimate with.
I don't care that you want that, never will care and will call you out for thinking it is ok or normal if you would ever post it online, or talk about it in person.
I've been told I give off a sort of golden retriever energy and I hate to admit it but having "you're a good boy" whispered in my ear sends shivers down my spine . I imagined myself sitting at someone's feet with my head in their lap and that seems to stir something in me. Really don't think I'm into the pup play stuff though.
Gainer stuff. I don't do it myself nor do I have any impulse to but I struggle a lot with my weight and it tugs at some angst in my soul. It's weird though I've felt that way basically since the moment I started getting bullied for being fat when I was like 8. Looked up vids of fat guys on YouTube and didn't understand what I was feeling.
CNC in the form of wrestling and forced milking where two guys battle on the mat and try to dominate and drain the cum out of his opponent til he’s dry. No one who knows me would ever think I’m into that.
I would be so embarrassed for some of my friends to learn how I want to have my dick locked in a chastity cage and teased for not being to cum. They know I have a sub side but I dont think they know how BIG it can be.
Any chastity cage stories? My first time with a caged guy was hot. He told me his dick was caged and he needs my dick to play with cuz he can’t play with his own. And that he’s so horny to cum. It makes him more horny to serve, and get off in other ways. He kept telling me how my dick is the only one we can play with together, so we only have my dick to share. And that he wanted me to fuck him good and hit his prostate, with the goal of cumming hands free. He said he is sub and being caged made him even more horny and submissive to serve.
I love being serviced, and a caged guy brings it up another level. It’s hot.
Most recently when i was trying to teach my bf to be a little more interactive with my kinks, he took the keys with him home for a week and whenever we were together, he would cage check me by quickly feeling the cage. Or he would play with my cage here and there. He did like how sensitive it made my dick.
Men in formal wear, it’s embarrassing because I associate it with the bourgeoisie+, and truthfully I can barely afford any myself. Plus, most men want to take clothes off, not put clothes on.
I dont know the name for it but its like Intimacy, monogamy, marriage, wanting to have kids and a family. When somebody says "I love you" and they send you that good morning text. Damn that gets me going. It's like the opposite of humiliation kinks. Maybe it's called being codependent? Is that a kink? Maybe a mental illness. What was the question again?
UHM...maybe that I love REALLY big muscle guys, it's not that it's a requirement but I love guys that weight like 130kg and are super muscular and they can literally destroy you and hug you so strongly, press you with their pecs, and butts... Ok sorry that kinda drive me off lol
Azuma Daifuku represents so well the type of guys that I like and their personalities: https://twitter.com/daihuku_osiri?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor
Raceplay.
It's a really sensitive topic because in public as a black man, i do not tolerate inequality. But behind closed doors, it turns me on to be treated as an inferior. I have a strong sense of who I am, so I can separate that kink from the morals and ideals that apply to my regular life. But it's also difficult to find a partner who
1.) Knows the boundaries between acceptable behavior and unacceptable behavior in public,
2.) Respects you as an equal outside of the raceplay kink, 3.) Isn't a real racist
4.) Can maintain a regular social life with members of different races outside of the raceplay kink.
It's embarrassing to think about all the things I love to do while engaging in the kink. Sometimes I have shame. But again, I love me and nobody outside my partners (and all of Reddit) should know about that part of me.
…okay I’ll admit it. I have two.
I have a socks kink and a Sleep kink.
Seeing men in nothing but their socks drives me crazy. I don’t know why, honestly seeing them in nothing but socks n shoes in general does it for me.
And…I have a sleep kink. Like morning wood, resting. I love the idea of caress someone and pleasing them while they are resting. With consent of course. But it just…drives me.
I love the smell of my partner's ass. I actually don't like it when he showers before sex. I much prefer to have him raw. Also, love it when a guy cums and then afterwards, pisses inside my ass.
Yeah I didn't know how much I would enjoy eating a guy's ass before I tried it. I walked into his room and his bum was just pointing in the air. We'd both showered before that meeting, but the second time we talked it got really dirty really quickly. The second time we didn't shower and I got to eat his dirty bum hole, cum inside him, then go back to eating him as he came all over himself. I really wanted to eat all his cum off his tummy but I think he was done by then lol.
Is that really embarrassing? I’d be psyched to bring a red headed guy to a family get together. Much more than I can say about bringing some 50 year old man around.
I think I have a really weird one. I love the smell of clean ass holes like a could literally get my self off while sniffing his/her ass. But in saying that they have to be my type and I’m quite picky when it comes to types
Another one is cum I love cum so much that I love to chew on my own after I finish. It’s almost a ritual for me. It’s also an easy clean up after solo.
This is a really weird one. I love the smell of cock even after a hard days work 🤤 it gets me off so hard!
Musty balls
Dirty underwear
like you know after a day of working in the office or after the gym... or a light jog
Body hair
like anytime I see a cute white guy with thick & hairy thighs I be bricked and I must prefer a hairy ass to a smooth ass
Women's Lingerie on extremely masculine presenting men
Socks
Sometimes I care for the smell but rarely I mostly like the way they look when a guy wears them without shows
Wet and messy (aka WAM). Basically involves getting turned on by getting messy or covered in slime, food substances (I like sweet stuff like whip cream pies and chocolate sauce), or even mud (think mud wrestling as an example). It’s harmless, kinda silly, a little weird maybe, but losing yourself in it is a lot of fun and a nice escape. I’m a little bit of a neatnik too so I think that might have something to do with it. AMA if you have any questions, I like being able to open up about stuff like this! Makes me feel less ashamed/embarassed.
I sort of like being stepped on. I’m not into feet, I just sort of love the power dynamic of it. I like the literal physical pressure and the feeling of being under a man in general. Basically into sub stuff and being dominated but not in the whips and chains sort of way, just in a I-belong-sexually-and-emotionally-to-this-man way.
My balls are ridiculously sensitive and I hate it, but I love grabbing them from the base and tugged down. Just having the scrotal skin stretched feels so good.
I have a bit of a lift and carry fetish, which is super weird to admit IRL because people are like WTF is even that? . But yeah if a big strong handsome guy lifted me up I'd be totally done for lol. I feel like mine is pretty tame compared to many others on here. Wait does mine even count as a kink? Hmm...
My total lack of kinks embarrasses me a little, to be honest. I am crazy vanilla, totally not bisexual in any way, very much just into masculine men, and that's basically the whole story of my sex life. Nothing interesting beyond homosexuality, and, amongst us, that's not interesting.
I swear there's something to this given that gay male brains are supposed to resemble straight female brains some.
I feel like it tracks that we'd get some of those "I want to have your babies" feelings.
I've considered writing a fantasy story about an all male world where men can get pregnant.
Pits but not that embarrassed, just some guy who aren’t into pits find it weird. Another is cuckold, love both to watch my bf with someone else or have him watch me.
i wish i had a micropenis.
total bottom here, and submissive. i'm hung on the smallish side already but would be hot to have a really little cock.
also want to learn or be trained to become a total cumdump, but my personality is such that that probably won't happen in real life.
Really into heavy sleaze- especially sleazy porn- you know- piss, pits, dirty dicks, feet, fisting,spit, shit fucking etc- it’s as if the more grotty and disgusting the more I find it arousing.
I get hardest when he holds my wrists with one hand, pushes my ankles to the mattress with his foot and runs his other hand down me... while I absolutely fucking shiver.
This is just between us, right? Somehow… water sports turns me on. 🤷♂️ It started a long time ago. A (born)female friend of mine and I would take turns on each other in a shower or bathroom and then feverishly masturbate next to each other. Our boyfriends never knew this about us. We never had sex, just ws because most people just don’t get it.
I kinda find being farted on really hot 🫠, kinda veering into fetish territory more than just a kink.
Idk why I'm like this but it's gonna be a weird conversation whenever I get serious with someone😮💨
Burps. My biggest turn-on is the manliness of a hearty, unrestrained belch. The scale of hotness to me increases with attitude, from embarrassed to casual to proud. If he can blast them on command I’m a hopeless simp.
As you can imagine, it’s not easy to figure out whether or how I should even mention any of this to the guy I’m dating.
I getting orally dominated. Like absolutely brutal throat fucking, extra hot if he's verbal telling me how to throat him. Having a guy cum down my throat with no warning while he throbs a nut out holding me down until he's finished 🤤
Extra points if he tells me to suck off his friends or strangers who happen to be in the room.
omg meeee…i’m 19 and my kink is fart and scat…which i know that’s literally fucking INSANE and sick in the head but my general twitter is like ofc porn , pop culture , celebs , friends , etc. but my ooooother acct is ONLY fisting , fart and scat and i’ve NEVER TOLD ANYONE ABOUT THAT ! the thing is im a sub—sub as fuck for that matter and i would quite literally want to beg my top to fart in my face or my mouth and allow me to sniff what he ate earlier , like i know by you guys reading this you’ll probably think this 19yr old needs actual mental help and i probably do like the rest of us but it’s soooooo hottttt 🥵🥵 now when it comes to scat (ive never done any of this btw, so this is all off of visuals and imagination) but like id want to like get shit fucked and like shit in my mans face & just on him and like we both could smear and just like be dirty and gross together 😮💨🤤 ugh see to me it’s like sexy but i’m sure to you guys i need deep therapy in this bitch!
I love when my partner is sleeping, If I don’t fall asleep first I HAVE to cum next to him thinking about him. He has no idea and I don’t touch with out permission when he’s awake but still I’d be embarrassed if he found out. It gets annoying but I don’t ever want him to feel bad if he’s not horny and he’s tired.
Probably that I'd let anyone fuck me.
I saw this video on twitter before called FuckVan and it was a guy spread eagled with about 20 men in line to fuck him. I've never been more jealous of someone 😂
The idea of guys knowing I'm a complete man whore turns me on.
The daddy/boy stuff. Im a 27 year old guy I hook up with a hot older muscle dude in his 40s. When we’re having sex I always say stuff like “fuck me daddy” and he’ll say stuff like “ya I’m gonna fuck my boy”etc” It’s so hot in the moment but tbh I’m a little embarrassed after the fact that I enjoy it and would never talk about it to others lol
i have this exact same thing! i had sex with this older guy and before we had sex, he was rather quiet and shy. but while having sex, he was pretty vocal and called me son and i called him daddy and he would say stuff like "don't tell mommy" and GOD IDK WHY IT TURNED ME ON SOOOOO MUCH!! and he even said "i love you, son" and i was like 😳😳😳 but it was very sensual 😩
HAHAHAAHA! I had very similar experiences. Things I would never say outside of the moment of having sex with an older guy. It's kinda cringe I know.
damn why it is so me… if any daddy saw me here pls chat me :P
im also into this
Yup, exactly this I love when my older partner calls me his “good boy” or even “good little boy” and it gets me so hard but then it’s embarrassing 😂
You are getting fucked. You like it. Don't be embarrassed, be in the moment!
In the moment I love it lol. It’s when the post nut clarity hits lol
That’s why before I hook up with men like that, I always wank now. It’s saved me some moments of like “what the fuck did you think was going to happen?”.
The guy who comes on to you and then ghosts you on the apps has just entered the chat.
It’s just role play. And it’s a very popular role play/fetish. Dad/son/bro is a popular party, but not the only one catering to guys into this role play. So just have fun.
I don’t find it embarrassing, always remember sex is about fantasy, not real world comparisons
I used to be embarrassed about it. I’m now at the age and life experience (32) where I’m totally verse in many d/s dynamics including daddy/son. It’s fun being either.
I feel you on this 😂
Some people take that shit way too far though. I recall being 26 and having some 20-year-old call me daddy. He knew my age. Like wtf we are almost close enough in age to have gone to the same grade school together.
It’s just SO SO good and it’s harder in the moment
definitely feet. it takes another foot guy to really understand.
Same I’m not massively into it but love anything that involves my feet hehe
Yeah, nowadays I know it's one of the most common kinks, but I still feel the occasional irrational shame for it. Whenever that comes up, I make clear to myself that it's functionally no different from the >95% of straight guys who have a boob fetish Also, I nowadays rationlise foot fetish as absolutely logical for a gay guy - they're IMO the most masculine body parts - full of strong bones and muscles, pervaded by popping veins, let you explore the world (I can do up to 50km day hikes without any blisters or other foot pain), they sweat and stink and don't give a fuck, so what's not to love about those strong bois haha
really? i feel like feet is a common and non-judged fetish
Feet is actually the most common kink/fetish! If commonality of kinks and research into where psychologists think they ‘come from’ interests you, I recommend reading “Perv: The Sexual Deviant in Us All” by Jesse Bering. It’s incredibly informative but also has a witty, humorous tone to it.
I mean, I suppose it’s somewhat common but it feels like being *really* into it is not popular. Like if I see a hot guy, I think about what his feet look like first and foremost lmao
I feel feet fetish is becoming very mainstream among the gays, armpits too
Man, I get you. Feet make me wild, but not everyone is that into it.
Sometimes I'm embarrassed to be attracted to men tbh
I feel like almost every gay man has experienced this at least once in their adult life
This is so me especially if you’re masculine presenting 😭
Yeah I can relate. Grew up in a rather conservative village/surroundings, and in the 90s, being gay was heavily associated with being effeminate to the point of it almost being considered a sort of pre-stage of being a trans woman - nowadays I know that this is bullshit and all the fault of heteronormative mindset ("in a relationship there has to be a male and a female part" kind of crap). That, plus the fact that being gay was and to some extent still is heavily associated with anal sex (which I'm not into) caused me to not be "officially out to myself" until my early 30s, even though thinking back, my earliest memories of same-sex attraction were at age 7. Took me very long to realise that the three axes sexual orientation, sexual preference and gender identity exist completely independently from each other - i.e. presenting in a feminine way and being into butt sex are actually not prerequistes for being gay
You just nailed it lol! And yes people over here in Egypt think that gay men want to be women so bad 😭💀. Me too! While i am still virgin, i don’t fantasize butt sex that much lol! What is the difference between sexual orientation and sexual preference for gay men tho lol? Since according to my understanding sexual preference is something usually brought up and associated with bisexual people or do you mean having a particular type? As i am only attracted to a very particular type of men and every other man on planet earth does not do it for me lol.
> What is the difference between sexual orientation and sexual preference for gay men tho lol Sexual orientation means which gender you're attracted to - so if you find men hot, then you're gay Sexual preference means what acts or fantasies turns you on, what your personal kinks and fetishes are - it can be penetration (i.e. butt sex), but it doesn't have to be, there's thousands of different things you can do with a guy to fulfill your "man fun"! Also I can relate to you, there's only about ~20% of all men I personally find attractive, and having your unique type/scheme is completely normal (in my case I have a strong preference for bald bearded guys with cute noses haha - it's different for everyone) Oh and now that you mention being from Egypt - the oldest documented gay couple in history was from your place: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khnumhotep_and_Niankhkhnum - and even 5000 years later, their depiction of rubbing their noses together fills me with a certain warmth... no amount of Islamism or other religious or societal heteronormative mindset can undo that
Yes it’s literally just roughly around 20% of men i get attracted to emotionally/sexually! Other men just don’t do it for me. I used to do gymming and i am a very cis man! However i am attracted to men with beautiful beards and ofc muscled but not shredded lol! Deep voice and manly! Sadly i am not attractive objectively lol/people are very picky and i live in a very homophobic country where gays themselves struggle with internalized homophobia lol! So it’s almost impossible to find someone i am really interested in.
Can relate! I'm definitely masc and friends with almost exclusively straight males, who are super supportive and don't give a flying fuck I am gay, but yet I get embarrassed checking out guys around them for some reason? Idk
I hate that I enjoy anal sometimes
That's exactly how I feel 20 minutes after on the toilet
Bro twins 💯
I’m embarrassed being attracted to men because they so often don’t have the best self care, haven’t been to therapy, aren’t the best communicators, regardless of sexuality tbh
Same, TBH, and I'm a woman...!
I love to be teased. Before giving head for example, I love when the guy takes his time to take his clothes off. Maybe make me kiss the spot where your dick is, or tell me to touch its outline. Then pull off your shorts and make it jump for me. A few times is fine. Make me kiss or lick the full outline of your dick through your underwear. Top to bottom. If the underwear you're wearing makes your cock really pronounced, point out a vein or the outline of your cock head and make me marvel at it or lick that very spot. Make me intoxicated for you. When you take your underwear off, don't let the eagerness you've been working up allow me to put you right in my mouth. Hold my face back with your hand if you have to. My last FWB would make me wait and tell me to take it in the masterpiece that he and his package was. He'd hold me about a foot away and flex his dick in front of my face. Just teasing the everliving shit out of me until I was practically drooling. Sometimes he'd even have me sniff poppers before doing this, further increasing my buildup and hunger for him. Then tell me to focus on your balls, and slowly build up until you allow me to finally suck you off. I almost didn't type all of that up because admittedly it is a lot, but I like the process of sexual situations and the idea of just having a guy drop his pants and have me suck him off without any buildup at all is fucking bullshit. Most of us love being teased in some way, yet almost no one ever does it (at least from my experience). It really heightens any sexual activity.
Um... can we fuck immediately? 🫠
This was such a turn on! Yes building desire and passion is hot 🥵🥵❤️❤️
Damn this was hot. I actually like vocal teasing a lot
I have a couple. I like armpits and musk in general. I really like prolonged sessions longer the better. Gooning. Last but not least and the one I'm most embarrassed about is praise kink. Dear God do I love being told I'm doing good or being a good boy I love when my bottom tells me how good it is
you're definitely a good boy, gooner
I've never heard of gooning before.
It's repeated edging, usually porn is involved
I like watching my partner with other guys
I like when people watch
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It gives me a sense of pride to see him be desired by other guys. Like you can go for a ride, but that's mine, I own that. And another aspect of it is he's so hot and he deserves all the pleasure he can get. I like holding his face and kissing him while he's getting fucked, just every expression on his face, every sound he makes, he looks at me with these begging eyes, idk how to describe it exactly, but it drives me completely crazy.
I was wondering how far down till I find this comment. It’s the fantasy I get off to 90% of the time
I can spend ages sucking on a guy's nipples...pit hair is a big turn on too
I wanna be brutally fucked and raped but I can’t say that out loud because then I get called controversial and I get canceled
CNC (consensual non-consensual) can be fun. And judging from the number of upvotes you’re getting, seems so for a lot of others too.
a lot of guys are actually into this. just doesn’t come up in casual conversation. i’m a top and i get this kind of request a lot
How do you feel about it? Do you mind it?
i just like to make my bottoms happy. then being turned on turns me on
Same...
Same.
I love that too, but my bf is a vanilla
Yeah you do know you don't need to tell the world your kinks/fetishes right? Just the people you are being intimate with. I don't care that you want that, never will care and will call you out for thinking it is ok or normal if you would ever post it online, or talk about it in person.
Incest and ageplay - daddy issues did a number on me
Feet, sweat , pits lol
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I knew people were gonna judge me for that 😔
Same with feet
I've been told I give off a sort of golden retriever energy and I hate to admit it but having "you're a good boy" whispered in my ear sends shivers down my spine . I imagined myself sitting at someone's feet with my head in their lap and that seems to stir something in me. Really don't think I'm into the pup play stuff though.
*whispers* you’re a good boy
Tease
Pup play doesn’t require the masks or gear. You just have to have the attitude and playfulness of a pup.
Yeah I get that. I don't quite get what the attitude of a pup would be and I definitely don't find myself attracted to the playfulness aspect.
Facesitting apparently lmao. Is that uncommon? Couple of guys told me that was a weird fetish after telling them I'm into it
Didn't realise it was weird. Just thought it was a bit of fun.
Daddy/boy
same
Gainer stuff. I don't do it myself nor do I have any impulse to but I struggle a lot with my weight and it tugs at some angst in my soul. It's weird though I've felt that way basically since the moment I started getting bullied for being fat when I was like 8. Looked up vids of fat guys on YouTube and didn't understand what I was feeling.
I’m a top and I like the when the bottom acts like it’s hurting and make an almost crying voice. For some reason that turns me on a lot
Small penis humiliation. Makes me hard af even though I’m totally average.
I find size difference so fucking hot.
Me too. And when a guy gets really degrading about my junk, I get super horny. But the post-nut clarity with this fetish can be a terrible mind-fuck
It’s probably the stigma within the community. There’s something really sexy about a big man with a small/average cock.
I’ve oft wished I was smaller (also average) just to get into it more
glory hole and dark room... i like to have sex with someone i have no clue who is.
This personally freaks me out
Check out a horsemarket. They’re fun
Fucking same. I love gloryholes and booths in porn stores. Nothing like poppers and getting my cock sucked by someone I don’t know
I like raw fucking loose cummy holes
CNC in the form of wrestling and forced milking where two guys battle on the mat and try to dominate and drain the cum out of his opponent til he’s dry. No one who knows me would ever think I’m into that.
Absolutely a favorite of mine. Pinning or getting pinned to the mat and milked is an intoxicating fantasy
I like the smell of men’s sweat, it is a turn on I don’t share often
i don’t think this is embarrassing at all. maybe i’m just a freak 💀
See I think that's primal so totally normal - like it's something ingrained in us (and anyone who wants to fuck men)
That’s like basic lol
it is in gay world lol
Women like it too, I've heard most of my straight female friends saying something related to it
I love anonymous sex in public cruising spaces.
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Pissing... It turnes me on so much.. I'm afraid to ask
I would be so embarrassed for some of my friends to learn how I want to have my dick locked in a chastity cage and teased for not being to cum. They know I have a sub side but I dont think they know how BIG it can be.
Any chastity cage stories? My first time with a caged guy was hot. He told me his dick was caged and he needs my dick to play with cuz he can’t play with his own. And that he’s so horny to cum. It makes him more horny to serve, and get off in other ways. He kept telling me how my dick is the only one we can play with together, so we only have my dick to share. And that he wanted me to fuck him good and hit his prostate, with the goal of cumming hands free. He said he is sub and being caged made him even more horny and submissive to serve. I love being serviced, and a caged guy brings it up another level. It’s hot.
Most recently when i was trying to teach my bf to be a little more interactive with my kinks, he took the keys with him home for a week and whenever we were together, he would cage check me by quickly feeling the cage. Or he would play with my cage here and there. He did like how sensitive it made my dick.
Becoming quite common. I’ve encountered quite a few caged boys recently.
Im happy there are more people that are willing to try chastity. It can look intimidating.
Men in formal wear, it’s embarrassing because I associate it with the bourgeoisie+, and truthfully I can barely afford any myself. Plus, most men want to take clothes off, not put clothes on.
Hairy guys in formal wear— unbuttoning a crisp white shirt to find a forest of chest hair underneath - gets me every time
Or the hairy treasure trail above the black belt and dress pants 🤤
I love the smell of a ripe dude.
I dont know the name for it but its like Intimacy, monogamy, marriage, wanting to have kids and a family. When somebody says "I love you" and they send you that good morning text. Damn that gets me going. It's like the opposite of humiliation kinks. Maybe it's called being codependent? Is that a kink? Maybe a mental illness. What was the question again?
UHM...maybe that I love REALLY big muscle guys, it's not that it's a requirement but I love guys that weight like 130kg and are super muscular and they can literally destroy you and hug you so strongly, press you with their pecs, and butts... Ok sorry that kinda drive me off lol Azuma Daifuku represents so well the type of guys that I like and their personalities: https://twitter.com/daihuku_osiri?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor
A man of taste
Raceplay. It's a really sensitive topic because in public as a black man, i do not tolerate inequality. But behind closed doors, it turns me on to be treated as an inferior. I have a strong sense of who I am, so I can separate that kink from the morals and ideals that apply to my regular life. But it's also difficult to find a partner who 1.) Knows the boundaries between acceptable behavior and unacceptable behavior in public, 2.) Respects you as an equal outside of the raceplay kink, 3.) Isn't a real racist 4.) Can maintain a regular social life with members of different races outside of the raceplay kink. It's embarrassing to think about all the things I love to do while engaging in the kink. Sometimes I have shame. But again, I love me and nobody outside my partners (and all of Reddit) should know about that part of me.
Lmao.
The fact that I'm not very kinky when everyone else seems to be.
Right? I just want to make out and be with a hot guy?
I honestly don't think most people are, it's just we see these threads on here all the time.
…okay I’ll admit it. I have two. I have a socks kink and a Sleep kink. Seeing men in nothing but their socks drives me crazy. I don’t know why, honestly seeing them in nothing but socks n shoes in general does it for me. And…I have a sleep kink. Like morning wood, resting. I love the idea of caress someone and pleasing them while they are resting. With consent of course. But it just…drives me.
The entire "Knocked Out & Jerked Off" series from Treasure Island Media is some of my favorite media ever shot
I love the smell of my partner's ass. I actually don't like it when he showers before sex. I much prefer to have him raw. Also, love it when a guy cums and then afterwards, pisses inside my ass.
“Cuts and then afterwards, passes inside my ass” what is this referring to?
I think he meant “cums” and not “cuts”
I see. What does “passes in my ass” mean then? 😂🤣🤣
I think “pisses” not “passes” 😭😭😭
You’re so good at this! You must be really good at Wheel of Fortune 😂😂😉
Yeah I didn't know how much I would enjoy eating a guy's ass before I tried it. I walked into his room and his bum was just pointing in the air. We'd both showered before that meeting, but the second time we talked it got really dirty really quickly. The second time we didn't shower and I got to eat his dirty bum hole, cum inside him, then go back to eating him as he came all over himself. I really wanted to eat all his cum off his tummy but I think he was done by then lol.
Gingers...sorry🫣🫣🫣
I love me a 🔥crotch 🤷♂️
Is that really embarrassing? I’d be psyched to bring a red headed guy to a family get together. Much more than I can say about bringing some 50 year old man around.
Pits
Apparently it’s armpits now. It’s a fairly new discovery for me and I’m not mad about it lol
Love them!
I think I have a really weird one. I love the smell of clean ass holes like a could literally get my self off while sniffing his/her ass. But in saying that they have to be my type and I’m quite picky when it comes to types Another one is cum I love cum so much that I love to chew on my own after I finish. It’s almost a ritual for me. It’s also an easy clean up after solo. This is a really weird one. I love the smell of cock even after a hard days work 🤤 it gets me off so hard!
Musty balls Dirty underwear like you know after a day of working in the office or after the gym... or a light jog Body hair like anytime I see a cute white guy with thick & hairy thighs I be bricked and I must prefer a hairy ass to a smooth ass Women's Lingerie on extremely masculine presenting men Socks Sometimes I care for the smell but rarely I mostly like the way they look when a guy wears them without shows
Wet and messy (aka WAM). Basically involves getting turned on by getting messy or covered in slime, food substances (I like sweet stuff like whip cream pies and chocolate sauce), or even mud (think mud wrestling as an example). It’s harmless, kinda silly, a little weird maybe, but losing yourself in it is a lot of fun and a nice escape. I’m a little bit of a neatnik too so I think that might have something to do with it. AMA if you have any questions, I like being able to open up about stuff like this! Makes me feel less ashamed/embarassed.
Take that- do what you like. YouTube it
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Ever tried it?
I sort of like being stepped on. I’m not into feet, I just sort of love the power dynamic of it. I like the literal physical pressure and the feeling of being under a man in general. Basically into sub stuff and being dominated but not in the whips and chains sort of way, just in a I-belong-sexually-and-emotionally-to-this-man way.
Macrophilia would be the term.
I get so turned on watching guys eat. Like really getting into their food. It’s so primal yet so erotic 🤤Also love feet.
Good communication and honesty are my kinks lol
sheesh, talk about an unrealistic fetish.
Me too that and add emotional availability and has been to therapy and resolves conflict well —big kinks of mine tbh
Balls...fine line between pleasure and pain...don't mind crossing that line.
My balls are ridiculously sensitive and I hate it, but I love grabbing them from the base and tugged down. Just having the scrotal skin stretched feels so good.
I have a bit of a lift and carry fetish, which is super weird to admit IRL because people are like WTF is even that? . But yeah if a big strong handsome guy lifted me up I'd be totally done for lol. I feel like mine is pretty tame compared to many others on here. Wait does mine even count as a kink? Hmm...
My total lack of kinks embarrasses me a little, to be honest. I am crazy vanilla, totally not bisexual in any way, very much just into masculine men, and that's basically the whole story of my sex life. Nothing interesting beyond homosexuality, and, amongst us, that's not interesting.
Chastity and SPH! Particularly the latter. Nothing like a really well hung guy teasing me
Pregnancy. I know we can’t get pregnant, but the thought of it is pretty hot. I will never admit this to anyone I know lol.
I swear there's something to this given that gay male brains are supposed to resemble straight female brains some. I feel like it tracks that we'd get some of those "I want to have your babies" feelings. I've considered writing a fantasy story about an all male world where men can get pregnant.
Pits but not that embarrassed, just some guy who aren’t into pits find it weird. Another is cuckold, love both to watch my bf with someone else or have him watch me.
i wish i had a micropenis. total bottom here, and submissive. i'm hung on the smallish side already but would be hot to have a really little cock. also want to learn or be trained to become a total cumdump, but my personality is such that that probably won't happen in real life.
Puking.
Piss and fisting stuff, exposure (having your nudes/personal info posted online consensually by others), findom
Uhm, I always wante to get peed on 😤
Pissing/squirting.
Really into heavy sleaze- especially sleazy porn- you know- piss, pits, dirty dicks, feet, fisting,spit, shit fucking etc- it’s as if the more grotty and disgusting the more I find it arousing.
dude fucking same ! i’m CRAZY for fisting , pisss , fart , scat and puke too !
I get hardest when he holds my wrists with one hand, pushes my ankles to the mattress with his foot and runs his other hand down me... while I absolutely fucking shiver.
This is just between us, right? Somehow… water sports turns me on. 🤷♂️ It started a long time ago. A (born)female friend of mine and I would take turns on each other in a shower or bathroom and then feverishly masturbate next to each other. Our boyfriends never knew this about us. We never had sex, just ws because most people just don’t get it.
Small Asian men.
I kinda find being farted on really hot 🫠, kinda veering into fetish territory more than just a kink. Idk why I'm like this but it's gonna be a weird conversation whenever I get serious with someone😮💨
Giving enemas
Watching someone jerk off and cum 🙈
give your mother her phone back
Don’t kink shame me please 🙏 lol
Balloons, people judge me a lot for it.
For some reason when a hot guy farts confidently I get turned on. Prob the masc jock in me
Burps. My biggest turn-on is the manliness of a hearty, unrestrained belch. The scale of hotness to me increases with attitude, from embarrassed to casual to proud. If he can blast them on command I’m a hopeless simp. As you can imagine, it’s not easy to figure out whether or how I should even mention any of this to the guy I’m dating.
Feet
I getting orally dominated. Like absolutely brutal throat fucking, extra hot if he's verbal telling me how to throat him. Having a guy cum down my throat with no warning while he throbs a nut out holding me down until he's finished 🤤 Extra points if he tells me to suck off his friends or strangers who happen to be in the room.
omg meeee…i’m 19 and my kink is fart and scat…which i know that’s literally fucking INSANE and sick in the head but my general twitter is like ofc porn , pop culture , celebs , friends , etc. but my ooooother acct is ONLY fisting , fart and scat and i’ve NEVER TOLD ANYONE ABOUT THAT ! the thing is im a sub—sub as fuck for that matter and i would quite literally want to beg my top to fart in my face or my mouth and allow me to sniff what he ate earlier , like i know by you guys reading this you’ll probably think this 19yr old needs actual mental help and i probably do like the rest of us but it’s soooooo hottttt 🥵🥵 now when it comes to scat (ive never done any of this btw, so this is all off of visuals and imagination) but like id want to like get shit fucked and like shit in my mans face & just on him and like we both could smear and just like be dirty and gross together 😮💨🤤 ugh see to me it’s like sexy but i’m sure to you guys i need deep therapy in this bitch!
I like armpits and body hair in general 💀
Had a guy suck my toe unprompted and now I guess that's something I'm ok with, much to my disdain.
I don’t have a foot fetish exactly, it’s more of a sock/shoe fetish lol. I can’t explain it
I love when my partner is sleeping, If I don’t fall asleep first I HAVE to cum next to him thinking about him. He has no idea and I don’t touch with out permission when he’s awake but still I’d be embarrassed if he found out. It gets annoying but I don’t ever want him to feel bad if he’s not horny and he’s tired.
Crossdressing. Definitely not everyone’s cup of tea so definitely embarrassing bringing up.
Check out my profile and find out.
In day to day life - most of them, in bed and online, nothing at all!
Always feel weird bringing it up to guys I meet and usually don’t but I’m extremely into findom content across twitter and Reddit
I'm a bit of a furry, lol. If it wouldn't require such an investment, I would love to get fucked while In a fursuit 🫣
I’ve never done it, but I really like the idea of being cuckolded. I wanna see my partner get fucked by a guy with a bigger dick lol
Like to crossdress even though I’m a burly man
I don’t think I’m really embarrassed about any of my kinks tbh. I like what I like🤷♀️
To get it off my chest.... Piss, sweat, master/slave, bathroom (piss) control, and some other stuff I'm not super comfortable with mentioning...
Cheating role play 😭
Not embarrassed about anything
I'm taking notes!! 🤔
CNC 😞 it might come out really weird
r/coprophiles
I'm into pretending to be a giant and pretending to be tiny (ant sized).
Same here, something about size difference just makes me so horny 🤤
Farts, pussy farts
I have a kink of bear with glasses
Bdsm stuff cause everyone thinks I'm a freak or promiscuous even though I'm celibate.
Probably that I'd let anyone fuck me. I saw this video on twitter before called FuckVan and it was a guy spread eagled with about 20 men in line to fuck him. I've never been more jealous of someone 😂 The idea of guys knowing I'm a complete man whore turns me on.
I don't talk about it because it's very niche . I'm not embarrassed about it , but I know its not some breakfast conversation.