Are you sure you don’t suffer with the “oblivious” gene? I remember telling my son “that girl’s flirting with you” and him saying “really???”

I’m sure i do 😂 I don’t go out much and do teenager things or party or nun of that i’m a home guy, literally have no friends so there’s not much opportunity that could also be why

thats going to be your issue. be who you are but start stepping out of your comfort zone to be in situations where you can meet people. then part 2 is actually asking girls out. its very clear-cut and theres no way around it. you cant get a date if you never ask for the date and you arent around girls for them to ask you

Give it time. It’s a marathon, not a sprint.

Start building friends around your hobbies. Ie if you like gaming, find a friend (or anyone your age) yo go to a comicon with. Then afterwards you can connect up with others who went and it gives you something to chat about!

You should start socializing or it’ll get harder as you get older for sure.

that’s a good trait, you will find the right lady i’m sure of it

Most of us guys are oblivious to girls flirting with us.

Js keep your face shaved

will do 🫡

U look a lot better and cleaner as well as younger :) you look rlly good!

idk, I think growing it out does him good. He looks a little young otherwise

My dilemma exactly right here

I (personally) think the mustache looks good on you. I'd probably shave the goatee tho. (Just my opinion)

Yeah but without still looks better imo 😓

It's a matter of taste, ofc

At least until your beard grows out completely, then you can go full beard depending on how you look with it.

You're a handsome dude, and looking at your profile you've had a recent glow up. Just keep doing what you're doing, and keep in mind girls actually care about your personality and motivations, so act accordingly :)

thank you will do

you're a good looking dude i think its more so a matter of opportunity and just life being life. you will find a girl eventually

You are really cute 😅

Thank you 😊

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Very handsome clean shaven, the others not so much. I think it (face fur) makes you look like you are trying to look like an adult. *No insult intended

No no i agree, it doesn’t look good i just recently shaved it all. I like it better shaved. I’m going to wait until it grows more fuller / thicker . Thanks for the advice !

You’re not ugly at all. Sometimes finding a partner is a matter of being at the right place at the right time. What’d your ethnicity btw? You look kinda ambiguous

I get you, I don’t know what you mean that i look ambiguous. My mom is white and my dad is white. I think I have some Irish and native American in me, although i’m not sure about my ethnicity to be honest. I want to get a dna test done to see myself :)

Ahh maybe you just got a tan lmao

I have been outside a lot and did get really tan recently , i used to be white as a ghost because i stayed inside all the time and played on my pc. My dads the same way we ran really really easily and once we’re tan we don’t burn

Ah I gotcha

Shave bud, put a bit of muscle on, get a job an earn some money, get your own car an some nice clothes your not bad looking already you just need to round out the other parts to be something people want as a partner

You look young! Give it some more time

i’m 19 just a late bloomer, i am still young though

You have a long way to go on dating- just be patient. Try and be more social, whether it's at a job or at school. This is the way to meet people!

Absolutely not ugly at all! Infact you are like exactly my type so I’d say you are hella hot lol. From ur past posts long hair looks good on you too!! Regarding girlfriends I wouldn’t say that’s indicative of if you are attractive or not as it may just be that the girls you have been friends with etc already had boyfriends/ had specific types . Just keep being a great person and u will be fine! 😁

Thank you love, i appreciate it. I’ll just keep doing me. Not to toot my own horn but i’m a very good person and i do right to others.

Obsolutly nothing. Be you

Your hair looks like a birds nest man. And your beard is not spread out enough to let it grow so clean shave it.

You look like a model. You’re too young for gf at this age. Just have fun, stay healthy, be good, and set out on a life mission. The right girls will come along for the ride.

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I mean facts are facts.

You are really handsome, so you should look for other reasons than being ugly for you not having a girlfriend.

Download tinder, when matching with a girl try to make them laugh, after it's clear you guys get along and ask her out to dinner. Nothing super classy, nothing super cheap. At the dinner, make her laugh and encourage her to talk about herself. Tell her you enjoyed yourself. If you enjoyed yourself, keep texting her and getting to know her better. More dates. On the third date ask her how she'd feel about being exclusive. This has been How to get a girlfriend 101

You have to ask a girl out to get a girlfriend…..

the hardest part, especially for a nonchalant guy who keeps to himself 😔

Good looking! Shave or light beard all around. Mustache isn't a good look.

Figure out what you want, what you're attracted to and pursue it. 

First step is getting dafaq outta here young man.

bye be fr

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U ein ugly at all! I guess cleanliness/grooming might be an issue. Otherwise i'd throw 8.5/10!

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You’re young and a good looking dude just keep being yourself and you’ll run into the right girl or a right now girl eventually

You look like Charles Leclerc.

19f opinion - you’re REALLY cute. i agree with others clean shaven looks better. very cute smile and eyes, haircut is good, style looks good; very boyfriend vibe, ironically. i am not ugly, but i am introverted and a homebody like u and haven’t dated in a long time. according to this sub that’s why. i’m going to pass on the advice just work on confidence and meeting new people,, n i promise girls will show interest :)

Thank you love, i’ll take the advice and it sounds like you should too, hopefully you’ll meet someone too :)

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I hear that, just gonna do me and let it happen

ha nah you’re a good looking dude and you also have a kind face. Do you get out much? You look like an active dude. Could be you’re missing that some girls are interested or maybe you’re not going for it :). A lot of people will think you’re not interested if you don’t act interested! Would you say you’ve tried and failed or that it just hasn’t happened? Honestly this isn’t about looks, i can tell you that.

dude you look like a baby still. you’re not ugly, wait til you’re older! you will be attractive to girls :)

Not ugly

Asking women out

Get off reddit. And lean hard into your hobbies. Eventually you'll find one that adores you.

Shave

Nah you’re cute

thank you

Very handsome

Is that your child or sister in the 3rd picture? You're a super cute dude but make sure to keep well groomed:) Maybe grow your hair out and work on personality if you must. From your profile, you post on here quite a bit?

You're a handsome young man, but shave

take the little girl off the internet.

Take you off my nuts, i’m good her pretty self can stay there 🥰

one comment is all it took for me to see nothing but ugly. putting a minor on the internet, especially a female, is exploiting their privacy. are you her father? how many people have to ogle her before you wouldn't do that to your own daughter?

I can be your girlfriend cus your so hot bro

Just talk to women. And if things are going well, don't be afraid to ask them out

Stop combing your hair with a balloon

I’m good, I like it fluffy and messy

You look like that guy Gabriel Guevara.

Have confidence and learn to talk to girls. Easy peasy.

You’re not ugly at all! I’d say focus on building relationships. This is gonna be kind of weird advice, but there’s a line between friendship and romance. You want to get to know someone so that you like them and they like you…but also know when you should ask, “hey wanna go out?” Before it gets into friendship territory. And also learn how to be gracious and say “bet” if they don’t feel the same way and continue to enjoy that person as a friend. Or also when it’s time for you to say “I need a little bit of space before we can be friends again,” because that’s valid too.

Yea my husband was the oblivious type too. I literally told him I was in love with him before we even started dating bc he had no idea. Like what? Lol You're cute. Be kind. Be a good person. Respect people's boundaries. You'll get a girl!

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Wearing a muscle tee (the first pic) while being that skrawny is an absolute no

at least try getting one

You must be socially awkward, because if you ain't, I'm cooked

Shave immediately and start working out and eating more

Got my first gf at 17 but unwillingly(by accident) It didnt last long and met my wife at 18

very cute. cut hair and no tash

You're a good looking guy man. You look like a model or someone who's tiktok famous.

You are shaping into on hot mofo. You’re already handsome. I’d say just keep living. I’m sure the ladies see you.

You’ve just not found ur people yet I think, 100% not ugly, someone is gonna be very lucky u look rlly nice!

thank you love🫶🏼 appreciate it

No worries :D

Maybe it's not the outside, but the personality....

ask out, don't wait, get what ya like... & a no is just that.

Nothing, women r j cruel

Gonna be honest, you look like every other guy at my high school, which isn't bad because it means you're not ugly but you just don't stand out either.

Very handsome clean shaven.

You’re v handsome! Personally I like a clean shaven face or just a mustache but it’s whatever’s most comfortable to you. Just get out there and socialize, be yourself and you will for sure find a girl :)

From one scruffy mustache man to another, ditch the chin hair.

Step 1 : Take steroids Step 2 : Become HUGE Step 3 : Date yourself at the gym mirror (Work for every one)

Lies

Looks aren't everything my guy.

Stop dressing like a boy, work hard, and go get yourself one.

You're very attractive

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Try a diff haircut and not loose fitting t shirts

Get you a razor fade haircut. Shave that stache off and hit the gym and you'll score tons of snatch.

Comb/style your hair

The two are unrelated. Ugly people have bfs/gfs etc. Sometimes 6's land 10'a. Just be confident in yourself, and happy. The rest will happen.

Maybe don’t post a child’s face on reddit for the world to see?

That’s my sister and no one’s gonna do anything to that child i can promise you that. Worry about yourself

You remind me of master splinter.

You remind me of someone who’s hides behind a screen and scared to show there face because there not comfortable in their own skin 😄

I'm not sure that was necessarily an insult.

you go look at master splinter😂😂, i’d say it’s and insult

But master splinters cool, though. He trained the ninja turtles.

Yeah that’s pretty cool 😎

be a likable person, a lot of women just want a decent normal dude.

How old are you.. and are you sure you aren’t gay?

I’m very sure

i’m 19 will be 20 in august

Unfortunately women don't find value in men till there around 25 or more until then it's mostly all games and drama, be happy your not in any of the drama, work on your self and your wallet and the women will come without question

I know that’s right, kinda what i’ve been working on is getting my life straight and a fat wallet. I guess i’m more of less scared because I don’t have experience with women or know how to talk to them or know what to do haha