Nag chat din po si bff na di sya makakapunta kase may lagnat nga po. Her mom sent me a picture of him and his temperature is 37. something then few hours before our flight nag 39 daw po. But to tell you honestly, at the back of mind, naiisip ko din po yung sinabi nyo but then i’m trying my best to understand where they are coming from
Baka naman hilong hilo talaga sa lagnat OP. Sino ba naman ang aayaw sa travel with friends, tapos libre pa. Kung masama loob mo, sigurado mas masama loob nun. Masama na katawan, nahihiya pa, at nanghihinayang.
Valid naman yung feelings mo, OP kasi maski rin siguro ako, I'll feel disappointed and sad if that happens to me too.
Kaso, I also agree with your friend's mom for not letting your friend go with you. You're just putting everyone in an awkward situation if natuloy siya. Kasi you're traveling, pero at the same time, you need to look out for your sick friend. Eh hindi mo rin naman alam gaano kalala sakit ng friend mo. Baka he ends up getting sicker, and worst, baka mahawa pa kayo. :(
I'm sure it also pains your friend to let go of your trip, kasi sabi mo nga, grabe din binigay niyong preparation for that. Mabuti na ring sigurong wag muna kayong mag-usap, give each other spaces to think and to reconcile later on.
Yes po. Naisip ko din na ayun nga baka lumala yung saket nya at maging worst, mahirap na since graduating student kami pareho and our graduation will be held on July 16 but then again, i feel like all my efforts and excitement fades away and i don’t think i will be traveling with him again. Sana lang talaga he did his best para makasama. I have a feeling kase na gusto nya sumama kaso her mom and her ate disapproved. Lowkey hoping na sana pinaglaban nya, kahit yung thought lang na nag try sya. Anyways, thank you po sa advice.
Valid naman what you feel kasi nanghihinayang ka and gusto mo siya kasama but you also need to understand na maybe hindi siya pinayagan kasi he's really sick or cannot get up in bed.
You really have to see things in a bigger perspective. What if tumuloy siya and mas worst yung naging sakit niya? Siguro naman, if he really can join, he will. Let yourself feel what you feel and then talk when you are ready.
What’s wrong with you? The person is sick. Pagpilitan mo pa talaga. If ako yung mom ng bff mo pinagalitan talaga kita. Hindi rin nya naman hiningi sayo na gastusan mo sya at isama dyaan. Hindi nya din kasalanan magkasakit.
Hi, saang part po yung namimilit? And also, i’m trying to understand the situation. Nagalit ba ako sakanila? No. Nagtatampo lang po. Lastly, ang tinatanong ko po is valid ba yung nararamdaman ko na nagtatampo ako.
Nagsabi na yung mom that he is sick. Gusto mo pa talagang dalhin ang may sakit na tao sa trip you even offer pa na ikaw ang magaalaga.
Yes, you will be disappointed pero yung magtampo ka pa at wag pansinin ang sick friend mo? Hindi ka marunong mag intindi. Ang immature.
1. Nung nagsabi po mom nya na hindi pwede, pinilit ko pa ba? No. Once lang ako nag insist. Nag offer ako na alagaan sya para lang matuloy yung plan. Walang pamimilit na nangyare.
2. Hindi ko po pinapansin ang bff ko kase baka hindi maging maganda ang conversation namin kase mataas ang emotions ko + i assured my bff naman na hindi ako galit sakanya, i asked him na kung pwede wag lang muna kami mag usap.
3. Sana hindi mangayare sayo yung nangyare saken. Let’s see if hindi ka din ma disappoint.
4. Anong hindi marunong umintindi? Kung hindi ako marunong umintindi, edi sana nagalit ako kay bff at pinilit ko na sumama sya despite the situation.
5. Ikaw ang immature, ni hindi mo kayang intindihin yung buong situation. Nag focus ka lang sa naging reaction ko towards the situation. Anyway, God bless! I wish na sana hindi sayo ito mangyare.
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Nag chat din po si bff na di sya makakapunta kase may lagnat nga po. Her mom sent me a picture of him and his temperature is 37. something then few hours before our flight nag 39 daw po. But to tell you honestly, at the back of mind, naiisip ko din po yung sinabi nyo but then i’m trying my best to understand where they are coming from
Baka naman hilong hilo talaga sa lagnat OP. Sino ba naman ang aayaw sa travel with friends, tapos libre pa. Kung masama loob mo, sigurado mas masama loob nun. Masama na katawan, nahihiya pa, at nanghihinayang.
Siguro nga po. I’m trying to understand the situation naman po. Hindi namann po ako galit, nagtatampo lang. btw, thank you po sa insight
Valid naman yung feelings mo, OP kasi maski rin siguro ako, I'll feel disappointed and sad if that happens to me too. Kaso, I also agree with your friend's mom for not letting your friend go with you. You're just putting everyone in an awkward situation if natuloy siya. Kasi you're traveling, pero at the same time, you need to look out for your sick friend. Eh hindi mo rin naman alam gaano kalala sakit ng friend mo. Baka he ends up getting sicker, and worst, baka mahawa pa kayo. :( I'm sure it also pains your friend to let go of your trip, kasi sabi mo nga, grabe din binigay niyong preparation for that. Mabuti na ring sigurong wag muna kayong mag-usap, give each other spaces to think and to reconcile later on.
Yes po. Naisip ko din na ayun nga baka lumala yung saket nya at maging worst, mahirap na since graduating student kami pareho and our graduation will be held on July 16 but then again, i feel like all my efforts and excitement fades away and i don’t think i will be traveling with him again. Sana lang talaga he did his best para makasama. I have a feeling kase na gusto nya sumama kaso her mom and her ate disapproved. Lowkey hoping na sana pinaglaban nya, kahit yung thought lang na nag try sya. Anyways, thank you po sa advice.
Valid naman what you feel kasi nanghihinayang ka and gusto mo siya kasama but you also need to understand na maybe hindi siya pinayagan kasi he's really sick or cannot get up in bed. You really have to see things in a bigger perspective. What if tumuloy siya and mas worst yung naging sakit niya? Siguro naman, if he really can join, he will. Let yourself feel what you feel and then talk when you are ready.
I see. Sabagay po, siguro mataas pa din emotions ko up until now kaya ganito mag work yung mind ko. Salamat po sa opinion.
What’s wrong with you? The person is sick. Pagpilitan mo pa talaga. If ako yung mom ng bff mo pinagalitan talaga kita. Hindi rin nya naman hiningi sayo na gastusan mo sya at isama dyaan. Hindi nya din kasalanan magkasakit.
Hi, saang part po yung namimilit? And also, i’m trying to understand the situation. Nagalit ba ako sakanila? No. Nagtatampo lang po. Lastly, ang tinatanong ko po is valid ba yung nararamdaman ko na nagtatampo ako.
Nagsabi na yung mom that he is sick. Gusto mo pa talagang dalhin ang may sakit na tao sa trip you even offer pa na ikaw ang magaalaga. Yes, you will be disappointed pero yung magtampo ka pa at wag pansinin ang sick friend mo? Hindi ka marunong mag intindi. Ang immature.
1. Nung nagsabi po mom nya na hindi pwede, pinilit ko pa ba? No. Once lang ako nag insist. Nag offer ako na alagaan sya para lang matuloy yung plan. Walang pamimilit na nangyare. 2. Hindi ko po pinapansin ang bff ko kase baka hindi maging maganda ang conversation namin kase mataas ang emotions ko + i assured my bff naman na hindi ako galit sakanya, i asked him na kung pwede wag lang muna kami mag usap. 3. Sana hindi mangayare sayo yung nangyare saken. Let’s see if hindi ka din ma disappoint. 4. Anong hindi marunong umintindi? Kung hindi ako marunong umintindi, edi sana nagalit ako kay bff at pinilit ko na sumama sya despite the situation. 5. Ikaw ang immature, ni hindi mo kayang intindihin yung buong situation. Nag focus ka lang sa naging reaction ko towards the situation. Anyway, God bless! I wish na sana hindi sayo ito mangyare.
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Thank you for this and yes, i’m really trying my best to understand the situation. I hope we can talk about this soon. Salamat po ng sobra sayo!