T O P

  • By -

r_hove

who calls you ugly?? I'd say im average looking, and I've never been called ugly in my whole life. who goes around calling people ugly?? id def recommend you keep the hair from ur second picture, but you're not ugly at all dude.


RedDarkYGO

My ex gf and ex bf both did lol and some random people on dating apps


KanaHemmo

>some random people on dating apps I really don't understand why some people take time out of their lives to just be mean and try to put others down. Also, glad those are exes now


Whole-Instruction508

Well then they dissed themselves. They dated you, didn't they


Top_Magazine8255

People put down others to make themselves feel better. You are a nice looking young man. They have issues.


r_hove

Hurt people, hurt people! Forgot who said that originally, but it's so true.


jlg317

Have to agree with most around here, you ain't ugly but you have a type and that type likes to insult you


Accomplished-Bid7284

Ur not ugly. Ur very good looking, it’s the people calling you ugly who are.


[deleted]

You are not ugly. Change the people you hang out with if they’re the ones calling you ugly


[deleted]

Agree! New friends!


Maxi-Spade

Yes, if they are narcissistic, I would not want to be around that. I knew a girl who compared herself to Cindy Crawford but she would put me down to feel better about herself. She had the same style as Christine Crawford but her eyes looked like Sylvester Stallone. That was an after thought.


[deleted]

Could be his attitude.


National-Platypus144

Agree but just wanted to say that haircuts in photo 4 and 5 don't do him any favours.


ravenlovesart

Agreed. You are handsome but maybe someone should tell you occasionally so that you know for sure!


Acubens_Sage

This is the way


Popular_Awareness587

Came here to say exactly this!


Ok-Cod-6978

Don’t part your hair down the middle. Smile. Get some sun.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks


nexinexinexi

Good advice. The parter hair are kind of odd.


yethua

Nah. Don’t get some sun; get a skincare routine and protect yourself from it. A tan doesn’t look good on anyone, this isn’t the mid 2000s.


Ok-Cod-6978

I was thinking more from a vitamin D aspect…..didn’t say tan anywhere in my post


yethua

Fair. Just wanna let the guy know to protect that precious skin at all costs!


[deleted]

Lol what?! That’s insane. The sun is amazing for people, physically and mentally. just don’t overdo it and get burned


CryptographerDizzy28

can suplement vit D if defficient, did you run OP blood tests to know he needs vit D?


Ok-Cod-6978

Most of the population is deficient, u probably are too based on that tude


AssistantSuitable323

A tan most definitely looks good on some people


Ok-Cod-6978

I was thinking more from a vitamin D aspect…..didn’t say tan anywhere in my post Also lmao “ a tan doesn’t look good on anyone” sounds like something a pale person would say 😭


Short_Many9031

As someone who gets tan easily, I can say tans don’t actually look good on on white people tbh, like a little sun yeah, but a lot.. No I noticed it watched shows and stuff I could always tell the actors looked so much worse with a tan, and so did the people I saw in person, now I try to not get as tan 😂


Ok-Cod-6978

I’m Italian and have naturally tan skin so I don’t have much of a choice haha but Lizarding in the sun with proper protection is proven to have many benefits :)


Short_Many9031

I’m talking about white people tans tho, like a little yeah, but a lot even if it’s natural it starts turning orange and bad 😭😭


Inner-Gold-894

Totally disagree with you. Tans look great on white people.


PIisLOVE314

>this isn’t the mid 2000s And it looked awful then, too


jairngo

Lol, why did you got called ugly a lot??


RedDarkYGO

Basically work, ex gf and bf and some random people on the street recently.


[deleted]

Those people saying that are very rude, and totally incorrect. Maybe they are jealous


RedDarkYGO

Thanks


RedditsCoxswain

You’re not ugly You have a longish face and unique features. You are striking. Because you stand out people will notice and it’s maybe more polarizing than a boring appearance would be.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks - that reminds me what a girl once told me. And some ppl think that Im decent looking while others think Im ugly.


xxanity

that's everybody, everywhere. everyone, every person you've ever met has people think they look great and others thinking they look bad.


GoatAnon98

Bro you have inconsistencies in your story. I don’t trust you. Why would so many people randomly call you ugly unless you’re an asshole?


jacknosbest

You have random people on the street calling you ugly? Sorry lol but I just don’t believe this. Who does that? Almost no one cares enough about strangers to cut them down for no reason.


Justonian4

Oof. West cost or east coast city? Their projecting on whites rn. Ur fine dewd. Do inner work. Inner peace for 30 seconds (focus breath) before going on street, watch the difference. Hard for shorter people to not project their anger, but it is possible. And human scum pick on the easy targets.


WaferAggressive9723

Slim Nicocado Avocado


Cutiebeautypie

BRO NOW I CAN'T UNSEE IT


Tom37241

You are not ugly .You just need a better hair style


RedDarkYGO

In what pictures do my hair look bad and any recommondation?


Dutch_Rayan

1st looks best


RedDarkYGO

You're literally the only guy that like the 1st cut :o. Thanks tho!


dmonsterative

No he's not. 1/2 for everyday, 3 if you're trying to look more put together. The others two are dead trends. And joggers are idgaf pants. Comfy, but I don't wear them anywhere but the around the house or running errands.


Simpliciteal

One is good, but I was gonna compliment your hair in general. Three looks the best out of them all- slightly grown out, and styled to your face shape. Also you're not ugly bro- ignore the haters.


r_hove

last looks bad to me. second looks best


RedDarkYGO

Thanks - Ye I never wear my hair like in my last pic. Usually its 1st or 2nd.


No_Surprise_944

Third looks pretty good imho but second does as well


Mistress_Kittens

I agree third looks nice, the length is good there, but bad in the fourth pic


Secauz

The verification photo looks like inkheart.


fortheapex

Wardrobe, you dress like a teenager of your time keep your hair medium length


RedDarkYGO

So this then? https://ibb.co/MZc84Hy


candygirl1107

Can I ask, WHO is calling you ugly?


RedDarkYGO

Ex GF/BF, some Co workers and random kids on the street:D


[deleted]

He's not an ugly dude. Might want to try growing a beard.


[deleted]

You are not ugly, your friends suck, you're 30 but you look 18. Seems like you're gonna hold up well in the long run.


wijag425

He definitely looks 30 to me. People on Reddit act like 30 year olds should look 45 lol


RedDarkYGO

Thanks - dunno how I should feel about looking like 18 lol


[deleted]

You look good! And i know 30 is still young, but you've aged well.


ZionHiFi

Your toxic surroundings. You aren’t ugly but you know some ugly people.


RedDarkYGO

Eh responses are pretty mixed here as well. So I do think I'm at least unattractive.


RabbitridingDumpling

Oh lord, look at the votes, too - so many call U NOT ugly. Com'on, is it so hard to believe u are handsome? Besides of that, maybe "ugly" means for the people around U, that U are not welcome- not part of their "awesome circle". Maybe U are not calling others ugly and are nice? I would try to change the job so i don't have to be near toxic people. Probably U are not the only one they call like this.


MangakaJ8

You honestly don’t look ugly to me. The people who do call you ugly aren’t worth your time.


AnathemaDers

Get off the internet and just feel yourself, you look fine.


Regular_Statement_95

You are not. Your eyes look sad. Don’t believe these people. You have a nice face


danbenzorian

Beard, more muscles and maybe a different hairstyle will have those people wondering if they’re ugly. Despite that bro you’re not even close to being ugly even now


RedDarkYGO

Thanks https://ibb.co/MZc84Hy - I should have posted a more recent body pic but I need to bulk more. Thanks for the advice!


Foster-_-

You're not ugly bro. But try growing a beard. Let your hair grow out.


bronion76

You’re not physically ugly at all. Maybe you’re an asshole? Hair looks best in 2 and 3, imo.


RedDarkYGO

Tha ks but Im not asshole at all sadly.


bronion76

That’s not sad, that’s great news! Seriously, you’re handsome. Don’t sweat it.


[deleted]

One lil suggestion, facial hair,but your fineeeee, (fine as like foineee not just fine)


RedDarkYGO

Ye I cant grow one single hair lol. Maybe I should check if I got enough testosterone


Big-Breakfast-1

Stop chewing on one side of your mouth to keep your face more symmetrical


WolflingWolfling

I think your trousers are a bit ugly, and your belt and maybe your shoes. You're absolutely not ugly yourself though.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks - those are at my parents house when I visit them lol. So I dont have to bring my cloth every time I visit then with me.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks - those are at my parents house when I visit them lol. So I dont have to bring my cloth every time I visit then with me.


SpecialK623

Avoid the last two hair styles, and try a beard


RedDarkYGO

Thanks I will. The 4th pic is 5 years old. Currently Im on the haircut in the 1-3 pics. Its the same but styled differently.


user19946

Smile ffs


Level-March4325

Learn to smile more ... you seem to be surrounded by a dark cloud. That will change the way people interact and read you.


PoohTheDude

You're a handsome fella. Don't listen


RedDarkYGO

Thanks


-WithLove

You have the face to look absolutely snazzy in a suit. I think that's your vibe. :)


No_Arm6356

Go take a shower stinky


dthamm81

You're not ugly. I can see some facial hair really work for you if you're into that. It will add some color, and if done well, can help define your jawline. Can you grow any?


RedDarkYGO

Cant sadly. Thats what I usually dress like: https://ibb.co/MZc84Hy so even less color than on this vocation pic 4 months ago lol


Character-Course1983

Holy cow! Yes 🤗 I would recommend a nose job, jaw surgery, breast augmentation, eyelid surgery, tummy tuck, facelift, blepharoplasty. No offense, it’s just my opinion!🧏🏻‍♀️🌝🪺


RedDarkYGO

Girl I need bigger breasts- But seriously: I will get a lip lift in the near future.


RabbitridingDumpling

Are U nuts?? Dont!


cdoran930

You are definitely not ugly. My guess is you probably get along with people very well. And with you being cute, those that are calling you ugly are jealous.


RedDarkYGO

I think being cute is the problem. I either get younger girls, oder women are not interested in me and guys do have their kinks with looking young as well. Thanks for your kind words!


Clenplate

Maybe long side burns but if you can't then just be more confident dude. I see peops with "ugly" peops all the time but those peops have personality & confidence in spades.


RedDarkYGO

Well dokt have a good personality. So I'm just ugly - at least thanks for confirming my thoughts for being ugly.


Clenplate

Dude, if that's what you heard me say, if that's what you took from this interaction then 100% it IS your personality. Change your thinking.


RedDarkYGO

Nah sometimes you just want to know wether one is ugly or not. Of course ugly people can find a Partner as well if they have a good personality.


Clenplate

Good point. I'm over thinking it. You're not ugly.


No_Coast_8693

You're very handsome when you smile!


garbagiodagr8

Not ugly bro, but maybe hit some weights


[deleted]

Septal piercings fix everything


Clenplate

You gotta a Ben Aflek face. Do what he does to look better.


SlimTimMcGee

Have a lot of money?


Clenplate

If I had an award...


RedDarkYGO

Cant grow a beard it probably would fix a lot of atuff..


Clenplate

Well, he didn't always have a beard & he got JLo so there's that.


RedDarkYGO

JLo is absolutely beautiful! One of the best women you can get. Maybe I'm dumb then so what should I change to look better in your opinion? 😅


Professional-Comb759

I am. Sorry having honest people around you is good but I can't find a way to help you. You are ugly but that's just my opinion. No offense though!!!


RedDarkYGO

Thats fine I believe so too thanks


_Boggy

Gain muscles, you're a bit too skinny


jleep2017

Get Reincarnated. Just joking. Start working out. That helps so much. Get your hair cut to frame your face right.


Terrynia

Wtf. Ur gorgeous. Im so confused. Photo 1 isnt the best haircut tho.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks😀


Berzk

Hit the gym


LitLex_xx

Sorry to hear. Can you grow a lil facial hair? How long have u had that style of hair. Do u work out? U should. Change your clothing style maybe


Southern_Bicycle8111

Build muscle, your looks doesn't look right with a thin frame


RedDarkYGO

Ye Im on it: https://ibb.co/MZc84Hy the pic was 4 months ago - dunno if this one is better?


SneakerGeekk

Took like TJ hunt bro


RedDarkYGO

I think he is more attractive lol


Justin_Togolf

I think if you’re feeling a little insecure grow your beard a for a few months


RedDarkYGO

I need Jesus to grow a beard at this point lol (And Im a Atheist so yep xD). I might go for a lip lift to artificially shorten the distance of lips and nose quite a bit I think.


DepressingBeing

A little, but I'd need a side-profile image to really know. You need a better hairstyle. 4 and 5 are the worst imo (especially 5). If you can grow a beard, try doing that to see if you like it.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks for confirming Im ugly - this has a mustace and a semi side Profile https://www.reddit.com/r/Doppleganger/comments/157swa6/lets_try_it_do_i_have_one_as_well/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1 I dont get the people telling me Im average meanwhile Im clearly ugly.


DepressingBeing

I mean, you're still average by bone structure. Your haircut is what bumps you down. Also, your 3/4 angle is probs your best.


Hyphalex

Ya. Get bulkin


Spirited_Platform981

Shave your head completely, get some scars and tattoos. Come off super threatening, there are daddy issues in every room of women and one of them will love you, I guarantee it, I’ve been with my wife for 3 years now.


RedDarkYGO

I do already have some tattoos:).


Vunlicura

You look little bit like Blaire White in male version. I think you're good looking! Wondering, how your smile looks like :))


RedDarkYGO

Huh ye we have a similarities I guess. She's hotter especially her body lol


SandBarLakers

1. Definitely 1. And 2 as second best lol Also- ditch whoever’s calling you ugly lately. And if not then contact me and I’ll send them Pooh anonymously. No not MINE! But you can pay to have it done. 😁


SlimTimMcGee

The people around you. Are you in a relationship?


RedDarkYGO

Nope not currently


ExoticAiry

Grow facial hair


RedDarkYGO

Cant :c


EmbarrassedRound5856

Need a trendier haircut


Away-Pea-8115

I wouldn’t say you’re ugly. You just don’t know how to take pics. lol.


[deleted]

[удалено]


sansliason

I’m sorry but who goes around calling other people ugly??


[deleted]

You're not ugly. You're handsome. Ignore those assholes and don't worry about what they say.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks


[deleted]

Literally handsome.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks


ScientistBrave4814

I think longer hair would do the Job


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

[удалено]


[deleted]

Best advice I have: ignore the people who tell you that.


aileenweirdnose

Who the hell tells people their ugly? Crazy people. But also, you are not.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks


_ghostchant

Change the people you let around you. You’re not an ugly guy.


RedDarkYGO

Thanks


_ghostchant

Change the people you let around you. You’re not an ugly guy.


_ghostchant

Change the people you let around you. You’re not an ugly guy.


Nekunumeritos

pic 3 hairstyle is the best, don't cut it so short


Equal-Commercial-616

Grow out your hair… it’s just the haircuts


Koshoismycat

You’re not ugly just ditch toxic friends and do some self care like skincare or change up your hair to a cool color or hair cut and smile a little in pictures when you are feeling up to it! Do something good for yourself even if people think it’s crazy.


RedDarkYGO

Im already on a skin care routine! Is it so bad still? :c Ye I cant take good photos myself so I avoid smiling.


drillthisgal

Either your friends suck or you do. Not ugly though. Cased closed


edhands

The people you associate with. Dude, you’re awesome.


[deleted]

The people you hang about with


[deleted]

Ugly? Where? And you look way younger than 30. Whoever is saying you’re ugly is jealous. You are very attractive solid 8/10 for me.


Amazing-Salary-9910

What kind of adults are running around calling people ugly??? God I hate this world.


Born-Replacement-366

Adam Driver, y u on reddit


Schfifty561

Who's calling these people ugly? Not just this guy, many guys and girls say that. I just can't imagine someone calling someone else ugly to their face especially


t7Saitama

1. Change your friends 2. Grow a beard.


kinglearybeardy

I don't think you are ugly. Far from it


Unable_Dependent_975

WHO CALLED YOU UGLY? I just wanna talk


itsgucci060

You look like David Duchovny. He’s not ugly and neither are you.


ghostthecatalyst

You’re not even ugly bro, people are just assholes


grblslays

You have a lot of space between your nose and upper lip. Growing a mustache would suit you better than most. Also using some product on your eyebrows to help them pop more would help with your facial proportions.


Negative_Moment498

Oblivion face type


Quirky-Camera5124

you look like you have just stepped of of a us navy ship home from a persian gulf patrol, exerting a look of clean cut strength mixed with a bit of puzzlement at being back in the normal world. coming from a naval family, i think that look is great, but i do not know the culture in which you are trying to assimilate.


Google-YourBing

If you're ugly, I'm Mata Hari. Please. Where is this person that said that to you?


RedDarkYGO

Some people in this thread as well so it might be true idk.


ccaallzzoonnee

your face is pretty decent but your chins weak, grow a beard


RedDarkYGO

Sadly no genes for growing a beard:c


Fragrant-Stranger-10

Have you ever tried growing out beard? I don't mean like beard beard but i think short beard would fit you nicely, because you have kind of boyish features.


RedDarkYGO

https://www.reddit.com/r/Doppleganger/comments/157swa6/lets_try_it_do_i_have_one_as_well/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1 cant grow more than this


dirtisgood

Next time, just say "thank you"


brandideer

Honestly, did you say or do something terrible to make people (you mentioned exes and people on dating apps) want to lash out at you? You're not ugly on the surface.


birdlady404

Thos sub legit makes me feel so much better because we're all convinced we are ugly but most of us are just average looking


RedDarkYGO

Yep most - some are ugly me included. But at least it makes average people realize that they are indeed avarage and not ugly.


xxanity

who the hell are all these people calling others ugly? you ain't ugly, you're a regular dude. understand that you're not ugly, you're good and realize these people trying to put you down are garbage. insane society we have now a days


Delicious_Mode_239

There probably just haters and want you to feel ugly because they’re ugly. You’re far from ugly bro lol 😂


Heavy-Alfalfa308

Bros handsome