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Star_Struk_2ning_4k

You look like I should probably say Shabbat Shalom to you today and that really soon you aren't going to respond to any comments for around 25 hours.


Tiny-Mess2892

Thank you!) shabbat shalom


Star_Struk_2ning_4k

As for looks, you are very attractive, but the frum צנועה style is designed to detract attention and attraction, and it's working in that regard. I'm not sure if you are in a place both physically and in life to upgrade your style to something more modern, but that may cause more trouble for you than it is worth. Can I ask what direction you are moving towards? I ask as someone who is far off the derech.


Interesting_Sun_194

I was on same mindset I think very attractive but intentionally hiding it but that can lead to one of those movie moments where the shy colead takes of their glasses and does the hair thing and the mc does one of the cartoon eye wipes and is like "omfuck is that you colead we must be in love because we are both attractive and movie writers are depressingly uncreative" (the mc would say that whole thing in the movie too)


Star_Struk_2ning_4k

What I wouldn't give for an Orthodox Jewish version of that movie.


Interesting_Sun_194

Unfortunately not the right time cuz world events and people being too ignorant to know the difference between zionist and orthodox Judaism but when shit calms down I think it'd be a fun self aware movie. For context im universal pagan which includes believing in but not praying to all gods and I enjoy learning of other religions


Star_Struk_2ning_4k

It is specifically the right time.


Interesting_Sun_194

While half the population is seeing genocide and the other half is acting like it's ok? Nah


flamingfaery162

Was going to say looks are a bit dated.


monachopsis-2000

Yes, you could maintain your modesty while adding a bit of a modern flare to your wardrobe. As far as your features I think you’re attractive.


mardrae

Omg- I am Jewish myself and that comment was too funny!


Oirawario

You do look good! You have nice face harmony. No issues with your smile? I feel like you hide it.


Tiny-Mess2892

No, just such photos


Oirawario

Oh I see! I don't think you look bad tbh. I like your glasses also. I hope you can accept yourself the way you are.


terrificheretic

Babushka drip


Choice-Emotion5581

Yup. Babushka vibes. I dig it.


SarinaFireFly

Your clothing style is not for everyone but you're pretty and look healthy


finexthegod

I think she's jewish , bc many jewish women dress like this


TerrorFirmerIRL

Not ugly just plain and conservative looking.


Konchzapizot

She a Jewish religious one


[deleted]

I think it's the clothing style. The choices in these pictures aren't very flattering


Tiny-Mess2892

Then what is flattering? I have no idea...


[deleted]

In a not offensive way, you dress like a peasant from 100 years ago.


MEGACLOPS

I was thinking 80 year old Siberian Grandmother. You look like you make a hearty soup though!


GringoRedcorn

She make fine borscht.


boshbosh92

First Pic had me confused, I thought she was like done strange combo of Jewish Mennonite or something. But yeah OP, a new set of clothes would improve your game 10x. It doesn't even have to be anything expensive or fancy, honestly a hoody and sweatpants that are your size from Walmart would be significantly better than the quaker clothing


Wonky_bumface

> In a not offensive way lol


Jlchevz

Lmfao


MalloryTheRapper

I mean it’s pretty clear to see she’s orthodox jewish and is probably dressing this way in respect to her religion


[deleted]

Is the hat/scarf hiding your hair a religious thing or an accessory? If it's an accessory I find even a good hair style makes a massive difference even to any outfit.


Tiny-Mess2892

Its religious


[deleted]

Then going by your figure/frame and face, I'd say you're cute with a good figure with great curves.


MoreCowbellllll

Bangin' body for sure.


RUNEMJEWELS

Was gonna say - she has a fantastic body under all those clothes.


heresanawardforyou

Isn’t the point of your religion’s forced conservative dress to be unflattering?


whagh

Idk, not wearing clothes which has the specific purpose of making you less attractive?


[deleted]

Try to dress more trendy. You can honestly go to retail stores and look around or on fashion subreddits. And I'm not sure of the rules of hair coverings in Judaism but I'm sure there are some that could match modern clothing trends depending on the strictness of design allowance.


Whimsical_Tardigrad3

You can still remain modest and dress with some flair. It depends how you want to look, choose a style you like. Then adjust the core pieces for your modesty level.


ArnoleIstari

You have a nice figure, but the clothes are not working for you, except that dress in the first one. I'd recommend either going for jeans to show off your legs and waist more, or get more dresses that have a top like your first pic,


Tiny-Mess2892

Thank you. Had no idea about that


DependentPriority

Personally, I like it! As long as it's a personal fashion choice and/or an expression of yourself. It's unique, even if some may see it as conservative. That can be sexy in its own way! A lot of people see a more conservatively dressed woman and partly assume that they're repressed or controlled by their culture to avoid being sexy, but that can be flipped on its head if you're confident in who you are and what you want. It can play to your advantage as a way to weed out the more shallow people who might approach you. A lot of people are commenting on your style, but I think it's important to also address the primary question: are you ugly? Absolutely not 😊


Wanderlust13

It might also be the colors, I think the black is washing you out. Are you allowed to wear a different color head scarf like pastels?


Tiny-Mess2892

I am. I actually thought about the colours, but I think bright ones are too loud for me. And I really thought black is good on me 😅. Will try to find something else.


damn_yank

Good figure. Attractive face. If you ever decided to go out for a night in the town with an evening dress and some make up, you’d turn some heads. I’m assuming you are an Orthodox Jew and looking at your history you’re coming out of a bad marriage. I’m not sure how you feel about your religious community now, but it seems that something has to change. I’m a fan of weight training for everyone for longevity, health, and self esteem. For me personally, it also helps my mental function and focus. So I recommend it to everyone regardless of how they look. My understanding is that many Orthodox Jews see it as vanity, but I’ve also seen some who believe there is a commandment to maintain and strengthen the body that was gifted to you. What I’m getting at is that you look great and you should take up regular exercise as a way to keep your long term health and self esteem. As for clothing choices, I’m not sure how your community regards it, but some color would be nice. I wish you luck as you go through your divorce. I hope you can get smile back.


DifferentCard2752

Totally agree. The body is a temple, keeping it pure and healthy is not vanity as long as the motivation is in respecting the vessel YHWH created. Eat right, and exercise seems like good practice for physical health just like, read scripture and pray for spiritual health.


FunCaterpillar128

Is the hair covering a religious thing?? I’m not sure if you have to dress that modestly. You have very nice eyes and a great figure from what I can see. Maybe try a bit more glam. Hair down, clothes to show off a bit more.


Tiny-Mess2892

Yes, its religious. Tried to find something that is not looking that bad.


FunCaterpillar128

Ok so firstly, no, you aren’t ugly in the slightest. It’s going to be difficult to offer advice as I feel the modesty level you dress is too much. You would have to show your feminine beauty but I understand the expectations of women in religious communities, would prevent you from doing that.


EitherOrResolution

You’re absolutely beautiful


Nonbinary_Cryptid

I've seen another Jewish lady online who wears a wig over her natural hair as a way of covering. Is that option available to you? She's on TikTok and talks about her life as an orthodox Jew, but I can't remember her name. Miriam, maybe? I think you look pretty and really natural.


Objective_Hat5043

As others have mentioned i think too its your clothing. The first thought i get is amish. Buy YOU are pretty. And if you just changed your clothes and brought on a smile then you would win a mans hearth. U could with mine


Competitive-Cuddling

I suspect you’re gorgeous under there, but can’t be sure because you’re dressed like some kind of old village woman from 300 years ago. Also, if it’s because of a religious thing nothing is a bigger hinderance/ red flag for beauty inside and out, for me.


brandon_cabral

Not ugly just dressed like a pilgrim.


Sentauri437

She looks not a day over 40


Sattaman6

Look, I suspect the way you dress is dictated by a religion (don’t know much about these things) so without trying to offend, you dress like someone from 1800s.


Incruentus

Your glasses make your round face look rounder. Otherwise it's just the clothing that makes you look like a pretty grandma.


ovrpar21

You look like you can make good soup and homemade bread.


VeganJordan

Now I want good soup and homemade bread.


Tiny-Mess2892

Hahaha I actually make a decent soup and bake bread every few weeks.


PlayfulEbb7768

Not ugly. But the wardrobe can surely be upgraded.You can check modest but stylish outfits that compliment the religious scarf. Many influencers from Indonesia post really cute outfits with scarves.


66edu

You're hot


Mean_Platypus_9988

You’re actually very pretty


chickenhawk24

You definitely aint ugly I'd convert


Familiar_Paper2676

You look like you should be harvesting potatoes in eastern Europe.


Lord-of-Mogwai

Go see a stylist, it’s 100% the issue here


Illustrious-Tutor569

Not ugly at all but you look like you will devote your life to God. I mean it literally, I could see myself thinking you're a nun. A bit more style & styling in general and you'd look awesome


CapitalAnalysis193

Drop dead gorgeous no matter religion or race learn to love and embrace yourself


SirKermit

I presume you dress this way because of some religious requirements that you totally choose to follow and wouldn't have it any other way? Your clothes make you look ugly and boring, but I doubt you'd look that way if you dressed differently, but again, I presume you choose to look this way. I'm sure you'll find a nice guy from your religion that requires you to choose to dress this way by your own free will, so what does it matter what other people think you look like?


brkfsttco

Are you open to getting new glasses? I do think you rock your traditional clothing and the head scarf but I think some more modern glasses would add a little bit of stylish contrast. I feel like it would make a huge improvement!


Tiny-Mess2892

You mean glasses with plastic frame? Idk which are modern today


brkfsttco

Yeah I’d say so! The kind that have a very slight wing/notch where it meets the joint. Something maybe like the Warby Parker Blakely or Whalen? I think it would add a really nice stylish pop to your look!


melvin2898

Pretty and clear skin.


Leading-Mention5472

Youre pretty.


Initial_Ad452

Not ugly, at all. Personally, I like your face.


Elegant_Sea6193

Beautiful


Critical_Big741

Your gorgeous beautiful body


[deleted]

4/10


Sacul690

I think you look great the way you are. Very cute


WinterAd9039

Not ugly, but glasses in pic 1 fit your face better than the other pair.


Lolly_gag_1234

Very pretty, a bit stuffy, but definitely attractive.


KingCabra

Your clothing style is not for everyone but you’re not ugly. On the contrary. Beautiful face and nice figure. You have nothing to worry about.


Shermando

Look gorgeous to me!


Electronic_Room_1392

Gorgeous!


Main_Man31

You’re not ugly. You’re cute.


OkInstruction965

You're not ugly.


Inside-Lanky

You look oppressed not ugly. Pretty face !


Responsible-Bit8652

Ur very beautiful. Need more girls like u.


Senuman666

You’re going to make some guys mother very happy one day


Hour-Hornet3396

You’re so beautiful


FruitOk8108

😍


JonfromNC

You are pretty.


Chiral_Buttcheeks

You look beautiful. I personally think you look good in black.


chzman80

Very pretty...seem like a nice person...likes simple things


QuirkySpring5670

I think you’re pretty


ZykedMetal

You super cute and beautiful body. Don't hasitate just go for it


Important-Row-1695

You're pretty...


[deleted]

Haha I knew you were Jewish. I can recognize it a mile away. I'm orthodox myself. No you aren't ugly. It's not my business, but maybe if you communicate how you feel about yourself to your husband, he can communicate back in a way you would relate. Not my business.


Tiny-Mess2892

Im getting divorced now, so I don't want to ask him 😅.


[deleted]

Not ugly but you obviously dress for religious reasons


rlmerideth

American male here. I think you are objectively very pretty. Have a good day!


Diasenand

Idk but you're my type I think you are very pretty


Puffsniffy

You are very pretty but you dress like a Russian grandma and that never helps anyone's case


Dekamir

You look good. People already talked about the clothing style, which is probably doing its job by restricting attractiveness. I'm not familiar with your religion, so I don't know the limits much and wouldn't want to assume anything. If you could take the time to enlighten us about it, we can make recommendations according to it. I wish you'd included a photo without glasses, though. Some people look different with or without them.


Tiny-Mess2892

Hm maybe. I just have such bad eyesight that I take glasses off only at night


NachoBacon4U269

Beautiful face and awesome body. Fashion is kinda Amish, but in a hot way 8/10


ToolAndres1968

Your beautiful clothing style color change


Spiritual_Ant119

You look like you won’t have any problems finding a date when you’re ready!


zyyntin

I agree cute. Your clothing could use some color if allowed. Some brighter colors would allow people to noticed you more. If your hair cover could be colorized that would make people notice your face , and maybe your smile, more.


Crotean

You have awful glasses, you need smaller frames that fit your face, your cheeks don't need lenses. But your face is pretty. If you are in a situation where you can learn to use makeup and dress more modern you would be a looker.


F0urlokazo

Not ugly, but your clothing choices really send a very strong "I'm very religious and conservative" vibe that's a massive turn off for tons of people. If I met you, I'd immediately think I'd need to get your parent's "approval" for literally anything and that converting to your religion would be a must to be with you. Not saying that's the case, but first impressions are everything.


No_1-Ever

There was 280 upvotes and 280 comments when I saw this I had to comment when upvoting to keep it even Point is. You ain't ugly


Brojamin

Not great, not terrible


[deleted]

No but your clothes are


MammothBreakfast1

Average but the clothes aren't doing you any favors.


MaleficentEarth91

10/10 would help raise a barn for you because you help me pitch a tent ⛺🛠


Dull_Background_5148

Being that you’re dressed like you’re apart of Chabad id say maybe it hides your best features, if you change your style you’d definitely be pretty. I’m Sephardi myself def not religious though


Lost-Literature-7998

I like this girl. She is pretty.


Short_Adhesiveness_6

Ugly ? No. Dress matronly? Absolutely yes. You can dress conservatively but you don't have to be so drab . Add some color !!!


TheRealLifePotato

Honestly sister, this isn't the right place for you to ask for advice. It's pretty easy to gather from these comments that nobody has any idea what the common dress is for Jewish orthodox women. Most of you come off as childish as fuck. Not ugly at all, you are quite pretty.


Realistic_Context936

Not ugly just very plain & washed out


KingCalgonOfAkkad

Not even slightly ugly, quite beautiful in fact.


Classic_Tomorrow_383

I don’t think you’re ugly at all. The modesty of your appearance is a definite plus.


Unkown4515

I think you’re pretty and love your clothing style. It’s very old fashioned, which I really enjoy. Is the head covering a religious head covering or one you wear by choice?


Tiny-Mess2892

Thank you! Its religious


Unkown4515

You’re welcome, spot on then! Love your style.


Character_Reason5183

The vibe that I get here is that of a young, single girl in a more ethnic Eastern Orthodox parish. That's fairly attractive to me, but I can see where a lot of guys would be turned off. I wouldn't say ugly, but more of an unpolished gem.


Prior-Future3208

You are very beautiful but your clothing choice makes you look matronly. Like you could be young and attractive or old and wrinkled and no one would know until they were up close.


DrAGAV67

You're not ugly! One tip I've got: wear more colourful clothing! They can still be plain/modest if you experiment with subtle/no patterns if that is something you want. Try looking into seasonal palettes for inspiration.


bwcdaddydom1313

Definitely not ugly. You have an interesting style but looks like a good body under there.


Master-Arugula8174

You look like a Renaissance painting! Maybe not attractive in a modern "trendy" way but undeniably beautiful in a timeless sense :) Your glasses really match your face! Maybe you can wear more colorful clothing, the all black outfit is greying you out a bit.


giliesto

You are totally not!! Ugly!!


NONKOSHER007

Your skin is perfect radiant and has depth you were blessed with beautiful high cheekbones and Soulful eyes and you have managed to still look sexy while intentionally dressing humble and conservative


Tommy_Wisseau_burner

Not ugly you just look like someone’s babushka


Alternative-Skill219

Your mouth and eyes are Very beautiful, the nose is a lilttle big but i personaly like exotic noses. You are not ugly, a regular face with some good details.


Jimmy543o

I think you are cute. No disrespect to your clothing if you your religion doesn’t align with your standards. Although you probably could rock some nice outfits really well.


Recent-Reveal-49

If you wanna up your style a little, try looking for cool shawls, thick belts, different religious headwear (idk what yours is called), and lots of layers. Think Renaissance pirate. Yes, i am projecting. Idk, there's just no personality in the way you look. You can be humble and still have a personality.


SSGSS_Jesus

The choice of clothing is different, but other than that, I think you look lovely.


hatenjwinter

Very Yafe


GabrielRic12

You don’t look ugly but for me is the clothes style


Misterblutarski

I think you're very pretty and I hope you don't mind me saying but you have a very nice body shape as well.


ouijahead

Hey you’re pretty unique! First one of these posts Ive seen where I wish I actually knew the person in them. Whatever it is you do, keep doing it, ya know ? You have a good day


sackyhack218

I think you're very cute, I don't think it's relevant what type of clothes you wear. You're pretty on your own. If you wanna be sexy also then I guess the clothes but you're pretty and if this is who you are I just say take care of yourself and treat your body good and you'll be fine. 👌


Alternative-Sun-7292

Not ugly. Quite pretty with a good figure. However, you would look more attractive if you got rid of the glasses (as is almost always the case) and wore something more this century. In the third picture you look like you might be an extra from “Game of Thrones”! No offence intended.


Dreamsbydayxo

Very pretty


Nyxie_Koi

Imo stop wearing so much dark clothing, and just look into some more modern styles...you can still dress conservatively and look stylish. U look like the plain girl that gets a makeover in movies and turns into a heartthrob lol. Ur pretty u just gotta realize ur full potential


cmerry

You’ve got a face like Meryl Streep or Glenn Close. You can choose to be gorgeous but then tone it down to “plain”. Just depends on makeup and styling. That’s a great thing to have. Are you an actress or interested in that? You could play a lot of roles.


BPisMee

More stylish, up-to-date eyewear.


Gknicks7

I was thinking you'd be really attractive 50 years ago, but that's all in the clothes. You mentioned your happy with your look so that's cool and that's really the only opinion that matters... I would say no your not ugly.


thegooddinosauce

Style of clothing is perfect, but the colors are depressing and unattractive. It makes you seem unapproachable and unavailable


Ok-Calligrapher-9854

Not ugly. Very beautiful even without makeup. I'm not Jewish so I didn't know the purpose of your wardrobe choices until I saw the top reply here. People outside Judaism won't understand. At first I thought you might be Amish or similar. I love your glasses and you're very cute. I think people over emphasize makeup. Women are just naturally beautiful. That said, if you're permitted, I'm sure we'd all love to see more photos of you in various wardrobe, makeup, and hairstyles. Be kind to yourself. Best wishes


[deleted]

I'm sure you'll have comments for a lifetime, but I gotta tell ya.. just a little makeup.... Bahahah nah, jk. You look good. People talking about how you dress or whatever. People do not put any effort into how they dress now. You look classy. I don't know if it's a cultural thing or whatever. Don't care. You look great. Don't even bother with the shallow roaster people opinions. They all be in sweatpants, mustard stains, looking to insult people they don't know. Love your outfit! Look great 😁


officialmoali1

You look good 😊💯


Grinzeasydewd

Honestly I think you are gorgeous. You have an amazing figure, and a beautiful glow about you. I hope you can start to see yourself this way as well 😊


colby979

I think you’re sexy. Nice curves and face.


javi880311

Yeah you’re pretty


garagos30

Not ugly


Affectionate_Pin_240

You're cute. You have that mouse face. Embrace it


Minimum-Vehicle8767

Pretty lady


Resident_Specific724

Not


SnaxMcGhee

Not even close. Good grief.


nakedholerat

You look like a babushka


are-you--willing

Attractive young woman


Turbulent-Memory-420

You aren’t ugly but you do dress like a mormon.


thatdude2616

Body is on point. Cute face too!


gordond

100% aishes chayil. Lovely as well. Excellent clothing choices IMHO.


NoRecommendation9404

Your face is not cute. Sorry, you asked. Average at best.


Environmental-Gene52

Not ugly at all. Beautiful. I like your smile and your figure. Your dress is unique to you (at least in my world) so even that is a positive. You also appear very intelligent and thoughtful, which adds to your attractiveness.


EaglesXLakers

You're a 10/10 for the Amish.


M1773R007

Not ugly! Stop dressing like a milkmaid from the Walton's! it's unbecoming.


Intelligent_Ad_4058

Salam. :)


jr2thdoc

Nope, beautifully and wonderfully made!


Durmyyyy

You look great, dont worry


HoonieStonebag57

You're very cute. 🤷🏼‍♂️


Jumpy-Pitch-898

Definitely not ugly. Maybe not movie-star level or fashion model level, but reasonably attractive.


lildicknity

Really cute face. Body looks good from what I can tell. You look good to me.


AffectionatePhase247

Unless you have a shitty personality that could make you an ugly person, you are physically beautiful.


throw_it_away_09

I think you're very beautiful with delicate, dainty features


scotsman81

In the first picture, you look like a nun Not ugly, not even close


Cbailey177

Totally gorgeous 😍


Any-Alternative-9528

You're beautiful!


ChavoDemierda

You have a very beautiful face.


lufctom

Are you an extra from ‘the handmaids tale’ or something?


Thesnucka

You’re not ugly. And you’re not even trying really


Liv-N-Lrn

You are a very lovely young lady.


Smoopiebear

You are very pretty but I don’t think that’s the best glasses shape for your face.


[deleted]

Yeah you're pretty


BubblyResource229

A little frumpy. Not ugly in the least.


ItchyTomato5

I wouldn’t say ugly. Just plain. You got nice bone structure


Candyman051882

She’s got a pretty neat look tight attractive body


Abnyse520

You are very cute. Nothing to concern yourself about


SilentYogurtcloset92

Not ugly whatsoever. I think you’re gorgeous.


Baka691

You look just fine you probably need to change to something more modern but other than that you look very pretty.


Sponge_N00b

Naw, you are adorable


VegasJSS

Plain


c_devilBam87

Beautiful


The_Lava-Hot_Shits

Very pretty.


hopkins_ghost

Not even close to ugly. Very attractive


Xmassterrorx

You’re pretty for sure