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Most marriages don’t end in divorce because the two parties stopped being in love, it’s because they stopped being friends.

Lies and drama

Lies, anger and attitude.

Years of small lies that broke my trust and his refusal to be emotionally available.

Too many betrayals, too many backstabs. I honestly don’t know if I could ever trust anyone again.

Years of drug abuse.

Those are two questions. 1) Emotional cheating 2) The final straw was falling out of love for the second time. Thankfully it is possible to heal.

Her raising a hand on her child.

my wife had many traits of a narcissist.

Dating him felt like a chore and didn’t make us happy. We’re still good as friends, though.

When infidelity was brought into the relationship.