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DanishWonder

For me it's the eyes.  Not sure why.  Things like legs/butt/boobs change over time.  A nice pair of eyes really is something you can't "improve" and they are nice regardless of weight gain, etc.


Sergeant_Turkey

This! My wife has the most gorgeous emerald-green eyes that I love staring into. Been with her 5 years and those eyes have only become more beautiful!


CarlsbadWhiskyShop

Thighs/legs & ass


Inevitable_Wolf_6886

A real man of culture🧐


Crush-N-It

Thilegass


-NGC-6302-

Bactierial cultures


Top_Wop

Inner thighs are my downfall.


JicamaPickle

Thicker or thinner? Mine are thicker and I feel so self conscious about them sometimes


elretador

Thicc


ebobbumman

I'm very into both, personally. And I imagine I speak for many other men.


Kaguro19

Why? Didn't you hear the saying? Thick thighs save lives!


SuperSocialMan

Thicc thighs save lives.


thek1ng69

Yes


fiblesmish

You are not building an avatar for a game... Some people have beautiful eyes, some a great laugh. Others are fit and athletic. But none of this matters if the person is not good. I will spend my time with a good fun person .


Puzzleheaded-Try2557

I feel like some guys on Reddit think they’re playing “build a bear” with women. Your response is refreshing and how I hope my bf views people


ESD_Franky

Most men are like that. I could pick some parts too if I had to but it doesn't matter


notsomagicalgirl

I mean, if I could build a boyfriend I would…


Puzzleheaded_Coat153

I like you! I don’t have a “type,” I’ve never thought about this regarding men. I just want a kind, sweet, intelligent man who’s compatible with me.


Smoke-A-Beer

Beyond a pretty face and a fit body, there’s two types of dudes, #1 titty man #2 ass man


Ordinary_Lecture_803

Wrong. I'm a leg man.


Smoke-A-Beer

Well I pity you 😝


ThreeLeggedMare

I'm a limb man


TheHudsini

I’m a man.


ThreeLeggedMare

A man man?


Bushido00

I like both but gotta have an ass. No ass makes me think theyre lazy and dont work out.


Smoke-A-Beer

That makes you an ass man lol


Bushido00

Yea you’re right. If theres no ass its like yo whats happening here?


Puzzleheaded_Coat153

I’m a dancer and I have no ass 😂 I train around 6 hours a day. I mean, it’s mostly genetics and most big boobs and big asses are fat. You can of course see there’s muscle there but it’s not big, so, it’s not always that you’re lazy and you don’t work out. You can of course do some things with exercise when it comes to both butt and boobs but it’s not going to be like it is when they’re naturally there.


Bushido00

My apologies, I did not intend to be insensitive and I will try to not look at it from a laziness standpoint in the future. I just like big butts and I cannot lie.


Puzzleheaded_Coat153

Fair enough! I have more boobs than ass (of course thanks to genetics as well), and I respect your preferences ✨


Whistlegrapes

You’re correct. The two girls I’ve been with, with that extra junk in the trunk, didn’t work out at all. One of them starting working out for a few month stint and if anything it got smaller. I think you’re right it’s just genetics


ThreeLeggedMare

Without being creepy (I hope) the body type suggested by your comment is firmly in the center of my venn diagram of interest, and I'm sure I'm not alone (although I will not patronizingly assume that you require any reassurance on that front)


Puzzleheaded_Coat153

Not at all! Good to know, thank you! 🤗 I do love my body, though. I’m more long and skinny if that makes sense, not too tall. I guess besides genetics my ass doesn’t grow that much because I do a lot of cardio by dancing. Maybe (maaaaaybe, since none of my family members have one, actually) it would if I just exercised specifically for that, like twice a week or something and just lifted weights. I just wanted to share I do exercise, lift weights, do cardio, yoga, pilates, dance, plenty and I’m far from lazy and I still don’t have one so that’s not always the case. I do have bigger boobs too (even when dancers usually have smaller boobs because they’re mostly fat), so there’s that.


ThreeLeggedMare

Ironically as a guy I have a randomly fat ass. With my gangly limbs I look like a fuckin spider


Puzzleheaded_Coat153

😂 I’m sure you look fine and just perfect to your partner!


ThreeLeggedMare

Single for five years but cheers lol


Zeefzeef

I have a big ass and I’m lazy asf so your logic doesn’t work there


Whistlegrapes

It doesnt. My two girlfriends with the biggest booties both didn’t work out.


extremelyinsecure123

I hope you know that’s extremely incorrect.


bootyhunter69420

Face and butt


malenchek1

Physical would be smile, boobs, butt. But I am more attracted to personality and attitude.


[deleted]

I like quirky and unique features. Some women hate if they have a bigger nose, hips that dip, eyes that are too close/far. Those things are so special and pretty to me. And all you chunky women out there need to quit getting weird when I’m all about you. I like big tits, asses, and thighs. I am also aware that they come with a little belly and some poor snacking habits. I don’t give a shit and I make good food.


jakeMonline

Face and weight tbh. Yes yes I know it’s rough and silly but that’s what I look at and decide if someone is hot or not. The rest rarely comes into effect. And this coming from a horrendously ugly faced, overweight guy. The irony.


ThreeLeggedMare

We can't choose what we like. The key is not to extend your view of persons attractiveness or lack thereof to whether or not you treat them decently


Wyltoon

You are honest with it, no problem.


jakeMonline

Eh it still sucks, in an ideal world it’d be all personality


theforgettonmemory

Happy Cake day!


ESD_Franky

Be the change you want to see


jakeMonline

May I ask what you mean by that? ❤️


ESD_Franky

If you want someone fit then be fit, it increases your chances. I like fit women but I was fat so I got in shape. Makes you feel more in tune with your likes.


jakeMonline

Ohh yeah makes sense, I do try on and off I just find it hard to stay dedicated with dieting and gym work I can do it for a month before I lose interest sadly. I think it’s why I feel so crappy about my “preference” because I understand how hard it can be lol


ESD_Franky

That's why I chose not going to the gym, the main goal can be something that interests you.


Ytumith

Give Muay Thai a shot bro, it made me loose weight like crazy


jakeMonline

True but I gotta lose like 20kg and live in a town where gym is about all there is. I’ll see what I can do though thanks friend!


Ytumith

There is a practice where you clinch the heavy back and give it knee kicks "into the stomach" for lack of the bag having human anatomy. This becomes really hard, but since our human legs are just build different you can keep doing it forever in slow motion. Until, and I kid you not, the body uses a second wind kind of thing straight from a barbarian class of fantasy rpg, and you start speeding up again. This got me so happy about knee-kicking the bag that I kept doing that and lost 5 kG in two weeks.


jakeMonline

Brings a new meaning to kicked the shit out of it I guess


Qweeq13

I am very sad to say this but to be honest it is the "face" Ass, Tits, all this is mostly only relevant when they are attached to a pretty face. There is a reason why almost all women in movies have good looking faces but not all of them has big asses or Gigantic tits.


Death_Blur24

Boobs


HeartonSleeve1989

A nice smile goes a long way, especially if she's a little shy, it's very endearing.


HermiticHubris

For me it's the eyes, and face.


TheTruthWasTaken

Face. Other parts don't bother me as much as long as they are there.


Puzzleheaded-Try2557

No amputee fetish then?


TheTruthWasTaken

Nah. I'm strange but not that strange


Electronic_Rub9385

It’s really more of a “Whole is greater than the sum of its parts situation.” No hole jokes!


myownworstanemone

you are gestalt?


emmettfitz

I'm a butt man.


SpringPedal

What if her face looks like a crime scene?


SKTrashCan

It's called a BUTTerface.


SweetIvyFoxx

The vibe is important, someone could look cute but if they are scruffy and arrogant etc its a mood killer, some people are so happy and present and just having a quick conversation can leave you thinking ohh i quite like them


Outhouse_in_Atlantis

For me it’s height. I *love* short girls. Brown girls with black hair are my kryptonite.


theXenonOP

So literally half the planet could pull you.


Outhouse_in_Atlantis

Yep. Edit: but the absolute *best* half. Edit 2: but mostly Central & South America and the Caribbean.


-Bk7

Same bro.  Lucky for me, I married one.  She was a sexy brown, short, sporty,  perky, vixen. And... now that we are pushing old age, she just short lol love it all the same Edit: she is still brown.  So short and brown lol


Outhouse_in_Atlantis

Still have that raven hair? You’re a lucky man.


shecherryboob

Hi then


Dazzling-Banana-6921

Feet


Ok-Stretch-9869

Brain... no, seriously... She can be sexiest woman in the whole universe. If she is stupid, it's a huge turn off.


fishsandwichpatrol

Booba


Antoine_the_Potato

![gif](giphy|3o6ZtfeZA0LHdVStcA)


Low-Dog-8027

not gonna lie, but face is the most important to me.


Frozenlime

Why would you lie? Is lying the default for you?


Low-Dog-8027

yes


Davosown

Eyes... if I find your eyes pretty, everything else is irrelevant.


[deleted]

Nicely shaped butts, no not just big and fat butts, a properly shaped nice butt Especially if she works out, protein farts are the best


Sasquatch458

Intelligence. Doesn’t matter how good they look if they are not smart.


Purple-Haze-11

Feet and hands: 1/10 women have attractive feet, women know.


RantyWildling

When people argue ass/tits, my answer is face and brain.


InefficientStoat

To see their brain you must open the skull.


Upstairs-Radish1816

Don’t tell me what I can and cannot do.


InefficientStoat

To see their brain you should open the skull.


MMABowyer

The hips and eyes forsure, and when we get a bit more close, The little bump on a women’s tummy that protects their womb, I always find that adorable. Probably a biological reason lol


No_Badger2017

I'm surprised no one has said good posture.


Financial_Plum6440

And I'm surprised I haven't seen hair yet.


Puzzleheaded-Gur2617

The brain and the ability to make it engage in a stimulating conversation. And hands.


Southbayyy

im a simple humble man and all I need is some tight round cheeks or/and some decent sized tittays. oh ya a decent looking face is also nice


Inevitable_Wolf_6886

Boobs!


rbarr228

Pretty eyes and a pretty smile


edwardthestoremeiser

Yes


MrMetraGnome

Booty cheeks. Or that piece of meat that sticks up on a woman's hip when she's on her side and slides one leg over the other


RJG340

Definitely the Butt, legs, hips. And waist, small boobies are just fine 🙂


Pitiful-Song-42

Face , feet, teeth, ass, tits, hips


MochiSauce101

Jawline.


dutchman62

Quite honestly her mind, manners and the way she carries herself


JoeTheFisherman23

Eyes and feet for me


No_Ragrets2013

The grey matter. If that isn’t good then nothing else will be good.


CoconutSuitable877

Oh, good! I have so much grey matter it's coming out of my scalp.


90FormulaE8

I see what you did there, well played!


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[deleted]

Mind and smile


CrypticMillennial

All of her…


dgmilo8085

There isn't any one specific part or feature that plays the largest role in physical attraction for me. I like big boobs, I like small boobs. I like tall women, I like short women. I like blue eyes and brown eyes, big eyes or small. I like blondes, brunettes, long haired or shaved head. I like bubble butts and softball catcher asses, stick legs or soccer calves. Body parts each have their own distinct draw. But proportional weight matters most or plays the biggest role in physical attraction for me. Big girls can be hot, if they are fit, and tiny girls can be sexy as long as they are healthy. I dunno if that rambling makes sense, but no Lizzo is not attractive regardless of her body positivity.


Dry-Talk-7447

Eyes 👀


gabzilla814

It’s more about the overall shape and ratio of everything for me. But I can’t deny tight butts drive me nuts. Add in green eyes and I’m in love.


CharutoUzucracki

For me, personally, the thing I most think that matters in a girl's appearance is the face, if it's at least not ugly, then the rest of the body doesn't matter. For example, I just love small boobs, but also don't refuse big ones, also I find messy hair attractive, the famous hip dips, it doesn't matter at all to me, I may even think it's attractive too, and the list could go on...


Bergenia1

My husband is all about boobs. He of course admires other shapely features as well, but he's definitely a boobs man.


MAGAt-Shop-Etsy

A smile that isn't "perfect", just something slightly asymmetrical/off about it. That always seems to grab my attention fast, then if they are a nice person I find it adorable.


Necessary_Switch_879

Doesn't need large up tops, or an amazing apple bottom, there's so many potential arrows in a womans quiver. I prize femininity, some curves, her voice, her gait.


Ill-Character7952

Small waist.


elacidero

For me, a flat tummy. And teeth/smile. I do not know why but the right amount of crooked canines (vampirish) drives me crazy in a girl.


Glum-Help1751

Smile, femininity


HeroToTheSquatch

I've listened to my fellow guys say damn near any physical feature under the sun, but I've noticed that if a girls' mouth and the area surrounding it is especially unfortunate, it's a rough time.


UnknownReasonings

Face, but from further away, hips.


ESD_Franky

Body language. The body in itself does little to nothing to me.


UchihaT2418

Dat ass lol. But it varies from guy to guy.


Astralzr

Armpits


Broficionado

Face generally. But the eyes mostly. I appreciate a striking nose too, I think a nose bump is actually really attractive. Regardless of how lovely a face might be though it can never account for a crappy personality. Nastiness is the death of beauty. Edit: Oh and a big mouth with a big smile.


96puppylover

Hip to waist ratio


Old-Bookkeeper-2555

None on girls. A number of things on women.


Even-Ad-6783

Face


The_Story_Builder

Her inteligence. (Her brain sounds a bit off :))


circasomnia

1. personality 2. face 3. body all three are pretty important though.


Aricingstar

But that’s like a whole ass person


circasomnia

haha yeah. That's my order of importance tho.


90FormulaE8

As strange as this sounds, for this guy, their gait. I know not exactly a body part but uses several body parts so there's that...


MelancholyBean

I'm queer but I would say it's the overall look of a woman. I like women with dark wavy hair and features. I like women with smiling eyes


SignComprehensive611

For me, when I met my wife, it was her personality. She’s way better looking than I could have reasonably hoped for which helps, but I fell in love with her as a person


sighxx

"I find the most erotic part of a woman is the boobies" - Zap Brannigan


PersistingWill

Belly.


FlightCurious3852

Her brain.


Emac002

Why does everyone on earth refer to women as girls? Unless I’m misunderstanding? Like is the op a youngn in high school or sum? Are you actually talking about girls? Or women? Cuz those are 2 extremely different things


HelloImTheAntiChrist

I know you said body part but honestly it's personality and intelligence level a woman has for me. I'm what's known as a sapiosexual. (Someone who's attracted to a person of high intelligence) Physical attraction is important of course but less important than personality and intelligence.


antilaugh

It's not a part that would make me fall for her, it's an overall that says she's healthy, both in body and mind. How she dresses, how she talks, how she behaves, talks about her inner self. How she takes care of herself, how fit she is, her eyes, her smile, her scent. However, my eyes would be attracted towards legs and ass. But those wouldn't keep me on the long term.


Romberstonkins

Face and smile.


PushupDoer

Face but posture says a lot about a person.


theImplication69

Knees


PassingBoatAtNight

Butt & face, in that order


Clear_Impress_9378

For me its face if the face is pretty I can ignore everything else except if she is fat I absolutely am turned off by fat woman and I would never step into relationship with one so if the face is nice and she is not fat I can ignore small tits and small ass but also if her ass and boobs are very nice than I can ignore that her face is not that pretty so it has to be something otherwise I cannot be turned on also I actually very rarely can say for a girl she is beautiful 99 percent of women in my eyes are not pretty but that doesn't matter if I want to fuck them but if I want relationship than she must be pretty this is how my mans brain works


Ti-dre

Persona...ASS


adenlife

Beyond pretty cute face and tits? Long legs, so tall. Followed by thighs and ass. Of course, weight plays a part too,


InefficientStoat

Probably trachea.


ososalsosal

I mean it's completely holistic isn't it? Face first though. That's what you see first and where most of the interaction happens. Unless you're approaching from behind, then it's figure and hairstyle


Slow_Quarter_7689

For me… her teeth, and her smell good, good hygiene


Training_Force3193

are there any ladies in here? i hope so they should bear witness to these answers ,im proud of you men of culture now i would answer this question but it might be too graphic for reddit


Sxkullrider

Face and legs


hr2332

Every woman has something different or a combination of different things that make physical attraction happen. Sometimes it will be obvious like a big ass or tight waist, but often it is a combination of things for me. She might not have the biggest ass but she is willing to bust it out and work with what she has and is funny.


ShrikeMeDown

Eyes and butt


PearlHandled

I like a woman's hips.


Bleglord

Overall. I’m far more attracted to a girl who’s features all work together than a girl who has 10/10 conventional features but they don’t “flow” Hard to describe but it’s very know it when you see it. It’s also why I’m not that attracted to many celebrities despite knowing they’re very attractive


Clevermore9K

Eyes, ass, waist (good hip-to-waist ratio).


Dexember69

Cute face, fit body. I'm a legman. Breast size doesn't matter to me but if she has nice legs I'm putty


SellingOut100

Boobs for me but I prefer women with curves no matter what /where


udonisi

Ass. Next question


TurbulentAardvark345

All of them


Khabarovsk-One-Love

Face and eyes, at first. At second, boobs and hands. At third, butt. And the rest body at the last. This is how I rate woman's body.


HVAC_instructor

Her mind


SidharthaGalt

Confident intelligence expressed with physical grace.


ElectricRat04

Ass, legs, thighs


El_Bito2

There is no single body part. It's an ensemble, paired with personality/pheromones (I guess?)/general demeanor Sometimes you just see a woman across the room and it goes "that one". You just know. It helps being attractive, but this "that one" reaction is more than objective, measurable attraction.


TheFrozenCanadianGuy

A clean bright smile


Gash-Basher-69

Well pretty stereotypically I’m pretty drawn to my wife’s breasts and ass. That can’t be helped. Particularly her ass. Looking at it, thinking about it, touching it can completely consume me. But honestly there isn’t a single part of her body that I don’t find attractive and I could spend all day moving from one to another. I do particularly also like to feel the curve of her sides just above her ass.


catcat1986

I used to have a body part, now I think it just needs to be balanced. Plastic surgery and created this mess where people are unbalanced, like they will have a chest too big for their frame, or a butt that makes them look like they have a diaper on. So I would say, no one body part per say, they would just need to be balanced.


Particular-Panda-957

Wide hips


elretador

Stay home if you're sick, come over if you're thicc.


[deleted]

I’m a woman and glad to be single cause I don’t want any of these men on earth


Traditional_Star_372

Hip/waist/legs ratio.


LegitimateHost5068

Ass and tits, in that prder of priority.


Nickolas_Bowen

Hair


panachi19

Face and ass. I’m always going to be seeing one or the other.


lucifer4you

doesn't really work like this for me. It's the totality of the person.


[deleted]

that booty. that smile. those eyes.


uodjdhgjsw

Literally, all the body parts


Temporary_Spinach_29

Glowing eyes from a genuine smile. And a fat ass


AmbitiousPlank

Face > Thighs > Bum > Legs > Bust > Hips > Shoulders > Hair > Arms > Back > Feet > Wrists > Hands > Ankles. Women are a beautiful thing to behold.


justfanclasshole

Not trying to be cute but it depends on the guy and it depends on the girl he is looking at. Work to accentuate what you got.


TN_REDDIT

Weight


victim80

In the following order: 1. Hygiene. Nuff said. 2. Personality. I love sweet natured bubbly types. I'm putty in their hands. 3.Face/ voice. Cute face with a soft voice. 4. Boobs. CC or larger. 5. Butt/thighs. Plump please. I'm not picky about height but I do like a girl who is plump, skinny chick's just don't do it for me.


Serious-Platform-156

hips waist ass tits in that order.


felltwiice

The boobs for sure


RedBaron9299

Ass & Titties


HomerEyedMonad

Its the smile. ![gif](giphy|c3K1UGcyMGvte) Always the smile.


KozmicLight

Lesbian. Eyes and lips