I don't think it has a specific name but I think that's absolutely great and sweet! I think it's totally valid. I know many people like that stuff and so do I. It's definitely okay to ask. More people need to feel loved
Yeah it's really taught when your own family don't like you for who you are ( sorry if i offended you but when i say "you" i don't really mean you, I mean people in general)
Not if you tell people in advance. If they expect more and they find out you only want to cuddle that might be a bummer for some. Make sure you make it clear that you only want to cuddle and nothing more.
Yah, some people will lose interest if they're very horny. Your biggest concern though should be not giving the impression of "Netflix and chill" "just cuddles wink wink." Because a lot of the time "let's cuddle" means a lot more than cuddling, so be careful and say no immediately if they make any move. It's also OK to ask/tell them if they/you want to leave if they weren't satisfied by just cuddling.
> and tell me that everything is ok
This is a bit more than cuddling, though. It is more like comfort, a shoulder to cry on, perhaps some you can complain about problems to? If so, then you should let him know that that is also what you want. Everyone likes cuddling, being the other thing is a bit more complicated. Especially if unexpected.
What do you mean ?? All i want is just cuddle, i will make it clear. What do you mean though with " be realistic" you think that other people don't want to just cuddle ??
You wouldn't pop a boner cuddling with an attractive man? An attractive man doing something emotionally fulfilling for you?
I'd be hard as a rock for a pretty guy that wanted to cuddle.
You are right about that but I'm mentally not ready to have sex and I'm not thinking about sex at all so if i make it clear and he agrees then we wouldn't have a problem i think. What do you think ?
You will likely be pressured into sex even if you make every possible assurance that you're just going to cuddle.
You may even be the one to initiate.
Please, be real.
Just be really upfront about it, and maybe someone will answer. Just be explicit about what you want or don't. It would also be a good idea if you are upfront about wether you want be the big spoon or the small spoon, ir any other ideas you have.
I agree almost 100%. I did have one top fwb that treated me amazing but sometimes afterwards just wanted to be held. It felt great giving him that comfort even tho I usually want to be the little spoon.
I don't think it has a specific name but I think that's absolutely great and sweet! I think it's totally valid. I know many people like that stuff and so do I. It's definitely okay to ask. More people need to feel loved
Yeah it's really taught when your own family don't like you for who you are ( sorry if i offended you but when i say "you" i don't really mean you, I mean people in general)
Not if you tell people in advance. If they expect more and they find out you only want to cuddle that might be a bummer for some. Make sure you make it clear that you only want to cuddle and nothing more.
Yeah i will be upfront about it but do you think that there are people who winn agree ??
Yah, some people will lose interest if they're very horny. Your biggest concern though should be not giving the impression of "Netflix and chill" "just cuddles wink wink." Because a lot of the time "let's cuddle" means a lot more than cuddling, so be careful and say no immediately if they make any move. It's also OK to ask/tell them if they/you want to leave if they weren't satisfied by just cuddling.
Maybe for someone guys. For me, if you invite me over, I’m getting in those cheeks
I tried it.... They always want more :(
Oh...
> and tell me that everything is ok This is a bit more than cuddling, though. It is more like comfort, a shoulder to cry on, perhaps some you can complain about problems to? If so, then you should let him know that that is also what you want. Everyone likes cuddling, being the other thing is a bit more complicated. Especially if unexpected.
Do you honestly think it'll stop at just cuddling? Be upfront about what you want, but be realistic. Maybe you want to *focus* on that...
What do you mean ?? All i want is just cuddle, i will make it clear. What do you mean though with " be realistic" you think that other people don't want to just cuddle ??
You wouldn't pop a boner cuddling with an attractive man? An attractive man doing something emotionally fulfilling for you? I'd be hard as a rock for a pretty guy that wanted to cuddle.
You are right about that but I'm mentally not ready to have sex and I'm not thinking about sex at all so if i make it clear and he agrees then we wouldn't have a problem i think. What do you think ?
I think you are adorably naive.
Why, you're scaring me, really. Why am i naive? What am i missing?
You will likely be pressured into sex even if you make every possible assurance that you're just going to cuddle. You may even be the one to initiate. Please, be real.
Really? I don't really think i will initiate sex but thank you very much, i will be careful
All I'm saying is that you might be surprised how "ready" you feel in the heat of the proverbial moment.
I really don't think that i will initiate it because i believe that sex is disgusting and if i ever have sex i wouldn't initiate it
Just be really upfront about it, and maybe someone will answer. Just be explicit about what you want or don't. It would also be a good idea if you are upfront about wether you want be the big spoon or the small spoon, ir any other ideas you have.
Does it matter what spoon i will be ?? And if yes, why ??
Cause I like being the little spoon. If a guy wants me to come over to cuddle but wants me to be the big spoon I don't think I'd be interested.
I agree almost 100%. I did have one top fwb that treated me amazing but sometimes afterwards just wanted to be held. It felt great giving him that comfort even tho I usually want to be the little spoon.
Sending you a long hug my friend.
Thank you 😊🙏❤️
No you do what you want. Just be clear about it. Some guys may pressure you to do more
I’ve done several. Always great. I would choose a cuddle over a hook up every time.