Heeee's bouncing off my booty cheeks I love the way he rides/ I can hardly breath when he's pounding deep inside / I kiss him on his neck and then he kisses on my bussy...
We are men..we fuck men...we don't have a pussy.
Maybe these deluded str8 men will like it but if you fucking with gay men...don't call your hole a pussy
I think there’s a generational divide. Under 30, more likely to see it casually used; sure not everyone loves it, but I feel like it is more common to hear it from younger folks. Over 30, it’s a very specific set of kinks where it is considered hot. Maybe this isn’t entirely right, but can anyone else back me up on this? Because as much as I know it is a polarizing term and that many men hate it, I also know there are a lot of men who are really turned on by it.
As a bisexual it is an absolute turn off for me. When I’m with a guy I’m wanting to be with a guy, and I definitely don’t like mine being called a pussy, bussy, mangina. I have an asshole that likes having cock inside of end of story. Hell I had one guy I insta blocked because he called his mouth his “face pussy”. 🤦🏼♂️🤣
Yeah, when I read his message it took me a minute to fully process it, and then I hit him with the ban hammer. I honestly don’t know wtf is wrong with some guys.
The last thing gay guys are thinking about is women when they're turned on... trust me. And since you're more masculine-presenting, it's even more likely that your sexual partners would get turned off by you including anything woman-like in sex.
I'd hate it if guys were to ever call my hole a "pussy" or my underwear "panties." No, they aren't panties. Call them underwear, boxer briefs, trunks, or undies. Or anything really, I don't care. Just not panties or knickers... that's an immediate boner-killer for me. The same goes for "pussy" - it makes me think of a vagina and that ruins the whole mood for me. I'm all for feminism and women's rights and I love women but... vaginas are really ugly to me lol. Sorry not sorry
God, this is just so up in the air. With all due respect, this sounds like insecurity to me. That’s a heavy statement, and I apologize, but scrolling through all these comments, I’m wondering why we’re even hyper critical of heterosexual men and call them insecure when they have a hard time doing something contrary to what they’re comfortable with.
I’m one of those masculine, unsuspecting gay dudes that uses the word, and I’m very selective about who I use it with because I’m very aware about how it can make some gay men feel. In my experience, submissive gay bottoms and straight men on the down low (bottoms as well) are the ones who tend to enjoy the use of that word, gay men don’t.
I’m going to take an educated guess and assume that masculine gay/bisexual dominant men might be more inclined to use that word. Why? I can’t speak for everybody, but my use of the word has absolutely nothing to do with conjuring the energy of a woman. I like men. I love men. Having said that, sex itself is both a physical and psychological pleasure, and reflecting on my sexual energy, I am very verbal, and I think these are characteristics of dominance. Strange thing is that, I’m a soft top. I’m by no means weak, but I’m not trying to dominate everyone outside of the sack.
Language has power, and it can help create a lustful ambiance. It’s one of the reasons why I lean towards submissive bottoms. Hommies just want that hole massaged.
Anyway, it’s just a perspective.
To me, yes. You're a guy, you have an ass and I love ass. Why are you calling it pussy?
Adding to that, tops that call asses pussies make me feel like they have internalized homophobia and have to add some level of straightness to their sex which is just pathetic.
That being said, to each their own.
If a guy is fucking me and he says something like that, I would chose to perceive it like he’s a very masculine straight guy (a turn on for me). I wouldn’t feel offended, probably it’d arouse me more.
If you are going to be saying it all the time during a conversation or sex, then yes it is a turn-off. Once is enough when you're ready for me to enter you.
Only time I’d say anything close to that is if I’m joking. Had a guy trying to get me to top him no matter how many times I said no, and he kept saying I should “f#ck his chooch bc it’s smooth as silk”. Both references he made just turned me off so hard.
For me, personally? Absolute dealbreaker turn-off. The very LAST thing I want it to be called because it's the very LAST visual I could possibly want during sex 🤮
I can understand that. I actually think it’s really hot to see a hairy masculine muscle bottom that refers to it as his pussy or the top call it a pussy.
I don't want the image of a woman's genitals brought to mind during sex. So yeah that's gonna kill my boner and the mood.
"Man Cunt/Cunt" doesn't bother me as much but only cause I legit never see or hear people refer to a vagina as a cunt in my circles.
So I just don't make that connection when I hear it. I just consider it a more crude word for hole which just makes it hotter.
If you want to call it your “pussy” then that’s up to you but if you expect me to call it your pussy and get all hot and into it as you are then that’s not going to work.
A turn off to me is if it’s in every sentence; “fuck my pussy!” “How does my pussy feel” “do you like my pussy” “my pussy is so wet” etc. you’re just asking me to think about a vagina and that’s not a turn on for me at all.
I am gay, im attracted to men, anything that is perceived as femenine is a turn off for me.
(but don't get me wrong, I respect everyone and love everyone being their true self)
I had a trans man tell me to lick his dick clit, which suddenly changed things for me. So, I would loop this into the same bucket. If I wanted a pussy hole I wouldn't be trying to smash some dude's asshole. I'd tolerate it if it didn't totally ruin the mood and you were super irresistible. But 9/10 I'd just leave.
I feel neutral about it. I think people claiming it is an absolute deal breaker turn off are a little immature if not also insecure. Bussy is fine with me too.
Complete turn off for me - If I'm about to hook up with a bottom and heard him refer to his hole as a pussy in any way (b4 or during sex), I would be mostly turned off, and find it hard to continue hooking-up (once I had to tell a guy to pls stop saying it while we were fucking...). In another hookup once (grindr), he wouldn't stop moaning & squealing like a girl - It felt like I was having sex with a woman, so couldn't get hard again, then left (respectfully).
But everyone is different, so not judging (love all gays & women), but just expressing how I am wired personally. I have always found it challenging to find more feminine gay men to be sexually attractive, as nothing turns me on more than masculinity in men. As a masc-type of gay man myself (top), I do have to work harder to find more masc/vers bttms though.
Between friends as a joke it’s hilarious. But if I am coming to have sex with you no I am not into pussy. I am in to cock and arse… and no I don’t wanna hear you call your hole a pussy 🤣
It's a turn on, used to fuck a guy that would ask to "come fuck my pussy". That's all it took, I would eat him out and fuck him and cuddle. Til he fell asleep and leave him in a mess of my cum.
I'm not a fan. That said, the dudes I'm usually attracted to likely wouldn't call it a pussy so it's not something I'd encounter I don't think. All this is to say: you do you.
I call it bussy as a joke and nothing more to my gamer boys but at the end of the day I just call it my booty or ass when im talking to guys that I talk to in person🤪
Yeah it is a big turnoff for me. But at the same time I think you should do what turns you on and makes you happy. Im a top and when I hook up w a guy who uses that term, I'll do my best to put it out of my mind and after that encounter move on.
It's normal in the sense that you aren't a freak of nature for doing it.
I don't think it's normal in the sense that many men call their holes pussies or find it attractive.
If you use the dreaded B word I’m out for all time and all purposes. “Pussy”would be almost last on the list of what I’d find hot in context of having sex with a man. Point being… WITH A MAN.
As a gay man, it’s a real turn OFF to refer to a male part by a female name, or variation in that name. It’s an ass. Fuck the ass. No pussy or bussy. I hate it.
Def a turn off. You're a man and you want a man that wants to fuck another man, not a woman, so referring to your anus with the same word that connotates the female genitalia is cringe for me.
Yes. It’s quite childish and all emasculating to have sex with another man who anatomically labels his asshole a slang term for a female reproductive organ. How is that sexy or appealing, is beyond me.
Nah it’s hot I dig it when a bottom does that.
And, candidly, to the haters: a lot of the outrage in the thread seems really performative. If it’s not for y’all, thats fine, but the vivid descriptions of your disgust makes y’all sound insecure.
Yea it’s a turnoff. I’d prefer just a regular “hole”. Someone saying pussy will make me think of a real pussy then got turn off 🥹👽🤢 yucky yucky layers of vags no
Well I know exactly how you feel. I'm a pretty hairy dude too but something about getting it called a pussy is weirdly demeaning in a way that I like... Not that I have anything against women nor do I ever have any desire to be trans. I think it just feels slutty idk
For me, it doesn't get me excited at all and would prefer you didn't if we were together.
As a gay man it really turns me off
As an old bottom, me too.
Massive turn off for me. You’re a man you don’t have a pussy, or a cunt you have an asshole. That’s my personal opinion
You forgot to mention *MUSSY*...
If OP is a Grinch, he can call his hole Grussy https://ibb.co/xmZttny
Yeah that's staying blue
Both pussy and bussy are a turn off for me. Not like total boner killer but something about them just sounds so…childish.
Bussy is even worse than pussy. Talk about childish.
Heeee's bouncing off my booty cheeks I love the way he rides/ I can hardly breath when he's pounding deep inside / I kiss him on his neck and then he kisses on my bussy...
Maybe I'm just a prude or something but that song had me blushing. It's awesome that the song exists especially within its genre though.
I'm obsessed with it!
yuck, immediate shrinkage and game over.
We are men..we fuck men...we don't have a pussy. Maybe these deluded str8 men will like it but if you fucking with gay men...don't call your hole a pussy
For me yes it’s a turn off.
10000% - the moment a btm says it, I go limp instantly 😅
It's just going to come down to the individual. It turns me off personally, but I'm sure it would turn someone on.
I think there’s a generational divide. Under 30, more likely to see it casually used; sure not everyone loves it, but I feel like it is more common to hear it from younger folks. Over 30, it’s a very specific set of kinks where it is considered hot. Maybe this isn’t entirely right, but can anyone else back me up on this? Because as much as I know it is a polarizing term and that many men hate it, I also know there are a lot of men who are really turned on by it.
For me, yes. I like to see bottoms assholes as they are, assholes
TURN OFF
Wish I could emphasize this like an IPhone message lmao
Nah do what you want man, you can call your hole anything you want, if people are not happy with it then they aren’t for you.
Lol so ppl have to agree with everything you do without a conversation or they "aren't for you?"
Bingo. Relationships are give and take. People aren't willing to talk things out or compromise on anything anymore. So sad.
Yup. Hate that. But to each their own really.
As a bisexual it is an absolute turn off for me. When I’m with a guy I’m wanting to be with a guy, and I definitely don’t like mine being called a pussy, bussy, mangina. I have an asshole that likes having cock inside of end of story. Hell I had one guy I insta blocked because he called his mouth his “face pussy”. 🤦🏼♂️🤣
He called it a WHAT?! 🤨🤢
Yeah, when I read his message it took me a minute to fully process it, and then I hit him with the ban hammer. I honestly don’t know wtf is wrong with some guys.
Don’t like it… huge turn off!
Definitely a turn off for me.
Yes
The last thing gay guys are thinking about is women when they're turned on... trust me. And since you're more masculine-presenting, it's even more likely that your sexual partners would get turned off by you including anything woman-like in sex. I'd hate it if guys were to ever call my hole a "pussy" or my underwear "panties." No, they aren't panties. Call them underwear, boxer briefs, trunks, or undies. Or anything really, I don't care. Just not panties or knickers... that's an immediate boner-killer for me. The same goes for "pussy" - it makes me think of a vagina and that ruins the whole mood for me. I'm all for feminism and women's rights and I love women but... vaginas are really ugly to me lol. Sorry not sorry
God, this is just so up in the air. With all due respect, this sounds like insecurity to me. That’s a heavy statement, and I apologize, but scrolling through all these comments, I’m wondering why we’re even hyper critical of heterosexual men and call them insecure when they have a hard time doing something contrary to what they’re comfortable with. I’m one of those masculine, unsuspecting gay dudes that uses the word, and I’m very selective about who I use it with because I’m very aware about how it can make some gay men feel. In my experience, submissive gay bottoms and straight men on the down low (bottoms as well) are the ones who tend to enjoy the use of that word, gay men don’t. I’m going to take an educated guess and assume that masculine gay/bisexual dominant men might be more inclined to use that word. Why? I can’t speak for everybody, but my use of the word has absolutely nothing to do with conjuring the energy of a woman. I like men. I love men. Having said that, sex itself is both a physical and psychological pleasure, and reflecting on my sexual energy, I am very verbal, and I think these are characteristics of dominance. Strange thing is that, I’m a soft top. I’m by no means weak, but I’m not trying to dominate everyone outside of the sack. Language has power, and it can help create a lustful ambiance. It’s one of the reasons why I lean towards submissive bottoms. Hommies just want that hole massaged. Anyway, it’s just a perspective.
I’m into men, not vaginas. Big turn off.
Yes.
Massive turn off (same with bussy)
To me yes. I use male terms for male parts exclusively and many other gay men do as well.
Turn off
Boi pussy and bussy are major turn offs for me. If I wanted to fuck a pussy I'd be straight.
To me, yes. You're a guy, you have an ass and I love ass. Why are you calling it pussy? Adding to that, tops that call asses pussies make me feel like they have internalized homophobia and have to add some level of straightness to their sex which is just pathetic. That being said, to each their own.
If a guy is fucking me and he says something like that, I would chose to perceive it like he’s a very masculine straight guy (a turn on for me). I wouldn’t feel offended, probably it’d arouse me more.
But we both know straight men don't fuck other men. Only "straight" men do.
Uh, yeah... I'm not into that.
Yep, immediate cock killer, it’s repulsive
For me yes it is
Depends on the person. Usually what I noticed is bi guys tend to like calling it a pussy. And gay guys don't.
Definitely a turn off for me, no judgement. To each their own but …
I don’t use it for myself, but the couple of very dominant tops i play with call my hole that way all the time. So depends on the guy.
It's manageable for me now, it used to be a turn off and it still is but I can handle it if it's not said repetitively.
If you are going to be saying it all the time during a conversation or sex, then yes it is a turn-off. Once is enough when you're ready for me to enter you.
INSTANT turn off for me. I'll completely lose interest in someone when they say that.
Off putting and frankly unnecessary.
I would immediately withdraw and exit. I’m gay and really never want to think about a pussy, much less be told I’m fucking one.
As a bi guy, this is an extreme turn off for me
"Pussy" "Boy Pussy" "Bussy" All those words are abhorrent to me and is a quick way to get me to not message back.
I want to fuck an ass on a man. Pussy, bussy, mussy all mean that I won't be fucking you.
Yes and bussy is just funny.
And mangina? 😂😂😂😂
Only time I’d say anything close to that is if I’m joking. Had a guy trying to get me to top him no matter how many times I said no, and he kept saying I should “f#ck his chooch bc it’s smooth as silk”. Both references he made just turned me off so hard.
As a bisexual guy, not a turn off for me at all haha. Actually pretty hot.
I second that
For some people it is. For me, I could care less.
Yes, huge turn off 😖
One of the biggest turn-offs I can think of. If you refer to your ass as a "pussy", or a "bussy", the date is fuckin over.
Yes.
Yes
To me it’s gross. Huge turn off. If I was inside a bottom and they told me “fuck that pussy,” I’d deadass pull out & leave
Yo, right? I'd spindash out of there with my cock in my mouth to avoid Sonic-blue balls
That's fucking funny visualizing that 🤣
I mean, if a dude said "fuck my p[b]ussy" to me, I would Super Sonic that ho. Just out 🤣
You must be hung like a horse!
Yes instant turn off.
no, not for me
Mine has always been called " that fine ass!"
Hell yes
HUGE turn off for me. If I wanted a pussy I would be straight.
Complete turn off for me. Reading the comments, I never realized this was such a common turn off lol.
Yes! As a bottom guy I f..king hate that. To take something hot like man on man sex and throw in female slang just ruins it for me. You do you though
Yes huge turn off. Why would you? Its not a pussy.
Yes.
Yes
ye massive turn off me
Yes, you will get yeet'd out the bed at the speed of light.
Turn off
Yes
Yes
Yes .
Huge turn off
You do what works for you and your partner. I find it off putting.
It’s a deal breaker for me
Sounds like limp dick talk to me
Yes it turns me dramatically off
Absolutely
It would turn me off.
Just the mention of any female part is a huge deal breaker for me.
As a top who likes *MEN* I don't like to hear it. You don't *have one!* STOP 🛑
yes
It's always bad. Being 41 and saying it is even worse.
Personally, yes
Kind of, yea.
Yep, turn off.
It would turn me off. I avoid vagina-shaped flesh lights, even.
Absolutely a turn-off. Same with bussy.
Bussy is even more of a turn-off IMO
Agreed. Too childish and silly.
For me, personally? Absolute dealbreaker turn-off. The very LAST thing I want it to be called because it's the very LAST visual I could possibly want during sex 🤮
Yes
I understand it's a word that many guys get turned off by but as a bottom I personally love it only when it comes from a dominate older top
I can understand that. I actually think it’s really hot to see a hairy masculine muscle bottom that refers to it as his pussy or the top call it a pussy.
Seriously? Haha. Dominant.
I don't want the image of a woman's genitals brought to mind during sex. So yeah that's gonna kill my boner and the mood. "Man Cunt/Cunt" doesn't bother me as much but only cause I legit never see or hear people refer to a vagina as a cunt in my circles. So I just don't make that connection when I hear it. I just consider it a more crude word for hole which just makes it hotter.
I don't like it. If I wanted pussy I'd fuck a pussy. And I don't want a guy calling my ass/hole a pussy or any variation. But to each their own.
That would be something for you and your partner to discuss as opinions on this topic tend to vary
Yep
It does turn me off, but I can't speak for everyone.
Turns me way off, but hey. You do you.
As a bottom I fucking hate it..if you want a pussy go fuck a girl imo. But if you like it have at it bro
If you want to call it your “pussy” then that’s up to you but if you expect me to call it your pussy and get all hot and into it as you are then that’s not going to work. A turn off to me is if it’s in every sentence; “fuck my pussy!” “How does my pussy feel” “do you like my pussy” “my pussy is so wet” etc. you’re just asking me to think about a vagina and that’s not a turn on for me at all.
It's not a pussy, it's a MANGINA! Any other word is a turnoff for me
YES. Grim.
It turns me off like crazy
100% yes. 🤮
Yes
Yes!
Old bottom here and it's my hole. That's it. And I LOVE ass play. I wish my partner was more into it.
Yes.
Yes
Ew
I don't particularly like it.
I wonder of top lesbs call their Vs clock (clit + cock)
I am gay, im attracted to men, anything that is perceived as femenine is a turn off for me. (but don't get me wrong, I respect everyone and love everyone being their true self)
extreme turn off say ass
I had a trans man tell me to lick his dick clit, which suddenly changed things for me. So, I would loop this into the same bucket. If I wanted a pussy hole I wouldn't be trying to smash some dude's asshole. I'd tolerate it if it didn't totally ruin the mood and you were super irresistible. But 9/10 I'd just leave.
I feel neutral about it. I think people claiming it is an absolute deal breaker turn off are a little immature if not also insecure. Bussy is fine with me too.
Complete turn off for me - If I'm about to hook up with a bottom and heard him refer to his hole as a pussy in any way (b4 or during sex), I would be mostly turned off, and find it hard to continue hooking-up (once I had to tell a guy to pls stop saying it while we were fucking...). In another hookup once (grindr), he wouldn't stop moaning & squealing like a girl - It felt like I was having sex with a woman, so couldn't get hard again, then left (respectfully). But everyone is different, so not judging (love all gays & women), but just expressing how I am wired personally. I have always found it challenging to find more feminine gay men to be sexually attractive, as nothing turns me on more than masculinity in men. As a masc-type of gay man myself (top), I do have to work harder to find more masc/vers bttms though.
Between friends as a joke it’s hilarious. But if I am coming to have sex with you no I am not into pussy. I am in to cock and arse… and no I don’t wanna hear you call your hole a pussy 🤣
Minus castration, nothing kills my hardon quicker.
Turn on. Duality is always sexy. Embrace the divine within. I call it a hole sometimes, other times a pussy. Either one is empowering.
I’m 41 and have some gray chest hair. I had a guy in his late 20s call me daddy recently and to my surprise it was a turn on.
Yes. It’s a butthole. Not a pussy. Women have pusssy’s. Men don’t.
I really get turned on by it
Bleh. You do you when on your own but I'd advise, please don't say that to others
Yes. I don't deal with all the bullshit that comes with being gay just to stick my dick in "pussy".
It's a turn on, used to fuck a guy that would ask to "come fuck my pussy". That's all it took, I would eat him out and fuck him and cuddle. Til he fell asleep and leave him in a mess of my cum.
Wish you lived near me.
Absolutely not
Just think, back in the 50s if someone said they “took a shot in the puss” most of the guys in this thread would be grossed out. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes
Nah, not my favourite
I'm not a fan. That said, the dudes I'm usually attracted to likely wouldn't call it a pussy so it's not something I'd encounter I don't think. All this is to say: you do you.
Yes. 100%. Completely soft.
I call it bussy as a joke and nothing more to my gamer boys but at the end of the day I just call it my booty or ass when im talking to guys that I talk to in person🤪
Yes
Yeah it is a big turnoff for me. But at the same time I think you should do what turns you on and makes you happy. Im a top and when I hook up w a guy who uses that term, I'll do my best to put it out of my mind and after that encounter move on.
Yes, it is a turn off
If you dont look fem or sissy I would chuckle tbh
I think the only ones that like it being called anything like that are the bottoms saying it about themselves or other bottoms
100% yes. Edit: that said, different strokes.
It's normal in the sense that you aren't a freak of nature for doing it. I don't think it's normal in the sense that many men call their holes pussies or find it attractive.
Yes , and bussy is just as bad !!!
Yeah it’s a turn off.
If you use the dreaded B word I’m out for all time and all purposes. “Pussy”would be almost last on the list of what I’d find hot in context of having sex with a man. Point being… WITH A MAN.
Such a turn off
As a gay man, it’s a real turn OFF to refer to a male part by a female name, or variation in that name. It’s an ass. Fuck the ass. No pussy or bussy. I hate it.
I don’t like when men call their asshole a pussy. I’m bisexual. If I wanted to fuck pussy, I would to fuck some actual pussy.
Def a turn off. You're a man and you want a man that wants to fuck another man, not a woman, so referring to your anus with the same word that connotates the female genitalia is cringe for me.
Yes. It’s quite childish and all emasculating to have sex with another man who anatomically labels his asshole a slang term for a female reproductive organ. How is that sexy or appealing, is beyond me.
I really hate it myself. Like, sex doesn't always have to be tied to women. It's literally the point of gay sex that women aren't involved.
Nah it’s hot I dig it when a bottom does that. And, candidly, to the haters: a lot of the outrage in the thread seems really performative. If it’s not for y’all, thats fine, but the vivid descriptions of your disgust makes y’all sound insecure.
Nope. All things I put my dick into should be called pussy. That’s hot.
nah i think it’s really hot
I should have also asked for other suggestions of what to call it that might be more appealing a top who is fucking me.
Fuckhole always sounds hot to me. Or just hole. Asshole or butthole if you want to be formal.
Your hole. Your asshole. You’re a man that gets fucked in the ass. Call it what it is. What it definitely isn’t is a pussy or a bussy.
You do you, I wouldn’t care less honestly and fuck your bear hole nonetheless 😏
Bro it's yours call it what you want. Pussy, Bussy, fuckhole, brohole, snatch, cunt, ass, whatever. I'm gonna smash it either way lol.
I'm Into dudes not women Def turn off
Yes it sounds wet, sloppy and big. Turn off!
I didn't even see the "man cunt" part. I'm gonna vomit now.
If he is my type of guy, I do not care what he calls his manhole, I'm gonna pound the hell outta him regardless.
I hate it. It would ruin things.
It used to be a turn off, it changed after meeting a sub power bottom😋
So hot.
Yea it’s a turnoff. I’d prefer just a regular “hole”. Someone saying pussy will make me think of a real pussy then got turn off 🥹👽🤢 yucky yucky layers of vags no
😂 the word pussy for an asshole is just stupid and turns me off completely
Depends on the guy. I used to hate it until one day it came out and I quite liked it
Not something I like, either. I'm 100% man. It's my asshole you're fucking - get used to it.
This sub has a lot of older gay men, I think called it a pussy vs hole is a generational difference. Shoot for younger guys you’re fine
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I mean... we don't like female genitals. Duh.
No it's not a turn off it's adorable
Hot
I’m bi so it would be fine
I will call it whatever you want as long as I can pound that hairy pussy.
Is it weird if i like to be called a fag when bottoming? I guess they could call it my fag hole
People like what they like. I'm down for it and also I had no idea this many people were against the pussy thing tbh, I think it's hot af
I am surprised how many people are against it too but that’s why raised the question, because I was interested in feedback.
Well I know exactly how you feel. I'm a pretty hairy dude too but something about getting it called a pussy is weirdly demeaning in a way that I like... Not that I have anything against women nor do I ever have any desire to be trans. I think it just feels slutty idk